I always ashamed of my attitude whenever I listen ur lectures bt each and every moment I try to become k good mom and always pray to my God to bless me.
Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ... 1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ... 2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ... Dil se ye chahta hu ...
Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen
MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true. I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids. JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.
nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )
I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly
Wonderful information. I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..
Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞
Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤
MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍 Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Video tips summary 1.give your children knowledge how survival in problems know how stressed management 2.must know increase children capacity development skills Till 7 years children 3.inform about your children go school for fun and get opportunities for help friends 4.fight and flight mode avoid and increase children ability to learn ask questions how to solving problems find solutions 5.always speaking with children in good behaviour polite speaking 6.always give children respect Never show your danger anger personality
السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ بہت بہت شکریہ سر۔۔۔۔ مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں بہت عمدہ قابل ستائش دلی مبارکباد نیک خواہشات
Sir Mari bati 7 year ke hai school Ka bohat stress Lati hai ... ..jab us Ka admition howa to bohat relax the school ko enjoy krti the AK teacher NY Kasi Bachy ko thaper mara bas us din say.. ..nashta ni krti vomiting ati hai bohat zeda stress hai ap please mujy guide kry kesy solve kry
Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen
اللہ تعالیٰ اپنے فضل وکرم سےہم سبھی ماؤں کواپنے بچوں کی تعلیم و تربیت سہی اور اسلامی طریقہ پر کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے اور شوہر حضرات بھی ساتھ دیں تاکہ ہم ان کے لئے اچھے والدین ثابت ہو ں۔اللہ ہم پر اپنارحم کرم عطا فرمائے ۔آمین
Meri Jan ne wali ne dhai dhai Saal main karwadia admission . Beta kamiyab hai ab class 1 main hai . Har filed main behtareen hai mashahAllah . Confident , positiin holder , BAAT ma'am ney Waala . .aesa kese
Ok sir, you are saying a good thing that children should understand at the age of 7 years, they should do this. See, my point of view is that if we do not expose our child to anything good or bad right from the beginning.
Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..
@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain
under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out. unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm. If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem. Children behave in a very predictable way. In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc. And remember in children depression presents differently. Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed. in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.
Dr.sahib ap se iltaja hai bacho ka jab bhi koi topic ho almost 1 hour ya half an hour to baat kiya karain please Mery jaise insan ko bht kuch seekhna hai khas tor pe bacho ke hawale se I'm not a mother right now lekin mein chahti hu apne bacho ki achi tarbiyat karna
I am sorry but I don’t agree with this theory. I feel that parents get afraid due to this theory and fail to deal with their kids. I am experiencing this fear of parents. Parents are afraid of crying and showing stubborn behaviour of their kids and as a result of this so called stress they allow almost everything to their kids. They can use the mobile because otherwise they will cry due to stress, they can sleep late in the night because early going to bed will stress the kid and it cries, they can eat sweets as much as they want otherwise there will be a great drama due to stress and so on. The result is that I observed parents falling on knees before their kids to ask what do you wish to do, have or get for being stress free, they are allowed and as this child grows up his demands for being stress free grow with him. Sorry, our Islam has told us very nicely and deeply how to bring up a child. And there it is clearly said that do yourself first what you want your child to do. Creating an environment is just created and not real. And kids are clever enough to find out a just created scene or real. If you want to be him respectful than be respectful yourself, be honest, humble and polite yourself the kid will copy. If you just pretend to be then it will not last long. And that is the point. We adults fail to be ourselves like we want our kids to be. If you are harsh or angry for some reason to your kid it’s not the end of the world. The kids learn from that stress that this was a situation I don’t want to be ever again so I will change my behaviour. And then parents should distress their kid and everything will be fine. A 5 or 6 years kids go to school then why can’t we feel the kid you are going there to learn interesting things which will guide you throughout life, you will meet other kids and learn how to deal in companies. Near to Yaumul Qiyamaa one sign is that parents will give birth to their lords and literally I am observing several scenes where parents sit in front of their kids and ask for their wishes and beg for relief of their stubborn behaviour. Yes make the kids stress free and take all the stress on your own, tell the kid you are my lord and we have to obey you and make sure that you get no stress. Islam is a religion of balance. Love your kid, give him safety, love and confidence but stop him from things that are harmful for him or others. And for the last you should start with yourself. Stop harming people, stop lying, stop fighting, stop betraying. Don’t pretend to your kid. It is a piece of yourself, you can’t pretend in the long run the kid is like yourself
Yeh comments dr sahab ke liay naheen baqi sub logon ke liay hain. Mai ne apne bachon pe kabhi sakhti naheen ki 16 saal ki beti hai 11 saal ka aur aek 4 saal ka beta hai. Un ki training maa karti hai mai sirf un se achi achi baaten karta hoon aur apne uper un ki puri zimedari leta hoon. Mera koi bacha yeh kabhi naheen kehta keh baba aap ne meri yeh ya woh khwahish puri naheen ki. Mere do bade wale bache shuroo mai pudhai mai weak the lekin jese jese badi class mai aate gaye apna kaam sumbhalne lage. Aaj kal ke dor mai bache bohot samajh daar hain aur samajh jaate hain keh pudhai kyoon zaroori hai. Bache bechare aap ke yani maa baap ke rehmo karam pe hote hain unhain bohot pyaar dain taake woh bade hokar is mushkil dunya mai kamyab ho saken. Zimedari nibhane ki umer aap ki hai un ki naheen.
حضرت امام غزالی رحمۃ اللہ علیہ نے فرمایا کہ جو بھی خواب دیکھا جائے تو وہ محض خیالی اور بے مطلب نہیں ہوتا بلکہ اس کے اندر کوئی نہ کوئی حقیقت ضرور ہوتی ہے
in contrast to this, most of the children who go through tough childhood belong to villages and those are the ones who succeeded ahead in terms of world success. So I cant completely agree with that. It is easy to say but there comes some points where you have to show ur another side of your face to your children
The people who got success are very minimal,success not meaning you are finincially strong,they got so many physlogical weakness throughout their life and go under stress forever
For you success is just earning money. There was a boy who i dont know got diagnosed with a very dangerous disease and drs told father that they can’t do anything. The son called his father and asked to bring his all certificates and he said look dad i hot all of these but these wont ever help me, you didn’t prepared me for the life hereafter but was just enjoying wordly success and i dont know what i will di now after my death.
Success is not becoming doctor or engineer.. success is having inner happiness. Kuch aise bare log bhi hote hai jo end me suicide kar dete hai. Kya aap isse success kahenge? Success is being happy n content with life, having good decision making skills, having a relaxed mind that can find solution to problems.
Aslam o alikum sir m bht arsaa tak joint systm m rhi or u tube b use ni krti thi mri bari beti 10 sal ke h or choti 8 sal ke h sir ab ap k lecturs s jo awarnss mjy ai h its too l8 m n jo galtyan ke hn ab kya wo theek ho skti hn i mean ab m wo sb krny ke koshsh kr ri hoon kya response ho ga
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بچوں کی تربیت کرنے میں سب سے اہم بات ہے کہ صبر ، صبر اور صرف صبر
بے شک اللّٰہ صبر کرنے والوں کے ساتھ ہے
Bht khubsurat BT ki ap ny...zindage badal skti
Ham jald baji karte hai kahi hath se vakt na nikal jaye
Bilkul
@@knnnewskayaannewsnetwork4801 jazak Allah
Beshak bilkul sahi kaha aapne
I always ashamed of my attitude whenever I listen ur lectures bt each and every moment I try to become k good mom and always pray to my God to bless me.
Same here
Ya Allah sb fathers k dil m bchon k liye narmi r piyar dal dy Ameen
Ameeen
Ameen Sumaameen
Aameen
Dr. Sab Allah apki zindgi mai barkat dey ...
1 baat ye keh apki baat boht simple lagti hai pehli dafa mai lagta hai samajh aa gai lekin dubara sunney se koi nya point samny aata hai ...
2 dusri baat mai samjhta hu keh ye aik ba qaeda subject bna ke hamary nisab mai dakhil karna chahiye hai ...
Dil se ye chahta hu ...
bht acha tareeqa hy samjhany ka allah hum sub ko bacho ki naik tarbiat krny waly maa baap banaey ameen
Ameen Suma Ameen
Dr sahab pahle to bahot thank you aaj m ne pahli baar aapka video dekha aisa laga ke Allah tala ne aapko khaas humare liye bheja h
Apki bat se main 100% agree krti hn. Hmarey parents ki kbi fight ni hue thi halan k mere father well educated thay aur ami jan illiterate thi. Unho ne hm 10 behn bhayon ki behtreen prwarish ki. But hm being parents dono educated hn but 3 bachay hm se control nahi ho rahy. Iski wja hm dono ki different approaches hn. Allah pak hme aur hmari aulad ko siraat e mustaqeem pr chalaey. Ameen
Agreed❤
اللہ تعالیٰ آپ سے راضی ہوں ❤️🌹
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپکی باتیں بہت اچھی ہیں اللہ سب باپ کے اندر اپنے بچوں کے لیے نرمی ڈال دے آمین
Very nice great sir
ماشاء اللہ
MashaaAllah u are lectures are so true.
I am feeling so guilty after listening to our lecture. I a mother of 5 kids AlHamdulillah, but sometimes get so stressed as there are so many things going on through out the day and becomes difficult to mange and then I get stressed and irritated. I know I am wrong and In Shaa Allah will over it and not get angry on my kids.
JazakaAllah Khair ur lectures are very motivational.
You are the best ... I always feel guilty when I listen to you .... Trying to be a good mom but sometimes your own stress overtake
yes ur right same here
Same here :(
Mashaallaha sir.dr.javed.iqbal.naice.speak.............
Yes you are right
yes same here too...
Allah mere bacho ko acha hafza ata kr Aameen 😢 mera beta sbq boht mushkil se yad krta Allah pak mere bachy ki مدد frma Aameen 😢😢
nahi nahi : ) ap bohat acha samjatay hain Dr sb hum ap k sath hain,. ap ki muhabtin be rohani tur pr hamray pass ati jati hain..with out net,.. ager zendgi rahi tu inshaallah khaeen pr mulaqaat ho jaey gi,.. ( I am spiritual student )
I want to like your every video even without listening just because of that you have built a lot of trust in my mind and my heart my most respectable personality. May ALLAH PAK bless you abundantly
یا اللہ پاک میرے بچوں کی مزید اچھی تربیت کرنے میں میری میرے شوہر کی اور تمام والدین کی مدد فرما آمین 🤲
Ameen
Ameeen
Ameen
Ameen
Aameen
May Allah remove all our difficulties and ease all our tasks. Aameen
Ameen
Summa aameen
Aameen ya rabbal alameen
Summa Aameen
I think for this purpose we should change our educational system
Agree
Allah hum sb k bachun ko naik raah pe chlae ar aik sacha ashiq e Rasol SAWW bnae aameen
Aameen
Ameeen
Ameen
Wonderful information.
I think pre-wedding or during the pregnancy tenure, both parents should get such awareness sessions at hospital level to enable them good practices on patenting..
Dr Dil to krta he ap bolte Rahe or hm log sunnte Rahe..bht zrort he hm logo ko guidelines ki... Allah apko jazae kher de in kaamo k lie.. amen
Aameen summa aameen
Allah Pak hmain behtreen walidain baneny ki tofeeq de aur Sahi tarbiyat krny ma hmari madad kray aameen
Al ham du Lillah Allah pak ka shukr h k ap jaisy behtareen raah numma hamry darmyan moujood hain thank u so much Dr sb
Sir u r great and kind and i wonder that still sincere people like u are still with us❤ thank u so much God we are blessed MashaAllah❤
Allah bless u doc shbb... Hmesha kuch naa kuch seekhny ko milta hy
اللہ تعالیٰ تمام والدین کو اپنے بچوں کی اچھی تربیت کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے آمین۔۔۔۔
Aameen summa aameen
Ameen
Ameen Sum ameen
آمین
Aslama O alikum sir ap blkul thk keh rhy Hain bachy K lea maa bap EK E hoty I have quintpltes ma Sha Allah or wo hmsha yehi khty Hain K mama K baba or baba Ki mama unhe HM EK E lgty Hain💞
Doc sahab, thank you for such amazing parenting guidelines. But please, also discuss behavioural problems of age 7-12, where parents have already done this damage to their children. Please please talk about how to fix n recover this problem in kids. Where due to parents mutual arguments, kids are already affected and don't listen to parents or are hyper and have aggressive behaviours specifically from age 7-12. Buhut Shukria, hamari society ko ap jesay Naseh Ki buhut zarooret hai. ❤
Same request is mine.
What should we do now ..??
😔
How to fix this problem now??
Same request from me please give some advice my son is 13
Same request is mine .
Same reason here sir
Can we have short video on that
MashAllah Sir 👍👍👍
Last Year mein Apne mohlay k doston se ye baat karha tha
Wo dost mujhe bewakoof kerhay thay per aaj khushi hue aur aap jese Professor ki baat yehe sahi hai MashAllah Sir thanks for information about Stress free happy life 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Sir u r great I always use to listen to ur precious thoughts...ALLAH apko sehat wali lambi Zindagi ata kry Ameen...
Very important video kash yeh video phly mil jati.information ki kumi ki wajha sy hum sy bht ghalti ho jati hy.Allah pak madad kary ameen.
My mom and dad are fighting from years... And this makes us alot stressful
sad 😒
Allah ye lrye khtm kray gharon se
Talk to your parents yourself to make your home peaceful
@@simplifyradiologytalking doesn’t help. Ye dimaghi mareez ho chukkay hain. They don’t listen
Ohhhh ..sorry to hear
Bilkul sai bt ha yh mere b 2 bachy chuti wly din yhi bolty han k aj mza ni aya school bht mza ata ha from Spain Madrid
Sir, I really admire your knowledge . I thank to Allah swt that we are blessed to have a teacher like you .
JazaakAllah doctor sahab. Apne bohat bra ehsaan kia ye bta kr. Allah apko hmesha khush rakhay ameen.
Iam Quran teacher for ladies and children's
My father did all these thing to Us and now I give stress to my child I'm sorry I will never I do all these things and I will avoid it.Insha Allah
InshAllah
انشالللہ ۔۔بار۔بار۔خود۔کو۔سمجھائیں۔
Yes me too😢
Bilkul sahi sir! Giving stress to kids is a disaster for them!
The main reason for stress in students is comparison with other students. Especially in teens
U Totally rite brother😔
Studies pressure these days... Educational system sucks
Agreed. I am in UK and there is no comparison and no burden. I studied here and learn how the difference in teaching style.
@@zaraukeducation communication system??
@@sidwrites..7323 sorry typing mistake. No comparison and no burden until primary school.
I m 35 years old n seriously child hood ki batain mjaii bhtt stress n depression e ery time I feel 😢
No words for your good words Dr. Sahab, very nice 👍
Allah apku or taraqqi day Dr sb bht sari duaen apky liye
Yes of course. Very important message for all to understand in real sense
Video tips summary
1.give your children knowledge how survival in problems know how stressed management
2.must know increase children capacity development skills
Till 7 years children
3.inform about your children go school for fun and get opportunities for help friends
4.fight and flight mode avoid and increase children ability to learn ask questions how to solving problems find solutions
5.always speaking with children in good behaviour polite speaking
6.always give children respect
Never show your danger anger personality
Nice guidelines for the parents and teachers.
Sidra kitny bachy hain apky
I invite everyone to listen Quran MAJEED 💝💌💌💝💐
@Shahzaib b7gghuu66
Yes exactly
Sir g u r such a great person Allah pak apko ajar e azeem ata farmaye ameeeen
Every word is precious n important to practice in daily life
Only if parents understand this it’s very important topic ty for sharing this hopefully it will help many kids
Jazak Allah doctor sahab .
السلام عليكم ورحمۃ اللہ
بہت بہت شکریہ
سر۔۔۔۔
مستقل آپ کی ویڈیوز دیکھ رہا ہوں
اس قوم کو آپ۔اچھی رہنمائی کررہے ہیں
بہت عمدہ
قابل ستائش
دلی مبارکباد
نیک خواہشات
Sir Mari bati 7 year ke hai school Ka bohat stress Lati hai ... ..jab us Ka admition howa to bohat relax the school ko enjoy krti the AK teacher NY Kasi Bachy ko thaper mara bas us din say.. ..nashta ni krti vomiting ati hai bohat zeda stress hai ap please mujy guide kry kesy solve kry
Best ever teacher mentor, who can guide u anywher❤❤❤blessed to have such mentors in our society....
Allah pak ap ko slamat rakhy or Allah pak mere or mery shohar ke madad farmay apny bacho kee or ache tarbeat Karny ke or Allah pak sab k bacho kee hefazat farmay ameen sum ameen
Proud to have stress in an early age
Thanks Almighty For Poverty 😍😎
This talk is gem piece advice for those still not married (Y) Noting it down !
اللہ تعالیٰ اپنے فضل وکرم سےہم سبھی ماؤں کواپنے بچوں کی تعلیم و تربیت سہی اور اسلامی طریقہ پر کرنے کی توفیق عطا فرمائے اور شوہر حضرات بھی ساتھ دیں تاکہ ہم ان کے لئے اچھے والدین ثابت ہو ں۔اللہ ہم پر اپنارحم کرم عطا فرمائے ۔آمین
Osm mind-blowing information for me as a teacher thanks my ideal ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ ماشاءاللہ
بہت ہی عمدہ نصیحت پروفیسر صاحب زید مجدھم
جزاک اللّٰہ خیرا کثیرا و احسن الجزاء فی الدنیا والاخرہ
MashaAllah keep it up sir..You are great and graceful as always.
Great zbrdst👍 Allah pk apko r kamyabi ata kry🤲
ڈاکٹر صاحب آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کرتے ہیں
Bohat bohat sukariy
Thanks doc Allah pak ap ko jazaye kher dy ameen
جزاک اللہ خیرا و احسن الجزاء
Meri Jan ne wali ne dhai dhai Saal main karwadia admission . Beta kamiyab hai ab class 1 main hai . Har filed main behtareen hai mashahAllah . Confident , positiin holder , BAAT ma'am ney Waala . .aesa kese
Thanx Dr....big fan of u from 🇮🇳
Ok sir, you are saying a good thing that children should understand at the age of 7 years, they should do this. See, my point of view is that if we do not expose our child to anything good or bad right from the beginning.
ma sha allah sir! most effective talk!
Kia bat hai kash mera beta b sir javed bny ameen ❤❤❤❤
Most of Pakistani school give stress to students
Teachers give lots of homework
Mentally and physically torcher
Yes Agree, or ye torture mother KO Bhi milta hai individually, or Bachon KO pas karti hai phir, wo Bhi KIA Kare, school wale itna home work itna kaam dete hain, bache KO kuch na bolo to wo pharte hi nhi hain, Samjh nhi aata KIA Kare to KIA Karen..
@@komalmehmood9364 Parents should have to take action against unjustified homework and too much course
@@contentart5169 KOi kuch nhi karta ye hi soch k, k KOi dusra nhi Kar Raha to Humari kon Sune ga, 3rd standard k bache ka bag itna heavy hai k mother se nhi uth raha hota, or wo bag Bechare bache Utha rahe hain
@@komalmehmood9364 I agree with you but All Parents do something for their children
بہت عمدہ مسرت ہوئی مسرتوں کے ساتھ شکریہ ادا کرتا ہوں
اسکول میں سات سال کے بچے کو تو ریلیکس رکھا جارہا ہے مگر 9/10 سال کی عمر میں سٹریس دیا جاتا ہے۔۔۔بچہ اسکول سے نجات چاہنے لگا ہے۔۔۔
Absolutely Informative...
JAZAAK ALLAH Khair Dr. Sb... 💝💝
Doctor sahab u r really good guy mahalalah
ایکن ایسا نہیں ہوتا ہمارے معاشرے میں ۔اکثریت
under constant stress your brain cannot process information accurately and hence your academic performance goes down, you cant get the grades that you want, constant frustration of the parents creates new problems if the child finds a bad company to vent those feelings out.
unfortunately in our society beating and punishing kids physically is a norm.
If your kid is acting different always try to figure out the reason in yourself first then other settings and then fix the underlying problem.
Children behave in a very predictable way.
In psych this leads to oppositional defiant disorder, conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, Obsessive compulsive disorder, acute stress disorder and PTSd, major depressive disorder, bipolar disorder etc etc.
And remember in children depression presents differently.
Teens usually have a high ego which means whatever they say is right, with time we learn other people have their views also. so when ego is hurt they get depressed.
in our society adults think kids cant get depressed.
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the guidelines are very good but difficult to implement in reality!
Keep your kids busy in reading books, nabi (saw) ki SEERAH ki books den kids ko aur physically busy rakhaen..sports mae
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Very nice topic for parents. Thank you sir .Allah apko jaza dy
I am sorry but I don’t agree with this theory. I feel that parents get afraid due to this theory and fail to deal with their kids. I am experiencing this fear of parents. Parents are afraid of crying and showing stubborn behaviour of their kids and as a result of this so called stress they allow almost everything to their kids. They can use the mobile because otherwise they will cry due to stress, they can sleep late in the night because early going to bed will stress the kid and it cries, they can eat sweets as much as they want otherwise there will be a great drama due to stress and so on. The result is that I observed parents falling on knees before their kids to ask what do you wish to do, have or get for being stress free, they are allowed and as this child grows up his demands for being stress free grow with him.
Sorry, our Islam has told us very nicely and deeply how to bring up a child. And there it is clearly said that do yourself first what you want your child to do. Creating an environment is just created and not real. And kids are clever enough to find out a just created scene or real. If you want to be him respectful than be respectful yourself, be honest, humble and polite yourself the kid will copy. If you just pretend to be then it will not last long. And that is the point. We adults fail to be ourselves like we want our kids to be.
If you are harsh or angry for some reason to your kid it’s not the end of the world. The kids learn from that stress that this was a situation I don’t want to be ever again so I will change my behaviour. And then parents should distress their kid and everything will be fine.
A 5 or 6 years kids go to school then why can’t we feel the kid you are going there to learn interesting things which will guide you throughout life, you will meet other kids and learn how to deal in companies.
Near to Yaumul Qiyamaa one sign is that parents will give birth to their lords and literally I am observing several scenes where parents sit in front of their kids and ask for their wishes and beg for relief of their stubborn behaviour. Yes make the kids stress free and take all the stress on your own, tell the kid you are my lord and we have to obey you and make sure that you get no stress.
Islam is a religion of balance. Love your kid, give him safety, love and confidence but stop him from things that are harmful for him or others. And for the last you should start with yourself. Stop harming people, stop lying, stop fighting, stop betraying. Don’t pretend to your kid. It is a piece of yourself, you can’t pretend in the long run the kid is like yourself
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Yeh comments dr sahab ke liay naheen baqi sub logon ke liay hain. Mai ne apne bachon pe kabhi sakhti naheen ki 16 saal ki beti hai 11 saal ka aur aek 4 saal ka beta hai. Un ki training maa karti hai mai sirf un se achi achi baaten karta hoon aur apne uper un ki puri zimedari leta hoon. Mera koi bacha yeh kabhi naheen kehta keh baba aap ne meri yeh ya woh khwahish puri naheen ki. Mere do bade wale bache shuroo mai pudhai mai weak the lekin jese jese badi class mai aate gaye apna kaam sumbhalne lage. Aaj kal ke dor mai bache bohot samajh daar hain aur samajh jaate hain keh pudhai kyoon zaroori hai. Bache bechare aap ke yani maa baap ke rehmo karam pe hote hain unhain bohot pyaar dain taake woh bade hokar is mushkil dunya mai kamyab ho saken. Zimedari nibhane ki umer aap ki hai un ki naheen.
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Sir Meri bachi 6 sal ki hai mgr wo school k Naam sa buth darti hai bs us k Sam y school ka Naam mat lo mj smh ni ahti k mai kya kron
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Very well explained Sir
Bilkul ghlat myn ny apny dimgh myn is bat ko rakhli or isi nafsisti word stress soch soch ky usy zara bhe dantna chor dia or,wo stubborn hogaya
Very useful information sir.
Sir yours such informative videos, really have a deep impact on understanding parental caring & child parent relation.
in contrast to this, most of the children who go through tough childhood belong to villages and those are the ones who succeeded ahead in terms of world success. So I cant completely agree with that. It is easy to say but there comes some points where you have to show ur another side of your face to your children
The people who got success are very minimal,success not meaning you are finincially strong,they got so many physlogical weakness throughout their life and go under stress forever
For you success is just earning money. There was a boy who i dont know got diagnosed with a very dangerous disease and drs told father that they can’t do anything. The son called his father and asked to bring his all certificates and he said look dad i hot all of these but these wont ever help me, you didn’t prepared me for the life hereafter but was just enjoying wordly success and i dont know what i will di now after my death.
Success is not becoming doctor or engineer.. success is having inner happiness. Kuch aise bare log bhi hote hai jo end me suicide kar dete hai. Kya aap isse success kahenge?
Success is being happy n content with life, having good decision making skills, having a relaxed mind that can find solution to problems.
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Great message sir God bless you
Aslam o alikum sir m bht arsaa tak joint systm m rhi or u tube b use ni krti thi mri bari beti 10 sal ke h or choti 8 sal ke h sir ab ap k lecturs s jo awarnss mjy ai h its too l8 m n jo galtyan ke hn ab kya wo theek ho skti hn i mean ab m wo sb krny ke koshsh kr ri hoon kya response ho ga
Sometime I m too striked with kids n later in I feel embarrassed n ashamed ya Allah hmaraii bchon ko naiq b aayaii ameen
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