If you have trouble raising your kids , why give it to the father........I forgot they probably don't know the father or the dads in jail, or just gone. Sprinkle, Sprinkle,..,.....You got this girl you are a strong beautiful black queen lmao lol 😆😂 😆😂
A commenter did simple math on the $3000 a month from food stamps. He showed that its $96 in some change a day in 31 days. She is feeding 7 kids and herself which makes it 8 people off $96. I spend $40 a day on myself. That woman is poor and like the guy said, she is probably posting when she gets that money because she runs out of food before 31 days each month. 8 people at a minimum of two meals a day will run 3k out extremely fast. This is why as you see in her videos its cheap poor quality food and junk food. I honestly think her post is for other project women and not regular people.
We are all the end results of OUR OWN decisions. These modern western LQBW are solely responsible for their vergina and her whom that they are solely responsible for and the men they allow access to the vergina and plant seeds into their womb.
9 times out of 10, these women who can't afford groceries for their kids had enough money for their hair, nails, new clothes, vacations, and late night excursions
@Jennifer-my5dm yeah, what gets me is single baby mamas is nothing new, and some women still get fooled by dudes who don't want the responsibility. But I guess they are grown @ss women, though.
You were almost right. The idea of not having children before marriage came from the the traditional idea of not having sex before marriage which came from the root concept from The Bible specifically Christianity. A lot of folks like to harp on how Christianity is later dated than some other religions (It's 700 years earlier than Islam by the way) however Christianity is just a continuation of the Old Testament which predates everything. Written Human history stops around 6000 years ago, if you actually add up the ages of all people from Genesis to New Testament it's around 6000 years, people think stuff like this is a coincidence. If you never seen the birth rate calculation and expansion mathematics, you'd also be surprised to know that that it's impossible for us to only have around 8 Billion people on Earth if we've been here for millions, hundreds thousands or even Tens of Thousands of years, we'd have way more people regardless of all the death and plagues and natural disasters. Ever questioned why we all are genetically mixed just at different %. All your ancestors at some point are related to mine regardless of what race you are, you just currently look like you do based on recent ancestral relationships. Everything the Bible says is correct. People should get married first, move in together, then have kids. Even if the relationship is not stellar, if you both do things the right way and actually seek God's counsel you're 100 times better off than the average person.
I think your right to question where our taxes go but we have welfare handouts going to poor people, rich people and massive corporations. Our taxes are getting wasted all around its just worded differently. But your right if you are not contributing why should you get anything. The crazy thing is its still a small amount compared to what the handouts for corporations get. This is coming from a 50+ yr old self employed guy who believes in accountability.
@@tinmanslickgreasy999 I agree with your opinion. I don't have a problem with legitimately helping those who have a genuine need for it. My problem is with those that don't the help and are receiving it especially wealthy corporations and wealthy individuals. What needs to happen is the state needs to determine who genuinely needs financial assistance and also sending those who qualify to a vocational school to learn a new job and a skill set. My understanding is that Unemployment and Financial assistance was originally designed to help someone to get back on their feet and back into the workforce not living off assistance as a job
I don’t want a nickel of my taxes taking care of a seed I didn’t create. No sympathy for the women nor children because that’s why this dysfunctional generational cycle continues. The line has to drawn in the sand even if the children have to suffer. 🤷🏾♂️
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand men's issues in the manosphere and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
People used to respect single moms. Single moms took it too far. They started acting like they were better than everyone and deserved more. Started acting like having multiple random kids was a flex.
@@streetjones7713man i hit up a friend i havent spoke to in some time. (I started doing real good financially got my life right) This dude and his girl were like yeah man section 8 just opened up u tryna get on? I was like bro y r u excited about that. His new chic got him thinking the gov stuff is a come up and flex. Needless to say thats the last we will speak.
My niece graduated salutatorian of her high school graduating class and is an international baccalaureate. No way does she find someone like that inspirational.
I HAVE TWO KIDS WITH TWO BABYDADDIES AND I AM NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE INCOME OR A HOME BECAUSE I REFUSE TO DATE AND BECAUSE I REFUSE TO HAVE SEX AND I LIVE IN AMERICA 🇺🇸🇺🇸THEY LITERALLY HAVE THE POLICE ENFORCING THEIR NONSENSE TOO
Trips me out because these women will have a baby by a dude they didn't marry, complain how hard it is....then repeat that same mistake several more times....then play victim and act like we all (other men and women) need to step up and be good parents too
@rochelletaylor4558 but still she's the one who gets pregnant and already has a kid so even though they helped she should be more responsible if the mistake has happened before
@bentennyson2565 True and agrreed, but But the men keep coming and planting seeds inside them the men are to blame just as much as the women who get pregnant. The women can't get pregnant if the men keep their Jimmie in their pants as well as the women keeping their legs closed.
People nowadays make it too easy and comfortable for these types of women to post begging on the internet. This “I have no control of my own actions” narrative is getting old..
I like how every woman says "my baby Daddy is a narcissist". Bitch, that is statistically impossible. Narcissists make up less than 1% of the human population.
Winter is here for the men too. If antibabymama culture is here to stay, then legs will stay closed. Me better invest in them flesh lights and sex dolls
People think it's funny, but the lack of respect towards having a man in your life to be a father to your kids is more important than anything else. Women have the choice of who gets born, and they just play with it like it's not the most serious aspect of life.
I can remember during the 1990s that if you criticized any single black woman who had 2 kids or more by different men . You would be under verbal attack for even bringing up the topic. Now, things are changing. Because you can talk about it and not worry about being ostracized anymore. Regardless.
In the 80’s if you got pregnant some churches would have you stand up in front of the congregation and apologize. Girls had ONE child and they would go to school, work and become productive citizens.
@@deblay7347cuz they get kick backs from the child support system. You shouldn't need a judicial force to force parenthood on your partner and you shouldn't have bred w/ guy who didn't want to raise kids. It's not the judges fault but your fault in choice of men
A lot of these chicks feel so entitled that they think the man should take care of all of them. I saw one threw the McDonald’s on the floor because her ex didn’t get some for the other 3 kids 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
I love my kids so much I will do anything for them except ensure they are born into a loving home with their father. Even if you aren't religious, the law of nature is always true. If you expect to reap corn when you planted nettles, you’re not going to get corn - no matter how much time you spend watering, ferilizing, or cultivating your plants. If you don’t like the crop you are reaping, you need to change the seed you are sowing!”
I'm 35 with no kids, and when people ask me why I don't have any kids I tell them the God honest truth. I don't have kids because I want to be a wife, not a baby mama. And I'm not throwing shade at any single mama's. But I grew up surrounded by miserable baby mama's, and I REFUSE. When I gave my life to God I slapped a purity ring on my finger and I've been celibate ever since....AND HAPPY And let's be real, cause women can wait until marriage and then get married and it doesn't work out and now they are single mothers....THATS DIFFERENT. I'm not going to spread my legs with someone who has not changed my last name and helped elevate my Spiritual growth. I KNOW MY WORTH and I WILL not settle for less! Shout out to the single mother's who are doing their best to provide and protect!
I was the same way. Met a man and got married at 39 and had two beautiful boys and raised them with a daddy. It was worth the wait. You are doing the right.😊
What annoys me about these "I'd tell the younger me to have wait before kids" ... I know, everyone told you to wait especially the dad that you didn't marry.
She wouldn't have even listened to her older self anyway lol this is the same shxt I told my older brother when we were like 19. Now we in our 30s and he got 4 baby mamas smh
@@gammafrost it's crazy and I've seen all the drama firsthand over the years. 2 of the baby mamas my own mother has no knowledge of because I don't know how to bring myself to tell her as she will be feel upset. But yeah if there are any young dudes out there reading this please whatever you do be careful with the type of women you sleep with it's not worth it.
You’re absolutely right as a women we constantly hear “wait to have babies I wish I did” I’m a married women and I had people tell me this while I was engaged
I’m 28 and I refuse to have kids without marriage. I’ve told some guys this and they’ve walked away🤷🏾♀️I feel like societies overall views on marriage are becoming severely warped. I get being scared of being married but having kids that will depend on you until the day you die is even scarier😂 People truly don’t grasp that taking care of a child will impact you emotionally, financially/economically, socially, physically, etc. and it’s even harder if you do it alone. Don’t let society/friends/family talk you into popping out babies just cause. Be intentional because it’s real out here.
@@NikB714 That’s absolutely true. Something may happen where someone could end up alone but it also might not! Won’t know until it happens (that’s life) 🤷♀️ While there’s pros and cons, I’d still rather take my chances of having a baby with a husband vs. a boyfriend.
@@NikB714its a possibility, nut ideally a man who marries and produces children will have life insurance, a trust, and other means to provide in his absence. If a man can't be organized enough to do that, a woman (and her father who shpuld be vetting the ma shpuld not agree to take on that risk.
Probably because she knows that if she asks for help from them they’re going to want to see their kids or have custody. She values full control of the kids more than their well-being.
These women be claiming that they baby daddies do the bare minimum but you chose child support not knowing child support is usually cheaper then what the dad will spend 🤷🏿♂️
Yeap. I had to explain to my significant other when we started back talking again. A was given her like $3000 or so a month, she steady talking about child support this and child support that. I'm explaining to her that she will get a lot less and I will strictly be paying that. She finally realized that what her Mom and Dad was telling was a falsehood. I can see if I wasn't paying her at all and a deadbeat or something. If someone is already taking care of the children and have been since birth, DON'T PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT. In fact support him in all his accolades because that's what's going to keep children at least fed and sheltered.
When women hold other women to account for being promiscuous , being professional single mothers or falsely accusing men of sexual harassment/ assault it is very VERY powerful
The other part of why the village won’t help is because you have grandmothers at 35 the mother at 16 and a fresh new born at 1, no accountability no discipline, no husband just kids raising kids in the village
Sexual discipline is all about morals, ethics, values and principles and I’m glad to see women are drinking the coffee and pushing back on their counterparts who think that being a single mom is a flex, it’s a flex that we know you make bad decisions about your life, that’s the only possible flex that we recognize, stay strong and healthy fellas
Oh yeah.. I just moved in to my new condo last week.) 2 doors down from me. There’s this really beautiful looking young lady. I mean very pretty. She’s a single mother. With a daughter. Last week. Around about 3 in the morning.. her daughter literally banging on my door… begging for some food.. she’s like 7 years old.. bone thin.. looking under weight.. i couldn’t believe it. !! .. so somebody call 911.. it wasn’t me.. but this poor child was starving to death.
I grew up in this atmosphere in the 90s. All of my friends ended up like this. I was lucky to have an intelligent, dignified Mom who raised me right and put me on the path to success.
I will never understand why you as a woman just don’t get on birth control. You know you out here in these streets! If you don’t have the self control to practice abstinence , protect yourself.
It's good to see women finally speaking to this bc men have been saying it for a long time. We realized it is not up to us as men to correct women. Women must police each other if this Baby Mama cycle is going to break.
As quiet as it is kept. I've seen a lot of young women 30 yrs. and up walking the street in broad light, not selling their bodies but looking for a man to meet. Their manner of dress suggest they hope to catch a simp to help pay those bills.
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
Pro Tip: If a woman is telling you a story and she doesn't look you in the eyes or she's looking up at the sky while she's telling it then SHE IS LYING! This comes from experience.
@@eezyville1704 God tier tip: A woman can look you in the eyes and never blink, while still serving you a lie. Drink this Grande Mocha Black with two shots of Expresso.☕🕵🏾♂️🤣
I knew a woman who had eight kids from eight different military men. She was getting 800.00 per month, per child. That's 6400.00 a month. Since child support does not count as income, she was also able to get into subsidized housing, get free medical, and get the food stamps. In the state i live, support enforcement does not take any of the child support when they collect it. I know some states do but not this one.
I grew up in a single mom household. The community I grew up in I never seen two-parent household. I thought it was normal growing up for black men not to be in the homes. This was always in my mind as I grew up as it regards to me dating & having sexual relations with people. My mom struggled raising me & she had a short temper mad at the world at times due to her financial stance. I carried that over the years and it motivated me to find healthy relationship that grew into a marriage. I always wanted to be a wife I thought being married it would be better and it has been for me. We have no children yet but we are trying to be more financially secure so our babies have a better life than ours. People have fun use protection and make smart decisions. Your body and sexual urges can't be your decision maker that have lifetime regrets. These videos examples I have seen too many times over the years. Hopefully with honest & open decisions we as the black collective can do better ❤
Sis, I’m so happy for you for seeing what you didn’t want in your life and doing the work to attain a healthy, financially stable lifestyle with your husband. Peace and blessings!
They want full custody for the child support and then complain that they have the children all the time. I don't even care if anyone makes sense of it at this point 🤣
These baby momma kids out here starving. Since the start of summer this kid comes over my house ostensibly to play with my nephew but next thing you know he is in the kitchen, in the fridge or asking my nephew for food. On Sunday I told him to leave twice. 2 times i was upstairs and heard my back door open and there he was in my fridge.
Older women are capping, they never told younger women the right things to do.They were the main ones pushing getting the bag, having all these kids and not needing a man and everything else. Only after the crap hit the fan and they see the results of their teaching do they now claim to have always been giving out good advice. Look at the most popular bag chasers on social media, most of them are in their 40’s or late 30’s.
Older women having telling younger women not to get knocked up by a deadbeat _for decades._ I'm a white man and I've known since I was a child that being a baby mama isn't a good thing.
I can tell you where they don’t have STDs….my house where my wife of 43 years and I have raised 3 kids.Daughter ,39, sons at 28 and 27, none with illegitimate kids at all. College degrees and good jobs too. We are a white family but I know many people of color who have done the same things and really are happy. Morality is a game that the whole family can play 😅and it pays rich dividends for years to come….
Its so disgusting. I recently attended a family funeral, and I swear, every girl under 20 had tattoos and septum rings, including my niece! When I questioned my brother about it, his wife jumped and said my niece was “artsy.” WTF?
They cry all day but don't do anything to fix it. We struggled; every generation struggled. We were ripped in our 20s when I was growing up in the 80s because we were starving. It's not bad luck, it's all your bad decisions coming to a head and now you are effed. Grow up and do what needs to be done.
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand men's issues in the manosphere and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
The main reason if a woman has 7 kids with 7 different dads is to get more money from the government then having 1 dad with 7 kids. They know how to work the system.
All of these women talk about "It takes a village" but forget what the "village" consists of. When I grew up, most of my family lived on the same block. I could ride my bike up and down the road passing my great aunts and great uncles, grandparents, aunts, uncles and older cousins. A whole block of MARRIED family members. Somebody could watch me at any time because somebody was always home. Great uncles, uncles and older male cousins were usually the ones going to work while the wives stayed home or worked part time jobs every other day. Now with everybody spread out in different cities and states, we don't have that anymore. A neighbor could be a serial killer for all we know. Even my own parents are traveling and enjoying life more than their parents. They love to see their grandchildren but don't expect them to watch over them whenever it's convenient... they both work long hours lol. It's different nowadays.
7:35 to this woman if you can’t do it then give the kids to their fathers. One thing I doubt you will see is a father on social media complaining. Either he is finding a way or knows he will be shamed for complaining
I was visiting my parents, and one day we went to pick up the children at school, my dad asked if i notice anything, i look around, he asks me where are the parents... for every one parent there 5 grandparents. Doesnt matter what color.
She emptied the fridge, prior to making the video. She's not slick!!! Also, no one should feel bad for these females. Check them when they say "I made a mistake. I was young". Nope!! You made horrible life choices. Saying it's a mistake is an excuse to the highest degree.
ANY baby born is a choice. It's not like the baby falls out 30 seconds after the Man finishes. Even if you were "young and dumb" more than ONE child is a concious *choice* . YOU chose to lay with someone. YOU chose to nurture the baby for 9 months and then give birth to the baby. "My body *MY* choice", remember? As far as I can tell, these Men are NOT assaulting YOU, cuz you sure as hell would be saying it if that was the case. Again and again it comes back to CHOICES. Choices YOU made. Now you have to live with the choices YOU made.
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯 DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
Something else I don’t understand understand is admittedly I’m 53, but when I was a kid, you would never tell anyone that your family got food stamps because it was an embarrassment.
I tried to have this same conversation with my hafe sister daughter she told me to my face am just old and the patriarchy Now she a single mother of 4 kids by two different men and she struggling people are going to run the hard way
A woman told me yesterday a baby mama title isn’t enough power. She said marriage is the only ultimate security bond. She said when a woman sharing baby daddy it’s like sharing power. And that’s a hell no in this generation..
As a kid, I was entertained by the minstrel show Flava of Love. Social media just allowed everyone to be their own minstrel for the world to laugh at smh
I had a single mom that follows me on tiktok begging for money. I probed into her circumstances and got her to reveal that she has 2 baby Daddies who don't give her any child support and neither is she trying to hold them financially accountable. She's also hitting up dozens of men on TikTok to leach off of.
I hope you guys in the community are married before having kids, or at least together with the mother of your children. Make an honest woman out of her bros. Put in that work
Yes I would tell her get married and don't care she gets mad. And don't ask for help because they are so smart and know it all. They are waking up to their rude awaking. Now they want help and wouldn't listen.
In the last days, people will become lovers of self...forgot exactly how the rest of the verse goes, but it's SO true. Playing out right in front of us. We need Jesus.🙏🙏🙏❤
By my second pregnancy out of wedlock, I decided to place my child with an adoptive family. My ENTIRE family (of baby mothers & fathers) speak HORRIBLY about me for my decision. I’m now back in school, and finally learned a valuable lesson about accountability. This can and will stop when women start to think logically and STOP giving access to our womb to men that aren’t our husband.
As a Black woman it's disappointing hearing these stories. I'm 26 and my moms rules growing up were not to get pregnant at an early age (and don't not be married), don't become and alcoholic or drug addict (other than flower), and that I couldn't drop out of high school or college. My mom was a single mother (plus my grandmother) and very sickly mom (autoamune issues). I never wanted to disappoint her or my grandmother, so I never did too much to ruffle feathers. Now I'm a college grad making my way professionally and on my way to get married to a Black man that loves me. It hasn't been easy but I'm so happy for my growing community and I love and am understanding coffee 🫰🏽💕
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Yo, some of these women regard children as a government paycheck.
If you have trouble raising your kids , why give it to the father........I forgot they probably don't know the father or the dads in jail, or just gone. Sprinkle, Sprinkle,..,.....You got this girl you are a strong beautiful black queen lmao lol 😆😂 😆😂
A commenter did simple math on the $3000 a month from food stamps. He showed that its $96 in some change a day in 31 days. She is feeding 7 kids and herself which makes it 8 people off $96. I spend $40 a day on myself. That woman is poor and like the guy said, she is probably posting when she gets that money because she runs out of food before 31 days each month. 8 people at a minimum of two meals a day will run 3k out extremely fast. This is why as you see in her videos its cheap poor quality food and junk food. I honestly think her post is for other project women and not regular people.
We are all the end results of OUR OWN decisions. These modern western LQBW are solely responsible for their vergina and her whom that they are solely responsible for and the men they allow access to the vergina and plant seeds into their womb.
9 times out of 10, these women who can't afford groceries for their kids had enough money for their hair, nails, new clothes, vacations, and late night excursions
Once you know you know, I've seen women quit jobs
100%. see it all the time.
/Bklyn👑
@robertmotion look like a 304 with an empty fridge
Don't forget booze cigarettes and pot too.
That part
_"If you can't feed the baby, then don't have the baby 🎵 hee hee"_ 😂😂😂
By Metal Mukesha 😂
Sensational... 😎
"And don't blame the baby, if you can't feed the baby!" 🎵
Yup
@@BUnspoken
You'll be always tryin'
To stop that child from cryin'
Hustlin', stealin', lyin'
Now, baby's slowly dyin' 🎶😂
You know it's bad when WOMEN are clowning baby mama's. 😂😂😂😂
OMG.. there literally fed up.
I've clowned them forever.
@Jennifer-my5dm yeah, what gets me is single baby mamas is nothing new, and some women still get fooled by dudes who don't want the responsibility. But I guess they are grown @ss women, though.
@@Jennifer-my5dmYep! I’m an adoptee because of single motherhood. I’ve BEEN clowning them!
it's always been bad, and it's worse for the children all these years
This is the word for today, DON'T HAVE CHILDREN WITH A MAN THAT DOESN'T WANT TO MARRY YOU FIRST !
That part 💯
Why do all of these women KEEP having children without being married.
You were almost right. The idea of not having children before marriage came from the the traditional idea of not having sex before marriage which came from the root concept from The Bible specifically Christianity. A lot of folks like to harp on how Christianity is later dated than some other religions (It's 700 years earlier than Islam by the way) however Christianity is just a continuation of the Old Testament which predates everything. Written Human history stops around 6000 years ago, if you actually add up the ages of all people from Genesis to New Testament it's around 6000 years, people think stuff like this is a coincidence.
If you never seen the birth rate calculation and expansion mathematics, you'd also be surprised to know that that it's impossible for us to only have around 8 Billion people on Earth if we've been here for millions, hundreds thousands or even Tens of Thousands of years, we'd have way more people regardless of all the death and plagues and natural disasters. Ever questioned why we all are genetically mixed just at different %. All your ancestors at some point are related to mine regardless of what race you are, you just currently look like you do based on recent ancestral relationships. Everything the Bible says is correct. People should get married first, move in together, then have kids. Even if the relationship is not stellar, if you both do things the right way and actually seek God's counsel you're 100 times better off than the average person.
Yap fest@@drjonesey5
@@drjonesey5marry before you carry has nothing to do with Christianity. Every religion preaches that.
I'm a 46 year old Man that has never had kids. My question is why are my taxes being given to welfare handouts that don't contribute to society
Cause of the Democrats!😂😂😂😂
@@ramonabryant-cave3725 Between the Democrats and their Sympathizers
I think your right to question where our taxes go but we have welfare handouts going to poor people, rich people and massive corporations. Our taxes are getting wasted all around its just worded differently. But your right if you are not contributing why should you get anything. The crazy thing is its still a small amount compared to what the handouts for corporations get. This is coming from a 50+ yr old self employed guy who believes in accountability.
@@tinmanslickgreasy999 I agree with your opinion. I don't have a problem with legitimately helping those who have a genuine need for it. My problem is with those that don't the help and are receiving it especially wealthy corporations and wealthy individuals. What needs to happen is the state needs to determine who genuinely needs financial assistance and also sending those who qualify to a vocational school to learn a new job and a skill set. My understanding is that Unemployment and Financial assistance was originally designed to help someone to get back on their feet and back into the workforce not living off assistance as a job
Welfare only accounts for 1% of those government handouts. Our tax dollars are helping big corporations 10x more than anyone on welfare.
The real victims are those poor children 😢
Its tax payers
@@날Gnarleigh리todays children are tomorrows tax payers
I don’t want a nickel of my taxes taking care of a seed I didn’t create. No sympathy for the women nor children because that’s why this dysfunctional generational cycle continues. The line has to drawn in the sand even if the children have to suffer. 🤷🏾♂️
Nah we the tax players sufferin
Screw their kids.
Yall remember that nursery rhyme. First come love then come marriage then come baby and the baby carriage. idk 🤷🏽♀️ makes sense to me
Daammmnn those are facts... they don't have those no more. down by the river
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand men's issues in the manosphere and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
They live by the other one... he bought me ice cream, he bought me cake, he brought me home with a belly ache 🎶
Does marriage mean the men will not be abusive, cheat, physically help with the kids, provide etc?
People used to respect single moms. Single moms took it too far. They started acting like they were better than everyone and deserved more. Started acting like having multiple random kids was a flex.
Acting like government assistance and section 8 is a come up and makes them strong & independent
They want to be somebody "special" so bad
@@streetjones7713man i hit up a friend i havent spoke to in some time. (I started doing real good financially got my life right)
This dude and his girl were like yeah man section 8 just opened up u tryna get on?
I was like bro y r u excited about that.
His new chic got him thinking the gov stuff is a come up and flex.
Needless to say thats the last we will speak.
Truth!
Bong.
The village is tired. Powerful sentiment.
7 kids 7 daddy's on welfare and housing is nothing my daughter and granddaughters would ever aspire to be.
Nope. She's too busy to see her daughters are likely to become single mothers and her sons are likely to become felons. It's a terrible cycle.
My niece graduated salutatorian of her high school graduating class and is an international baccalaureate. No way does she find someone like that inspirational.
To the woman that has three kids by three baby daddies: This is on you and no one else
Yep cuz after the 1st she kept going
@@bgrego88shit after the second she kept going lol
She working on 4th 😢
She has 5 kids/3 bd
I HAVE TWO KIDS WITH TWO BABYDADDIES AND I AM NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE INCOME OR A HOME BECAUSE I REFUSE TO DATE AND BECAUSE I REFUSE TO HAVE SEX AND I LIVE IN AMERICA 🇺🇸🇺🇸THEY LITERALLY HAVE THE POLICE ENFORCING THEIR NONSENSE TOO
Trips me out because these women will have a baby by a dude they didn't marry, complain how hard it is....then repeat that same mistake several more times....then play victim and act like we all (other men and women) need to step up and be good parents too
Agreed like I can understand one mistake but anything after that I have no sympathy.
And those same women could potentially have help from a nuclear family but because they hate the bd his fam is banned from the kids.
@@bentennyson2565 TRUE BUT THOSE MEN HELPED HER MAKE MORE MISTAKES
@rochelletaylor4558 but still she's the one who gets pregnant and already has a kid so even though they helped she should be more responsible if the mistake has happened before
@bentennyson2565 True and agrreed, but But the men keep coming and planting seeds inside them the men are to blame just as much as the women who get pregnant. The women can't get pregnant if the men keep their Jimmie in their pants as well as the women keeping their legs closed.
She even wiped the fridge sparkling clean for the video.
🤣
Never seen a fridge so clean or maybe she just bought the fridge 😊
@@Neddie2k that would be Scammer Level Ultra Pro Platinum 🤣
@@Neddie2kor could of just moved in!!😂
Best foot forward right there 😂
People nowadays make it too easy and comfortable for these types of women to post begging on the internet. This “I have no control of my own actions” narrative is getting old..
I like how every woman says "my baby Daddy is a narcissist". Bitch, that is statistically impossible. Narcissists make up less than 1% of the human population.
Majorly old👍🏾
Once you know you know,
No accountability is a lane trait and they wonder why no one wants them
“Winter is here ladies”
RIP Kevin Samuels
Winter is here for the men too.
If antibabymama culture is here to stay, then legs will stay closed. Me better invest in them flesh lights and sex dolls
Not yet, but I can't wait!! 😂 Im tied of being hot bruh.
F.Y.I. KEVIN SAMUELS DIED WITH A NON-MELINATED WOMAN HE MET ONLY THE NIGHT BEFORE WHILE ON TOP OF HIM WHO WAS NOT..HIS WIFE 🎤 🎙 🎤
2030 is when winter arrives..
I've been thinking about him lately
Heavenly Father thank *you* for protecting me, my mind, soul and body from all this foolishness 🙏💓
No kidding, I see why Jesus is so against the world now
Amen now I fully understand why he wants people to wait til marriage
Great prayer
Amen!
Hallelujah!! Amen.
🎶YOU LET HIM HIT IT RAW YOU DIDN'T HAVE SECONDS THOUGHTS NOW YOU A SINGLE MOM NOW YOU A SINGLE MOM🎶
😐hits the quan
@@jamrock719 💀
YOU PICKED HIM!- Kevin Samuels 😂😂
I miss him
He had kids with different women. He died after a night with a rando.
@@TheUncommonShaman Yeah, they chose him.
@@alesosouto you don't miss! 🎯
People think it's funny, but the lack of respect towards having a man in your life to be a father to your kids is more important than anything else. Women have the choice of who gets born, and they just play with it like it's not the most serious aspect of life.
I can remember during the 1990s that if you criticized any single black woman who had 2 kids or more by different men . You would be under verbal attack for even bringing up the topic. Now, things are changing. Because you can talk about it and not worry about being ostracized anymore. Regardless.
People are tired of the victim mentality
Things have changed already
In the 80’s if you got pregnant some churches would have you stand up in front of the congregation and apologize. Girls had ONE child and they would go to school, work and become productive citizens.
@@M-wi5twyea now they get paid for porn
@@M-wi5twthis is so true!
The only thing that keeps women in check is shame from other women. Good work ladies. 🎉
Full custody doesn't feel so good when it's time to be a parent. They do everything in their power to not give the Dad 50/50 in court.
Not true!!! I tried to give the dad custody and me every other weekend. The evil judge sided with the dad and forced me to take them full time!!!
Cuz the baby isn't a child to them but a paycheck
@@deblay7347cuz they get kick backs from the child support system. You shouldn't need a judicial force to force parenthood on your partner and you shouldn't have bred w/ guy who didn't want to raise kids. It's not the judges fault but your fault in choice of men
@@deblay7347 wow.. so your kids got 2 parents that don't want to raise them. poor babies..
Don't know why people go on social media with their scambag rubbish shit .I am kind tired of hearing seeing this women carrying on tick tok
The best way to live in poverty is to become a single mother.
I guarantee 2 of the 3 baby daddies are willing to pick up his kid just not the other kids
A lot of these chicks feel so entitled that they think the man should take care of all of them. I saw one threw the McDonald’s on the floor because her ex didn’t get some for the other 3 kids 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@@gammafrostI remember that video he was bringing something for his son but he isn't obligated to do anything for the kids that aren't his.
And that is true and some of these baby mothers need to understand that
I love my kids so much I will do anything for them except ensure they are born into a loving home with their father. Even if you aren't religious, the law of nature is always true.
If you expect to reap corn when you planted nettles, you’re not going to get corn - no matter how much time you spend watering, ferilizing, or cultivating your plants. If you don’t like the crop you are reaping, you need to change the seed you are sowing!”
Except "settle" for a man I know who'd pay the bills but maybe ain't as attractive as I'd like the answers could go on & on they don't love shti.
Exactly
@@chunky9791 once you know you know
You don't count the women who had babies w/ never any intent to have fathers
I'm 35 with no kids, and when people ask me why I don't have any kids I tell them the God honest truth. I don't have kids because I want to be a wife, not a baby mama. And I'm not throwing shade at any single mama's. But I grew up surrounded by miserable baby mama's, and I REFUSE. When I gave my life to God I slapped a purity ring on my finger and I've been celibate ever since....AND HAPPY And let's be real, cause women can wait until marriage and then get married and it doesn't work out and now they are single mothers....THATS DIFFERENT. I'm not going to spread my legs with someone who has not changed my last name and helped elevate my Spiritual growth. I KNOW MY WORTH and I WILL not settle for less! Shout out to the single mother's who are doing their best to provide and protect!
I was the same way. Met a man and got married at 39 and had two beautiful boys and raised them with a daddy. It was worth the wait. You are doing the right.😊
@@thesaltycrone9237 thank you! 😊
What annoys me about these "I'd tell the younger me to have wait before kids" ... I know, everyone told you to wait especially the dad that you didn't marry.
She wouldn't have even listened to her older self anyway lol this is the same shxt I told my older brother when we were like 19. Now we in our 30s and he got 4 baby mamas smh
@@jayo3074mercy 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ that’s wild. The struggle must be crazy.
@@gammafrost it's crazy and I've seen all the drama firsthand over the years. 2 of the baby mamas my own mother has no knowledge of because I don't know how to bring myself to tell her as she will be feel upset. But yeah if there are any young dudes out there reading this please whatever you do be careful with the type of women you sleep with it's not worth it.
You’re absolutely right as a women we constantly hear “wait to have babies I wish I did” I’m a married women and I had people tell me this while I was engaged
@@jayo3074look like we should shaming men to I see
To be honest I don't feel bad for these women
Not One Bit.
I never cared
Especially since they have no remorse of how they chose to have kids.
She doesn’t feel bad for herself why should we lol
You shouldn't. Your tax dollars are supporting their irresponsible lifestyle.
I’m so allergic to this bull, I’m about to sneeze…..
Ah-Ah-Ah-AHHH-COUNTABILITY!!!!
Good phrase 😂
You may get arrested for assault for striking fear in the hearts of many women with this comment 😂😂😂
@@babyfunk7512 say it again this time use this 📢🔊🔊🤣🤣. For some reason I don’t think it registered all the way out there 👉👉
Based.
I’m 28 and I refuse to have kids without marriage. I’ve told some guys this and they’ve walked away🤷🏾♀️I feel like societies overall views on marriage are becoming severely warped. I get being scared of being married but having kids that will depend on you until the day you die is even scarier😂
People truly don’t grasp that taking care of a child will impact you emotionally, financially/economically, socially, physically, etc. and it’s even harder if you do it alone.
Don’t let society/friends/family talk you into popping out babies just cause. Be intentional because it’s real out here.
Even if you are married something can always happen spouse can get sick. Passed away. Etc. you might still end up doing it along.
@@NikB714 That’s absolutely true. Something may happen where someone could end up alone but it also might not! Won’t know until it happens (that’s life) 🤷♀️
While there’s pros and cons, I’d still rather take my chances of having a baby with a husband vs. a boyfriend.
The feminism of freedom of recent years has drowned out feminism of care that sustained our species since forever. M
@@NikB714its a possibility, nut ideally a man who marries and produces children will have life insurance, a trust, and other means to provide in his absence. If a man can't be organized enough to do that, a woman (and her father who shpuld be vetting the ma shpuld not agree to take on that risk.
@@kendrahelm1854kids generally aren't suppose to depend on you for that long
These are the same women calling dudes broke & yet acting like the internet is a make a wish foundation
“Look at me I don’t even ask my kids father for help raising them but I’m going to come online and share that I need some help”
She sounds stupid for saying that. They are the MAIN ones she need to ask for help and provision for their kids.
😂😂😂😂😂
Probably because she knows that if she asks for help from them they’re going to want to see their kids or have custody. She values full control of the kids more than their well-being.
@@missjoy6685 And that's messed up. Unless they are unemployed and/or involved in sketchy business, they can take some pressure off her hands.
@@cyniczen233caines exactly!
These women be claiming that they baby daddies do the bare minimum but you chose child support not knowing child support is usually cheaper then what the dad will spend 🤷🏿♂️
Except most of them pick bums to have kids with
Hallelujah
for real
Yeap. I had to explain to my significant other when we started back talking again. A was given her like $3000 or so a month, she steady talking about child support this and child support that. I'm explaining to her that she will get a lot less and I will strictly be paying that. She finally realized that what her Mom and Dad was telling was a falsehood. I can see if I wasn't paying her at all and a deadbeat or something. If someone is already taking care of the children and have been since birth, DON'T PUT HIM ON CHILD SUPPORT. In fact support him in all his accolades because that's what's going to keep children at least fed and sheltered.
@@elijahshabazz1806 facts bro
3 baby daddies. Does she want one of them to take all three kids for her while she works? 🤦🏿♂️
That the ain’t shit they say idk if it true or not don’t matter it mostly not 😂
The fastest growing homeless population is black women with children
😢
Nope it's still men
@@bgrego88it says growing, so they're nowhere near men but they're catching up.
@@SoulTouchMusic93 ok bring homeless from trauma and inability to work is 1 thing, having kids that you can't afford to have is another
Not true they the most educated in the entire world 😂😂😂
@@SoulTouchMusic93 Thank you.
When women hold other women to account for being promiscuous , being professional single mothers or falsely accusing men of sexual harassment/ assault it is very VERY powerful
The other part of why the village won’t help is because you have grandmothers at 35 the mother at 16 and a fresh new born at 1, no accountability no discipline, no husband just kids raising kids in the village
You definitely said it 💯💯💯
Sexual discipline is all about morals, ethics, values and principles and I’m glad to see women are drinking the coffee and pushing back on their counterparts who think that being a single mom is a flex, it’s a flex that we know you make bad decisions about your life, that’s the only possible flex that we recognize, stay strong and healthy fellas
They have no morals. They are sexual liberated 😂😂😂.
That sell your refrigerator comment, damn near took me out. Lol.
Oh yeah.. I just moved in to my new condo last week.) 2 doors down from me. There’s this really beautiful looking young lady. I mean very pretty. She’s a single mother. With a daughter. Last week. Around about 3 in the morning.. her daughter literally banging on my door… begging for some food.. she’s like 7 years old.. bone thin.. looking under weight.. i couldn’t believe it. !! .. so somebody call 911.. it wasn’t me.. but this poor child was starving to death.
@@harveyhankerson8359 Leave them to Darwin. That's natural selection.
She can't because the landlord owns it
Why don't you be like applying for food stamps, or how about ask the baby daddy. We are not going to support this culture anymore.
I didn’t vote to give my taxes to free loaders.
It happened a LONG time ago and as long as companies turn a huge profit off the Fed’s EBT system, it won’t stop. They will out lobby you.
All the immigrants the democrats letting in getting them tax dollars now
Definitely need to be a cap on it .
No, the mother's where the village, but we dont have mother's now, we have baby mama's who are selfish
I grew up in this atmosphere in the 90s. All of my friends ended up like this. I was lucky to have an intelligent, dignified Mom who raised me right and put me on the path to success.
I will never understand why you as a woman just don’t get on birth control. You know you out here in these streets! If you don’t have the self control to practice abstinence , protect yourself.
It's good to see women finally speaking to this bc men have been saying it for a long time. We realized it is not up to us as men to correct women. Women must police each other if this Baby Mama cycle is going to break.
As quiet as it is kept. I've seen a lot of young women 30 yrs. and up walking the street in broad light, not selling their bodies but looking for a man to meet. Their manner of dress suggest they hope to catch a simp to help pay those bills.
So they basically still selling??? 😂
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
It ain't quiet LOL
Before the Village had one screw up, now the village has 20 screw ups.
Pro Tip: If a woman is telling you a story and she doesn't look you in the eyes or she's looking up at the sky while she's telling it then SHE IS LYING! This comes from experience.
@@eezyville1704 God tier tip: A woman can look you in the eyes and never blink, while still serving you a lie. Drink this Grande Mocha Black with two shots of Expresso.☕🕵🏾♂️🤣
That’s a PEOPLE thing weirdo.
Sell the refrigerator 😂😂😂Love it.
Oh wow. It’s a small world. She’s my next door neighbors daughter. !! And yes.. she’s definitely telling the truth.)
She put herself in this position due to bad choices and decisions. Facts.
@@isaacsgeorge1775 oh hell yeah.
I knew a woman who had eight kids from eight different military men. She was getting 800.00 per month, per child. That's 6400.00 a month. Since child support does not count as income, she was also able to get into subsidized housing, get free medical, and get the food stamps. In the state i live, support enforcement does not take any of the child support when they collect it. I know some states do but not this one.
The government needs to get out of the baby daddy business
Never gonna happen the system runs off slavery black women gotta keep up the quota
I grew up in a single mom household. The community I grew up in I never seen two-parent household. I thought it was normal growing up for black men not to be in the homes. This was always in my mind as I grew up as it regards to me dating & having sexual relations with people. My mom struggled raising me & she had a short temper mad at the world at times due to her financial stance. I carried that over the years and it motivated me to find healthy relationship that grew into a marriage. I always wanted to be a wife I thought being married it would be better and it has been for me. We have no children yet but we are trying to be more financially secure so our babies have a better life than ours. People have fun use protection and make smart decisions. Your body and sexual urges can't be your decision maker that have lifetime regrets. These videos examples I have seen too many times over the years. Hopefully with honest & open decisions we as the black collective can do better ❤
Sis, I’m so happy for you for seeing what you didn’t want in your life and doing the work to attain a healthy, financially stable lifestyle with your husband. Peace and blessings!
@@DioniWise87 thank you
They want full custody for the child support and then complain that they have the children all the time. I don't even care if anyone makes sense of it at this point 🤣
These baby momma kids out here starving. Since the start of summer this kid comes over my house ostensibly to play with my nephew but next thing you know he is in the kitchen, in the fridge or asking my nephew for food. On Sunday I told him to leave twice. 2 times i was upstairs and heard my back door open and there he was in my fridge.
Kick him out idgaf
Wow, call the mother and put her on notice.
@@JosephChandler-vd1cs don't know her name or number.
Older women are capping, they never told younger women the right things to do.They were the main ones pushing getting the bag, having all these kids and not needing a man and everything else.
Only after the crap hit the fan and they see the results of their teaching do they now claim to have always been giving out good advice.
Look at the most popular bag chasers on social media, most of them are in their 40’s or late 30’s.
Like 1% of women tried telling younger women. Thank God men are more willing to teach the younger generation
Facts!!!! The absolute truth!!!!
Older women having telling younger women not to get knocked up by a deadbeat _for decades._ I'm a white man and I've known since I was a child that being a baby mama isn't a good thing.
I don't understand why they just don't give custody to the Fathers, so they don't have to deal with this. 🙅🏽♀️
They won't get that tax credit at the end of the year that's why...
I had 1 child after I was married 4 years. I am now married 18 years. My mother was a single mom of 1, and I knew early on it was not for me.
I'm glad that our people are wising up. Calling out the foolishness. And that we do not condone this bad rachet behaviour. Keep it up guys
Ofcourse the community has to foot the bill while the "babydaddy's" are free to move around and create more babymommas
Strength and independence is hurting Black Women. Especially the ones that say I don't need no man.
You are not independent if you are dependent on the average tax payer.
STD'S ARE ALL OVER THE WORLD NOT JUST IN HOUSTON!
And it's all from stupid people having no self control or standards
Which means people need to protect themselves as a rule.
@@Dweeble233 exactly
True, but I doesn’t hurt to know whenever and wherever an outbreak occurs though.
I can tell you where they don’t have STDs….my house where my wife of 43 years and I have raised 3 kids.Daughter ,39, sons at 28 and 27, none with illegitimate kids at all. College degrees and good jobs too.
We are a white family but I know many people of color who have done the same things and really are happy.
Morality is a game that the whole family can play 😅and it pays rich dividends for years to come….
What's Up With The Septum Rings On 5 Out Of 6 Women 🤢🙄😏?!!
Lol bull thots
Attention!!!
That shit a turn-off
Its so disgusting. I recently attended a family funeral, and I swear, every girl under 20 had tattoos and septum rings, including my niece! When I questioned my brother about it, his wife jumped and said my niece was “artsy.” WTF?
So gross.
I hate that my taxes go to government interests that don't serve me and to women with no self control or sense of accountability.
That's part of the trade off of living in a representative democracy. Your taxes go to things you don't agree with all the time.
IT'S A WOMANS CHOICE, and most of them make the wrong 1
They cry all day but don't do anything to fix it. We struggled; every generation struggled. We were ripped in our 20s when I was growing up in the 80s because we were starving. It's not bad luck, it's all your bad decisions coming to a head and now you are effed. Grow up and do what needs to be done.
Women are are starting to change by taking SOME accountability. We aren't going to change until we accept the fact that we need to change.
Na I’m good! They can tell their story walking, idc
@@TJ-100😂😂men ain’t going
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand men's issues in the manosphere and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
That lady talking about the village was facts
The main reason if a woman has 7 kids with 7 different dads is to get more money from the government then having 1 dad with 7 kids. They know how to work the system.
They know that this system favors them. Why you think they so bent on voting democrats? They don’t want this system to change…
All of these women talk about "It takes a village" but forget what the "village" consists of.
When I grew up, most of my family lived on the same block. I could ride my bike up and down the road passing my great aunts and great uncles, grandparents, aunts, uncles and older cousins. A whole block of MARRIED family members. Somebody could watch me at any time because somebody was always home. Great uncles, uncles and older male cousins were usually the ones going to work while the wives stayed home or worked part time jobs every other day. Now with everybody spread out in different cities and states, we don't have that anymore. A neighbor could be a serial killer for all we know.
Even my own parents are traveling and enjoying life more than their parents. They love to see their grandchildren but don't expect them to watch over them whenever it's convenient... they both work long hours lol. It's different nowadays.
7:35 to this woman if you can’t do it then give the kids to their fathers. One thing I doubt you will see is a father on social media complaining. Either he is finding a way or knows he will be shamed for complaining
A lot of them can't give the kids to the fathers because they had kids with pookie.
The way these women talk, my, my, not a surprise that they are baby mama. How they have more than one kid, it's really tragic...
I was visiting my parents, and one day we went to pick up the children at school, my dad asked if i notice anything, i look around, he asks me where are the parents... for every one parent there 5 grandparents. Doesnt matter what color.
😭😂🤣😆 opening the refrigerator and seeing 👀 more lite 💡 then food is wild strong 💪🏾 and independent 🤔🧠🤫💯
She emptied the fridge, prior to making the video. She's not slick!!! Also, no one should feel bad for these females. Check them when they say "I made a mistake. I was young". Nope!! You made horrible life choices. Saying it's a mistake is an excuse to the highest degree.
ANY baby born is a choice. It's not like the baby falls out 30 seconds after the Man finishes. Even if you were "young and dumb" more than ONE child is a concious *choice* . YOU chose to lay with someone. YOU chose to nurture the baby for 9 months and then give birth to the baby. "My body *MY* choice", remember? As far as I can tell, these Men are NOT assaulting YOU, cuz you sure as hell would be saying it if that was the case. Again and again it comes back to CHOICES. Choices YOU made. Now you have to live with the choices YOU made.
304's criticising other 304's as if they're different, whilst making sure they have make up on to thirst trap the beta simps out there, attention is currency for all 304's they will do anything for it, including pretending they understand and are exposing other 304's as they know men will notice & praise them, whilst the reality they're just as ratchet as the rest of them in reality...💯
DO NOT BE DECEIVED MEN BY THESE JEZEBEL TACTICS...💯
That’s exactly what I was thinking too 😂😂. That’s just another level of being pathetic.
She does the same thing all those poor uneducated women yall accuse men hunting for overseas
Looks like overseas is the us now
@@Nehesionce you know you know
Something else I don’t understand understand is admittedly I’m 53, but when I was a kid, you would never tell anyone that your family got food stamps because it was an embarrassment.
I tried to have this same conversation with my hafe sister daughter she told me to my face am just old and the patriarchy Now she a single mother of 4 kids by two different men and she struggling people are going to run the hard way
A woman told me yesterday a baby mama title isn’t enough power. She said marriage is the only ultimate security bond. She said when a woman sharing baby daddy it’s like sharing power. And that’s a hell no in this generation..
As a kid, I was entertained by the minstrel show Flava of Love. Social media just allowed everyone to be their own minstrel for the world to laugh at smh
"If she look good, she better eat just as good" - some single father
I had a single mom that follows me on tiktok begging for money. I probed into her circumstances and got her to reveal that she has 2 baby Daddies who don't give her any child support and neither is she trying to hold them financially accountable. She's also hitting up dozens of men on TikTok to leach off of.
Enjoying this coffee with a blunt....satisfying😌
She gonna try to SIGN language her babies into taking care of BIG MOMMA once they age out of EBT/SNAP 😏
I hope you guys in the community are married before having kids, or at least together with the mother of your children. Make an honest woman out of her bros. Put in that work
You think the guys in this community have that problem? Unfortunately women choose who they sleep with so gotta ask why women choose pookie over bob
@@samuraitadpole5459right! You can't make an "honest" woman out of women that aren't HONEST to themselves.
They LOVE being dishonest women though. They love dishonest guys even more.
That was a thing 40 years ago
@@marcel3942
Some things don't and shouldn't change.
The man is correct.
Be better men.
The one woman said they don't make villages like they used to... No, they don't make legs that close like they used to...
They do make contraception like they used to though.
Do what GOD SAY GET MARRIED PERIOD.
Amen if we waited til marriage and listen to God thus wouldn't happen
Yes I would tell her get married and don't care she gets mad. And don't ask for help because they are so smart and know it all. They are waking up to their rude awaking. Now they want help and wouldn't listen.
In the culture I grew up in, going to work and making something of yourself was a given.
as a man who was a step father i would never do it again
I can't believe this with all the Boss Babes that's out here Big Shoutout to the Solid women calling this out. Great Clip Much Respect
And the worst part is that the government doesn't stop them even when they post the use or misuse of said help...
“ I would tell me to wait “ …. I’m sure someone or multiple peeeeeepo told you to wait gworlllllllllllll
We don’t care about each other anymore, today it’s about self gratification, sex, and money…….
In the last days, people will become lovers of self...forgot exactly how the rest of the verse goes, but it's SO true. Playing out right in front of us.
We need Jesus.🙏🙏🙏❤
@6:32 - WHERE ARE THE MEN WITH ALL THE SWAG AND DRIP TO HELP THESE SINGLE MOTHERS THEY CREATED!!!
😂😂😂 running the opposite direction
By my second pregnancy out of wedlock, I decided to place my child with an adoptive family. My ENTIRE family (of baby mothers & fathers) speak HORRIBLY about me for my decision.
I’m now back in school, and finally learned a valuable lesson about accountability. This can and will stop when women start to think logically and STOP giving access to our womb to men that aren’t our husband.
Thank you for choosing that path.
Yes. Being a single mother by choice is for riche women. Every day women, you'll need support. Marry before you carry.
Lmmfaooo at the "MUH SON SNACKIN ON HIZ SNACKS! 😂😂😂😂
As a Black woman it's disappointing hearing these stories. I'm 26 and my moms rules growing up were not to get pregnant at an early age (and don't not be married), don't become and alcoholic or drug addict (other than flower), and that I couldn't drop out of high school or college. My mom was a single mother (plus my grandmother) and very sickly mom (autoamune issues). I never wanted to disappoint her or my grandmother, so I never did too much to ruffle feathers. Now I'm a college grad making my way professionally and on my way to get married to a Black man that loves me. It hasn't been easy but I'm so happy for my growing community and I love and am understanding coffee 🫰🏽💕
History mom baby mamma grandmother baby mamma
Haha Sell the fridge and the phone….sensation!😅 (in futures voice)
Well if these women need help they should been thinking about love and marriage not baby daddies drama