How to communicate with your child? | Urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

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  • Communication and selection of right words is the key of training our kids.
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    Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
    He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
    Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

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  • @tasleemshaikh3328
    @tasleemshaikh3328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jazakallah,mai bohat aggressive ammi hu,mere twins bache 9salke hai,mai her choti choti batpe unko Marti hu,or bihatbura behaviour ikhtiyar karti,per jabse apke videos dekhrahi hu to Apne apko change karrahi hu, Allah pak apki umar me barkat de

    • @AC-mp7cx
      @AC-mp7cx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      na maro unko please.

  • @tabinda460
    @tabinda460 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Perfect...I write small notes to remind myself that I won't get angry ...we need to treat kids like we want to be treated

  • @umeomarsaeqasaeqa7066
    @umeomarsaeqasaeqa7066 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ماشاء الله. ماشاء الله. ماشاء الله.
    بارك الله فيكم دوكتور الغالي.
    حياك الله.
    ربردست انفارميشن.
    Love 💕😘 you from Afghanistan.

  • @muhammaduzair3433
    @muhammaduzair3433 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    100% correct, i did same mistake. Jazakallah Dr. Saab for correcting us

  • @foryouall3315
    @foryouall3315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Insha Allah, our comming generation will not suffer like us because we are blessed to have a mentor like you.

  • @rajwinderkaur2308
    @rajwinderkaur2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ਜਦੋਂ ਜਿੱਤ ਹੁੰਦੀ ਆ ਓਸ ਵਕਤ ਤਾਂ ਸਾਰੀ ਦੁਨੀਆ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਨਾਲ ਹੁੰਦੀ ਹੈ।
    ਲੋੜ ਤਾਂ ਫੇਲ ਹੋਣ ਤੇ ਆਪਣਿਆਂ ਦੀ।
    From Amritsar

  • @ajinkyatikhe9164
    @ajinkyatikhe9164 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Very good message and Pakistan needs more civilians like this..... appreciate Dr Sahab....from india

  • @amenayounis4741
    @amenayounis4741 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was searching for some parenting in Urdu to support my husband understand better parenting methods to reduce his struggles. I came across this; it's great but I feel it's important that when the example was used of 7 year old change the toddlers nappy that we highlight that children are responsible for themselves and learn their basic skills. Rather not responsible for their siblings but if they volunteer that's another matter.
    I sensed/noticed the uncertainty of parents around the example provided of acknowledging your flaws to your children. As it's important for us to have self awareness as well has to help our children develop emotional understanding of our behaviour we are transparent about our flaws gives them confidence and self esteem to question and remind parents. Well done!

  • @goodvibesaaohmachaybnain6867
    @goodvibesaaohmachaybnain6867 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    حرف حرف سچ سر ۔آپ سے بہت سیکھنے کو ملتا ہے

  • @laibamirza8235
    @laibamirza8235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir,
    Superb and thank you
    Mjy اللہ تعالیٰ ny bohat pyari beti sy nvaza hy me is ki trbeyat BOHAT achi krna chahati hon۔۔۔
    Ap ka ye leacture sun kr mjy bohat khushi hoi۔۔۔guidelines k tor pr۔۔۔
    Meri beti 7th mont ki hy me chahti hon k me koi bhe risk nhe hon ksi bhe bary me۔۔۔plz help me with ur consulution ۔۔۔

  • @LAUGHERPORTION
    @LAUGHERPORTION 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sir your vedios help me alote that how I treat my child thanx for such a great job 👍🏻

  • @mohammadhasan235
    @mohammadhasan235 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    اللہ تعالٰی آپکو جزائے خیر عطا فرمائے

  • @saadaloogalways6633
    @saadaloogalways6633 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Weldon sir bohot acha explain kya

  • @qamarafrozshaikh6870
    @qamarafrozshaikh6870 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Assalamu alaikum mashallah.Aap ka bohot shukriya is tarah se samjhane ke liye.

  • @afreshstart9445
    @afreshstart9445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are amazing sir lots of respect 🙏🙏🙏

  • @jannats6149
    @jannats6149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great man. Doing his best. Allah inko kamyab kray or hme hidayat de.

  • @firdousshaikh7892
    @firdousshaikh7892 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah sir bht help milti hai aap k videos se

  • @mariakhurram6661
    @mariakhurram6661 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Allah apko salmat rakhte bht hi achi information dete he ap

  • @ashiqmayur5227
    @ashiqmayur5227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Really impressive sir...we must listen all your lectures how to deal with children from their early stage.
    Thanks a lot sir for guiding us
    Sir how can we put our questions to your kindself for further guidance

  • @naziyanaziya4691
    @naziyanaziya4691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah khair is spech se bhot kuch seekne ko mila

  • @sumerajabeen449
    @sumerajabeen449 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sir teenage bachon ko bhi handle kernay k liye bhi videos banaye body changing k sath behaviour bhi change hota hi unka kaisay communicate karay rules banaye k humari baat easily samhaj jayen...please

  • @AlamgeerAziz
    @AlamgeerAziz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir aap bahot azeem kam karrahe hain

  • @minyedits8313
    @minyedits8313 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashalla sar ap ka samjany ka tareka or istail
    Bohat Acha ha 2 good mery Pas alfaz NHI ap k leay bohat Dua ha ap k lay

  • @mhasantailorofficial1282
    @mhasantailorofficial1282 ปีที่แล้ว

    In saha Allah

  • @tamannarizvi1087
    @tamannarizvi1087 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir
    Apke lecture bht achhy hoty ha ,plzz aap 10,se 12 saal tk k bachcho ko kaise treat kare k wo parents ki bat manne lagey,is bare me batae

  • @tarannummozaffar8405
    @tarannummozaffar8405 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Assalamualaikum sir main India se hu mashallah sir bht acchi baat batate hain

  • @rizwanansari9610
    @rizwanansari9610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ap bht achi batin samjhaty hain good job

  • @rajwinderkaur2308
    @rajwinderkaur2308 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Meri bet 4saal bdi hai,bete se, bt wo mere se ziada apne bhai ki care karti hai.
    Wo mere se ziada bete se pyar karti hai,
    Ab beta bhi bda ho gya hai 9 years ka ho gya, wo bhi bahut responsible hai .
    Dono ka behaviour God gift hai hmare liye.

  • @khan19201
    @khan19201 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of the best Videos. Thanks so Much for Sharing.

  • @rehantasneem8657
    @rehantasneem8657 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kmaal he, good positive thinking.

  • @hydkz
    @hydkz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanku so much sir.lecature its too 👍 good

  • @nishrshikhe3889
    @nishrshikhe3889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks sir hamari tarbiyat ke liye

  • @saimazubair7003
    @saimazubair7003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Yes! I rebuke my toddler when she puts her finger in the socket just out of curiosity...but we as parents need to understand her desire to explore the world...actually we are so much stuck in everyday life that we dont enjoy with our kids!

  • @romamohsin6840
    @romamohsin6840 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mash Allah behtareen

  • @Mirajdeen.
    @Mirajdeen. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    بارك الله فيك🌴

  • @safoosofi4905
    @safoosofi4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir you are great..... Love❤ from kashmir sir

  • @humazafar512
    @humazafar512 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well said!

  • @shahrukhmansoori1451
    @shahrukhmansoori1451 ปีที่แล้ว

    This video is very helpful

  • @humairamasood9778
    @humairamasood9778 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good way of handling thinks.

  • @minhilqasim39
    @minhilqasim39 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like that topics. plz more videos share that topic

  • @shaharbano3129
    @shaharbano3129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really food for thought JazakAllah

  • @zainabnayab8423
    @zainabnayab8423 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Highly appreciated

  • @hafsaumer5480
    @hafsaumer5480 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir

  • @naseersyed6805
    @naseersyed6805 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are Jem Dr sahab , Masha Alah

  • @habibazafar8540
    @habibazafar8540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Really useful talking jazakallah sir

  • @rbaloch5883
    @rbaloch5883 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thnks sir Allah apko zindagi de

  • @sanjivgupta808
    @sanjivgupta808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bahut khoob 👍👌

  • @musharafmusharafolfat219
    @musharafmusharafolfat219 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your lictures are very appreciable

  • @JustSoccer313
    @JustSoccer313 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah ❤️

  • @syeda7303
    @syeda7303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you so much sir absolutely well satisfied by your lectures you are great

  • @ambreenkhizer8610
    @ambreenkhizer8610 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great me ab Apne bete se asi comunicat karungi

  • @125House
    @125House 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabr10 video

  • @kainattablet5575
    @kainattablet5575 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir ap apna sirf half an hour dain gay, overseas Pakistanis jo ksa main hain main oun k bacho ko online parhati hu, jo k visit visa par hain, wahan k parents k liye aisa lecture ap dain gay please they really need this.

  • @najibnaseri904
    @najibnaseri904 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This man is so sensible

  • @shaikhmohdkhalid8345
    @shaikhmohdkhalid8345 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    u r the Great ❤

  • @KhanJan-be2iu
    @KhanJan-be2iu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super excellent

  • @ayeshaakhtar9791
    @ayeshaakhtar9791 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    میرا بیٹا 4 سال کا ہے اور وہ بدتمیز ہو تا جا رہا ہے ۔ہمارا جوائنٹ فیملی سسٹم ہے

    • @faritufail58
      @faritufail58 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Main masla e join family

  • @aaabidr2152
    @aaabidr2152 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing sir .

  • @meenakshisanjay2238
    @meenakshisanjay2238 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great sir. Make some more videos on parenting.

  • @chotirani184
    @chotirani184 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot sir .......

  • @waleedkhan8502
    @waleedkhan8502 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good msg thanks g

  • @sudaiskhan5337
    @sudaiskhan5337 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sir 1 video for mdcat students and best fields for pre medical students other than mbbs plz sir help me

  • @muhammedshahnawaz8828
    @muhammedshahnawaz8828 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello sir i am Muhammad shahnawaz

  • @HinaKhan-dy2iu
    @HinaKhan-dy2iu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zbrdast

  • @salehaamir7886
    @salehaamir7886 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir ye b bta dein plxzz joined family m kese tarbiyat kr skty??? Uneducated family😕😕😕😕

  • @ranaqumar3035
    @ranaqumar3035 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sir please do a video on hyperactive children. My child is of 4 years and has very mild Autism . He also has speech delay so please see give some tips to raise him with managing his tantrums

  • @irsaahmed1041
    @irsaahmed1041 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good msg

  • @roharoha9074
    @roharoha9074 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 i love you sir

  • @saadkhan-vt3zt
    @saadkhan-vt3zt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah

  • @fancyclothes...1994
    @fancyclothes...1994 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you sir... 😊

  • @andleebbilal1586
    @andleebbilal1586 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Zabardest very good sir

  • @motivationalspeech2627
    @motivationalspeech2627 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤ Beautiful❤

  • @D.khan878
    @D.khan878 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right sir

  • @Hilalengineer
    @Hilalengineer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    V well said boss 👏

  • @nomanimtiaz1816
    @nomanimtiaz1816 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanku Sir ❤

  • @Momieslifestyle
    @Momieslifestyle ปีที่แล้ว

    It happens whenever I praise my toddler’s act,he does that act frequently happily. He’s just 2 years old.

  • @hyderabadimominsaudi
    @hyderabadimominsaudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u so much for guiding us correctly

  • @Bia20004
    @Bia20004 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir plz guide how to manage children Anger?

  • @rj4949
    @rj4949 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Oh no mama ..😂😂😂 ...meray baachy b aisa hi krty Hein Jub (ABC pr sleep song ) ya good night bolty Hein but sir g 10 bhjy Nahi 7:30 pr or Alhumdulilah meray ghr ka asool Hy hum 8 bhjy SB 😴 jaty Hein ,or subu fajar time SB fresh uthaty Hein .

  • @nayab478
    @nayab478 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Plz college and university boys k liye bhi bataye .wo chahty hy parents unki hr baat pr yes boly .

  • @homegardenfarmandme7333
    @homegardenfarmandme7333 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @shumailasalman801
    @shumailasalman801 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome sir thanks I learn alot

  • @muhammadmurtaza6087
    @muhammadmurtaza6087 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best.. 👌

  • @Islamic7pt
    @Islamic7pt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    V good sir

  • @pakeezanaveed5942
    @pakeezanaveed5942 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job
    Keep it up

  • @deliciousfoodvlogs29
    @deliciousfoodvlogs29 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah great joob sir

  • @sadaqmd1299
    @sadaqmd1299 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    کتنی عمر سے بچے کی تربیت کرنی ضروری ہے؟اور کب تک ضروری ہے بتایۓ براۓ مہربانی..

    • @bushrabatool7570
      @bushrabatool7570 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      From very first day... children are quick learners. Teach them to brush their teeth when teeth appear in his mouth. Throw garbage in 🗑 bin when they start walking..etc. Everything as early as possible.

  • @Takbeerahmadofficial
    @Takbeerahmadofficial ปีที่แล้ว

    I want to liked this vedio 1000 times but I can't 😊

  • @VEN0M_0-0-1
    @VEN0M_0-0-1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mashallah very appreciation sir u jst open our eyes

  • @anshmaan8716
    @anshmaan8716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir jo waqt guzar gya ab agay kese sab set karen

  • @sumairazafar8877
    @sumairazafar8877 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soooo true

  • @huzaifamuzamil1961
    @huzaifamuzamil1961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so much worry... I know that i am treating my older son with anger strictness from last two months.. I am mentally disturb and i know the whole anger ends on my son. My Little son is ill and my whole attention goes towards him. Older son complains me that u and whole family just love him not me... These circumstances made him rude. He shouts on every one. What should i do now. Please sir guide me. I'll be very grateful to you.

  • @rakhshandakaukab8952
    @rakhshandakaukab8952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nicely explained sir. 👏👏👏

  • @Homoeopathicore
    @Homoeopathicore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Infact many conflict arises in childs mind if they are not treated well and if those conflict dont get resolved they will manifest into grave diseases.

  • @annsarif9171
    @annsarif9171 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    welldone

  • @sanaprincess7376
    @sanaprincess7376 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Right

  • @RizwanKhan-yq7si
    @RizwanKhan-yq7si 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kindly 11se 12 saal K Jo boys hen Unko kesy btaen K wo kisi ki beti ko phsycaly harras na kren, kesy smjhaen, or bachiyo ko kesy aware kren K wo harassment se bach jaen, bht bht important ha ye iss py ek video bnaen Jo hmarey religious point of view ko clear kry or hum bachon ko btaen, bht shukria

  • @sabrashah9370
    @sabrashah9370 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sirrrr great

  • @noreenqureshi6113
    @noreenqureshi6113 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wah nice Sar

  • @saimanoureen2751
    @saimanoureen2751 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir ap sy kch pochna 1 bucha ghlt company 2ns year mein stdy chorh dey ar hm usy wapic lana chahty to kia posible h nd how??plz plz btaey ga