Some women just don’t want to commit to one person. His options are to either be ok with being part of her rotation or walk away if he’s not cool with it. Hoping he can change her is most likely not going to work
If a woman is literally saying to you that they aren’t ready for a relationship, that is meant to be interpreted as “we are just casual” and not playing hard to get. If she really wanted to be serious, she would not be saying those things.
Put yourself in her shoes. She wants to think of the guy as fun, easy going that makes her relaxed and doesn’t stress her out. Not some guy that is annoying because he keeps texting her every day when she doesn’t want to be texted and asks “where is this going”/“how do you feel about me”.
@@tonykoz Exactly. If people follow the book discussions about feelings never even come up unless the girl brings it up. Like he said, why care about buying the cow if you're getting the milk for free? No matter how hot the girl is, if you're hooking up once a week you're going to be tired of her after a couple of years anyway. You're going to be making more money, she's going to gain weight...
Shit I wish I could see my lady friend once a week. My parenting schedule allows for only once every other. Kids come first, but at least she makes it clear to me about her intentions and her excitement to see me.
I had a similar situation like this where it stayed once a week, but I always kept it casual none of the “moving too fast/see other women “ language happened and I just invited her straight to the crib. Eventually she just disappeared and I let her go, before she pulled back she told me I was on point on every level and liked a lot of things. Sometimes I think women are just scary about potential relationships either way I had a great time 😂 she also told me about her childhood trauma and how she “might be a narcissist” so I might have dodged a bullet
The dude must be laying the pipe good as she hasn't dumped him yet! She will eventually if he doesn't treat her like she is which is a casual sex partner.
I did this with a woman I really wanted to get with. She was into it then she went to see a friend for the weekend and when she got back it was over. I gave it one more try and I could tell it was done. I was more into her than she was into me. She still texts me every few months but I never asked her out again. This has been going on for over a year....lol.
Coach always says "let a relationship be her idea" ... Corey, merch. idea: Navy blue light hoodie with 3% on one of the sleeve , wrist area... (less is more ...very few people will actually know what 3% means - conversation starter- "hey, what does that 3% mean? reply- " It's a secret").
i laugh a lot with this videonewsletter! I really get what this guy is going through. Man, no man is Stoic enough to get envolved with party girls and not get attached in some point (unless you are one of the motley crue guys), that's why is so important the vetting process. Right now im in big scarcity (only girls im not really interested are making easy for me), in part because im in the process of improve my financial situation and have no social circle at this moment. I wonder how im gonna react when a really hot chick that wants me comes along ( I desire it every single day), im just preparing my emocional self control with the great knowledge corey's book teaches us to not be needy and keep my hobbies and interests in order. Sometimes abundance takes time!
Well said dude, you have already done more than 99percent by recognising the direction you need to move. That scarcity mind set is only something you can improve without the reliance on other people. People should compliment your life not fill it.
Think tennis. You hit the ball over the net and wait for her to hit it back. She might hit it back right away or it might be a few days. Or a week. But you wait for her to hit the ball back and then it’s your turn to hit the ball again.
I walked away as you say Corey if she's not interested in a relationship then walk away? I walked away after 4 months and she's not reached out now in 7 weeks I know you say hang out hook up have fun.. But after 4 months of having fun she's not ready it's time to move on? I told her I can't be friends as the emotional connection is to strong to be around her as she's quite a flirt and hands out her business cards in social situations..
What do you mean friends? You should be having sex by the 3rd or 4th date, or at least be doing sexual things. Did you even make out with this girl? Either she wasn't that attracted to begin with or you made some mistakes. If she hasn't brought up being your girlfriend you shouldn't be in any "social situations" with her except a one on one date then back to your place or her place. If I was on a date with a girl and she gave her number to another guy on the date I would just walk out and delete her number. Date more girls, read the book, good luck.
@@sdickinson5234 i met her through work I had to go measure for a blind for her office as I'm a supervisor to a family member in the industry.. So I called it a blind date.. It was really as we didn't know each other at all.. Connection was there straight away.. As Coach says you don't it often.. We chatted although it was work related.. She told me she was divorced of about two years back in town because it didn't work out overseas.. Wasn't looking for anything serious she said which I can understand.. I told her again about my difficult past at this stage I hadn't done any research on relationships on youtube. So was in the dark.. My past is a very frustrating one.. I only learnt to read age 11 had to leave home to go to a boarding school in South Africa and I live in Walvis Bay Namibia.. So a 2k away.. I did learn to read but not confidently with spell check life did become a little easier.. But that came much latter as well.. I was diagnosed with minimal cerable palsy although it's more mental then physical although I can't sit cross legs and can't touch my toes.. I rather tall as well.. Anyway it's been difficult and my anxiety shows up not only with woman but in business as well.. I am trying to work on it.. I eventually found my purpose in photography in 2018 and at my pace slowly been trying to make a career out of it.. I'm turning 50 in October so everything is coming late.. Anyways sorry I'm going on just want to paint a picture you understand.. I did struggle to get her on a first date as she was house moving.. And on my second attempt after waiting about two weeks for her to settle she agreed and that first date went quite well lots of eye contact a few touches.. I had already started watching TH-cam about relationships as before I met her I was also hurt over another lady.. But this new lady was definitely my type and age range. That first evening she said I must come to her office for a coffee date.. I actually said I wasn't really interested in being friends and wanted to date her. Anyways that week leading into new year we went out twice and the second and 3rd date we kissed sensually and for me that was a first and very special.. I should of pulled her in on new years eve but because of my slow thinking I missed a chance. Anyway I tried only taking her out once week as coach suggests but it got tricky as mentioned she handing out her business cards.. I also learned don't argue with a woman but must set boundaries.. So was a little confused if I should tell her or not... Should of said something thinking now which frustrates me no end.. She'd of maybe been upset with me but at least I would of spoken my mind.. But it wasn't sure as my whole life has been sadly with my condition.. Anyways another incedent happened I wasn't happy with was out again in a date night.. Look I only took her for drinks dates as I couldn't afford proper dates.. But anyways that one evening in early March we wne to the one place we went to a few times.. And she went to the toilet when we arrived and I go to the bar and there I see a guy I know from a few months before I didn't know him well.. Anyway he comes over to chat and Jackey comes back to be with me. And this guy was there playing pool with a mate.. But he doesn't leave and it becomes a bit awkward for me.. But again I wasn't assertive enough to say let's go to another club after this drink.. Anyways the chat progressed quite well and she again hands out her business card to the friend of the guy with us so it bacame 4 of us.. He apparently works in the same kind of industry that why she gave him a card she says.. Turned out she did actually ask him out.. Lol but he was a lot younger and like me couldn't afford going to the house party she wanted to attend of a friend of hers.. Anyways, she told me that story one might when we chatted. On the phone.. At least she was honest but that hurt me as well.. Shows her interest in me.. Like I have said we did kiss was amazing but she kept saying she needs time. So on the 25th March two months ago today.. I said after a fun night out where we going again she said she needs time.. I was quite emotional after a few beers and said I can't go ib like this.. And said I can't be friends with you.. I really did struggle to let go although I didn't ask her out again I sent a few funny video whatsapp messages... And on the 14th April we cut ties completely and have unfortunately seen her again one night out two weeks later where she was with another guy. That was painful to see oh my goodness was at the dance club we often went to.. So yeah I have learned a lot but it's been very painful lessons.. But I did get closer then I have ever before with a woman... Just my insecurities and lack of confidence caused her to lose interest.. Although one night out I did prevent a pool fight happening oi that was awkward but I calmed down the situation at least.. She would of appreciated that I'm sure..
"The best way to get someone's attention is to remove yours". True, except when her interest level is low. Then the best way to be forgotten and not get any attention any more, is to "remove yours" (remove your attention).
Actually, I’m female and what her actions and words are saying is, “if you like me what are you waiting so long to see me. I’m sitting here waiting and you’re acting like a guy who only wants booty call once a week when you feel horny.” Women want marriage, extreme commitement, kindness, chilvary, etc.
Learning emotional self control is a must for party girls especially
Exactly. Acting distant and waiting for her to reach out to you first is a turn on and makes you different than 97% of men.
@@VoiceOfThe best comment for me so far😂stay frosty
My man, you are in HER rotation
You help my relationship life a lots. Thank you Coach Corey Wayne
Some women just don’t want to commit to one person. His options are to either be ok with being part of her rotation or walk away if he’s not cool with it. Hoping he can change her is most likely not going to work
If a woman is literally saying to you that they aren’t ready for a relationship, that is meant to be interpreted as “we are just casual” and not playing hard to get. If she really wanted to be serious, she would not be saying those things.
Put yourself in her shoes. She wants to think of the guy as fun, easy going that makes her relaxed and doesn’t stress her out. Not some guy that is annoying because he keeps texting her every day when she doesn’t want to be texted and asks “where is this going”/“how do you feel about me”.
@@tonykoz Exactly. If people follow the book discussions about feelings never even come up unless the girl brings it up. Like he said, why care about buying the cow if you're getting the milk for free? No matter how hot the girl is, if you're hooking up once a week you're going to be tired of her after a couple of years anyway. You're going to be making more money, she's going to gain weight...
No lie, I was fucking up bad and had no idea what I was doing wrong til I came across this channel lol 💯💯💯
Corey is the best coach ever
Nah, she's for the streets. Don't bother wifing her up
Corey is like Mayweather in coaching 🏆
Shit I wish I could see my lady friend once a week. My parenting schedule allows for only once every other. Kids come first, but at least she makes it clear to me about her intentions and her excitement to see me.
I had a similar situation like this where it stayed once a week, but I always kept it casual none of the “moving too fast/see other women “ language happened and I just invited her straight to the crib. Eventually she just disappeared and I let her go, before she pulled back she told me I was on point on every level and liked a lot of things. Sometimes I think women are just scary about potential relationships either way I had a great time 😂 she also told me about her childhood trauma and how she “might be a narcissist” so I might have dodged a bullet
The dude must be laying the pipe good as she hasn't dumped him yet! She will eventually if he doesn't treat her like she is which is a casual sex partner.
I did this with a woman I really wanted to get with. She was into it then she went to see a friend for the weekend and when she got back it was over. I gave it one more try and I could tell it was done. I was more into her than she was into me. She still texts me every few months but I never asked her out again. This has been going on for over a year....lol.
@@Junoj101 Ya, I think thats pretty obvious...lol... I knew it was done when she came back from her friends. Such is life.
If I was him I'd be annoyed and it's wiser for him to be seeing other girls. Maybe you'll connect better with another girl.
Coach always says "let a relationship be her idea" ... Corey, merch. idea: Navy blue light hoodie with 3% on one of the sleeve , wrist area... (less is more ...very few people will actually know what 3% means - conversation starter- "hey, what does that 3% mean? reply- " It's a secret").
i laugh a lot with this videonewsletter! I really get what this guy is going through. Man, no man is Stoic enough to get envolved with party girls and not get attached in some point (unless you are one of the motley crue guys), that's why is so important the vetting process. Right now im in big scarcity (only girls im not really interested are making easy for me), in part because im in the process of improve my financial situation and have no social circle at this moment. I wonder how im gonna react when a really hot chick that wants me comes along ( I desire it every single day), im just preparing my emocional self control with the great knowledge corey's book teaches us to not be needy and keep my hobbies and interests in order. Sometimes abundance takes time!
Well said dude, you have already done more than 99percent by recognising the direction you need to move.
That scarcity mind set is only something you can improve without the reliance on other people.
People should compliment your life not fill it.
Great video coach! I’d love to see how this story ends if this guy sends another follow up email
Corey Wayne is TOP G PERIOD BRUH
If you want someone’s attention, remove yours.
I swear coach does not age. Must be the green juice.
Ya - i wish I found Corey 12 years ago
Awesome advice, Coach.
What does it mean to "NOT TEXT"? Does it mean to not answer with TEXT after receiving TEXT? If answering by TEXT = NOT TEXT, then I am confused.
@@ronnywouters7037
Think tennis. You hit the ball over the net and wait for her to hit it back. She might hit it back right away or it might be a few days. Or a week. But you wait for her to hit the ball back and then it’s your turn to hit the ball again.
this guy read the book -15 times
I walked away as you say Corey if she's not interested in a relationship then walk away? I walked away after 4 months and she's not reached out now in 7 weeks I know you say hang out hook up have fun.. But after 4 months of having fun she's not ready it's time to move on? I told her I can't be friends as the emotional connection is to strong to be around her as she's quite a flirt and hands out her business cards in social situations..
What do you mean friends? You should be having sex by the 3rd or 4th date, or at least be doing sexual things. Did you even make out with this girl? Either she wasn't that attracted to begin with or you made some mistakes. If she hasn't brought up being your girlfriend you shouldn't be in any "social situations" with her except a one on one date then back to your place or her place. If I was on a date with a girl and she gave her number to another guy on the date I would just walk out and delete her number. Date more girls, read the book, good luck.
@@sdickinson5234 i met her through work I had to go measure for a blind for her office as I'm a supervisor to a family member in the industry.. So I called it a blind date.. It was really as we didn't know each other at all.. Connection was there straight away.. As Coach says you don't it often.. We chatted although it was work related.. She told me she was divorced of about two years back in town because it didn't work out overseas.. Wasn't looking for anything serious she said which I can understand.. I told her again about my difficult past at this stage I hadn't done any research on relationships on youtube. So was in the dark.. My past is a very frustrating one.. I only learnt to read age 11 had to leave home to go to a boarding school in South Africa and I live in Walvis Bay Namibia.. So a 2k away.. I did learn to read but not confidently with spell check life did become a little easier.. But that came much latter as well.. I was diagnosed with minimal cerable palsy although it's more mental then physical although I can't sit cross legs and can't touch my toes.. I rather tall as well.. Anyway it's been difficult and my anxiety shows up not only with woman but in business as well.. I am trying to work on it.. I eventually found my purpose in photography in 2018 and at my pace slowly been trying to make a career out of it.. I'm turning 50 in October so everything is coming late.. Anyways sorry I'm going on just want to paint a picture you understand..
I did struggle to get her on a first date as she was house moving.. And on my second attempt after waiting about two weeks for her to settle she agreed and that first date went quite well lots of eye contact a few touches.. I had already started watching TH-cam about relationships as before I met her I was also hurt over another lady.. But this new lady was definitely my type and age range. That first evening she said I must come to her office for a coffee date.. I actually said I wasn't really interested in being friends and wanted to date her. Anyways that week leading into new year we went out twice and the second and 3rd date we kissed sensually and for me that was a first and very special.. I should of pulled her in on new years eve but because of my slow thinking I missed a chance. Anyway I tried only taking her out once week as coach suggests but it got tricky as mentioned she handing out her business cards.. I also learned don't argue with a woman but must set boundaries.. So was a little confused if I should tell her or not... Should of said something thinking now which frustrates me no end.. She'd of maybe been upset with me but at least I would of spoken my mind.. But it wasn't sure as my whole life has been sadly with my condition.. Anyways another incedent happened I wasn't happy with was out again in a date night.. Look I only took her for drinks dates as I couldn't afford proper dates.. But anyways that one evening in early March we wne to the one place we went to a few times.. And she went to the toilet when we arrived and I go to the bar and there I see a guy I know from a few months before I didn't know him well.. Anyway he comes over to chat and Jackey comes back to be with me. And this guy was there playing pool with a mate.. But he doesn't leave and it becomes a bit awkward for me.. But again I wasn't assertive enough to say let's go to another club after this drink.. Anyways the chat progressed quite well and she again hands out her business card to the friend of the guy with us so it bacame 4 of us.. He apparently works in the same kind of industry that why she gave him a card she says.. Turned out she did actually ask him out.. Lol but he was a lot younger and like me couldn't afford going to the house party she wanted to attend of a friend of hers.. Anyways, she told me that story one might when we chatted. On the phone.. At least she was honest but that hurt me as well.. Shows her interest in me.. Like I have said we did kiss was amazing but she kept saying she needs time. So on the 25th March two months ago today.. I said after a fun night out where we going again she said she needs time.. I was quite emotional after a few beers and said I can't go ib like this.. And said I can't be friends with you.. I really did struggle to let go although I didn't ask her out again I sent a few funny video whatsapp messages... And on the 14th April we cut ties completely and have unfortunately seen her again one night out two weeks later where she was with another guy. That was painful to see oh my goodness was at the dance club we often went to.. So yeah I have learned a lot but it's been very painful lessons.. But I did get closer then I have ever before with a woman... Just my insecurities and lack of confidence caused her to lose interest.. Although one night out I did prevent a pool fight happening oi that was awkward but I calmed down the situation at least.. She would of appreciated that I'm sure..
Exactly what I'm gong through! Fuck!
How does one “hook up” when a woman is a 33 year old virgin?
Peter Parker need to leave Mary Jane Watson alone lol
Just dont have time to deal with women in the way instructed.
"The best way to get someone's attention is to remove yours". True, except when her interest level is low. Then the best way to be forgotten and not get any attention any more, is to "remove yours" (remove your attention).
Actually, I’m female and what her actions and words are saying is, “if you like me what are you waiting so long to see me. I’m sitting here waiting and you’re acting like a guy who only wants booty call once a week when you feel horny.” Women want marriage, extreme commitement, kindness, chilvary, etc.
😂😂😂
Why would you want a girl who's possibly hooking up with a bunch of other dudes, what a turn off 🤮