Horrible Dark Side of Marrying Japanese for black foreigners/ Black in Japan/interracial marriage

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  • My name is Obi san.I am a Nigeria TH-camr,vlogger,& video creator living in Japan.
    On this channel,I talk about Blacks living in japan,black lifestyle,black experience,black foreigners working and living in japan.If you are searching for any content about blacks in Japan then this is the right channel for you.
    On todays video,I will be sharing black experience marrying Japanese women,Japanese women who marries black people. The cultural differences makes this African Japanese interracial marriage very fascinating.
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  • @blackjadejournal4045
    @blackjadejournal4045 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I am African American man and I lived in Japan for about 12 years. I had a lot of African friends there who got married just to get the visa. And you are right, I know a lot of horror stories about Africans marrying a Japanese woman over there. One story I know is about this one African who got married over there, had one son and then one day he came home from work and his wife and all her belongings was gone from the apartment. All he found from her was a note on the kitchen table which read "Good luck raising your son" That African guy is now raising his son alone in Tokyo.

    • @Prometheus574
      @Prometheus574 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Bring a Japanese woman to Singapore, get married there and apply for citizenship.

    • @thefunguy5069
      @thefunguy5069 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      A deadbeat mom?

    • @susanawuorodaga9859
      @susanawuorodaga9859 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      In china happens too

    • @SandStormXII
      @SandStormXII 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      at least he got a visa

    • @Yvanylda
      @Yvanylda หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I was expecting a dramatic history. He's lucky she didn't left with his son.

  • @XY-rh3if
    @XY-rh3if ปีที่แล้ว +11

    No matter what cultural norms dictates, if you marry a selfless and understanding female, she'll definitely work with you in any business plans you have. Period!

  • @cjcj955
    @cjcj955 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This is unbelievable and thanks for this information that will help our black guys planning to marry Japanese ladies.

  • @jackson7922
    @jackson7922 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s simply tradition for the Japanese, though this video offers great advice to those glorifying the Black-Japanese marriage. I say don’t cut corners whatsoever as a Black man, you’ve *still* got to earn your respect and dignity out there anyways, so why put your residency on the contingency of the marriage?
    At that point, you better give her what she wants, less you’ll end up like TechLead.. or worse.

  • @Anuamir
    @Anuamir 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You make 100 clear to me about the horrible dark side of marriage in Japan.

    • @obisantvlog
      @obisantvlog  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes my bro!
      Thank you for ur feedback🙏🏿

  • @SOFwT2020
    @SOFwT2020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Obi san, your content is so very important! For the union of marriage to be fulfilling, it must be about LOVE, for then and only then can true vision prosper! Thank you so very much for sharing your heart with us. Praying the hearing ear of your people inclined to hear in this hour what you've been called to say! much love my brother!💞

  • @pamelajohnson6463
    @pamelajohnson6463 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wow Obi that's wild ...I think a marriage should be equal...you're right marry for Love ,caring and understanding for the man and woman for a good life for both 💖💖💖💖

  • @samuelnathaniel7703
    @samuelnathaniel7703 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks bro for that information indeed u really tried

  • @aflasackey9057
    @aflasackey9057 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    We don't come from a very poor Continent my brother,Africa is not poor,we just have poor leadership.

  • @teofilozeba1770
    @teofilozeba1770 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you very much for useful advice man

  • @vidarlington8487
    @vidarlington8487 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless you my brother you said it all 😎

  • @amazudavidson1800
    @amazudavidson1800 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God bless you for this perspective

  • @kazungustephen6747
    @kazungustephen6747 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much bro,
    God bless you bro you
    You try for the information.

  • @isaacogedengbe7298
    @isaacogedengbe7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you brother I wish a lot of brothers learn and watch out.

  • @ezejamesonyedikachi3658
    @ezejamesonyedikachi3658 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice one brotherly 💗

  • @PndNation-su7jg
    @PndNation-su7jg 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thanks for your very big attention alot I appreciate that

  • @EmmanuelRAladesuru
    @EmmanuelRAladesuru หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks, it's educational.😊❤

  • @PPB_Army
    @PPB_Army 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so grateful I stumbled on this video
    I am African American but I will still use this information

  • @phenomenomaestro7602
    @phenomenomaestro7602 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yo! Bros
    Please, how can someone change tourist visa to work visa/work with in 14 days.

  • @XY-rh3if
    @XY-rh3if ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello! I want to come to Japan from Naija. I have lived abroad most of my life but presently living in Naija for almost three years now. I think I'd rather live in Japan comparing my experiences living abroad with my experiences trying to invest here in a country with very high level of scamishy individuals, as well as the ease of doing business
    That said, my goal is to find a job within my 3 months visa stay. If it doesn't work out for me it's back to Naija. I'm not interested in illegal migration. With an Information Technology Degree from the US, what are my chances of finding a job sponsor within my 3 month visa stay?

  • @gaanihunwokorie5395
    @gaanihunwokorie5395 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you, my brother.

  • @iamnormal8648
    @iamnormal8648 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hey... don't generalize Nigeria as representing the whole of Afrika. I am Tanzanian and I would never run away from my country. I have been to Europe, America and Asia, but I returned to Tanzania and I prefer living in Tanzania.
    Nigerians are the ones who love to run away from their country. In Asia when they saw me they assumed I was from Nigeria.

    • @jonasannor7566
      @jonasannor7566 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yes Nigerians want to run always because they are many and competition at home is high ..

  • @samtaylor-ayuk5336
    @samtaylor-ayuk5336 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice one!

  • @Iamzikizago
    @Iamzikizago 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow!

  • @shalewamutiatbada2032
    @shalewamutiatbada2032 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Uuuuuuuhhhhh!!! He who have 👂 let them hear ooooo🙏🏾❤️

    • @obisantvlog
      @obisantvlog  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for ur feedback🙏🏿

  • @travelwith_emmanuel
    @travelwith_emmanuel ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Africans /Africa is not poor please correct that ..

    • @IKENAK
      @IKENAK ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes Africa is rich in resource but the people who live on it are poor and unable to utilise their lands. That's the reason why we have been dominated for the past millennia and still are being exploited.

    • @travelwith_emmanuel
      @travelwith_emmanuel ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@IKENAK I get your point as well but we are still blessed within …so hard the continent might be the citizens still survive …we only have problem with bad leaders (fact)

    • @IKENAK
      @IKENAK ปีที่แล้ว

      @@travelwith_emmanuel Yes we have misleaders who only serve their own short term interests without having a vision for their nations and are happy to get exploited by foreign nations

    • @daichi_lol
      @daichi_lol ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I live in africa, and trust me im tryna leave

    • @alyshadedios4236
      @alyshadedios4236 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Depending on situation. From what I’ve heard a lot of people there are having a hard time surviving financially..

  • @davec5153
    @davec5153 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is how it works in most first world countries. Maybe there's a lesson in that.
    If you have a wife, house and kids, any money you spend on yourself takes money away from your kids, wife and house hold expenses.

  • @zubytestto4971
    @zubytestto4971 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you brother, please are you in Japan, I need to ask you a little question.

  • @chinagoromokonkwo7133
    @chinagoromokonkwo7133 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ur video is nice we'll detailed

  • @fh.7287
    @fh.7287 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "If i feel the Vib,
    i Vib it"
    Nwanne idi too muchly 😅👍

  • @ernestmalonkane8668
    @ernestmalonkane8668 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    UNIVERSAL RULE OF THUMB; DON'T MARRY A WOMAN YOU LOVE, MARRY A WOMAN WHO LOVES YOU!

  • @bethelchimezie2418
    @bethelchimezie2418 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nice content bro. Thank you!

  • @NdifonNtui
    @NdifonNtui 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Igbo kwenu. Once I heard your voice I knew

  • @jeanremilas5834
    @jeanremilas5834 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Africa is not poor... Africa is the source of everything... gold and many more.....

  • @michaelreed4744
    @michaelreed4744 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love for beauty on the inside and outside.😃🌹

  • @Karyabs
    @Karyabs ปีที่แล้ว +4

    European culture is pretty much close. The wives are not domestic housewives but they won't accept you dipping your fat fingers into the family piggy bank to look after parents etc back home. African culture is only closely related to Arabic and Indian culture. Filipinos too......and very different to other cultures

  • @chrisallos
    @chrisallos 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The bottom line is marry a supporter

  • @dorothyakobundu
    @dorothyakobundu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is it the same way when a Nigerian female married a Japanese man. Just curious

  • @solosankareh6021
    @solosankareh6021 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Bro haw do I relocate to Japan

  • @icemuckbanggg
    @icemuckbanggg 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Learn to say no and don't give them your bank acount information and set up your wife on direct deposit. You can't even legally work under marriage visa in most cases so that marriage visa is useless.

    • @astroprotector
      @astroprotector หลายเดือนก่อน

      how about not trying to get a visa the illegal way?

    • @roshaunlawrence6444
      @roshaunlawrence6444 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Huh? Marriage visa actually allows you to do pretty much any job.what are you talking about??

  • @maxaudibert5793
    @maxaudibert5793 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video. Please watch out too to a beautiful Japanese woman who wants to get out of Japan...

  • @jackienkansah3657
    @jackienkansah3657 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What about black women or African women marrying the Japanese men

    • @FewToast
      @FewToast ปีที่แล้ว

      african women don’t like japanese men

    • @MsSANDRA1024
      @MsSANDRA1024 ปีที่แล้ว

      We ain’t doing that. It’s always the black man and his buffoonery. And the women that do, trust and believe we don’t play that ish baby

    • @user-eu9xb1os9x
      @user-eu9xb1os9x หลายเดือนก่อน

      No not you, just step back.

  • @VictorAbiodun-yf6tw
    @VictorAbiodun-yf6tw 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    God bless you

  • @roshaunlawrence6444
    @roshaunlawrence6444 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯

  • @sbo147
    @sbo147 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only ones want to marry for wrong reasons will see this as bad!wife stays home do house work man go to work money is for house expenses not that you won't get money to help your family at home you communicate only man who go to other countries for selfish reasons will be alarmed

  • @deryckpitt3947
    @deryckpitt3947 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    when in rome etc,etc,etc

  • @carolinebarnett9848
    @carolinebarnett9848 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Obisan are you married to a Japanese?

  • @AdoptedCats
    @AdoptedCats 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is part of Japanese traditions for long time.
    The husbands trust every account to his wife to manage whole household, foods, rent, electric bills.
    You can talk to your Japanese wife for save money to go to Africa and for visas in the options first, if you talk to them they will understand.
    Japan is one marriage, one wife and one husbandman policy, instead some African men got multiple wives, this is not works.
    Remember, 2nd largest groups in Japan are A and B haplogroups which are African gene.
    The largest one is D haplotype, Jyomon people who are related to DE haplotypes which is E1b1a is West African, E1b1b is East Africans and North.
    So, you talking about Africa, the 2/3rd of Japanese are African descendants in Haplotypes, D1b, A and B Haplotypes.
    In Nigeria there is D0 haplotype in Delta States which is identical with Japanese DNA.

    • @obisantvlog
      @obisantvlog  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow! I just learnt a lot from this ur comment,very educative.Thanks for sharing this ur comment packed with knowledge with obisantvlog🙏🏿

    • @ifeadiodenigbo9230
      @ifeadiodenigbo9230 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How is Nigerian haplotyoe identical to Japanese I need more context

    • @AdoptedCats
      @AdoptedCats ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ifeadiodenigbo9230 Check D2. It is Japanese Jyomon Haplogroup, but also identified in Delta State, Nigeria with local populations. (D0 and D2 are same.)

    • @hopehigh845
      @hopehigh845 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Please which tribe in Delta state? U know we have lot of tribes in Delta?

    • @AdoptedCats
      @AdoptedCats ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hopehigh845 Yes, Japanese Jyomon Ainu People and Okinawa Ryukyu Islanders are D1b and D2. Majorities are D2. The Nigerian Bantu Populations in Delta States are D0. The D2 and D0 are exact same origin in DNA. I'm not sure which tribe is D0 in Delta State, why don't you find out for me?

  • @khalilunited1930
    @khalilunited1930 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why trapped bro? There's no divorce in Japan ?

  • @user-cs9ms5bt8h
    @user-cs9ms5bt8h 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro every where in the world get good and bad persons, if you are lucky u will get the right woman.. not all is bad thanks 🙏

  • @eugenemarquard5045
    @eugenemarquard5045 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's because you Nigerian. You don't represent Africa. Nigerians want to just leave Africa..somehow the world are fooled about you guys. I am African but know how to represent. You are honest though.

  • @williehoward7438
    @williehoward7438 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Nothing against noone but i just stick with my own race

  • @anthonypatrick3824
    @anthonypatrick3824 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing...😂😂😂😂😂😂tori worwor tori worwor...oooo

  • @theopisterleonard6036
    @theopisterleonard6036 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Africa is not poor we have lots of resources

    • @deadmao5814
      @deadmao5814 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Resource all belongs to chinese

    • @RachelX-dq7nr
      @RachelX-dq7nr หลายเดือนก่อน

      Still can't feed yourself

  • @Kanubis1
    @Kanubis1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    classic video

  • @abdullahidangoggo
    @abdullahidangoggo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Na wa oo naija

  • @phil5689
    @phil5689 ปีที่แล้ว

    So one dollar can buy all those things you mentioned in Japan?

  • @manayesh
    @manayesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why don't Nigerians in diaspora start a movement and pour their financial resources into it to resolve Nigerian problems so that Nigerians can stop always wishing to leave their country?
    Like us south africans. We challenge our gvt. We don't run around all over the world.

    • @Craig-pm2kc
      @Craig-pm2kc 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because you are fleeing tethers.

  • @mikeblackist
    @mikeblackist 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why trapped? Just say you go to the shop to buy milk for the baby and never come back. Like you do in the Western world…

  • @JoJoe07
    @JoJoe07 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omo japa

  • @tracymurray3395
    @tracymurray3395 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you married to a Japanese woman??

  • @destinyhussle1353
    @destinyhussle1353 ปีที่แล้ว

    His right but the way he present the content, Africa as a whole are in deep financial crisis's, you tell me which better AFRICAN country 🤦

  • @t_rxley
    @t_rxley ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So it's not a trap, it's tradition.

  • @charlenedula3049
    @charlenedula3049 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel no sympathy for them! They know what the Bible said about marrying outside of your race!

  • @hopehigh845
    @hopehigh845 ปีที่แล้ว

    How can u be trapped in a marriage that u can divorce?

    • @IKENAK
      @IKENAK ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In Japan the law does not favour outsiders.

    • @docaz9453
      @docaz9453 ปีที่แล้ว

      she will take your money and children and deport you

  • @ijeomanora8208
    @ijeomanora8208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SO NO JOB FOR WOMEN THERE

    • @obisantvlog
      @obisantvlog  ปีที่แล้ว

      There is too much job for everyone living in Japan but mostly “The lazy ones” don’t like to work.
      Thanks for ur feedback 🙏🏿

  • @chiomapeggy8866
    @chiomapeggy8866 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come ad marry me

    • @saidabdi73
      @saidabdi73 ปีที่แล้ว

      how old are your 😊

  • @Artsence55
    @Artsence55 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    No one feel bad your Japanese women left you

  • @salandrew
    @salandrew ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro why u are not replying to messages on Instagram