There are a few suggestions worth trying Work out why you are shy - the first step to solving a problem is understanding why it is there. Be comfortable about yourself - this makes it less difficult Just do it - you will feel better by doing things - especially by doing activities that stretch your limits. (I read these and more ideas from Martos magic method website )
Cheers for the Video clip! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness Erase Depression Guide (search on google)? It is an awesome one off guide for beating depression fast without the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my BF at last got amazing success with it.
Many thanks, been searching for "beat major depression naturally" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my cousin got great success with it.
Cheers for this, been searching for "how to ease depression without medication" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.
This is glorious, I been tryin to find out about "non prescription remedies for depression" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got amazing success with it.
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you. They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt, they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about, they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now, they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance. If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day. :)
This is the depression I am going through. The pain is all encompassing. I feel hopelessness. The anxiety is so intense and crying spells are intense. Please help.
Do everyone a favor and never use that annoying music again. The sound made by the finger brushing the guitar string coils is enough to drive me mad. 😊
The story inspire me to keep “fighting” with my mental illness and I feel much calmer knowing there is people out there going through similar things and become a better self afterwards
One day, about 10 years ago, I sat down and asked myself this question: " Bob, what is the longest relationship you have had in your life?" and the answer was easy, "Why, with ME of course!" ergo " I AM the only expert on my life, so why am I listening to other people telling me there is something wrong with me". I now know that all of me is ok!
I traced my anxiety back to my violent childhood where I internalised the message that the world is a dangerous place. Healing the wounds of my childhood is the most powerful work I have ever done.
Bob Eden I can relate to this Bob, I came from a dysfunctional household where there was a lot of violence, emotional instability and upheaval How did you heal the depression that is rooted in the trauma? Any suggestions would be very helpful thank you
Were you resistant to therapy until you tried it? When did you decide to go down this road towards evaluating your beliefs and experiences in childhood?
Bob Eden - a psychotherapist helped me explore my childhood, which I had always expected was the root of my MDD; MDD didn't manifest until several decades afterwards (when another tragedy seemed to trigger everything). She was the first counsellor that started with my childhood, after several decades of attempting counselling which was somewhat helpful, for support at least.This counsellor that helped me was the fifth counsellor. I still struggle, but I try to use some of the help she gave me during our limited number of sessions. Call me a kindred spirit.
I'm glad that the video was helpful. Recently I had another depressive breakdown in 2015. Here is a video that tells how I came out it. th-cam.com/video/JE6m4e2Ftyw/w-d-xo.html
I've recenly just told my parents about how bad my depression has become. I was prescribed medication to make me feel better but now being about a week in the side effects juat aren't worth it. I must be an idiot though because that wont solve the problem at hand. I have decided to do counseling and push myself to do things I am normally to anxious to do. Even writing this comment is not at all something I would do. Feel free to give me an opinion on this.
Pushing yourself to do things that you would normally not to is an excellent idea. Over time, the things you had a hard time doing will become easier. Many people who recover from anxiety or depression use this technique
I can say my depression is decreasing very slowly. Some days I get emotional breakdowns and other times I’m doing totally fine. Before I would not bother eating or doing something for myself. I never stop watching your videos. Thank you
Thank you for this video. I have a similar story. I was in a relationship with my ex-fiance and was blind-sided when he called off our wedding. After we separated I fell out of contact with several of our mutual friends. I also lost the dog we had together. And after a year of this my mom fell into a severe drug addiction and our relationship became toxic so I made the decision to cease contact with her and she has not contact me in over two years. I have a SIGNIFICANTLY smaller support system now and feel chronic loneliness. I believe the lack of human connection has caused my depression. I believe that love, an abundantly strong support system, and human connection can help ease (and maybe even cure) depression for some people. I hope to recover like you did!
You sound like a loving, aware and resilient person. Where do you live? If you provide your email address, I may be able to send you a list of support groups in your area, as well as a copy of my depression recovery program. It all starts with setting the intention to heal. Here is a video I made on the subject. th-cam.com/video/1ZHCd_przLc/w-d-xo.html
From 17 till 21 I had a constant depression. I forgot how it felt to feel normal, I thought the depression was a normal state. The depression made me a better person, it gave me more empathy for others feelings.
It is sad that most people who are depressed are actually the nicest ones. Most teachers said nice things about me to my parents(I suffer from depression myself for few years till now I am still fighting) but deep down it is hard not to think about the guilt and voices in my head for even the slightest small things I did felt wrong.
Keep fighting those voices. You did nothing wrong to have this depression. Here is a video that will help to explain this idea and help depressed people to let go of guilt. th-cam.com/video/xia4xWFOsOU/w-d-xo.html
See if you can increase your social support. Perhaps you can find a counselor to talk with. Also, if you go to this website, you may find a group that has people who share similar interests as yourself. www.meetup.com
Many thanks, been searching for "beat major depression naturally" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my cousin got great success with it.
Hello Tula, for me work really good surround by 12 steps groups you find genueny people that work in their emotional health, I look for church that were caring and supporting and I read a lot about emotional wellnes is a book really good call the depression work book by Mary Ellen Copenland. How are you doing lately?
hi douglas, just watch this video and i cried.. i'm from Indonesia. i'm fighting with depression for 1 year and a half for now. i still having treatment from my psychiatrist and must take 3 pills a day. i will try what you suggested especially to having more connectivity with people and God. thank you so much for this video, because before i watched this, i'm kind of sort out of spirit. thank you so much. may God always bless you and your family
Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else trying to find out can depression be cured naturally try Elumpa Depression Cure Alchemist (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend got amazing results with it.
One of the best and most touching videos I've ever seen made about mental illness. It gives me so much hope that things will change for the better for me and that I don't have to accept my depression and anxiety as being a permanent part of my life and I don't have to fight through it alone. Thank you so much for posting this, god bless you and all those people who helped you go through your journey!
You are very welcome. I hope that you can watch some of my other videos, as they are meant to give both hope and practical tools for recovering from depression.
Thank you for your excellent video and for sharing intimate moments of your life. I can tell that you are a gentleman and a compassionate man who wants to help others. May God bless you fully! : ) Some of us have dealt with "the problem" for a long time. In my case, over 35 years
Hello my friend! Nice that you have found your way to my page . I would like to help you to get rid of your suffering and pain. Contact me @ : distanthealer@outlook.com
+Rosangela Ramalho I'm not sure but, if anyone else needs to find out how to cure their depression try- "Dawtix Incredible Depression Annihilator" (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my cousin saw amazing results with it.
Rosangela, How are you now ? To feel better reduce negative thoughts. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.
I’ve been managing my depression and anxiety with medication for about 16 years . Recently I’ve experienced this black tar depression for about 2 days at a time a few times . Also something new for me last week I paced for 3 hours in the morning from 5:30 to 8:30!am , never felt manic like this before . I did have to put my black lab to sleep I had her for 15 years and animals are very comforting for me . I have rescued a puppy since then we needed each other 😍 I have moved and finding a new dr now . It can be a scary difficult time . Thanks 🙏 for your Chanel 👍🏼
I have just found this video and wanted to say thank you for sharing your experiences with us I have been struggling to find my way out of the darkness that keeps trying to overcome me and drag me down I am going to try and save up to be able to afford your book Namaste 🙏 💖 🌟 💖 🙏
You’re welcome. If you provide your email address, I will send you a free copy of my e-book “when going through hell don’t stop“ which tells the story of my recovery from agitated depression. The book that you’re saving up for is called healing from depression, which teaches my self-directed mental health recovery program. I think you can get a used copy on Amazon for a very low price.
Douglas Bloch thank you so much Do you do an audio version of the book as I struggle to read a physical copy because of the problems I have with nerve damage in my eyes
Hi douglas im a ordinary teenage boy from Kosovo a country on ex-yougislavia im really feeling all the things that you explained in this video you probably wont see this coment but if you see it be proud of yourself because for at least 15mins you made me feel and understand that there's hope, i really have problems with the pain it feels like its inside of my chest and i really feel hopeless almost all the time i overthink everything i also have the problem with myself its like i dont know myself anymore maybe this is only a phase im going through but thank you very much for your advices and i really think that im gonna get better with your advices. With love and a lot of respect Arianit Dobra.
Thank you very much for noticing and replying whoever you are its been 7 months since i posted that coment and i can say that im doing fine its been ups and downs but i say to the people suffering from depression from my experience so far the only thing that will cure you its challenging yoursef starting with daily tasks and having ambitions having a dream that you an follow when you wake up in the morning and working hard till you get it i know that this may seem somthing people say comonly but you have to try it and you have to understand that life is hard get over it you just have to face the truth in whats happening around you and not complain about the situation you are but stop and think for ways to make it better.
+DOBRA sweety I am 43 and it began when I lost my first child ..he was my first love u can't understand tht pain and I hope no one goes through it thnx 4 ur tips son but am trying my bst ..thnx alot 4 ur reply ..may God bless you 🌼
You're message is inspiring ! I have lived with depression for over 20 years and never been in any kind of treatment. I still believe I can beat this malaise on my own free will but must admit it gets harder each passing day.
I just found your video. Thank you for your story. I've been in a deep depression since August. I've seen several therapist. I'm taking meds. I cannot get out of it. I'm about to lose everything because of it. Please pray for me.
I will pray for you, and you can also call a wonderful prayer line call Silent Unity. The number is 1-816-969-2000. You can also download the application for your phone or tablet. It is called uPray
Hi Douglas, I’m referring to the author of the video. Watching it after so many years, it was posted, it’s still giving a refreshing perspective. I’m so glad you recovered back then, and recorded this video that still inspires many. I have pondered on the solution you described in the video, and (I don’t know if it’s already was discussed in the comments; you reply a lot too), I believe what happened: you lost a relationship, this has triggered a depression, anxiety, certainly you couldn’t accept it peacefully at the time, and when the group from people from the ministry, and your close ones together supported you consistently throughout 30-90 days, you, obviously, not just got support, but also formed New and vital relationships. That could have helped you to move on 😮 to me, that’s what really helped you… being in meaningful relationship again. Would you agree or not? Excited to hear the answer. 🤗 and thanks for the inspiration.
I needed this video so badly right now. I am going through the worst depression and hardest situations of my life. I live in chronic pain. God Bless you for these videos. Thank you.
hey brother, Everything you pin pointed about what you were going through is exactly what Im going through right now Its ruining my relationships with friends and family and its so overwhelming, Im constantly telling myself in my head "its just a thought" "it will pass" etc . then it goes away for abit then later on my attitude and negative mood comes back again, i reach out to my close family members but its hard to explain it to them when I know they dont know how it feels, its so frustrating but I thank you for giving me hope and ideas on how to get better cheers anon from brisbane, australia
I'm sorry that you are having a hard time finding people who understand your condition. Perhaps you can look for a depression support group in your area. Here is a video I made called. "The Best Things to Say to People Who Are Depressed." Perhaps you can suggest some of these responses to your family and friends. th-cam.com/video/CJDMHoKXT3U/w-d-xo.html
Great story, testimony sir. 👏 I am currently suffering from anxiety and depression, it's kept me from working but, I know if you were able to heal, we all can. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless you.
04:35 I tried to explain this point to a public health counselor who persisted in telling me neat tidbits like "70% of what your brain tells your are lies so you just need to ignore them long enough and they'll go away." They didnt understand that these thoughts wasnt a downward loop of negative rumination. It was a constant storm in my head 24/7 that I could not shut off. Distracting myself, work, sleep, lay on the couch all day, get shitfaced drunk (bad idea, dont drink when depressed, just dont). The emotional torment of that mental storm was always 100%. In other words, I had no control over my own mind anymore and I felt like I was going insane from the mental storm, emotional pain and sleep deprivation. And that lasted for 3-4 months untill the anxiety died down and I was left with only the depression. When that kind of anxiety and depression interchange, that's a special part of hell.
I teach at university and I know so many people who were saved by you. You are our hero. What I like most about you is that you speak from your heart and you simplify things in a way that is understood by everyone. I really like your style and your optimistic tone. Once again, thank you so much.
I teach at Alaqsa University. Its a state university in Gaza Strip, Palestine. Gaza is the world's largest open air prison in the world. The UN estimated that more than 80% of Gazans are severely depressed. We do not have facilities or treatments. Most people take drugs randomly to treat depression. You saved so many lives in Gaza and in the middle-east where people suffer harsh circumstances from wars to poverty to terrorism, etc. God bless you, Douglas. You are an angel. You are the hero of the poor people around the world.
I hope you are over your depression. Episodes usually come and go. I created a web site to share tools and coping strategies that people can use to manage their symptoms.
Oh my goodness thank you!! Thank you for not giving up and sharing your story and all the wisdom. I needed this and this is confirmation of something God is speaking into my spirit. Thank you again and may God continue to bless you!🙏🏻✝️
Thank you so much. I'm dealing with depression right now and I've never had it this bad before. I'm so sorry you went through this. Mine has only started about a week ago.. It feels like forever ago. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and I didn't think it would have this impact on my life. I can't eat or sleep much I have suicidal thoughts. I really need to pray to god more. I feel like it won't end. I'm 25 years old but I feel like I'll never be able to talk to another girl again. I miss her so much but I know it won't work with her. But I still love her. I'm not supposed to think about that or think about her but that's all I can think about. It feels like it's not getting better, but I will continue to pray and wait for it to get better because I believe it can and it will. Thank you for sharing the inspirational video. I hope when I'm fully recovered I can post on as well.
+bassinassasin90 Hi. I'm just a stranger but your text inspired me to reply. I think something really hard can become beautiful. You love her to death and that is something you should be proud of. Even if you two can't be together. I also love people I don't fit with. And people love me though we can't even talk again. Love is not about having the person next to you, it's the feeling inside, that you have met someone who gave you three years of adventures and bright days. Take it with you. Make it your part of your book. And start writing next chapter. You never know where you'll get or who you'll meet, you are worth the best your life has to offer, and to love someone, is to let them go. So cry it out, write a "goodbye" note, and throw it. Make sure you YOU get to feel a closure. Then start creating a list of 10 things you want in life, right now. See the possabilities you couldn't do when being in a relationship. Make this your best movie in life, where you are the director, because you are, and god dammit I have been through so much heartbreak that I seriusly think my heart is trade for a fake one, but so be it, I managed to accept forgive and move on. To understand that nothing is a garantuee, and to se the joy in that, enjoy moments where they at. Be your best friend and have fun with life. For me it helped to talk about it, write poems, listen to sad songs, cry to movies, and then helping others. You are not less worth single, you are not less worth because she said a no, you are always worthy the best, remember that.
Now I remember reading your book Listening to Your Inner Voice many years ago and liked that it acknowledged resistance to affirmations. So coming across these videos and realizing that undiagnosed depression has likely blocked me taking in affirmations until now seems very appropriate, somehow. Thank you and God bless you. I wonder if there are prayer circles to help people with depression.
Here is a 24 hour prayer hotline where they will put your name in a circle in a chapel and people will pray about it for 30 days. It’s an amazing service. Try it out. Silent Unity. 1-816-969-2000. Or in the United States toll-free 800-669-7729.
Sometimes I feel better then I just fall right back into negativity. I was never depressed nor a negative person until a toxic relationship and break up. I still think abt her a year later, and still haven’t let go. I’ve lost all my friends. I’m trying to start new beginnings and be inspired and free living like how I once was, but it’s hard to break this loop.
From Minnesota...an excellent video. I continue to be a great admirer of your work and recovery.I am a therapist in an outpatient Day Treatment program and I still use your book and share it with my clients.Years ago I even communicated with you by phone and email as I hoped to have you come to speak at our program but was unable to make it work.Keep up your good work Douglas and take care. Len
Thank you, I lost all my family, and recently lost my only friend I don't know why other than I isolate myself, I have agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, bipolar.
Sorry for asking such a stupid question but I really don't know it and I'm just figuring out if I am depressed or not: Do you also suffer from depression if your life REALLY hasn't any sense anymore cause you've lost literally everything in your life, everything you can imagine. Or do you suffer from it because you ONLY THINK that nothing makes sense? I mean, I love life in general, I'm full of energy if you give me a sense, a task, goals and dreams to live and work for. I'm not depressed BUT do lost everything so literally there's no sense in my life anymore. I don't know why I should get up everyday, there's just nothing that waits for me. So of course THAT makes me depressed. I'm suicidal because I do want to end MY life BUT I do NOT want to die, I just want this way of my life to stop. I still love life in general. But still, atm I just can't do anything, mentally too weak to get off of my bed. So is THIS a real depression?
You are suffering from reactive depression meaning that you are responding to the stress and grief of loss. I would seek out counseling as soon as possible and a prescriber to explore the use of medication. You can feel better with the right treatment.
Douglas Bloch Thank you very much for explaining it to me. That makes sense. I agree w counseling (actually I have one therapist but our sessions don't help me at all, totally useless, I don't learn anything new) but I'm strict against meds. Have a great xmas season!
I can't believe this is from 8 years ago but the words or the message is as helpful as any new discoveries. This is very encouraging. As long day comes after night , and spring comes after winter, i am encouraged that my troubles will one day be but a distant memory. Thank you for this video.
You’re more than welcome. I have two new videos called “your pain is not forever and “four words that can save your life.“ They are both about the fact that nothing lasts forever. I also have a video called you can be restored
thank you Douglas.. your story is touching and moving.. And your salvation is a message of hope for all of us! I hit the bottom recently, but found the strenght to struggle imstead of giving up following suicidal thoughts. I want to come out through my social network's tools and invite people who has the same problem to build up a supporting group, no matter what so called "friends" will think of me
This is 2020 , I'm 20 , I have been through depression a major one actually....and I've been healing since last year April ....and thank you so much this keeps me going ,all you teach is true ...you're a great inspiration and may God bless you ...thank you very much....
Nice for you have that love p,I don't have a that sort of support to help bring that light into my darkness,,,hope I can heal this state & be happy again
I just hope i can remember most of this. I wish i could talk so open about my condition. This brain fog thing... I feel like i just observe the world from inside of my body and I can't keep up with someone talking to me. Every morning I meditate, every evening i do Wim Hof breathing and cold showers. This videos give me hope. Thank You Douglas
You’re welcome. Keep persevering. Eventually he will come out of the depression. Are you seeing a counselor or doing any other kind of mental health support?
@@DouglasBloch wow i didn't think i would get a response from You let alone that quickly. Right now I'm too busy at work i dont have enough money to seek help. I was seeing counselor last year. I got better and I relapsed. I think its too bad that I'm battling this alone. Sorry for mistakes my language is not english. Your videos and Noah's bignoknow are my support
@@DouglasBloch Portland is like half way through the world from were I live which is Poland. For now things are stable. I can get a good sleep. Got rejected from girlfriend twice and i believe that was the trigger. Went into alkohol and weed addiction untill i finally got my first panic attack. I must do what You did and write how my life would have look like without depression.
I live alone, I work alone! I’m losing my mind!!! I hate my life and can’t take this crushing loneliness and depression!!! It has been like this for almost ten years. I have no social connections and I want to die.
I like your TH-cam name. I know what loneliness is. Very painful. Is there anyway you can find a counselor to talk to. That would be a very positive social connection and a positive start.
Ever since I lost my license and my mom to suicide I have had major depression. It has been a year and a half. I have both anxiety and depression. I have been on every med. I'm coming to the end.
I’m sorry you are suffering so much. But I do believe there is hope. Here’s a new website I created and helping people to survive suicidal pain. I hope you can take some time to visit it. www.survivingsuicidalpain.com
Your videos are great and very inspiring, I m 3 months into it bad at the moment and only just started on medication, battling the low energy and panic at present and it’s a slow journey. Just started watching your videos this week and aim to see all of them now, very helpful. Thanks
Thank you douglas... i am suffering from some mental aliment too...my days are so dizziness n uneasy..feel so out of the place all the time...hope for me that i may see the spring as well ..thank you again....thanks for your story...
Everyone talks about how great of a person I am, yet I cannot yet enjoy life, I’ ve been feeling depressed from as long as I can remember myself, always struggling with friendships, relationships and life in general. I intellectually know that it is not supposed to be like that. I ve been a member on a psychotherapy group for the past 6 months, which had made me more aware of all of these problems, yet I am not feeling any tangible results... Should I hold on? Should I seek a different approach? I fell desperate almost at all times
Yes, you should definitely hold on and seek a different treatment if you need to. Talk to the person who runs the group and share with him or her what you were going through. Some people do better with individual therapy. You might also want to talk to a prescriber about the possibility of medication. Keep trying different things until something works
I have recently read that sleeping under a "weighted" blanket can help with depression & anxiety. It has something to do with the feeling of security while being embraced or hugged, and although artificial it still has the same impact esp. as regards the statistics of the study. I recall having the lead apron put on me when having a dental X-ray and I strangely found it a comforting experience, so perhaps there is some validity to this idea..
Thank you Douglas 💚 so understand how life circumstances and unfulfilled ambitions can lead to entrenched depression; we become the person we do not want to remain. Your videos are the best for us sufferers. Bless you
inspiring story. I have felt that way for a long time now, I don't feel any sense of excitement, I feel alone, I feel my disability is actually prohibiting me from having good quality friends.
I’m In the throws of depression and anxiety.. also triggered by work and a relationship breakdown but I’ve had it for years and years due to a traumatic / Abusive childhood... even admitting it is strange.. but realising how it affected me over the years it’s so obvious.. when you said the only relief I get is when I sleep I SO RELATED to that!! The doom of waking up.. realising there are waking hours ahead but also feeling bad that I’m not grateful for a new day and for life as someone who is also into affirmations and the power of the mind... this gives me hope.. I honestly can’t wait to get better. I don’t know how yet.. but today I woke up and cried out for help to whatever higher power there is / the universe... I cried and begged for help and for positive life changes... for clarity... for willpower and to lead me in the right direction... I’m glad I listened to this video. I related to a lot of what you said... I’m seeking out a therapist (I’ve been resistant to that but I know it necessary) and I like working out.. but I know I need more.. for those hours when you know it’s underneath .. it’s there.. I just want it gone.. ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for this - your description of your depression is exactly what I've had the last three years that keeps getting worse despite medication; that pain that's emotional but still hurts deep through my brain, head, neck and other places. Fog, muffled hearing, feeling locked in a hell area of my brain that I can even escape through sleep - often feel worse when I wake instead of relaxed. Can't cope with anything & obsessive paranoid thoughts. I'm going to try this as not getting much help from psychiatrist. ❤️
Thanks Amanda. Please hang in there. You can get better. Let me know if I can be of any help. Feel free to email me at douglasbloch@gmail.com and I will send you a free e-book, my memoir, “When Going Through Hell...Don’t Stop!” Have you ever heard of TMS or ECT? They can be effective when medications can’t. Email me and I will send you links to my videos about them.
That reaction to the Prozac sounds like what can happen when a person with bipolar 2 takes an antidepressant. Many bipolar 2 people are writers. Thank you for your videos. Do you have advice on insomnia?
I have a number of videos on sleep. When is called medications for insomnia. Another is called "what happens when you wake up at 4 AM and can't get back to sleep."
@@DouglasBloch I did find them. This video is especially valuable for helping loved ones really understand what a major depression feels like. Thank you very much for your videos.
Hi, Douglas. Great to hear that you recovered from your treatment-resistant depression. I too suffer from it. I get it every winter. And anti-depressants used to work on me, but they take longer now to work and it's my depression is growing on me. I too have had suicidal thoughts, but I never even tried to act on them. Your advice will certainly help me a lot.
Douglas Bloch Thanks for replying, Douglas. I remember having my first episode when I got too drunk. Since then, I am having the episodes. I am a Hindu by religion. Three, four days back, a friend told me about some mantras that I could chant or just listen to. They have some very positive vibrations. And I am already feeling the difference. If you want, I will send you the TH-cam links to them. Maybe they would help others like us.
Hi, Doug. You mentioned that how a group helped you get healed fully. We have no such groups here and people having any mental disease are looked down upon. Can you please ask that group and pray for me to help me get fully healed. I can't be there. But can you please at least do this. Thanks.
MrBlinkash1980 Okay. I also suggest that you call a great prayer service called Silent Unity. They will hold you in the Light for 30 days. Their number is 800-669-7729.
You are welcome. I hope that you check out some of the other videos on this channel. Here is a video where I talk about hope. th-cam.com/video/3cZDnzfmebI/w-d-xo.html
Beautiful. Honest. Arduous and difficult work, that is all worth it. Indeed, your story is my story... it’s everyone’s story who can relate and identify with this video. Thank you for sharing... Still walking through my ‘episode’... but can contest to what u’v said about daily survival strategy. It is key, and the first baby steps out. Ritual. Habits. Structure. People connections. To all- My God connection is very weak and unrelentingly in doubt. And still I say... God Bless. You are not alone.
Very Inspirational video ever, Congratulations you are actually a great warrior to beat this big enemy I can understand this, i deserve for myself too.
Wow Douglas, THANK YOU SOOOO much. I feel like you are the only person in the world right now who gets it! It means so much to know that someone else had it to that extent and survived and beat it. You have given me hope xox
Douglas, you are a truly outstanding person, thank you so much for sharing your story - and all the other very helpful videos on here. Best Regards, Dennis
Thank you so much for such an inspiring video , I'm suffering from depression and anxiety with panic attacks for 9 years, thinking the same way - if i'm not gonna kill myself i'll get mad, I can't stand this pain anymore, medication doesn't work, I am ashamed that I have this disease, i rather stay at home than go with my friends ,because i think that they see me as mad ,it's so sad ,because only care of others can make me feel happy ... I hope that your method will help me,thank You again.
What you have explained is excellent and beautiful. I know you are right, I know that love, God is love, and has the power to heal. I have been through some very traumatic, painful times. Struggle with the sadness of all of the pain I have had to see and live. I have searched for a good answer to help myself and others with the pit of depression. Thank you for sharing!
@@DouglasBloch I am so glad to have come across all of your information. I am going to really study it so that I can also heal like you were able to, and then help others to heal from what I learn as well. You are a true inspiration to me!
I’m going through this exact process but since November also have hearing loss and mild tinnitus which leads to my isolation even further. But I want to get better maybe find other tinnitus and chronic depression suffers. I am also an ex veteran but can’t seem to reach out to anybody for support. I don’t speak to my family anymore due to childhood neglect and sabotaging so i’m alone.
I'm sorry that you were alone. However there are support groups online that might be helpful. You might want to go to a website called Lion rock recovery. help.lionrockrecovery.com/ You might also want to look up a group called “Live Well Recovery” Finally, you can't find individual counseling online at betterhealth.com and talkspace.com
This is about me. I can relate so much to what you have said. I have referred to Depression and Anxiety as bullying brothers. One can beat you up, or the other or sometimes they beat you up together. Your advice and remedies are excellent. Thank you.
This hope is what all people need, regardless whether they are well or not, successful or not, rich or poor, whatever. It is nice that some of us have gone through this "crucifixion" so that we may get "resurrected" in the Source of Love in the midst of our community.
Oh my God , i am so inspired by you, i can see hope again. I wish i live near you so i could get your help. Thank you and God bless you for helping millions of people like me.
Thank you so much for this. I am so glad I found this video. Brought me a lot of hope in the midst of my pain (the pain you described). There is hope. I know it wont always be like this. God bless you.
Molom sve ljude dobro volje da prevedu ovo na srpski.U teskok sam depresiji i jako bi mi pomoglo da ima titl.Iakp delimicno razumem nije mi sve jasno.Iskreno verujem da ce se naci neko i prevesti ovog divnog coveka koji nam pokusava pomoci.
Your videos are so good. Thanks for your courage and hope. God bless you and all who endure such times.
There are a few suggestions worth trying
Work out why you are shy - the first step to solving a problem is understanding why it is there.
Be comfortable about yourself - this makes it less difficult
Just do it - you will feel better by doing things - especially by doing activities that stretch your limits.
(I read these and more ideas from Martos magic method website )
Cheers for the Video clip! Sorry for the intrusion, I would love your thoughts. Have you heard about - Lammywalness Erase Depression Guide (search on google)? It is an awesome one off guide for beating depression fast without the normal expense. Ive heard some decent things about it and my BF at last got amazing success with it.
Many thanks, been searching for "beat major depression naturally" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my cousin got great success with it.
Cheers for this, been searching for "how to ease depression without medication" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some unbelievable things about it and my partner got excellent success with it.
This is glorious, I been tryin to find out about "non prescription remedies for depression" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (just google it ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my m8 got amazing success with it.
Right now, there are people all over the world who are just like you.
They're either lonely, they're missing somebody, they're depressed, they're hurt,
they're scarred from the past, they're having personal issues no one knows about,
they have secrets you wouldn't believe. They wish, they dream and they hope. And right now,
they are sitting here reading these words, and I'm writing this for you so you dont feel alone
anymore. Always remember, don't be depressed about the past, don't worry about the future, and
just focus on today. If today's not so great don't worry! Tomorrow's a new chance.
If you are reading this, be sure to share this around to make others feel better. Have a nice day.
:)
+♠HAMBONEZ♠ Thanks for your thoughts
Thank you :) Thank you so much
♠HAMBONEZ♠ I am one of these people...
♠HAMBONEZ♠ thks!!
Thank you for sharing these beautiful words
Namaste
🙏 💖 🌟 💖 🙏
This is the depression I am going through. The pain is all encompassing. I feel hopelessness. The anxiety is so intense and crying spells are intense. Please help.
I didn't feel sick, just highly agitated and upset. I didn't think it would ever end, but it did.
I'm always agitated I feel like im losing my mind,I have depersonalisation and derealization and brainfog
Do everyone a favor and never use that annoying music again. The sound made by the finger brushing the guitar string coils is enough to drive me mad. 😊
@@nmash6835 omg me too SAME!!! How are you now ? Will this end?
The story inspire me to keep “fighting” with my mental illness and I feel much calmer knowing there is people out there going through similar things and become a better self afterwards
Keep on persevering. You can become stronger because of what you will overcome.
@@DouglasBloch what u recommend besides ect, ketamine, tms,?
May everyone who needs this video come across it.
Thank you.
Amen! 🙏
Binge watching your videos today because I’m struggling again. I prefer to listen to you rather than take medication.
The moral of the story is : the power of community and connection. Beautiful ❤
One day, about 10 years ago, I sat down and asked myself this question: " Bob, what is the longest relationship you have had in your life?" and the answer was easy, "Why, with ME of course!" ergo " I AM the only expert on my life, so why am I listening to other people telling me there is something wrong with me". I now know that all of me is ok!
I traced my anxiety back to my violent childhood where I internalised the message that the world is a dangerous place. Healing the wounds of my childhood is the most powerful work I have ever done.
Bob Eden I can relate to this Bob, I came from a dysfunctional household where there was a lot of violence, emotional instability and upheaval How did you heal the depression that is rooted in the trauma? Any suggestions would be very helpful thank you
Were you resistant to therapy until you tried it? When did you decide to go down this road towards evaluating your beliefs and experiences in childhood?
Bob Eden - a psychotherapist helped me explore my childhood, which I had always expected was the root of my MDD; MDD didn't manifest until several decades afterwards (when another tragedy seemed to trigger everything).
She was the first counsellor that started with my childhood, after several decades of attempting counselling which was somewhat helpful, for support at least.This counsellor that helped me was the fifth counsellor. I still struggle, but I try to use some of the help she gave me during our limited number of sessions.
Call me a kindred spirit.
Yup, those inherited believe from our parents, about negative and cruel world....
@@sunshine2049 John Bradshaw's work saved my life "Healing the shame that binds you" and "Homecoming".
I just read that Douglas passed away. Rest in peace brother x
This was awesome. Extremely well explained, balanced and digestible.
I'm glad that the video was helpful. Recently I had another depressive breakdown in 2015. Here is a video that tells how I came out it. th-cam.com/video/JE6m4e2Ftyw/w-d-xo.html
Douglas Bloch I'll check it out. I wrote a suicide awareness song on my page.
Which page was this?
I've recenly just told my parents about how bad my depression has become. I was prescribed medication to make me feel better but now being about a week in the side effects juat aren't worth it. I must be an idiot though because that wont solve the problem at hand. I have decided to do counseling and push myself to do things I am normally to anxious to do. Even writing this comment is not at all something I would do. Feel free to give me an opinion on this.
Pushing yourself to do things that you would normally not to is an excellent idea. Over time, the things you had a hard time doing will become easier. Many people who recover from anxiety or depression use this technique
I can say my depression is decreasing very slowly. Some days I get emotional breakdowns and other times I’m doing totally fine. Before I would not bother eating or doing something for myself. I never stop watching your videos. Thank you
I'm very happy you are gradually and proving. What calming strategies are you applying that are making this happen
Thank you for this video. I have a similar story. I was in a relationship with my ex-fiance and was blind-sided when he called off our wedding. After we separated I fell out of contact with several of our mutual friends. I also lost the dog we had together. And after a year of this my mom fell into a severe drug addiction and our relationship became toxic so I made the decision to cease contact with her and she has not contact me in over two years. I have a SIGNIFICANTLY smaller support system now and feel chronic loneliness. I believe the lack of human connection has caused my depression. I believe that love, an abundantly strong support system, and human connection can help ease (and maybe even cure) depression for some people. I hope to recover like you did!
You sound like a loving, aware and resilient person. Where do you live? If you provide your email address, I may be able to send you a list of support groups in your area, as well as a copy of my depression recovery program. It all starts with setting the intention to heal. Here is a video I made on the subject.
th-cam.com/video/1ZHCd_przLc/w-d-xo.html
Douglas Bloch Thank you for the reply! Is there a way to direct message you my email address? I’m located in Wisconsin.
+Courtney Fleischman send it to douglasbloch@gmail.com
Im a introvert and i think thats the reason i have panick attack, lack of contact
From 17 till 21 I had a constant depression. I forgot how it felt to feel normal, I thought the depression was a normal state.
The depression made me a better person, it gave me more empathy for others feelings.
Thank you for your feedback. The depression has also made me a better person.
jan jansen
PADI slapping
Qgong exercise
You tube it.
I am happy to hear that
It is sad that most people who are depressed are actually the nicest ones.
Most teachers said nice things about me to my parents(I suffer from depression myself for few years till now I am still fighting)
but deep down it is hard not to think about the guilt and voices in my head for even the slightest small things I did felt wrong.
Keep fighting those voices. You did nothing wrong to have this depression. Here is a video that will help to explain this idea and help depressed people to let go of guilt. th-cam.com/video/xia4xWFOsOU/w-d-xo.html
Thank you Doug for encouraging words. God is using your struggles to help others going the darkness of depression and anxiety.
You are welcome. I'm glad that all of my past sufferings are being put to some use.
My problem is I am totally on my own. I don't have anyone who can genuinely give me time. I am not sucidal but I am very close to depression
See if you can increase your social support. Perhaps you can find a counselor to talk with. Also, if you go to this website, you may find a group that has people who share similar interests as yourself. www.meetup.com
thank you so much for reply sir, your videos are helping me a lot. its great that you are helping so many people.
tula V how are you doing?
Many thanks, been searching for "beat major depression naturally" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Ever heard of - Hanincoln Nanlivia Framework - (search on google ) ? Ive heard some super things about it and my cousin got great success with it.
Hello Tula, for me work really good surround by 12 steps groups you find genueny people that work in their emotional health, I look for church that were caring and supporting and I read a lot about emotional wellnes is a book really good call the depression work book by Mary Ellen Copenland. How are you doing lately?
hi douglas, just watch this video and i cried..
i'm from Indonesia. i'm fighting with depression for 1 year and a half for now.
i still having treatment from my psychiatrist and must take 3 pills a day.
i will try what you suggested especially to having more connectivity with people and God.
thank you so much for this video, because before i watched this, i'm kind of sort out of spirit.
thank you so much.
may God always bless you and your family
Can pre teens get depressed? I've had this extremely sad feeling for years now too.
+Ash Crash Cat and friends! What the Duck anyone can, u should look for help as early as u can. i regretted not doing that.
Thank you for your feedback. Good luck in your healing.
Brutal - and accurate - description. But I don't believe those who have not experienced it can fully comprehend the words.
Thank you for the video you may have just saved my life.. Bless you all
Susan Kanawyer I'm glad it was helpful.
Not certain about the points made but ,if anyone else trying to find out can depression be cured naturally try Elumpa Depression Cure Alchemist (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some pretty good things about it and my friend got amazing results with it.
This video is so inspirational douglas. Thank u, i am an 18 year old who is using ur video to heal from my moserate depression. God bless u.
You described how my anxiety and depression feel exactly. Amazing vid!
Thank you
One of the best and most touching videos I've ever seen made about mental illness. It gives me so much hope that things will change for the better for me and that I don't have to accept my depression and anxiety as being a permanent part of my life and I don't have to fight through it alone. Thank you so much for posting this, god bless you and all those people who helped you go through your journey!
You are very welcome. I hope that you can watch some of my other videos, as they are meant to give both hope and practical tools for recovering from depression.
Thank you for your excellent video and for sharing intimate moments of your life. I can tell that you are a gentleman and a compassionate man who wants to help others. May God bless you fully! : ) Some of us have dealt with "the problem" for a long time. In my case, over 35 years
Thanks. I hope that have some good tools and coping strategies to get to a better mood.
mgbsecteacher
Thank u so much. Only one who has walked through this can reach into ones heart so sincerely and profoundly🙏
You are welcome
Thank You for your support and words you were very inspirational to me! I really need it for my depression and anxiety. God bless!
Rosangela Ramalho Thanks for the feedback.
Hello my friend! Nice that you have found your way to my page .
I would like to help you to get rid of your suffering and pain. Contact me @ : distanthealer@outlook.com
+Rosangela Ramalho I'm not sure but, if anyone else needs to find out how to cure their depression try- "Dawtix Incredible Depression Annihilator" (should be on google have a look ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my cousin saw amazing results with it.
Rosangela, How are you now ? To feel better reduce negative thoughts. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives good relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Do the practice without any expectations. When taking a walk, at office, in college, when reading, before sleep etc observe your breath sensations. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Best wishes--Counsellor.
I’ve been managing my depression and anxiety with medication for about 16 years .
Recently I’ve experienced this black tar depression for about 2 days at a time a few times .
Also something new for me last week I paced for 3 hours in the morning from 5:30 to 8:30!am , never felt manic like this before . I did have to put my black lab to sleep I had her for 15 years and animals are very comforting for me . I have rescued a puppy since then we needed each other 😍
I have moved and finding a new dr now .
It can be a scary difficult time .
Thanks 🙏 for your Chanel 👍🏼
I have just found this video and wanted to say thank you for sharing your experiences with us
I have been struggling to find my way out of the darkness that keeps trying to overcome me and drag me down
I am going to try and save up to be able to afford your book
Namaste
🙏 💖 🌟 💖 🙏
You’re welcome. If you provide your email address, I will send you a free copy of my e-book “when going through hell don’t stop“ which tells the story of my recovery from agitated depression. The book that you’re saving up for is called healing from depression, which teaches my self-directed mental health recovery program. I think you can get a used copy on Amazon for a very low price.
Douglas Bloch thank you so much
Do you do an audio version of the book as I struggle to read a physical copy because of the problems I have with nerve damage in my eyes
Hi douglas im a ordinary teenage boy from Kosovo a country on ex-yougislavia im really feeling all the things that you explained in this video you probably wont see this coment but if you see it be proud of yourself because for at least 15mins you made me feel and understand that there's hope, i really have problems with the pain it feels like its inside of my chest and i really feel hopeless almost all the time i overthink everything i also have the problem with myself its like i dont know myself anymore maybe this is only a phase im going through but thank you very much for your advices and i really think that im gonna get better with your advices.
With love and a lot of respect Arianit Dobra.
dear ... I hope you are doing fine ..at least u r young so they r hope
Thank you very much for noticing and replying whoever you are its been 7 months since i posted that coment and i can say that im doing fine its been ups and downs but i say to the people suffering from depression from my experience so far the only thing that will cure you its challenging yoursef starting with daily tasks and having ambitions having a dream that you an follow when you wake up in the morning and working hard till you get it i know that this may seem somthing people say comonly but you have to try it and you have to understand that life is hard get over it you just have to face the truth in whats happening around you and not complain about the situation you are but stop and think for ways to make it better.
+DOBRA sweety I am 43
and it began when I lost my first child ..he was my first love
u can't understand tht pain
and I hope no one goes through it
thnx 4 ur tips son
but am trying my bst ..thnx alot 4 ur reply ..may God bless you 🌼
Good feedback
DOBRA how are you doing ?
You're message is inspiring ! I have lived with depression for over 20 years and never been in any kind of treatment. I still believe I can beat this malaise on my own free will but must admit it gets harder each passing day.
+Rafael Ramos At some point, I hope that you reach out for support and seek treatment. It makes recovery much easier.
I just found your video. Thank you for your story. I've been in a deep depression since August. I've seen several therapist. I'm taking meds. I cannot get out of it. I'm about to lose everything because of it. Please pray for me.
I will pray for you, and you can also call a wonderful prayer line call Silent Unity. The number is 1-816-969-2000. You can also download the application for your phone or tablet. It is called uPray
@@DouglasBloch thank you
@@tiffstaasHey! How are you doing now? 🙂
Hi Douglas, I’m referring to the author of the video. Watching it after so many years, it was posted, it’s still giving a refreshing perspective. I’m so glad you recovered back then, and recorded this video that still inspires many. I have pondered on the solution you described in the video, and (I don’t know if it’s already was discussed in the comments; you reply a lot too), I believe what happened: you lost a relationship, this has triggered a depression, anxiety, certainly you couldn’t accept it peacefully at the time, and when the group from people from the ministry, and your close ones together supported you consistently throughout 30-90 days, you, obviously, not just got support, but also formed New and vital relationships. That could have helped you to move on 😮 to me, that’s what really helped you… being in meaningful relationship again. Would you agree or not? Excited to hear the answer. 🤗 and thanks for the inspiration.
I needed this video so badly right now. I am going through the worst depression and hardest situations of my life. I live in chronic pain. God Bless you for these videos. Thank you.
Thank you. Here is a video I made on depression and chronic pain. Let me know if not helps. th-cam.com/video/r-eylxtEE-w/w-d-xo.html
hey brother,
Everything you pin pointed about what you were going through is exactly what Im going through right now
Its ruining my relationships with friends and family and its so overwhelming, Im constantly telling myself in my head "its just a thought" "it will pass" etc . then it goes away for abit then later on my attitude and negative mood comes back again, i reach out to my close family members but its hard to explain it to them when I know they dont know how it feels, its so frustrating but I thank you for giving me hope and ideas on how to get better
cheers
anon from brisbane, australia
I'm sorry that you are having a hard time finding people who understand your condition. Perhaps you can look for a depression support group in your area. Here is a video I made called. "The Best Things to Say to People Who Are Depressed." Perhaps you can suggest some of these responses to your family and friends. th-cam.com/video/CJDMHoKXT3U/w-d-xo.html
Great story, testimony sir. 👏 I am currently suffering from anxiety and depression, it's kept me from working but, I know if you were able to heal, we all can. Thank you for sharing your journey. God bless you.
You are very welcome.
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I tried to explain this point to a public health counselor who persisted in telling me neat tidbits like "70% of what your brain tells your are lies so you just need to ignore them long enough and they'll go away."
They didnt understand that these thoughts wasnt a downward loop of negative rumination. It was a constant storm in my head 24/7 that I could not shut off. Distracting myself, work, sleep, lay on the couch all day, get shitfaced drunk (bad idea, dont drink when depressed, just dont). The emotional torment of that mental storm was always 100%.
In other words, I had no control over my own mind anymore and I felt like I was going insane from the mental storm, emotional pain and sleep deprivation.
And that lasted for 3-4 months untill the anxiety died down and I was left with only the depression.
When that kind of anxiety and depression interchange, that's a special part of hell.
I'm sorry for your struggles but I'm glad you're getting better. Prozac was horrible for me as well
Thank You for sharing your story. One day at a time is what I learned.
You are welcome
Thank you so much. You saved my life. You are my hero, Douglas.
You are welcome. I'm glad you are feeling better. Just use your depression recovery tools to make sure that you stay well.
I teach at university and I know so many people who were saved by you. You are our hero. What I like most about you is that you speak from your heart and you simplify things in a way that is understood by everyone. I really like your style and your optimistic tone. Once again, thank you so much.
Thank you. What university do you teach at?
I teach at Alaqsa University. Its a state university in Gaza Strip, Palestine. Gaza is the world's largest open air prison in the world. The UN estimated that more than 80% of Gazans are severely depressed. We do not have facilities or treatments. Most people take drugs randomly to treat depression. You saved so many lives in Gaza and in the middle-east where people suffer harsh circumstances from wars to poverty to terrorism, etc. God bless you, Douglas. You are an angel. You are the hero of the poor people around the world.
Thanks. Are you saying that a number of people in Gaza have visited my website or watched my videos? Do you know them personally?
I hope you are over your depression. Episodes usually come and go. I created a web site to share tools and coping strategies that people can use to manage their symptoms.
Thank you for sharing your experience. Your words and support helps. Thank you!
Wow this was very helpful, thank you so much. I will one day get out of this depression.
Just keep telling yourself that
Oh my goodness thank you!! Thank you for not giving up and sharing your story and all the wisdom. I needed this and this is confirmation of something God is speaking into my spirit. Thank you again and may God continue to bless you!🙏🏻✝️
You are welcome. I have a video in the power of prayer if you care to look that up
Thank you I sure will!🙏🏻🙏🏻✝️✝️❤️❤️
Thank you so much. I'm dealing with depression right now and I've never had it this bad before. I'm so sorry you went through this. Mine has only started about a week ago.. It feels like forever ago. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and I didn't think it would have this impact on my life. I can't eat or sleep much I have suicidal thoughts. I really need to pray to god more. I feel like it won't end. I'm 25 years old but I feel like I'll never be able to talk to another girl again. I miss her so much but I know it won't work with her. But I still love her. I'm not supposed to think about that or think about her but that's all I can think about. It feels like it's not getting better, but I will continue to pray and wait for it to get better because I believe it can and it will. Thank you for sharing the inspirational video. I hope when I'm fully recovered I can post on as well.
+bassinassasin90 Hi. I'm just a stranger but your text inspired me to reply.
I think something really hard can become beautiful. You love her to death and that is something you should be proud of. Even if you two can't be together. I also love people I don't fit with. And people love me though we can't even talk again. Love is not about having the person next to you, it's the feeling inside, that you have met someone who gave you three years of adventures and bright days. Take it with you. Make it your part of your book. And start writing next chapter. You never know where you'll get or who you'll meet, you are worth the best your life has to offer, and to love someone, is to let them go.
So cry it out, write a "goodbye" note, and throw it. Make sure you YOU get to feel a closure. Then start creating a list of 10 things you want in life, right now. See the possabilities you couldn't do when being in a relationship.
Make this your best movie in life, where you are the director, because you are, and god dammit I have been through so much heartbreak that I seriusly think my heart is trade for a fake one, but so be it, I managed to accept forgive and move on. To understand that nothing is a garantuee, and to se the joy in that, enjoy moments where they at. Be your best friend and have fun with life.
For me it helped to talk about it, write poems, listen to sad songs,
cry to movies, and then helping others. You are not less worth single, you are not less worth because she said a no, you are always worthy the best, remember that.
I hope you recover soon
How are you now?
This content is SO good! Thank you very much💜🩷💙
Enlightenment begins on the other side of the despair. Thanks Douglas
Now I remember reading your book Listening to Your Inner Voice many years ago and liked that it acknowledged resistance to affirmations. So coming across these videos and realizing that undiagnosed depression has likely blocked me taking in affirmations until now seems very appropriate, somehow. Thank you and God bless you. I wonder if there are prayer circles to help people with depression.
Here is a 24 hour prayer hotline where they will put your name in a circle in a chapel and people will pray about it for 30 days. It’s an amazing service. Try it out. Silent Unity. 1-816-969-2000. Or in the United States toll-free 800-669-7729.
Excellent account of his struggling with depression 😢😊
I have been struggling with treatment resistant depression 😮
Sometimes I feel better then I just fall right back into negativity. I was never depressed nor a negative person until a toxic relationship and break up. I still think abt her a year later, and still haven’t let go. I’ve lost all my friends. I’m trying to start new beginnings and be inspired and free living like how I once was, but it’s hard to break this loop.
Yes, all of my depressive episodes were triggered by a loss of love from a partner. It takes some time to let go but eventually it does happen.
Your book has saved my life more than once. Thank you for being a beacon of hope. ❤️
I'm glad you are doing better. Keep up the good work in your mental health recovery. This channel has many videos that can support your healing.
From Minnesota...an excellent video. I continue to be a great admirer of your work and recovery.I am a therapist in an outpatient Day Treatment program and I still use your book and share it with my clients.Years ago I even communicated with you by phone and email as I hoped to have you come to speak at our program but was unable to make it work.Keep up your good work Douglas and take care.
Len
i'm going to your website now. Thanks for sharing your experience and struggle, Doug.
+Ken Brilliant Thanks. Let me know what you learn on my web site.
Thank you for your videos, I was in dark place and watching your advise help me calm down and practice your advise. Thank u again 🥰
You’re welcome
Thank you, I lost all my family, and recently lost my only friend I don't know why other than I isolate myself, I have agoraphobia, depression, anxiety, bipolar.
Never Ever
You tube this
PADI slapping
Also Qgong exercise.
Brilliant stuff! 🇨🇦🌺
Marlene Holley what
You can get treatment for these conditions.
ya but nothing has worked I was born with this, and it's deeply rooted in my family,
Sorry for asking such a stupid question but I really don't know it and I'm just figuring out if I am depressed or not: Do you also suffer from depression if your life REALLY hasn't any sense anymore cause you've lost literally everything in your life, everything you can imagine. Or do you suffer from it because you ONLY THINK that nothing makes sense? I mean, I love life in general, I'm full of energy if you give me a sense, a task, goals and dreams to live and work for. I'm not depressed BUT do lost everything so literally there's no sense in my life anymore. I don't know why I should get up everyday, there's just nothing that waits for me. So of course THAT makes me depressed. I'm suicidal because I do want to end MY life BUT I do NOT want to die, I just want this way of my life to stop. I still love life in general. But still, atm I just can't do anything, mentally too weak to get off of my bed. So is THIS a real depression?
You are suffering from reactive depression meaning that you are responding to the stress and grief of loss. I would seek out counseling as soon as possible and a prescriber to explore the use of medication. You can feel better with the right treatment.
Douglas Bloch Thank you very much for explaining it to me. That makes sense.
I agree w counseling (actually I have one therapist but our sessions don't help me at all, totally useless, I don't learn anything new) but I'm strict against meds.
Have a great xmas season!
***** thanks
I can't believe this is from 8 years ago but the words or the message is as helpful as any new discoveries. This is very encouraging. As long day comes after night , and spring comes after winter, i am encouraged that my troubles will one day be but a distant memory. Thank you for this video.
You’re more than welcome. I have two new videos called “your pain is not forever and “four words that can save your life.“ They are both about the fact that nothing lasts forever. I also have a video called you can be restored
thank you Douglas.. your story is touching and moving.. And your salvation is a message of hope for all of us! I hit the bottom recently, but found the strenght to struggle imstead of giving up following suicidal thoughts. I want to come out through my social network's tools and invite people who has the same problem to build up a supporting group, no matter what so called "friends" will think of me
The best canal on TH-cam. A life saver🙏
Thank you.
Thanks for trusting us with your experiences Douglas. This really helped.
You're welcome. My experience is universal. Many people have been through the abyss of depression and have come out the other side.
Brilliant as usual Douglas thank you
I'm glad that the video spoke to you.
This is 2020 , I'm 20 , I have been through depression a major one actually....and I've been healing since last year April ....and thank you so much this keeps me going ,all you teach is true ...you're a great inspiration and may God bless you ...thank you very much....
You're more than welcome. Keep doing what you're doing now to stay healthy
Nice for you have that love p,I don't have a that sort of support to help bring that light into my darkness,,,hope I can heal this state & be happy again
I just hope i can remember most of this. I wish i could talk so open about my condition. This brain fog thing... I feel like i just observe the world from inside of my body and I can't keep up with someone talking to me. Every morning I meditate, every evening i do Wim Hof breathing and cold showers. This videos give me hope. Thank You Douglas
You’re welcome. Keep persevering. Eventually he will come out of the depression. Are you seeing a counselor or doing any other kind of mental health support?
@@DouglasBloch wow i didn't think i would get a response from You let alone that quickly. Right now I'm too busy at work i dont have enough money to seek help. I was seeing counselor last year. I got better and I relapsed. I think its too bad that I'm battling this alone. Sorry for mistakes my language is not english. Your videos and Noah's bignoknow are my support
Your English is very good. Perhaps you can get some low-cost counseling in your area. We have that here in Portland Oregon.
@@DouglasBloch Portland is like half way through the world from were I live which is Poland. For now things are stable. I can get a good sleep. Got rejected from girlfriend twice and i believe that was the trigger. Went into alkohol and weed addiction untill i finally got my first panic attack. I must do what You did and write how my life would have look like without depression.
Your book saved my life. Really learned a lot about depression and anxiety. Thank you
You are welcome. I am glad the book helped. You may also want to see my web site.
You are correct. Thank you for sharing your experience with depression. I am living a minute at a time .
Hang in there. One day you you will emerge into the light.
I live alone, I work alone! I’m losing my mind!!! I hate my life and can’t take this crushing loneliness and depression!!! It has been like this for almost ten years. I have no social connections and I want to die.
I like your TH-cam name. I know what loneliness is. Very painful. Is there anyway you can find a counselor to talk to. That would be a very positive social connection and a positive start.
Find me on Instagram. I am a fellow sufferer: all_glory_to_god_73
Ever since I lost my license and my mom to suicide I have had major depression. It has been a year and a half. I have both anxiety and depression. I have been on every med. I'm coming to the end.
I’m sorry you are suffering so much. But I do believe there is hope. Here’s a new website I created and helping people to survive suicidal pain. I hope you can take some time to visit it. www.survivingsuicidalpain.com
Your videos are great and very inspiring, I m 3 months into it bad at the moment and only just started on medication, battling the low energy and panic at present and it’s a slow journey. Just started watching your videos this week and aim to see all of them now, very helpful. Thanks
You are welcome
Hello how are you friend, I hope that you are feeling better now
Thank you douglas... i am suffering from some mental aliment too...my days are so dizziness n uneasy..feel so out of the place all the time...hope for me that i may see the spring as well ..thank you again....thanks for your story...
Everyone talks about how great of a person I am, yet I cannot yet enjoy life, I’ ve been feeling depressed from as long as I can remember myself, always struggling with friendships, relationships and life in general. I intellectually know that it is not supposed to be like that. I ve been a member on a psychotherapy group for the past 6 months, which had made me more aware of all of these problems, yet I am not feeling any tangible results...
Should I hold on? Should I seek a different approach? I fell desperate almost at all times
Yes, you should definitely hold on and seek a different treatment if you need to. Talk to the person who runs the group and share with him or her what you were going through. Some people do better with individual therapy. You might also want to talk to a prescriber about the possibility of medication. Keep trying different things until something works
@@DouglasBloch thank you, sir for the reply
I so appreciate your personal sharing of your difficult and trying periods. You give me strength knowing we can win the battles.
I have recently read that sleeping under a "weighted" blanket can help with depression & anxiety. It has something to do with the feeling of security while being embraced or hugged, and although artificial it still has the same impact esp. as regards the statistics of the study. I recall having the lead apron put on me when having a dental X-ray and I strangely found it a comforting experience, so perhaps there is some validity to this idea..
You are the second person who’s told me this. I’ve had the same experience in the dentist office. Try it out let me know how it goes.
Thank you Douglas 💚 so understand how life circumstances and unfulfilled ambitions can lead to entrenched depression; we become the person we do not want to remain. Your videos are the best for us sufferers. Bless you
Thank you Gem
inspiring story. I have felt that way for a long time now, I don't feel any sense of excitement, I feel alone, I feel my disability is actually prohibiting me from having good quality friends.
This is quite common with depression. Hopefully with treatment and with time, you will begin to feel better.
At least someone understands this kind of anxiety at this level. Thank you for your words of hope
You are welcome. Here is a video I did on the power of hope. th-cam.com/video/XxIXxEFmgII/w-d-xo.html
I’m In the throws of depression and anxiety.. also triggered by work and a relationship breakdown but I’ve had it for years and years due to a traumatic / Abusive childhood... even admitting it is strange.. but realising how it affected me over the years it’s so obvious.. when you said the only relief I get is when I sleep I SO RELATED to that!! The doom of waking up.. realising there are waking hours ahead but also feeling bad that I’m not grateful for a new day and for life as someone who is also into affirmations and the power of the mind... this gives me hope.. I honestly can’t wait to get better. I don’t know how yet.. but today I woke up and cried out for help to whatever higher power there is / the universe... I cried and begged for help and for positive life changes... for clarity... for willpower and to lead me in the right direction... I’m glad I listened to this video. I related to a lot of what you said... I’m seeking out a therapist (I’ve been resistant to that but I know it necessary) and I like working out.. but I know I need more.. for those hours when you know it’s underneath .. it’s there.. I just want it gone.. ❤️❤️❤️
Hold on and keep persevering. This too shall pass
Thank you so much for this - your description of your depression is exactly what I've had the last three years that keeps getting worse despite medication; that pain that's emotional but still hurts deep through my brain, head, neck and other places. Fog, muffled hearing, feeling locked in a hell area of my brain that I can even escape through sleep - often feel worse when I wake instead of relaxed. Can't cope with anything & obsessive paranoid thoughts. I'm going to try this as not getting much help from psychiatrist. ❤️
Thanks Amanda. Please hang in there. You can get better. Let me know if I can be of any help. Feel free to email me at douglasbloch@gmail.com and I will send you a free e-book, my memoir, “When Going Through Hell...Don’t Stop!” Have you ever heard of TMS or ECT? They can be effective when medications can’t. Email me and I will send you links to my videos about them.
good bless you 😇 I'm during depressive episode and your videos are helping me a lot
you are welcome.
Very motivating and inspiring video
I’m glad you enjoyed it
That reaction to the Prozac sounds like what can happen when a person with bipolar 2 takes an antidepressant. Many bipolar 2 people are writers. Thank you for your videos. Do you have advice on insomnia?
I have a number of videos on sleep. When is called medications for insomnia. Another is called "what happens when you wake up at 4 AM and can't get back to sleep."
@@DouglasBloch I did find them. This video is especially valuable for helping loved ones really understand what a major depression feels like. Thank you very much for your videos.
Hi, Douglas. Great to hear that you recovered from your treatment-resistant depression. I too suffer from it. I get it every winter. And anti-depressants used to work on me, but they take longer now to work and it's my depression is growing on me. I too have had suicidal thoughts, but I never even tried to act on them. Your advice will certainly help me a lot.
Thanks for the feedback. If you suffer from winter depression, you can get a light box. They are proven to be effective.
Douglas Bloch Thanks for replying, Douglas. I remember having my first episode when I got too drunk. Since then, I am having the episodes. I am a Hindu by religion. Three, four days back, a friend told me about some mantras that I could chant or just listen to. They have some very positive vibrations. And I am already feeling the difference. If you want, I will send you the TH-cam links to them. Maybe they would help others like us.
Hi, Doug. You mentioned that how a group helped you get healed fully. We have no such groups here and people having any mental disease are looked down upon. Can you please ask that group and pray for me to help me get fully healed. I can't be there. But can you please at least do this. Thanks.
MrBlinkash1980 Okay. I also suggest that you call a great prayer service called Silent Unity. They will hold you in the Light for 30 days. Their number is 800-669-7729.
Thanks for sharing your story, Douglas, and for being an important resource for people suffering from depression like myself.
So good. It really speaks to me and gives me hope thst I will heal from what I'm going through right now. Thankyou.
You are welcome. I hope that you check out some of the other videos on this channel. Here is a video where I talk about hope. th-cam.com/video/3cZDnzfmebI/w-d-xo.html
Beautiful. Honest. Arduous and difficult work, that is all worth it. Indeed, your story is my story... it’s everyone’s story who can relate and identify with this video. Thank you for sharing...
Still walking through my ‘episode’... but can contest to what u’v said about daily survival strategy. It is key, and the first baby steps out. Ritual. Habits. Structure. People connections.
To all- My God connection is very weak and unrelentingly in doubt. And still I say... God Bless. You are not alone.
A legend was born
Very Inspirational video ever, Congratulations you are actually a great warrior to beat this big enemy I can understand this, i deserve for myself too.
Yes, you definitely deserve healing
Wow Douglas, THANK YOU SOOOO much. I feel like you are the only person in the world right now who gets it! It means so much to know that someone else had it to that extent and survived and beat it. You have given me hope xox
Douglas, you are a truly outstanding person, thank you so much for sharing your story - and all the other very helpful videos on here. Best Regards, Dennis
You’re welcome. I’m glad they’re helpful
It was honestly a move of faith(Holy Spirit power!)
Thank you so much for such an inspiring video , I'm suffering from depression and anxiety with panic attacks for 9 years, thinking the same way - if i'm not gonna kill myself i'll get mad, I can't stand this pain anymore, medication doesn't work, I am ashamed that I have this disease, i rather stay at home than go with my friends ,because i think that they see me as mad ,it's so sad ,because only care of others can make me feel happy ...
I hope that your method will help me,thank You again.
What you have explained is excellent and beautiful. I know you are right, I know that love, God is love, and has the power to heal. I have been through some very traumatic, painful times. Struggle with the sadness of all of the pain I have had to see and live. I have searched for a good answer to help myself and others with the pit of depression. Thank you for sharing!
You’re welcome.
@@DouglasBloch I am so glad to have come across all of your information. I am going to really study it so that I can also heal like you were able to, and then help others to heal from what I learn as well. You are a true inspiration to me!
Thank you for your kind words. There are many good videos on this channel and I hope you are able to look at them
love this guy, thank you! I will get your book. & try to do your top 5 things.
That was so nice to hear and listen to. Thank you for sharing your story. I needed to hear the affirmation of your love and all you had endured.
I’m going through this exact process but since November also have hearing loss and mild tinnitus which leads to my isolation even further. But I want to get better maybe find other tinnitus and chronic depression suffers. I am also an ex veteran but can’t seem to reach out to anybody for support. I don’t speak to my family anymore due to childhood neglect and sabotaging so i’m alone.
I'm sorry that you were alone. However there are support groups online that might be helpful. You might want to go to a website called Lion rock recovery. help.lionrockrecovery.com/
You might also want to look up a group called “Live Well Recovery” Finally, you can't find individual counseling online at betterhealth.com and talkspace.com
@@DouglasBloch Thank you Dr Bloch , I will take a look into them 🕊
This is about me. I can relate so much to what you have said. I have referred to Depression and Anxiety as bullying brothers. One can beat you up, or the other or sometimes they beat you up together. Your advice and remedies are excellent. Thank you.
You are welcome. I hope that you get to watch my other videos.
This hope is what all people need, regardless whether they are well or not, successful or not, rich or poor, whatever.
It is nice that some of us have gone through this "crucifixion" so that we may get "resurrected" in the Source of Love in the midst of our community.
+keiko takahashi Thank you for your thoughts. As I say in my book Words That Heal, "What goes down, must come up?"
So healing to confirm our union with Christ - Rom 6.
Oh my God , i am so inspired by you, i can see hope again. I wish i live near you so i could get your help. Thank you and God bless you for helping millions of people like me.
Here we have no group support. It still a stigma to suffer from menta disease. We feel so helpless.
Thank you so much for this. I am so glad I found this video. Brought me a lot of hope in the midst of my pain (the pain you described). There is hope. I know it wont always be like this. God bless you.
Thank you for your kind words.
Molom sve ljude dobro volje da prevedu ovo na srpski.U teskok sam depresiji i jako bi mi pomoglo da ima titl.Iakp delimicno razumem nije mi sve jasno.Iskreno verujem da ce se naci neko i prevesti ovog divnog coveka koji nam pokusava pomoci.