" MODERN WOMEN DEMAND That Men Pay ALL THEIR BILLS! " | The Coffee Pod
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lol @22:30 Same wmn talking about how they do all the emotional labor in a relationship....
22:50 I think you got your first memeable quotable my friend. "These modern women ARE godless". Amen.
£40 for a simple coffee mug.....wtf you on 😂
Chisha, you do not be listening. That girl did not say if you can’t afford yourself and one other person you’re broke. That’s not what she said.
@@Geminicricketi Don't mind him. He's just hearing what he want to hear, like these bishes in the street do. #equality
Women: My body, my choice
Me: Your bills, your responsibility.
Perfect response.
Sir I am borrowing that one
Her body...her choice. My money...my choice.
So will I.
My bills *
I didn't want my pick of any woman I could get. I just wanted the woman I could spend the rest of my life with. And she's currently downstairs watching Bridgerton while making me strawberry lemon bars.
Good catch!
❤️❤️. You sound like my husband. It’s 5am here, been up since 330 getting his lunch ready. I couldn’t care less what these miserable creatures call me. I’m happy and loved by a wonderful man and will continue to add to our lives. I’m happy for you!
😂 they call us girls.. "pick mes'" the ones that want to build with a good man.. and by "they" im refering to SOME salty b.w.
@@racheljensen938you tweaking coming out your body on bw like that. Don't let this Internet shit get you
@@racheljensen938 Pick me's get picked. That's what really makes them salty because they are too lazy to be a pick me and get picked.
Respectfully it’s gonna be a no for me Chief. protect ya resources fellas☕️
These modern day women don’t want providers, they want sponsors.
Facts, just said this the other day
Don’t blame modern women. Blame the women who rap about it in the media and radio, they’re the influencers influencing this thought process.
@@ShimmyShayall.always blaming somebody else for yall BS.
Providers and sponsors are pretty much the same thing..
Just one has the illusion of prestige.
But ultimately you are doing the same thing, sacrifice your time, energy and resources just so she will tolerate your existence while you fool yourself into thinking it's how women love
@@marcelking1488 not true because provision isn't based on money, provision is based on some many other things
No woman is out of your league... just out of your PRICE RANGE.
Ty, Been saying that , I hate out of ur league saying, we all human, not equal but human , so same league unless u superwoman
CGA
She’s not out of your price range either . Her conditions change , magically you qualify
Slowly but surely the free ride is coming to and end!
Hopefully in the end, our generation will have achieved soemthing
@@ugo1174 our generation meaning?
The last generation said, women are going to stand up for equality, just to find out they lost thier seat on the bus.
It is hard to provide for oneself these days, imagine providing for two! These women are not realistic.
social media and influencers like the sprinkle sprinkle chic tell them otherwise
Hell I thought paying your bills is considered "Being A Adult".... Being Single WIns Championships.
Modern women will call men broke all day long all the while facing an eviction or a utility being shut-off.
Once had a chick call me a bum because I wouldn't give her money to get her electricity turned back on. Told her best I could do was drop off some old birthday cake candles 😆
I am a provider. I provide her with instruction so she doesn't end up in self-destruction.
Im a provider. I provide women with directions to the nearest SIMP.
Does the providee listen and act on your advice? Probably not.
Won't save.
That's what I tell em. I can provide instructions so yo bummy butt doesn't have to ask me for money
I don’t do that anymore. Ur working for no progress. She’ll just use it for the next man
Finding the right woman is definitely one of the hardest jobs that we'll ever have in life.
They say Prostitution is 1 of the oldest profession...this is the Modern Version
But oh so much more costly. Plus. When you wake up, she's still there.
@@JosephChandler-vd1cs 🤣
@@JosephChandler-vd1cs that's why God made Uber.
Not my wife? Heck, not my
Life. Pay your OWN bills.
A man doesn't have to pay bills. A man just needs to be him self. They want to be respected.
Exactly you can only fake for so long just be yourself and if they don’t fuck with you on to the next
Correct 👍🏽💚 @kiki...u is a woman that understands, us real brothers needs women like u & we will do u da same sweetie🎉
100 per cent. Well said!
Yeah I don’t see why these women want a free check. We all want a free check. They gotta realize they gotta pay something! Oh I get it not the important stuff but what they want to spend it on…only if life was like that. 🙌🏽😎🏄🏽♂️🚣🏽♀️
theyre fucking exhausting lmao, thank god i dont have to deal with em.
I don’t deal with them either!
The only dudes that go for that are the ones who think that's what they got to do.
Paying for a used up Gluerilla 🦍 ain’t it or worth it.
Men , your time and energy and emotions are as valuable as your counterparts and if they aren’t reciprocating , let them go and avoid those types
when she said that groceries cost a $1000 a month, i KNEW RIGHT THERE that she is wasteful with her money.
watch how a woman shops for groceries, and watch what she does with her leftovers.
if a woman has food in her trash can, she is TOO WASTEFUL FOR MARRIAGE!!
It could be $1000 per month. Depending on how many kids you have!
Or how much wine they buy!
Or if they are squeezing their makeup budget with grocery budget!😂
$1000/mo is very low for groceries for a family of 4.
@@christianhutchinson4559 maybe in some place like california or hawaii where everything is more expensive. i can feed 4 on less than half that. easy.
even so, you'd have to be throwing away a lot of food to get up to 1000 dollars.
@carcarjinks1430 , you forgot , that's you and good for you.
Wasteful? Shes just a liar
You don't need to be rich , these women can't tell the difference between rich dude and poor if they didn't know what you work. Even if they knew your job example owning plumbing business making 500k per year or being lawyer making 100k they will go with the lawyer because "status" so they can brag anout it to their girl friends.
I’m not going to be the “provider” these modern chicks desire. I remember you covered a video a few months back where I think it involved a Muslim family. They had two kids. She was trying to convince him to make her a stay at home wife where she’ll make all the food and give extra blowj*bs. He said no since it wasn’t logical. She got upset and used the kids against him emotionally by saying he would divorce when he needed space (after she quit her job and was spending extra).She also convinced the parents to side with her. Men should not have to work themselves to death in a marriage when you’re both supposed to help eachother.
Funny 😂😂😂😂these Modern day women said that they were Independent and don't need men but these be the same women on Social media. Crying and Complaining about car prices bills and other shit
It’s giving broke 💁🏽♂️
💁♂
The lady at the end was 100% correct and it was very refreshing listening to her speak about the issues in our community. In relation to dating and relationships.
Why should I pay my builds for a girl I just met . Also if you was paying your bills before you met me …why now ? Also who is going to pay my bills if I gotta use all my money to pay yours 😂
Wife wakes up at 4am to pack up my lunch and coffee!! It’s possible
So let me get this right, if you are not rich you are "broke" or if you are willing or able to retire a chick, let them live a "soft life", send them on weekly trips, Berkin Bags and shopping everyday makes you "broke"??? Fcuk outta here.
The funniest part is that this isnt even true. You still need to look good and have game.
Nah, I'm good.
I will only pay bills in my home for my wife or woman that is in my home I have authority over.
Mic 🎤 Drop
If I can't tell you what to do, you won't listen me and you are an independent woman, then you will be independently paying for everything you want and get. You are a strong woman, I believe in you. You go girl! Make that bread, spend that bread!
And women wonder why most of us men have giving up! I'm not your personal ATM machine! Y'all love to throw it in a man face of how much money and education you have. So, use your OWN damn money and education to provide for your damn self! I'm so glad that I'm single and don't have to worry about NONE of this BS!
Not until marriage, IF she even QUALIFIES for my ring. Why does she have so much debt in the first place???
They don’t want a “provider”, they want a giant wallet, ATM, and retirement plan.
They have ZERO intentions of committing to a man, what they WILL do is stay with you as long as your cash is flowing AND they have not met your replacement yet. YET is the key word. She is ALWAYS seeking your replacement.
The divorce is planned before the wedding.
Women been this way waaaayyyy before social media
True but social media made things worse. The difference is before it was actual beautiful women who made these statements. Nowadays it be the women nobody pays attention to. Hell the Ugly women think their 10s😂. Social media made things worse. At least before non beautiful woman were much more humble and accepting of average males. They stayed in their lane. Now they think that lane magically disappeared.
and they WONDER.....why they the least married group of women
Wahmen: if he doesn't pay for all my bills then he's broke.
Also wahmen: If YoUr BrOkE jUsT sAy ThAt.
Me: are yall the new clowns?
They are brotha, they are!!!!
It’s proven many times over that money and love don’t save marriage. Billionaires and millionaires have gotten divorced
Chick said we're done.
Oh yeah girl you're done all right.😅😅😅
Keep up the good work big brother. 🎉
Even modern women with multiple kids by multiple men still be wanting a man for stability n be a provider n pay all her bills n kids expenses but what does he get in return
Absolutely nothing
Stress!! ☹️
Yep. I’m attempting to coach one of those right now. I don’t think she has what it takes to face reality though.
Just to clarify I’m not with her lol she’s just a friend I feel bad for. She was sold a lie and bought it.
@@benjamincarnes9117 if a father wasn’t in her life to teach her, she is almost certainly doomed. What you’re saying is probably flying so far over her head
Marriage is a new age scam. Males get nothing out of marriage we cant get dating. We have learned that marriage isnt about love at all but is a business. If thats so then it would be highly dangerous and stupid for a man to invest in used goods. Even if your a muti billionaire your best sticking to paying beautiful escorts for their time then marry someone who gonna leave and take everything from you. A womans worth has been brought down to the level of "Can you afford her?" If you gotta ask its never worth it. To many in the ocean to reel in bland half dead fish.
I'm Chrisanne, from Barbados. I am currently engaged to be married later this year. I love my man. Im 31years old; he is 46 years old. I love taking advice from him. He is my king. He could lead me while Im blind-folded because I trust him. I want him to be happy in life, to prosper. I thank God for him. I love you Clarence.
Studies has shown that 3 out of 5 women between ages 18-50 will visit China 🇨🇳 at least once in their lifetime…
To see that DAMN GREAT WALL! 😂😂😂😂😂
this is really weird...im black and my mom and all her sisters didnt really "do more around the house" . they outsourced everything but cooking to the kids. all they did was cook. we cleaned, we took out the trash, we washed clothes and the dishes. we ironed our parents clothes...so this idea that women actually do more around the house is CAP. they train the children to do it.
Chad, Tyrone, and Pookie LMAO OMG last one. That made me laugh. Power to the people JL
You can tell by the women in these videos who have been in a committed relationship and who have not. The last woman who is married gets the dynamic. I have a friend who was an attorney and married to a software specialist. When they had their 2 children, she put her career on hold to be a stay-at-home mom. My other friends who are married are empty nesters. My other friend retired from her job to be a full-time caregiver of their daughter and her husband is a mechanic. When a couple is married they both know what the other brings to the table. Modern women will never understand that and as a result, they will remain single.
Many women would gladly put their careers on hold if their husbands' income would allow it. There are growing communities of homeschoolers and black stay at home moms.
I'm like Fiddy. "A bish can't get a dollar outta me"! 😂😂😂😂
they do fear 😨 god that almighty 🙏🏽💵
No thanks. What are they giving ? Chaos, headaches, STDs, dirty house?
Can you react to the woman the left her engagement to go the Chris Brown concert?
I agree with everything you said in this video, sir.
We can all thank destiny's child for these chicks
The best system I've heard of involves the following:
- Both review their budget and determine reasonable amounts to spend on their family's wants, needs, luxuries, and investments.
- They then decide what percentage of each person's income to combine income to allocate for these expenses (anywhere from 50 to 70% each).
- Then the remaining money is for each individual's savings, investments, and guilt-free spending.
That's how we did it! I would not have gotten married otherwise.
She spittin
1,000 a month for groceries... sheesshh what are you eating. I buy most of the groceries for 3 adults and mostly shop at whole foods and sprouts and I don't spend close to that.
dont you see her size. c'mon now son. we all know cats and cows dont eat the same.
Yes actions speak louder than words. Your love and support should be shown! I’ve been the one supporting my man in hard times, up at 5am packing lunch making coffee and cooking dinner all while working myself. Sent him out the door very much satisfied…. And he cheated still. These are the situations that make me want to be single. I’m a good woman with no daddy issues. But PEOPLE are trash these days…
If you paid all the bills, they’d complain that the household chores are a job so you’re even.
*Better to SAVE YOUR MONEY, and enjoy yourself.* 🤔
Tender swindler 😂🤣😭
One comment to those women! Hold your breath! Ha, ha, ha, ha!
Couldn’t be me
Good luck out there guys
Money will not save the relationship, but not having money will be the downfall of the relationship.
sounds like the relationship is just doomed lol
Its almost summertime gents. Planes in the air and landing gear up. Lets go!
No matter the he has, she will still cheat 100%
They not brainwashed.... they like what they like..... and that's money and no responsibilities 2:46
Drizzle Drizzle, for life
Man I never get enough coffee pod, I drink a lot of coffee, so I watch you religiously lol. Anyway, great show, as always. I facebooked up. And keep the excellent content coming, truly helped me through a hard time of my life. Chisha Zed you have truly helped me. Cheer's 🙏.thanks. Power to the people JL
We gotta have a serious nuanced convo about 50/50 relationships.
No cohabitation no wife no girlfriend. Friend with benefits and do not pay her bills guy. Smarten up. When you met her she maintained her own lifestyle so continue to let her do that
Incel vibes. If you aren’t meeting *any* good women, you need to look in the mirror
It’s a blessing to be married to a woman with strong core values, poise, intelligence, and beauty 🙏🏾
They do exist stateside gentlemen….definitely neddles in fields of haystacks. Then again I met my wife 20 years ago
12:45 - when you hand over 100% of your check to your wife and you see her clipping coupons or checking for sales and making a grocery list to multiple stores to get the best deal even though you could actually afford to just shop without that coupon, makes you feel good as a man. those savings eventually turn into a vacation at the beach. that vacation at the beach turns into stress free (adult time). stress free (adult time) turns into another mouth to feed. if you don't want a bunch of mouths to feed stay stressed 🤣
I noticed that none of them had a wedding ring 😂
I provide 100% of everything outside of the house. That’s multiple income streams, 2 health insurance plans, dental, eyes, life insurance, vacations, plays anything we buy. My wife does 100% of the cooking, cleaning, and child raising. She handles buying groceries with my credit card. This system works great for us so there isn’t wasteful spending and me being the only decision maker on every matter keeps things streamlined.
The first woman was attractive, so I assumed she was going to say something stupid. That's how crazy it's gotten.
I heard it said that some women want men to compete for them, just to win the prize of paying all their bills. 😂
Hahaha, crazy $#!+ hun. WTF, and we go for that %#+
If I’m paying your bills, then I can’t buy the FN FAL I’ve got my eye on
Its not bout money but generosity and leadership
Something women never consider is that even a man going 50-50 with you financially is also going 100% of the security, if something jumps off he is expected to defend your life with his whether you're his girlfriend or his wife or not. That puts his risk way over the 50% mark 🤷🏿♂️🙌🏿
Bro when I hit senior Citizen age I'm gonna stroll down to the old folks home point and laugh at all the woman. Then have my wife come pick me up so we can wave as we drive off TOGETHER.
That last lady sounds like she’s a future divorce recipient.
Who told her it was 50 50 between her parents? 😂😂😂😂
It’s always the single woman they won’t never understand men or everything we provider
Who mows the lawn , who's solves the plumbing and electrical issues?
This video is Wild across the board I don't know who she exposing the men or the women, all I know is she aint lying 😂😂😂😂
The only time I see this being a topic of conversation is on the internet between single people. Same with the six figure conversation, I never asked anyone I was dating how much they made yearly!
And this is the making of sugar babies and sidechicks who now want normal relationships 😅...😭
The thing about all of this that goes over everyone's heads is It's their responsibility to get the high earning men they want. If I feel like I deserve a Lambo It's no one's responsibility but mine to put myself in position to have it. In other words "broke men" have nothing to do with this conversation.
13:51 she's describing a dad Born before 2024 inflation
Lol these ladies now of days are very comical
I’m not paying your bills baby but I’m about to buy myself and Yamaha R1. Now go tell your girls I’m broke and dusty. 😜
Bye Felicia 😂
33:27 *Masculine Energy Warning* Loud yelling, lots of hand movement & gestures, etc
Not just bills but all her wasteful spending.
At what point will you start to give back... you make coffee mugs .... ? Suff said
What does "give back" mean to you?
I saw a tiktok where women were discussing the men they date for money...they were like: I have to get drunk before meeting him, I hate it when his affectionate, I couldn't do it I didn't like him, oh no I don't have alcohol, etc etc...devious...
My question is, what's the trade-off for paying all of their bills? Some worn-out cat? They gonna be single a long time.
Notice the lady at the end say "She still going to have her own money". This why dudes with money don't care about women who make money. Their money is "their" money.
Most of them are living off of credit cards and after pay. So they’re not even doing it straight up
Last lady was so right. Sick of hearing about it. Do what works for you. Stop dumping it on everyone else. 100/100.
The irony woman comes on talking bout Jayland or something like that saying he should keep people out his business then proceeded to do just that 😂
No problem, just do ALL the housework