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Emily: "I could never catfish/lie at someone else's expense" Also Emily: Uploads "Trauma Dumping to People on Omegle (Except I'm Lying the Whole Time)"
yeah, but the lies of that vid arent long term and doesnt paint a picture of herself to make her more than she is, unlike catfishers. it was just fake trauma stories theyll forget in a few days or weeks.
I'm already insecure, I never edit my photos, and I could never catfish someone. Not only would I feel SO guilty for lying, but it would just make me more insecure if I compared myself to some beautiful woman 🤷♀️
Same, that’s the reason I never edit my photos i know it will only fuel my insecurities But I’m also slowly progressing on gaining confidence in myself. Taking baby steps for now
I actually did the same and it ended up working out really well for me on most dates. I put up mostly mid, unphotoshopped pictures of myself, and my dates often commented "I hope this isn't weird, but you look better than your photos" lol. My now husband didn't say it out loud until later in our relationship, but even he admitted he was pleasantly surprised I looked better than my photos. 😂
I always think that would be a good idea, so they’ll be pleasantly surprised, but I find it hard to bring myself to put bad pictures. I guess I do kind of a mix.
A guy once accused me of editing my pictures bc I showed up to our date (a hike) without make up. He was like “you just look way older and tired” like… sorry I didn’t feel the need to put on concealer just to sweat it off anyway? He didn’t get a second date 🥰
@@hotmanngrayman9059 no I could tell he really thought it was like a “gotcha” moment. And then when I told him I didn’t edit my pictures, he was almost in denial, like I wouldn’t know
@@leahdavis9434 it was in a relatively urban area (there was a high and shopping center right next to the trail), and he was also like 2” shorter then me and weighed probably less than I did. Might not have been the best choice, but I wasn’t really concerned lol
Fun fact: Loch Ness is connected to the North Sea, so occasionally catfish ended up in the loch. And before people figured that out, some sightings of the catfish were thought to be of the Loch Ness monster.... So catfish accidentally catfished the tourists as Nessie😂
My sister actually does a really smart thing, she chooses her worst pictures to post, her rationale is that if the person she's meeting accepts her at her physical low point they'll accept her at her best.
was watching an asmr video to go to sleep. once I got the notification for this video, I dumped water over my head to wake myself up so I can watch this video.
I remember the Katy Perry episode and if i recall correctly the craziest thing about it was that he never did realize he was being catfished, he wanted to be on the show for an opportunity to prove it was real and set up a meeting with her or something. So they obviously ended up finding the person catfishing him and even after talking to this girl he went home and emailed the catfish again like "you will not believe what just happened" because he still believed he was talking to the real Katy. rollercoaster of an episode
MOTHER IS BACK Also, catfishing isnt always for dating. When bullies invent a persona to collect information or play with the bullied's feelings that is also catfishing. It hurts a LOT. And I've been a victim of it :(
This happened to my friend! My friend was cheated on by their bf. The other girl's best friend made a fake account and followed my friend, me and a bunch of other friends. This happened after they had suspicions that WE were stalking them. She had made up a whole ass identity and I even had a friendly chat with her. Ultimately, she texted my friend saying "I took the info I needed" and went on to insult my friend's looks and wished them to rot. So a catfishing/stalking situation
i'm so sorry that happened to you, that's awful that sounds a lot like when narcissistic people try to get you to like them before they go crazy on you
no but the story of the guy who never had any love interests because of his scars on his face is really heartbreaking :( i know it doesn’t excuse what he did but i think he feels guilty enough not to have the internet scream at his face
Yeah, I can definitely understand that fear. The thing is that it sounds like his PERSONALITY is completely genuine, they met over shared interests, they like talking. It’s literally only his appearance that’s a lie. She’s in love with someone who’s emotionally real, just not physically. I think if he just tells her he sent her fake pictures because he hates his appearance, things might be able to work out. Especially, if the pics were sent early. But maybe I’m just optimistic.
This is actually becoming quite the issue now. I remember a few years ago in Germany a girl named Rebecca Reusch went missing and on her missing poster there was a Snapchat picture with such a heavy filter on it, she was absolutely unrecognizable. It took them like a week to release a realistic picture of her. By then, millions of people had been looking for someone with a completely different face. To this day, I think that was one of the worst mistakes to be made in the case. She still has not been found to this day.
I was catfished by a “European Communist” and he kept on debating me until I got to know that he was Vietnamese ☠️ like why would bro even wanna hide that info?? 😭😭
@@katherin4977IKR its sad tbh and it was too common than i thought so many SEA people (especially Philippines people???) act white/European on internet its crazy 😨😭
Back when I was in really good shape my friend told me someone was using my pics on Grindr to catfish him. I was so HONORED! Like...me? Wow! Thank you so much.
Catfishing is still somehow crazy to me…especially since sometimes it’s so blatantly obvious it’s honestly sad like how Emily thinks her right side of her face isn’t pretty like girlll
3:47 My talent agent once told us we have a ‘main character’ side and a ‘supporting character’ side and you just need to learn how to use both, and I never forgot that he kind of ate with that one
I have been catfished before by a guy pretending to be a girl. He went through a great deal of effort, like asking his female friend to do voice recordings, and I reverse image search all the pics he sent me and not one came up matched. In hindsight he was honestly incredibly toxic so it was for the best.
@@bellakulp2620 ive met people who cry they have no friends online and are trying to make friends and reached out to them to try to play a game online or something and they make no effort. people need to put the tiniest bit of effort it to make friends and they dont.
People think that they will never be in a real life relationship if they used photos of themselves, so they turn to catfishing. Some sort of relationship is better than nothing
@Soumyadeep-hd9sz Yeah, but this just goes beyond bullying it's like so much effort for something so pathetic, but i guess bullying is also something that takes effort that's just really pathetic.
I couldn't catfish someone. Sure, the instant gratification would feel nice, but I would gradually feel guilty and exhausted from having to go through all of that work for something that I know will never work out in the end.
Story time ladies 🌚 I had an online relationship with someone I was talking to online for a year who I was convinced I was in love with and going to marry. He was way older than me and always seemed purposeful yet peculiar with how carefully he presented to me. I pushed aside the small voice in the back of my head that I wasn’t wildly attracted to him but was convinced our emotional bond was too strong to give up and that I just needed to stop being so superficial. I begged this man to come visit me and he always said no because he would be bitter for the rest of his life if it didn’t go well as he already had two negative experiences flying to see a lover (massive red flag). But I managed to change his mind and so for my birthday, he flew to my state finally to stay for a WEEK. When I met him, I was so taken off guard at how many differences I could see when we met compared to how he was presenting to me online. First irl red flag was hugging him for the first time and he smelled so bad :( I ignored it and continued the visit but the connection immediately felt off as the longer I spent with him, the clearer it became that he not only not my type visually but was also a delusional misogynist. I pushed that out of my head convinced the intimacy would change my mind, so after talking about it for so long, we tried to sleep together and it was easily the worst sex I ever had and I realized he embellished hard about specific things (and crazy edited his photos) too. I was mortified when I realized he wasn’t the man I thought he was in any way, shape or fashion and felt like the most horrible person alive when I broke up with him that night saying “it didn’t feel right” and we both went back and forth all night before I told him he had to leave early on day 3. The next day on my birthday he got a new plane ticket and went home and I cried all day long lol.
That last point is one of the best pieces of advice you've ever given. Super simple, yet super important. When starting a relationship online, SEE EACH OTHERS FACES AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! If they don't want to, IMMEDIATE RED-FLAG! Being shy of course is a thing. Having insecurities (like the guy with the scar) is a thing. Doesn't matter. Online relationships are fraught enough as it is. Identity is NOT something to screw around with. Know what they look like, talk to them face-to-face, and PLAY "HATOFUL BOYFRIEND" NOT EMILY!
Catfishining is not just mean and deceitful to the other person but also to yourself. The amount of self hatred. And even if i edit the part of myself I don't like, okay other people will see me that way but how will I look at myself in the mirror and how will I accept myself right? Therefore I have always tried to accept my features even the ones that are not necessarily attractive for me like my flat nose or my acne or my rolls and all of my 90 kg weight. And eventually i grew to love myself the way I am. And i find myself pretty and beautiful and for me at this point that's what matters
As a Certified Uglie, I fully agree with everything you said. If I did something like that and matched with someone, everything they said would just be a constant reminder that they don’t actually like me, just this character I’m playing. Also I’m in love with you. ✨
When I used to use filters at first I felt so good being complimented due to the picture but over time I started feeling bad because they weren't actually complimenting what *I* look like. I've sworn off all filters and I may not look as cute and snatched but I know that im being honest with myself about who i am and what i look like. And honestly i feel much better about myself not seeing all the changes the filters make and it feels more genuine when someone tells me i look nice!
I am a very ugly 24 yo female, I have curly hair but I’m white and I have a lopsided face. I met a guy called Liam online about two years ago and we got along so well he was lovely! I went to Bristol to meet him and when I got there he was very stand off ish and weird with me. I asked him if there was an issue and he said I don’t look like my photos and that my face is ugly and lopsided, he complained about my pale white skin and said he was hoping I’d be mixed race. I called my friend crying and he said to calm down and to have a drink then leave as he said the guy was a shallow bully. After 2 drinks Liam said “you are sort of pretty from certain angles” he then harassed me asking me to have relations with him to which I was a bit confused and insulted, I then went home. About a year later I saw his profile again and I finally had to let it all out, I asked him why he was so vile to me and the things he said were truly disgusting and harrowing. Despite him sexually harassing me after the 2 drinks he really did find me repulsive, he told me to off myself and said he hated ugly white girls. I have never had an experience like this before or after it occurred. Really unbelievablely painful and damaging for me. I wish beautiful people could just treat ugly people like we’re human too. Our daily encounters are almost always negative, it wears you down. I hardly leave my house now and when I do I have to cover my face to avoid abuse. On buses people move their children away like you’re diseased, people who use TikTok film you and laugh in your face, bus drivers and workers are unkind to you because of the connection they’ve made in their mind that because I’m ugly I must be evil or disgusting. It’s so tiring, it’s not easy mode that’s for sure.
i dont use filters but im still scared that i’m a catfish because tell my why when i take selfies i look tolerable but once someone takes one snap of me i look horrid
it's not just facetune, by now most smartphone cameras are overprocessing photos so much that even just posting an "unedited" image will make you look waay better than in real life
3:33 tip: upload okay photos or even mediocre pictures, so if on the day of the date you look like that its fine, if you look better then BOOM its also great
I catfished girls at 14, but only because I wanted an older gf and told them I was 19. 💀 I thought 18 would be too obvious. Top 5 worst pursuits of the 2010's.
The way you explained how you felt if you catfished someone is legit how I felt the one time I did. I just knew I was creating a bigger hole for myself
I’ve never edited or filtered my photos and I still get called a catfish, like my hair isn’t always gonna be done and im not always gonna have my lashes on. But it still makes me feel so insecure because I’m basically getting called ugly in person. 😭
"all girls are pretty" this is completely genuinely, the first time i have ever been called pretty and it was by proxy. this should not be hitting me as hard as it is but im tearing up
I have once accidentaly catfished someone. I have periods in time where I almost never post on my socials, so my appearance had changed a little: braces, longer hair, better style, lost weight... And because of that I accidentaly catfished someone when texting with them, because they thought I still looked like that
sometimes it's hard to feel bad for the victims of catfishing. like, it's usually easy to video chat even if you can't meet up. a friend of mine was kind of dating this girl online and had been since they were living in states far apart. but then they were living in adjacent states and still hadn't met...i was like, offer to go see her, you live close enough to meet now. and that is how he finally found out he had been catfished.
As someone who was catfished, it is one of the worst feelings in the world. In my case, my irl friends in high school created fake profiles on twitter and followed my fanaccount I had on there. Seeing as I was a depressed teenager who was being left out of everything to due with her friends, i was quick to accept them as my friends without hesitation because I wanted friendship and I felt like I had no one to talk to. This all happened during summer break between my third and fourth year in high school. One week into the new school year, someone asked me if I was interested in this one girl still. Which was strange, because I had never talked about me liking girls at school before. Went down the chain of 'who told you this' and then figured it out. They confessed to it a week later, but to this day i've never received an apology because they 'did nothing wrong in the eyes of the law'. When I asked them why they did it, they told me they were worried about me. Which was funny, considering they were part of the reason why I was so fucking depressed.
i think imperfections are what make you perfect, and showing them is even better. being okay with yourself and every part of you is the most attractive thing you can do 🩷
I like that you point out that you won’t understand the catfishers who catfish out of not being conventionally attractive. It’s the same case for me. I can never stop being grateful for winning the genetic lottery, because at least most people react well to conventionally attractive people. 🙏
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miss emily iS THAT A "THE HANDMAIDEN" POSTER i SEE IN THE BACKGROUND
That was something
are minor edits like removing a few dots of acne considered catfishing?
@@rinnytot no, i think that any minor edits of the skin are okay but editing the face or body shape isn't
As a dogbird I can confirm catfishers really confuse me
very insightful
What?
@@Flake52 dogbird is the literal opposite of catfish, they’re making a joke
as a squirrelarachnid i agree
As a bunnyreptile I also get confused
catfishing is honestly so selfish, people can start developing feelings for catfishers and it all always turns out very shitty in the end
FRL AND NO ONE TALKS ABOUT IT BECAUSE IT BECAME NORMALIZED THROUGH PRANK VIDEOS 😭
God loves you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! He can give you so much love, joy and peace!.
@@rachael5611 satan loves you
@@rachael5611Dont forget that Satan loves you too hunny😘😻
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Emily: "I could never catfish/lie at someone else's expense"
Also Emily: Uploads "Trauma Dumping to People on Omegle (Except I'm Lying the Whole Time)"
Ik, but to be fair that video is hilarious.
@@this_is_a_cat3437 it was by far the video that's made me laugh the hardest, ever. EVER.
yeah, but the lies of that vid arent long term and doesnt paint a picture of herself to make her more than she is, unlike catfishers. it was just fake trauma stories theyll forget in a few days or weeks.
That’s Omegle tho it don’t count
That was acting
I'm already insecure, I never edit my photos, and I could never catfish someone. Not only would I feel SO guilty for lying, but it would just make me more insecure if I compared myself to some beautiful woman 🤷♀️
I agree. Catfishing doesn't make you any better, it just makes you more insecure.
girl you're so pretty!!
are your lashes natural ? theyre beautiful
Same, that’s the reason I never edit my photos i know it will only fuel my insecurities But I’m also slowly progressing on gaining confidence in myself. Taking baby steps for now
@@piercetvenjoyer2003 I use the grande cosmetics Lash serum, so kinda natural, but with a little help
I'm a reverse catfish. I put up my worst photos.
thats actually refreshing
So you're a dogbird, there is another one 4 comments above, you should meet😍😍
Me putting the photo where I had a massive zit on my chin on Tinder:
(My caption slaps, though. 🤪)
I actually did the same and it ended up working out really well for me on most dates. I put up mostly mid, unphotoshopped pictures of myself, and my dates often commented "I hope this isn't weird, but you look better than your photos" lol. My now husband didn't say it out loud until later in our relationship, but even he admitted he was pleasantly surprised I looked better than my photos. 😂
I always think that would be a good idea, so they’ll be pleasantly surprised, but I find it hard to bring myself to put bad pictures. I guess I do kind of a mix.
A guy once accused me of editing my pictures bc I showed up to our date (a hike) without make up. He was like “you just look way older and tired” like… sorry I didn’t feel the need to put on concealer just to sweat it off anyway? He didn’t get a second date 🥰
Romeo thought he was on to something 😂
@@hotmanngrayman9059 no I could tell he really thought it was like a “gotcha” moment. And then when I told him I didn’t edit my pictures, he was almost in denial, like I wouldn’t know
smart move, weed out the idiots.
Hiking as a first date is so risky
@@leahdavis9434 it was in a relatively urban area (there was a high and shopping center right next to the trail), and he was also like 2” shorter then me and weighed probably less than I did. Might not have been the best choice, but I wasn’t really concerned lol
Mother has uploaded, world peace has been restored
real
I can finally rest🥀
any other day, it would be a hyperbole to me but not today..
If only 😢
Blessed be mother ❤🎉
Amanda wang’s lore is crazy
Like that skit was so funny. Imagine being arrested for catfishing, with murder being something on the side.
it's so hilarious how her recurring character appears in pretty much all of emily's skit videos... i wonder what her full life story is haha!!
I NEED a compilation
@@misuzu_dono FR
Someone needs to make a compilation of Amanda wang's skits
Fun fact: Loch Ness is connected to the North Sea, so occasionally catfish ended up in the loch. And before people figured that out, some sightings of the catfish were thought to be of the Loch Ness monster.... So catfish accidentally catfished the tourists as Nessie😂
Nessie has access to the open sea...? Dear God.
@@sussusamogus4714girl’s international, yall better watch out
This is the best fun fact I've ever heard.
My sister actually does a really smart thing, she chooses her worst pictures to post, her rationale is that if the person she's meeting accepts her at her physical low point they'll accept her at her best.
Probably would rather have a mid partner who finds you beautiful at your lowest than a rlly hot partner who finds you ugly most of the time
was watching an asmr video to go to sleep. once I got the notification for this video, I dumped water over my head to wake myself up so I can watch this video.
real
I would do the same thing
God loves you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! He can give you so much love, joy and peace!.
@@rachael5611 hail our lord Satan 😊
only valid action to take me thinks
I remember the Katy Perry episode and if i recall correctly the craziest thing about it was that he never did realize he was being catfished, he wanted to be on the show for an opportunity to prove it was real and set up a meeting with her or something. So they obviously ended up finding the person catfishing him and even after talking to this girl he went home and emailed the catfish again like "you will not believe what just happened" because he still believed he was talking to the real Katy. rollercoaster of an episode
MOTHER IS BACK
Also, catfishing isnt always for dating. When bullies invent a persona to collect information or play with the bullied's feelings that is also catfishing. It hurts a LOT. And I've been a victim of it :(
holy hell i had no idea that was a thing
This happened to my friend! My friend was cheated on by their bf. The other girl's best friend made a fake account and followed my friend, me and a bunch of other friends. This happened after they had suspicions that WE were stalking them. She had made up a whole ass identity and I even had a friendly chat with her. Ultimately, she texted my friend saying "I took the info I needed" and went on to insult my friend's looks and wished them to rot. So a catfishing/stalking situation
i'm so sorry that happened to you, that's awful
that sounds a lot like when narcissistic people try to get you to like them before they go crazy on you
I thought you said "mother is "Black"" at first and I genuinely went, "no, she's Asian?" 😂 😂
@@blueismylove3128 we are all black on this blessed day
no but the story of the guy who never had any love interests because of his scars on his face is really heartbreaking :(
i know it doesn’t excuse what he did but i think he feels guilty enough not to have the internet scream at his face
Yeah, I can definitely understand that fear. The thing is that it sounds like his PERSONALITY is completely genuine, they met over shared interests, they like talking. It’s literally only his appearance that’s a lie. She’s in love with someone who’s emotionally real, just not physically. I think if he just tells her he sent her fake pictures because he hates his appearance, things might be able to work out. Especially, if the pics were sent early.
But maybe I’m just optimistic.
This is actually becoming quite the issue now. I remember a few years ago in Germany a girl named Rebecca Reusch went missing and on her missing poster there was a Snapchat picture with such a heavy filter on it, she was absolutely unrecognizable. It took them like a week to release a realistic picture of her. By then, millions of people had been looking for someone with a completely different face. To this day, I think that was one of the worst mistakes to be made in the case. She still has not been found to this day.
davon hab ich noch nie gehört.. echt grauenhaft
I was catfished by a “European Communist” and he kept on debating me until I got to know that he was Vietnamese ☠️ like why would bro even wanna hide that info?? 😭😭
When he's not a European Communist: :(
When you don't get that European Commussy 😕😕😕😕😕
Because some Vietnamese are "ashame" of their ethnic 😭
im sorry this is so funny cuz it's so random
@@katherin4977IKR its sad tbh and it was too common than i thought so many SEA people (especially Philippines people???) act white/European on internet its crazy 😨😭
Back when I was in really good shape my friend told me someone was using my pics on Grindr to catfish him. I was so HONORED! Like...me? Wow! Thank you so much.
Yo you should try to meet the guy with your friend to see his reaction
@@Mercury-ok8ie that would’ve been brilliant but it was years ago. That thread is lost forever tragically!
Catfishing is still somehow crazy to me…especially since sometimes it’s so blatantly obvious it’s honestly sad like how Emily thinks her right side of her face isn’t pretty like girlll
3:47 My talent agent once told us we have a ‘main character’ side and a ‘supporting character’ side and you just need to learn how to use both, and I never forgot that he kind of ate with that one
You changed my point of view too you are a queen 🥰❤
pretty soon AI could make even facetiming someone not an accurate view of what someone actually looks like, which is scary
Realtime AI style transfer of voice is gonna make overseas guys able to sound like valley girls
I had a friend who's dad thought he was talking to one of the ABBA members and was sending money to them
the attention and praise you COULD get if you were not you... ugh! that's sooo true. it's so hurtful to ones own self image.
I have been catfished before by a guy pretending to be a girl. He went through a great deal of effort, like asking his female friend to do voice recordings, and I reverse image search all the pics he sent me and not one came up matched. In hindsight he was honestly incredibly toxic so it was for the best.
Why would any female do that if some of my friend asked me I would say they are crazy 😂
As an actual literal catfish I can confirm I will keep you on your toes
as a cod, please don't :(
as a shark, I would like to see you try.
as a salmon, i have no toes
as a pufferfish, dolphins already do
As a dog, woof
I don't understand what the end goal of catfishing why do people genuinely do this
Greed and loneliness
@@bellakulp2620 ive met people who cry they have no friends online and are trying to make friends and reached out to them to try to play a game online or something and they make no effort. people need to put the tiniest bit of effort it to make friends and they dont.
@@bellakulp2620 I find it so sickening that people can just do this type of stuff to others without even regretting the actions
People think that they will never be in a real life relationship if they used photos of themselves, so they turn to catfishing. Some sort of relationship is better than nothing
@Soumyadeep-hd9sz Yeah, but this just goes beyond bullying it's like so much effort for something so pathetic, but i guess bullying is also something that takes effort that's just really pathetic.
I couldn't catfish someone. Sure, the instant gratification would feel nice, but I would gradually feel guilty and exhausted from having to go through all of that work for something that I know will never work out in the end.
Story time ladies 🌚
I had an online relationship with someone I was talking to online for a year who I was convinced I was in love with and going to marry. He was way older than me and always seemed purposeful yet peculiar with how carefully he presented to me. I pushed aside the small voice in the back of my head that I wasn’t wildly attracted to him but was convinced our emotional bond was too strong to give up and that I just needed to stop being so superficial. I begged this man to come visit me and he always said no because he would be bitter for the rest of his life if it didn’t go well as he already had two negative experiences flying to see a lover (massive red flag). But I managed to change his mind and so for my birthday, he flew to my state finally to stay for a WEEK. When I met him, I was so taken off guard at how many differences I could see when we met compared to how he was presenting to me online. First irl red flag was hugging him for the first time and he smelled so bad :( I ignored it and continued the visit but the connection immediately felt off as the longer I spent with him, the clearer it became that he not only not my type visually but was also a delusional misogynist. I pushed that out of my head convinced the intimacy would change my mind, so after talking about it for so long, we tried to sleep together and it was easily the worst sex I ever had and I realized he embellished hard about specific things (and crazy edited his photos) too. I was mortified when I realized he wasn’t the man I thought he was in any way, shape or fashion and felt like the most horrible person alive when I broke up with him that night saying “it didn’t feel right” and we both went back and forth all night before I told him he had to leave early on day 3. The next day on my birthday he got a new plane ticket and went home and I cried all day long lol.
Please be easy on me, this was years ago and I was in my very early 20’s LMAO
Yeah men who aren’t genuine and have done some work so they’re okay with who they are are not a healthy partner material. 😅
that’s incredibly messed up of him. he knew what he was doing. i’m sorry
I NEVER use filters. It’s taken me YEARS to develop my makeup and fashion skills and I put a lot of effort into my look. What you see is what you get
her calling me a disgusting little catfish in that tone made me feel a certain way... i don't know how to feel about that...
Well time to unpack that in therapy
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Her ad transitions are always so clean 😭😭love it sm
that sponsor segue was smoother than my brain
Is your brain smooth? 😭
@davidvllr it's head empty no thoughts 24/7 up here
THAT’S how you pronounce that? I always thought it was “Segway” like the vehicle🤦
That last point is one of the best pieces of advice you've ever given. Super simple, yet super important. When starting a relationship online, SEE EACH OTHERS FACES AS SOON AS POSSIBLE! If they don't want to, IMMEDIATE RED-FLAG! Being shy of course is a thing. Having insecurities (like the guy with the scar) is a thing. Doesn't matter. Online relationships are fraught enough as it is. Identity is NOT something to screw around with. Know what they look like, talk to them face-to-face, and PLAY "HATOFUL BOYFRIEND" NOT EMILY!
The skits in her videos puts her so insanely ahead of all other “commentary TH-camrs” like they are just so funny and break up the video perfectly
Catfishining is not just mean and deceitful to the other person but also to yourself. The amount of self hatred. And even if i edit the part of myself I don't like, okay other people will see me that way but how will I look at myself in the mirror and how will I accept myself right? Therefore I have always tried to accept my features even the ones that are not necessarily attractive for me like my flat nose or my acne or my rolls and all of my 90 kg weight. And eventually i grew to love myself the way I am. And i find myself pretty and beautiful and for me at this point that's what matters
90 kg damn are you 6 ft 😭
@@harlomints7727 what?
"Yes mother" We say in union
YES MOTHER
YES MOTHER
YES MOTHER
YES MOTHER
As a Certified Uglie, I fully agree with everything you said. If I did something like that and matched with someone, everything they said would just be a constant reminder that they don’t actually like me, just this character I’m playing. Also I’m in love with you. ✨
When I used to use filters at first I felt so good being complimented due to the picture but over time I started feeling bad because they weren't actually complimenting what *I* look like. I've sworn off all filters and I may not look as cute and snatched but I know that im being honest with myself about who i am and what i look like. And honestly i feel much better about myself not seeing all the changes the filters make and it feels more genuine when someone tells me i look nice!
just got off my 9 hour customer service job shift. needed this! ☺️
"Oh wait that's me! Sorry, I forgot"
😂😂😂😂
The skits are killing me rn😂😂🙌🙌😭😭
Her humor and explanation are absolutely perfect
Gurl I need you to play Subnautica and/or Among The Sleep. Both exceptional psychological horror games. No jump scares, but deep terror.
Iron Lung would crush her
"ARE YOU LOOKING AT MY CHEST?"
"yeah well theres not much to look at"
AHHSHSHSJA WHAT
We have been given food, our starvation will no longer prevail
The second i saw the notification i was racing to watch the video,i swear it feels illegal to be this early
"If i even lie, or deceit, I'm just trying to have a godd night, live my life to the fullest." THATSS SO ME
Giving Eddie Guerrero over here
Never let down your guard online!!
watching emily’s skits i am so amazed that they’re made by only one person because they flow SO well LIKE OKAY ACTING?>!!?! SCRIPTWRITING?!?!???
Amanda Wang's life is completely crazy 😭
plus, talking about that skit, whose pc was that 😳
I am a very ugly 24 yo female, I have curly hair but I’m white and I have a lopsided face. I met a guy called Liam online about two years ago and we got along so well he was lovely! I went to Bristol to meet him and when I got there he was very stand off ish and weird with me. I asked him if there was an issue and he said I don’t look like my photos and that my face is ugly and lopsided, he complained about my pale white skin and said he was hoping I’d be mixed race. I called my friend crying and he said to calm down and to have a drink then leave as he said the guy was a shallow bully. After 2 drinks Liam said “you are sort of pretty from certain angles” he then harassed me asking me to have relations with him to which I was a bit confused and insulted, I then went home. About a year later I saw his profile again and I finally had to let it all out, I asked him why he was so vile to me and the things he said were truly disgusting and harrowing. Despite him sexually harassing me after the 2 drinks he really did find me repulsive, he told me to off myself and said he hated ugly white girls. I have never had an experience like this before or after it occurred. Really unbelievablely painful and damaging for me. I wish beautiful people could just treat ugly people like we’re human too. Our daily encounters are almost always negative, it wears you down. I hardly leave my house now and when I do I have to cover my face to avoid abuse. On buses people move their children away like you’re diseased, people who use TikTok film you and laugh in your face, bus drivers and workers are unkind to you because of the connection they’ve made in their mind that because I’m ugly I must be evil or disgusting. It’s so tiring, it’s not easy mode that’s for sure.
Jesus. I am so sorry.
Emily posted, the world isn’t healing but we are
WAKE UP EVERYONE
IM UP
HI IM HERE
Awoken.
it’s 4pm here i was not asleep i’ve got a head start on all y’all lmao
Its 5 pm here i was dead asleep thank u
The sponsor sections are always so smooth! I was severely unprepared 😭 💗
I love these types of commentary videos because they’re actually so informative T,T
i dont use filters but im still scared that i’m a catfish because tell my why when i take selfies i look tolerable but once someone takes one snap of me i look horrid
7:30 I swear I though it was gonna be followed by "which is also today's sponsor, Raycon ..."
I don't remember subscribing to you but I'm happy I found you!!! Definitely ur the new human I go to when I need someone to listen to while gaming
no way i read the posted "five minutes ago" as posted "five months ago".
it's not just facetune, by now most smartphone cameras are overprocessing photos so much that even just posting an "unedited" image will make you look waay better than in real life
WAKE UP BABE NOT EVEN EMILY JUST POSTED
the way i stopped everything i was doing and clicked on the notification for this video, I KNOW THAT’S RIGHT 😌😌
Will be watching later, just finished watching Catfish.
I had no idea that was the history of the word catfish in terms of online trickery.......fascinating! Thanks Emily
I’ve been accused of catfishing on Facebook Dating once! It was so flattering! I’d even posted my fat pics! So that was nice
Dude, that ad segue was genius! I didn't even see it coming. And I didn't mind watching the whole ad.
EMILY POSTED 🎉🎉 THE WORLD IS HEALING
3:33 tip: upload okay photos or even mediocre pictures, so if on the day of the date you look like that its fine, if you look better then BOOM its also great
I catfished girls at 14, but only because I wanted an older gf and told them I was 19. 💀 I thought 18 would be too obvious. Top 5 worst pursuits of the 2010's.
I’m here for another 30 minute deep conversation with my older sister
Omg ive always said his name as "nee-ve" (like knee-ve)😂 I loved that show when it came out, but I never did see the one about him
I love that show too!
How did I not already know you omg I’m obsessed with you
Edit/ & your right side is FREAKING PERFECT NEVER CHANGE
The way you explained how you felt if you catfished someone is legit how I felt the one time I did. I just knew I was creating a bigger hole for myself
IDC THAT IM ON VACATION NOT EVEN EMILY POSTED
Priorities are on point 💯
Something to keep me entertained while I’m feeling poorly, thank youuuu 🥺
i fucking love your skits/sketches. please never stop doing them
I’ve never edited or filtered my photos and I still get called a catfish, like my hair isn’t always gonna be done and im not always gonna have my lashes on. But it still makes me feel so insecure because I’m basically getting called ugly in person. 😭
I’m getting war flashbacks from when someone catfished with pictures of me on reddit
"all girls are pretty" this is completely genuinely, the first time i have ever been called pretty and it was by proxy. this should not be hitting me as hard as it is but im tearing up
I have once accidentaly catfished someone. I have periods in time where I almost never post on my socials, so my appearance had changed a little: braces, longer hair, better style, lost weight... And because of that I accidentaly catfished someone when texting with them, because they thought I still looked like that
sometimes it's hard to feel bad for the victims of catfishing. like, it's usually easy to video chat even if you can't meet up. a friend of mine was kind of dating this girl online and had been since they were living in states far apart. but then they were living in adjacent states and still hadn't met...i was like, offer to go see her, you live close enough to meet now. and that is how he finally found out he had been catfished.
I love that you wear a different outfit for each character in your skits. I think that’s really cool
Watching not even emily before going to sleep?? Best thing EVVEERRR
Also first????
That was a good documentary man. The origins of it all.
I’m so thankful to have found a fellow “insecure about the right side of my face” person.🙏
Emily is the only person that can make me watch through the sponsors 🙇 🙏 ❤
I WAS JUST ABOUT TO EAT LUNCH NOW I GOT A VIDEO TO WATCH THANK YOU EM!!🫶
I am part of the NotEvenEmily has pretty privilege club. Girl, I do not know what your hair styling routine is, but it is WORKING.
Babe wake up, Emily just uploaded
EVERYONE STOP WHAT YOURE DOING EMILY POSTED
This reminds me a little of the community channels "Good Photo Side."
everytime i think emily's comedy has peaked she has to prove me wrong wth girlie is simply the most funny person in the world
The queen has posted, we loveee 🫶🏼🙈
As someone who was catfished, it is one of the worst feelings in the world. In my case, my irl friends in high school created fake profiles on twitter and followed my fanaccount I had on there. Seeing as I was a depressed teenager who was being left out of everything to due with her friends, i was quick to accept them as my friends without hesitation because I wanted friendship and I felt like I had no one to talk to.
This all happened during summer break between my third and fourth year in high school. One week into the new school year, someone asked me if I was interested in this one girl still. Which was strange, because I had never talked about me liking girls at school before. Went down the chain of 'who told you this' and then figured it out. They confessed to it a week later, but to this day i've never received an apology because they 'did nothing wrong in the eyes of the law'.
When I asked them why they did it, they told me they were worried about me. Which was funny, considering they were part of the reason why I was so fucking depressed.
god I’m so sorry this happened to you, I hope everything’s better now xx
26:17 me getting distracted by the ice cream truck in the background 💔
dont you just hate it when your date suddenly does an ad in the middle of your conversation
the add transition is flawless 🤣🤣
i think imperfections are what make you perfect, and showing them is even better. being okay with yourself and every part of you is the most attractive thing you can do 🩷
I needed something to watch while doing my Eid makeup !!!!
I like that you point out that you won’t understand the catfishers who catfish out of not being conventionally attractive. It’s the same case for me. I can never stop being grateful for winning the genetic lottery, because at least most people react well to conventionally attractive people. 🙏
28:43 “yeah something like that” 😭😭😭😭😭