What irritates me is that everything a Narc does is literally on purpose!! Took me so long to catch on. Thanks Hario for reassurance that I’m not crazy!
@@AtlantisB89 Speaker stated that he was irritated by circumstances that led to this insightful video topic in which I appreciate his discomfort for my benefit💤
Even though the narcissist discarded you, they will blame the new supply for not being with you and take out their frustration on the new supply because you are no longer in their life, even though they discarded you. Make it make sense.
My son's father was Narc. I met him waaaay before i knew about narcissism. I was in my middle 20's and he was 32. This man was nice before we moved into a house together three years later. He was abusive, accused me of cheating, bleached my clothes, got another woman pregnant while i was pregnant with our son, and Never was at home. This nightmare lasted eight years until i was done. He already had his new supply on deck twenty years his junior. Guess what, she was also a Narc. She was giving him the same thing he was doing to me. I was glad to get rid of that mess.
When I came to this realization about my child’s father it hurt like hell 😢 but I knew I had to let him go! I did get sick but luckily I healed.. I recently went full no contact & he just keeps on trying to
Because they can't handle what they dish out. This is a common theme we touch upon in this community. The narcr always needs you to be the bigger person. That's why when two narcissists meet, all hell breaks loose Someone needs to compromise. Someone needs to roll with the punches. It's not going to be them. Takers need a giver. Selfish people like them are not going to be so forgiving and flexible.
They can't destroy anyone but themselves. A person who is loving, caring, adventurous and all you named will be stronger and better after the experience. Their mission to destroy always backfires spectacularly. Karma tears the evil person npd person up.
Yep! I was the new supply he just described and I was still abused, went through chaos, and devalued. My ex narc was jealous of my success and my ability to be nurturing and giving. My ex narc discarded me after a year and monkey branches to a downgrade. In the relationship I had to hear about a previous supply almost everyday and another supply that stalked me and put my life in danger because I believed all the lies they told. My ex narc played victim and took no accountability for anything. Everything was my fault even down to being discarded. They will NEVER be satisfied and make you proof yourself to them and they lie about everything and constantly want to punish you if you criticize them about anything. They have to be prefect and smarter than you. My ex narc had everything with me (top tier). They still messed it up. I been in no contact two years and still healing from this type of trauma so he is telling the truth.
It is incredibly difficult if you have a child with one, and then get discarded. They use the child to torment you, and make you feel confused about yourself. They will literally emotionally torment a child, in order to hurt you.
Absolutely True, mines had 3 women 2 was married and he got the younger one pregnant, one got away,but he married the toxic one that’s just like him and he’s catching hell.. That baby mama is a narcissist and the one he married.. He destroying hisself, I’m so Thankful I was alerted and warned.
For a while, I did, but that stopped. I didn’t lie the entire time along with the narc, putting up a fake front. One time when he had a birthday party I went upstairs and disassociated with everybody in the house from all of them because I did not want to be around the Narcissist , husband ofmine and another example, the next year on his birthday I chose to work all day long Party at our house again that I did not agree to either time by the way, and stayed out until I knew everyone would be gone. Was Tired of the faking, I didn’t care what his family thought of me, because I started to see they were just as narcissistic as him which is why I am in hiding now once again.
Hi And Thank you So Very Much For Sharing This i Needed To Hear This I Was Recently Discarded Cruelly By The Narcissists It Was So Cruel He Informed Me That He Was Seeking Someone Else And He Told Me Will Never Want To Be With Me. He Is Treating Me Like I Don’t Exist This Person Has Destroyed My Life My Self Confidence And Self Esteem He Also Caused My Nervous Breakdown And Blamed Me For It Narcissitic Abuse Is Brutal,.
The nice kind loving caring person yes that was me. Smdh if i only knew. I ended things and he begged me relentlessly to take him back but now i see it's bc i had a lot of energy to give. He's w another narc now who cheated while he was married to me so hope they destroy each other. She left her husband/family for my narc.
That’s a narcsasits karma. I sit back and laugh now. We’re the real victims. Good people. How can someone love you if they hate themselves. I love me. A whole lot. And you should too. Have a nice day. I will.
I was the “new supply” and he used me UP😔 I start therapy next week. Never in a billion years would I have imagined I would be going through this because I was too weak when we first met 10 years ago!
when I watch your videos, i feel like im getting advice from the dad I never have. growing up in a house with a mother that was a verbally abusive narcissist, and a lazy father, there were many things I did not learn about life. Coupled with being socially awkward, I really struggled to befriend people and had a very limited understanding of how abusive people in my world worked, since I was living with one and the other abusive by not teaching me anything about how to be a man, once I was 12 I was "all grown up and could figure it out" in his eyes. I actually cried a little, because i feel like you care about the youth of this world, and my didnt, and its a stark thing seeing men that actually care for people like us.
This video was much needed. You spoke every bit of my experience. I was finishing your sentences based on my experience. This video put me in a better headspace.
She moved in and destroyed all my belongings and then moved to someone who have more. I ain’t contacted the b since. She text and call with different numbers. I offed her.
Can you do a video about the narc who tries to be on their best behaviour in the marriage. All the while having affair. They try and act somewhat like the perfect husband and father, while doing sneaky things
Hario really..that video says all ..its exactly what happend at theyr mind.u nail it..thanks for this and for helping people to figure them out soon or later..guys..keep that video at favorite and see it when u are in bad mood and soon u will be fine.Thanks Hario one more time for sharing your brain thoughts to us..u speak from your heart.
Spamming your channel bro😅 the only place a narc has a happy relationship is in your mind 😂😂😂 got that right but I have a hard time imagining them happy so now there either
@KaylaHarmon-cp5bt In all truth, it simply means he was never the MAN or right person for you. Whatever is meant to be, will be. So be thankful it didn’t work out and it opened up the door for the TRUE love of your life to enter.
I was the “new supply” and he used me UP😔 I start therapy next week. Never in a billion years would I have imagined I would be going through this because I was too weak when we first met 10 years ago!
The narcissist loves people that hate them but hates people that loves them
Crazyville
No lie I was new supply and he gave me a life of pure hell he almost destroyed me but God ❤
What irritates me is that everything a Narc does is literally on purpose!! Took me so long to catch on. Thanks Hario for reassurance that I’m not crazy!
Your insightful irritation is appreciated 💤
@@vmw0710I’m confused!
@@AtlantisB89 Speaker stated that he was irritated by circumstances that led to this insightful video topic in which I appreciate his discomfort for my benefit💤
It's very sad and I agree irritating.
Even though the narcissist discarded you, they will blame the new supply for not being with you and take out their frustration on the new supply because you are no longer in their life, even though they discarded you. Make it make sense.
My son's father was Narc. I met him waaaay before i knew about narcissism. I was in my middle 20's and he was 32. This man was nice before we moved into a house together three years later. He was abusive, accused me of cheating, bleached my clothes, got another woman pregnant while i was pregnant with our son, and Never was at home. This nightmare lasted eight years until i was done. He already had his new supply on deck twenty years his junior. Guess what, she was also a Narc. She was giving him the same thing he was doing to me. I was glad to get rid of that mess.
Exactly n then keep trying to come back bc they see they didn’t kill you
When they see that they didn’t break you. They come back to try it again again again, until they’re successful!
When I came to this realization about my child’s father it hurt like hell 😢 but I knew I had to let him go! I did get sick but luckily I healed.. I recently went full no contact & he just keeps on trying to
@@Geminifly
N🚫 Contact is a superpower.
You don’t have to wish bad on them it’s inevitable. Frfr
LOOKING BACK HE TRIED IT DIDN'T WORK I WAS TOOOOO STRONG FOR HIM BETTER LUCK NEXT TIME
Then why do they seek those kind of people to be involved with? To purposely bring them down?
Because they can't handle what they dish out. This is a common theme we touch upon in this community. The narcr always needs you to be the bigger person. That's why when two narcissists meet, all hell breaks loose Someone needs to compromise. Someone needs to roll with the punches. It's not going to be them. Takers need a giver. Selfish people like them are not going to be so forgiving and flexible.
@@timawima Yep , all about Control . Deep seeded control, cause they are emotionally and mentally imploding continuosly .
They THRIVE on knowing they caused a person to be broken. It gives them peace. Just sick!!
Because they’re walking contradictions their disordered!
Yes, they get a sense of power and control out of conquering people they admire
They can't destroy anyone but themselves. A person who is loving, caring, adventurous and all you named will be stronger and better after the experience. Their mission to destroy always backfires spectacularly. Karma tears the evil person npd person up.
My Ex still tries to get me jealous with new supply.
More I think about it I get mad I want to get even but I will let God handle it
They will destroy themselves, one way or another
Same
Same 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I struggle with this too… I’m learning to let go and let GOD….they reap what they sow
Me too.😊
Exactly they still going to get the same treatment we did because they don't know how to love smh!!
💗💃 Karma which will bring a smile to your face can sometimes result when the new supply gets stuck with a toxic person and knows what they are in for.
Yep! I was the new supply he just described and I was still abused, went through chaos, and devalued. My ex narc was jealous of my success and my ability to be nurturing and giving. My ex narc discarded me after a year and monkey branches to a downgrade. In the relationship I had to hear about a previous supply almost everyday and another supply that stalked me and put my life in danger because I believed all the lies they told. My ex narc played victim and took no accountability for anything. Everything was my fault even down to being discarded.
They will NEVER be satisfied and make you proof yourself to them and they lie about everything and constantly want to punish you if you criticize them about anything. They have to be prefect and smarter than you. My ex narc had everything with me (top tier). They still messed it up.
I been in no contact two years and still healing from this type of trauma so he is telling the truth.
It is incredibly difficult if you have a child with one, and then get discarded. They use the child to torment you, and make you feel confused about yourself. They will literally emotionally torment a child, in order to hurt you.
Ikr i was never this defensive short tempered angery distrusting and wow i want to surround myself with happiness again
"Good people never change." So true!
Absolutely True, mines had 3 women 2 was married and he got the younger one pregnant, one got away,but he married the toxic one that’s just like him and he’s catching hell.. That baby mama is a narcissist and the one he married.. He destroying hisself, I’m so Thankful I was alerted and warned.
So true he's putting all the blame and spell work on me lol
For a while, I did, but that stopped. I didn’t lie the entire time along with the narc, putting up a fake front. One time when he had a birthday party I went upstairs and disassociated with everybody in the house from all of them because I did not want to be around the Narcissist , husband ofmine and another example, the next year on his birthday I chose to work all day long Party at our house again that I did not agree to either time by the way, and stayed out until I knew everyone would be gone.
Was Tired of the faking, I didn’t care what his family thought of me, because I started to see they were just as narcissistic as him which is why I am in hiding now once again.
Hi And Thank you So Very Much For Sharing This i Needed To Hear This I Was Recently Discarded Cruelly By The Narcissists It Was So Cruel He Informed Me That He Was Seeking Someone Else And He Told Me Will Never Want To Be With Me. He Is Treating Me Like I Don’t Exist This Person Has Destroyed My Life My Self Confidence And Self Esteem He Also Caused My Nervous Breakdown And Blamed Me For It Narcissitic Abuse Is Brutal,.
Don’t worry everything can be different now.🌅
The nice kind loving caring person yes that was me. Smdh if i only knew. I ended things and he begged me relentlessly to take him back but now i see it's bc i had a lot of energy to give. He's w another narc now who cheated while he was married to me so hope they destroy each other. She left her husband/family for my narc.
That’s a narcsasits karma. I sit back and laugh now. We’re the real victims. Good people. How can someone love you if they hate themselves. I love me. A whole lot. And you should too. Have a nice day. I will.
that's why you get out before they even try to triangulate... he looks like he aged 10 yrs after I discarded..I saw that foolishness a mile away lol
You described me… I was that “new supply” and buddy boy broke me down. 8 years later with 1 year old twins.
I was the “new supply” and he used me UP😔
I start therapy next week. Never in a billion years would I have imagined I would be going through this because I was too weak when we first met 10 years ago!
wow, i needed to hear this, making sense 😮
5 damn years and I finally let go of him. I blocked him everywhere. I am very scared he will come and hurt mr or something.
Everything changes once you hand that baby over with there diapers and pacifier
Disown that baby and new supply enters hell 😂
when I watch your videos, i feel like im getting advice from the dad I never have. growing up in a house with a mother that was a verbally abusive narcissist, and a lazy father, there were many things I did not learn about life. Coupled with being socially awkward, I really struggled to befriend people and had a very limited understanding of how abusive people in my world worked, since I was living with one and the other abusive by not teaching me anything about how to be a man, once I was 12 I was "all grown up and could figure it out" in his eyes. I actually cried a little, because i feel like you care about the youth of this world, and my didnt, and its a stark thing seeing men that actually care for people like us.
🎉 happy 4 th , hario , 🎉
Your right I was good the narcissist destroyed me it taught me to be careful who I am good to
Good people never change…Amen!
Yes.
Just shared people need to know
tnks for goood work leson learnnn 23 years in tears left me for dead i savived glory to god
This video was much needed. You spoke every bit of my experience. I was finishing your sentences based on my experience. This video put me in a better headspace.
This intellectual insight is so prolific you should be compensated for your creative endeavors while you are sleeping💤
You are so right Sir
She moved in and destroyed all my belongings and then moved to someone who have more. I ain’t contacted the b since. She text and call with different numbers. I offed her.
I once was the new supply !
Hey Boss ❤
Can you do a video about the narc who tries to be on their best behaviour in the marriage. All the while having affair. They try and act somewhat like the perfect husband and father, while doing sneaky things
What if their new supply was their old supply and their new supply/ old supply is just as conniving as the Narc? If that makes sense.
They’ve always dealt with an old/new toxic supply throughout ….
Hey Hario!
Spot on coach 🙏
Hario really..that video says all ..its exactly what happend at theyr mind.u nail it..thanks for this and for helping people to figure them out soon or later..guys..keep that video at favorite and see it when u are in bad mood and soon u will be fine.Thanks Hario one more time for sharing your brain thoughts to us..u speak from your heart.
You are so right, as usual 😊
Happy 4th of July 🇺🇸💥
Hey yall peace & love !🙏🏼🤍🤍
Goodmorning ❤️🤍💙Happy Fourth of July 🇺🇸 Enjoy your day !!!!!
Dam this hit hard lol 😆
Good video
Hey Hario! Happy 4th of July! 🎇🎆🧨
Exactly i said the same thing. Cause that's there Job it's just matter of time
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Happy 4th ✨
Hit the like button and share the video please.😅
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can u imagine the pain and tocha abuse i always to die have i not walk away
Oh boy
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What if the narc is another narc? What happens then?
@deewright3111
They end up destroying each other
It’s a 💩 show… just grab your 🍿 and Enjoy
Spamming your channel bro😅 the only place a narc has a happy relationship is in your mind 😂😂😂 got that right but I have a hard time imagining them happy so now there either
😎 I pray the person who trashed me for someone else is with the best possible, satisfying exciting kind caring sexy fulling person every😎
A year later still together had a kid almost and she has a kid idk maybe he was just mean to me maybe he wasn’t a narc. She may be the lucky 🍀 one
@KaylaHarmon-cp5bt
In all truth, it simply means he was never the MAN or right person for you. Whatever is meant to be, will be. So be thankful it didn’t work out and it opened up the door for the TRUE love of your life to enter.
Looking forward for the 20 July Mike Vs Jake fight.
I was the “new supply” and he used me UP😔
I start therapy next week. Never in a billion years would I have imagined I would be going through this because I was too weak when we first met 10 years ago!