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  • @user-by4sd2jy2c
    @user-by4sd2jy2c 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    He actually said he didn’t need me. After I helped him with his post surgery care. He got on his feet and began the devaluation. I bet he’s still waiting on me to call him back. 😂❤😊

    • @ceyciemateo9411
      @ceyciemateo9411 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      At least you got to that stage, he wouldnt even let me help him. Discarded the night before his surgery 🤣

    • @user-by4sd2jy2c
      @user-by4sd2jy2c 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ceyciemateo9411 oh wow.. we’re better off without them.

    • @itsaliciabreeze
      @itsaliciabreeze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yup absolutely 💯

    • @TheSS314
      @TheSS314 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same thing happened to me

    • @Js-wd6dr
      @Js-wd6dr หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol...jokes on the narc

  • @SilverStar82
    @SilverStar82 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Chyna wearing a Dumb & Dumber t-shirt 🤣 Love it. Classic 👍🏼

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    In todays society everyone’s opinion is truth and this is why we can’t see or deal with the truth. This is something the devil is loving…. It’s not the devil that’s in the way of progress, it’s humans…. If we can’t put on the belt of truth on the spiritual battle is lost! 🙏

  • @justineescobar4685
    @justineescobar4685 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hario and CJ are coming from a nice guy perspective. They’re also correct in saying that women are more attractive to the narcissistic personality. Not us healed women, but the women who haven’t learned better. I use to see narcissists traits as valuable in a man. I was taught that.

    • @itsaliciabreeze
      @itsaliciabreeze 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks for sharing. Yes many are taught this.

    • @1zebracrossing
      @1zebracrossing 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      .....liers,etc......

    • @teresagarcia7580
      @teresagarcia7580 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was taught that now I want nothing but peace before I thought peace was kinda boring lol😂

    • @TheBossLady85
      @TheBossLady85 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I thought I found my person when I fell in love with him. It was a living nightmare dealing with him. All I wanted was to share love, respect, and peace with him.

  • @aphavoc4479
    @aphavoc4479 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    26:33 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 😂😂😂😂😂 now that is smooth!😅😅😅😅😅 the hammmmmmer!!

  • @marlonetheredge3325
    @marlonetheredge3325 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    CHAR IS BLINDLY IN THE CLASS OF WOMEN THAT NOBODY WANTS TO DEAL WITH 💯

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Char KNOWS God and is NOT going to allow y’all to blind her…. Trust me dude, Char has a dude that held on to her for 35 years and would still be holding on if SHE didn’t file for a divorce. 62 men from our community waiting in her Facebook friend request because they KNOW she is a prize! They KNOW dude has messed up and has good woman! MOST are men that tried hard to get her before the marriage and during our dating period! Char is KNOWN as a good girl in her community because she’s always carried herself in a respectful manner…. MANY tried; few succeeded! 🙌. I am sorry sir; you are wrong! So many people pretend to want change only to stay the same or with little change and this is why a repeat keeps happening. What I said was trying to dig deep in the TRUTH so people can truly heal…. But Char getting a man isn’t a problem. Never has been; never will be…. If Char is by herself it’s because she chooses too, that’s FACTS not fiction. Have a blessed day! ❤️🙏🙌

    • @marlonetheredge3325
      @marlonetheredge3325 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@EmpathicCharWithBounderies respectfully you contradict yourself because you obviously shown on the live that you want respect but don't wanna give it .

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marlonetheredge3325 Sir, have a blessed night…. I tried to block you but wasn’t able too…. Will for sure try to figure out how…. You have the right to believe what you believe but you are going to have to compete with some woman that’s yours…. I don’t compete with men or women…. I am secure in who I am. 🙁❤️🙏✌️

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Old bitter narcissist broad

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@EmpathicCharWithBounderiesh shut up b!tch

  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Char wants to finish her sentence but doesn't let anyone else talk 😡

    • @williamwashington4633
      @williamwashington4633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I’m not making fun of her glasses I wear them also but her glasses tell her story straight up

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@williamwashington4633Sir, those are reading glasses that I get a lot of compliments on…. Trust me that bad lighting is hiding how I actually look but trust me; Char looks good! ❤

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She really a feminist bitter narc her damn self

  • @cletiawilliams1436
    @cletiawilliams1436 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like CJ he is hilarious!😅 i ho pe he can come back and chat!

  • @Cornelius577
    @Cornelius577 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Everything you guys are talking about in this podcast, a man by the name of Rollo Tomassi, i think has the best overview of this subject !!!

  • @rondasomerville9456
    @rondasomerville9456 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    @CJ you was on point 👍🏽

    • @user-vg9eh4gr9j
      @user-vg9eh4gr9j 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Too on point for this group.

  • @elizabethg.7873
    @elizabethg.7873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Happy & blessed weekend !🙏🏽🙏🏽💕

    • @itsaliciabreeze
      @itsaliciabreeze 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You too ❤

    • @elizabethg.7873
      @elizabethg.7873 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@itsaliciabreezeThank you so much beautiful!🤗💕

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I went back and watched this and there was times that I talked over CJ because of the heated emotions from him GASLIGHTING me but this dude interrupted me just about every time I spoke because he doesn’t respect women. We are all on here from narcissistic abuse and know this is a touchy thing. I haven’t argued in months with anyone and this struck a cord because I know what I was saying is the truth. CJ for sure has a problem with women. Made several derogatory statements about women as a whole…. He literally said, that if you trust a woman, women would lead you to the devil…. Law Less said, Adam ate the fruit because he loved Eve that much but they admitted he threw he under the bus…. Adam wasn’t innocent in what happened. Adam gets a pass for Eve so-called deceiving him but Eve didn’t get one for the devil deceiving her? No, God handled that because he held everyone accountable; everyone! I mean good dialogue because we did get some things in from everyone but because these men got offended about my telling the truth it was mostly men against women conversation and I know the devil loved that. Totally not what I was expecting or after but you can’t control how people perceive what you have to say! 🤷‍♀️🙏❤️✌️

  • @user-yq8gr6xi5p
    @user-yq8gr6xi5p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    China you hit the nail on the hammer Ms. Man…

  • @LorenaMontoya7
    @LorenaMontoya7 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They put us in that situation with there trash I can’t stand him he’s not worth anything from me

  • @phat-katkitchen283
    @phat-katkitchen283 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The new supply called them AMAZING😀😀😀😀😀😀

  • @justineescobar4685
    @justineescobar4685 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I agree with the ladies tonight 😆

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This dude, CJ said “women are more easily seduced,” 😂. I can count the number of men I’ve been with one hand. I don’t know what he’s talking about…. These women he’s talking about I can’t relate too…. But he thinks ALL women like this…. What woman would put her life in his hand….

    • @robinlewisart_1997
      @robinlewisart_1997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts

    • @marilynmonheaux6356
      @marilynmonheaux6356 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Seduced by power. Not by the man.

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@marilynmonheaux6356 This man was saying all women are seductive…. I’ve NEVER seduced a man! Never have and never will! Never needed to and never will need to! Who I am as a person is enough to get a man looking at me…. Don’t have to use sex to reel anyone in! 😞🤷‍♀️🙏

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shut up bitter b!tch!!!

  • @lisalawtonlyons
    @lisalawtonlyons 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Too much arguing for me. I’m with Chyna wanting to end the conversation.

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The solution is God! The first step is accepting TRUTH! These two guys did everything they could to keep people from seeing what the truth is so we can get on a path to fixing things. Notice their solution was to date women on this panel. These men has been sitting watching women on here looking for an opportunity to take advantage of these who are in the mist of healing… Both of them doesn’t want any changes; they want to use this platform for their own good in getting women. Turn a place for healing into a place to get abused…. 🙁❤️🙏

  • @phat-katkitchen283
    @phat-katkitchen283 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She told him he was AMAZING😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    She don’t have witnesses Hario if you watch the video with the first wife she was talking bad about the new wife at first than she changed her story. I don’t believe her or feel sorry for her she knew exactly what she was doing and he filed for divorce first make it make sense.Why are we still talking about that .She trying to make money off her toxic marriage

  • @JoneleBenaine
    @JoneleBenaine 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The way she over talks and don’t listen is crazy u can’t even focus on the topic because she wanna be heard the most

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I don’t think y’all understand those guys were literally gaslighting me about something I know to be FACTS! That’s is narcissistic abuse…. But those that have not began their healing journey doesn’t see it because they are used to the narcissist doing it to them. Anyway, be blessed. 😞❤️🙏

  • @donacunningham9304
    @donacunningham9304 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hario, You said that you were gonna change your way up , but each and every day someone new comes in with their New narcissistic abuse or life story to survive. I hope that you don't change up your huddle. Your support group on TH-cam you have helped me get through depression. F*** not forgiving myself, trying to give myself a purpose. And like I said, if you never seeit is. I appreciate you more than you know. I am so humble for God and you and the others on the.
    Chat Please keep helping those that come along. After those you've helped heal and become whole again. Help the new ones that come along. It's not getting any better out here. Love you to death never, would have ever thought. I'd ever get close enough to me. To man like you so I appreciate you more than you know narcissistic

  • @stephanielove4469
    @stephanielove4469 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They are laughing at how they got with a real one that was ignorant to fall for the bail they used to get what they wanted all along

  • @michellebernaugh8477
    @michellebernaugh8477 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

  • @JanetWinans
    @JanetWinans 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I want to share what i witnessed,yes alot of people were interupting each other,also Char wa only giving facts about history and the men could not handle that,they went off in 5 different directions and must have been triggered,the one lady was not even able to talk she had put in the chat her mic had been muted...it was a ---- show...

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Char said the same ole bs for a whole hour then start talking slick to erbody then just got off the live. She a narcissist her self. Just bitter and toxic

  • @patriciajohnson4511
    @patriciajohnson4511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This iß crazy. Basically, what i got out of this is basically back in the day men could do and be with whoever they wanted to be with,then look for a woman who was wholesome. 2:05:38

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The point was because men were given a pass to abuse and use women it created an acceptable environment for them to do so. That idea got passed down from generation to generation because women could stand up for themselves. Now, that women can stand up for themselves SOME aren’t taking the handed down abuse and have instead taken on the traits themselves. SOME aren’t taking it and just getting out because those doing to the wrongful behavior won’t change or be accountable…. I tried hard to explain this over and over again but was talked over or…. But, it’s all good. I said what I said. I spoke facts! I am on my healing journey. Tried to help others. Some got it! Some didn’t so; we shall move on…. Have a blessed day! 😞❤️🙏

  • @patriciajohnson4511
    @patriciajohnson4511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Like how you going to tell me the farther of my child can't live with me,so as men and women lets get our own!!!!! 3:16:05 stop the madness 😠 😒 😤 😑 3:16:14

  • @BrendaBaBoom
    @BrendaBaBoom 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hario, do us all a favor and avoid HOOPLA on your channel.

  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She did not answer nobody questions live she was talking around everybody questions she never gave direct answers she was obsessed with that man that played her and now she angry.

  • @JanetWinans
    @JanetWinans 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is out of hand...

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What woman wants to leave her home if she is being cared for and treated right? CJ wants to put women in their so-called place so he can abuse. This man more than likely is very toxic himself…. Everything he said wasn’t about any solution. It was about competition and men against women and women against men….

  • @patriciajohnson4511
    @patriciajohnson4511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Basically, good gurls like bad guys. 2:14:19

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly everything CJ said was very derogatory towards women…. CJ and this Law Less guy are on here eying women and trying to use this channel to reel vulnerable women in during a time when they are weak…. They literally said at the end they wanted to turn this into a dating channel for empaths! CJ kept trying to sell himself as the solution…. Swift; pay attention people…. I hate I got heated but I haven’t had this kind of gaslighting in months because I don’t deal with my narcissist. This gaslighting took me back. And for that I am sorry but what I said was factual. 😞❤️🙏

  • @marilynmonheaux6356
    @marilynmonheaux6356 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I told my nex “go back with your ex then….”
    And that’s exactly what happened 😮 19:00

  • @williamwashington4633
    @williamwashington4633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    CHAR HOW YOU GOT A CHANNEL

  • @KassieP-sf6nz
    @KassieP-sf6nz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @Char how do you have a degree and you are yelling and talking over CJ?

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CJ loves to argue with women…. He is a angry black man that think him being dominate is going to solve the problem. They want to be dominate except concerning finances. What the woman to pay 50/50 raise the kids, do all the house work, handle the finances…. The woman is doing more than these men like CJ but they are the men… 😢🙏🙌

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So, a degree makes you voiceless? You are right like, CJ. I don’t have one. Be blessed… ❤️🙏✌️

  • @patriciajohnson4511
    @patriciajohnson4511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Santan knew who could manipulate Eve 2:21:15 .

  • @patriciajohnson4511
    @patriciajohnson4511 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The devil manipulated Eve,told her lies, and stated her eyes 👀 would be open,and she then gave it to Adam, which Adam knew he disobeyed God. 2:24:00

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Those guys have NOT read the Bible in-depth. Genius 3:6 Says, “Eve ate of the fruit and gave it to her husband that was there with him” These are facts that they kept gaslighting me about scripture!

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    CJ said that female slaves were sleeping with the MASTER to get privileges and the Law Less guy signed on to the idea! 🙄🙁🤦‍♀️ The slave woman slept with the master by choice, really! 🤦‍♀️ Jesus, help us! I can’t believe this man was saying all this about women and claiming to be a good man…. What in the world is going on…. I see why some women decide to stay with their narcissistic husbands; if this is what’s out here as the cream of the crop telling these lies on women, I just don’t know what to say. Lord, help the next generations. 😢❤️🙏

    • @cautiontothewind277
      @cautiontothewind277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Shut up bitter b!tch!!!

    • @user-vg9eh4gr9j
      @user-vg9eh4gr9j 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Y'all still sleep with men for privileges...

    • @catmillaud588
      @catmillaud588 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      CJ our foremothers were raped they didn’t volunteer to have intercoursewith the enemy!!! CJ you need to apologize for that inaccurate comment my brother!!! Chyna give it time! The right man following God commandments truly following you can find a great husband that will treat you like a queen bc we came from ROYALTY 🥰

    • @user-vg9eh4gr9j
      @user-vg9eh4gr9j 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@catmillaud588 females talk about selling themselves and practice hypergamy openly today...and some did the same thing back in the day...I can't stand weak ppl like y'all...if it ain't you chill out and keep my name out y'all weak ass mouths

    • @user-vg9eh4gr9j
      @user-vg9eh4gr9j 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@catmillaud588 females do the same thing today...

  • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
    @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Genesis 3:6 Eve bit the fruit and gave it to her husband who was there with her…. They also said Adam was supposed to protect the woman. Alicia cleared that up. These men (CJ and Law Less). DO NOT know the word but was on here trying to give a Bible lesson… 🙁🙏. The man is supposed to treat the woman like God treats the church…. Remember that when you want a woman to submit….

  • @NicoleMiller-uh7bt
    @NicoleMiller-uh7bt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Char in this video ruined it, sorry to say this all she does is yell over everyone.

  • @Cowee504
    @Cowee504 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think y'all have a female narcissist on the show and I think we all know who it was 😂😂😂😂

    • @user-vg9eh4gr9j
      @user-vg9eh4gr9j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah, and she is a sad sight...

  • @LorenaMontoya7
    @LorenaMontoya7 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don’t want him she’s can have him I don’t care

  • @williamwashington4633
    @williamwashington4633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Char basing everything off her experience and you need to stop

    • @KassieP-sf6nz
      @KassieP-sf6nz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I can't believe Hario let her talk over CJ and not let him finish his sentence

  • @williamwashington4633
    @williamwashington4633 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So what happened to two wrongs don’t make a right stop playing char

  • @donacunningham9304
    @donacunningham9304 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a very disturbing chat this week. You have one who has a speaker that's too low. You can't hear Her. You have one who's too loud and overbearing. He tries to monopolize the conversation. You'd have one who doesn't get to speak at all. Even Alicia doesn't get to really say too much. Because they're more soft-spoken to control the conversation and to overtake. Everyone with their opinions which everyone has with opinion, but I find this to be as narcissistic as what we're trying to get passed because the Boulder, the brasser and those that like to hear themselves talk are overbearing. I don't think it's fair to people that have an opinion say. For example, China has an opinion that is very open. Very wise and I appreciate her a lot. I don't know the opinion of the other woman because she needs to put a speaker to her phone so we can hear Her. The other lady, I really never got to hear Too Much of anything that She had to say. And it also the 2 louder gentleman kind of's drowned it out. Hario up. I am not criticizing. I am trying to voice my opinion about getting an understanding behind everyone's ideals. In this particular situation, so China was pretty much right and trying to find a solution. But not when other people are overbearing and their word means moreover the everyone else. I don't know if you ever will see this comment. But I appreciate this support group more than you know. I'm 70 years old and have been through 3 narcissistic relationships. Mother first marriage of 25 years and second significant other for 22 so I need all the positive that I can get not the one-sided and the not listening to each other. Everyone's opinion and. And voice needs to be here heard. Rather, thank you for allowing me my opinion. And all this arguing is what we've done in our narcissistic situation. For years. Some of us and I feel as though it's not a thoughtful conversation that was had and far as resolution goes. I think that it goes with what each of us feel in our heart and to come together with how we all felt Daring that narcissistic situation. So please forgive me for my opinion. But it was a stressful stressful stressful conversation to me and very , very , very one sided

  • @michelejacobs000
    @michelejacobs000 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't mean to be rude all three ladies talking/raising their voices at once hard to listen...

    • @EmpathicCharWithBounderies
      @EmpathicCharWithBounderies 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      But the men wasn’t raising their voice…. That’s not true. I will say I was the loudest of the women and Chyna got passionate too but not as much as I did but the other two ladies J Isabella and Alicia Breeze kept their calm…. But that’s something common, women throwing other women under the bus unjustly. I will admit I did get a little too heated at times but I wa getting interrupted and CJ is very good at manufacturing conflict. He turned my true statement into a battle against the sexes. I kept repeating this was not why I made the true statement. I said more than once why I brought it up and it got ignored because those two men didn’t like the factual statement I made.

  • @nv_chino
    @nv_chino 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lol, what’s there to brag about? It was nothing.

  • @curtiscrump6076
    @curtiscrump6076 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jesus is the Black Womans Husband

    • @sophiyahsunflower7259
      @sophiyahsunflower7259 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      As He should because all true followers are the BRIDE of Messiah. Men should be as submitted to Righteousness, like a bride to her husband. Peace.