Problems arise when a man makes a woman his purpose and mission. I’ve learned that first hand. Also, it’s amazing how coach can see an entire situation for what it is. Not what the dude is trying to paint. Fascinating
Big man Corey Wayne. You ROCK!! I have read the book more than 50 times for the past two years, and I have watched half of your videos on TH-cam. Additionally, I often go to your websites and read your articles. Then print them out to have. I can attest that this shit works. I have completed change my life with women and in life as a whole. Guys, you Gotta freaking read the book. No Excuses. You gotta participate in your own rescue.
I've read the book six times so far, and counting. Right now I have a question about two older women who might be interested in me, the thing is, one is from work and the other one is from the University I go to, I'll be a computer engineer within three months, but right now I'm in charge of the IT department of a very big organization, i feel successful right now but I still have a long way to go. The thing is there's I a girl who is 10 years older than me who is in a ldr and sees her bf like once every three months, sometimes even longer, and we have hit it off because we have so much in common, even though she is older and supposedly more experienced in the corporate and business world, she comes to me for advice, she asks for my opinion many things, she even calls me to ask me stuff, she is in charge of a different department, she talks me up to everyone in the organization, people have told me and she has too, they think there's something going on between us, she's not very hot but she's pretty and I admire her, shes also a TV host. Sometimes I feel like she's really into me, but then I'm not so sure, also she has a boyfriend and the fact that she's from work makes me think twice before trying anything more, I have many options and I don't need to rush anything, this situation with her has been going on for a while, she touched me arm sometimes it my chest when talking. The other is aroun 15 years older than me, with a teenage daughter, she used to be my professor, she's very cool and since then we always said hi to each other and exchanged a few words on campus, she offered to help me big time with some stuff that I needed, this was gonna take way too long because of bureaucracy, but she made it faster, she has also helped me with other things, in exchange for nothing, I like that a lot and I have been very thankful, I'm almost graduated and she is offering to help me with my thesis, or grad project, we are in a break from classes right no and she told me not to be a stranger and to text her, she has played with her hair a couple of times when we've been alone talking in her office and she smiles a lot. If she werent a professor maybe I would have asked her out already
Dude it really does ... when I started applying everything shit just started to magically happen. I would go to the restroom during dates and look at myself in the mirror and be like “ wtf holy shit this stuff works!”
Coach, I did a 180 in my life since discovering your videos 2 years ago, your attitude towards life goes beyond issues dealing with women and I've recommended you ever since in every appropriate situation. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, the best things in life are free and your channel is one of them! Cheers to your continued success
I found your material August 2018, on the 5th read of your book. I went from craving a permanent relationship with the girl the drove me to your material to NOT wanting a serious relationship with any woman so I can focus on my goals. I still date and approach women yet if it doesn't work out I do my best to cope with those emotions with the faith that I'll find a better woman as I develop myself. Listening to this particular video shows where I was at at the time I found you and it's kinda scary to realize that is the program that has been running in my mind for 38 years. I'm 39 and my goals have shifted from locking down a girl to locking down a great life for myself. It's not always easy rewiring my brain for this new paradigm yet I thank you so much for your help brotha!
1 year later after following coach and now I’m getting the ring talk. My point, it’s great to be in a position of plenty and not scarcity. Read the damn book, gentlemen.
You are amazing ! My relationship with my husband is going great but I find you so motivational and I love your outlook and attitude and find it so uplifting and it helps me to stay motivated and maintain my self confidence etc
*"He's in essence waiting on her and doing the things he wants to do."* Yeah that's no no one of the biggest illusions is we have a lot of time. Which in some ways we do but in the grand scheme of things we don't. And don't wait for other people to decide when they'll make time for. be more of who you are and do more of what brings fulfilment. 💪
Hi Coach, I think the No contact rule only works if the woman had a level of interest in you in the first place. If her interest was below 5, you will never hear from her. It's best to just find another woman. I know a girl who gets about 20 men per day chasing her and calling her. She just doesn't chase men. What I notice also is that every man she interacts with is so nice to her. If you do a no contact with a girl like this who can have any man she wants and she didn't have high interest in you or good impression of you, it will hardly work.
The no contact rule should must be applied for your own advantage,not for the girl you're chasing. When she reach out to you,that's fine;if she doesn't,then she wasn't meant for you. You apply the no contact rule for yourself. You concentrate on your purpose,ambitions and date other women. Good luck.
Thanks for the video. I have watched other videos by male coaches, they say that a woman should NOT ask for the exclusivity talk because it lowers her value. You should wait for the man to ask. However, this video contradicts it. In this case, no one would ask for commitment and just experience anxiety in mutual limbo.
Corey you da man! After getting my heart broken 4 weeks ago, I stumbled upon your work and have been studying your book. I worked up the courage to ask out the hottest girl at my gym. Had a first date with her last night and the date ended with both of us in my bed making out at 3am. After trying to seal the deal, she told me I have to wait until next time. I quickly responded with "Who said there's gonna be a next time?". I backed off and we continued to cuddle and make out in my bed. We laughed our asses off all night and enjoyed each other's company. This girl is something to respect. I walked her to the door as she was leaving and she turns around to face me and proceeds to start making out with me some more. I'm gonna reach out to her again late next week! I already got 2 more dates with 2 other women lined up for next weekend. Should be fun! Thank ya sir
@@拥 it went well for a while, we ended up hooking up by next date and we really enjoyed eachother's company. She was fresh out of a 10 year relationship so she was very wishy-washy and still had feelings for her ex so we are no longer seeing eachother. We ended on great terms and I had a different girl taking her place within 2 hours 🤘
Illusion of action. Also the balance of power in any relationship lies with the party that cares least. That doesn't mean be a cold dick; it means don't be attached to expectations or a specific outcome.
@johannesolofsson221 yes, even moreso than at the start. I've always treated things like that and I just married the woman I've been with for 6 years. She's smoking hot and very feminine. Stay focused on you and what you want to bring to the table brother. Be amazing. Bless.
Damn! This was a hard video to watch. Almost a mirror image of my own situation. I didn't want to accept reality and even started to think that you were missing a piece of the female puzzle. But as you say, actions speak louder than words. You have made me a true believer. Forgive me. Now I am off to read your book another 8 times...
I'm learning how lack of self awareness is the most underrated problem most men have, yet aren't "AWARE" of. And 3% man book is the best material I've found to gain that self awareness.
I am a fitness trainer in great shape and try to keep a positive attitude for myself and my clients. This guy wanted to him get on top of his goals and eating better so I helped him and we started dating too. About 2 months in he got an injury at work and became disabled for a year and was out of work. I stuck it out with his grumpy, negative attitude and depression overlooking it because he was hurting and waiting on surgery and that is understandable, right? But after he recovered was still the same person. He just had no drive or purpose and it was a big turn off. I'd go work a long hard day at the gym and come home to a gossiping, complaining, nagging house wife of a man with no job or ambitions. I eventually had to cut and go because it was really pulling my vibe down. I feel bad for him and for leaving but sometimes you just gotta save yourself.
The mindset should always be “Are we on the same page?” Rather than “Does she like me?”. The former’s mindset gives you a compass to show your intentions and make it clear from the beginning and it will also help you assess and qualify women if they are the right one for you or you’re wasting your time. Whereas, for the latter, it comes from a place of desperation
1. Women are cats, don’t expect anything from them but headache if you’re looking for meaning and love. 2. Woman jumps on your lap, you get exited. 3. Chill and go back to 1.
As much as your videos helped. I realized over time I didn’t want my ex. Fuck I read your book, got a new girlfriend and shot things are much better then the last. No cookie cutter bullshit so thanks coach.
Just finished 'mastering yourself' audiobook, now going to listen to 3% man again! and again haha Thankyou for your inspiration. I have just created my own channel if anyone wants to join my journey of self discovery after a breakup and being single again at 34 x
Coach Wayne understanding of the female psychology is amazing. Hi coach, I need some guidance. Prior to your work there was this girl I was trying to date. Things started well. Not knowing any better, I was chasing too much, was too available, to nice, buying gifts etc. Because of all of that she became very flakey, not keep dates (I will have to admit my dates were not definite). Things went bad when I bought a gift during that time and she return it back and then I was hurt. That's was the moment she started testing seriously and it was around that period I came across your book and videos. When I started reading your book, I was applying them inconsistently and I noticed how it increased her attraction and she started coming back (your book works), touching my arms, holding my hand, and all those little signs here and there. However because I was very inconsistent I didn't get a date and at one point I gave up asking. We lost touch when she left our work place. Recently we met again in a friends departure party and hug enthusiastically. I felt she was happy seeing me and I also still have some feelings and have missed her. I thought the feelings had gone since it's been more than 8 months since we parted ways. Now I am wondering whether I should give it a go again with the wealth of knowledge I have now or just let it go. Please provide some guidance coach or any alpha out there
Im really starting to question his logic regarding "hey can't talk gotta go, I'll see you next week" type of thing. Read the book about 6 times so far so I got a few more times to go. Ever since I stopped using the phone and text for conversation I have been bailed on for dates roughly 6 times. I finally got one girl to go out and she got angry that I would not text her all the time and said either that or we are done. So that was it. I really think Corey needs to address this better. Simply saying "hey good hearing from you but I got to go" clearly doesn't work. By the time the date comes they flake, forget, or just don't respond. The girls want to talk, text, and snapchat. They live on these things. However, when I do talk to them throughout the day I usually get dates.
TheTCOLL sounds like you’re attracting insecure girls man... ask yourself this? Do you really want to spend your time with girls that constantly need reassurance via social media? I know I wouldn’t. I see myself as a person of value and I simply don’t have time for women that are addicted to an electronic device. As Corey says, you need to get through the no’s in order to get to the yes’s! Keep reading that book and practicing the fundamentals. Repetition is the mother of skill. Success is built on repetitive failures. Don’t give up.
@@aleksandartan7057 Ya very true. Just hard to believe when the opposite is true. For example, kept talking to a girl on tinder today (not taking long breaks etc). was funny and charming and set the date for tonight. Got laid. Whereas if I would have just texted when I was not busy Im sure it would have fizzled out. Perhaps I am just not attracting the right type of girls. Just doesn't seem to work the other way,
I mean bro he says to not be a cold fish… you can text her, don’t constantly blow her off. Don’t be a robot, it’s fine to text her here and there, but don’t become her male girlfriend where you’re texting her all day while you’re at work, when you get home, I mean you’re busy and on your purpose and will text when you can. Again, he definitely addresses this.
After my ex and I had been seeing each other for about 4-6 weeks when we met. she asked me, "So, what are we? I think I now know where I went wrong. I thought that this was her asking for a commitment and although when I met her, I said that I wasn't sure that I was looking for a relationship (as I'd been badly hurt by being ghosted by the girlfriend before), I mentioned a relationship at that point.
@@777dave Oh, because she said when we broke up that she never wanted a relationship in the first place. Which was confusing because she was with me for two years.
Quite the intuition, careful we aren't ever really fooling anyone but ourselves such as when we try to cover up things like hangovers, smoking cigs, being high, etc
coach corey always recomand to start with small things and practice it little by little, other PUA coaches try to impressionate their viewers by teaching them that talking to women is very dificult and you have to have the balls to do it and then they grab videos of them interacting with women in the street to impresioante the viewers so they can follow them , but I figured out that they have no clue : first of all they don't look for signs to aproch women, they just aproach random girls in the street and start talking and talking and talking.. and other errors they do..
Man, I need to stay on these or check out the book. I’ve been sleeping with this girl consistently every week for 5 months. The romance is there, the sex, the chemistry but we aren’t “together”. I don’t have the talk but she knows what I want. We’ve “broken up” twice and I walked away. Both times she comes back calling me and needing me. Except we don’t officially get in a “relationship”. I don’t know what to do but it’s at the point we say we love each other and are really Intimate. She gets mad when I talk to other girls and sometimes calls me her bf but says we can’t be in a relationship because she doesn’t trust me. Idk what to do at this point I’m getting exhausted at the amount of time and energy spent and feeling like she’s not totally mine. I still casually date other girls but I’m serious about this one. Do I put all my cards on the table and say what I want (be committed to her) Or do I just play it cool and continue to see other people until she’s ready?
I've been that girl before, everything seemed to be going great, I was open, relax and let my guard down and didn't push anything and went with the flow and we seemed to want the same things long term. However in my case I was prepared for an exclusive relationship while he was still talking to other women but said that he couldn't meet up with them because he 'didn't have time' not because he was only interested in me. I accepted that he simply saw me as just an option so we ended it and parted ways because ultimately we both accepted that I was more invested in wanting an exclusive relationship, while he just saw me as a temporary feature in his life. In your situation it's best that you both accept that you don't see a future with each other even though she likes you and you just want her to make being single easier while you play the field, let each other go emotionally and take sex off the table and keep things platonic. Once you've both explored your options you may both end up finding other people who will be better fits for each of you instead of messing around with each other in what sounds like a messy situationship
So much of this game stuff is comes down to accepting crappy behavior from women. As in the first story the women does not believe in the man. To me if you don’t believe in me or have faith in my abilities I am done with you why should he even give her the time of day. It’s just not worth it this is a woman with major issues that just gonna flip on him again years down the road when times get touch.
I am going through a tough one myself. My gf of a Year has called it off but... Still always msgs me. Its been about 2 month since the break up. I asked what we are and she saying now she knows she should move on but just can't. So i have been just been playing it cool and letting her reach out to me now. When she does i set plans for a date to see her and keep it fun and positive. How long is to long to wait for a women to figure out if she should move on or not. I could start to see other women but dont want anything to back fire. Plus my mind is still very much into her. This has nothing to do with pride for me i want it to workout with this person.
Jason Dowling 1- You should never ask a woman what are we? 2 - Women are like cats, and especially since she broke off with you because of your overpersuing, she’ll be in and out, hot and cold to test you or she either has another man on hold. You must let her come to you at her own pace and set dates when she contacts. Let her figure out her feelings for you at her own pace
Hi Coach, and anyone that can help me out with this cluster fuck. Around 5 years ago I cut contact with a girl I had known for 4 years. We were never officially together, but we had a sort of fling (casual sex, a few dates, etc...). I had grown really fond of her. Anyway, a couple of weeks after she took me to her prom, I decided to cut contact with her completely. I stopped replying to her texts and calls and eventually blocked her on FaceBook. At the time, I was so full of insecurity and anxiety. I kept doubting her feelings for me, even though it should have been so obvious. I recently got back in touch with her - not really expecting a response. What I got was huge, but also damn confusing. She said that all the hurt and pain had come back. That what I put her through had badly affected her and still does. That she’s had issues with her relationships and that she’s never quite felt the same again. But what really confused me was when she told me “I like the idea of us trying something together but I’m afraid of the result”. I don’t know if she’s just blowing off steam, alluding to something else or whatever... but it seems to me that she wouldn’t have bothered sending me something so loaded after all this time. Tell me what you think Coach... and anyone else mind.
I got suspicious and she thought I was investigating her, she broke off saying "she needs space". after 2 weeks no contact since breakup , she basically said politely "... Hope you're good, and got the job... You should move on..". I replied a few hours later with "yeh no worries. Everythings good thanks". Don't know what to do now
Maybe someone here in the Corey Wayne community can help me?🙏.Been dating this guy ( on the 7 or 8th date now) my friends say I should bring up the exclusivety question ,but Im not so sure about that. When I see this guy, we are having fun and the sex is great. I could see myself in a relationship with this guy, , any advice on how to go about this the right way?
Hey guys I’ve been reading Corey’s book but it’s taking a long time and I think it’s because I watch all the videos. I was just wondering if the videos are all must watch or I can just read the book straight through 10-15 times?
my girlfriend was acting cold for about a week and a half and i asked her about it and she said she is losing feelings for me, i asked why and she said she didn’t know why . i now know it was because i’ve been texting her to much and showing too much affection. the next day i waited for her to text me first and i said i think we need some space and asked to not talk for a few days. did i mess up? and what should my next move be?
What do you suggest I do. My gf broke up with me after a year. We had a dog together, which is mine now. She’s reaching back out to me because she misses the dog
Hi Corey, there is a girl that lives in a different state than me right now, but she is going to the same college as me starting this fall. Should I direct message her on social media now or when school starts? Or if anyone else has an opinion about this, let me know what you think is the better option.
We’ve been hookup buddies for the last month and a half. Then went on a date. Then a few days later she texted me saying she wasn’t coming over because she couldn’t do the casual sex thing anymore because it wasn’t good for her. I talked to her and said I wasn’t only looking for casual sex. We then went on another date. When we were home lying in bed, she asked “what are we?” And I asked her what she meant. And she repeated it and asked what I was looking for. And I said I liked hanging out with her, and I wanted to continue to go out on dates with her and maybe eventually move into a relationship. Then I asked her what she was wanting. She said she didn’t really know what she was looking for. And she likes to take relationships slow. I’m assuming this just means continue to date and court her until she brings the topic back up. What do you all think?
We broke up cuz i hurt her many times and she got fed up and ended it. She doesnt want shit from me i begged and chased she still had the same answer. Few weeks pass and still the same, now shes callin me, and saying she loves me and wants a future with me. What should i do?
So since I'm fully back in the dating game after my breakup 5 months ago, I think I lost my mojo :D. Any good video suggestion from corey for dating? :D
Quick question, my ex that I recently made out with, is stalking my fb lol. Should I pull a James bond "are you stalking me" jokingly or should I let her wonder
Hi Corey, you da man! This is off topic but, do you have a video on God? Heaven and hell? Just curious... I’m implementing your principles... and it’s gooooood! But now I find myself seeking god... and just curious about your thoughts. Respond or not... thank you for your information! Cheers!
READ THE BOOK ALL OF THIS WORKS. If you’re applying the rules and learning you’ll notice slowly you’ll turn into the man. You’ll get what you want when you want. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Stay mysterious, have fun and hook up. This guy knows his shit.
I use to worry about this . Now I don't , I'm married and have so-so relationships with multiple women . I've never asked any girl to look at me special , they just come to me . " Building Natural Attraction "
what if she is not obsessed even without pursuing? in commited relationship. 2 times per week. for months. and she likes to party with friends. and unhappy roomate who brings her down and is a bit jelly. im lost. lol
Alright me and this girl started talkin in 2017 1 year after I graduated she was 17 and I was 19... we talked for 6 months and I stopped texting her after our conversations we getting dryer I started talking to another girl and she would text me sometimes out of the blue.. we both ended up getting in our own relationships (both for one year).. Skip forward blah, blah, we’re both single again, so I decide to send her a text and we’d talk and I would always do the texting first... So around Christmas time last year(2018) I was tired of just texting and noticed every time I stopped texting her she would send this emoji 🙄and we’d end up texting again.. So one day I had finally told her that I was interested in a relationship and she told me she wasn’t looking so I backed off a bit.. Then my dumbass ended up texting her again but it was a short lived conversation.. I want to give another crack at it after seeing these videos but I really don’t know if it’s too late.. If anyone can direct me to a video he has the can help with this it would be appreciated..
Hello guy really need help through this breakup. I’m a good working professional have all my shit together like my job, car, my own place and I’m in amazing physical shape. I dated an escort for 3years, she stopped escorting as I was talking care of her finances and everything even every day smokes.. She is also a major drug addict and also she has hep C. She lost her 3years old son because of her addiction. It has been 3 weeks. Since I left her because of her abusive and drama every day. Her family hates and don’t even talk to her because of drugs and prostitution and her mental drama. So she has no support from family. And she also has few criminal records. And also got charged for domestic against me for abusing and hitting me. Now she is back in to escorting and watching her posts on escorting sites really hurting my heart. I want to get over her. Please suggestion. I know this is fucked up situation but she is my first love and I really love her. Please help me to get over her. Thanks
Makes you wonder all the "Experts" have said in their past they had no clue. However now they somehow "Get it" and are giving advice to the world??? Are they really helping or actually hindering. I guess if people are willing to give you $$$$ for advice good on you.
What happens if my girlfriend of over a year played a really f&cked up prank to me. She’s in a somewhat bad part of Mexico and we was on the phone then I started hearing something that sounded like gun shots and she stopped answering for a while the she went on to telling me a group of people was shooting up the place and that she got shot. I was so mad and preoccupied because I have been in real shootings myself. I asked my family if they knew the emergency number from there and then I heard her saying “it’s a prank” I almost went into a asthma attack during the call and it was really difficult to calm down, I gave my phone to my sister and after that I really don’t want to talk to her. I told my sister to deliver a message for me which said “ You have a lot of explaining to do once you come back and have a really good apology. Until then, be safe” she’s coming back on the 6th July and I was supposed to see her on the 7th. Has anyone ever been through this? Mr Coach do you think I handle this the right way? I’m lost I don’t know what to do. Anyone’s help would really be appreciated.
What if the girl is doing the chasing but she says you don’t text her often enough, that she does all the reaching out even though they go on dates pretty often?
I’ve always wondered this. If anyone has any thoughts or opinions about this please share it’s a question I struggled with. You teach to pull back when couples break up. What if the girl you are pulling back from is watching videos similar to the ones you share, So now both of you are pulling back and applying no contact. How do you go about getting someone back in a situation like that?
Whomever breaks contact first is going to be placed in the weaker/submissive postition. It would be in the mans best interest to not break it, and if she dosent break contact then just move on. An abundance mindset is key.
Problems arise when a man makes a woman his purpose and mission. I’ve learned that first hand. Also, it’s amazing how coach can see an entire situation for what it is. Not what the dude is trying to paint. Fascinating
can confirm. if you make her your priority you die for her
A woman should always be a complement to a man's life, but not become the sake of it.
I dont worry about what "we" are...i know who I am and that's all I need to know.
Solid slogan man !!
A virgin ?
law of attraction focus on you, vortex and centered!
@@esiify1 a simp, in your case...
Big man Corey Wayne. You ROCK!! I have read the book more than 50 times for the past two years, and I have watched half of your videos on TH-cam. Additionally, I often go to your websites and read your articles. Then print them out to have. I can attest that this shit works. I have completed change my life with women and in life as a whole. Guys, you Gotta freaking read the book. No Excuses. You gotta participate in your own rescue.
I've read the book six times so far, and counting. Right now I have a question about two older women who might be interested in me, the thing is, one is from work and the other one is from the University I go to, I'll be a computer engineer within three months, but right now I'm in charge of the IT department of a very big organization, i feel successful right now but I still have a long way to go. The thing is there's I a girl who is 10 years older than me who is in a ldr and sees her bf like once every three months, sometimes even longer, and we have hit it off because we have so much in common, even though she is older and supposedly more experienced in the corporate and business world, she comes to me for advice, she asks for my opinion many things, she even calls me to ask me stuff, she is in charge of a different department, she talks me up to everyone in the organization, people have told me and she has too, they think there's something going on between us, she's not very hot but she's pretty and I admire her, shes also a TV host. Sometimes I feel like she's really into me, but then I'm not so sure, also she has a boyfriend and the fact that she's from work makes me think twice before trying anything more, I have many options and I don't need to rush anything, this situation with her has been going on for a while, she touched me arm sometimes it my chest when talking.
The other is aroun 15 years older than me, with a teenage daughter, she used to be my professor, she's very cool and since then we always said hi to each other and exchanged a few words on campus, she offered to help me big time with some stuff that I needed, this was gonna take way too long because of bureaucracy, but she made it faster, she has also helped me with other things, in exchange for nothing, I like that a lot and I have been very thankful, I'm almost graduated and she is offering to help me with my thesis, or grad project, we are in a break from classes right no and she told me not to be a stranger and to text her, she has played with her hair a couple of times when we've been alone talking in her office and she smiles a lot. If she werent a professor maybe I would have asked her out already
Would you go for any of these women?
Dude it really does ... when I started applying everything shit just started to magically happen. I would go to the restroom during dates and look at myself in the mirror and be like “ wtf holy shit this stuff works!”
How did your life change? Would like to hear more
Coach, I did a 180 in my life since discovering your videos 2 years ago, your attitude towards life goes beyond issues dealing with women and I've recommended you ever since in every appropriate situation. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge, the best things in life are free and your channel is one of them! Cheers to your continued success
I found your material August 2018, on the 5th read of your book. I went from craving a permanent relationship with the girl the drove me to your material to NOT wanting a serious relationship with any woman so I can focus on my goals. I still date and approach women yet if it doesn't work out I do my best to cope with those emotions with the faith that I'll find a better woman as I develop myself. Listening to this particular video shows where I was at at the time I found you and it's kinda scary to realize that is the program that has been running in my mind for 38 years. I'm 39 and my goals have shifted from locking down a girl to locking down a great life for myself. It's not always easy rewiring my brain for this new paradigm yet I thank you so much for your help brotha!
1 year later after following coach and now I’m getting the ring talk. My point, it’s great to be in a position of plenty and not scarcity. Read the damn book, gentlemen.
You are amazing ! My relationship with my husband is going great but I find you so motivational and I love your outlook and attitude and find it so uplifting and it helps me to stay motivated and maintain my self confidence etc
*"He's in essence waiting on her and doing the things he wants to do."* Yeah that's no no one of the biggest illusions is we have a lot of time.
Which in some ways we do but in the grand scheme of things we don't.
And don't wait for other people to decide when they'll make time for. be more of who you are and do more of what brings fulfilment. 💪
How can anyone downvote this? Corey's the truth
13 beta males down voted this video
It's the other relationship coaches that teach the wrong shit and don't have a quarter of Corey's experience.
Listened to the first 2 minutes then rewind listened again. Listen to what Corey says at the beginning of this video it is key to life.
Wow and i was almost about to ask this girl the same exact thing. Excellent timing coach!
Hi Coach, I think the No contact rule only works if the woman had a level of interest in you in the first place. If her interest was below 5, you will never hear from her. It's best to just find another woman. I know a girl who gets about 20 men per day chasing her and calling her. She just doesn't chase men. What I notice also is that every man she interacts with is so nice to her. If you do a no contact with a girl like this who can have any man she wants and she didn't have high interest in you or good impression of you, it will hardly work.
The no contact rule should must be applied for your own advantage,not for the girl you're chasing. When she reach out to you,that's fine;if she doesn't,then she wasn't meant for you.
You apply the no contact rule for yourself. You concentrate on your purpose,ambitions and date other women. Good luck.
Appreciate you for still doing this, keep it up!
Kai Ridderbos It's his purpose in life!
Thanks for the video. I have watched other videos by male coaches, they say that a woman should NOT ask for the exclusivity talk because it lowers her value. You should wait for the man to ask. However, this video contradicts it. In this case, no one would ask for commitment and just experience anxiety in mutual limbo.
Corey you da man! After getting my heart broken 4 weeks ago, I stumbled upon your work and have been studying your book. I worked up the courage to ask out the hottest girl at my gym. Had a first date with her last night and the date ended with both of us in my bed making out at 3am. After trying to seal the deal, she told me I have to wait until next time. I quickly responded with "Who said there's gonna be a next time?". I backed off and we continued to cuddle and make out in my bed. We laughed our asses off all night and enjoyed each other's company. This girl is something to respect. I walked her to the door as she was leaving and she turns around to face me and proceeds to start making out with me some more. I'm gonna reach out to her again late next week! I already got 2 more dates with 2 other women lined up for next weekend. Should be fun! Thank ya sir
Chris Mendoza How’s everything going along with 1st chick?
@@拥 it went well for a while, we ended up hooking up by next date and we really enjoyed eachother's company. She was fresh out of a 10 year relationship so she was very wishy-washy and still had feelings for her ex so we are no longer seeing eachother. We ended on great terms and I had a different girl taking her place within 2 hours 🤘
Chris Mendoza Hey I’m glad to hear that man, not everything works out but you made the best of it so keep it up 👍🏼
Illusion of action. Also the balance of power in any relationship lies with the party that cares least. That doesn't mean be a cold dick; it means don't be attached to expectations or a specific outcome.
Does that Apply to long term relationships also?
@johannesolofsson221 yes, even moreso than at the start. I've always treated things like that and I just married the woman I've been with for 6 years. She's smoking hot and very feminine. Stay focused on you and what you want to bring to the table brother. Be amazing. Bless.
I look forward to your videos Monday mournings & expanding the knowledge. Thank you Corey Wayne for making men great again.
Corey! you are a sun while the relationship coaches and the pickup artists are stars, so when you rise up no one of them could shine.
I’m so happy to hear that your friend’s girlfriend finally stated to get into model trains with him, that’s adorable
What a very Informative video. I love watching these, I always learn something new. Thanks Coach for your weekly upload👍
Okay so, as soon as I saw the title of this video I knew that if the man is bringing up "the talk" to a woman, then he's making a mistake, lol.
Damn! This was a hard video to watch. Almost a mirror image of my own situation. I didn't want to accept reality and even started to think that you were missing a piece of the female puzzle. But as you say, actions speak louder than words. You have made me a true believer. Forgive me. Now I am off to read your book another 8 times...
I'm learning how lack of self awareness is the most underrated problem most men have, yet aren't "AWARE" of. And 3% man book is the best material I've found to gain that self awareness.
Best coach! thanks for your lessons Coach.
I am a fitness trainer in great shape and try to keep a positive attitude for myself and my clients.
This guy wanted to him get on top of his goals and eating better so I helped him and we started dating too.
About 2 months in he got an injury at work and became disabled for a year and was out of work.
I stuck it out with his grumpy, negative attitude and depression overlooking it because he was hurting and waiting on surgery and that is understandable, right?
But after he recovered was still the same person. He just had no drive or purpose and it was a big turn off. I'd go work a long hard day at the gym and come home to a gossiping, complaining, nagging house wife of a man with no job or ambitions.
I eventually had to cut and go because it was really pulling my vibe down. I feel bad for him and for leaving but sometimes you just gotta save yourself.
@@williewill1237 Maybe if we were married. We weren't even in a serious commitment.
Yeah, well done
Thank you so much, solid as always. Diggin the background also xxx
The mindset should always be “Are we on the same page?” Rather than “Does she like me?”. The former’s mindset gives you a compass to show your intentions and make it clear from the beginning and it will also help you assess and qualify women if they are the right one for you or you’re wasting your time. Whereas, for the latter, it comes from a place of desperation
So we men can ask if were on the same page ?
1. Women are cats, don’t expect anything from them but headache if you’re looking for meaning and love.
2. Woman jumps on your lap, you get exited.
3. Chill and go back to 1.
@@CorporateQueen you are woman aren't you
You just confirmed the point I wanted to make. Thank you ma'am.
@@CorporateQueen you know a lot about cats, how many are wandering around your house?
This is exactly the video that I have been looking for!
I love this man! Great video coach!
She kept saying that the first week lol. Im like idk call it what you want 😂
This is 100% true. Thanks Corey.
As much as your videos helped. I realized over time I didn’t want my ex. Fuck I read your book, got a new girlfriend and shot things are much better then the last. No cookie cutter bullshit so thanks coach.
Corey got his knowledge on women from aliens. This video was shot from the mother ship 👽
Just finished 'mastering yourself' audiobook, now going to listen to 3% man again! and again haha Thankyou for your inspiration. I have just created my own channel if anyone wants to join my journey of self discovery after a breakup and being single again at 34 x
This is what buried me
“Honestly we’re good friends”
We were basically boyfriend n girlfriend the way Shit was 🤦🏾♂️
Always good stuff coach thank you for your honesty!
spot on!!
Thanks for all your help coach
Thanks for the videos and content Coach!
You help me and put my young mind at ease
Coach Wayne understanding of the female psychology is amazing. Hi coach, I need some guidance. Prior to your work there was this girl I was trying to date. Things started well. Not knowing any better, I was chasing too much, was too available, to nice, buying gifts etc. Because of all of that she became very flakey, not keep dates (I will have to admit my dates were not definite). Things went bad when I bought a gift during that time and she return it back and then I was hurt. That's was the moment she started testing seriously and it was around that period I came across your book and videos. When I started reading your book, I was applying them inconsistently and I noticed how it increased her attraction and she started coming back (your book works), touching my arms, holding my hand, and all those little signs here and there. However because I was very inconsistent I didn't get a date and at one point I gave up asking. We lost touch when she left our work place. Recently we met again in a friends departure party and hug enthusiastically. I felt she was happy seeing me and I also still have some feelings and have missed her. I thought the feelings had gone since it's been more than 8 months since we parted ways. Now I am wondering whether I should give it a go again with the wealth of knowledge I have now or just let it go. Please provide some guidance coach or any alpha out there
MASTER WAYNE
Coach you only have one option now and that’s the $1k phone consultation
Coach Corey Wayne you the man
Oh well haha i had it recently but I was like “ not looking for anything serious “ lol
After a few months whatever we had was over. Had good fun tho
Im really starting to question his logic regarding "hey can't talk gotta go, I'll see you next week" type of thing. Read the book about 6 times so far so I got a few more times to go. Ever since I stopped using the phone and text for conversation I have been bailed on for dates roughly 6 times. I finally got one girl to go out and she got angry that I would not text her all the time and said either that or we are done. So that was it. I really think Corey needs to address this better. Simply saying "hey good hearing from you but I got to go" clearly doesn't work. By the time the date comes they flake, forget, or just don't respond. The girls want to talk, text, and snapchat. They live on these things. However, when I do talk to them throughout the day I usually get dates.
TheTCOLL sounds like you’re attracting insecure girls man... ask yourself this? Do you really want to spend your time with girls that constantly need reassurance via social media? I know I wouldn’t. I see myself as a person of value and I simply don’t have time for women that are addicted to an electronic device. As Corey says, you need to get through the no’s in order to get to the yes’s! Keep reading that book and practicing the fundamentals. Repetition is the mother of skill. Success is built on repetitive failures. Don’t give up.
@@aleksandartan7057 Ya very true. Just hard to believe when the opposite is true. For example, kept talking to a girl on tinder today (not taking long breaks etc). was funny and charming and set the date for tonight. Got laid. Whereas if I would have just texted when I was not busy Im sure it would have fizzled out. Perhaps I am just not attracting the right type of girls. Just doesn't seem to work the other way,
I mean bro he says to not be a cold fish… you can text her, don’t constantly blow her off. Don’t be a robot, it’s fine to text her here and there, but don’t become her male girlfriend where you’re texting her all day while you’re at work, when you get home, I mean you’re busy and on your purpose and will text when you can. Again, he definitely addresses this.
After my ex and I had been seeing each other for about 4-6 weeks when we met. she asked me, "So, what are we? I think I now know where I went wrong. I thought that this was her asking for a commitment and although when I met her, I said that I wasn't sure that I was looking for a relationship (as I'd been badly hurt by being ghosted by the girlfriend before), I mentioned a relationship at that point.
So what happened during that talk?
@@777dave That was when we first got together.
@@ConfidencePT But why was you mentioning a relationship a problem then? You got together…
@@777dave Oh, because she said when we broke up that she never wanted a relationship in the first place. Which was confusing because she was with me for two years.
@@ConfidencePT That is insane… Hope you have managed to move on from this and find someone more loving and open
I could sense the (after)effect of alcohol somehow, even before you mentioned your hangover. Ouch coach. Stay well, and don't drink too much! -Doc
Quite the intuition, careful we aren't ever really fooling anyone but ourselves such as when we try to cover up things like hangovers, smoking cigs, being high, etc
coach corey always recomand to start with small things and practice it little by little, other PUA coaches try to impressionate their viewers by teaching them that talking to women is very dificult and you have to have the balls to do it and then they grab videos of them interacting with women in the street to impresioante the viewers so they can follow them , but I figured out that they have no clue : first of all they don't look for signs to aproch women, they just aproach random girls in the street and start talking and talking and talking.. and other errors they do..
I lovvvvve your videos coach wayne
corey wayne, the dating coach for 5s
You open my eyes on so much shit
Man, I need to stay on these or check out the book. I’ve been sleeping with this girl consistently every week for 5 months. The romance is there, the sex, the chemistry but we aren’t “together”. I don’t have the talk but she knows what I want. We’ve “broken up” twice and I walked away. Both times she comes back calling me and needing me. Except we don’t officially get in a “relationship”. I don’t know what to do but it’s at the point we say we love each other and are really Intimate. She gets mad when I talk to other girls and sometimes calls me her bf but says we can’t be in a relationship because she doesn’t trust me. Idk what to do at this point I’m getting exhausted at the amount of time and energy spent and feeling like she’s not totally mine. I still casually date other girls but I’m serious about this one. Do I put all my cards on the table and say what I want (be committed to her) Or do I just play it cool and continue to see other people until she’s ready?
Skeleton Lord experienced the same situation where I was actually that girl
I've been that girl before, everything seemed to be going great, I was open, relax and let my guard down and didn't push anything and went with the flow and we seemed to want the same things long term. However in my case I was prepared for an exclusive relationship while he was still talking to other women but said that he couldn't meet up with them because he 'didn't have time' not because he was only interested in me. I accepted that he simply saw me as just an option so we ended it and parted ways because ultimately we both accepted that I was more invested in wanting an exclusive relationship, while he just saw me as a temporary feature in his life. In your situation it's best that you both accept that you don't see a future with each other even though she likes you and you just want her to make being single easier while you play the field, let each other go emotionally and take sex off the table and keep things platonic. Once you've both explored your options you may both end up finding other people who will be better fits for each of you instead of messing around with each other in what sounds like a messy situationship
Love it
What happened to the THEME SONG!
Who wants to guess the hobby? Dying to know!
Glad you lost the intro song. Great video. Keep up the good work!
So much of this game stuff is comes down to accepting crappy behavior from women. As in the first story the women does not believe in the man. To me if you don’t believe in me or have faith in my abilities I am done with you why should he even give her the time of day. It’s just not worth it this is a woman with major issues that just gonna flip on him again years down the road when times get touch.
It sounds like he needs to just give up. Sometimes it's just over.
I am going through a tough one myself. My gf of a Year has called it off but... Still always msgs me. Its been about 2 month since the break up. I asked what we are and she saying now she knows she should move on but just can't. So i have been just been playing it cool and letting her reach out to me now. When she does i set plans for a date to see her and keep it fun and positive. How long is to long to wait for a women to figure out if she should move on or not. I could start to see other women but dont want anything to back fire. Plus my mind is still very much into her. This has nothing to do with pride for me i want it to workout with this person.
Jason Dowling 1- You should never ask a woman what are we?
2 - Women are like cats, and especially since she broke off with you because of your overpersuing, she’ll be in and out, hot and cold to test you or she either has another man on hold. You must let her come to you at her own pace and set dates when she contacts. Let her figure out her feelings for you at her own pace
Read the book, you’ll know exactly what to do.
Why waste time on her when she seems to have a low interest? Hopefully you moved on.
Hi Coach, and anyone that can help me out with this cluster fuck.
Around 5 years ago I cut contact with a girl I had known for 4 years. We were never officially together, but we had a sort of fling (casual sex, a few dates, etc...). I had grown really fond of her.
Anyway, a couple of weeks after she took me to her prom, I decided to cut contact with her completely. I stopped replying to her texts and calls and eventually blocked her on FaceBook.
At the time, I was so full of insecurity and anxiety. I kept doubting her feelings for me, even though it should have been so obvious.
I recently got back in touch with her - not really expecting a response. What I got was huge, but also damn confusing.
She said that all the hurt and pain had come back.
That what I put her through had badly affected her and still does.
That she’s had issues with her relationships and that she’s never quite felt the same again.
But what really confused me was when she told me “I like the idea of us trying something together but I’m afraid of the result”.
I don’t know if she’s just blowing off steam, alluding to something else or whatever... but it seems to me that she wouldn’t have bothered sending me something so loaded after all this time.
Tell me what you think Coach... and anyone else mind.
I got suspicious and she thought I was investigating her, she broke off saying "she needs space". after 2 weeks no contact since breakup , she basically said politely "... Hope you're good, and got the job... You should move on..". I replied a few hours later with "yeh no worries. Everythings good thanks". Don't know what to do now
Move on.
I mean hopefully you started going out with other women. There are a TON of them.
Maybe someone here in the Corey Wayne community can help me?🙏.Been dating this guy ( on the 7 or 8th date now) my friends say I should bring up the exclusivety question ,but Im not so sure about that. When I see this guy, we are having fun and the sex is great. I could see myself in a relationship with this guy, , any advice on how to go about this the right way?
first date tonight wish me luck....
Alex Crowell How did it go?
@@拥they’re married now, open relationship.
Hey guys I’ve been reading Corey’s book but it’s taking a long time and I think it’s because I watch all the videos. I was just wondering if the videos are all must watch or I can just read the book straight through 10-15 times?
No. Follow the book by pausing the book and watching the videos, per his book lol.
my girlfriend was acting cold for about a week and a half and i asked her about it and she said she is losing feelings for me, i asked why and she said she didn’t know why . i now know it was because i’ve been texting her to much and showing too much affection. the next day i waited for her to text me first and i said i think we need some space and asked to not talk for a few days. did i mess up? and what should my next move be?
What do you suggest I do. My gf broke up with me after a year. We had a dog together, which is mine now. She’s reaching back out to me because she misses the dog
They ALWAYS miss the dog. Always.
Hi Corey, there is a girl that lives in a different state than me right now, but she is going to the same college as me starting this fall. Should I direct message her on social media now or when school starts? Or if anyone else has an opinion about this, let me know what you think is the better option.
Facts
We’ve been hookup buddies for the last month and a half. Then went on a date. Then a few days later she texted me saying she wasn’t coming over because she couldn’t do the casual sex thing anymore because it wasn’t good for her. I talked to her and said I wasn’t only looking for casual sex. We then went on another date. When we were home lying in bed, she asked “what are we?” And I asked her what she meant. And she repeated it and asked what I was looking for. And I said I liked hanging out with her, and I wanted to continue to go out on dates with her and maybe eventually move into a relationship. Then I asked her what she was wanting. She said she didn’t really know what she was looking for. And she likes to take relationships slow. I’m assuming this just means continue to date and court her until she brings the topic back up. What do you all think?
Yes exactly
Coach Corey, can you similarly coach women?
Google, Wing girl
Is there a community that can help me based on Cory’s teachings? I’m in a 911 situation. Please Anyone that’s mastered the teachings help me
We broke up cuz i hurt her many times and she got fed up and ended it. She doesnt want shit from me i begged and chased she still had the same answer. Few weeks pass and still the same, now shes callin me, and saying she loves me and wants a future with me. What should i do?
So since I'm fully back in the dating game after my breakup 5 months ago, I think I lost my mojo :D. Any good video suggestion from corey for dating? :D
umpalumpa2019 Read his book 10-15 times
And don't jerk off
god is source of love, not women. give love to god, and women will love you back, them love her. old teaching
He said before that we can real the book for free, but i can't find rhe link
So should I dump her if she doesn’t bring seriously The Talk?
Yo is this Toby from the office?
Quick question, my ex that I recently made out with, is stalking my fb lol. Should I pull a James bond "are you stalking me" jokingly or should I let her wonder
Let her wonder
Corey why don't you do live video on TH-cam.
Hi Corey, you da man! This is off topic but, do you have a video on God? Heaven and hell? Just curious... I’m implementing your principles... and it’s gooooood! But now I find myself seeking god... and just curious about your thoughts. Respond or not... thank you for your information! Cheers!
check out Todd White - this video is about "god is love" skip to 19:40 - hope it helps you out th-cam.com/video/Y7HFFov_-Qk/w-d-xo.html
Hello Corey, you portray what most men are
READ THE BOOK ALL OF THIS WORKS.
If you’re applying the rules and learning you’ll notice slowly you’ll turn into the man. You’ll get what you want when you want. Don’t put all your eggs in one basket. Stay mysterious, have fun and hook up.
This guy knows his shit.
I use to worry about this . Now I don't , I'm married and have so-so relationships with multiple women . I've never asked any girl to look at me special , they just come to me . " Building Natural Attraction "
How can i read the book for free?
what if she is not obsessed even without pursuing? in commited relationship. 2 times per week. for months. and she likes to party with friends. and unhappy roomate who brings her down and is a bit jelly. im lost. lol
Shes not in a comitted relationship, you are.
Alright me and this girl started talkin in 2017 1 year after I graduated she was 17 and I was 19... we talked for 6 months and I stopped texting her after our conversations we getting dryer I started talking to another girl and she would text me sometimes out of the blue.. we both ended up getting in our own relationships (both for one year).. Skip forward blah, blah, we’re both single again, so I decide to send her a text and we’d talk and I would always do the texting first... So around Christmas time last year(2018) I was tired of just texting and noticed every time I stopped texting her she would send this emoji 🙄and we’d end up texting again.. So one day I had finally told her that I was interested in a relationship and she told me she wasn’t looking so I backed off a bit.. Then my dumbass ended up texting her again but it was a short lived conversation.. I want to give another crack at it after seeing these videos but I really don’t know if it’s too late.. If anyone can direct me to a video he has the can help with this it would be appreciated..
Deebzz _ read the book 10 to 15 time
Ravi Thanki 👍🏿
If I have to ask then we are not and I am cool with it. Lol
Hello guy really need help through this breakup.
I’m a good working professional have all my shit together like my job, car, my own place and I’m in amazing physical shape. I dated an escort for 3years, she stopped escorting as I was talking care of her finances and everything even every day smokes.. She is also a major drug addict and also she has hep C. She lost her 3years old son because of her addiction. It has been 3 weeks. Since I left her because of her abusive and drama every day.
Her family hates and don’t even talk to her because of drugs and prostitution and her mental drama. So she has no support from family. And she also has few criminal records. And also got charged for domestic against me for abusing and hitting me.
Now she is back in to escorting and watching her posts on escorting sites really hurting my heart. I want to get over her. Please suggestion. I know this is fucked up situation but she is my first love and I really love her. Please help me to get over her. Thanks
I hope you woke up dude.... that's a wild story...
Makes you wonder all the "Experts" have said in their past they had no clue. However now they somehow "Get it" and are giving advice to the world??? Are they really helping or actually hindering. I guess if people are willing to give you $$$$ for advice good on you.
No.
Read the fucking book
What happens if my girlfriend of over a year played a really f&cked up prank to me. She’s in a somewhat bad part of Mexico and we was on the phone then I started hearing something that sounded like gun shots and she stopped answering for a while the she went on to telling me a group of people was shooting up the place and that she got shot. I was so mad and preoccupied because I have been in real shootings myself. I asked my family if they knew the emergency number from there and then I heard her saying “it’s a prank” I almost went into a asthma attack during the call and it was really difficult to calm down, I gave my phone to my sister and after that I really don’t want to talk to her. I told my sister to deliver a message for me which said “ You have a lot of explaining to do once you come back and have a really good apology. Until then, be safe” she’s coming back on the 6th July and I was supposed to see her on the 7th. Has anyone ever been through this? Mr Coach do you think I handle this the right way? I’m lost I don’t know what to do. Anyone’s help would really be appreciated.
24:46 I didn't even get they're having sex on from the email message.
That guy sounds like a mess. He needs to work on himself before he moves forward
my name is corey wayne
What if the girl is doing the chasing but she says you don’t text her often enough, that she does all the reaching out even though they go on dates pretty often?
Jae Lew 80/20 rule ! Read the book and you’ll know what todo
If she brings up she wants to see you then set up a date
Brandon Guy thanks just found these videos recently
@@williewill1237 Thanks for the response, I'll definitely try to balance it better along with getting though my 1st read of the book
@@jasonedenilson Thank you, that helps a ton
I’ve always wondered this. If anyone has any thoughts or opinions about this please share it’s a question I struggled with. You teach to pull back when couples break up. What if the girl you are pulling back from is watching videos similar to the ones you share, So now both of you are pulling back and applying no contact. How do you go about getting someone back in a situation like that?
Whomever breaks contact first is going to be placed in the weaker/submissive postition. It would be in the mans best interest to not break it, and if she dosent break contact then just move on. An abundance mindset is key.
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