HOW & WHY I MOVED TO GERMANY/STARTED YOUTUBE
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Opening up to you guys!
I have been getting a lot of negativity (especially from women) which makes me sad that people can't be proud or happy for others and their lives. I have had a very fun and hard journey trying to make Germany my home/second home. I have tried to share my experiences with you guys and be as... "open" as possible without showing too much and keeping some things for myself.
I just wanted to give you guys a little reality check of what it was like during my 3 years and the years prior to actually coming to Germany because everyone seems to think it has only been daisies and sunshine during my Germany journey. Don't get me wrong, I would not change anything BUT just letting you know that not everything has been handed to me on a silver platter during my stay in Germany as so many people like to think.
I hope if you are going through something like I went through and are wanting to leave PLEASE do. You won't regret it and no matter what... PUSH THROUGH and never give up!!
A little zusammenfassung of this video: How my idea came about to move to Germany, why I moved to Germany, everything I have been through since day 1 and all my personal rants that I could possibly have in one video. PLUS it's a long video so hopefully you kept up :D
If you like personal videos like this please let me know in the comment sections, I have a bunch of story times I could tell you guys!
ANDDD if you have gotten this far... Comment: I really like cheese on my pickles (it's our little secret).
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How old are you?
26
Where are you from?
Florida
Where do you live?
Munich, Germany
love yall
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Thank you everyone for the positive comments. It means a lot and to see how supportive you guys are. I am so thankful and happy that you guys are still here and are still tagging along ❤️ Love y’all!!!
P.s. the best way to help is by liking and sharing the video!!
Hayley Alexis hi there. You know what, by this video, you might have inspired and influenced people out there positively, who might be struggling with things, with their work, life, etc. You have come a long long way and still there is a lot to achieve. I really appreciate the efforts that you put in your videos. I wish you all the success and happiness. Keep hustling. Have a good one. :)
ohh you are working fro one room to the other one (yes mike is still not a german e is baverian)
+Rahul Rathee It's not "you might have inspired and influenced people out there positively" .
Hayley HAS a positive influence period.
That's why I'm allways happy when I see that see she puts out a new video.
She radiates more positivety then Tschernobyl radiates dangerous shit.
And I say that as a grumpy old middle aged man, who never fitted in society like others did.
She has bigger balls then a lot of men that are so called tough guys.
Why, you might ask, because she is way more intelligent then she knows she is, and she
never ever used the victim/race card to get something done.
Mike knows Hayley is his winning lottery ticket, but he might not know that the ticket
found him.......
Enjoy; th-cam.com/video/1N8BYNMMjqU/w-d-xo.html
Aww, Hayley
Thank you for this honest video. Really inspiring I am now in Germany too for 7 months and it was (is) nerve wrecking. Constant fight for place under the sky, discrimination, disappointments and fear. But it is like that, it will brake you or make you.
It sounds like I did the same thing just reversed the Countries. I was born and raised in germany and went to the states as Au Pair because it was the simplest way of going there and making a little bit of money and have a roof over your head. Same thing, didn't seem to fit in my own culture too well, ended up in a family in the states that was pure soap opera worthy, moved out and was essentially homeless. A good friend took me in for a week then I did another stint as Au Pair for 5 weeks and went home to Germany but not before I met a guy. A few month later I came back to the USA, got married, moved around a lot within the United States, got divorced and still live here. Life in the states seems SIMPLER. I don't know how else to describe it. My entire family is still in Germany but I don't think I will have move back. Don't give me wrong I am a very proud German and love a lot of things there. When I go back to visit I am excited and miss my life in Germany but once I am there I miss my life in the States . I feel like I belong neither here nor there. BUT, besides a few sad days of not knowing where I belong I am very happy with my life I wouldn't change much at all. I am unsure how long you have been in Germany but I have been in the States now 19 Years. It took about 5 Years for me to enjoy it. :)
See, we need people like you in Germany to make it a better place.
You learned our language in a ridiculous short time and you worked so hard to fit in. Just look how far you have come. Be proud of yourself! :)
PS: I really like cheese on my pickles (well, not really actually😝) :D
HEHEHEHHEH THE CHEESE & PICKLES WILL WIN.
I try my best when going to a new country/culture to learn as much as possible, sometimes I fail but atleast I try.
cheese and pickles, that's a good combination , gurkies and raclette cheese woosh that's a real winner
I'm German and I feel bad about what happened to you in your Au Pair family.
I don't think I could have been able to stay in Germany after such an experience.
Is there no Au Pair organisation overseeing this?
This should be illegal.
You can be proud of yourself to have overcome this.
I am pretty sure it is illegal BUT I did not know that at the time
What happened???
Learning the tough way is sometimes the best way. Great video, being honest is the way to go. Love your videos
I agree with you! Genau( Exactly) ! Dankeschön Thank you very much.
I love your videos! I can’t believe how much you’ve been through and still want to stay in Germany! But that’s just a testament to your character. This was my most fave video youve done in a very very long time. Thanks!!!!
Thank you Karen :D
I never commented on your videos but I would like to say I watch your videos regularly. As a single mom of four who went through hard times myself I can kinda sense how people are and you are a great one. Hard times makes or breaks people and it definitely made you - you are great the way you are - keep going!
So much respect my friend ❤️
Antoinette Emily ❤️💯👍
Thank you so much for the love you guys!!
Hayley Alexis just so you know there is nothing wrong with you. You are a strong woman with a healthy attitude. I was irritated when I heard that some people call you a bitch. So maybe it'll help you to watch this TED video: th-cam.com/video/OUmFdTHTD8M/w-d-xo.html
Have a great day! ❤️
Hayley Alexis proud of you girl 🙌😍
Just found your videos Hayley, so enjoyable. Best wishes and keep following your better angels to where you feel a sense of belonging. Your story is so similar to another YTber channel Amby Cakes, who vlogs about being a Californian living in Australia. Also a bumpy journey, but now she is expecting a baby, due in August, with her Australian guy and very happy. Good luck girl!
Up and moving to another country is super hard (I've done it twice and doing it again in September 2019). Anyone that moves to another country, especially not knowing anyone is something to be proud of! So I'm proud of you!
Thank you so much!!!
So how did you move to the new country go?
you're one of the most authentic youtubers that i've come across so far. ok i haven't come across so many but seriously: the way you speak into the camera is actually like you're speaking to US and that's a natural talent. i wish you much more success on your way. and i don't worry cause you're doing so well. thanks for sharing your experiences with and in this my country, it's always interesting for a german 😁
I’m glad you shared this back story, many people tend to forget the struggle or hide that side when living abroad. I joined the military solely because I wanted to travel and was not going to sign the dotted line unless I got Germany. Once i moved back after I got out of the Army things got real but I did have support from my ex. You’re a trooper. I think you come off and down to earth. I think people who feel intimated by you tend to say things like you are stuck up- I’ve gotten that in real life a lot. Macht weiter so!!! Hopefully I get to meet you at Oktoberfest this year when I move to Bayern.
This is actually amazing to hear. As someone who has just graduated and wanting to pack everything and leave, moving is my dream but a huge source of anxiety too. I've heard so many TH-camrs just get extremely lucky, who went to Germany with no plan and no job who somehow got by. But that's not everyone, and hearing your story really helps me. If you have any tips on how to budget in Germany, that would be amazing.
Whats your ig i want to do the same thing and move to germany maybe we can help each other in terms of language, culture, and jobs/rent. I wanna study and work
@@xxvielkaswagxx it's @wcnderlvst ! :-)
This was awesome and very genuine
das wichtigste im leben==> mach was *du* willst, nicht das was andere meinen was du machen sollst.
So happy TH-cam brought me to this video! I just booked a one way flight. No plans, No job, No schedule and absolutely needed to hear all of this! Thank you!!!!!
Great honest video. Thanks for sharing your experiences 😊👍🏽
Jennifer Morgan thank you Jennifer!!!
I didn't know any of these things. Particularly bad is the au pair family in Munich that kicked you out and told you to leave within four hours, after which you basically were homeless. What was this family thinking? This is so bad.
Great what you've accomplished, and your German is really good (though native speakers can tell you've leaRRRRRned it in Bavaria ;) ). Keep it up!
Magellan I think the Bavarian R is the funniest part 😂🙈
Literally your story is the same as mine but I went to Morocco when I graduated. I was close minded too about it. I am also from Florida and I just wanna live an awesome life
Congrats on three years in Germany! I lived in Karlsruhe from age 12-16 and I can say right around the three year mark is really when I started to figure things out and really embrace Germany. I have the best memories from those times and of course I was devastated when we had to come home to the states.
I always wanted to know if you had a degree what exactly you were doing in Germany. I don't have a degree and I struggle a lot too... Thanks for the honesty, some expats that only show how easily they adapt and how well they are doing and never show the ugly parts are just unrealistic. I also came here with a very closed mind and not wanting to learn the language, but Germany has changed me a lot and i feel the same as you, maybe in my home country I had an easier life, and could have finished my education... I still think moving made me grow in other aspects and I became a person that I like way better than the one before. I also always wanted to travel and life a full life. I grew up in a middle-class family where traveling was just impossible and something I could do only later in life and I don't regret it. I also like cheese on my pickles ;) Best of luck to you Hayley, you are the most charming and lovely person I know and I really enjoy your videos, you are really cute!
As someone who just moved to Germany and is having a hell of a horrible first couple of weeks, this video really helped make me feel not alone. Having some very similar experiences as yourself. Thanks for giving me some hope it will get better. :)
Dear, thank you so much for your honesty and humble being. You really irradiate positivenes and you have such a great mimik! I wish you all the luck and happiness for your further live in Germany together with Mike.
That ending made me smile. I have discovered you a while ago, but got subscribed only a few month ago because to watch your fun personality and hear you talk, especially with Mike, is so soothing to me. Good luck on your way 💝
Wow, Hayley, you are strong and your perseverance is admirable. 👏🏼👏🏼 I understand what it’s like to come from limited means and have to fight and really”earn” everything in life with zero being handed to you (including your parents - no safety net, no financial support, etc). Thanks for sharing and know that you are very brave and have accomplished what many people will never be able to do. Keep up the hard work and you’ll go far!!
You are amazing, smart & intelligent! Don't know why this made me tear up. Maybe because I went/go through the same things here but my personal growth has been my greatest push!
Being able to reflect and see your growth should honestly be the biggest push for anyone and their life.
You deserve so much credit and you are an inspiration. I cannot imagine how you felt being homeless in another country but you stuck it out and didn’t take the easy way out by returning to the states.
Hayley your strength and perseverance is honestly so inspiring! I have been following your videos for a few months now as I've been learning the language and have an interest in the country. I am so glad I found your videos! I didn't know that this was your journey, I just watched this and (while I've always liked you) I look up to you even more. Good for you for staying there and standing up for yourself! xo Love from Canada ☺️
Hayle you should be proud of yourself. I am proud of you and the growth that you have shared. Don’t give up your dream. You are strong and courageous.
I’ve had similar experiences while going to school in Japan, not having money to eat everyday, sleeping in a park cuz I didn’t have money to get home, walking 4 hours and 20 mins to school cuz I had to take finals it’s been extremely hard and painful and lonely at time but I working through it.
I appreciate hearing your stories God Bless You, people are weird when it comes to “famous people” stay safe, happy and healthy.
Wow, this video was very emotional. Moving to South Korea as an English teacher was really hard for me, but I never struggled financially because the government made sure I got paid on time. I had the desire to quit and go back to the states almost every week. My friends from back home dropped like flies. Moving abroad is hitting a reset button.
meeting such a genuine and hard working person like you would be an honor
You're really a strong person that you could make it through this hard time at the beginning!
Compliments !!!
I know by my own how hard it is to show such weaknesses and downfalls in your life.
And even more to show this on TH-cam to the whole world.
My deep respect!!!!!!!!!!
Hayley, you have ALWAYS recieved RESPECT AND LOVE from me, and you will ALWAYS get it.. I`ve always admired people who are brave and like to go againt the grain. Like you. Each person chooses how he or she wants or should be defined. Experiances make you stronger and better as a person. You learn as you get older and wiser. I for one, due to the family circumstances that brought me back to Germany, when I was 14, used to HATE this country with a passion for the longest time. But now, at 42, and after alll the storms that I stood thru in my life, AND ALSO thru your channel, I have been able to appreciate life in Deutschland a lot better these days. So.. thank you, Hayley,
I had a similar experiance as yours just in another country 20 years ago always thinking i could find myself somewhere else rather than in my home. I'm happy that you are happy and proud. Such a strong woman!
Hayley, I watched your video! Oh my Gosh...I love your honesty and you being real about your reality while living in Munich, Germany and transitioning into the person you are today. You sharing your story was better than reality TV! And I know...I know. Your reality was real because it really happen. As you were sharing your story, you painted this picture that I could see in my mind. Anyhow, I'm glad you shared your story because you let viewers know, life isn't going to be easy but if you are determined to move away and out of any environment that you don't feel like you fit it in, its time to GO! BIG PROPS to YOU! And like Frank Sinatra said, "I'll do it my way". BAHAHA!! I had a mouth full of banana and BUSTED OUT LAUGHING and was like HELLL YEAH after you said that. It was sincere, honest, and genuine. And those 3 characteristics made me subscribe to your post.
You're amazing Hayley! People are disturbed out there, but you're rocking life and are an amazing person inside and out.
this is the first video i watched from you Haley. i dont know when it was or at what point i joined you channel. its been years for sure. you are my comfort watch. after all these years i still tune in. your journey and development give me a lot of perspective. that we are the makers of our lifes, our growth and our reality. i look forward to the next years and what you will do with yourself, especially now that you’re back in the usa. you are a force. rė beccsen, 2024.
First of all, you have great energy and I appreciate your honesty. I came to Germany 2 years ago, working relocation but my time to leave is drawing close and I don't want to leave. I truly love Germany and Europe on a whole, so I do understand your sentiment...Please don't let the haters and nay sayers disturb your groove, You Will Do Just Fine!
Your energy, and strength, are amazing. 💯🌿
I discovered your channel 3 days ago and I am already addicted to it. You are so funny and honest and refreshing. And your German is really good (but funny). Today I saw this video and this makes me understand much better why you do what you do and what you have been through and how you talk about certain things. I am glad you live in my home country and you like it enough to stay for a while. I have also been to the US and I like that too. Minus a few things :-) Anyway, this video beats all of your "fun stuff" that I have seen so far. It is also very courageous, in a way, which makes you even more sympathetic. So thanks a lot for sharing your laughs and your (sometimes crazy) thoughts with us. I enjoy them a lot.
This has been by far my most favorite videos of yours. This honesty and bravery of just telling this to the whole internet community. I know get even more where you're coming from and I'm happy for you that everything has turned out so well. You deserve all the possible happiness and sunshine on this planet and you can be VERY proud of yourself.
Love you Hayley, you seem like such a genuine person, Idk why people would pick up on anything else 😃 For me, it's the exact opposite, I went to college in Florida but now I'm back in Munich after 4 years and miss FL so much!
So I'd actually be curious to hear what your initial experience of Munich was like back when you were here the first time. And also, how you started looking at it in a more positive way. Probably a video that would attract people who want to misunderstand you, but hey, asking won't hurt 💝
Oh it was horrible and of course I found it to be beautiful and pretty, I was just unhappy and found it to be overwhelming. I could not speak the language and felt like I was failing at the language, did not have any friends so I associated loneliness with Munich. I guess once I was back in Florida and felt even more as an outsider I decided Munich was not so bad
Haley, you should be really proud of what you've achieved in recent years! No one else but you (and your family and friends who supported you) can be proud of it, anybody else didn't get through all those hardships and prevailed so gracefully - only you. But I have much respect - huge R E S P E C T! especially about your ongoing positive attitude and your engaging nature - therefore, and because of your entertaining, bubbly personality - I watch your videos!
You look like this video was really hard to make for you
But i really appreciate you did
To me it was really inspiring
Thank u for that
Peace and blessings to you Hayley. As a new a daily viewer of your channel I've taken in and continued to learn about German culture especially since I have an interest in heading there to continue my education. :D I commend and thank you on being vulnerable at expressing your experiences and struggles in the end to successfully make your way out there. This gives hope when I decided to make a move myself. What you are doing here on TH-cam is awesome. Alles gute für dich! 😁 YAAAAAAAAAAS!!!!
i'm so sad for your bad start in germany. i am a german girl and went to spain for being an aupair. i also had problems with the aupair family and felt very lost there. but after all spain is very close to germany and i've been there many times in my life, so i didn't feel that strange and bad. it must have been so bad for you being on another continent in a relatively foreign country experiencing this stuff. but i am so happy that you didnt leave, that you feel good right now and have fun in germany!! i love your videos hayley, you are an amazing person :) keep it up!
I’ve always had tremendous respect for you but now it’s increased to an exponential level. So proud of you Hayley. You’re an amazing person. Please always stay positive. Love you 🌸💖
What an honest video. Go on.
I am glad i just came across this video of your early time in Germany and how you got there. I've been following your vidoes for about 1 year and a half. And I love your insights and informations about Germany and the USA
We are proud of you too! Thanks for sharing your story ❤️
Du solltest unbedingt professionelle Vorträge halten, für Einwanderer, Au-Pairs, ausländische Firmen, kulturell interessierte Touristen, GIs, whatever. Allein deine Aura füllt jeden Saal, von deiner Persönlichkeit (und Hübschheit) mal ganz zu Schweigen :)
Warum muss man bei Frauen eigentlich immer in einem solchen Zusammenhang explizit auf ihr Aussehen abheben. Bei Männern macht man das doch auch nicht.
Martin Michaelis Darf man jetzt auch keine Komplimente mehr machen? Also ich würde das auch bei Männern machen. Hört sich an wie SJW Gerede. Nicht vergessen, dass es nur deine subjektive Beobachtung ist.
...ups, hatte schon wieder vergessen, dass wir in deutschland sind, wo (nicht sexistische) komplimente direkt unbeteiligte feministinnen auf den plan rufen -.- mal völlig davon abgesehen, dass es überhaupt nicht stimmt, frauen machen männern auch komplimente^^
Wen interessierts? Hayley ist eine traumhaft schöne Frau mit unglaublicher Ausstrahlung und Intelligenz. Ihr das zu sagen, wird sie nicht beleidigen. Dass sie noch kein Angebot vom BR hat, um dort als Moderatorin zu arbeiten, wundert mich. Sie würde alles mitbringen, was man (frau) dazu braucht.
BigDaneGermany
nice video
Thank you Hayley for sharing your story. I'm glad I happened upon your site. Viel Gluck und alles gute!
This was so beautiful to watch and also sad to listen to all that you went through and still persevering to staying in German. Thank you for sharing this information with all of us.
Never felt you had an easy time. I am sure you are a great person who appreciates everything you have in your life. Nonetheless, your hard work, patience, and growth should not be ignored. Hayley, look forward to more videos.
No thank you for everything!!! I’m planning on moving to Berlin in January!!! And I can’t wait and watching you videos really helps!!!
Thank you for sharing your story. I truly appreciate that! You’re a strong woman and you’re persistent. You will go far and do exceptionally well! ❤️Shamie
I love how honest and open you are.
I try :p
Thank you! Thank you so much...I started watching your videos when I started dating a German... you pointed put so much!! I'm going through a bad patch right now and just like you I want to travel! I really want to move to Germany and I thought your videos made it seem so easy. I still want too just embracing the mind for what is too come now in a healthy positive way😊😊😊
I have hugh respect because of your strength! 1000 Kudos für you! I'm happy for you, that you made it!
I really enjoy how honest you were during this video. I just stumbled across your channel earlier today and already have mad respect for you. To get where you are today didn't seem like an easy task. The best things in life or the things you may want will not always come easily. So you sticking with you gut and pushing through it was awesome! Wish you a long happy life in Germany :)
HAYLEY ive watched your vids for a very very long time. over a year. but this is the first vid where i really felt connected to you. we actually have so much in common. thank you for being so open! im also american and moving to germany in 2 months and im also getting out of a very toxic relationship and i know how it feels to live in a foreign country and struggling to learn the language etc etc. ive also always had that itch to leave my home state. anyway thanks again. much love!
True inspiration.😇 your video makes me strong and gives me hope to survive in my problems.😭.life is really unpredictable but patience and courage is needed..thanks for sharing your journey..GOD bless you more 💕
Just watched this... You are so strong. I am truly inspired. 💕 Keep up your beautiful, endless perseverance! Alles gut, Hayley!! 😘
Aw.... thanks Haley for open a bit of your heart to your subscribers! Well done girl!!!
I found this really inspiring. I'm someone who is planning to finally move to Germany, a dream I've had for years now, and although I don't have the best financial position right now, I've organized my life enough to where I have a good not great budget to devote to the big move. It's really great that you've been able to make your life the way that you wanted. I also feel like I have a successful social life, but there is something still alienating about American society. Thanks for telling your story. It gave me reassurance that I'm doing this for the right reasons and I'm also looking forward to the similar challenges and growth that lie ahead of me.
I'm happy that you are doing well and happy now 😊
You’re fucking amazing. I admire you so much. I thought you were cool already and you were one of the first YT I started watching before I moved to Germany. Your videos were another push for me to feel I could get here. And I’m here now and still love watching your videos. Strong Black Woman. I love seeing it!
Hey Hayley I dont know if it makes a difference but i like to watch your videos because you are real and honest when you describe your experiences. I dont want any sugar coating. Thank you for being an honest youtuber and sharing your story/ies.
I think you are so strong, humble and so genuine. You go, girl!
you have always come off as soooo sweet ! would never have thought anyone would think differently I would never have thought u had had a tough time,guess cause u were always so happy in your videos,and you r so beautiful ,seriously thought it was easy 4 u. Great video.
It takes a lot of courage to keep moving on & fighting .
It’s amazing to see that there’s still people that don’t start working as a teacher etc due to the payment . You did it all on your own & you were all by yourself ? Respect . You really deserve all happiness & luck
Thank you for sharing!! Honestly if I could leave Germany (or at least the town I'm in) I probably would because it's not been a good match and it's taken me over a year and a half to have a stable situation and even now I don't have job security. But my situation is really complicated so I can't just up and leave for the foreseeable future.
All I can say (while staying private) is that there are definitely drawbacks to this country but that I also have specific circumstances so living in Germany is wildly different depending on your background and what/who you have to fall back on. I wish you luck!
Btw. I recently watched a documentary on families abusing their au pairs and basically treating them like slaves. Some of the workers from an au pair organization took care of such cases voluntarily. If you wanna do au pair: be extremely careful. You do not know the family you are going to work with and it is hard to fight for your rights when you don't know the language and culture.
So very true, it happens often! Very often and people like to abuse their power
Wow! This was not what I expected! I assumed that you were a foreign exchange student that loved Germany and wanted to return. Your experience is so moving. You never know how strong you are until your back is against the wall. You are funny, smart, courageous and a resilient woman! You took a lemon and made a lemon cake! 😁I thoroughly enjoy your videos and when your return to filming I will continue to support your channel! 💯✔️😁
Hayley, your story is truly inspiring! Thank you for sharing your experiences!
Hayley, ich mag deine Videos so gerne, aber dieses hier ganz besonders. Du bist ein wahnsinnig inspirierender Mensch ❤
Shine on you "crazy" Diamond!
Thanks for sharing pieces of your personal life with us. Yes, you've been brave, girl! I can understand the feeling of not belonging and having to do everything by myself. That's hard but that can make us better individuals too. I wish you all the best. May God or life lead you to where your heart is. Keep being positive and transmitting such good energy.
Well done, Hayley! We all grow from setbacks in our lives. Always be that positive soul!
What a wonderful attitude! Travelling around the world and experiencing how life goes on this planet makes you getting open-minded. That's a gift for life! I like watching your videos - thanks for sharing them :-)
Great Video Hayley😍😘👜👍👍👍
Hayley you are an inspiration to me. I think you are so brave for pushing through to pursue your dreams.
I probably never will understand the hardship you went through, but as someone who is living in a poor country and wants to live in Germany, I hope I will be as brave as you.
You don't have to worry about the people that doesn't like you Hayley I love you from the very beginning I saw your video preparing to be an Au Pair I can feel your struggle before gosh and that homeless event how the wife treated you before I feel so bad.. I love you your a great person and I'm proud of you kisses 😘😘😘
I appreciate your personal transparency. Hopefully you didn't feel compelled to share your experiences because of commenters opinions but rather because you wanted to reveal more of yourself to your viewers. Do you feel like you fit in Germany?
You are right to be proud of yourself. But what is worth even more is that after all you have been through you know how strong you are. The selfconfidence you that is granted by that when others whose lifes where always easy get stuck in fear is the most valuable thing.
Hayley from watching your videos I can tell that you have a lot of spirit and soul, and that's the main reason I watch them regularly - even though they are not targeted at people like me-. it's because they are so enjoyable, even when you talk about not-so-pleasant stuff. Of course being a German teacher, it's also interesting to me comparing your story to what other Ausländer have experienced living here. I will recommend your video channel to all my students from overseas. Just keep those videos coming. Alles Gute, Klaus
Congratulations and thanks for sharing! Mike is so lucky!!! What a wonderful young lady you are!!
Hayley, I just felt your words. ♥️ You are so worth loving! I appreciate you for courage living in Germany and your growth as human being. You can be so proud of yourself and I’m happy for you and Mike - that our ways crossed. P.S. Different is beautiful. Follow what makes your heart and soul happy, always. Sending good vibes and much love your way.☀️♥️ - J.K.
Alles wird gut Hayley, du gehst deinen Weg. ;)
Und ich habe überhaupt kein Problem damit, wenn du private Dinge für dich behältst. ;)
Und ich kann deine ersten Erfahrungen mit Deutschland/München nachvollziehen, wenn man sich in's kalte Wasser stürzt wie du.
Man kann sich alles erlesen, anschauen, erfragen usw., aber die Realität ist dann doch ganz anders als man dachte.
I am actually really proud of you!
Keep fighting for what you want girl! You deserve all the good things coming your way ❤❤
Amazing testimony!! Even though u probably didn’t intend for it to be. I relate to ur story because I moved from where I’m from in the states to achieve a dream and gave up on it and went back. I succumbed to the downside of things not progressing as fast as I thought. You stuck it out and now making vlogs of it. My interest in Germany brought me here cause America right now is not as free nor amazing to me.. I am puttin all my eggs in a basket to visit Germany 🇩🇪 in hopes of living there. THANK YOU!!! For ur story, and it helped a lot!! New subscriber!
Wooow.... very interesting story, thank you Haley! You are such a beautiful person. And I don't understand how people can misperceive your character, but I can only think it's because of cultural differences. Anyways, the other day I stubbled across one of your 1000 videos for the first time & I loved it. You are so bubbly, play full, entertaining & informative in presenting your videos. I love it! This particular one here caught seriously my attention, just because I'm German living in America. My story is so similar in a way it's ridiculously scary... My point is I completely understand your intentions & what you went through. I am happy for you that u have mastered this at a young age totally on your own & inexperienced. What a courages young lady. Now look at you ! It feels so good to hear someone that understands cultural differences & the difficulties. Most of the people I'm around don't understand & they don't have a clue what it takes. The other thing is, Im actually not a TH-camr & I have never written a comment before :), but here I am writing an essay ....so much to your power.... lol :) Continue to be who you are & what you do. Much Love !!!
I love that you tell us your story, I understand many aspects and I am glad that you like Germany now and also feel good while beeing here :)
Great Video! I love your enthusiasm! My Sister and I are Americans living in Germany! We love it here!
This is coming from someone much older than you Haley. You are wise beyond your years and that's a beautiful thing. Keep on reaching for the stars. Vielen Dank!
Ernest Rodgers I second that
Wow! You are always so sweet on your videos,🧡so a bit shocked some people think otherwise.
I cannot say how proud I am of you. Honestly hearing you say that you do not regret your worst expierences and instead used them and learned from them just shows what an amazingly strong person you are. And how mature and wise these experieces made you. I can confirm this for you too. :) Truth: Just hearing you talk in your videos showed me how openminded, intelligent and witty you are and what a great sense of humor you have. You are not afraid to state your opinion yet do so in a very nice and openminded manner. I still can not get over why someone would call you the b word and mean it! I've never heard such bullshit.
Anyone who dislikes Hayley has issues! She is awesome I watch lots of her videos. If you dislike them refrain from disrespectful comments she is speaking in an educated way and in a joyous manner. Hayley continue being positive i love it