I can very much relate to this. Choosing personalities is NOT something humans should even be doing! It should just come naturally! The fact we even have to decide feels wrong, but we are compelled to due to that internal emptiness.
I've been working on living with these shifts for over a decade now, mine are very distinct theres the adult /responseable me who just gets on and deals with things, the late teen/early twenties me who wants to have fun and dosen't care what others want or say, and the child me who is in need of reasurance and care. Would be fine if I knew which me I would be and could choose the right one at the right time. It all takes work. Thank you for talking about this.
@@tinnitusisnotmusic6807 when able I will going to a play ground and play on the swings. It helps me settle, seem's odd a 40yr old doing that but it works for me.
I feel this I have three personalities too. Adult me, who go to work, pay bills, are responsible. Then it’s teenage me, who have anger outburst, hate people, lash out, and then it’s little me, she is five years old, and want to be taken care of and is desperate to be seen and heard. She attatched to other adults, and want them to love her. Then The teenage me pushes people away, and hate The little girl. Then it’s me, my actual age, 34 years old, and can handle life. My therapist ended my therapy on thursday, and I’ve been switchboard between little me and teenage me, and I have also been able to be adult me and go to work.
BPD affects our inner workings and more subconscious behaviours and processes so it can be really difficult to put these matters into words. Something I've found to be very rich in the BPD community is the opportunity for self-realisation through hearing about a shared 'BPD' experience from another person's perspective. Really appreciate the honesty, it helps give the rest of us a step up.
Thank you for being the person who I can trust right now. My surroundings don't bother to try and understand me so they just yell at me whenever I shift, that way it's probably easier for them. I was getting so lost in dark thoughts just now, happy I saw your video at this exact moment. Thank you again for making others feel understood 💝🍀
Not sure if this is what you’re going through but I’m just sharing my input. I also have BPD and one of the main symptoms I go through is heavy dissociation. When I experience that, sometimes I can feel not myself and my therapist told me once that i “do not feel safe to be myself in my own body” so i tend to take on traits or personalities of other people, whether fictional or not or people i make up in my head to cope with what im going through, so my brain can feel like whatever im going through can happen to “someone else”. I believe it’s a coping and a defense mechanism so I can detach myself from what im feeling so I don’t have to feel everything so personally. It isn’t purposeful, it’s an unconscious decision where a grounding practice should come in to stop it. There’s a theory called Structural Dissociation that includes BPD and others in three different types of structural dissociation. Many can make it seem like it’s similar to OSDD (a type of Dissociative Identity Disorder) where our personality is somewhat fragmented to many different pieces or emotions but not fully distinct different personalities like in DID. However with BPD, you can remember mostly everything when dissociating between different emotions. There are many sources you can find on different websites about it. It isn’t talked about MUCH but there is a good few amount of research and sources about it. Not sure if you can relate as much but it’s what I’ve been going through as another pwBPD and just wanted to share my experience like yours. (There’s more to this but I didn’t want to type too much)
Doctors told me people with BPD feel everything more extremely.... so minor amusement becomes ecstatic, sadness becomes depression, irritation becomes rage, minor acquaintances can seem like life long friends, self loathing becomes full on self deletion, disinterest becomes sociopathy, slight ego boosts become delusions of grandeur.... and so many more. I have done a good job of keeping myself numb and trying to be a good person... but it is not easy to be a good person when you feel so much.
Just thought I'd mention that folks with autism (me) also do that. Copying and taking on character's personality traits for a while after coming out of a theater. Mimicking accents, mannerisms, vocal inflection, etc.
Your a wonderful guy with a lovely personality, hope you make me more videos I too have bpd and your videos are helping me explain to others how I’m feeling especially my mother and key people in my life right now. thank you for you for talking about this! ❤️
You know I have always been a numb guy... feeling nothing inside... I always thought I'm just a narcissist or sociopath or a bed person in general... but I was recently diagnosed with BPD after a breakdown at work. Apparently all that extroverted activities, self cutting and narcissistic stuff I did was not for my ego, but to not be alone. Ironic that someone as numb as me turned out to be super sensitive... I guess growing up poor I had to numb myself. Turns out mental illnesses are not an affliction.... they are not what you have or get... they are what you are. And To be honest, we just have to learn to live with it.
What I believe is that these are not different personalities, but another parts of your "self". Another facets of it. It is like, in BPD you have a disintagrated self, and therefore comes the feeling of emptyness. In a way that what you experienced is like a quick transation beetween all those self states. Maybe the darkness trigered it? Because after experiencing the darkness, you saw what should had been there. All those personalities. What i think is not that you have to "choose" the best of them, but to accept them all. Reflect about them. Learn their strenghts and their weaknesses. So in that way you can learn and develop them, bring them to that darkness you speak of in a way that you will be able to manage them all
This video really came at the right time for me. I have been struggling with my identity lately. I just finished my last works i had to do for my school to become textile artist. I have been under a lot of stress. My daughters boyfriend died in a car accident with two other students few weeks ago. Two days after that started war in Ukraine. It has been many things to take care of. Daughters dog moved to my house so It took me to another personal space. It is hard to explain because my main language is finnish. Anyways I have a lot of different personal types in me. One is a person who works with big dogs and horses. I have tried to leave it behind me, but it has started to take ower again now when the dog moved to us. I have difficulties to combine the textile artist part of myself to the dog/horse person I have other personalities too. So now I wonder again who I am and what I want. I am scared as a little child trying to build me up. Thank you for you courage to speak about these things. I would like to know more about peoples personality and identity problems in bpd and cptsd. I have read about did, but it is not the same. Much love to you and your girlfriend. I have been with my soon to be husband for 13 years and we are very happy together.He has been amazing support but I also support him as much I can.
you’re not alone don’t forget that you’re also not crazy. I also struggle with questioning who I am and it’s rough bless your partner for being patient tho and props for being able to be open to her it’s great you have somebody to help you! Don’t lose her. That’s a serious thing u got going there if somebody cares about u that much. But yeah I appreciate these vids a lot bc I feel crazy sometimes thinking I’m the only one feeling this way. I love the end of this video tho. Keep pushing!!💓
Hello thank you for this video............ I was diagnosed with. BPD about 20 years ago I do have bipolar disorder as well but I could relate to what you were saying today it’s helped..because a lot of people do not understandI BPD at allI I try to explain myself about this but they just don’t get it..............kim🇬🇧
I shift multiple times a day. A hour ago, I felt like a five year abandoned girl that was left alone. I called The E.R in desperation, was told to come in in two hours. Then suddenly I feel like everything change and I’m back to being a strong adult that can ha dle this. So i called back to tell, it was ok now. I feel so ashamed. I’ve talked alot with diffrent therapist to NOT act impulsive, but I’m not able to not do that when I’m in that state.
Thank you for the video. It really does help to validate the things that i go through. I too have personality switches. and they are intense! I can't really do much about it. I don't really know how to snap myself of it. But i am curious if you or anyone in the comments here ever deals with anger or maybe should even say RAGE. It sometimes comes out of nowhere and I feel almost like a volocano erupting in my head and i feel like if I don't let it out in some way that I just might die!! But I also deal with bi polar and cptsd and panic attacks too so i guess that could be just about anything! Also you are correct about having someone to talk to.It is I believe the most important aspect of snapping yourself out of the personality changes.
Yes, I’m absolutely with you on this one - sometimes it feels like if I’m not to let my anger and frustration out, I might just explode.. BUT - this is fine, IF you recognise you are starting to feel rage and you exert it in a healthy way. Try squeezing something as hard as humanly possible to tire yourself out, or doing some exercise. I find this helps!
I wanted to tell you that i've made some connections in a mental health group that i'm in and we kinda help each other through some tough times.. Your videos specifically have made a huge difference in the life of a wonderful person who is struggling to deal with her bpd. I just wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart on behalf of lots and lots of people! You sir are really making a difference in this world! I wanted to ask.. if it were possible that bpd could be flipped to the positive... as in AN ABILITY as opposed to a disability that we just dont know how to use yet... how would that look?
I wouldn't call that personality switching but more like a spiral, personally it happened a lot to me during my bad time a year ago, I was batshit crazy, completely nuts, now I am just an ordinary man with BPD annoying me here and there, but life's good and I am grateful I didn't hurt myself back then. I do however think there are personality switches in BPD, during those times I was a completely different person, people would tell me how it feels like they're talking to someone else if they didn't see me for a period of time. My political views, social views, interests , worries, temperament and more.. they all changed from the extreme to more reasonable and moderate views. To be honest, I hate the personality I had a year ago.
This happened to my bf... who I have dated on and off for 25 years. The new version is not like the original. Now I'm worried that the version of him I fell in love with no longer exists. My bf claims that version was too weak to survive. But I fear the new version has more narcissistic personality traits and cares less about me sometimes. Less empathy. Can you briefly talk about your switches? We're the older versions more "weak" in your mind?
This is a very destructive disorder to anyone putting up with it. These people really need a lot of psychological help. it is totally unfair to put this burden on others. Just like the narcissist, it is selfish and anxiety-driven. Your girlfriend is a very special person to stick with you. Most normal/balanced people would not put up with it, especially when you are an adult. speaking from someone on the other side observing, it is a mental mess my heart goes out to anyone who has the cluster B personality disorder. I would not deal with it.
I find these videos very helpful with my bpd. Bpd is not the same as narcissist. Most often we have been victims by narcissists. Your comment is very rude and I feel sorry for you. You must have issues with your self for putting other people down for their illnesses. Narcissist perhaps?
@@ruusamaantytar Thank you for responding. These are the facts 1. No one is responsible for the way they were born. 2. Mental health illness is a very complex health problem. 3. There are no CURES for mental health. NONE! short of a lobectomy! (fact) If there was a cure my comments would be null and void. Therapy and drugs are only available to ALLEVIATE the PROBLEM and do not always work. You are right I do have issues with myself, I am fully controlled and aware of them at all times. NEVER cause PAIN or HARM to others. Show me, someone who does not have issues, then show me someone with issues and lack of self-awareness who is unable to manage them, causing PAIN to others because of their SELFISH, IMPULSIVE, ANXIETY driven, OVERLY EMOTIONAL, DRAMATIC crazy behavior ... So to your point, we must all choose who and what we want to deal with.
@@dc56789 Thank you for responding, like I said I have witnessed this behavior. it is very real and destructive to the person with BPD and to others around them. I do not care about sensitivity I care about facts. It is self disstructive, it ALWAYS causes PAIN, to self and others, It disrupts lives @ work and home or all where it exists. Sensitivity applies to all therapists I am not. I sincerely hope you are seeing a therapist daily because that's what it takes for BPD to survive one day each due to switching and changing with different personalities one min. to the next. I UNDERSTAND mental health very well, some with the illness do not bother anyone ever, they are quiet and pleasant. Others with CLUSTER B including (BPD) are totally opposite and difficult to deal with. If they are not projecting onto others they are screaming and shouting, ABUSIVE and insulting. NEVER accepting their responsibilities. *** I do know whatever we may experience in our lives it should NEVER EVER HURT AND DESTROY OTHERS, that is a boundary NO ONE should cross. Keep your CRAZY to your self no one should have to be hurt or feel the wroth you expel moment by moment day by day every day. Find a therapist who is willing and able to handle you, most of them can't, that is why you have to go to therapy for the rest of your life!! sorry, the truth hurts, use it to get daily help for the remainder of your life.
@@dc56789 You are totally BPD, telling me I have Cluster B is literally projecting onto others, again, another symptom of the disease. Empathy does not spear anyone in a court of law I am sure judges have empathy when they make their decision, but wrong is wrong because I may understand what you've done or feel sorry for you does not make a situation right and should not. It's very very simple. You need therapy to survive.
@@dc56789 Once again your BPD is showing out each time, now you are shifting and blaming, already you have demonstrated your need for help. Your first comment showed your overly sensitive and emotional state, 2nd showed projection and your 3rd. showed your shifting and blaming. Please do not allow me to cause you to trigger, it's not worth your obvious distress. You will never be in a position to deal with this.
I can very much relate to this. Choosing personalities is NOT something humans should even be doing! It should just come naturally! The fact we even have to decide feels wrong, but we are compelled to due to that internal emptiness.
I've been working on living with these shifts for over a decade now, mine are very distinct theres the adult /responseable me who just gets on and deals with things, the late teen/early twenties me who wants to have fun and dosen't care what others want or say, and the child me who is in need of reasurance and care. Would be fine if I knew which me I would be and could choose the right one at the right time. It all takes work. Thank you for talking about this.
@@tinnitusisnotmusic6807 when able I will going to a play ground and play on the swings. It helps me settle, seem's odd a 40yr old doing that but it works for me.
I feel this I have three personalities too. Adult me, who go to work, pay bills, are responsible. Then it’s teenage me, who have anger outburst, hate people, lash out, and then it’s little me, she is five years old, and want to be taken care of and is desperate to be seen and heard. She attatched to other adults, and want them to love her. Then The teenage me pushes people away, and hate The little girl. Then it’s me, my actual age, 34 years old, and can handle life. My therapist ended my therapy on thursday, and I’ve been switchboard between little me and teenage me, and I have also been able to be adult me and go to work.
BPD affects our inner workings and more subconscious behaviours and processes so it can be really difficult to put these matters into words. Something I've found to be very rich in the BPD community is the opportunity for self-realisation through hearing about a shared 'BPD' experience from another person's perspective. Really appreciate the honesty, it helps give the rest of us a step up.
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Thank you for breaking it down so accurately, your vulnerability shows as a tremendous strength. Keep on my dude ✨much love your way 💌💌💌
Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate this!!
Thank you for being the person who I can trust right now. My surroundings don't bother to try and understand me so they just yell at me whenever I shift, that way it's probably easier for them.
I was getting so lost in dark thoughts just now, happy I saw your video at this exact moment. Thank you again for making others feel understood 💝🍀
Not sure if this is what you’re going through but I’m just sharing my input. I also have BPD and one of the main symptoms I go through is heavy dissociation. When I experience that, sometimes I can feel not myself and my therapist told me once that i “do not feel safe to be myself in my own body” so i tend to take on traits or personalities of other people, whether fictional or not or people i make up in my head to cope with what im going through, so my brain can feel like whatever im going through can happen to “someone else”. I believe it’s a coping and a defense mechanism so I can detach myself from what im feeling so I don’t have to feel everything so personally. It isn’t purposeful, it’s an unconscious decision where a grounding practice should come in to stop it. There’s a theory called Structural Dissociation that includes BPD and others in three different types of structural dissociation. Many can make it seem like it’s similar to OSDD (a type of Dissociative Identity Disorder) where our personality is somewhat fragmented to many different pieces or emotions but not fully distinct different personalities like in DID. However with BPD, you can remember mostly everything when dissociating between different emotions. There are many sources you can find on different websites about it. It isn’t talked about MUCH but there is a good few amount of research and sources about it. Not sure if you can relate as much but it’s what I’ve been going through as another pwBPD and just wanted to share my experience like yours. (There’s more to this but I didn’t want to type too much)
Doctors told me people with BPD feel everything more extremely.... so minor amusement becomes ecstatic, sadness becomes depression, irritation becomes rage, minor acquaintances can seem like life long friends, self loathing becomes full on self deletion, disinterest becomes sociopathy, slight ego boosts become delusions of grandeur.... and so many more.
I have done a good job of keeping myself numb and trying to be a good person... but it is not easy to be a good person when you feel so much.
Just thought I'd mention that folks with autism (me) also do that. Copying and taking on character's personality traits for a while after coming out of a theater. Mimicking accents, mannerisms, vocal inflection, etc.
Your a wonderful guy with a lovely personality, hope you make me more videos I too have bpd and your videos are helping me explain to others how I’m feeling especially my mother and key people in my life right now. thank you for you for talking about this! ❤️
You know I have always been a numb guy... feeling nothing inside... I always thought I'm just a narcissist or sociopath or a bed person in general... but I was recently diagnosed with BPD after a breakdown at work. Apparently all that extroverted activities, self cutting and narcissistic stuff I did was not for my ego, but to not be alone.
Ironic that someone as numb as me turned out to be super sensitive... I guess growing up poor I had to numb myself. Turns out mental illnesses are not an affliction.... they are not what you have or get... they are what you are. And To be honest, we just have to learn to live with it.
Yeah.
What I believe is that these are not different personalities, but another parts of your "self". Another facets of it. It is like, in BPD you have a disintagrated self, and therefore comes the feeling of emptyness. In a way that what you experienced is like a quick transation beetween all those self states. Maybe the darkness trigered it? Because after experiencing the darkness, you saw what should had been there. All those personalities. What i think is not that you have to "choose" the best of them, but to accept them all. Reflect about them. Learn their strenghts and their weaknesses. So in that way you can learn and develop them, bring them to that darkness you speak of in a way that you will be able to manage them all
This video really came at the right time for me. I have been struggling with my identity lately. I just finished my last works i had to do for my school to become textile artist. I have been under a lot of stress.
My daughters boyfriend died in a car accident with two other students few weeks ago. Two days after that started war in Ukraine. It has been many things to take care of.
Daughters dog moved to my house so It took me to another personal space. It is hard to explain because my main language is finnish. Anyways I have a lot of different personal types in me. One is a person who works with big dogs and horses. I have tried to leave it behind me, but it has started to take ower again now when the dog moved to us. I have difficulties to combine the textile artist part of myself to the dog/horse person I have other personalities too. So now I wonder again who I am and what I want. I am scared as a little child trying to build me up.
Thank you for you courage to speak about these things. I would like to know more about peoples personality and identity problems in bpd and cptsd. I have read about did, but it is not the same. Much love to you and your girlfriend. I have been with my soon to be husband for 13 years and we are very happy together.He has been amazing support but I also support him as much I can.
Thank you for your patience with yourself and all like u too 😢😰💫 it was SO SCARY 😦 I cannot believe you actually understand it
you’re not alone don’t forget that you’re also not crazy. I also struggle with questioning who I am and it’s rough bless your partner for being patient tho and props for being able to be open to her it’s great you have somebody to help you! Don’t lose her. That’s a serious thing u got going there if somebody cares about u that much. But yeah I appreciate these vids a lot bc I feel crazy sometimes thinking I’m the only one feeling this way. I love the end of this video tho. Keep pushing!!💓
Hello thank you for this video............ I was diagnosed with. BPD about 20 years ago I do have bipolar disorder as well but I could relate to what you were saying today it’s helped..because a lot of people do not understandI BPD at allI I try to explain myself about this but they just don’t get it..............kim🇬🇧
I shift multiple times a day. A hour ago, I felt like a five year abandoned girl that was left alone. I called The E.R in desperation, was told to come in in two hours. Then suddenly I feel like everything change and I’m back to being a strong adult that can ha dle this. So i called back to tell, it was ok now. I feel so ashamed. I’ve talked alot with diffrent therapist to NOT act impulsive, but I’m not able to not do that when I’m in that state.
Thank you so much for sharing this information. Keep on keeping on my friend!!!
This is so relatable
Good to see you again, thanks for sharing as always!
Great content, many thanks 👍👏👍👏😊
Yey so happy you are back again 😊
Thank you for the video. It really does help to validate the things that i go through. I too have personality switches. and they are intense! I can't really do much about it. I don't really know how to snap myself of it. But i am curious if you or anyone in the comments here ever deals with anger or maybe should even say RAGE. It sometimes comes out of nowhere and I feel almost like a volocano erupting in my head and i feel like if I don't let it out in some way that I just might die!! But I also deal with bi polar and cptsd and panic attacks too so i guess that could be just about anything! Also you are correct about having someone to talk to.It is I believe the most important aspect of snapping yourself out of the personality changes.
Yes, I’m absolutely with you on this one - sometimes it feels like if I’m not to let my anger and frustration out, I might just explode.. BUT - this is fine, IF you recognise you are starting to feel rage and you exert it in a healthy way. Try squeezing something as hard as humanly possible to tire yourself out, or doing some exercise. I find this helps!
I wanted to tell you that i've made some connections in a mental health group that i'm in and we kinda help each other through some tough times.. Your videos specifically have made a huge difference in the life of a wonderful person who is struggling to deal with her bpd. I just wanted to say thank you from the bottom of my heart on behalf of lots and lots of people! You sir are really making a difference in this world!
I wanted to ask.. if it were possible that bpd could be flipped to the positive... as in AN ABILITY as opposed to a disability that we just dont know how to use yet... how would that look?
I wouldn't call that personality switching but more like a spiral, personally it happened a lot to me during my bad time a year ago, I was batshit crazy, completely nuts, now I am just an ordinary man with BPD annoying me here and there, but life's good and I am grateful I didn't hurt myself back then.
I do however think there are personality switches in BPD, during those times I was a completely different person, people would tell me how it feels like they're talking to someone else if they didn't see me for a period of time.
My political views, social views, interests , worries, temperament and more.. they all changed from the extreme to more reasonable and moderate views.
To be honest, I hate the personality I had a year ago.
Appreciate you Reece.
This happened to my bf... who I have dated on and off for 25 years. The new version is not like the original. Now I'm worried that the version of him I fell in love with no longer exists. My bf claims that version was too weak to survive. But I fear the new version has more narcissistic personality traits and cares less about me sometimes. Less empathy. Can you briefly talk about your switches? We're the older versions more "weak" in your mind?
Bro just been watching too many redpill videos
@@raresabraleaks8216 ? red pill videos ?
Do you know if there's medication that reduces the number or intensity of these switches?
Thanks for this video it’s very helpful!!!!!
Thank you..know excactly ehat ypu meen even doctors wasright about doagnosrs ore not.
At what age where u first diagnosed (or realized) you have bpd
I think it's a bit of depersonalisation, where you just come up with the best version of you to get through an situation.
I get angry at myself like example I might drop something then pick it up then say I knock something behind me grrrr
Any advice on living with BPD and schizoaffective disorder both at the same time?
I call this "when I can hear my brain creak"
i think what you're describing is shifting through emotions, not personalities!
The shift in emotions lead to the changes in our personalities. Hence personality disorder.
Is there anyway to contact you personally by any chance as I'd like to ask you a few personal questions if it's alright
I am so tired of myself today
Here with you!
@@andrewhills5177 ✨❤️🤗you alright?
@@madison_drew I'll be ok hopefully haha, i'm sorry and thanks
@@andrewhills5177 ok ✅ I thought I’d check on ya I send you love ❤️ from my end , we will b alright bud! ✨✨✨
@@madison_drew thank you
Do you consider going back to therapy?
Do you have a lot of anger?
Jesus loves you so much and He will help you.
This is a very destructive disorder to anyone putting up with it. These people really need a lot of psychological help. it is totally unfair to put this burden on others. Just like the narcissist,
it is selfish and anxiety-driven. Your girlfriend is a very special person to stick with you. Most normal/balanced people would not put up with it, especially when you are an adult. speaking from someone on the other side observing, it is a mental mess my heart goes out to anyone who has the cluster B personality disorder. I would not deal with it.
I find these videos very helpful with my bpd. Bpd is not the same as narcissist. Most often we have been victims by narcissists. Your comment is very rude and I feel sorry for you. You must have issues with your self for putting other people down for their illnesses. Narcissist perhaps?
@@ruusamaantytar Thank you for responding. These are the facts 1. No one is responsible for the way they were born.
2. Mental health illness is a very complex health problem.
3. There are no CURES for mental health. NONE! short of a lobectomy! (fact)
If there was a cure my comments would be null and void. Therapy and
drugs are only available to ALLEVIATE the PROBLEM and do not always
work.
You are right I do have issues with myself, I am fully controlled and aware of them at all times. NEVER cause PAIN or HARM to others. Show me, someone who does not have issues, then show me someone with issues and lack of self-awareness who is unable to manage them, causing PAIN to others because of their SELFISH, IMPULSIVE, ANXIETY driven, OVERLY EMOTIONAL, DRAMATIC crazy behavior ...
So to your point, we must all choose who and what we want to deal with.
@@dc56789 Thank you for responding, like I said I have witnessed this behavior. it is very real and destructive to the person with BPD and to others around them. I do not care about sensitivity I care about facts. It is self disstructive, it ALWAYS causes PAIN, to self and others, It disrupts lives @ work and home or all where it exists. Sensitivity applies to all therapists I am not. I sincerely hope you are seeing a therapist daily because that's what it takes for BPD to survive one day each due to switching and changing with different personalities one min. to the next. I UNDERSTAND mental health very well, some with the illness do not bother anyone ever, they are quiet and pleasant. Others with CLUSTER B including (BPD) are totally opposite and difficult to deal with. If they are not projecting onto others they are screaming and shouting, ABUSIVE and insulting. NEVER accepting their responsibilities.
*** I do know whatever we may experience in our lives it should NEVER EVER HURT AND DESTROY OTHERS, that is a boundary NO ONE should cross. Keep your CRAZY to your self no one should have to be hurt or feel the wroth
you expel moment by moment day by day every day. Find a therapist who is willing and able to handle you, most of them can't, that is why you have to go to therapy for the rest of your life!! sorry, the truth hurts, use it to get daily help for the remainder of your life.
@@dc56789 You are totally BPD, telling me I have Cluster B is literally projecting onto others, again, another symptom of the disease. Empathy does not spear anyone in a court of law I am sure judges have empathy when they make their decision, but wrong is wrong because I may understand what you've done or feel sorry for you does not make a situation right and should not. It's very very simple. You need therapy to survive.
@@dc56789 Once again your BPD is showing out each time, now you are shifting and blaming, already you have demonstrated your need for help. Your first comment showed your overly sensitive and emotional state, 2nd showed projection and your 3rd. showed your shifting and blaming. Please do not allow me to cause you to trigger, it's not worth your obvious distress. You will never be in a position to deal with this.