Timestamps 1). Empathy 0:46 2). Active listening 1:22 3). Nonverbal communication 1:48 4). Emotional regulation 2:16 5). Social awareness 2:42 6). Conflict resolution 3:06 7). Perspective taking 3:32 8). Social adaptability 4:01 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
By talking about struggles, we inadvertently ended up creating a space where people can gather and feel included. And it's all thanks to everyone who opened up in the comment section :)
1:48 me and my best friend have mastered this to the point of holding a conversation without using a single word It’s really funny seeing the people around us having no idea what we’re doing lmao
@@kinny6823 facial expressions, aggressive hand motioning and a little bit of moving lips and trying to figure out what the other means We do sometimes create some specific motion code thing for names to make that easier
I have a fate upcoming early next week and I've been nervous because I can sometimes view myself as socially awkward. I haven't dated in quite a while- and having watched this video, I see that I regularly use these common practices every day, so I'm actually already completely prepared. I used to be more socially awkward- but after taking the time to work on myself and improve I now see that my fear was unfounded. Love the content
this channel has seriously made me appreciate psychology a lot ❤ i don't know if you have already talked about this topic but would you make a video about dependent personality disorder plzz? 💜💜
I do basically all these things, someone I need is a person who is a friend to me that can sit down, and just talk about stuff with me, like I do to some people
It reminded of my first year of middle school before summer vacation we were 4 to go home in the same direction and there was this girl at some point it was only the 2 of us and for some reason she cried a lot that day. I didn't know why and I still don't but thinking it back I should have hugged / console her.
Is it normal to not want to show empathy in order to not be manipulated (despite having it)? Like, I purposefully ignore it, so I don't end up doing stuff I later regret (and even like that, I can't completely shut down my empathy).
It's a natural defense mechanism to protect oneself. However, it's essential to find a balance. Empathy is a valuable trait, and it can lead to meaningful connections and understanding with others.
Hello Psych2Go! I am very thankful for the tips you gave me to become a better person, and have successfully gotten into a relationship. You genuinely earned my sub.
@@Psych2goCan you explain one thing to me? So what if I can easily gain someone's sympathy if my BPD won't allow me to build a deeper relationship anyway? I am professional in gaining sympathy, but what does it give me? Of course, it's nice when people feel good around me, I like to make them feel better, but if they disappear, I won't care in 99 %. A deep bond leads to me destroying everything. Gaining sympathy is easy but that's not what life is about
I'm curious to understand more about your perspective. is there a particular concern or experience that contributes to this feeling? Only if you don't mind me asking......
It`s so hard to build social skills when you are socially anxious and don`t sped time with people and even if you do, you are afraid to speak up because you`ll mess up something badly and look like a fool. Trying not to fit into those "introvert stereotypes" you mentioned in your previous video is almost impossible I can easily spot when others are beign weird but have zero information on myself when Im speaking up
That’s why we spend time with ourselves and begin to self discovery phase when you start pulling back layers in your life and discover who you are? Embrace your flaws and learn your strengths
@@Psych2go I noticing more and more that they rarely engaged in active listening or empathic perspective considerations. They are not a bad person, it was a compatibility issue, and I often found myself less energized the more we were around each other. My attempts to engage were fairly one sided. And that can fall on me too, I crave reciprocal engagement and had an unfair expectation/need that wasn’t going to try and force it out of them
Jup and it can improve almost like a light switch or turned up volume or contrast with the perfectly tiltrated adhd medication, maybe coffee, maybe insane amounts of sport. Randomness/unknown. Hard to say. Empathy is easy tho. I can confirm the two have no corrolation for some humans. It is not even close. Generally one seems useful, and one is philantropic.
Hey psych I was wondering if you could make a video on emotion suppression causes/effects of something along the lines of that I find it a serious issue and think it needs more awareness. I love your content it's help me in many situation and could help many more love you guys
Pls tell me things that can make a bad friendship....... Pls tell😢me and my friend had just broked friendship..... What did I do wrong I love my friend😭
Looks like in terms of social intelligence I scored a 25 out of 100. Felt like every time the narrator said "Have you ever felt..." all I could give was a resounding No. At least I'm doing better than before. 10 years ago I think I would have scored 10. Guess I've got my work cut out for me.
I require the absolute minimal social abilities. Nobody knows me. Thus, the ability to interact with someone is only utilised when interacting with a service provider, or a merchant. No further social abilities are necessary for me. Being social has far more negatives than positives. It is better to live life alone
there are different types of empathy that I already told you about in your other video you don't need to make eye contact to listen it can make you not listen since your so focused on the eyes people with certain conditons who grew up in certain households and cultures and trauma and life expernices can make someone struggle with eye contact neruodivergent people may struggle with social awareness
When I walk on the street then see someone is going in the opposite, both of us didn't stick the eyes in the phone or something like that. Face to face. This is the most awkward situation I've ever encountered. What should I do 🥺
0:50 Well yes, but no, I feel the empathy, but I sure as hell am not going to show it. If you feel shit and I touch you to console you, and you like it, you'll find the need to feel shit, to justify getting touched, in the long run. That's a no-no.
I am amazed at myself that i always maintain these qualities while interacting with others. And i think people really value the bond that they create with me. But unfortunately i dont feel the same way often. As a matter of fact most of the time i think i am having a formal conversation without giving much meaning between our relation and with no plan to develop any bond. I just have these qualities within me when i talk to people and they seem to misunderstand and think i am the one trying to become friends with them. Is something wrong with me for having such thoughts? Also, i try my best not to depend on others if i think that task can be done by my own efforts and while doing so others start to ask help. I try to help as much as i can but one person has become so much dependent on my words that they ask me for help about anything and everything. This situation let me to think that i am manipulating that person as that person asks for my opinion or advice for anything and everything. How should i approach that person? Btw, i never wanted to become friend with them but they think of me as a really really close friend. Any advice or thought about this situation will be really helpful and appreciated.
@Psych2go to caring, correcting me, whatever he sees unfit he makes sure he tells me what's right and wrong and no matter what he says is right and true ans no matter what I say is wrong.
Ahh yes... classic micromanaging... It's good that you distanced yourself from your friend. You don't want someone constantly judging you and and attempt to be your standard of right and wrong. Good on you for doing that.
@Psych2go the thing is, the way I left him was kinda messed up. It was very cowardly of me. Like, he's one of those people you can't really have a conversation with and find an understanding. He'll make sure he wins the conversation and have me reflecting on myself, so ik there was no point in talking to him so I left without him telling him the problem.
why does it seem like nobody sees me like people ignore me, my friends always joke about me and say that im fat and that i have a big forehead or my hairline like dude i just need someone to hug me like not a parent but a friend from school or a girl i feel like i could just start sobbing in their arms, like people always find a way to be mean to me like there is only so much someone can go through before you lose your temper like why why is everyone always laughing at me i am nice i help people im kind im a good person but everyone finds a way to be mean and even girls make fun of me like WTF!!
🫂I'm really sorry this is how they treat you, you deserve better than that, no one should be treated like that. It's important to remember that your worth is not determined by the opinions or comments of others.
What can you expect from high school kids? I guess one reason why they make fun of you is because maybe you're ugly, it's stupid but that's how idiots are, but don't listen to them, they're just a bunch of time suckers
HELP I don't want to be around people I don't want to do anything I feel very uncomfortable when I am out of my house I just cry cry and I feel I am acting stupid and I know I am acting but I can't help it. I know what's going in my mind but can't say it out or live it I hate myself I wanted to die but I don't have courage to die my parents deserves the best. What happened to me please tell me help
You should add subtitles in English by yourself while making videos cuz youtube subtitles sucks,it just kills the flow and sometimes it shows wrong subtitles and many big self improvement channels have their own subtitles in their videos-------This is my suggestion to improve your videos, love from India, keep it up😸❤️
Is it just me or the sound is just decreasing 😭.....its on full volume but barely hearable.... why her voice is so low 😭...its soothing but i can't hear properly 😢
Timestamps
1). Empathy 0:46
2). Active listening 1:22
3). Nonverbal communication 1:48
4). Emotional regulation 2:16
5). Social awareness 2:42
6). Conflict resolution 3:06
7). Perspective taking 3:32
8). Social adaptability 4:01
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
So quick with the time stamps :)
@@Psych2go thanks for the compliment 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Hope you have a good day too 🌟🤝
@@japalasindhu882 hope you have a nice day too 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thank you so much
This channel makes me realize that I’m not the only person that has trouble with these types of problems
Im an introverted ambivert so i like being social and i try to im just bad at it..
By talking about struggles, we inadvertently ended up creating a space where people can gather and feel included. And it's all thanks to everyone who opened up in the comment section :)
@@Back-in-BrackI'm an ambivert so I don't have so much social skills, but I'm very good at reading peoples body gestures, tone of voice, and such
No you aren’t. I struggled for many decades so now I just don’t go out anymore
@@Psych2goAnd I am deeply thankful for you Guys and all those WHO Dare to communicate Here in Comments and Share as Well. 🙏🏻🫂🥰
This made me realize that I’m better at socializing than I thought. I have social anxiety and knowing this helps me feel more confident.
That's an incredible realization!
Same dude same .
Good for you! 😊
As an introvert with social anxiety trying to improve my social skills this is super helpful.
Just hang out with people who make you feel comfortable
1:48 me and my best friend have mastered this to the point of holding a conversation without using a single word
It’s really funny seeing the people around us having no idea what we’re doing lmao
I’m interested. How is this possible? If I don’t have words I get very confused .-.
@@kinny6823 facial expressions, aggressive hand motioning and a little bit of moving lips and trying to figure out what the other means
We do sometimes create some specific motion code thing for names to make that easier
I have a fate upcoming early next week and I've been nervous because I can sometimes view myself as socially awkward. I haven't dated in quite a while- and having watched this video, I see that I regularly use these common practices every day, so I'm actually already completely prepared. I used to be more socially awkward- but after taking the time to work on myself and improve I now see that my fear was unfounded. Love the content
Let me know when she dumped and rejected you!
@@anderstermansen130your either too lonely or just a jerk.
Probably both
No idea if it's my mood right now or something else but hearing these words this morning (in my region) gives me a warm feeling of being alright.
this channel has seriously made me appreciate psychology a lot ❤
i don't know if you have already talked about this topic but would you make a video about dependent personality disorder plzz? 💜💜
I do basically all these things, someone I need is a person who is a friend to me that can sit down, and just talk about stuff with me, like I do to some people
I dont wanna be attractive, i just want to be socially smooth and NOT awkward 😭
This REALLY is life changing information. Thank you. ❤
Here's to positive changes and continued growth!❤
This was really interesting, thank you for sharing it.
Active listing is very powerful attitude to attract anyone
This Channel helps me so much in life on how I can improve. Thanks so much Psych2Go!
Phsych2Go is one of my favorite channels :)
Thank you for being so generous with your kindness ;)
@@Psych2go any time for you ❤️🩹
These will definitely help!
Time to work on social intelligence skills!
@@Psych2go Indeed, thx Psych2go! Love bending these type of videos y’all make
I love how instead of real doc pics, it’s the icons ❤
It reminded of my first year of middle school before summer vacation we were 4 to go home in the same direction and there was this girl at some point it was only the 2 of us and for some reason she cried a lot that day. I didn't know why and I still don't but thinking it back I should have hugged / console her.
Love this! Social intelligence is the most important kind, if you ask me. 😍
Thank you ❤
You're welcome 😊
Love this channel
Love this comment ❤❤
I was born socially awkward. It became part of my personal thesaurus since the very beginning of time.
How do you know you were born socially awkward?
@Psych2go You could be born symptoms like Autism and ADHD, which makes us naturally socially clueless.
Its kinda difficult for me as someone with Autism 😅
Just try your best! Thats the good thing, just trying, even if we dont acomplish certain things, by trying we are doing a good job!
I need more of this
We'll try and make more content like this :) What do you like about this video?
The voice in the background is so calming 🤩
What's her accent?
A beautiful video, I think that cultural difference can affect a big way
Is it normal to not want to show empathy in order to not be manipulated (despite having it)?
Like, I purposefully ignore it, so I don't end up doing stuff I later regret (and even like that, I can't completely shut down my empathy).
It's a natural defense mechanism to protect oneself. However, it's essential to find a balance.
Empathy is a valuable trait, and it can lead to meaningful connections and understanding with others.
Hello Psych2Go! I am very thankful for the tips you gave me to become a better person, and have successfully gotten into a relationship.
You genuinely earned my sub.
Thanks for sharing this
I just try to be friendly and smile at people's and listen to them.👀 I usually want to have more friends but it's hard.
Your positive and open attitude is a great foundation.
What’s very odd is I already do most of these on the regular
You must be a very attractive person with mad rizz :)
Mee too!!!
@@Psych2goimao! 😂
@@Psych2goCan you explain one thing to me? So what if I can easily gain someone's sympathy if my BPD won't allow me to build a deeper relationship anyway? I am professional in gaining sympathy, but what does it give me? Of course, it's nice when people feel good around me, I like to make them feel better, but if they disappear, I won't care in 99 %. A deep bond leads to me destroying everything. Gaining sympathy is easy but that's not what life is about
me watching this to be less attractive (too many people have had crushes on me) [I DONT WANNA BE IN A RELATIONSHIP] {im in one}
I'm curious to understand more about your perspective. is there a particular concern or experience that contributes to this feeling? Only if you don't mind me asking......
@@onnie1036 so like basically
i was NOT prepared, or ready, for that shit 😭
@@onnie1036say to them "NO" done,if you aren't prepared then NO,simple
It`s so hard to build social skills when you are socially anxious and don`t sped time with people and even if you do, you are afraid to speak up because you`ll mess up something badly and look like a fool. Trying not to fit into those "introvert stereotypes" you mentioned in your previous video is almost impossible
I can easily spot when others are beign weird but have zero information on myself when Im speaking up
That’s why we spend time with ourselves and begin to self discovery phase when you start pulling back layers in your life and discover who you are? Embrace your flaws and learn your strengths
I can’t believe I thought I was gonna sweep that asap verse under the rug… seemed like another day in the office. Mr.baties “don’t breed on me”
This helped me to understand why I wasn’t connecting well with my now ex😓
Did the relationship not end up because there were some social misunderstandings?
It's a valuable insight that can help you in future interactions and relationships.
@@Psych2go I noticing more and more that they rarely engaged in active listening or empathic perspective considerations. They are not a bad person, it was a compatibility issue, and I often found myself less energized the more we were around each other. My attempts to engage were fairly one sided. And that can fall on me too, I crave reciprocal engagement and had an unfair expectation/need that wasn’t going to try and force it out of them
Jup and it can improve almost like a light switch or turned up volume or contrast with the perfectly tiltrated adhd medication, maybe coffee, maybe insane amounts of sport. Randomness/unknown. Hard to say.
Empathy is easy tho. I can confirm the two have no corrolation for some humans. It is not even close. Generally one seems useful, and one is philantropic.
Everyone one should listen to this. Good advice 😅
Useful tip there
Yes
Hey psych I was wondering if you could make a video on emotion suppression causes/effects of something along the lines of that I find it a serious issue and think it needs more awareness. I love your content it's help me in many situation and could help many more love you guys
I really need to hone the majority of these skills as I sometimes find it difficult to interact with people close to my age.
Pls tell me things that can make a bad friendship.......
Pls tell😢me and my friend had just broked friendship.....
What did I do wrong I love my friend😭
Oh man I'm pretty sure half of your subscribers needed this... including me 😅🤭
Looks like in terms of social intelligence I scored a 25 out of 100. Felt like every time the narrator said "Have you ever felt..." all I could give was a resounding No. At least I'm doing better than before. 10 years ago I think I would have scored 10. Guess I've got my work cut out for me.
Personal growth is a continuous journey, and you're on the right path.
I require the absolute minimal social abilities. Nobody knows me. Thus, the ability to interact with someone is only utilised when interacting with a service provider, or a merchant. No further social abilities are necessary for me. Being social has far more negatives than positives. It is better to live life alone
Came here worried about my social skills and found out I already had these qualities lmfao
there are different types of empathy that I already told you about in your other video you don't need to make eye contact to listen it can make you not listen since your so focused on the eyes people with certain conditons who grew up in certain households and cultures and trauma and life expernices can make someone struggle with eye contact neruodivergent people may struggle with social awareness
Let's talk about this woman's voice thou 😊
When I walk on the street then see someone is going in the opposite, both of us didn't stick the eyes in the phone or something like that. Face to face. This is the most awkward situation I've ever encountered. What should I do 🥺
0:50 Well yes, but no, I feel the empathy, but I sure as hell am not going to show it.
If you feel shit and I touch you to console you, and you like it,
you'll find the need to feel shit, to justify getting touched, in the long run.
That's a no-no.
I am amazed at myself that i always maintain these qualities while interacting with others. And i think people really value the bond that they create with me. But unfortunately i dont feel the same way often. As a matter of fact most of the time i think i am having a formal conversation without giving much meaning between our relation and with no plan to develop any bond. I just have these qualities within me when i talk to people and they seem to misunderstand and think i am the one trying to become friends with them. Is something wrong with me for having such thoughts? Also, i try my best not to depend on others if i think that task can be done by my own efforts and while doing so others start to ask help. I try to help as much as i can but one person has become so much dependent on my words that they ask me for help about anything and everything. This situation let me to think that i am manipulating that person as that person asks for my opinion or advice for anything and everything. How should i approach that person? Btw, i never wanted to become friend with them but they think of me as a really really close friend. Any advice or thought about this situation will be really helpful and appreciated.
I left my friend i use to be with for 8 years due to his intelligence micro manageing me. Its all good though.
Be careful. 😊 you are showing your strength 😊😊🎉
What made you feel like he was micromanaging you?
@Psych2go to caring, correcting me, whatever he sees unfit he makes sure he tells me what's right and wrong and no matter what he says is right and true ans no matter what I say is wrong.
Ahh yes... classic micromanaging... It's good that you distanced yourself from your friend. You don't want someone constantly judging you and and attempt to be your standard of right and wrong. Good on you for doing that.
@Psych2go the thing is, the way I left him was kinda messed up. It was very cowardly of me. Like, he's one of those people you can't really have a conversation with and find an understanding. He'll make sure he wins the conversation and have me reflecting on myself, so ik there was no point in talking to him so I left without him telling him the problem.
Sourangshu supremacy ❤
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HELL YEAH!
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Excellent
Thank you very much 🌹🌷🌺
Nice 👍 😊
that's why i'm the best
why does it seem like nobody sees me like people ignore me, my friends always joke about me and say that im fat and that i have a big forehead or my hairline like dude i just need someone to hug me like not a parent but a friend from school or a girl i feel like i could just start sobbing in their arms, like people always find a way to be mean to me like there is only so much someone can go through before you lose your temper like why why is everyone always laughing at me i am nice i help people im kind im a good person but everyone finds a way to be mean and even girls make fun of me like WTF!!
🫂I'm really sorry this is how they treat you, you deserve better than that, no one should be treated like that. It's important to remember that your worth is not determined by the opinions or comments of others.
What can you expect from high school kids? I guess one reason why they make fun of you is because maybe you're ugly, it's stupid but that's how idiots are, but don't listen to them, they're just a bunch of time suckers
Hi
Hello :) How are you?
In my environment I don't manage my emotions the snakes will come after me
What kind of snakes?
@@Psych2go well either people or My nightmares but you get used to it
I felt the sound in this video is too low. Even with full volume on my phone I couldn't hear loud enough
I’m afraid of awkward silence….
I❤ Yumi
When you have all of these skills yet struggle to get a date 💀
Watching these videos make me feel so lonely.
You do know that ignorance and greed is rising up, making it impossible for a person to have relationship with, right?
That has alwas happened
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Honestly no one thinks I’m attractive😭🖤🖤 And by the way I’m your first comment
Same😔😔😔
@@camerondesenberg7965 I feel ya bro
You don't know what other people think
@@lazylemon4081 Yes I do
@mrshibainucutey teach me please! :D
HELP I don't want to be around people I don't want to do anything I feel very uncomfortable when I am out of my house I just cry cry and I feel I am acting stupid and I know I am acting but I can't help it. I know what's going in my mind but can't say it out or live it I hate myself I wanted to die but I don't have courage to die my parents deserves the best. What happened to me please tell me help
You should add subtitles in English by yourself while making videos cuz youtube subtitles sucks,it just kills the flow and sometimes it shows wrong subtitles and many big self improvement channels have their own subtitles in their videos-------This is my suggestion to improve your videos, love from India, keep it up😸❤️
What's her accent?
hiii
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
opposite of me fr
你好，我想问一下可以在别的国家二次创作你们的视频并用来获利嘛？请留言告诉我一下，这对我很重要谢谢😅
Its only one type of intelligence.
Okay, I'm officialy a social imbecile
Is it just me or the sound is just decreasing 😭.....its on full volume but barely hearable.... why her voice is so low 😭...its soothing but i can't hear properly 😢
woah im early today!!
People with autism: *oh no*
Pin me or you’ll be in an awkward situation with your date
( Edit )
This is a joke you don’t have to lol
i haven't been this early for anything in a while
Fellow lone wolves,
At least try and fake some of these.
50 secs ago-
How is there one comment yet no comments at the same time lol
Meh arabian advice
Don't even try to say first bc im first
just saying, but ur 2nd
@@sharkyy1488 NOO-
Unfortunately, you're not. But you're pretty close!
@@Psych2go OMG YOU REPLIED TO ME
😂😂
First
@mrshi same 😭😭😭
I think that most of these "life skills" is what is wrong with the world today.
so in your opinion empathy is a bitch and it shouldn't exist?
Thumbs down 👎
Anything specific you didn't like?