They can’t sit with themselves alone, they know, and they do suffer from their own conscious battling their decision making. Screw them, they will learn, warn them if you want and then remove your presence for good. They will get theirs eventually.
They cannot put themselves in other peoples shoes. When they do psychotherapy and learn mindfulness they are able to begin to understand. This is tied into empathy. They mentally are not able to see the consequences of their actions on others- only their own needs.
Same here! Mine abandoned myself and our children, but he still plays the victim. They need a reality check and to be humbled, they are just evil and I will never ever feel sorry for an emotional abuser’s childhood when they are the destroyers of lives.
They DO KNOW it, that's why they wear A MASK and don't want anyone to see the REAL THEM! If a narc was truly PROUD of who they were, then they wouldn't need to wear a mask!
Haven't even started the video, but they feel threatened when you move on. My ex had personality disorder. They never expect you to move on and heal. They likely go into shock when you permanently block them after the discard. Even if you chased them a bit in the very beginning. They may never admit it, but they feel threatened and hate seeing you get on with your life .
Yup me ex wife moved in with my parents we have a child together convinced them she is wonderful and that we need to reunite and have more children she is sick they are now seeing she is a user and a loser they said she is in shock that I cut her off
This video has been the story of my life for the last four months. This week, I finally saw the light, and decided to learn and grow from that terrifying experience
I have been going through something similar for 5 months. I did not know what a narcissist really was. Said a lot of dumb things trying to help her. I am surprised we did not end sooner. I wanted to be there for her and thought I could be a shoulder to cry on. I still think there is a part of her that cared for me. I have seen it. I can't help myself. How can I help them? I am truly broken. I have learned to cry. All I do is cry. Everyone thinks I am crazy. I have no support from anyone. I don't trust anyone. I have built myself up from the ashes repeatedly. I will do it again. I think this experience was meant to happen. An awaking from our savior. I have researched TH-cam videos for hours and hours each day. Not for vengeance but to figure things out and heal myself. I will always care about her and the things I told her, I really meant. They were not lies. I hope she finds the right path. I want her to find peace and love in the afterlife. I know I will. I do love you babe. Goodbye Wolfie
With me almost dying it exposed him to everyone that knows him and everyone that doesn’t know him, that he now has ties to. Let that sink in-👈🏻 His parents and family which I call the devils rejects can no longer hide who he is. Not even his grandma. Doesn’t matter the truth is so deep and once anyone sees this for what it is it won’t be seen any other way. That’s called the TRUTH👈🏻😓🤯👈🏻
It took about a year and a half after I started moving my way up out of the relationship for it to finally end. It did not happen fast but I put my energy into fulfilling things. I got hobbies and worked on my self. I started caring about my appearance. I was so run down, did not care about myself at all, and instead of getting beaten down, I used my anger and all that negative energy and turned it into fuel for good. He finally got tired of it and "discarded" me.
Do they actually think we enjoy their company? Lol! They do such cunning craziness! Thank you for what you're doing here brother. Have gotten so much stronger, wiser and learning alot now.
I’ve always been a strong independent person. However, my aging narcissistic (covert) mother got nastier and nastier towards. I tried to point out the word salads, gaslighting, etc, but this only made matters worse. Went no contact at age 55.
I’m giving myself a time limit I have nothing left but my determination but I have a time limit before I’m on the street n I’m going to fight to keep moving into a better place after 15 yrs I can’t take another hit now my son is dead n I’m at yr three after my partner was abusing me financially mentally emotionally n the beatings n put downs even if I had a tear or my face showed anything but a smile for him
Want you to know these videos are very helpful For those who are learning about how they have been abused God bless you 🙏 even if there's no way out and can't completely avoid them you can and should build boundaries sky high if they don't like it they can leave😊😊 😊😊😊😊
I became friends with a narcissist who is obsessed with someone half their age and across the world. She became my friend not because she liked me, but because she saw that I was one of their obsessions 'favorites' in chat. I saw the mirroring she would do to me and it was strange. She is like a reflection of everything her obsession does and says. She has high standards in how anyone talks or interacts with her obsession. I innocently posted something 'wrong' (a gif of a girl in lingerie) which set her off on me the first time. I knew already that other people talking about sex or posting lude pictures bothered her, but I did not think a girl in lingerie was an issue (we were talking about a movie, and I posted a gif of a scene in the movie) I was dumb and apologized. Gave her another chance (which I bet in her narcy mind she was giving ME another chance) Another night we're just watching a movie in a stream, I send a bunch of emojis to her object of afection (including a heart emoji somewhere in there) He is the streaming host and I always do the same thing every day. She absolutely goes INSANE on me in private messages. I had no idea why for the longest time I had no idea what I did wrong. I moved on from whatever I had said and was just enjoying the movie. She eventually told me that because I put out a heart emoji, other random people in chat might interpret that as ME and her object of affection are 'together' It was RIDICULOUS!!! Then she goes on to tell me about how Im toxic and my relationship standards are shit. me: "Who CARES what other random people think!!??" her: "I CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK VERY MUCH!!!!!!" me: "Well youre not seeing it from my point of view" her: "Of course not because I only see it through MY point of view!!" I blocked her, but I decided to still attend the streams and just not care what she says. So far she is being very good at trying to ignore everything I say in general chat. But at the same time she knows her object of affection is watching, so she HAS to reply to me sometimes otherwise it will tip him off that somethings wrong. I get some kind of sick pleasure in being present when I know she'd rather never see mee again. I know too much about her and her paranoia. Now Im the #1 threat to her just being there, she knows I could say one sentence and absolutely ruin her plan of grooming this man that shes set her sights on. But chances are hes just using her for her massive donations she gives him all the time. I just think its funny at this point to be in the chat unbothered, talking to people I know she hates. (she sees every female in chat as a direct threat to her 'relationship') so now Im being friendly and making those females feel welcome to be in there lol.
Interesting little fragments and thought provoking Joe! Q. In reality, is there any difference between a Cluster B and AI? Supposedly, AI will learn and can learn exponentially, infinitely, but it will never be human. No, AI will not. At some point… AI will fall into the same trapped cage of black or white just like the Cluster B and so gives birth to the imagined illusion to create its greatest escape only to find itself back into the same trap. Ones and zeros. Yes and no. Not once giving thought to faith, hope, and will. It is a terrible thing to miss someone, ask a sniper! 😂 A human can seek self-forgiveness, heal, rebuild, and evolve. AI will be able to reboot itself and conduct its own maintenance. A Cluster B … endless loop of pain and suffering. Anywho… thanks 🙏
omg when i finally realized what he was and said to him youre a narcissist..he said no im not.....my therapist says im not...well the "thereapist" was the one his daughter was seeing and he went in a couple times....he was payiing her alot for the daughter so she wasnt gonna tell him the truth....
We won a game we didn't know we played lololol
I honestly don't understand how they can do the horrible stuff they do and not think their trash.
They can’t sit with themselves alone, they know, and they do suffer from their own conscious battling their decision making. Screw them, they will learn, warn them if you want and then remove your presence for good. They will get theirs eventually.
They cannot put themselves in other peoples shoes. When they do psychotherapy and learn mindfulness they are able to begin to understand. This is tied into empathy. They mentally are not able to see the consequences of their actions on others- only their own needs.
Same here!
Mine abandoned myself and our children, but he still plays the victim.
They need a reality check and to be humbled, they are just evil and I will never ever feel sorry for an emotional abuser’s childhood when they are the destroyers of lives.
They DO KNOW it, that's why they wear A MASK and don't want anyone to see the REAL THEM! If a narc was truly PROUD of who they were, then they wouldn't need to wear a mask!
Haven't even started the video, but they feel threatened when you move on. My ex had personality disorder. They never expect you to move on and heal. They likely go into shock when you permanently block them after the discard. Even if you chased them a bit in the very beginning. They may never admit it, but they feel threatened and hate seeing you get on with your life .
Yup me ex wife moved in with my parents we have a child together convinced them she is wonderful and that we need to reunite and have more children she is sick they are now seeing she is a user and a loser they said she is in shock that I cut her off
This video has been the story of my life for the last four months. This week, I finally saw the light, and decided to learn and grow from that terrifying experience
I have been going through something similar for 5 months. I did not know what a narcissist really was. Said a lot of dumb things trying to help her. I am surprised we did not end sooner. I wanted to be there for her and thought I could be a shoulder to cry on. I still think there is a part of her that cared for me. I have seen it. I can't help myself. How can I help them? I am truly broken. I have learned to cry. All I do is cry. Everyone thinks I am crazy. I have no support from anyone. I don't trust anyone. I have built myself up from the ashes repeatedly. I will do it again. I think this experience was meant to happen. An awaking from our savior. I have researched TH-cam videos for hours and hours each day. Not for vengeance but to figure things out and heal myself. I will always care about her and the things I told her, I really meant. They were not lies. I hope she finds the right path. I want her to find peace and love in the afterlife. I know I will. I do love you babe. Goodbye Wolfie
Follow Your Own Light……❤
With me almost dying it exposed him to everyone that knows him and everyone that doesn’t know him, that he now has ties to. Let that sink in-👈🏻
His parents and family which I call the devils rejects can no longer hide who he is. Not even his grandma. Doesn’t matter the truth is so deep and once anyone sees this for what it is it won’t be seen any other way. That’s called the TRUTH👈🏻😓🤯👈🏻
Man, that one random google changed everything for me 😂 A textbook Eureka moment
It took about a year and a half after I started moving my way up out of the relationship for it to finally end. It did not happen fast but I put my energy into fulfilling things. I got hobbies and worked on my self. I started caring about my appearance. I was so run down, did not care about myself at all, and instead of getting beaten down, I used my anger and all that negative energy and turned it into fuel for good. He finally got tired of it and "discarded" me.
Exactly where I’m at. Thankyou Joe. You have been & are a massive part of my healing journey. God bless you 🙏🏻❤️❤️
Joe, you have such a gift with words. Thank you so much for sharing. 🤍
Do they actually think we enjoy their company? Lol! They do such cunning craziness! Thank you for what you're doing here brother. Have gotten so much stronger, wiser and learning alot now.
How you break the nuances down is crazy‼️💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎
I’ve always been a strong independent person. However, my aging narcissistic (covert) mother got nastier and nastier towards. I tried to point out the word salads, gaslighting, etc, but this only made matters worse. Went no contact at age 55.
Hello Joe B an everyone on tha channel let's all stay strong 🙏
Thank you for all your messages. I dont often comment but I watch your videos and get great support from them. ❤😊
Brilliant
That’s where they mess up. I’ve quit addictions cold turkey before. I know what it takes. Once I’m done I’m done.😂
I’m giving myself a time limit I have nothing left but my determination but I have a time limit before I’m on the street n I’m going to fight to keep moving into a better place after 15 yrs I can’t take another hit now my son is dead n I’m at yr three after my partner was abusing me financially mentally emotionally n the beatings n put downs even if I had a tear or my face showed anything but a smile for him
Want you to know these videos are very helpful For those who are learning about how they have been abused God bless you 🙏 even if there's no way out and can't completely avoid them you can and should build boundaries sky high if they don't like it they can leave😊😊 😊😊😊😊
Very enjoyable, lovely images , thank you Joe for one more gift ! 🎁🤗❤
She acts really cool and unbothered. It’s amazing how cold and soulless she is. Truly believes she did nothing wrong. So freaking delusional
I became friends with a narcissist who is obsessed with someone half their age and across the world. She became my friend not because she liked me, but because she saw that I was one of their obsessions 'favorites' in chat. I saw the mirroring she would do to me and it was strange. She is like a reflection of everything her obsession does and says. She has high standards in how anyone talks or interacts with her obsession. I innocently posted something 'wrong' (a gif of a girl in lingerie) which set her off on me the first time. I knew already that other people talking about sex or posting lude pictures bothered her, but I did not think a girl in lingerie was an issue (we were talking about a movie, and I posted a gif of a scene in the movie) I was dumb and apologized. Gave her another chance (which I bet in her narcy mind she was giving ME another chance)
Another night we're just watching a movie in a stream, I send a bunch of emojis to her object of afection (including a heart emoji somewhere in there) He is the streaming host and I always do the same thing every day. She absolutely goes INSANE on me in private messages. I had no idea why for the longest time I had no idea what I did wrong. I moved on from whatever I had said and was just enjoying the movie.
She eventually told me that because I put out a heart emoji, other random people in chat might interpret that as ME and her object of affection are 'together' It was RIDICULOUS!!! Then she goes on to tell me about how Im toxic and my relationship standards are shit.
me: "Who CARES what other random people think!!??"
her: "I CARE WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK VERY MUCH!!!!!!"
me: "Well youre not seeing it from my point of view"
her: "Of course not because I only see it through MY point of view!!"
I blocked her, but I decided to still attend the streams and just not care what she says. So far she is being very good at trying to ignore everything I say in general chat. But at the same time she knows her object of affection is watching, so she HAS to reply to me sometimes otherwise it will tip him off that somethings wrong. I get some kind of sick pleasure in being present when I know she'd rather never see mee again. I know too much about her and her paranoia. Now Im the #1 threat to her just being there, she knows I could say one sentence and absolutely ruin her plan of grooming this man that shes set her sights on. But chances are hes just using her for her massive donations she gives him all the time. I just think its funny at this point to be in the chat unbothered, talking to people I know she hates. (she sees every female in chat as a direct threat to her 'relationship') so now Im being friendly and making those females feel welcome to be in there lol.
I put her shit in storage, changed the locks and have been no contact for 4 months! Good bye pinnochihoe
Interesting little fragments and thought provoking Joe!
Q. In reality, is there any difference between a Cluster B and AI?
Supposedly, AI will learn and can learn exponentially, infinitely, but it will never be human. No, AI will not. At some point… AI will fall into the same trapped cage of black or white just like the Cluster B and so gives birth to the imagined illusion to create its greatest escape only to find itself back into the same trap. Ones and zeros. Yes and no. Not once giving thought to faith, hope, and will.
It is a terrible thing to miss someone, ask a sniper! 😂
A human can seek self-forgiveness, heal, rebuild, and evolve.
AI will be able to reboot itself and conduct its own maintenance.
A Cluster B … endless loop of pain and suffering.
Anywho… thanks 🙏
omg when i finally realized what he was and said to him youre a narcissist..he said no im not.....my therapist says im not...well the "thereapist" was the one his daughter was seeing and he went in a couple times....he was payiing her alot for the daughter so she wasnt gonna tell him the truth....
1 in 3.. the therapist probably a narc too
@@greg9069 omg your right
@@greg9069totally agree, I went to one, man she was full of herself
Love your videos 👋👋👋👋
One word sums up your whole video........."empathy "Duh