How To Stay Married (So Far) #4 : Lets Talk About Sex
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ก.ค. 2024
- It's time to talk about the issue everyone shies away from - Sex! Are men really from Mars and Women from Venus or is the truth that are perceptions of sex and intimacy in a relationship aren't that dissimilar? You're going to have to watch to find out!
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I bloody love you two. So open and honest. I’m sure you are helping a lot of people. Maybe Nadia and Kaye could do a podcast on friendship?
Please do more of these, the dual perspective on relationships you offer is so necessary. Mark's insightful remarks resonate with me. Keep it up!
I've just watched all your podcasts and am so inspired. Love how warts and all you two are.
I'm loving this new series of vlogs, very insightful and entertaining at the same time!
The ribbon story is just beyond comprehension! How could anyone think a woman would be impressed with that or see that as a gift?! My deepest sympathies to your producer's friend!
Lastly, Nadia, the point you made about the gender ratio amongst viewers of this vlog was an interesting one, you said you inferred from the >90% of women who make up the total audience that it means women are more keen to work at their relationships. I think there is some truth to this, men are bothered about relationships but generally in a different way. I've noticed lots of relationship advice vlogs on TH-cam aimed at men around how to 'get the girl' whereas the vlogs targeted towards women by self-proclaimed dating gurus focus on 'keeping the guy'. Some might argue this goes back to basic biology and the differences between the sexes. Perhaps for some men at least, once they've 'got the girl' they think they can relax and not continue trying to win her over throughout the relationship. Of course I should caveat all this by saying people are people and we probably shouldn't reduce everyone to gender stereotypes, however tempting it may be!
I’ve always loved you Nadia, and this is the 1st podcast I’ve watched - you two are amazing and I’m now binge watching a real couple thank you x
Mark is hilarious! OMG...and so honest
You two are so amazing and love how honest and open you are ☺️ x
I hope you are still doing these, they are very good.
Oh Mark you are one in a million and not all men are you! My hat a man who talks about feelings! How utterly refreshing you are amaze balls seriously Nadia hold tight babe xxx
You both are great. Mark thanks so much for the male perspective.
Just catching up on some of your podcasts. So helpful. Ive had no sex for 12 years of my 22 year relationship. Its damaged my confidence and self esteem massively. I am leaving this relationship in 3 weeks time💛
I love open and honest dialogue between you two. As a woman I am always intrigued by the male mind. It's always interesting to talk about the differences between the two sexes because they do exist. I've spilt up with a partner before due to lack of affection and his argument was that it's hard for him to know what to do. Truly an engaging conversation.
Loved this birds n bees chat. 🐣🐥✨❤️✨🌾🐝...... 💨
Women so need to feel appreciated for this even to be on the table. But such a good point Mark, I totally agree loving sex is a wholistic part of intimacy. How can we cultivate affection in every day life so we all feel treasured, not have that used or misused, and for sex to be loving for both partners each and every time... a lifelong quéstion.
I feel sorry 4 the ribbon😃😃😃😃😃....how have i missed this????......these vids r bloody gems.... mark.........your 1 hell of a man!!!!!!!!........i do wonder if you havent had your troubles........wud you still have been soooo evolved????.........nadia you got it all.....beauty heart..funny....real......and you got mark!!!!!!!☆☆☆☆☆☆😉😉👍👍👍💜💖💕💜💕💖💜👍👍
Spot on!!
You have to be attentive to your partners needs whether it be helping them round the house or caring for them when they're ill.
My partner of nearly 16 years lacks attentiveness, ignores me most evenings to watch tele and doesn't help. I want sex but not with him, when he's like this I'm out off him both physically and emotionally.
+Nadia and Kaye I used to do that but he’s just so inattentive that he probably wouldn’t read it properly or take it in, and although he may change for a few days, he’d soon slip back again.
We were very young when we met and I always thought that by now he’d improve but he’s actually got worse at everything and hasn’t so much as bathed or dressed the children in years. He goes to work comes home and lies there all evening and has a go at me if the house is untidy.
Trouble is that the lack of caring makes me accuse him of doing things behind my back which adds tension, but I need a proper relationship, someone to care for me and look out for me and he just doesn’t give me anything to be happy about right now, the only time we talk is when I’m listening to him talk about work or bloody football,It’s like being with a brick wall and is very lonely.
I think I will write one last letter though because it’s become make or break time for us now. Thanks Nadia x
Love that ..."some of them are" 😂
Love each podcast U do - could u talk about anxiety and your marriage ? As I struggle immensely with my mental health and would like to hear your opinions on if anxiety has a negative or positive effect on your marriage ? Does it in fact make someone more loveable ? ? Or what ? By the way I adore u both x
Mark should cut his hair like this again , he looks so handsome
Mark you were very funny in this ......... 😃😃😃
This is very unrelated and a bit late because I was hoping to be anonymous/not draw attention from any subs( but at the same time hope that you see my comment.)I listened to your podcast about pornography and as someone who lost their virginity violently and without consent I can’t tell you how liberating, refreshing, and healing it was for you two feminist voices speaking out about the harm and harsh reality of porn. I only wish I could have heard your podcast as a teenager because you have so much wisdom and excellent advice that I was never taught at school. I was completely ignorant about sex. They should invite you to talk in schools because that podcast was everything - teenagers and parents should listen. I was very isolated and blamed myself for what happened to me, but passionate feminist voices like yours which deal with issues of consent and the negative repercussions of porn and violence on society. I can’t recommend the podcasts enough 5 stars ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️👍
I am 63 years old and haven’t wanted sex since the menopause. My partner is 67 and has very little sex drive due to the effect of the medication he is on. However, this has not affected the love we have for each other and the fun we have together. I believe though that if one of a couple loses sexual desire and the other doesn’t then problems may occur.
Mark's such a great guy
Utterly brilliant stuff! Me and my ex broke up four months ago. Am literally a lower class Patrick Melrose minus the drugs plus the booze! You two are literally THE BEST FUCKING COUPLE IN THE WORLD! xxx
Makes me want to vomit to Mark 🤣😂! Love you 2 x
Shagtastic podcast!
I'm a dude and this is really interesting haha
Women go through so much I think that if they go off sex for a while the husband should be more considerate . Or visa versa there must be a reason tired , a bit body conscience , kids , or just general don't feel like it. But some men just want a quicky after a day's work where's the old fashion warm up gone it's just so rushed as you get older and had kids I think take time to go back to when you first met we were all at it like rabbits 🐰🐰 weren't we make time for each other and it does come back .
But I'd never go off and would be heart broken if my husband went off just for sex
btw, im a guy, and i watch all your stuff. but dont comment a lot. maybe women just comment more :)
Ido not drink and my husband has had sex in3year because he had a stroke
I’m a male who else I feel like I’m the only one
He is not telling the truth. He only says things that he thinks she wants to hear.