Women Talking About When Their Partner Got Into Red Pill Content
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RIGHT HERE. ME. I was a tattoo artist 22 years old he was 26. He knew I wanted no kids was NOT A TRADITIONAL house wife girl. one day I peeped him looking at me too hard then he commented on me wearing short sleeves…short sleeves. Then told me he doesn’t want me tattooing men anymore. Then it got worse and worse and I ain’t stick around to find out how much worse it would get. He connected with me again one year after I ended things and invited me to his place. I saw punch marks and holes all over his bedroom walls. BLOCKED AND never again would be near him.
That’s wild
Girl, what made you think it was a good idea to reconnect with him and even go to his place after the thing he put you trough?
@@jessielou9138 that’s was my next question
Imagine being a tattoo artist and constantly covering all your tattoos up when you work! Not exactly going to inspire confidence from clients!!
@@kated3165 And he was covered in tattoos! He just didn't want me showing 'my arm skin' according to him. Such a weirdo.
My ex completely lost his mind. He started dehumanizing me, belittling me, spewing misogynistic rhetoric, tried to get my to understand Andrew tate and Jordan Peterson. Then started trying to push me to work harder and give him half of my pay.
😂😂😂😂
They want a submissive provider 🤣☠️🤡
This is scary... They are psych*paths 😳
Essentially, the goal of red pill is to get the woman to fund the man's lifestyle. I would think that red pill would be that men would operate as adults. Nope, they want us to pay for them.
That's terrible. I am so sorry that you experienced something like that. He does not deserve you. If he wants to look at that kind of toxic content, then he can end up like most of those RP content creators (all alone). I hope you're doing well in life. Best wishes.
It’s as if he went to some overnight CHARM SCHOOL!
My ex-boyfriend started watching Kevin Samuels and repeated everything thing he said. He started saying I need to lose weight and do my hair more often. He said I was too old even though he was eight years older than me. I finally had enough and flipped everything he said to me. He said I was too old. I said ok find someone younger than me. He said I was losing value as a woman. I told him to find a woman with more value. The look on his face was priceless. He said, saying what? Bye
Drives me nuts when guys do that. I saw a post in a Facebook group where a guy that was 39 called a woman who was 30 old....he said "oh wow your old, I usually go for the 20 year olds" like sir you are even older than her, what do you mean? Apparently in the eyes of a red pill guy they "hit their prime" in their 40s so it's ok for them to be old but the minute any woman turns 30 they are old and useless.....
I say own the crone & f*$% the male gaze. Free yourself & don't dread menopause. I can't believe I wasted so much energy on worrying about not being a good enough "object" for idiotic men. I am a straight, 57 yr old white lady-ornery & independent-never wed, never bred, & life keeps getting better. These guys better have something worth adding to your life to be worthy of your time. Starting w/ respect & appreciation. 💚🧟♀
My ex-friend is also miserable, posting everyday on Facebook memes about women, saying that we will end up old and single with cats. Meanwhile he's single, has a dog and no woman is looking at him.
They are always Threatening us with a good time 😂
Sounds like someone needs to get him a mirror to look into 👀👀
One word: PROJECTION!
Their entire mission is solely based off their own projection of themselves and often their current reality or what they fear will be their own fate of dying alone.
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd You are weird. A sixteen year old girl wouldn't have even graduated highschool yet. Look within and heal creep.
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd No biology says otherwise. Mens sperm deteriorates in quality just like womens eggs.
As a woman , I am happy the red pill content is out, more men exposed which means more men to avoid, and ignore.. it only exposes the weak men and more reason not to give them a chance, ever😂
If a man can be convinced to abuse women so easily, then he was already abusive.
Thiiiiiiiiiiss. They’re holding up the red flags for us instead of trying to hide them. I want them to keep it up. So in the future we can look back on this ish.
I do like that it exposes men but I don't like that a bunch of preteen and teenage boys are being indoctrinated into it
This actually makes sense!!! Great point! Positive way of thinking❤❤❤
Process of elimination vs process of selection 😂
I would like a study done to figure out the red pill to incel pipeline. How many men have gone from boyfriends/husbands to alone and angry just because they fell into the redpill rhetoric 😂 i’d like the statistics
Now that Red Pill is being monitored by Homeland Security I think we will start to see more data coming out.
When I saw a commentary on Myron of fresh and fit cuddling and being handsy with another man that he claimed was a friend, I pittied his straight male redpill consumers.
It’s the same ideology at the end of the day. I used to peruse their forums back before it was called red pill and incel was a newer term and it was also the other way around. Hurt middle aged dudes griping about their divorce giving terrible advice to young men who just needed some guidance on stuff like dating. I also partially blame journalists constantly talking about incels and writing articles because it gave more exposure to what was a pretty underground thing. Watching these ideologies shift and morph over time has been quite something to say the least. It’s also unfortunate because it just grifts men who probably just need some support from men. Instead grifters want to spread hate and make men feel inadequate so they can sell these dudes courses and supplements etc.
@@Gingabread-bw6xj I remember back in the early 2010s on TH-cam, it was known as "MGTOW". I find it ironic that these men claim they're "going their own way" yet they continue to talk about women 24/7.
How can you be a husband and a incel? That mean there's no sex in the relationship. Yall insults be weird. A girl that wants a relationship= pick me (duh)
A rich black man you don't like: dusty (ok)
A man frequently having sex but you disagree with him: incel
Father in the children life but have problems with the mother: deadbeat
Ladies I’m binge listening on my tractor land clearing a job I won the bid for. My ex didn’t think I’d be able to run my own contracting business 😂 thank you to the RP content for taking the trash out for me
SLAY!!!❤❤❤❤
Go girl!!❤❤
So happy for you! 🤍😊
Congratulations! That’s amazing!!
This is one way we counteract the RP. We rise up and become stronger than before in anyway we can. ❤
A woman in another video asked, “Why do they hate pets so much?? Maybe if they had more cats it would teach them empathy and caring.”
A lot of men hate cats and I swear its got something to do with cats being associated with feminine energy
"A man's treatment of a dog is no indication of the man's nature, but his treatment of a cat is. It is the crucial test. None but the humane treat a cat well." -Mark Twain
They hate pets because they're like children to women we treat them like our surrogate babies. Dogs, most men are fine with because they tend to love making friends and therefore it's easy to gain the vast majority of dogs trust.
There are only a handful of dogs that are hesitant to be around strangers. Cats you have to earn their trust, you have to be willing to put in 90% of the effort to get them to like you.
If a man isn't willing to put in the work to foster a good relationship with a woman he's definitely not willing to do the same with her cat something he considers to be even more below him than women.
Idt they hate cats as much as they'd like us to believe- I think the amount of men who love cats is equal to women but they refuse to be vocal about their appreciation because they don't want to deal with other men making fun of them, and they simply don't see women being bashed about being alone with cats as something they need to involve themselves in. Basically, men love cats but men who love cats are also selfish and would rather love cats privately than defend fellow women cat lovers.
Men just suck.
~Fonda Kat
@@stacieharris I have a cat, and my neighbor’s old, neglected cat spends his days on my porch. He has cushions to curl up on over here, welcoming pats, and I give him some supplemental wet food once a day : )
Misogyny on steroids is how I describe it.
That part wheeew ! 😮💨🫣
😂😂😂
That's what I just said!
He's into redpill crap ? Run for your life 😳 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Kisses from France 🇨🇵 stay safe ladies
No one cares about France.
Yes or MGTOW or PP Bros
He started progressively treating me worse and worse. Used intimacy to attack my self esteem. Lots of horrible things happened.
The day I understood what was going on I was out. I found out the content he was watching and the people he was engaging with. Six months later he knocked at my door begging me to take him back.
So, I guess red pill doesn't work if you actually want to be with a woman.
I hope you don't not take him
@@hanatirk4375 Oh no. I made sure I told him that I had no intention to get back together. I said "why am I going to get back with you if I have men treating me like a princess". 😂 bro disappeared forever after that.
What was his reaction? Did he learn something? Im dying to know
@@willowwitch8548 when he saw I wasn't taking him back he said it was a mistake to talk to me and disappeared for a few months. Then he texted me saying he was on therapy to be a better person and I just ignored 😂 after that, I never heard of him again. Fortunately. People that are highly manipulative and lie all the time don't regret and don't feel bad. They feel bad they got caught and have to deal with the consequences.
I think red-pill is actually still a unknown concept to alot of people. Remember, not everyone lives on the internet like us folks. A lot of women I speak to have no idea what is it. I forsee that alot of men will ruin their relationships because of this stuff.
edit: but i am grateful for all of it because it's really exposed a lot of people. I've met a lot of men who didn't make it past the 1st date because they slipped up with RP talking points, or i found them following Jordan peterson, Tate ect on social media
It’s an unfortunate blessing when they slip up during dates lol way easier to cut and run
This. Most of the women I know know nothing of it but the males oh I hear it in their everyday speech.
I only found out about this mess end of last year after being messed up by my ex. I thought I was going crazy so I went looking up certain behaviors and lo and behold.....red pill. I found the answer.
What the second woman said about red pill content normalising misogyny is so true
But at the same time, it's also showing men how unfaithful a lot of women actually are and how often paternity fraud is ACTUALLY happening in this world. And how a lot of men get ruined with financial rape in divorce court. And also what REALLY happens on girls only trips. It's teaching men to accept women's sexuality and teaching men to accept WHAT IT MEANS when their women goes and sucks another d___. It means SHE'S OVER YOU, and you can't waste your time as a man trying to fix her, like fixing a bike. Rollo Tomassi and Rich Cooper have made men realize that it's stupid to be a willing cuckold if she lacks "genuine burning desire". Because all you're doing is funding her lifestyle which includes other men. And ESPECIALLY if you don't have kids but you tolerate it, you're a loser as man.
The red pill has its benefits. And I suspect women are REALLY mad at it, is because of the things it HAS exposed. They're scared men aren't going to be pushovers anymore.
😂😂😂
When was misogyny ever not normalized...?
Let's be real...Nobody MADE these men become red pill, red pill just validated what they already felt but just needed a voice and an outlet. Heck, I just found out what the new terminology was for this new masculinity or Alpha manhood was. Will probably be a new word when I retire in 10 years. Oh well.
People can definitely be made into this. You’re vastly underestimating how much it’s proliferated online and how much the algorithm pushes it. Back in the day before red pill was even a term, I would lurk in their forums. There would be a lot of young men or teens asking for guidance on dating and girls and how to ask a girl out, standard teen stuff where maybe they didn’t have a male role model or trusted person in their life. They would get life lessons and world views from bitter, angry, divorced middle aged men. And if you don’t have enough life experience to know this world view is not a good one, and you’re trusting these people, you can get down the wrong path quick. And that was circa 2009/2010.
Now every platform actively pushes this content if you watch at least one clip somewhat relating to it. And if that’s the only content you end up watching…it’s very easy to spiral down because it skews how many people actually believe this stuff and who is watching this content. All because social media platforms and grifters like Andy Cobra Tate, want to make a few bucks.
I’m a woman in her early 30s. I watch one video criticizing red pill or mentioning incel, or just talking about gender dynamics for a second and for months all I get on any platform is red pill and manosphere bullshit. I will actively try to stop it by “don’t show me this content” and it doesn’t stop. There’s so much of it.
@@Gingabread-bw6xj I get what you're saying but there's always personal choice no matter what you are exposed to.
Reminds me of a guy who I was talking to. We were long-distance and he was soft-spoken and understanding. He was working to better himself and I was too. Then suddenly we stopped talking for months and later he hit me up. We started talking a lot more and then it went south when he targeted my weight. Because I was trying to lose weight at the time for a healthier body. He stated, "No, you are going to lose weight to look good for men." I raised a brow and he continued to talk about women needing to be this and that. It didn't click until he brought up Andrew Tate. Saying he was going to work for his money and etcetera. Then got upset at me when I raised my voice to rebuttal him and he said I'm a soft-spoken person. That I should submit to him. I told him that firstly he was asking for his husband title when he had nothing to show. Talking down unto me that my worth is based on my "purity" and "innocence". He has no right to say that to me if my dad has never said that to me. To tell me that he was going to work hard for his money and buy land while trying to put me down by talking smack about my dad. That's when I ripped him a bigg3r and newer a$$ telling him he has nothing to show. No land, no car, no house. That my dad has a super car owns land, and a house. I told him that some women have PCOS which could be harder for losing weight or have other health issues. He then starts laughing tell me why I was acting like that. And the gaslight was real. I hung up on him and blocked him. It's crazy how someone so good could change. But to be honest about it. As my dad stated "They were already like that. It just takes something evil to test them."
it was in there all along, nice guys have a lot of pent up rage
@@seabreeze4559 I agree with that statement
I got into a situation with someone who was red pill. I didn’t realize it when we got involved, but he had just gotten cheated on in a previous relationship and was hurt. He would literally regurgitate dehumanizing stuff about women from the red pillers on the internet . I would say it was wrong but he still did it so I blocked him on everything.
I literally had to break it off with a dude that regurgitated redpill ish _today_ . And he's part of the weird (mostly black) contradictory circle that believes in redpill gender roles, but also wants an "independent woman" who "doesn't take shit from anyone" and will split finances. I dated two broke, terrible guys that treated me badly before him, but any time I let myself be vulnerable with him he'd interrupt with some weird stereotypical commentary about men and ""females"". It sucks cuz he _seemed_ so nice😭😭. But even the stuff he posts on social media is so degrading - from fresh n fit outtakes to Kevin Samuel clips🤢🤢
My lord… I had absolutely similar story. I’m so sorry
2nd girl.... she is 4 years in and no marriage. She is wasting her time
Everyone doesn’t want to be married BUT it’s still weird that she stayed with him when she realized, after 4 years, she had to TEACH him to not be a misogynistic AH.
I know one that is 10 years and 2 kids in and living with his mom and still not married. They both make good money and he’s using not having enough of it as an excuse and refuses to set a date. Hes voting for Trump and he’s very red pill and likes Charleston White
This is toxic and is just as bad of a point of view. I would classify this as red pill content for women.
Marriage isn't the prize. We don't need to be married.
We'd be far better off if we waited before we got married. Men can lie for two years easily.
Women shouldn't have kids or share finances before marriage, but my personal rule is two years of dating, plus two years of living together, before the engagement. You will filter out a LOT of fakers with that.
The lady with the jealous and emotionally immature red pill brother is a great case study for this phenomenon. Instead of directing his frustrations with his parents for being toxic and unsupportive, or for taking accountability for his own actions and choices, or finding his own, positive path in life... He is instead finding an easy scapegoat. Blaming his sister for his perceived failings, and taking it out on her like a petulant child, is clearly much easier than confronting toxic parents or his own role in how his life has turned out. And one if the clues to their parents being at least a BIT toxic (in addition to what she said about them), is the fact that they are apparently allowing their son to behave in this malicious and childish manner towards their daughter. It's absurd all around.
Going through the same thing with my brother & my parents don't realise it's theif fault.
Start telling him he is a $hit person to his face and to keep your distance. Then avoid him as much as possible. Grey rock him.
My brother is allowed to punch walls and curse at us. Only boy in the family and it seems to make it okay apparently for their 4 daughters
@@kellharris2491 he raged when i did that & said i was the reason why he likes to stay out. & then my Mum raged at me. She only saw the monster she enabled when he broke down the bathroom doors as I was peeing, just coz he couldnt find his copy of the house keys to go out & wanted mine instead.
@@pixiestxNyomouf apparently I & my Sister should stay quiet to not ruin his future. Cant wait to go no contact with my parents.
My man tried it. I told him, "Alright now, that red pill sh*t is gone get right out there in them streets." Haven't heard any red pill talk since. Cause he knows not to threaten me with a great time. He knows I travel and speak other languages. I got choices. 😊
I warn my son against red pill content-he’s 20-and he’s really receptive to what I have to say about it. I told him that a lot of men get hooked by something that might sound good like them saying they have a Christian perspective (bc we’re Christians) but then it turns into something so evil. I’ve told him it’s very far from Christian & godly but they use those words so it can be confusing to especially young men. But older men should know better! It’s full of hate & anger & that’s not at all the kind of thing he wants to follow.
show him the exredpill sub
Warn him about toxic women, dudes join red pill after being used by women or heartbroken
@seabreeze4559 idk what that is
I still can't talk about it much. That shit broke my heart. It was like watching my best friend learn how to hate me. Yes I ignored some red flags but he didn't used to be that way. He became a monster. The old him died. I'm just getting back to myself it nearly 2 years later because he hurt me so bad. That red pill shit is like Trump... It gives people an excuse to be their worst selves
Men are not friends.
Women and children are the community
I'm so sorry that happened to you ❤❤❤
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd man, you’re in this comment section replying to nearly every comment where a woman talks about losing a male friend or relative or significant other to the vile red pill cult. Don’t you have anything better to do than spread nonsensical rhetoric and try to berate women for leaving and cutting contact with toxic, misogynistic, and hateful men?
You know, it's wild. I describe my experience with this much like you do. Except it happened to me before misogynistic so-called red pill content was a thing. It was years ago and he joined a fraternity. It turned him into a disgusting pos. I just had to say no thank you at that point. And of course, he became Petty and vindictive toward me out of a feeling of rejection. But like dude? You rejected me the second you started buying all that trash these losers were feeding you. It truly was insane.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I went through the same thing with my father.
I can relate to the woman who said she tried to break it off multiple times. I had a red pill bf who was nasty and each time i tried to end it he would actually physically block me from leaving his apartment or he would rush over to my house to convince me to stay with him. A few times he actually chased me down the street and blocked me from getting into my car or tried to keep me from going into my house and grabbed my arm. He didn’t like how i looked even though i went out of my way to lose weight for him and he just made it really clear i wasn’t good enough for him in numerous way yet when i would try to end it he would not let me. Finally when i asked him why he doesn’t just go find someone he actually likes he couldn’t give me an answer so when i tried to leave he chased me down the street and yelled at me that I’m “selfish” until i threatened to call the police on him. Then he raced home to get on the computer so he could harass me online and i had to block him. Unfortunately my self esteem was so low at the time and i did have feelings for him so i attempted to stay friends but he was just so nasty and insulting towards me constantly that i finally got completely fed up and blocked him everywhere for good. These people know that having a gf gives them more social standing than being single and they don’t want to lose their sexual vending machines but they refuse to be decent towards us because they genuinely believe we’re not human beings. Our autonomy is a threat to them because it means we can leave when they act up, that’s why they hate feminism.
My ex was always red pill but it wasn’t a name for it then but when the content came out in 2019-2020 the verbal abuse picked up steam then the physical abuse it’s pure evil the red pill content
it was called other things like mgtow and pua especially
Men always thought this though. Misogyny didn't start with the red pill movement. The red pill movement is just the modern combination of ancient patriarchal ideas. This shit has been going on since the stone age 😂
Exactly
I think about this all the time 🙌🏻
ancient? nah it's postmodern, they want a "girlfriend" that is a hippy boomer idea, but she pays which is 90s feminism
And it’s just getting worse now with all the religious influx into our government leading to all the current anti-women laws, like the fall of Roe (reproductive rights/abortion) and they’re now working on outlawing contraception. And, get this, they’re talking about getting rid of no-fault divorce (let’s keep the little ladies imprisoned!), AND, some are even talking about getting rid of women’s rights to vote!!! Voting is the ONLY right women have in the Constitution! F**k that!!
@@ReachSkyla the red pill is a grift designed to sell courses. It started by taking advantage of men who were dealing with legitimate things like hurt, heartbreak, cheating etc. That’s mostly who was listening and engaging with that content when it first started. A lot of younger guys too, who didn’t have people in their life they could talk to about normal teen/young adult things like how to ask out a girl or how do you know a girl likes you.
Then the ideology started to grow elsewhere online. It actively gets pushed by social media platforms because of all the engagement it gets. So people easily get sucked in. But because these ideas don’t work in real life, men are losing out. But grifters will tell them they just aren’t being alpha enough or whatever and try to push courses or supplements etc.
My ex husband used to scream at me about how he was the most important one in the relationship, because he’s the man, and his job is the most important! This was long before RP; RP just made misogyny easier to express for men and easier for women to identify. Their incessant need to squish women and children is truly insane. I think it’s because they don’t actually compete with other males anymore. They live in a house with a woman and children, and they become his punching bag and objects of competition instead of other males.
sadism
My brother went down the red pill rabbit hole. He is having such a hard time dating. He will tell anyone that listens that the problem is women. It’s honestly sad to see because I know how much he wants a family. I wouldn’t advise anyone to date him though in his current mindset
show him the exredpill subreddit
Seems like it's not safe around male family members. This is bad, really bad.
8:07 pathetic. Ladies, don’t waste ur time “turning” him back to normal. Leave him!
We’re on the same page that was so cringy to watch
refer them to the exredpill sub and leave
I'm trying to turn my friend back not because I don't want my friend to be ignorant. Not because I'm desperate to save him. Not because I feel like I can't leave. Because I know, for a fact, if I cut this man out of my life, he's gonna end himself, and I got enough shit in my head to blame myself over. I'm not adding "catch a body through neglect" onto the list
@@punksoabit was never your responsibility. If he’s gonna end himself, he’ll do it regardless of if you’re in his life. If you must, turn him to actual professionals. I’m sorry if this is hard to hear, but you can’t save him:
I've lost a son and ex to it. So sad.
They’re not dead, quit being weird!
@@theoriginalkrabbypattywhen you have to cut someone off because they're genuinely making you feel unsafe, it does feel like they're dead. The version of them you felt safe with is dead. You're the weird one tbh, this is clearly a channel about women supporting women
@@theoriginalkrabbypatty cults are a thing
@@theoriginalkrabbypattydead to her
I lost my female friend/former roommate to red pill content. Her boyfriend was a truck driver and listened to those stupid podcasts all day every day while driving. My friend went along with his hot takes, and pretty soon she was regurgitating his talking points and defending them with her whole chest. They both got more and more extreme in their beliefs and I couldn't get through to her. Eventually I got my own apartment and stopped contacting them.
The women who fall for the foogazzy of Red Pill are the worse than the males. It's kinda sad to listen to Women repeat ideologies that are meant to destroy them.
they believe in DV as discipline
My exhusband. He spiraled and is couch surfing and drinking himself to death. It’s sad. We literally had everything except a white picket fence and he started binging those videos and got extremely mean, then he got into a religious group that pushed the same agenda. Needless to say, I had to leave him as he treated us like he hated us (me and the kids ) haven’t talk to him 3 years. Mutuals talk really bad about him and have distanced themselves from him. He’s angry and bitter and no one did anything to him.
Consider the redpill content a blessing. It exposes/weeds out the undesirables and their true nature/beliefs.
if your man was okay with listening to red pill content, he was already a weirdo from the start
As someone that used to follow redpill and manosphere, I originally turned to it because I was looking to learn what I was doing wrong and ways that I could improve with women. It then became a scapegoat that allowed me to blame women for my own shortcomings in terms of seeing relationships in an unhealthy and unbalanced way. The men in these spheres never acknowledge what women say that they want in a partner or how we can be better men to support the women in our lives. It’s always - don’t listen to what women say, or women say this but look at who they give their time to. And while there is some merit to this, two things can be true at the same time - I can be a better man and not follow behind the immature, abusive, womanizer lifestyle and be able to form a healthy and loving relationship with a woman. That period lasted some time but I eventually saw their advice wasn’t something I could do anyway, and even if I could, I wouldn’t want it. I always knew I would only want to be with one woman and pour my all into a relationship with her. I think the redpill provided a space for men that don’t truly like women to have a platform. Some men in the sphere like women but get lost in the shuffle of listening to these scammers and men that don’t like women and if they don’t actually take time to self reflect and grow, they can easily get stuck there. Honestly, some of them are looking for guidance but they don’t know that they need to look within and stop seeking the advice and guidance of these men that don’t even know what they’re talking about and are the biggest hypocrites because they don’t even live life as they portray and advise their viewers.
This is such a wonderful to read. I am so glad you stayed to work on your self. You will find a wonderful woman who loves you and have a healthy loving relationship.
they know it's wrong they just want revenge on women
I‘m proud of you for realizing how toxic and unrealistic the red pill ideology is. Not only for women‘s sake but for your own. I‘m so sad reading through all of these comments, so many stories of women who lost someone they loved and so many men absolutely ruining their own lives. 😢
I don't have any male friends 🙃 because almost 90% of guys levitate towards Red pill 💊 content, because it's a easy mode for them.
easy mode for excuses
@@seabreeze4559 absolutely fact they have most trashy behaviour will make sexual joke, will make you very uncomfortable and when you talk to in same way they did then only you are rude ( applied on only girls) so I always make it clear we aren't friends we are just classmate
I feel bad for all these women who keep saying, "They weren't like that when we first met". Yeah they were. They literally were. You either ignored it, didn't see it, didn't understand it, or didn't listen when others warned you. When he gave you clear red flags, and later, warnings. I see it all the time. I've lost relationships over it. You cannot tell most woman that their dude is a creep, a freak, or a misogynistic abuser. They'd set their biggest supporter on fire before they'd ever even consider that in the future their partners would hurt or abuse them.
Most me are not safe to be around gor sure. If you gotta depend on men, you are screwed
This why they asses on the watch list well one of the reasons the fbi watching them lol
Me… I’m here 🙋🏽♀️😌 Tbh I think he always was a “red piller” guy (even before it was popular) I just ignored the red flags, plus he hid it quite well with me (although I found out he was a internet troll/ fat shamer online from others) Not anymore… I don’t want that kind of man in my life, I find it repulsive, unattractive and although he’s basically trying everything to win me back…. I’m done, he can go be someone else’s problem ✌🏽
tell him he's too fat for you
Thats so scary. Im sorry ladies have to go through that. Im 20 and never had a boyfriend..now that this red pill stuff is out, I dont think I want one anymore. Im too frightened to get into a relationship. Its like everywhere I go, all guys talk about is the redpill and Im scared of them 😨
It's not worth it KS taught these men to use violence against women not women have opted out of dealing with these men since this hateful rhetoric
How clinically insane would you have to be to believe that women are responsible for the LIES you tell them as a being who already has an advantage by being able to use fear on them. As women, we can’t exert fear with our very presence. “Choose better.” Okay then, I don’t choose you. If I’m in danger when I’m with you, I’m fine being in danger WITHOUT YOU. 💋
"the problem is men... so you need a man to protect you.... from men" LMAO
@@seabreeze4559 exactly. They are too proud of absolutely no progress in how they treat anything that lives, for thousands of years.
Sometimes I go out of my way to talk about this stuff with my boyfriend, and it relieves time to see he doesn’t agree with red pill stuff at all and mocks it like most sane people do.
Remember they follow this content because they like it. You lost them to who they truly were, you did not lose them to RP content. The content enabled them to show their true colors and be who they truly wanted to be.
Men with good fathers, mentors and friends have people who talk to them. This is all an excuse. This is like saying before the internet was mainstream men didn’t have anyone talking to them.
As a 30 year old black woman, the whole RP community is nothing new. It's barbershop talk, it's nonsense I've heard all my life.
I'll be back when there's more comments😂
I know for sure a couple of my exs consumed red pill content (even before the term was popularized) and were indirect about it. All were older men who should have had some sense & self worth. They were primed through their own unhealed wounds and insecurities. I don't even need a conformation. They were all broken and entitled little boys in "man" suits. It's exactly why they made my life miserable & had absolutely no chill. I was clearly the best they had and they weren't built for it. I saw the same misogynistic warfare in the workplace as well. They can't handle any of your greatness on display. They are from all walks of life. You can tell when a guy is not built to be in the presence of a bad b***. They hate on every move you make.
That last sentence is 👌🏽👌🏽
Workplace is a competition. Even between men there will be someone who try to push you down.
I have no idea if my ex 'fell into it' or just stopped pretending after a year of dating. I mean, it was OVERNIGHT after our first-year anniversary, and I endured six whole months of abuse and cheating before I cut him off, with my sister behind me. My sister was 200 pounds (she's lost a solid twenty pounds since) and is 6'4".
Ex never bothered me.
This is why KS had to go cause he had bums believing they were victim's.. he was inciting violence against women..
When people tell you who they are. Listen to them. Believe them.
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; they're all unique. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've learned that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years back, my wife and I were almost divorcing because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to work things out. It was a hard time, but we got past it.
I understand why what you're saying is important, and I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
Saying farewell to someone you love dearly is never easy, but in my case, I had the assistance of a spiritual counselor who saved my marriage from falling apart. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
Thank you for this direction. I'll swiftly seek her out online. I appreciate it. I'm hopeful that following this course of action will yield results for me as well; her absence weighs heavily on my heart.
Welcome
Congratulations 😊
the role Trump and redpill podcasters play in this stuff is a really important point. As much as i don't want to remove their responsibility, there is such a thing as radicalisation and there is a distinctly cult-like element to some of this stuff. i saw a documentary a couple of years ago about how many families were just torn apart by the Q-anon conspiracy and i think that is something that warrants further consideration. a lotof guys were just looking for permission to express this toxic nonsense, but some of them have fallen down a rabbithole and been specifically and deliberately radicalised by bad actors. That doesn't make them not responsible for the things they say and do - but it may mean for some of them there is a way back to a healthy mindset
This!!! They are being indoctrinated by listening to this content 24/7. Humans (laypeople not neuroscientists) do not know enough about how we operate as mammals. We are no different than any other creature on this planet. We can be conditioned and “trained” and we get into trouble because we like to think we’re smarter and evolved. Most people are lazy and aren’t taught to think deeply or abstractly about things. So they just listen to and believe whatever information sounds good or appeal to their emotions.
These are whole adults. Not children being formed. No excuse.
This is an underrated comment. I've been saying this for years, they are radicalised and brainwashed by content creator shills who are making a buck from their support. They all churn out the exact five talking points- especially about women hitting the wall and losing value, pedestalising VERY young women- like actually seeing dating an 18 year old as an ideal (ew), saying that men's value goes up as they age and they have more options, hating single mothers yet having absolutely zero energy for the men who make them single mothers- or saying women pick 'pookies' but again, still having no real rebuttal for 'Pookie.' It's an echo chamber of these same points going over and over but the biggest one is that women over 30 something are left over women, I'm genuinely concerned that there are women somewhere, who also might believe this crap.
Moreover, the RP lifestyle is robbing these men of genuine, fulfilling relationships and building a family to have companionship down the line. In real time, men are in a social/mental health crisis and yet they're sitting ducks just laughing and stewing in their hatred for women. It's crazy to see.
@@TheCarnivoreSoprano I agree - like I said, this doesn't remove their responsibility for the things they say and do. BUT people fall into cults and cultlike organisations all the time - and that offers hope, I think, that some of these men will realise their error at some point and step back from the psychological precipice. Hopefully before they have traumatised any more women
They aren't children, they are adults - but adults can fall victim to cons, can fall into damaging states of mind, can be radicalised into doing things they would have previously been shocked by. I have seen good friends get drawn into the TERF nonsense that has taken over the UK feminist movement and heard them say things that I guarantee they could never have previously imagined coming out of their mouths a few years ago. They are fully responsible for the hate they are currently spewing and the violence they are encouraging - but there are literally hate groups specifically and deliberately radicalising people who go looking for info about trans rights for instance (Caelon Conrad did a brilliant undercover investigation on this - well worth a watch).
During the height of the 'War on Terror' a lot of young people became radicalised by islamist groups online and again, these were specific, targeted and deliberate strategies for radicalisation.
I have some sympathy for people who are feeling lost (for whatever reason) and end up getting sucked into these dangerous forms of extremism. It's frustrating to see, and in no way absolves any of them of their agency and responsibility but - if i feel empathy and some understanding towards the young women who ran away from home to join ISIS because they were essentially groomed into that online, or the people who lost themselves in the QAnon madness, I have to also feel some empathy for the young men being groomed into the red pill culture by Podcast bros trying to boost their views and con them into buying their courses
This is very true
I’m sorry,,, I’m 4B and am almost anti man at this point in my life, but a lot of these women… just need to reflect. The one where she saw all the red flags and still married him (even the mom disapproved by saying he disrespects you), the one where she stayed with a bf for at least 2 years trying to ‘fix his misogyny’, and the last one… I want to be gentle with how I say this, but… it just seems like women are notorious for putting themselves in situations that they don’t need to be in. I know it’s trauma from our fathers and past relationships. But we can’t ALL have these stories. We need to do better ya’ll 🤦♀️😭. Maybe I’m watching too much of this stuff, but it’s so dismal out there. Like I’ve come to realize that no one is winning. Men or women.
@@redgoddess I 100% AGREE. We also need to have accountability for ourselves and our sisters. You willingly married a guy who 'wouldnt take no for an answer' (and admits to still liking him at that stage). You somehow think its your responsibility to teach your boyfriend of 1.5 years to not be a misogynist? There are women in this world who do not have the luxury of choice. We need to be smarter
4B is just women redpill lol. It’s not any better
They ate brainwashed and taught at a young age to "struggle love: and wor through. I can't blame the women because I've seen the shaping first hand, I just had more sisters and women in my life to fight against it (my sisters and I protected eachother from the rest of our family in every form) we shouldn't have had to at our ages but it speaks to how they treat girls
pathological altruism
When i met my boyfriend i asked him if he knew any of those red pill people (tate, F&F, etc) and he doesnt and still doesnt.. i told him straight up those men ruin healthy relationships and to keep it that way. Im glad hes not interested.. tbh that content is for insecure men and hes not insecure at all ❤
I love these videos. I’m learning and growing all the time. 💥🌹⭐️💥🌹⭐️
You should do one on asking mothers about their sons consuming the toxic sludge.
The single mothers you mean? Because they couldn’t keep a man to be a good role model for their sons so they had to look elsewhere?
Or the overbearing, nagging mother that treats her husband like the dirt in her shoe and the son is trying to escape that reality for himself?
Be honest… are you one of these women?
@@commonsenseplease5004 Wow, you need to calm down. Lol
@@commonsenseplease5004copium
Critical thinking must be pounding to you or sth
@@commonsenseplease5004you sound like the dads who leave and blame the ones who stayed. Shame, ya momma should've followed his lead with your thinking. Wasted her time like the others they mentioned. Please don't make the mistake and reproduce again
@@commonsenseplease5004 men are responsible for abandoning their kids.
I caught my cat listening to red pill content. She's a girl. I don't know what to do.
Uh uh. Girl get out of here🤣
The cat would roll her eyes at red pill 💊 content.
😂❤ KITTIES!!!
Thank you for this video. I do think it's important to scan for the "red pill" mindset because no man is going to tell you he consumes this kind of content. These guys tend to put women on a pedestal and over sexualize them. Once they have a woman hooked, they'll degrade them but they will treat a woman decently to get them hooked. It's kinda sick and sad to watch and when I see it, I back away. For example, last year I hung out with a guy who said he agreed with Nick Fuentes that women were too emotional to vote. Towards the end of the day, he told me about the women he slept with at an earlier time in his life ~ as if it were some type of victory. It was obvious to me he wanted women in his life as some type of prize. So that's what I look for...objectification...over sexualization...and degradation. Generally, I just quietly listen then back away because I know I'm not going to change their mind. Five years ago, I didn't even know this stuff existed and I just gave all men the benefit of the doubt. I worked in U.S. healthcare for a long time with some absolutely great men. Imagine my surprise when I discovered the "real world" wasn't like the men I encountered in health care. (Not saying all men in health care are great, but I really did work with a lot of great people.)
A man is not a plan. Better depend on yourself💯
The problem is that people don't know how to think critically anymore. Soooo many people listen to content and will either say "NO IT'S ALL BAD" or "YES IT'S ALL GOOD". Actually, if we analysed all content and understood that there is both truth AND lies in everything we consume, we'd probably be able to be less polarized. At the end of the day, the "red pill content" is polarising because it gets views. They don't teach people how to debate sincerely, and how to be able to have conversations where it doesnt end up in a screaming match between men and women (as seen on podcasts).
And it is such a shame that it's affecting relationships and friendships.
Back in like 2015 the first thing I noticed was a shit ton of "owning feminists" videos in his TH-cam likes. Maybe because we argued when he out of nowhere said feminism isn't needed. He made sure I never even got the chance to tell him I'm from a cult where women were treated as obvious property. Not that he needed to know that to know women don't have rights everywhere. But like all men he thought everything else in this world is for men to use and abuse and he thought women were pampered as a result. I should have known he hated me right then. Don't know why he couldn't just admit that part though.
The first woman went to counselling to work on a relationship with a person who didn't think she was worthy of marriage? So what were you planning to work towards at this counselling?
Being from Nigeria, i feel like being RP is second nature to the men cos gosh, where do i start cos we might be here all day. Even the ones that aren't flagrantly RP still harbour the tendencies and will do and say things here and there that are anti-women. My roommate in university, her father believed educating women is a waste of money cos "they will take the degree to their husband's house." You want to kmow the crazy thing, he was a lecturer (professor, for Americans). She was able to go to school by being a sugar baby. She thouggt if he saw her dedication to get an education that he'd step in to help. She called him one time to help her pay part her tuition for the session so she wont miss her exam, he told her that she's a woman and she should find a way.
I have a coworker that goes too into detail about her patter with 6 years and she mentioned that he watches this type of content. She spent her whole twenties with this guy and thinks that he’s gonna to marry her and wants to have a baby with him and how she always gives him sex…Lord there are so many red flags she’s discussed but she hasn’t caught it yet….
When my ex and I first got together it felt like we were on the same page. Then 2 years later after some small red flags that I wrote off he did a total switch. Went from somewhat same page to when we had an about the future talk he told me that he would "LET me have an opinion about things, but as the man he would have the final say." Then he started blowing over my boundaries even worse than before and treating our interactions as a "can I make her bow down to me" game. If I said no he got mad. If I had a boundary he got mad. If I wore shorts he got mad cause "other guys will look" (normal shorts not mini) if I voiced an opinion all of a sudden he acted like him listening was an option and not a relationship requirement. What broke the camels back was when I told him I didn't want to call and he told me "I'm going to call. And you are going to pick up" which was an obvious attempt at that alpha male nonsense. He called over 70 times and got mad when I didn't pick up. He had really gotten into Andrew tate months before. I'm kinda glad he ruined our relationship tho cause now I have a man that taught me the difference between an actual traditional man and a man who just wants to be abusive and controlling under the illusion of being traditional.
Red pill content made unattractive and uninteresting men start having unrealistic standards for women based on the mediocre amount of money they have. Red pill content really got men thinking that just bc they have a lil bread they deserve the best 🤦🏽♀️
So glad this popped on my feed. Cos this def happened to me.
told you, once they realize you are NOT going to listen to them, they will be meaner and meaner.. STAY QUIET and leave quietly. stay safe. It will get worse. Andrew tate just LOST his case... LOL he was hoping to get the charges dropped and that did NOT happen. WONDER WHY????? Stay quiet and stay away from them.
he confessed in videos what he did????
Poor girl at 9:30. Her brother and boyfriend accused HER of emasculating them? Boys, I thought Tate told you to take responsibility for yourselves and blame nobody for your failings except yourself. DID YOU NOT HEAR HIS WORDS?
Exactly. What happened to personal responsibility ? These aren't kids still being formed. They are whole adults.
Nope, they don't hear those words.
just say they're effeminating her
17:25 he was never your friend
My ex got into it when he became unemployed for a long time and didn't have any male friends. His only role models were the bitter men in his family.
Men will chose eachother stay smart ladies
*raises hand* // Trump's presidency definitely played a role in the mass unveiling of these beliefs.
✋🏼
And Biden is a saint?! Yeah ok, you must like being poor.
💯 ✋ He made racism, misogyny, xenophobia and just plain meanness acceptable again. Very sad times.
There was also another guy who i was friends with for many years and we were equally attracted to each other but just never seemed to be single at the same time or something or other would get in the way of us dating. I witnessed him go from being this really cute well put together liberal guy who was in university to gradually becoming red pill and conservative and becoming a dusty and dropping out of college (because it was to female centered). He became red pill long before red pill really took off. This guy was very independent and business savvy and clean cut. He wore clothes that were well fitted, got nice hair cuts and was very suave. Gradually over the years i watched him slide into a red pill rut. Now he’s a gross neck beard who grows pot in his basement and his house is so filthy i can’t even explain… he used to be super cleanly, utilized his furniture properly, had an actual real bed and real couch and a nice projector to watch movies on. And now he sleeps on a shitty twin mattress on the floor, has outdoor furniture in his living room and doesn’t seem to have any real food in his house. His plumbing is so degraded that i couldn’t even shower at his place and apparently the toilet couldn’t be flushed because the pipes were so degraded for some reason. He just doesn’t take care of anything in his own home or his appearance anymore. I don’t mind long hair, but i don’t even think it’s about a look for him, i think it’s just that he’s too lazy to go get a haircut now lol he had decent teeth and now his smile is totally degraded and he gained weight. Basically he started out in my mind being this really cool put together guy with great hygiene and liberal values, to being a total slob in every aspect. It’s like he gave up on life completely. Now all he does is sit around smoking pot or drinking and has a huge gut. The ONLY thing he takes care of is his car lol it’s very sad looking back on how this was the coolest guy i ever knew (in my mind because i was really young at the time.. a teenager) and now seeing this guy is basically a hermit with no life…. Red pill will convince these men to stop taking care of themselves and give up on life which will drive away the women who actually initially loved them.
Jesus, that sounds disgusting - what a miserable life
he's depressed, but no excuse
They always thought like that
No. Not all of them.
Not at all. They seek answers after failed and bad experiences with women.
Men just love to believe they're better 😂
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd driving, leading, logic. I've got studies to back those up, too. 👍 name one thing men are better at other than strength.
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd like actually, something tells me I'm about to teach you something.. everything men say about women is actually projection. The only things men are better than women are negative things, like aggression or being so emotional, you can't not attack a woman near you.
yall are better at being evil, delusional and violent so good on that. And women are going our own way
@@amandasunshine2 Women are better at driving???? 🤣🤣🤣 Every woman I know has 5+ accidents on their driving record. Women STAY totaling cars. My ex was in about 3 accidents in 4 years and was in plenty before that. Women are horrible drivers bro lol ... Leading? No not at all. Female bosses tend to have a chil on their shoulder and their "leadership" is more like annoying micromanaging and a desperation to be heard. Further, women are waaay too emotional to be leaders. Leading is strategic.... lasty, logic? Lmaoo is this a joke? The most emotional gender exeeds with logic??? Poor baby. Please lay down and take a nap.
@@BrothaJohn-br2hd so you can't? That's what I thought. ❄️ like I said, I have studies to back me up. Insurance companies know we're better, that's why they charge us less. ✌️
Dont be angry, toxic men always have been this way . Now you see it up front instead of getting stab in the back..
Exactly!! Social media is the best thing to happen for women. Social media shows women how males really are…
Even showing DL male’s.. this is great ladies!! Move in silence and do what you have to do…
I’m sorry for the first woman’s situation - unfortunately she needed to get a restraining order and leave, if she wanted out she needed to get out, yes she holds blame, doesn’t mean my heart doesn’t break for her but she stayed in abusive situation and brought a child into it. Repeatedly saying “I said I wanted to leave” takes the blame off her and her mind, but the reality is there is no blame, she chose to stay in a bad situation by not getting a restraining order or a law enforcement involved… she is a victim but she is also her own perpetrator and her child’s perpetrator. Her parent definitely told her to leave and she didn’t and she didn’t parent she wasn’t strong enough to on her own- I’m sorry for her. I’ve been in that situation where I was too weak. And it was learning that it was my fault that made it better.
One of my good friends from highschool started moving crazy, talking about red pill posting things supporting Andrew Tate etc, I had to block him so fast 😂😂
My ex😂😂 seems like right after we broke up he got into that red pill shit. We tried talking again a few years ago and he was just soooooo arrogant and down right disrespectful towards women. I could notttt. Mind you, when we were together he overly sexualized women almost to the point of objectifying them, obsessed with women and their assets. And nowwww he hates them completely😂😂
My brother, and I don’t call him, I’ve distanced my family from him
Cult…. It’s A CuLt
Once Certain words, phrase, saying come out of a man’s mouth….. I already know…
And I’m like NoPe 🙂↔️
Looking through these comments, I see a lot of people using the rhetoric “lost him to red-pill content” as if it’s some kind of thing that came out of nowhere…and I’d just like to provide my perspective as a guy that has observed a lot on both sides. Now for reference, I’m black, in my 20s and I’ve always leaned more liberal in terms of how I think and I’ve always been a pretty sensitive guy. (I radically accept everyone regardless of race, gender, or sexual orientation) I’m still like that and these are core principles I live by.
I was in my sophomore year of college during the me too movement and I started occasionally watching red-pilled content here and there starting in 2022 loosely around the time the redpill movement started getting bigger. Not in an obsessed way…just to try and learn from a different perspective/fix my shitty life results bc I knew something was off with what I had been taught
The first thing I’d like to say is that not all redpill content is a cancer…there are more extreme and more balanced creators…Andrew Tate & Fresh&Fit probably being some of the most extreme - both teaching you values and modeling behavior that will make you less of a good person, even though it’s empowering.
Anyways, so the question is where did this come from and why does it appeal to men so much?
Well, first thing you should know is that men are just as sensitive & have the same needs as women. But unfortunately in this society men don’t get that need met, like having basic physical affection on a daily basis. With other guys there’s always pain involved in most physical interactions or it’s just rough in general like a slap on the back (bc of homophobia). So most guys become touch starved and the only acceptable place they can get that affection is in a romantic relationship. So then one of the highest priority things for guys becomes finding their ideal partner.
Now, because a small percentage of guys are shitty people, women have collectively had experiences with them that are really bad, and as a result have developed attitudes towards men that are warranted and based on real experiences, but toxic at times. Not all women of course, but a percentage. But these attitudes come out in the form of the way guys are treated and talked about by this group of women who have had negative experiences with men or who have adopted those perspectives from friends or parents who have had negative experiences. The “guys are dangerous” which I get it, and being treated coldly or like a creep just from basic interactions with strangers if you are not attractive. We’re trained to not reveal our feelings from childhood but this all affects men psychologically. Makes us feel lonely and isolated and deprives men of basic warm interactions. At one point in high school I was so touch starved that a basic loving touch from one of the girls in my friend group would literally send chills up my spine and almost reduce me to tears. These are things we need to be mentally well. This makes us crave a romantic partner even MORE haha…
And then the last downside for men is that we are constantly told by women that if we are a nice guy, dress well, and have a good personality that women will be attracted to us. Or that we are fine just the way we are and it’s just your mental frame that matters most. This is NOT the way things work from the lived experience of being a man. Women are attracted to the guys (in general) that have a combination of well developed physique, resources, confidence/charisma, and kindness. So yes, personality is of COURSE part of it but it’s not the whole truth. The top 5% of guys basically get the vast majority of dating opportunities with women, so as a guy you HAVE to compete. It’s just how it is. You wouldn’t believe how different my experience was after putting on 10lbs of muscle. Night and day reactions from women. Even outside of romance I actually get warm smiles from women the majority of the time if I just say hi in passing…where I had the opposite experience for my entire life after puberty.
So what repill does is expose us to the truth that we aren’t good enough as we are. Not on a spiritual level, I’m talking in terms of your physical situation here on Earth. And this is empowering because we can change that with hard work and dedication. It’s much much better than people telling us we are fine as we are but constantly living with shitty results you can’t understand how you keep getting. THAT is what is truly soul-sucking.
Honestly if guys were given more love and care by our society in general, redpill wouldn’t need to exist.
And what’s unfortunate is that a lot of repill creators come with this super extreme traditional mindset that guys get sucked into, and it’s sad.
The stories about guys becoming super sexist, or even abusive…I’m so sorry y’all have to go through that.
Anyways, my two cents and experience as a man in the US…I hope this was enlightening for someone 🙏🏼
I basically lost my son to red pill content.
Let him go.
Stop birthing them.
He is a son, not your man.
leave him nothing in the will
I don't talk to my brother anymore. He was red pilled about 10 years ago. People on the comments have lost both partners and family memebrs. I'm glad I'm not the only one who just decided to stop dealing with it.
Maria you are working so hard girl ❤🎉 so happy we get another video! New to red pill it’s crazy how it just swept in and crept in on social media
Sigh, women are honestly better off dating and marrying each other...you guys DO know we can do that, right?
Ugh! The first girl I totally feel for! I also have type 1 diabetes; a disease I have had for 20 years now and certainly did nothing to bring upon myself. I was diagnosed as at 10, and as I got older, not only did I feel like a burden on my parents (who adopted me, which made it feel a little worse), but I was always concerned about dating since type 1 is not the common type and most people didn't and still don't know that much about it. I worried about how it would be taken by those I was interested in/dating. I always brought it up asap and asked if they were okay dating someone with this condition. Looking back, I'm glad I found people who didn't care about that. The reason why some of them didn't care is sexual, but I've now been in a relationship with someone who not only doesn't mind, but he lovingly deals with all the issues that come with being with someone with T1D like waking up in the middle of the night because my blood sugar is low. Or making sure that I am well rested and taken care of when I get sick. He loves me no matter what and I really wish that for her and everyone else who struggles dating with this disease or any other chronic illness.
When it seemed like my partner might dip his toes into some rp content i just talked about it with him and once he was able to hear himself in conversation he realized it was dumb and now its a joke between us.
The algorithm put him on to that type of content. He’s really into fitness, we both are but on the male end of that pipeline is PR content.
why men throw you out of your life as if they throw a trash... it is so wrong how they treat you bad after being the most closest person, the best friend. are there any men who really sees you as another person and not just 'female'?
The ‘Logical Leaders’ 🙄
I would not entertain any man who uses any form of social media.
If he has an IG, facebook and or TikTok… I’m not interested.
The woman that’s been with that man for four years needs to learn some self respect. No self respecting woman/person tolerates misogyny and they definitely don’t use the excuse of “oh but he’s hurting and he’s actually a good guy.” If he’s misogynistic then he’s not a good person and it doesn’t matter if he’s hurting that’s a him problem and he would never extend that level of empathy (or stupidity) to you, because he’s misogynistic.
Also it’s not women’s job to listen/help these types of men as that puts them in so much danger and if he does t see you as human there’s not much you can do to change his mind. Honestly it should be other men that are expected to deal with these guys.
I noticed my XH repeating verbatim some ugly Trump BS one day. I pointed out to him, that he and I had the exact same conversation about what Trump same 2 days prior, and he, my XH, said something totally different. And asked him what changed? Why was he quoting Trump now? He just stared at me with big dumb cow eyes. He slowy devolved from there. Refused to discuss his red pill opinions. Called me sensitive. My opinions and feelings were stupid. Then, my stepson (14), began his red pill journey. It was heartbreaking and terrifying all at once. My XH didn't see the problem. We fought so much. I was fighting for my SS soul! Fighting to keep him kind, educated, respectable. My XH called me controlling and that "boys are different". In the end, I left. That relationship shattered me. It took me a very long time to forgive myself for being so patient, and yet so blind to what was happening. Started dating at 15. I'm 49, now. I've given up. Single over 4 years now, and have never been happier❤
Red pill is no different than feminism. Both are partisan, subjective, incomplete, adversarial takes.
Anyone who can't see the wonder and awe of masculine and feminine is missing out imo.
That 1st woman has ZERO self esteem, even her mother tried to tell her. She's crazy if she thinks no one else in the world can understand diabetes. The 2nd woman was a bird, she's not part of the conversation if she stayed for years while that man was clearly abusing her.
That may be true, but victim-blaming doesn’t help anyone, certainly not the victims. They just haven’t learned yet that they have the right to stand up for themselves and not put up with BS. They’ll get there as they get older.
Do red pill men at least provide for everything and not expect women to go 50/50?
Do all red pill men expect polygamy? Jordan Peterson didn’t talk of polygamy as Tate though
Before red pill content was popular I had a large group of male friends, and also was pretty hypergamous but the guys who I dated, and even just friends with, were always very generous, giving and kind and showered me with compliments. Once this content became popular, and Instagram became really big and we were constantly looking at Lightskin IG models all this stopped almost immediately overnight. I honestly am traumatized by it, and I will forever miss those days when men were kind to me. Now, every day seems terrifying because the men are so distant. yet so aggressive no matter what you do.
This is just sad. People these days can be manipulated so easy. Like, where has their brain gone? It's not only men, also women and kids/teens. This is a very scary development in our global society nowadays.
My ex started listening to Rush Limbaugh in the 90's. He wasn't as bad as they are now, but I feel that is where a lot of it started. I don't listen to red pill propaganda but the stuff that he said when we were married shows he would fit right in.
This channel is propaganda.
My sister’s baby daddy/bf got caught up in this. My sister is faithful, he was her first and only and even birthed his child, she cooks and cleans and isn’t even a feminist but isn’t a trad woman either (so am I) yet he still finds something to be upset about.
Dang red pill 💊 in the medical field