Women Don’t Want Kids MEN DO
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I was arguing with a guy about the whole childfree/legacy thing. He was telling me that I was selfish for not wanting a legacy and I asked him what his great grandmother's name was. Then he got all mad
😂🤣😆 I’m screaming 😂😆🤣 Shut that shit down QUICK….
Girl I started bussing up laughing lmaoo
Idk my great grandmothers name on my father side. My grandmother was a slave, was bought with money and brought to America by her ex before my grandfather. She had 16 children and my dad was like the 14th. He is a lot older than my mom. So naturally idk if I would have ever met my Great Gran on my dads side. My great grandmother on my mom side name is Elizabeth.
I’ve made that argument so many times
😂 😂 😂 😂 😂 😂
They overhype marriage out of desperation.
B/c they need a host to suck life force from.
@@attitudeproblem6462 😂😂😂😂 why does that sound so true.
And they don't even wana get married. They just holler abt marriage in order to string women along.
If something is overhyped, usually it is trash.
Nothing but facts here! 😎
I knew at the age of 8 that I never wanted children. I’m turning 43 this month. I’ve stood on business and principles since. 😂😅😂 #childfree
Snap!! I knew from around 8/9 that I didn't want kids (basically as soon as I found out what my body was capable of). I'm in my early 40s now and have not changed my mind even for a nano-second!
Same here and about to be 32 people get annoyed and feel a way. “ you kno you’re getting old soon and can’t have any” I say “ I said a million times I’m not having any”!
Proud of you!👏🏿 🥰🎉🙌🏿🎊
Decided the first thing I need to have a kid is a desire to be a mom...38 and still repelled by the very thought 😂 same with finding a man I can tolerate. My poor ~legacy~
🫡so proud of you woman.
This is my goal to😊
Lineage vs legacy. They dont even know the difference.
Or they do and hope to confuse low level thinking women into having their spawn.
@@searching8848 Exactly
@@88QueenOfHeartsFacts
Big facts
These men and not knowing the difference between legacy and lineage 😭 it gets me every time 💀
💯 😂😂😂
Every single timeee omg
Isn’t it hilarious. “I I got to have kids cause cause I need to leave a legacy” 😂😂😂😂😂
@@chinaking918 right like babes 😭 you're referring to lineage. Legacy is the name you make FOR YOURSELF. And I wish they knew that so at least their arguments make a little more sense💀🙏🏾
@@user-cn1ci5bu2t there arguments NEVER make any sense bc they move the goal post every chance they get in order to make the narrative better sounding to their personal needs.
Why would I screw up my life to be a wife or mother and go into mental health issues 😂No please
Lmaooo
Right? nothing about being a servant is appealing to me
You don't want to mule your life away for a man and kids? Shame on you 😂😏...go live your best life sis.
Some of us are working on the mental health issues that the previous generation saddled us with in the first place. SMH!
Best comment I’ve ever read
My daughters were talking on FaceTime and one is going through a breakup so my other daughter said something about how useless seeds are compared to the land they’re planted, she said you can buy seeds at the $ store but you can’t buy land there 😂 wtf 😂
I'm fucking crying 😂
Your girls have already won in life! congrats to them
DAAAYUUUMMMMM THATS A BARRR
You raised them RIGHT😂😂😂😂
Just compare how much sperm cost in sperm bank and how much surrogacy cost.
I can’t believe that these men try to pressure those women to have children.
But it’s not all that bad thankfully, my man for example doesn’t want to have children and we are both confused why would anyone pressure women to have them, just find a woman who wants children and leave childfree woman alone.
There are also men there who say, I love you too much to put you through that risk, since it is still risky to have children, you still can die from it even today
Men don’t actually want kids either, otherwise they’d actually be the ones taking care of them.
My older-Boomer mother thought it was so tragic that their line ended, since neither my brother nor I had kids. Both of us thought the same -- we didn't have want kids, and we didn't want to pass our genes or trauma along. Family line? It's a line of addiction, child abuse, sexual violence and p*dophilia, and su*cide. I'm glad I'm ending the family line. It needs to end.
You need to prioritize yourself so that is great.
💯 People act like they are passing on something great but monst times is just toxic patterns and generational trauma
@@daebak_hanaTHIS. 💯
Generational curses and karma.. I understand.
Wow! What a brave and thoughtful stance to take.
What gets me is that a lot of these men don't actually want to be consistent, present, active fathers. What they WANT is to:
-be able to show the world they can make babies
-slow a woman down and restrict her freedom
-maintain access to a woman for access to her home, body, resources, etc, even if he's not adding anything to HER or his child's life
YOU SAID IT 🎯
💯 They want children to put on a show
@@Gmhfseyhbyou mean show ponies until they have a consciousness ✨👉
That's why women should give their kids THEIR LAST NAME . Mine has mine.
This is exactly why they want children. Correct.
Legacy… go ahead and name all four of your great grandparents… I know I can’t 😂 they didn’t have a legacy and nor will 99% of people. Legacy is an overused word that people don’t know the meaning of. People who have legacy are written in history, and it may not be a positive legacy. Most of us will just live our lives and expire one day, that’s ok 💕
The male version of a MLM... Legacy in lineage! 😏 Perfect break down! 👏👏
Shit a lot of people can’t name they grandpappy😂
I can't even name all four of my great grandparents, I don't know what they look like, sound like, act like, what they favorite color is😂😂😂. We all gonna die and not know each other one day anyway what the difference.
Even if you have kids you aren't assured a eternal memory . You will eventually be forgotten like so many before you
Big boy really just said choose better 🙄 men always think their thoughts are so revolutionary
Then contradicted himself and said men want women who aren’t old
@@nwalden5744
Yup HYPOCRITE. Someone needs to tell him to go find a tree to talk to and leave womenn alone.
'Men' 🐻🥂🐱
He straight up contradicted himself while rambling and sounding like a Nom-select-incel/weight/ coupled with Red Pill ideology content. I see why no one is selecting him.
Yes we do choose better by choosing our girlfriends and stay single 😂 men suck.
For bw this means dating out, divesting and or decentering bm. Vetting bm doesn't work, the majority are dusty as hell.😊
The young women are waking up earlier and earlier in life.
Congratulations! Live the life YOU want on YOUR terms.
I’m CF at 48 and also an artist. My work is in museums, magazines, etc so I have a legacy. People will know who I am and what I created a thousand years from now.
Men and children are an OPTION. Build yourselves up first and let men meet us where we’re at, or not. ❤
Love it
obsessed
@firesilver: absolutely!
MONEY HAS BEEN THE ULTIMATE CHEAT CODE FOR LOSER MALES.
Dang lol this comment
If men had to be pregnant for 9 months, then breastfeed while healing, and doing 99.99% of ALL the childcare AND housework all day literally every single day.....
for the next foreseeable future.....
They wouldn't want kids at all!
These men don't want children. They want you to have children, and all of the responsibilities of them, while they do as they please.
There would be no “legacies” and we’d already be extinct 😂
Women haven't had a choice to be one of many wives of concubines. I HATE how people make women's participation in these relationships 'consensual' these women were forced to be 2nd,3rd, 4th etc wives. Women weren't choosing this.
I know these men act like THEY weren't the ones setting all of this shit up. So annoying.
Right those women were literally being sold into marriage with no concent.
This!!!
The guy was a little bit all over the place. I agreed and disagreed at times but the part where he said it’s not shocking that men are attracted to younger women because their faces are smoother etc, it’s like they don’t get that they’re advertising that we’re objects. Sure a 40 yr old can be physically attracted to a 20 yr old but you’re not mentally attracted to them. You have nothing in common. That’s why it’s off putting. Also the older I get the more 18 to 25 yr olds look like actual children to me so I’m more suspicious of men like that now.
I'm 27 and the 21 year olds look like kids. Completely agree and for a personal opinion 5-7 year age gap and over 18 only anything else and I start wondering. 🤔
@@courtneycherry5582 Yeah definitely. I got my own apt when I was 19 and my 40 yr old neighbor would hit on me. He brought beers over once and I was like I’m not old enough to drink. But I thought I was an adult and I thought he was just clueless thinking I’d like him but it’s not until now that I realize what a predator he was! Like sure I was responsible for my age but I was 19! That behavior is way too acceptable in our culture.
It’s like delusional to be complimenting a woman’s for being younger while being older with not so smooth skin yourself lmao
👍🏾 Especially now that we've learned that they literally still are children.
Funny how they forget to mentioned/realize that older men have wrinkles and most (young) women do not want to date visibly ageing men. 😅
They got rid of men having multiple wives because most men would never be able to compete with the popular rich man. So it's one man, one woman so more men can compete. Men think it's women who want monogamy, but it's really men who fought for it.
Men with multiple wives back in the day weren’t popular, they were just rich nepo brats with powerfully and wealthy fathers. Why would they be popular? Other men resent them for “hoarding” marriageable women, and women resent them for marrying other YOUNGER women and expecting the “old” wives to just accept that she has to make room for and play nice with the teenager your husband is porking in your own bed.
That makes more sense when you think about it. Men think it’s the top 1% that they are competing with but in reality they fought with other men for monogamy but now they are competing with women’s peace.
There's no such thing as surplus women because all it takes to get these women pregnant is one man. There can be however a surplus of men. Too many men in a society is destructive. You only need to look at countries like China and india to see tjis.
I said this years ago when I was 19. I’m 21 now.
I don't believe women would be "naturally monogamous" if it weren't socialized into us.
I read about sperm competition and other things, Idk. I think some cave man got upset at some point and they started beating women into submission. 😂
The only thing this guy was right about is that if polygamy was the norm, then most women would rather be part of a rich guy's harem instead of being a broke man's one and only wife
True. Look at China. Emperors has 100s of concubines, while the average male died single with no kids.
Why do you assume it would but one rich guy with a harem of women? What about the one rich woman with a harem of men?
@@jessicascoullar3737because even having one h6usband is too much work. That’s why w4m4n don’t naturally gravitate towards many m4n. They are annoying.
100% 😂 I know I would
@jessicascoullar3737
I mean it could be, but us women honestly tend to just stay single when we learn that most men are simply draining us.
But you can go ahead and give guys their drizzle drizzle soft boy lifestyle if you want, I'm not stopping anybody.
Marriage is NOT a flex.
When you have been deprogrammed you are happier and see the truth
Men's lives get better and longer when they get married and have children
They benefit
I'm changed my name years ago and my dad went ballistic when i told him. The man was big mad. Took a lot of arguing for him to realise and understand that i am my own person with my own identity and i have the right to choose my own name
Did you change for first or last name? I assumed last name but you could also be a jr
Also at least he realized you’re your own person. My father LOVES to tell people I have a doctorate even though I met him for the first time when I was literally in grad school already. He genuinely wonders why I’m no contact with him 🙄
@@ccannon1 I changed both my first and last name. And I'm not a Jr at all. Realising that I am a human too was a lot for him to handle at first but he showed growth and understanding by the end of the argument. Not all men can put aside the me me me perspective for even a second. But it is possible when they actually listen to understand rather than listen to respond
@@naetrain that’s awesome, y’all both get to grow together as you both get older
@ccannon1 He has passed. So we won't continue to grow but I'm truly grateful that we were able to talk like regular people before he moved on. I don't have a heart filled with resentment and anger and that is more valuable to me than gold. I really hope you are able to better the relationships in your life even if it means cutting them off completely. I've cut off many myself and honestly it feels good saying goodbye to those who mistreated me and thanking them for what I've learned.
The kid defending his incel beliefs.. 🤮
I skipped most of his input
@@sharronmccombs1716same he wouldn’t shut up
Man this guy is just rambling…nothing he’s saying is making ABSOLUTELY NO SENSE at all ugh!!!!!🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️. He needs to just keep talking to his parents and get off social media
I think he wants multiple wives lol
Actually his talk was nice, he started with typical man ranblings and then brought through ancient history. So somehow he made sense.
I had a man tell me, "dont you dare do anything to your uterus" 💀💀💀 just because I said I wanted a hysterectomy and didn't want children
Wtf 🤦♀ that's creepy and stupid. It wouldn't even affect him
"None of your business, dude..."
Wtf it's your own organs
it’s the audacity to think that then SAY IT OUT LOUD, for me 🤣
Is he dense? There's nothing consensual under systems of patriarchal oppression.
I love being single
Ikr, the peace is sublime 🥰
Same. I'm glad I don't have to deal with this crap
As a childfree man, I get asked and told by other men who are fathers these things….
1. ”Don’t you want a legacy?”
2. “You are ending your last name!!!”
3. “You are killing your bloodline!!!”
My response is “I don’t know about you but that sounds pretty selfish to me!!!”
It’s insane. I got told I was a waste of a woman. People can be wild😂. Just ignore them.
@@chadguindon6909 the family name thing doesn't even make sense. There's tons of people with the same last name.
@@PandoraBear357 Finally! I wasn't gonna say it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I agree. Having kids just to have a legacy is selfish. How are your kids your legacy? Last I checked, no one gets elaborate recognition just for having kids when they die. Because literally anyone can be a parent.
Plenty of people that passed on and didn’t have kids have a well-known legacy. Your legacy is what people remember you for when you’re gone.
Noticed that is about the material aspect about having kids. They kids as objects! Also, what happens if your kids because a k1ller, grapist, p3dophile? Your legacy is what YOU do in your life. Not your kids.
What the fuck was that guy at 10:00 yapping about. Holy shit.
Wtf is a legacy? I'm not a part of a royal family. There's no such thing as a legacy if you're just a normie. And if you want to redefine a legacy as great work, a legacy is something like MLK Jr fighting for a cause. Not babies. Goddamn this legacy shit about popping out babies is so annoying
Exactly.
That’s what I’m saying! 😂How are these men talking about a legacy when they’re average citizens.
Exactly
Ladies, make your own wealth and you won't have to worry about it.
💯 💯!!!!!
Yup Wish everyone was financially good so they don't have to stress about money
Amen
@@shaypope4732
Education towards career is vital
Yes YES YES ❤❤❤❤100% YES
Women will continue having no kids, as long as the men don't step up. The happiest marriages these days are the ones, where the men also clean and cook at home, one parent wakes up and let's the other one sleep in and next day of the weekend for example it's the other way around. As long as men give the bare minimum raising kids and house chores and emotional labour, women will continue to opt out. Rightfully so. None of my friends who are happy and its actually 2 oy in my mind have hands on husbands and dad's and no she loves him and doesn't think less of him, because he vaccums the house.
@@ninal.743 The happiest families are not the ones where a man cleans and cooks. The happiest families pay someone else to clean.
But women want a man who pays
One of the guys just stated it as "a return to divine order" as in only the best men get to have wives and procreate ...not men who don't measure up.
💯
exactly. this is what nature intended. they also keep saying that the birth rate is declining. i say that it's correcting itself. there were never supposed to be this many people on the planet in the first place.
Yes but I don’t agree with one man many w4ves either because all of the w4m4n will be shortchanged in that case. And in the his5tory of the world less than 40% m4n p2assed on genes.
Nature is rebalancing itself, as it should be. Women are the custodians of Nature.
The "biblical" guy is full of it. "oH jUsT pIcK a GuY wHo CaN pRoViDe FoR yOu" and what happens when he stops wanting to?
Women get stuck with the kids. Forever. Then those kids grow up and they have grandkids and your watching your grandkids. It's never ending. 😂 ps. YES YOU CAN GIVE YOUR KID YOUR LAST NAME. YOU DONT HAVE TO BE MARRIED.
Some women do really want marriage and kids, and power to them. That said, I really don't understand why. Like, where is the appeal?
Knowing we don’t leave legacies sucks. I’m bout to change my name and publish a book 😅
It only sucks if you think you're so important that you should be remembered. Once you realize you are a spec of dust in an infinite universe, ego is dropped, it's smooth sailing.
As an Spanish woman that was always a thing I couldn’t understand about the English. I get my mom’s and dad’s surnames, it used to be dad first mom second surname, but you can alter the order and many women put their mom’s surname first! Making whole matriarchal lines sometimes
@@PossibleBathas his mother's and father's names marries a woman who has her mother's and father's names?
why did we listen to the entire disjointed ramble from Puggsley?
CHILE!!! Because it was disappointed AF. I was waiting for him to "land the plane", but....my patience ran out first.
@@TheSamanthaEditoh he landed, it was just a crash landing. Can’t you see the flames 😂😂
I am still waiting for him to apply for a gym membership, maybe that will keep him away from social media. 😢😢😢
Puggsley 🤣🤣🤣
I skipped it. Bye y’all.
Wait, what is 'breakup season'? Lol!!! Y'all keep cut off game sharp this summer. It's 4B Summer!!
I do not care for money, he has to be a decent human being. Men really do not understand that women will go after rich men if they are not allowed to work for money themselves. Without that right to work for money we go for rich men, because we have to eat as well. Shocker.
Peter Simpson really rambled on for nothing. It was like witnessing a kid play with Tonka trucks. He don't even need a membership at the gym just go outside and touch grass every day, my boy
He was coping hard.
Marrying a rich man is no garauntee of anything. He can be selfish just like the broke man. Money doesn't buy morals.
I have a child; I’ve never been married. My pregnancy was not planned, and I had ZERO intention of raising a child with the father (as we were genuinely just friends, lmao).
I have ZERO intentions of ever getting married or having more children. I love my one baby and have raised him with my sister for the last decade-she is my platonic life partner, and his godmom. She has no intentions of having children or getting married, either, and we make more money together than most households in America.
There’s no need for marriage/kids. Men just want the labor force to continue-don’t let them fool you. 🤷🏽♀️🤣
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
My ancestors were slaves. I don't know their names. I don't know the faces and barely know the names of my great-grandparents or great x2 grandparents. "I want someone to remember me so I want kids" makes no sense unless you keep a physical version of a family tree
Being child free has just brought positive things to my life.
Same 🙌
That's sounds good 😊
same!
No man or anyone should be talking about legacy if they’re not planning on leaving a inheritance or some type generational wealth.
11:31 I don't think it has anything to do with "biological wiring". Marriage since the beginning of time have always benefited men and was never for love and men carried on those old beliefs. Marriage back then were for carrying on wealth and power and control between two kingdoms, etc. They didn't care who the woman actually was-only what she brought to the table and could help them get what they want.
Women nowadays have finally woken up to the scam of marriage (and yes, also not wanting to get pregnant and deal with the pain, costs, mothering alone, etc), which is why they aren't swiping on a LOT of men because a LOT of men still have self-reflection to do to see how the patriarchy isn't on their sides either and how toxic masculinity is damaging, not only themselves, but to the others around them too.
Its Not masculinity. Its their absolute weakness and lack of masculinity that makes them lash out.
Yeah, it gives the same energy as when people used to say black people were "biologically" meant to be slaves. The only way biology plays into it is men have always been physically able to overpower women and children. That's all it is. The more physically powerful were in the position to make all the rules, and had the strength to force it.
EXACTLY 👏👏👏
Incel Bobby Hill said a whole bunch of nothing 10:00
6:43 same that’s why I change my last name, my father love and protection was contingent on how he felt about my mother so when he left my mom for a younger women he left his kids and never looked back. So before i became a mother using donor sperm trough a sperm bank I couldn’t see myself giving his last name so I change mine and gave my baby my new last name I created my own legacy with no men at the head , just me 😊
Please, take my advice without me terrifying you with horror stories, DO NOT HAVE KIDS!!! love from a single, struggling mama ❤
We literally give birth....we deserve that legacy
Right 💯
Maria can you start listing the names of the people who’s videos you use? The young lady applying her makeup in yesterdays video was great I’d like to follow her but idk her name 😅
Yes just leave their handles in the tts. Some women I would love to follow when they sound interesting
yv edit. you can find her on youtube as well. i just started following her.
I hate when channels don't leave the info. Seems like they just be putting the videos together but leaving out an important detail. They will say it's so you can't go and brigade, I guess, but I've seen many videos where I wanted to go to the person's page but their name was not visible.
Monogamy benefits the average male. Monogamy was invented by the average Joe down the street not the rich men.
Monogamy was invented by church to stop poor men killing rich men and taking their wives.
Monogamy benefits rich men coz resources - money and land
Rich men benefit as well. It keeps the average Joe in check so that he works for the guys at the top. Family life keeps him calm so they don't tear the country apart
This guy I’ve met trying to coerce me into wanting kids . While he has two , then say things that I’ll like his children . Like sir , no the bell I won’t . I don’t want anything plus I’m not signing up to be temp step mom , we just met - I’m not even looking for anything long term . . These guys have the audacity in trying to get u to sacrifice ur freedom to be apart of their community .
Stay safe and careful. He might try to trap you
I had the same thing happened no more kids no step mom either.
"While he has two..." See, that's where you messed up.
@@Emptytopfloorright... He's fertile, he can impregnate her
@@LadyAstarionAncunin people have children’, I am a social person - in my external environments . . I don’t know where he got the hint to share those details - I sit and listen “ it’s the audacity that gets me amongst complete strangers
I skipped most of what he said after I noticed that he was rambling and ranting. It got hard to follow 😅
It gives "self-important" when men talk that way.
I couldn't listen to this guy. It felt so good to just shut him up by clicking the stop button. I wish that I had that in real life.
I did the same! Haha…
Actually he talked some interesting history points.
A lot of women get brainwashed into thinking they HAVE to marry and marry young. My relatives started asking me at 9 years old whether I had a boyfriend or a fiancé. Like, what?
Led me to freak out on them when I was 16 from their constant asking. (At that time I was doing martial arts and basically told them that the next person to ask such questions will suffer the consequences, which made them stop asking.
A few decades later I am still happy without marriage, while they are all divorced.
Decentering did a number on us, I love it❤😊
My mom hates I don’t want kids. I’d only possibly do if I fell in love with someone who had one. But I don’t see that happening cuz I get stressed easily, I chose stress free life. So like I’m also bi so she hates the liking women part too. 😂❤
My mom was hounding me for grandchildren. And when i actually got one guess how much grandparenting she do? One hour per week or less, such a help lol!
Haven’t finished this just listening to the glasses guy rambling on about BS…🤦🏾♀️
Even if some women want to get marrried and have kids..what woman wants to be with a man who does not does his fair share as a dad or a little bit housekeeping.Even if the men pay most of the bills,no woman wants to hear how tired he is to cook dinner once in a while or maybe watch the kids once in a while so the mom can have free time to herself.Being a parent is a such a big deal.No woman wants to be a struggling parent even if she wanted to be a mom.It is important that eomen who wants to be a mom choose men who want to really wants to be dads and be more hands on with parenting.Bringing home money as men is important but unless he working two full time jobs there is no excuse not to be a more hands on dad.A lot of moms work too.
I saw in a comment a man said oh i would enjoy having a wife and children. I am like thinking what the hell is keeping you from getting them. Then i thought oh yeah i reason i dont want a husband and children. I risk everything and men risk nothing.
My father asked what my birthday was for the tenth time by text the other day...His cousins would hound me on when I was to give this old man grandchildren....A man that was rarely there in my childhood.
I remember being 4 years old walking in Walmart with my parents and seeing a pregnant women. I said a silent prayer to god to never make me pregnant because I thought women just automatically got pregnant when they are older. I was so scared. Lmaoo 😂
I feel you girl. Pregnancy and the labor process repulses me.
My mom told me the story of how I was born and all the complications she had to go through and all I could ask myself was why would any sane person put themselves through such an experience? Decided right then and there I'm never having kids. She was sad but she got over it eventually 😂😂😂😂
@@HarrietWanjau Right! My mom explained to me how the c-section process works and I just couldn’t imagine how and why I could everrrrr. Ima bow out gracefully on that because… 😅
@@Brandy205 Same girl. 💯
It's terrible don't one and done
Even with Serena Williams being married to her husband, that didn't give her the protection from being generalized, because she's a bw she was over exaggerating her pain from giving birth.
And it was because of mynz, that they kept women from getting our own for the longest.
To be fair, thankfully she has a feminist husband, what I saw is that he fully supported her and called out those mynz
To be fair, thankfully she has a feminist husband, what I saw is that he fully supported her and called out those mynz
The last guy that spoke for 3hrs is the guy that women are repulsed by 😂
I think women were conditioned to think that marriage was this special thing to look forward to, but once they got into it, they realized it wasn't all what it's cracked up to be. And it seems like a lot of them are happier when they get divorced.
History... Women couldn't have anything on their own - legally.
Speaking as a man, who had no desire to have children and is not in a rush to get married again. From ages 18 to 24 you are told, by other men, that some time soon you’ll have to settle down get married and have children. 25 to 35, you are heavily pressured into finding a wife, the younger the better, have kids while you are still active or your family and friends might start shunning and isolating you, relegating to holidays and certain family events. 40+ is, I am 41 currently, is the stage where family and friends will wonder about your maturity level and even your sexual orientation, given the reason that you are still single and have yet to procreate.
13:14 oop, pdf file ⚠️ this guy is scary
Everything with these men is a projection .
That lady talking about women changing their names to create their own legacy. I have been contemplating changing my name soooooo much, first and last. I want to change my name but I don’t. I love my first and middle name. I’m thinking about doing it though.
In my culture if your parents are not married you are given the surname of any person who takes care of you and it is very common for children to get their mothers surname and have the option to change their surnames after their parents get married if they are being raised by their parents.
Same. Just my last name though because I like my first and middle name. They were the names my mother gave to me on her own.
That's what I did. Kept my first and middle and changed my last. No regrets.
I plan on doing it and when she said that I got so excited because I was like yes!
I've wanted to change my name since I was a child. My last name is actually quite rare for black folks. I've never even ever seen/heard of a wyte person who has the last name either. So, I like that aspect. But then, I can easily make my own name that's just as rare.
Make this woman go viral!
They dont even know the difference between legacy and lineage.
This man couldn't even put his shirt on the right. Who does he think he is preaching too with his shirt on backwards? He's just worried because he can't even dress himself.
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I think these guys are more in shock that women are literally not picking anyone😂
Hmmm that’s why guys get annoyed I dnt want to have kids
Good girl
when she says about males having pretty colors and dancing getting it on with as many ladies as possible... most birds are monogamous and both parent participate in caring for the chicks
She was spot on. Everything men say is really their own insecurities.
All I’m going to say is women who are happy and content on their marriage and with their children, a big part of that is because of the husband and father. When he is doing his part, women and children strive and the family unit is strong. When he is not - well you see broken families everywhere, mothers and women and children who lack trust in any man. Men play a vital role for women who may want children and marriage. If the man ain’t right, no longer are women just accepting him cause he is a man. I don’t blame women for having high standards- in today’s world they have to. 🙏🏽😌
The father of my sons acted all through like just a guest. You name it. 🙂
Wtf is the youngster with the buzz cut talking about? I kept waiting to hear his point, and it never arrived ...
My mother said the same thing saying why don't i want to carry my family legacy on both sides, im like what legacy. You said that my Father family was bad, your family on your side is bad, what legacy bad legacy lol😂😂😂. Both side of my family doesn't want nothing to do with me what legacy go head lady.
I'd like to address the white guy and scripture. The behavior of the people mentioned in the OT are not recorded for you to follow them or to use as the law. The Bible is set up like a text book with questions. First, you are to read the laws given by the most high IN THE first 5 books and then determine who followed the instructions provided. It is a test to determine if you will obey God. Deuteronomy 13:3.
Now regarding David and having multiple wives. Yes it states that God said he would've given him more, BUT God already established the law that states a king shall not have more than one wife. Deuteronomy 17:17. Not only that but David had sinned by having more than one wife and anyone could've called god out on that for him to clarify like he has with other laws. And if you look at what happens when the men of the bible had more than 1 wife, they suffered for it. So the examples are given for you to learn why God establishes his laws and what happens when they are not obeyed.
For regular men, God already established the law that they are to have 1 wife and cleave unto her. Genesis 2:24. So no women do not have to accept polygamy marriesges. It is optional bc there are women just like today who do not mind sharing a man. Exodus 21:10. And if the first wife accepted the husband having another wife but then changes her mind and wants him to get rid of her, she has that right and God will command that man to obey her voice just like he did with Sarah and Abraham when she told him to get rid of Hagar and her child.
So the lesson is that men are to have 1 wife but if the parties involved agree upon inclusion another wife, then he can have one but only if he is able to provide for them all without diminishing their finances.
Children are a foot on the brake with pressure slowly applied over a long stretch of road.
This is good!💯
Uphill. I say this as a mother.
11:58 he had me up to around here but now he's giving non-bear....
That guy talking is redpill material: look at him.
My aunt passed away in Marcg of this year and during her funeral people were discussing about how kind, gentle, loving, and supportive she was. Even though she had childre her character was her legacy.
This is so true. I didn't want kids, doctors said i was infertile. My ex refused to wear condoms and I stupidly stayed with him. He said if we naturally have a kid, that's what nature wants. I ended up with twins. Life immediately changed forever. Then got pregnant with a third after he sabotaged my BC method of ovulation tracking. It's all about THEM. WE don't actually want them most of the time.
Why was his video so long he talked in circles the entire time
He's a narcissist. He was using manipulation tactics to gaslight, deflect and project.
The thing I find the craziest is western women who marry Korean men and take their last name! In Korea it is not a thing to take your husband's last name. Yet western women often do this. They'll conform to everything the husband wants on the basis that it's his "culture" meanwhile he's just disrespecting her yet she desperately wants his last name despite it not even being cultural to do so. I'm assuming it's cause they want a Korean last name or like the idea of being owned or something idk.
None of them are smart enough to look up the defintion of the word legacy.
I'm divorced and wanna keep it that way. Men wanna marry me, who wants another divorce???? I keep meeting selfish narcissists and refuse yo deal with their jealousy and hate.
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oh I LOVE when guys use this argument on me!!
Because this ended with my mom!
She chose a whole new last name for herself and gave all her children her chosen last name!😁
And my older sister did the same thing!
My sister already started with the name changing, she and her husband cut up and rearranged their own last names to make a new name for their family that they both legally changed and now carry and that their two daughters also carry.
A whole new legacy ❤
Everyone does not need children, nor should everyone be around children. Many people are abusive, have no patience, and are just not good for children to be around. I’m saying this as a person who was physically and mentally abused in preschool and as an ex early childhood teacher who was very successful. Protect the babies, y’all.
That part I read too many stories everyday about people abusing and killing their own kids that it’s horrible…truly sick times we’re living in. I firmly believe that all kids deserve a loving and happy home but not all people deserve kids
The problems with what the guy was going on and on about…in the Bible a man and a woman “laying down” together is considered marriage in the eyes of the Bible god. So, every time a dude sleeps with you, he’s your husband. How many husbands have women had in their lives? And how many wives have the men had? Gene Simmons of the band Kiss was off the charts.
5:54 "We don't want to be contributing to a society that doesn't contribute to us." I feel like that just about sums up the whole argument.
Have children only if you want to have them should have this discussion before marriage
You know, as a woman and hearing about how our maiden names are just our father's last name, I want to create or choose my own personal last name. I dont want to have a kid just for them to carry my legacy. I can do that on my own, and it will start with my name.
Unfortunately, the guy made sense but fortunately I'm never getting married. Im never having kids. I rather adopt