Why Hannah's Mom Doesn’t Want Us Having Kids
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With Mother’s Day coming up, we wanted to have Hannah’s wonderful mom, Liz! Here for her Junkyard Mayhem debut, we are getting into the messy details of living together as a family, Hannah’s origin story, and our IVF process. Finally, we are topping this week off with a glimpse into the time we wrote down 60 (cringe worthy) relationship memories… oh boy!
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Hi Shane and Hannah I just came across your channel a week ago I've been tune in ever since LMBO 😂 so I went back as far as 4 years ago and love y'all together perfect couple...
The Dinner Plate. show your work, honey bunch.
Missed opportunity: Walk & Roll Marathon
@@jeannetteloretitsch2235w5w😅²😮
"I'm more casual with where i put my things" is how I'm sugar coating "I'm messy" from now on 😂
Yes!!!! I ❤️ it.
Me too. Too good to not steal😂
I am a 43 year old Disabled Veteran. My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. During that 20+ years, we tried just about everything we could afford. We had even been told that there is no reason we couldn’t. 2 years ago exactly our son was born. It was our 3rd and final IVF attempt. In fact it was our final straw. We just couldn’t afford to spend anymore money on what was seemed to be a lost cause. I love my little birthday boy. He’s just like me, loves anything with wheels. You guys will have unforeseen problems pop up, for an example I was using my Cain because I didn’t have access to my manual wheelchair. He was playing on his little push bike(he flys on that thing!!) and he saw his much older cousin rode don’t to his friends…. He took off chasing him down I couldn’t catch him, he was just too fast. Another issue for me is picking him up or holding him, sometimes even bending over… it all hurts and can leave me in bed for a few days after. I’m looking for a lightweight scooter that can drive in grass so I can keep up with him…. Also so I can go on walks with my wife and him. Best of luck and I hope your family dream comes true.
Thank you for your service ❤ 🇺🇸
Liz hit the mail on the head, nobody is ready to have kids. All you can do to be ‘ready’ is be committed to trying as hard as you can at something that you will never do as well as you want. Also, one of the best things you can do is to surround yourself with people who you can count on and who are your village, which is exactly what Shane and Hannah have done.
@@user-ee4xj3om8u please dont tell me you think the veiwers are their village? Can you imagine all the hate watchers? Never surround your kid with a village of complete strangers. If you meant something else, my bad.
@@lc4life369I took it that they were referring to Hannah’s family who are living with them. Agreed, I don’t think viewers (no matter how supportive) can be included in the child raising village.
@@smidgelette I think you're right that they meant Hannah and Shane's families. I'm really hoping they don't make their children a central part of their channel. Kids can't choose to be a public figure and they deserve their privacy. I've watched youtube channels in which a couple has a TH-cam channel and once they have a child, it becomes all about the baby. The next thing you know the viewers want to know everything about the kid and the child becomes the "star" of the channel. It sadly happened to a channel called the Frey Life. They live off of their channel and so now their adopted son is bringing in big bucks. Everything from his first words, first step, etc, etc, is spotlighted on the channel. A child should not be the money maker in the family and their milestones really shouldn't be public fodder.
@@mygirldarby yeah, that’s a bit icky to make the children the centre. I don’t watch any of those family centred channels for the same reason(s). They both seem pretty sensible with good family around them. I can’t imagine them going to far with all that.
@@mygirldarby I don't think anyone GAF about watching other people's children, but the parents think everyone GAF.
My husband has a speech impediment disability but he knows nothing different and is not shy. We met dancing and he is my best friend. You two inspire me.
Liz has perfect radio voice. Clear, tone and inflections. Should send in a audition.
Agree and maybe TV commercials!
Voiceover’s or audiobooks
SO true haha 😂 I read your comment just as Liz started talking 😂
Agreed
Liz is a wonderful mom, Hannah gets her beauty from her mom.
Liz did a great job. I love the inflection Shane uses when he talks about his muscles, it's cute I always feel like in his head he's hulking out and I think that's probably healthy for him to imagine himself that way. Shane may not have tremendous muscle strength but he's obviously a super strong guy in strengths that really count.
My mom was 41 when she had me, which wasn’t very common back in the early 1960’s. My mama was always older than my friend’s mothers, but I think she was always the “coolest” 💜
My mom also had me a little late - she was 36 going on 37.
@@kamelhaj6850 I had our youngest at 36, 10 years after her sister.
Aw I'm 41 had my youngest and 7 th child almost 23 months ago hope my kids feel this way about me they are my whole world ❤❤
@@angelbasham6631 - My mom was 41 when she had me. She always told me I kept her young. She lived to 98 ❤
@@suegunderman9506 ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Hannah your mom is a very sweet lady. I see where you get your kindness,genuineness, humor from. Love from Minnesota
I know exactly how Liz feels! My daughter is 27 and having her first baby (my 1st grandchild) next week. She is type 1 diabetic, only 4’10” and her 3rd trimester has been rough. She is booked in for a c-section and I honestly can’t wait. Obviously I can’t wait to meet my baby Granddaughter, but the last couple of months have been so stressful I will be happy that the pregnancy and it’s complications will be over and done with and I can stop worrying about My baby girl 🩷
Good luck Hannah, I really do hope all your dreams come true and you & Shane will soon be cradling a baby of your own xx
That's So Wonderful!!! What A Blessing 🙌❤. My 37 Year Old Daughter Has Been A Type I Diabetic Since Age 4 And She Doesn't Have A Child Yet But Desperately Wants One. I'm 60 And Not A Grandma Yet. I Also Have A 25 Year Old Son Who Just Graduated From 7 Years At University. Babies Are Such A Blessing 💖!!! Best Wishes To Your Daughter, You And Your New Grandbaby 💕!!!!!
Being parents is a tough job!! I wish you well😳
Congratulations to Liz for raising a truly wonderful daughter. I've raised two daughters myself and it is not easy 😅
Great job future Grandma ❤
Liz has grandchildren from Hannah's 2 brothers. I believe there are 3 granddaughters so far.
Wait if your mom had you at 42 and you’re now 27 that means she’s 69!!!! 😱😱😱 There is no way! I thought Mrs Liz was like in her mid fifties!! She looks amazing!! I hope I look as young and healthy when I am her age.. What a blessing
she looks her age
I think she doesn't look almost 70. She looks mid-50s for sure. Young at heart, too
I'd say late 50s, maybeee 60 but definitely not 69!
She does not look her age! She looks ten years younger.
@chris toth Why? Someone gave an opinion or even nicer, a compliment, you don't have to agree, but common courtesy would be then say nothing.
BTW. I think Liz looks great for her age.
I thoroughly enjoyed this today! You two are so adorable. I got such a kick out of how you ( Shane) makes Hannah and Liz giggle like a couple of teenagers. I agree with Liz that you two will make awesome parents!💞
Thinking about you both as you start IVF
I have a 30 year old son conceived through my fourth IVF cycle ❤
All the best to you❣️
I’ll never forget administering my first injection-
You gave a wonderful family support system
May you be blessed with children
So excited for your journey with IVF.. after my first child which I had at 24 we struggled to concieve again .. 5 rounds of IVF gave me my second son at 37.... then surprise surprise at 43 had my daughter... at 60 I now have a 16yr old .. plus grandchildren from my oldest son who is 35..lol
Wow❣️ What a journey❣️
@@grammichal6759 very well spaced out family I got to enjoy each of my kids
for a decade almost before the next arrived :)
Mom, I understand your feelings about IVF and you "baby" going through this. My daughter is pregnant for the 2nd time via IVF. I have a perfect 2 year old Granddaughter and when told she was going to try again, I felt anxiety about it. Daughter is now 3 months pregnant and very excited but also have some anxiety about it.
Congratulations to your daughter I pray things go wonderful for her and you enjoy every moment of your Grandchildrens accomplishments
@@florencesissysmith7270 Thank you so much!!
We love Hannah's mom! She seems like the nicest person. I think we might be around the same age and we could be friends. Your memories are hilarious! Hope your IVF is going well.
We gave birth to our IVF twins last November. I wish you the best with every poke and Liz was so right- it’s a really hard thing to do IVF but it’s SO worth it once you’re holding your brand new baby in your arms. You got it!
It’s so terribly disappointing to read so many judgemental comments. Shane and Hannah are intelligent people. They live with Shane’s limitations every day. They have already spoken about employing a care provider. Why do people feel it’s pertinent to suggest they are selfish in wanting to have children and haven’t considered all aspects? I know they almost expect these comments, but that’s no excuse for such ignorance shown in these comments.
Shane and Hannah, please ignore such crass comments.
I agree very much!
I know it's heartbreaking to see hateful and just ignorant comments. I'm so happy they are sharing their lives with us and I can't wait for them to have a bundle of joy❤❤❤❤
They shouldn’t ignore the negative comments…. Some are useful and they could use some advice from those who have experienced things. They are “young and dumb” in the having children department, so……. Not meant to be mean.. just reality.
My mother and my husband really loved each other and had such a good relationship! He misses her greatly since she has passed!
Hello Vicki how are you doing today....I hope you are having a great day today?
@@JohnFoley-cw9vt STOP trying to catfish every woman in these comments
I know you have many achievements Shane, but 11 years of a non profit YOU created… is absolutely beyond amazing ❤
Hi! Shane & Hannah.... it was very nice seeing Liz for the first time on your podcast. She seems very kind and is a good Mother! Hope she has a great Mother's Day coming up, too. 😊
"who just begins something that requires both people?" i dont know why this made me laugh but 😂
Loved hearing from Liz!! Thanks for sharing your early relationship memories, they were incredible. I hope the IVF process continues smoothly and all goes well
Awesome show today!! It was nice to see Liz, and so open. She is so right that nobody is ever ready for children. They are individuals, and as such, have slightly different needs. But you two will make awesome parents. It was also amazing to see Shane's arm on his chair, ready to do work! The memories you read were fantastic, and showed how much you were in love with each other. I look forward to the next offering, and, as one who grew up in a literal junkyard, this amusing, love filled conversation warms the heart. Keep up the great ideas, and see you next time.
Yay! Love when your mom is in your videos! Hi, Liz! Nothing sweeter than having a close mother/daughter bond. Love you guys and your entertaining videos! You always make me giggle. ❤❤❤❤
Even after all these years, you two still crack me up...
Yup. I love that SONG...
Woahhhhhhhh Hannah obviously looks and ages like her Mama. GORGEOUS ladies. Also… the story of Hannah’s coming to being is adorable. I can’t wait to watch you guys be parents.
You are all so lucky to have each other. Great example for other families. Thank you for sharing
Listening to you both talk about your memories, we can see how in love you two are. Thank you for all the sharing of ur life.
I know this is kind of out of context but I have to say this. I suffer from generalized anxiety and your videos always help me when my anxiety is kicking my butt. I've been loving you content for years because you guys are amazing human beings, but the podcasts are especially good at letting me live some daily activities normally that would otherwise be very triggering for my anxiety. Thank you guys. I know this isn't how you intended your content, but just know you're helping people in ways you don't even imagine.❤
no one cares
@ChocolateCoveredGummyBears
Firstly, I never said someone had to care, I just wanted to share. Secondly, 30 people liked the comment so they somehow cared. Lastly, if there's anyone who's opinion I care about on this is the creators, since this comment was for them on their video, definitely not yours.
@@dannyanderson2236 don't care lmao
@@chocolatecoveredgummybears 👍🏻
@@dannyanderson2236 you do realize this couple wants to have a kid and said in a vid they don't mind if they get SMA. stop enabling their bs behavior.
I tell my grown kids all of the time that I’d like to put them in a bubble to keep them safe and happy. I can so relate to exactly what Liz said!
Love, love your podcast! You are so entertaining! Would love to hear from Liz frequently! So glad you all get along so well…such a blessing!! ❤️🙏
What an amazing human being the baby will be with parents such as the two of you.
Mom is correct no matter how educated and informed your never ready.
I feel you, Hannah! I am also a swimmer and can swim forever! Ask me to run and within half a mile I feel like I'm going to pass out! It's not the same! My sister is a runner and I'm the swimmer!
It's always so great to see Liz too!
Y’all are so hilarious… I’ve been watching you guys a long time now and I love you both…so much. I will be so excited when you both become parents… I can’t hardly wait !!!
I always enjoy when Hannahs Mom joins them on Camera. Such A Wonderful Soul 🙌❤! This was fun watching. Love You Both 💕. Can't wait until You're Preggo!!!! Western Upstate New York here 💐💚
I just love your videos. Nice to see Liz. Tell her she did just fine, and looking forward to seeing her in the future.
Your Mom seems wonderful! It’s so fun that you wrote down your first memories together!
I just love watching your videos. You guys are so genuine and love that youre goofballs ❤ What a wonderful adventure your on, cant wait to see your baby!! Love you guys ❤
As a mother, Liz saying she didn't want her child going through hardships, resonated so much. Even when they're adults.
Yes, but you grow into them living their own lives and making their own mistakes. It can be heartbreaking sometimes to see what they experience, but at the same time, we always feel grateful every year that we can be there for our adult children, if they want to talk, knowing that the reality is, we may not always be there. And as they get older we know that they have all the tools, they have grown in themselves and they will cope, just as we have. No matter how hard we try to protect our children, they all have their own special paths to follow.
Very exciting time for you guys. Excited and happy for you and I hope everything works well. I’m watching.
Shane has his Jayco arm on his chair 😊❗ There are no emoticons to show how excited I am 😂
Agree 💯
That was nice, and knowing you guys live together and travel together is awesome, your trip to memory lane is something I do with my hubby, he only remember a few, is good to go back to where it al began and the things that you've done. That is a great beginning for a long road ahead of many more memories. We have been married for almost 44 years, still living each other. God bless you both in your journey with IVS.
My mom was 48 and I was 25, we were pregnant at the same time! But as a mom, I’m sure Liz has to be concerned that Hannah is already a care taker to her husband and now having children could be a lot on her. I wish you guys the best.
AMAZING!! Huge respect to your Mom, that’s so amazing!! Thank you for sharing this, it gives me hope for a second child. It’s a very long and painful story of why my husband and I didn’t have a second one sooner. I’m 45 now and had just about lost all hope and I just happened to read your comment at 6:04am, after zero sleep, crying. Crying after hearing they got zero embryos and feeling hopeless for my own situation. I agree that it will be a lot on Hannah but, I’m sure she will handle it well. Especially with the help of live in parents.
I imagine that’s why Shane and Hannah moved in with Liz, so that, as Grandmother, Liz would be the major caregiver for her grandchild. Hannah already has her hands full taking care of Shane plus taking care of all their household duties. She will be totally overwhelmed with the added duties of caring for a newborn. Her Mother, no doubt, will take on those responsibilities for Hannah. I had to do the same for my daughter when she gave birth to my granddaughter. She was Hannah’s age, busy taking care of her disabled boyfriend 💯 % as well as working two jobs to support them as well as taking full responsibility for caring for the household chores plus plus plus. It’s a ton of work for a young gal when she is 💯 % responsible for everyone and everything. Usually, in these type of circumstances, her Mother comes to save the day and ends up raising the children and taking care of the housework and cooking so that her daughter can focus on working full time to support her family.
@@kimberlyashcraft7841 - I’m in the same boat. Just about to turn 46, and have been trying for a 2nd child for 9 years. It’s such a painful experience, but I still have hope. I’d love to think I still have 2 years.
😮 I can’t even imagine that. Wow.
She looks so healthy and young for her age !!! God bless you guys much love !!!
Nice to see Liz! I would like to see her more often. This was a fun visit to the Junkyard.
I have 1 thing to say: I envy you your mum 😳 listening to her makes me cry and yearn for a childhood I and no doubt millions of others haven't had. She is one of a kind 😳
Mom
I love Liz! She's such a wonderful person, loves you both so very much and seems like she truly loves being a mother ❤
Love you all so much! Shane, your hair looks great - wish I still had enough to comb on top. So lucky to have each other in your lives....
Gosh I live Liz. She’s so chill and sweet. ❤
Wow. I was 38 years old when we had our son. At the time back in 1995. Today my son is 27 and I’m 65. Wow it’s great to hear someone else did the same thing having a child at later years
I had my son in the 80s when I was 28 after 8 years of marriage during which I had several miscarriages. When my son was in elementary school I was one of the older moms despite having had him when I was 28. The other mom's weren't unwed mothers..I guess women were becoming moms at early ages back then. It was weird to be considered an older mom of an elementary age child while only in my 30s. My 7 year old grandchild has friends with moms in their late 40s. Times really have changed.
Had my son at 37 in 1996. He is 27.
I had my first daughter when I was 38, another daughter when I was 39 years old.
My mom was 36 when I was born and 38 when my sister was born. I’m now 37 which is exactly halfway between those two ages and therefore I’m almost exactly half my mother’s current age! (74…the ages don’t quite line up because my mother’s birthday is in April and mine is July). Amazing how time goes by.
Tony Walters, my sister is 62, her husband is 83, and their son just turned 24!
Love your mom, so happy she was on your show today! ☺️
I live in Kentucky l love listening to you all and learning more about you l just found your channel thank you for sharing with everyone ❤
Liz said “I don’t know where to look?!” 😂😂😂
It’s such fun watching your videos! Thanks for sharing!🎉❤😂
We need a vlog of one of these family dinners!
Really enjoyed the video as usual! Keep it up you guys. You are great!
Hey....greetings from Belize. Love the way you guys banter back and forth. Thank you for putting a smile on my face.
I am learning so much. Thank you!
Treasure these times, guys. I lived on one side of a duplex of Mom and Dad's for 20 years. While it wasn't altogeather good, as I needed a kick in the pants to socialize more and manage my earnings better ( that was me, not them)- I was able to help raise my little adopted siblings, and time was precious as Dad passed suddenly, in a car accident. Mom began to have increasing problems with aging. Now travel is required to see each other.
Another great video guys. Since discovering your story a few weeks ago I’ve been binge watching your content and really love it! You’re both unique and grounded and funny- watching really feels like hanging out with you guys lol. Thanks for sharing so honestly, opening minds and tickling funny bones! (Giggity) ☺️
When I am couchbound, nothing holds my interest on TH-cam but this channel. I appreciate it so much. ❤
Thanks for making me lol throughout this episode, it felt really good. It was a pleasure meeting your mom Hannah. I’m so glad I found you guys.💕
It's been way too long since we last seen Liz! We're in for a treat!
This was the most adorable episode!🤗
I always enjoy your videos and thank you so much for sharing. Love you guys.❤
Love your podcasts. And I busted out in laughter when Shane said he had “dewed over”…omg you both tell such funny stories
I so enjoyed this video .Sending you two peace ,love
Such a comforting video, warm.
I can’t wait to hear more about your IVF journey!
Love Hannah’s mom! Going thru the memories was cool!
If you wait until you think you’re ready for kids, you’ll never have them. Our oldest is Hannah’s age - and works at Walt Disney World! Hopefully your paths will cross.
I love your relationship so much!! And Hannah's mom!
Thank you guys for another great podcast episode!
I honestly did not think Liz is as old as she is. I honestly thought maybe 50. Wow! Liz is looking fantastic.❤
I think scientists studies have shown that people with short torsos age more slowly. Lol Just kidding.
@@hannakinn heehee
Yeah i did the math and she does not look her age at all
I would have said 50 as well! She looks (and acts) young!!
Loved this episode! You guys are awesome. Howdy liz x
I love watching your videos. You are all such an awesome family!
I'm quite sure Hannah was right about the length of the torso. I have a very short torso and my ribs hurt constantly. Same with my sister. I think if Hannah's lucky enough to get pregnant she will carry that baby well.
You are both so lucky to have her support and love and personally I would definitely listen to her wise advice
The memories you wrote down are hysterical!!! 😂 And of course charming
My youngest, my baby is pregnant after two chemical pregnancies which was hard. Then she went through horrible all day sickness and throwing up everything for the first trimester. As a mom it is def hard to watch your youngest baby suffer in any way so I totally get what Liz is saying ❤️ 4 d ultrasound today to see what she is having, I am so excited. Wishing you a healthy pregnancy 😊
So what’s she having 👀
@@zomb_bree7950 not a mini human. Nah not possible 😂🙄
@@hugs_xo I- what
"I'm more casual with where I put things". -- Hannah
Liz is a national treasure!
happy for you hannah and shane. good luck on ivf
What a wonderful family y'all are
I just love watching you two and nice to see Liz. My cheeks hurt from so much laughter. Thanks ❤❤❤
I just Love listening to y'alls old stories of when you first started dating 💗
Liz you did an amazing job. Hopefully we'll have the pleasure of seeing you again soon.
You both are my favorite couple. When I'm down, I watch you, which is every day. You both make me laugh and make life seem a little bit sunnier.
Hey, sad to hear you are down - just wishing you things in this day to make it a bit sunnier.
My now 16yr old daughter was conceived via IVF specifically ICSI. 1st attempt. It’s hard emotionally and physically, but worth it if it works. Good luck to you both ❤
Wow! 2 years! I have been watching you since your apartment! ❤ you both!
I’m so glad that you guys can share time together. I would give anything to be with my mother again. I had a great time with her and stayed with her some when she was alive. BTW - my husband got along well with my mother too.
I just adore you two. Amazing Laughingatmynightmare,keep up the good works.The world needs about two million more couples like you tgwo. Spreading info. laughs tears ,you are the best.
I had a baby at 45. I hope I look like Liz’s mom at her age! ♥️♥️ I love her!
Love how the Brother is so willing to help his lil sis ❤
Excited for the 5k! It would be fun to do a local MN event for it.
HANNAH U HAVE SUCH A SWEET CARING MOM .
So good to liz and this was as always a great pleasure
Have a wonderful day🙏❤️🤗