LATE POTTY TRAINING TIPS | HOW TO POTTY TRAIN A STUBBORN CHILD
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- Late potty training tips! How to potty train a child who is age 3 and over when they are stubborn and showing zero signs of wanting to toilet train! I've struggled with potty training my three year old but we've finally cracked it! Here's how!
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Mom potty shaming IS REAL. And so frustrating when you know in your heart you have done everything and that your child does not have any mental disabilities. It was nice to have some encouragement today because I am at the end of my rope with my little one and am going to take a break for a while which I know will be the best thing for the both of us. Please momma's be kind to each other.
My child's day care teacher did that and I told her off. My daughter transitioned at 6 beautifully at her own pace. No problems at all since. You're right. This toxic culture needs to stop. I remember telling her day care teacher 'oh so you base a child's learning capabilities based on potty training ?' She couldn't answer me. Very toxic culture
@@monicarai1497 Well done. I am in the process of toilet training my 3 year old son because he refuses the potty. He loves it. He's going to day care tomorrow and I'm giving them a schedule to follow so he gets the same treatment that he gets at home. I told them specifically not to change anything because it will backtrack his progress at home. Let's hope they listen
it's hard also when your a mommy and your Lil one not being potty training fully and then coparenting with the dad who makes me out to be a terrible mommy saying her not fully trained is me being a bad mommy. then calls his mom a state away and the both mom shame me how I'm holding her back..so hey make me feel bad about myself when im the only one really trying to get her to use the potty. when she was 4 she was using it but then when she was 5 we moved to a new house new toilet so I'm not sure if that made a difference well she is in pull-ups but I'm hoping this video can help me potty train asap.
@@bluedreamsz143 Your husband and mother-in-law should be ashamed for the way they are treating you.
@@nymerialaine4232 thank you for understanding
Thank you. I’m crying tears of joy just hearing I’m not a bad mom for the struggles we are having with my 3 year old.
Best of luck to you, you will definitely get there! xx
@@TheMummyBubble Oh I'm in really bad situation. 6 year old, 10 days until school starts. He's in underwear & keeps claiming he doesn't need to go. He has gone before so I don't get it. I don't know what to do except for make pediatric urologist appointment. He does not complain of any pain & went a day & a half ago. I think he is purposely holding it but how on earth could a child hold it for a day & a half? He somewhat acts like he needs to go - kinda crossing his legs kind, messing with himself a little but when I say come sit on the potty, he says he doesn't need to go. I don't know what to do because when he was in nappies, he was going at least 4-6(?) times a day. So I don't think it is sudden urinary retention. This is my fault for lazily waiting this long. I could make excuses but am not going to. Just flat out 100% my fault. I think he got so used to it that he is hoping if he holds out, I will give him pull-ups back which is not going to happen. I'm so upset with myself for failing him this long.
@@thetiffanystevenson I feel your frustration and guilt..Mine just turned 3 and I thought she was too young to comprehend and allowed her to pee anywhere when without diapers, now I am struggling to stop her from peeing on the sofas and beds...All the best..
My daughter is 3 and that's why I'm here lol 😆
Me too!!
Truly thank you. If I see 1 more trained my 18 month old in 3 days video I am going to lose my mind. Your perspective sounds more realistic
Thank you so much!!! I'm so happy to have watched this. My son just turned 4 and refuses to potty train. I will use these tips !!! So many people can be so judgemental towards us for this. They need to mind their own business.
I’m in the same boat but I don’t care what people think or say their just ignorant
Can anybody tell me main tips here
Yeah I think people just seem to butt in when they don't need to! My step mom bought my daughter underwear for her 3rd Birthday like hint hint!
Same here he is 3 and 8 months and he refuses
Mine is 3.5 yrs old and he’s not falling for the stickers or any “trick” I’ve come up with. I even put him in underwear when he’s at home and he’s like “oh look, a puddle”. 🤦♀️
Hoping he’ll be ready soon 🙏
Great advice!!! One tip I’d like to share is setting an alarm on your watch and/or phone to go off 30 mins to remind you to remind your child to use the potty! :) between my ADHD and running around like a nutcase all day it has been the biggest help for me! Hope this helps someone else too! 😊
Thank you
I have a potty watch on my granddaughter
Really appreciate this video! So many people have recommended the book “Oh Crap” and wow does it shame you if your child is over 3 years old! This video was so helpful and reassuring, and I love reading all the comments of other parents in similar spots as me! 🥰
I waited until my daughter REALLY showed signs that she was ready at 3,5 year old and we got it done in a week. I'm glad I didn't push her earlier
I’m glad I came across the video and viewed the comments . I deal with people shaming me and my children for not being potty trained. I have twin boys they are both completely different and learn different . So I try alternative methods for each one of them. It gets frustrating and expensive always buying pull ups. But I understand that every child on this earth is different. And it just may not be their time. However, I want to remind any mother out there struggling with this issue to stay strong. Don’t listen to others. You know what’s best for your child. You got this !
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I've got to say, I'm about in tears!! This is day 4 of probably our 5th attempt at potty training since roughly 13 months ago starting. My daughter is 3 years and 3 months. We're coming off of a looooong gap in trying because I made the executive decision that she just wasn't ready and me picking her up and sitting her on the potty to "at least try" was becoming more of a traumatic experience for her and I knew I'd fuck it up entirely if we didn't take a break or tried to force it. She's a VERY particular child as is. Sooooo I can get her to sit on the potty for what seems like hours, nothing! She camels that til the point of bursting at times. And I mean I've tried it all. Water sounds, actual water running, water activities on the potty, warm water in a bin with toys that she can "clean" on the potty, everything! I even let her use my phone on the potty which has led to 3 full wees on the potty!! BUT I'm worried she might not be listening to her body or even realizing when she goes? I dunno. I'm losing my mind and my patience but still forcing out "its okay, accidents happen" with a smile but what all am I doing wrong exactly?! I know she'll be so much happier without pullups!! Also not even close to.a.poop on the potty yet. Send help. 🤣😂🤣
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Thank you for posting this!! I wanted to cry because I’ve been looking for advice for my 3 year old who is so smart, and literally argues with me why she likes her diaper and wants it. I feel encouraged to try potty training again
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Words cannot describe how happy I am too have found this video. I have twin 3.5 year olds and potty training has been my living nightmare for the last 6 months. I have so many mom friends who are "surprised" that my girls aren't potty trained by now. There's so many "3 day potty training" methods it's disheartening and NONE of them work for my girls. All they do is stress all 3 of us out. This video made me feel so much better. Especially when you talk about stopping and starting. Just knowing that I'm not the only one who has 3+ year olds who aren't potty trained and that that doesn't make me or them failures. Thank you so much for this video ♥️
My daughter is 3.5 as well. We have been trying to potty train for several months now. She likes to sit on the potty but has not actually gone to the bathroom yet. We are still trying to get her to wear underwear, she does not like them at all and runs anytime I mention trying them on. I've tried different styles and fabrics.
Thank you so much for this. Was trying the 3 days method and cried today cause mine wasn't getting it. I have a new baby as well as my toddler I'm trying to train and felt like a real failure for wanting to stop training him, but I think a break is needed and a fresh start in a few days. Can't thank you enough for this, you're a superwoman x
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Tried thev3 day method to that made it worse
I'm just letting things progress at her rate
It's scary and stressful for her
My son will be 4 soon. This is him to a T! Sticker lasted 1 maybe 2 days then he got bored of them. Candy was exactly how you described. He’d want to sit on the potty every 5 mins and claim he went (sometimes did a tiny tiny bit) and say he peed and demand his M&M. I am not a patient mom tho and I have started showing my frustration in front of my son so I think it’s becoming a negative thing. He had like 4 of 6 signs of readiness when he was 2, but now...nothing. He doesn’t even hide to pee/poo anymore, just does it in front of us in his diaper. Like he doesn’t give af. Lol. Potty training shaming is real. Parents ask me all the time “he’s not potty trained yet?” And I feel like I’ve failed as a mom.
What did you do? Any ideas?
How is it going
Is your baby potty train now
Its okay ! My son is still in potty training and he’s going to 4 yo . Do not let any parents potty shaming you ! Its okay ! I also may let my frustrations get to me too . I’m only just afraid he get peer pressure when he goes to school next year . You are not alone ❤️
I get the same thing from people and my son just turned 4. SMH
Thank you thankyou thankyou so much for this video. Finally one video which actually is so so relatable. It’s so stressful when you are trying your best but your child is not interested in doing and when you see other child younger than her using toilet so well. This video helped a lot. Thanks once again.
Thank you so much, its so nice to not be the only one having these struggles. I have been doing exactly the same, stopping and starting, my little one initially would cry when sitting on the potty but he now will sit on it for a couple of seconds which is a step in the right direction, lots of praise is key definitely, I'm in the same mind set that he will do it when he's ready and try not to stress about it or push him.
Thanks again ❤
Finally a video that is realistic and relatable!! I was watching this thinking yep yep yep my child does all of those 😂xx
Yeah same here lol
Love all your tips! Agreed, potty shaming moms really needs to stop. I have a small one for getting a child potty trained at night. I put a pair of panties on my daughter and then a pull-up over the panties. This helped her to feel when she was wet, but protected the bedding at the same time. There’s less to clean up, and she was able to make the connection rather than having the comfort of a diaper to get her through the night. Hope that helps another mom looking for a nighttime hack. Stay strong mamas, ya got this!!!
Thank goodness I saw this video, and watch it. I've been taking a break from my girl's potty training for few weeks now. Was so frustrating... Tqqqqqq... This made my day. 🤗
Oh my goodness, you’ve brought me to tears!! I thought my daughter and I were the ONLY ones this was happening to!! I thank you so very much for posting this!!! I’ve actually been so depressed the past couple days and feeling like a terrible mother who has done a great injustice to her daughter…I feel so much better after watching your video!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰♥️♥️♥️♥️😘😘😘
My great-niece because she is three-year-old and she's not going to the party and I'm so happy you make this with you thank you
Thankyou so much for the video! It truly does weigh on me knowing my 3 and a half year old isn't potty trained. I feel ashamed everytime we go to the store with her diaper sticking out that someone is judging me. I can't wait to try these methods! The reward system has also not worked on my daughter. Wish me luck 🙏
Same here.....I am getting discouraged 😞
Almost 4 and not potty trained. Hmmmm, my co workers kid is 3, and can’t talk. Not potty trained. He’s gonna be that way till he’s 13 because she won’t stay off Instagram, and Fakebook, and all they crap, and do her job. He tears up stuff and throws tantrums well. He is a pro with that. But they’re too busy on TikTok to beat the demon out of him
Thank you for this video! I don’t feel as stressed anymore. I’m going to give my daughter a break and will revisit with some of your tips!
Thank you so much for this! This is what we’re doing right now and I kept thinking we were doing something wrong. 😢it’s nice to know that other parents are going through this as well.
This is such a relief!!! I am Beyond, just a year of trying and she is 3.5 years and I am over shaming myself for not nailing it by now
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As a mommy in tears because my almost 4 year old will not use a toilet properly. She has no issues and has been checked for delays of any kind by a doctor.
We have 2 younger than her tho...and I fear she’s reverted several times for the attention.
Love this video, so authentic and real thank you!
Best of luck to you, it's really tough when you're in the middle of it but she will get the hang of it ❤
Wow hearing you talk, It was as if you were talking about my 4 year old son. We have been trying off and on for 2 years and it is a constant battle. And you're right, rewards just don't work. It does not help that he is so stubborn.
I think we will just keep at it, and try to not get frustrated. I liked your ideas and product ideas. I think we'll try those too.
Hey, how are things going with potty training? I have a 4 year old too, she is not stubborn, however she literally cannot hold the wee for too long, she is even refusing to drink water in order not to pee.... She will go to kindergarten in the fall and I am a bit stressed in case she won't be able to control this.
She is very open to going to the toilet but the bladder control is not very strong.
How are things with your 4 year old?
@@anam.aria.I'm trying to potty train my two grandchildren, ages 22 mos. and three years. I seriously think it's a physical thing. The need to go urge isn't sharp enough to get their attention. I was hoping someone had a solution. Because in my family bed wetting to teenage years is normal. My son was poo messing his pants til 10. The chiropractor adjustments at 7 worked great to stop bed wetting. It stopped The first night. But after skateboarding or football practice immediately back wetting his bed. Pretty much happened until late teens because he refused to go back to chiropractor after a couple years. But if anyone wants to stop bed wetting go to chiropractor. It worked the very first time, the very first night for a week until he went skateboarding.
@@eringrave6622 that's such a good suggestion! I will try to look for a chiropractor in my area!
Mine is 4 as well will be 5 in Sept...this bathroom thing gives him all the control...but he comes to me to be changed ..so I heard that I should have him clean himself up...make it a chore for him and not you...he may just stop it bcuz it's too much of a hassle to clean himself up ..but you've got to stick with it ..don't give in bcuz then he's got you ...lay out his dry things and encourage him ...smile at him lovingly and tell him 'you can do it' ..'take those wet things off put them in here' ..'put on your dry things'...stay calm...even tone ..get it mom? Great...now...let's get to it!!!!🤗🌹💕
@@michellehood3345I'm going to try this. Let him clean the poop off his own butt
Thank you so much. My husband and I don't have any family or friends, literally don't have any person to get help or advice from. The couple of people that I have talked to told me how their children were potty trained when they were not even 2 years old and my daughter will be for next month so of course you can understand how that makes me feel.
I am so glad there's a video for Late Potty Training. I like the tips that were in this video hopefully it will help my children too. Thank you.
My 3 year old can not be bribed. Its insane. All she does is get mad that you won't give her what ever the bribe is because she refuses to use the potty regardless. 🤦♀️
How is your daughter now
So true...my daughter was the same
This is a great video ...on a mum of 3 and the two girls were quick! Eldest had a potty exactly as described, middle child skipped potty completely and went to the toilet both fully toilet trained by 2. Our son however is again hit and miss. We go toilet forst thing and last thing at mighy but through out the day he's not interested. It is taking time and again ... your video has helped me feel more confident in our approach. Thank you
Thank you! I’ve been beating myself up for months and this has really helped to hear from someone who has been through it x
Honestly it was so hard for such a long time and I really worried about it. But she just wasn't ready. She's amazing now, so you will definitely get there xx
The Mummy Bubble So nice to hear from someone else who has been through the same. She has spontaneously started going this week and we have had 5 days with no nappy whilst at home - not a single accident! The same as with yours, she just wasn’t ready when I was trying before. Wish I had listened to my gut rather than being pressured by others! But fingers crossed we are heading in the right direction. 😊
@@lucystapenhill1890 that's fantastic news! It's a relief when it finally clicks and then you wonder why you were so worried xxx
After many many days of struggle my 3 year old started going to the restroom on her own to do #2, she did it for a week and now she’s back to hiding in a closet when she wants to “go” and refusing to go to the restroom and ends up getting constipated because I interrupt her when I see she starts hiding 🤪 We are planning a trip in about 2 weeks and now I’m wondering if it’s more convenient for her to just continue “un trained” for this 3 weeks trip 🤔
Thank you for this video! Very encouraging and helpful.
Thank you so much for sharing this! My son is non verbal and autistic and I still get so much shame from folks about him being almost 4 and not toilet trained yet. I’m currently trying again but have been doing the stop and go now because like you mentioned I don’t want to make this so miserable for him that he becomes traumatized :(
Again thank you for sharing 💚💚💚💚💚💚 I can’t wait for my son to use the toilet on his own but I’m good to wait for the sake of his own mental well being 💚💚💚💚
Thank you, this makes me feel so much better. I do take breaks with ny daughter. Hoping one of these days will be thee moment.
very helpful video I have exactly the same experiment and problem about potty training my toddler .I am very happy watch and learn the tips.Fingers cross to my success !hoooo
Oh my goodness! This video describes my 3 year old girl perfectly! She's been so stubborn with potty training at home, but when she is at daycare (school) she goes to the potty all day with no issues! I'm going to buy one of those portable potties, the carseat mat and lots of more pairs of underwears! We went through 6 pairs of underwear today because she refused to go to the potty. Thank you so much!
Same here, our 3yo uses it at the Daycare but at home he poops everywhere. As the Dad Im highly frustrated and it is hard to hide my frustration.
Defo gonna try these tips for my daughter as she’s stubborn as hell and it’s such a nightmare to deal with this stage
This video really gives me hope. I am in this exact position right now with my three year old daughter and it’s so hard.
I have a 3 yes old that doesn't seem interested in potty training so we try and then stop then try again..but this made me feel better cause sometimes I think I am being lazy or easily giving up when I don't stick with it but I know she isn't about it right now but we will get there. Thanks for the video!
Thankyou for your valuable inputs ...i am mother of 5 yr old.. struggling hard to potty train.. getting frustrated...sad...but i think i need to be patient..i will keep on trying until he is ready 👍👍
I have a daughter of 4.5 also still uses diapers :(
My brother is almost 5 and still refuses to use the toilet. It’s just hard trying to teach him anything bc there’s just so many people telling him a bunch of different things. It’s very frustrating
Damn! Well now I don’t feel so bad. My baby soon to be 3 year old 😭😢
thank you im having a hard time with my 5 year old daughter. thanks for the tips
My son is 5 and absolutely REFUSES to sit on the potty at all. He's in diapers 24/7. I'm worried about kindergarten which starts in a couple months!
Thank you for this video! My son is 3.5 and we're dealing with this too. He peed on it a few times before turning 3, though. He doesn't care about rewards either. What confuses us most is that he is perfectly continent when he is naked, but he is so scared of the potty that he doesn't even want to be near it. Even just the sight of the potty is negative for him. He'll be naked for hours, then pee in a nappy and take it off again. We've talked about it (positively) so much and we think he'll hardly have accidents once he's finally ready to ditch the nappies, it's just about getting there!
Thanks for this video, as well as messages and encouragements from the comment of moms experiencing this kind of struggle. My son is already more than 4 yrs old and still in the process of training him….
Yes my son is 4 as well and I'm having thr hardest time ever ...he pees in the toilet sometimes but not all the time so frustrating.....
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Wow thank you for this. I didn't know a lot of information thank you.
This video reaffirmed everything I’ve been telling my husband. My toddler just turned 3. We use the M&M reward system. My son doesn’t abuse it. Now thats its been 4 weeks, he doesn’t even care if he gets the candy or not. However, he wont poop on the potty and he wont tell us when he has to go. He will pee but hides to poop. He hates being soiled so I think I’ll try the training underwear instead of pull ups and make him clean up the mess. He also hates being exposed. So I’m hoping him being naked will frustrate him enough to tell us when he has to go. Hope this works.
Did this work? I would appreciate an update since my son has similar issues
@@ak8990 another thing that worked was putting him on a strict potty schedule. Every 30 minutes. He heard the timer and knew what to do. Even if he didn’t go, it got him in the habit of going and that helped too
This is my 2 1/2 year old exactly! So frustrating! 😓
This was so encouraging to me. My daughters were ready at 2 1/2 - but potty training my 3 1/2 yo son is not going well, lol. Now I feel less guilty about wanting to pause and start again later.
Definitely don't feel bad. It was tough going with our 3 year old for a while but now she's doing really great and uses the toilet like a pro 👍
@@TheMummyBubble Wanted to update and thank you again. I decided to stop and resumed about a month later. He got the hang of it in *one day.* I'm so happy and proud of him, lol. He just needed time.
@@misslari24 will you please tell me how did you potty trained your son. My son is three and half year old and right now I am giving him pee training and it's so frustrating. He doesn't want to poop without diaper hates potty seat. Please suggest me something what should I do
Basically, I told him no more diapers. Tried to get him hyped up about wearing "big boy" underwear. We couldn't do pull-ups either because he was too big. Bought underwear with cool patterns he liked - both briefs and boxer briefs so he could choose what was most comfortable. One incentive for him was that he knew if he pooped himself, he'd possibly be ruining his favorite undies for good.
We used our regular toilet, not a training toilet. We have one of those "family" toilet seats that has a smaller seat that he could just pull down and sit on.
Reminded him to go every 30 min or so. Volunteered to stay with him and help him, but he likes his independence, so I didn't hover too much.
I know some people advise against treats, but it worked with my girls so I did it with him - 1 small candy for every pee in the potty, 2 for poop in the potty. They hardly ever get candy, so this was truly an incentive my girls were willing to work hard for. But my son didn't care as much about the treats. His biggest obstacle was the feeling of letting the pee and poop fall away from his body, and once it finally clicked that that was okay and normal, he relaxed and hasn't looked back.
Every kid has their own hang ups and timing - your son will get the hang of it eventually! Just be supportive, not pushy. It won't happen until he's ready.
@@misslari24 this is the most simultaneously detailed and encouraging comment I've seen on this subject to date. My baby is 2 & 3months, born in December it was honestly to chilly to do the run around "free" or let her feel soiled and uncomfortable for a while over the winter so now that Spring is here I'm refresher videos to give this another serious go. The other interesting things is were cloth diapering so i thought it would happen sooner...but maybe i made our diapering system TOO comfortable 😅 Thanks again 🍀
Thank you, very helpful and supportive.
Thank you for saying what I thought was happening!! Same thing happened to my first. I had to step back and come back to it at a later date. Stop, wait, repeat. Like you said...eventually, it clicks.
My 3 year old is so stubborn! I need help lol. She did have a bit of a speech delay but has a great vocabulary now. Thank you for this video!
I love these things you have at the end!! How neat
Thank you ....for this video. This is really helpful
This video is a saver I sooo happy I found it
Great info thanks!!
Thanks for this video! Im currently trying to potty train my 2nd daughter who is almost 3. Shes very subborn and just refuses to go. My 1st daughter potty trained day and night within 2 day at 2yrs 5 months so i cant help but compare which i know i shouldnt be doing.
I think there is so much pressure to potty train at such a young age. Doesnt help when there are lots of mum vloggers doing videos on how 'easy' it is. So seeing your video has put me in a positive mood. Thanks so much.
Only easy if using underwear
Pull ups make it take a year
Can you give any tips on how to potty train at night?! What happens if they have an accident?! And how old should you start potty training at night?!
Great video ❤
My 5.5 year old doesn’t care about wearing pee soaked clothes. I so frustrated and at my wits end. I’ve started training her since 2.5 years
Really ?! My daughter just turned 5 in January & will be starting school in August & I’ve been trying since she was 3 😫 does your daughter go to school?
Same here... trying since 1 yr... she is 3... she is not at all interested
My 4 year old is the same way doesn't care one bit about being in soaked clothes. I break down alot
I am struggling with my 4yr old boy, he is just not interested at all with the toilet and every time l go to research tips on the internet, all l come across is how toddlers who aren't potty trained by a certain age are associated with bad parents, then l find myself just not wanting to try at all and pushing even the thought of trying away. I would just like to say thank you Vicky, your video really made me feel better about the topic as l've also read that "waiting until they are ready" is also just an excuse of bad parenting. The world is such a nasty judgemental place where some are just so quick to jump on anyone who is struggling, instead of understanding or giving helpful advice. Keep doing what you are doing, people really need a kind voice these days ❤
So glad you found it useful! It feels never ending but you'll get there!
Thank you so much for your tips. I'm trying to potty train my 3 year old grandson and my gut was telling me that the he will go when he is ready. We have had so many starts and stops I lost count. I let my him run around nude and people tell me I'm crazy. I am relieved to hear this is one of your tips! I didn't go through this with my son or daughter so I was second guessing myself. You confirmed that I am not doing anything wrong. I feel so much beeter after watching your video. Thanks again.
i have 2.5 year old twins. i tried only once during first lockdown as it was warmer but didn't work out. then i gave up🙄 as patience is not one of my strength. and it was frustrating to me n my boys😥. i am going to wait till this summer and start again. so good luck to us💪.
thank you for the tips. very practical and helpful😁
Thank you for your video.
I have stopped now, and will be starting again soon.
This is my daughter right now at 3 years old thanks for sharing. I blame my self like always but your right they just might not be ready.
Thank you for the information it’s very helpful I’ve been potty training my so. For two weeks and we always miss the toilet and I’m very frustrated at this point I think I’ll give him a little more time
Great advice!!
Thank you for the video. My 3 1/2 yr old daughter just started to use her potty last week. I have been encouraging her for over a year but she has no interest in potty training and I just backed off. Until last week, she said, I have to pee in the potty. My husband and I were shocked.
She is just scared to poop in the potty. This is the struggle we have with her. But we will not force her to poop, we will wait when she's ready.
Thank you for this video. I’m a bit 3 years late watching this. But my kid is around 2 going on 3 and we do have a problem with communication at the moment plus potty training. But after watching, I now feel a bit more confident at the moment. Although the dynamics with the me and the other parent is different. I understand a bit more on how to handle a late potty trained kid.
Thank you. Ur an angel
Omg thank you sooooooo much! ❤️❤️
Thank you so much! I’m thinking my twins just ain’t ready yet lol. Everyone is trying to force me to get them potty training and honestly I’m over it! I’m frustrated and done I think I’m going to give it a break and try again later. Thank you!
You're so welcome, best of luck to you. Taking a break is a great idea, we found it just clicked eventually xx
Hi I’m a twin mumma to a boy and a girl aged 22 months old so what age are yours abs when did you start it? Thank you 🙏🏼😊
I have 3yo twins and I’m so scared 😔
Thank you for this. My toddler youngest daughter is stubborn and 3 not potty trained.
Looking for tips for my 3 year old who doesn’t talk thank you for this
We have been trying with our 3-and-a-half, almost four year old son for what feels like an eternity.He knows how to use the potty. He will use it, if he feels like it. But for the most part- he is still in diapers. If he’s diaper less, he will pee on the floor and sometimes poop. I ask him if he wants to and he refuses nearly every time. But, every once and a while, he will use the potty on his own; but then he’ll go back to the status quo. I don’t know what to do anymore and I’m at my wits end. I’m terrified that he will never be potty trained and he will be in diapers forever.
Thank you so much for this. How old was your daughter when she finally did train?
Really appreciate this video I have a son with autism who is not ready to be potty trained but I'm sooo ready for him to be but I guess it's when he ready
I was seriously beating myself up over multiple failed potty training attempts....and I have twin 3 year old boys....who are also preemies
Thank you thank you for this video I swear when I hear people talk about how they potty trained their kid at 1 I’m like please stop! My kid is not your kid.
my 4-year-old boy can hold his pee but struggles to pee in the potty. my 3-year-old is learning to hold pee and go pee in the potty. Pouring warm water from a water bottle on their pee-pee works great for my boys. sometimes the 4-year-old still does not pee in the potty.
thanks for the advice tips
that should be helpful
I wanted to potty train my daughter the easy way, keep her wearing pull ups and just putting her on the toilet every 2h or so, but she would just pee in her pull ups. Then I bought cloth diapers and tried that way, so she would feel wet, but I didn't have to deal with puddles everywhere. That did not work also. Then I decided that puddles are unavoidable and she started to wear underwear. For 2 weeks we had so many accidents in her pants and she would never say that she needs to go. But after 2 weeks she started to say - I need to go to potty. We still sleep in pull ups, but during the day we are alright. When I read about this topic, I found that 2 weeks are the time nessecary to train your child. Not 2 or 3 days, but 2 weeks. Thats a long time to keep cleaning up the messes, but I think that is what you should be preparing yourself for. Good luck everybody who struggles.
Thnx for advise.
We had the travel pop up potty 25 years ago when mine were small. It was a Godsend when we were out. I don't drive and went everywhere with the pushchair. You can guarantee they will need to go when out. I used it most days. So easy to use and easily disposed of. We used it again with the grandchildren {not the same one}.
Travel potties are a total lifesaver! It's made such a massive difference for my sanity when going out! Xx
Hi There my four year old doesn't want to do a number 2 but does a no 1. he refuses. How do i teach him or do i wait for him to just do it by himself.
Wow I can relate so much to this! I don't want to force her either but they are making her go at daycare and when she gets home she won't go at all.
My son is almost 5 years old and refuses to go In the potty. Ugh. I don't know what to do. Just started this video and hoping it helps me and my son.
He is almost 5 years old. He literally refuses to go. We are trying to get to the potty every 20 minutes and he just goes in his undies 2 minutes after the toilet time. He is screaming and crying because he is scared because it's different and he's scared.
@@jennifermcconnell3400 mine is the same, i want to cry😭
I have a 4 year old who only wants to go when we leave the house like at the mall grocery store family’s house but when we get home she doesn’t care and will have accidents I’m at a loss and have no idea what to do a timer helps but I don’t understand why she goes out places but not at home
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
PT issues can be very stressful for families. Sometimes the child needs someone other than the parent. Especially if you naturally coddle him/her. I help parents by having them video a few struggles and leave the child with me Friday - Sunday. Most success with just 1 weekend. The child doesn't want to return to my firm military scared straight method. It's mainly for children who play games with the process, but it helps slow learners too. They have an epitome almost overnight.
Thank you for making this! Mine is about to be 3 this month and she screams and cries “no my beautiful diapers!” So she’s just stubborn lol
Try the tummy massage potty training method
@@joeydelgaudou2681 this was 7 months ago… so I just stopped worrying about it…about a month after I posted, she just started going by herself.
You got me at "no my beautiful diapers" 😂 my 3 year old son begs for his pull ups, I just ordered some padded underwear, I'm hoping they help to feel like a good in between, good luck!!
How long did u try for before realising she was still having too many accident and to try again another time?
I feel so good seeing this video because I’m so frustrated at this point don’t know what to do again my daughter is almost 3 years old and she talks so much about everything else but refuse to use the toilet 😩🤦🏾♀️
Same here ma'am... it's so frustrating
This is my 2 year old as well! She’ll be 3 in July any tips would be greatly appreciated 😖
@@fancyrosenw I got it done! I honestly just put her on the toile she refused but I decided she wasn’t going to do it in the diaper so she kept her stool for 2 days and she finally did it on the toilet the third day!!! Oh she never did it in a diaper again after that !!! We dance and I gave her some candy 😭
@@shakeradoeslife9925 Congrats!! The struggle can get REAL! I’m going to give it a break and I’m going to start again in July maybe my toddler isn’t ready yet but this time i hope she gets more acclimated to using it
@@fancyrosenw yes definitely
We are renting, so what do I do if we have carpets everywhere??? Asked the landlord to put the hardwood floor but he refused. Not sure what to do in this situation....
I've been potty training my 3 yo daughter for a year now (On and off) , but she just refuse to do it in the toilet every single time, I don't know if I should consult with a orefessional at this point or just give it time!
I tried every technique in the books but nothing worked! I don't know if she's afraid of the potty or the toilet (I tried both), any advice ?
Thank you so much...I'm so glad to know I am not alone... I have a 3 year old girl and she is a late speaker. She refuses to use the potty and is scared of using the toilet, she prefers to pee on soft spaces like the bed and sofa, but she of late loves to pee in the shower with the water running. Number 2 is done in private usually in the bedroom while standing and once done she gets a small piece of toilet paper and brings to...some advice on getting her to stop peeing on the beds and sofa will really help..thanks
Thank you so much for this 🥰
Currently n the process of trying to potty train my daughter who will be 4 in 3 months! 😳
My daughter has a problem with her bowl she's always getting constipated makes toilet training very hard to keep consistent and every time over the YEARS when I take her to the doctor I just get told to keep giving laxatives now years later I've got her off the majority of laxative and go natrually...things haven't been easy
I'll be downloading this video
Thank you so much for the info. It's been super frustrating for me with my 3 year old daughter, still pooping in her pants
Thank you for this video because I’m on the verge of giving up potty training. I can’t fully put my preschooler in preschool because of the child not being 100% potty trained. It’s difficult and I need help before I throw in the towel.
This video is so relatable!! Everything you said is my 3 year old daughter! My question is, what method did you do? We rent and have carpet everywhere so I do not want to do the naked method but I feel like if I leave diapers on her and just put her on the toilet at certain time intervals then she won't feel that she's wet.
Thank you
Having trouble w our 3 yr old
She just doesn't want to go in the toilet and doesn't tell me she's peed or pooped
She will take her panties off and put on clean ones w out saying a thing
It's frustrating so this helps ongoing we're not the only ones
Her brother potty trained easy so grateful for this video
You are not alone! We really struggled and went backwards a few times, but it will happen. It’s really tough when you’re in the middle of it, hang in there and take a break for a few days xx
My daughter was happily using the potty for a month or so (casually). She would say she needed to go and was excited and happy to show us what she had done... but all of a sudden she started point blank refusing to sit on it. She got very distressed and seems fearful and I have no idea where this came from. She then would hold...and hold instead. We stopped training and have restarted this week but again there seems to be a fear of sitting on it. I'm at a loss of what to do.
How it went? I hope she's back on track. My son is doing the same. Just hate sitting in the potty
I was today years old when I learned that my son's late potty training is possibly related to his speech delay
I have been struggling hard with my five year old (her dad is the one who shames me for that, everyone else has encouraged me to have her evaluated) and my three year old wants to be just like his big sister so he’s been a little tougher too but he shows interest. I’ve felt like the worst mom because my older two got it in DAYS at or by 3 years old. Day one in underwear for my 3 year old…wish us luck
My son is almost 4 and I just can’t believe all the other things he does other than pee and poo by himself 😭! I think my 2 yr old is gonna potty train sooner than him, I thought it was maybe because of his speech delay but he clearly says many things! I’m giving up it’s been 4 months that I’ve really tried but I just don’t see no progress! I’ve tried stickers and undies gummies prizes I’m done 😫
Im in the same boat. He even cries when we put him on the toilet then two minutes later he poops somewhere around the house😭