1. Needs personal touch 2. Having communication issues 3. Havent had the difficult conversations 4. Get jealous easily 5. You have second thoughts about your relationship
Oh I'm a 4. I don't even want her to have friends because I'm scared she'll forget about me or they'll start telling her lies about me and she'll leave me.. it's happened to me with others way too many times ;__;
Well, for me, I'm dating my dear big guy, named Jesse, we are waiting until we can finally touch each other, we've dealt with problems together, we aren't jealous easily, so I think my relationship with him is going strong
@@Psych2go 6 hr time difference, not being able to talk daily, not being able to physically be there to comfort each other. Definitely not for everyone
Granted it feels like im in the 5th ring of hell but. Im a very committed man. The things ive been through for her.....and ive still got a ways to go...
I’ve been in one for over 4 years. And... we are engaged! We were supposed to get married this year and close the distance but a pandemic got in the way. what I liked about my LDR is that it gave me enough time to focus on my goals like finishing law school and travel the world with my partner during my school breaks (over 30 cities between the US, Peru and Europe)
Had a long distance to begin with but it is still hard. We where planning a trip to see each other this summer but we can't because covid. The uncertainty of not knowing when you can see them again is hard.
I was in 5 year relationship which mostly was an LDR one. It ended because we both had big problems and we kept questioning each other about our insecurities which lead to so many fights. If you fight too much, then reconsider your relationship. Don't end up fighting for the same issue. Spots don't change on a leopard. So is a persons character. Time is limited so use it wisely.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry to hear it had to end that way, but you seem wiser for your experiences. If you ever end up in another LDR again, I wish you the best of luck. ♥ I think in retrospect, we always remember fights more vividly and what were the core issues of them. You're lucky you can see things clearer now. :)
Communication is one of the most important things you need to be able to do with your partner. And while fighting can sometimes be a normal part of that process...you're right. If you keep fighting about the same things over and over and aren't willing to make changes and compromises together, it's probably better to go your separate ways. But it's never an easy thing to go through... Find someone who is willing to put the work in for you and who you want to do the same for! :)
I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 months now. And even though it seems short, it feels like the longest, hardest experience I've ever lived through. We have seen each other once in that time and I've learned that seeing them is what's worth it. I'm a physically affectionate person who needs constant attention and comfort- and he anchors us despite being 2000 miles away. But I've seen that reuniting after a long period of missing him only makes us stronger. To all those struggling to find the purpose to go on, dont give up. 💜
I've been in a similar situation and the time apart can be excruciating! I'm glad that you feel stronger once you reunite and are able to keep a positive outlook about it! Best of luck and I hope it only gets easier!
@SarcasMiss I see my partner once a month but things have been so hard lately.. We've been together for almost a year now, and he's just really struggling cause he's used to having a girlfriend at home and we're a 9h drive apart.. Really hope things work out for everyone
My girlfriend finds it hard that we're far from each other and both her mother and me are convincing her it'll be worth it when we see each other. We see each other in person for the first time next week. God I'm excited. She's the sweetest person I've ever met guaranteed.
@SarcasMiss oh same girl still 3 years to go if everything goes well.. We're on a break now and will see each other in a month or maybe two, but we both want to try again because we love each other endlessly, I'm not sure if it ever gets any easier.. Can you plan some more visits or is it reeeeally impossible? The more visits the easier it is I think
@SarcasMiss oh my gosh that's so exciting!! have fun babe :) I'm trying to attract my ex back into my life, been looking at Veronica Isles her video series and it's really helping and I'm feeling that he'll contact me soon to meet up again and to tell me that he misses me and wants me back in his life!
I'm currently in a LDR. We are more than 6000 miles apart, 14 hours flight journey from each other, 8 hours difference in time zone. It is difficult, without a doubt. It hasn't been a smooth journey at all for us. And there is no one-fit-all formula in LDR. Every couple will do it differently. But one of the key aspects is definitely trust, you can't work LDR without completely trusting each other. And another important thing is to have a point of the next meet up, as well as a plan on when the LDR will end. Because at the end of the day LDR is just a phase, it can't be a permenant state of your relationship, the distance must come to an end at some point so that you will be together again. If you don't have the trust and that plan, you're creating a recipe for disaster.
That's very good advice you've shared. Yes, trust and having meetups are definitely important, and an end goal must be met. How long have you and your partner been in an LDR for? Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, we wish you the best of luck. ♥
Same here. Driving distance, we're 21 hours away from each other and by flying, it's 4 hours. I live in Canada and she lives in the US. It's been nearly 10 months we're together and we have never met in person yet. Our first meeting in person will be next week on Thursday. She's coming down to where I live. I am thinking of going to where she lives in the summer or the fall and spend a week over there (this will possibly be my first time travelling alone as well). We've talked about pretty much everything in this video except when the long distance will end. She's in school for the next 5 years and I didn't go to school yet (graduated high school last year in June). I don't find it that hard being long distance as I'm used to not having a girl who's with me all the time in person but she does. Hopefully we can pull through as if she keeps believing in this and staying strong, maybe one of us will end up moving (got a feeling it'll be me). I'm super excited to see her next week though. We've been waiting for months to see each other and it's finally happening.
+@@littlemissai8997 Keep staying strong. It's been almost a year I'm in my relationship and I just keep telling myself we will see each other and we will make it work if we really want to/are meant to be together. We met in person once last month and spent 5 days together and it was amazing. Yes it was tough when she left to go back home but we got through it and we're fine now. Just believe in your relationship and keep being strong and it'll probably work out. Due to my girlfriend and I staying strong and believing in this, we're gonna see each other a second time. Possibly in October. I'm gonna go visit her where she lives.
@@Psych2go As for me, yes. The distance stinks, yes. Not spending time in person for a long time isn't fun. But what I like about LDRs is that they emphasize communication skills and the gradual building of trust. Things seem to be rushed in local situations. Also, people take things for granted because of easy local access. You're more appreciative of what you have in an LDR. Well, another thing is that I want to relocate and travel often, so long-distance arrangements work pretty well.
1: You rely on physical intimacy alone. 0:36 2: You are already facing communication problems with your lover. 1:15 3: You haven’t had difficult conversations yet. 1:42 4: You get jealous easily. 2:05 5: You have second thoughts on your relationship. 2:38 Be sure to thank this lovely channel for giving these tips out for everyone. ♥️
I’m in a long distance relationship but we are so in love that the struggles of LDR are worth it. Sometimes it’s sad but but I know I’d be even more sad if he wasn’t in my life
That was the case with me and my partner earlier, for 2 years. The pandemic has made it 3 years in a 4 year relationship and it seems like most probably it will end. The problems only started in feb 2021 but are continuous and he has said he doesnt love me anymore and i don't feel respected enough. It's almost over. I hope you guys don't have to face similar challenges and grow stronger
I'm so glad that he does it for you, I have that same with you, to me, my boyfriend and I are not fans of the distance between us, but the struggle is worth it because we're both for sure in love, I hope the best for you both ❤
It depends on the circumstance and time frame. I had two friends who had girlfriends going to completely different colleges in different parts of the world. One of them decided on staying together and trying long distance. His girlfriend ended up cheating and they broke up somewhere down the line. My other friend who's a little younger wanted to try the same a couple years later and asked me for some advice. I told him about my previous friend's situation that ended badly. I told him to be very realistic and ask his girlfriend if it would be okay if they used this time to take a break and just live life since they were young, and when they're done with college, he'll be waiting for her to resume properly again. She surprisingly agreed, and they both went off to college. The funny thing is, they continued talking to each other as friends and even visited each other during holidays. While they were in college, they went on a couple of dates with others here and there but didn't really see anyone else extensively. When they graduated and came back home, they got back together as if nothing happened and everything was the same. They've just got engaged a couple of months ago and he thanks me all the time for giving him that advice.
She was going trough the same things u are talking about, she tried so hard to make us work, but it was destroying her, of constantly having to talk to a phone screen and not her bf himself... So she decided to let go, as hard as it was.
BlueMoon Nest I completely understand that because I feel like I am that girlfriend. My boyfriend talks a lot about pursuing his dreams that can mainly happen out of state and for long periods of time. It worries me deeply and I feel terrible because we communicate, he reassures me, and when he’s in a relationship he’s 100% faithful. I know I shouldn’t worry so much and be content but I am always the opposite. Im so sorry this happened and I hope this gives a sort of insight and some reassurance that it happens to the best of all of us. I hope you are doing better! :)
@@spirittac All i have to say is that he loves you, and if you both truly love each other you can make it work out, even if you have issues along the way everything will be fine, a perfect relationship is built with trust and patience, and i know you both will do it... Thanks for wishing me the best, in a year i will be moving to her country, and possibly be able to meet her...But now she feels horrible because she lost her "love of her life" because she wasnt patient enough, and now ill be going there but im not hers anymore, we are getting closer again, and even tho everything is working to make us together again like if it was a big love story movie thing and be able to follow our plans and dreams we made, i dont know if i should give her a chance, i love her and shes so unique and special, but i found out the other reason why she broke up, and it makes me want to forget her forever.
BlueMoon Nest Our relationship is in a very tough spot at the moment and neither of us know if it is just a compatibility issue. This is the first time I’m actually contemplating leaving and he actually did breakup with me multiple times before. We continue to talk throughly about everything. I wish you good luck in a new country! Do whatever feels best for you and everything good will come, I’m glad you are feeling better coming out of it. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Thanks for being so kind.
Having a long distance relationship, I can tell you that no one does perfect in the beginning. When my bf and I got together the both of us were struggling. We struggled with communicating, myself I struggled with having to read things like I love you instead of hear them and he struggled with jealousy. But as time passed we got more comfortable and just knew how to do keep each other happy. In the start we had many fights but we made up and we haven't since quite some time now. Tip for those is a long distance relationship: try to put your s/o in your daily routine. Like when I wake up I text my bf "good morning" back and when I go to sleep we call. That's something that happens everyday. Even on days he is sleeping already.
I'm in a long distance relationship too. We met online, and kept our relationship for 11 months until we met last November 20, 2019. He stayed with me for 2 months before going back again. It's sad, it's difficult and I have to endure it till next year before I could see him again. It's hard to be honest, we broke up twice but then still got back together. We're still together until now despite lots of tears and hurt, I guess, that's how it really is when you love someone and working it out. Hopefully, we'll grow together, and whatever shortcomings we have will be a lesson that will make our relationship even stronger. It's a struggle but the key is not giving up on each other. Be honest and trust your partner. Don't let your insecurities and overthinking get to you, it will surely ruin your bond. 🙂
This is beautiful. I wish you and your partner all the best. I just began a long distance relationship recently and we have had disagreements but nothing to major that we weren’t able to work through. At times I can see how challenging it could be having to deal with this for a longer period of time. Like we just got together and we’re already going crazy lol. I think it’s really amazing that you and your partner are able to work through things. Ik there will always be challenges but having the strength and love and all these other factors to sort thru issues really makes all the difference. I hope it works out for you both.
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Hi! We have the same experience. Im in a LDR for 1 and a half year. The last time we were together was 6 months ago. We almost broke up many times because of my insecurities. I am so lucky he always forgive and understand me. Maybe we just truly love each other and we're making sure this LDR work for us.
Thanks for these words. Am really thankful. I know, I'm the one who is quite toxic in the relationship. My boyfriend was like... He's cool. He trusts me. He's okay with me. I'm the one that is overthinking and having the insecurities. I was like controlling him on the social media. Checking up on him like crazy on the social media. Me myself have to change my bad habits. Or else..... The bond will break.
I had Long Distance Relationships when I was in early 20s, It was a very different experience & knowing someone from far away with technology at that time was difficult. The key is Trust & yes it can be very gruesome & heart wrench for a couple. Sometimes temptations gets in the way as well to the point we feel like tearing up when hearing something that we don't want to hear. It's not for everyone & I've learned it the hard way.
Thanks for sharing this story. Long distance relationships can be very emotionally taxing and I'm so sorry you had a sad experience with one... It's true that the technology available these days offers us incredible new ways to connect from a distance, but ultimately it can never completely replace the ability to physically be with the person. I hope things have gotten better for you since then.
My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for 6 months. It was extremely hard, but now we’re together and I can’t express how happy I am :) Now when things get tough, I have him by my side to help me through it ❤️
Time can also play a big factor. Having schedules that don’t match up makes it really hard. You may have free time during the day when he’s at work, but when he’s off you’re in the lab working on a group project with the rest of your members. Finding time to call and talk to each other. What’s worked for me, is asking what they do when they are out with friends. You went and did such and so? That’s cool. Gives you reassurance while telling them you care and aren’t against them going out.
I just recently got into a long distance relationship. I've never been in one before and I hope we can make things work out. We're so perfect for each other and even if we lives hundreds of miles away from each other i still hope and pray we can get as close as we would if we could see each other in real life every day. 💕
Aww, I'm so glad to hear your optimism! That plays a big factor in LDRs actually. I hope things work out for the both of you, too. ♥ Keep us updated on the situation.
I was in a ton a LDR but now, I've realized it has destroyed me... I never had a "real" relationship and because of that, I felt so empty and so full at the same time that I just needed to give my love to anybody or I'll become empty and depressed again... But now, I wanna change so I've decided to not rely on LDR anymore and instead, trying to have a *real* special somebody... ❤
I think an LDR is real just as any relationship, but it just comes with a different set of challenges. I'm so glad you're giving love another chance though. Good luck! I have faith you'll find someone special. ♥ :)
@@Psych2go Oh.. :o Never thought you would say that to me.. thank you a lot ❤ honestly, your channel helped me a lot so I'm really glad to have a reply from you, it means a lot to me... ^-^ But yeah, I hope I'll find someone... ♥
I’m in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months and yes it gets tough sometimes knowing we can’t see each other in person and probably won’t for a while. I still love him in every way possible I honestly have no idea what I would do without him if it weren’t for him I’d still be the lonely shy awkward homeschooler that I was now thanks to him I have someone, I wasn’t much of a believer in LDR since I always thought things wouldn’t work out it still scares me knowing there’s a chance that some day he’ll see me the way I see my self and realized how much more better he deserves in life. I’m hoping some day I can actually see him in person and get to hold him in my arms he’s my other half and I’m willing to do anything for my other half. I love you zach ❤️
zumzy u that’s fucked up, how can you live with yourself? Okey she did it but what if she didn’t. Trust each other i now realise i do not want to become someone like you
I’ve been in a long distance relationship for so long, I’ve gotten numb to the idea of it hurting to be apart lmao it’s to the point where I almost don’t care that he’s gone 97% of the time. Looking at this video I’ve realized I wasn’t ready for one back then.. I don’t really get that excited when he comes home anymore lol I enjoy when he’s home but I know him being in my presence will not last long. 🤷🏽♀️ being in a LDR sucks.
Hey Leah. Sorry to hear your relationship isn't the greatest. I completely get what you mean. I was exactly like this with my ex. It sounds to me that the long distance has effected your relationship in a negative way. I myself can't stand LDR and it made it very stale towards the end because sadly you get bored when you're away from eachother for so long. Maybe talk to him about this if it's effecting you? Hope for the best.
Hi Leah, I'm sorry to hear about that. Have you talked to him about how your feelings have shifted from excitement to numbness? Maybe you can both work at keeping the flames going, but it all starts with an open conversation. We really hope things turn around. ♥ Stay strong.
I wasn't ready for a long distance relationship... and I haven't seen my bf for almost a month... because of lock down... i hate this virus... I'm so sad
Hey! I think long distance relationship videos are great and many people need them too! I don’t know if maybe you could expand a bit more on the topic. Maybe do a video about misconceptions that people have over long distance relationships. Also thank you all so much for putting so much effort into your videos!
I’m in a long distance relationship currently and sometimes worry if it’s too hard on him, but he tells me everyday that it’ll be worth it when I come back in two years and that this distance doesn’t bother him knowing that I can visit him and he constantly tells me “baby two years apart means nothing if I get to have you for the rest of my life” I always tear up when he says it because he’s right and I love him so much
I've rushed into an LDR relationship without knowing that all of these signs are 100% me. We fought often (over text), and it was extremely toxic overall. We broke up awhile later and I feel so relieved.
I personally couldn't deal with a LDR. A lot of it was because I have major depression and anxiety, and I also suspect I have BPD which explains my fear of abandonment and attachment issues. I couldn't stand being without her and I would worry constantly about her liking other people and was doing things behind my back. It made me become very toxic and possessive. It also made the relationship turn extremely stale and boring. Thankfully I'm in a great relationship now and I live with my current boyfriend. He knows about my flaws and he's so understanding that I rarely get angry or toxic. My advice is if you have depression or anxiety, I would consider a LDR only if you're 100% mentally prepared.
This was my current situation…but me and my s/o have been together for 6 years…but the insecurity and toxicity grows inside me and it tears both of our hearts…tge damage is done and it won't be the same again to my bf… 😢
A sign for me at least for long distance relationships won't work out is when the person is too clingy and makes you feel like a terrible person when you're busy with something and don't have time to talk to them
i think ldrs are even harder for ppl who havent been in a relationship because the picture we have in our minds of an ideal relationship doesnt include ldrs
I have been in ldr for a year we met by waiting for an oppurtunity I could ride a plane for 1 year and 2 months. I spent only a week but that week will rest on the rest of my life. I never will get jealous anymore for she waited for me so long. Tip: choose a good person to trust Tip 2: Always solve not blame Tip 3:Don't judge quick Tip4: love her more than anything Tip5: always give her reassurance
Me, in a long distance relationship: Let's see how many of these I don't relate to Update: I only related to one, and it isn't even a problem for me so we gucci (it's number three)
I'm currently in a LDR with someone who has moved across the country. It gets pretty tough, especially when I hit a low point and sometimes our communication is very on-off. But even then, the long conversations and even short conversations make it worth it. Even a simple "I love you," from him can make my day.
I've been in a LDR for over 2 years now. We already met in person and we had an amazing time together! He bought me a promise ring when he came here and we both feel very lucky to have each other. The quarantine thing has made it unceirtain to know when we'll see each other again, but we are okay with waiting as long as needed because we know a year or two is nothing compared to a lifetime together.
I was left by her. We tried communicating, including the most difficult conversations. Invested a lot. But, I'm reassuring now that love isn't really for me. I wish that my nephews, nieces, and perhaps future grandchildren get married with the one, and don't experience what some and I guess, including myself the feeling of going our own way.
I had a long distance relationship once. It was a year, the most painful one and the longest relationship that I’ve ever had. But at the end it’s over. Maybe we just didn’t mean to be together in the first place. For people that are in a LDR right now. I hope you and your partner can make it work.
Me and my girlfriend have been in a long term relationship since she moved away for university. We barely see each other, but when we do I'm the happiest. ❤
This video came out of the blue in the perfect moment for me... I understand better now that we made the right call in ending our relationship. Apart from everything said in this excellent video, I think it's important too to consider that you are not planning a meet day. If there's no meeting day, one when the time and place benefits both partners, then there isn't really a point in maintaining the relationship, because it would be two people holding on to the past, not thinking about the future... Thanks for this video, it gave me strength to let go.
I’m in a LDR with my bf (and it’s temporary). I started to have a second thought about us (and the funny thing is it’s unwanted and for no reason), but the thing is I don’t want to give up, because when I imagine our future with us or I remember us spending time together, it makes me feel better and stronger about us. My parents and friends support us no matter what. And we (me and my bf) really do believe that we can be together. 💜
Happily in a LDR and will be meeting up by the end of this month once again ❤️ We go through everything together and can talk to each other about anything. No matter the arguments we still grow together. We’re both patient, trust each other, and know everything is worth it in the end no matter how hard it may be because of our love and care for one another.
I never had a relationship before and i finally opened myself to someone who is across the world. I often get jealous easily especially after i knew all his ex are prettier than me, i often feel paranoid that he could cheat even tho i know he’s not going to do that, i trust him 100% but i also have a lot of insecurities and i knew from the start that this jealousy could break my relationship and i really dont want that to become true. Im planning to have a therapy just to stop my overthinking, it really stress me out when theres nothing to stress about
I'm surprised I found this video 2 years later, and I never thought I would be here as I never thought of long distance relationships. But here I am, since it is my first time being in a relationship, I don't know how to feel or what to do...
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and I feel we're pretty lucky that we live in the same country. I've been through some long distance relationship before but they apply a lot to the list. The long distance relationship I have right now is very stable and we would be willing to meet next summer break ♥ IM SHO EXCITED >_
I've been in a few LDRs and each one of them ended. Personally its extremely difficult to feel connected to someone when im not able to physcially be in their presence. I tried forcing myself to love them but i simply didn't. Of course it is different for everyone though! I found a great guy irl but long distance relationships can work as long as there is an extra effort put by both parties
thank you very much for this video. i'm in long distance relationship. although i haven't doubts about it, seeing this video "on the contrary" made me think about my approach to communication through technology. lately, i find difficult to use messaging apps, as if i had very little content to write. instead, i love skype, because it simulates in a realistic way the coexistence. i can talk more and even when i'm silent, non-verbal communication conveys many feelings. i hope i can have more motivation for written communication, so that communication in my relationship doesn't suffer too much physical distance.
Aww, we love knowing we can be of help. ♥ And best of luck to you and your partner!! Skype is such a great way to host dates, especially since it touches upon the non-verbal communication you mentioned. It just seems more natural that way. :) I think having a balance of both webcam dates and text messages can keep LDRs healthy. Have a great day, and we hope your next date goes well! :D
We're so lucky to have things like Skype available to us so we can simulate being together in realtime when we have to be far away. It can be difficult for some people to know how to keep up a text message conversation sometimes... Have you ever tried Rabb.it? It's a cute website that I think can also be used as a phone app; and it allows you to stream things like Netflix or TH-cam together. It has its own little messenger built in to the room too. It's a fun date night idea!
Funny I just got out of a long distance relationship last night. Funny to see this video here. Every thing mentioned in this video checks out. Whish I had this video sooner, but i am glad it is here to help those in the future. A broken crayon can still color!
I am in a relationship with my childhood best friend I’m so glad we are a couple now he is the sweetest guy we are in sort of a long distance relationship but we promised to make it work 💙 I love him so much Love Psych2Go and hope y”all are having a great day
That's so sweet! ♥ Ah, I love hearing stories like this! Relationships that bloom from solid friendships like this are the best. :) Have a great day as well, and tell him we said hi as well. :D
Aw, friends to romance is such a great feeling! That's so cute! Long distance relationships can be hard, but if it's something you guys are truly willing to work on I have a lot of confidence you two will be fine! :) Congrats!
I related to a lot of these on this list 😥 deep down inside I know I'm not built for a ldr and I feel bad that I moved away. I truly love this guy and I genuinely feel like he's my soul mate but I have really bad trust issues and the way he is really doesn't make it any better. He doesn't fix the issue and I want it to end but my heart doesn't.
I'm in a long distance relationship and I have to say that it came on a perfect time. Right now, I'm pursuing my career and I definitely won't have time to be with him every single time. Sure, the time difference sucks, not being able to comfort him hurts and wishing we could cuddle on cold days makes me miss him more. But we do our best to maintain communication and commitment in spite of this all. We are friends first and lovers after. Having that foundation and knowing each other's values help me believe that we could finally close the distance one day. But for now, we have to be patient and do our best to nurture our relationship, no matter the distance :)
Hey there. It's great that you two are managing in a difficult situation. It can be really hard but staying positive and maintaining communication is important. Wishing you the best for the future.
Im in a LDR with the love of my life. I love him so much and looking back at the conversation and the times we spend together i feel so good and bad at the same time. He is not like that anymore. Its been 1 year he is away from me and alot has changed and i think he is bored of me and makes reasons to not talk to me. Idk im so scared i cant lose him
Hey Nabina. I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. Everyone deserves a happy relationship and if you're not happy I think it would be a good idea to talk to him properly about the issues you have adressed here. Take care.
I agree with Smol. It is so important that you learn how to be happy on your own and to love yourself properly so that even if you do not have a partner you can still function and be happy. Try not to be scared, because if he is bored of you, that just means he isn't the right one to truly appreciate who you are. Stay strong.
Hi Nabina, I'm so sorry to hear. Are you happy with him? I think your happiness matters just as much as his. It sounds like the two of you really need to talk about this. We wish you the best of luck, please keep us updated on the situation. I know it can be scary to discuss about heavy topics like this, but it's better to be honest about what's been bothering you instead of letting those feelings bottle up. ♥
Thank you everyone for giving me suggestions. Pouring my heart out in comments and getting people support made my heart lighter. And i think im unhappy as well being in this situation. I'll definitely have a talk and keep things updated. ❤
Nabina I'm in the same situation girl I mean hell we don't even know who's gonna move where like.. But I'm in Love with him though all I gotta Say is have faith trust in God and he will work out your situation and if it's meant to be than it'll happen and take place💯
I tried a long distance relationship 12 years back, but it didn't last long. But in the end, I learned a very valuable lesson, and a lot more lessons from it for that matter.
The fire fades away Most of everyday Is full of tired excuses But it's to hard to say I wish it were simple But we give up easily You're close enough to see that You're the other side of the world to me
I was in a long distance relationship for two years with a mentally abusive girl. I left her after realizing that was what was best for me, and now have the most amazing girlfriend in the whole world
Me and my boyfriend has been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. We've never met in person but this man is my best friend and I love him so much and we finally have a chance of meeting for the first time but it wont be til late August and I swear my heart is in a serious ache of happiness. I can't wait to be by him physically, the road has been tough and its truly hard but as long as you love eachother and have complete trust you can do it.
I'm in a long distance relationship for 8 years. We get to see each other at least twice a year, but it's all worth it. He's the sweetest, most caring guy ever!
I just saw this. and i am in a Long distance relationship. 5 year soon 6 to exact 😀 we have never see each other in real yet. but we both love each other. and we may have different time zone but we always have a reasonable time where we can video call and see each other. i hope soon i get to be with her in real but for now i am very happy 😁 we both trust each other.
I'm in a long distance relationship. The biggest struggle is that I wanna be held or hold my boyfriend. We've never met in person and I don't think I'd be able to let go if I did meet him lmao
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I've connected with people a lot deeply when speaking to them away. Although its even better to see them, I think you become something greater when you always speak deeply without seeing them.
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i’m a big loner in person and i’ve met someone who hopefully will help me go trought obstacles of becoming a adult. he live in New York city and i live in Canada so we have 5 to 10 hours away wich isn’t that bad compared to other LDR relationship stories. I love him so much because he make me feel pretty and smart. :))
That's so awesome to hear! I know a lot of people feel the same way. Sometimes it's easier to start of in an LDR because it relieves some of the pressures and obligations being face to face can leave you with. It's a commitment that focuses exclusively on communication, which can also sometimes be the hardest part! So it's a good way to see if you're compatible with someone in that way, while also allowing you to put a little more focus on getting your own life in order. What a nice bonus that you're not too far from each other, though! I wish you guys happiness!
i've been in a ldr for a little over a year now, and it's definitely not easy but you gotta have BOTH sides willing to work things out... just like any type of relationship. i think that being w my gf made me learn a lot about myself and do things to become someone wayyyyyy better than when we first started dating. anyways ya it does depend on what you prefer, but it also will really matter if everything reciprocates or someone refuses to communicate
I’ve already been through two long distance ones. Both had major mental health issues and it was hard as heck knowing that they were harming themselves and there was nothing you could do about it. Everyday was a struggle and it was very draining, but I was able to get through it (even after one of them admitted to cheating) and it was a significant learning experience on learning about myself. Through those relationships, I’ve learned that long distance isn’t for me and being with someone with mental issues is also not for me. I just wanted to share my story out there but my long distance relationships helped me realize my needs.
Hey I'm sorry to hear that your former partner cheated on you. It must of been very hard on you. Dating someone that has mental health issues, especially if it's long distance is always going to be difficult sadly. However I hope you find the right person for you eventually :)
I’m 30 & never been in a relationship...despite the fact that I’m handsome, nice, cool, smart, & unique. To be fair, it is partially my fault since 1. I’m very picky 2. I don’t go out to socialize. I’ve tried the long distance relationship thing a few times & it’s not for me. I have a hard time trusting girls.
I am in a long distance relationship with my best friend and we've been together for only two months, but have liked each other for a long time! We're very happy, and don't expect to be long distance for too long.
Was in a LDR for about 2 years. At least I considered it a LDR. Hour and a half drive. I drove most of the time. Every other weekend and some days during the week. When you love someone you make sacrifices however, over time, it appeared to be one sided. As time went on, the communication diminished, we second guessed the relationship and the person I was with when projected on to me, for reasons unknown to me. It took a toll on me and I was miserable. We communicated about it but we were just, as someone said here, prolonging the inevitable. It was difficult however I met someone close and I was able to fall in love again. No hard feelings towards my ex, I wish her the world, just like she wished me the world. Life is full of surprises.
Why is this in my recommended vids.. we both just ended our LDR.. he said it's for the best...
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Ah...something that's caused much more pain than I could ever imagine. It was a good learning experience, though...except the fact I was cheated on. That sucked.
Good thing I didn’t relate to any of these! long distance can be very hard sometimes but I know that I will be able to see my girlfriend sooner or later ^^ we also have a lot of trust with one another and like to talk about our futures together! It does kinda suck without the physical attention but patience is key! I’m just glad I even met her in the first place, just talking to her over video chat makes my day a whole lot better Also me and my girlfriend want to go to the same art school so if we both get in we could quite possibly start living together!!
I'm also in a LDR right now. We met through a dating site for anime fans and we haven't met in real life. By the way before I started anything I made sure he was legit and he was. I have never been in an actual relationship before so for me it's still mostly calling and a lot of texting. We will meet in two months at a convention and I can't wait to meet him. For now it's all good. We have the same interests, values and even though I've only been dating him for a couple of days, I feel like I have known him for years. I really love him.
I'm in an LDR at the moment and just met my partner in person this passing June. Took us 6 years but it was worth meeting him, I'm so ready to see him again and work on a future together! 😍💕 Communication is definitely huge. We try to text and video whenever and letting each other know when we will be busy or with people.
@@alextorres5467 sorry for a late response! Lol we both started around 15/16 and met in person at 22/23 😭💕. Even we forget what age we were when we first started talking but it was definitely wayyyy long ago.
I can't get either... Guys either see me as their annoying mom friend or their annoying little sister and girls see me as... well... their best friend who'd they would never be into...
How limiting to see yourself as destined for anything. You can't expect anything from anyone without effort your side. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, that's life. But sitting down, arms crossed saying "I got a true love coming my way!" will lead to a very bitter disappointment.
So this is for if your normal relationship becomes long distance, but what about starting a long distance relationship with someone you maybe met online or something like that?
Sometimes those work out, but rarely. If you did start a relationship with someone online then just test the waters first to see if this is something you'd both be ok with.
That happens more often nowadays with better technology. So far so good with my second LDR. We met on Facebook. We're both LDR veterans. My brother lucked out. He met his wife in an AOL chat room back in ye old dial-up days.
I’m learning and adapting, all these videos positives or negatives are giving me better understanding on making things work and how to handle everything with my own compassion. I’ve been abstinent with one mishap being used and incapable to function. all my life I’ve waited to even consider dating until I met the right one I’m 29 and finally met someone who I hope to by my first and only Partner and if things work my purpose in life. She’s like the angel to my demon 💞 and I want this to be perfect, slow and dealing with social apps later. I want to be in a mutually balanced relationship and make it official via social later. We’re both content with the idea so all I can do is make the best version of me thru self improvement and new skills.
I thought long distance wasn't for me. But this girl, she has me hooked, it's perfect there is total honesty, every misunderstanding is solved in seconds we totally trust eachother, al we want is be together. And I am so sure we can make it work in the future. I love her so much and what we have I couldn't even imagine having with anyone else, close or far away
@@Psych2go i had a boyfriend that lived 30 mins from me i know its not that far but its an hour with driving back and forth anyway whenever we were not together and even when we were together we argued all the time and then constantly broke up and he used me for money and my car sometimes the fights got physical
I'm have been always alone because most of my relationships have been long distance and I got used to it. Now I understand why and how long distance works, but my partners never will. I wish to be with someone who lives around my area but for some reason it never happens.
Yep, same here. Most of my relationships and relationship attempts have been long distance. I'm used to that stuff. Nothing has ever happened locally. Thankfully, so far, so good with my current one. He's also an LDR veteran.
Nancee-Laetitia Marin I wish the best in life and in your relationship Nancee, i know how it can be in a long distance relationship. It takes a big heart with an open mind to love someone when they are not next to you specially when loneliness and depression strikes you hard. Hopefully your partner is their for you when are sick......... always be strong my friend.
@@VannyARTS Thank you and best wishes to you too! :) It's especially hard during the holidays, which is just around the corner. I've never been with anyone during those times. I kind of feel like I'm physically single (but not emotionally, of course). Luckily, my SO has always been there for me. We're both huge goofballs and jokesters, so we entertain each other to keep each other sane. :)
After this year, I will never do long distance again. There's too much feelings involved & you can never be sure if the other person believes just like you to think that what you have will work out. However, communication is always key.
That's awesome. I am happy for you and your other half. I hope that the journey you two share continues to be a beautiful one and develop more personal growth.
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1. Needs personal touch
2. Having communication issues
3. Havent had the difficult conversations
4. Get jealous easily
5. You have second thoughts about your relationship
1,3,4,5 yeah guess im not ready then
Oh I'm a 4. I don't even want her to have friends because I'm scared she'll forget about me or they'll start telling her lies about me and she'll leave me.. it's happened to me with others way too many times ;__;
I have all them but I love him so I will not give up ❤️
I’d say only a little of 2. But that’s manly cause I text too much and he isn’t able to text most of the time
Well, for me, I'm dating my dear big guy, named Jesse, we are waiting until we can finally touch each other, we've dealt with problems together, we aren't jealous easily, so I think my relationship with him is going strong
I'm in a long distance relationship now and it's definitely not easy
What are some of your challenges?
@@Psych2go 6 hr time difference, not being able to talk daily, not being able to physically be there to comfort each other. Definitely not for everyone
I'm in the exact same situation :o
Same.
Same
Are you in a long distance relationship?
Psych2Go
No.
Yes, friendship for now though
Yeah
Psych2Go no, and I hope I will never be a long distance away from my soul mate
Psych2Go Nope
Communication is hard in person... trust is hard in person.. the people who make long distance relationships work are nothing short of saints!
So true!
I must be a saint. Then
Granted it feels like im in the 5th ring of hell but. Im a very committed man.
The things ive been through for her.....and ive still got a ways to go...
Facts aww
Right partner makes you a lovely saint (kind of).
I’ve been in one for over 4 years. And... we are engaged! We were supposed to get married this year and close the distance but a pandemic got in the way. what I liked about my LDR is that it gave me enough time to focus on my goals like finishing law school and travel the world with my partner during my school breaks (over 30 cities between the US, Peru and Europe)
God bless ur marriage 🥰🥰🥰
Update?
We are married and will celebrate our first year anniversary next week! 😁 Our journey was nuts but worth it! 🥲
@@claudiapalacios1415 thats amazing! i really wish my LDR made it, we even both talked about marrying and having kids...
Hey do yall think a long distancd relationship without meeting up at all would last for 5 yrs?
2020 be like
*long distance: quarantine edition*
2020: Long Distance Relationships are now Mandatory™
Facts
Had a long distance to begin with but it is still hard. We where planning a trip to see each other this summer but we can't because covid. The uncertainty of not knowing when you can see them again is hard.
@@Cloudberry444 i felt that :(
HAHA
Long distance relationships don't last unless the love is true love
Damn so much truth Dio...
But thats with all relationships long distance or not ;-)
That's every relationship nani
no fr 😱
But how do you know the love is true?
I was in 5 year relationship which mostly was an LDR one. It ended because we both had big problems and we kept questioning each other about our insecurities which lead to so many fights. If you fight too much, then reconsider your relationship. Don't end up fighting for the same issue. Spots don't change on a leopard. So is a persons character. Time is limited so use it wisely.
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry to hear it had to end that way, but you seem wiser for your experiences. If you ever end up in another LDR again, I wish you the best of luck. ♥ I think in retrospect, we always remember fights more vividly and what were the core issues of them. You're lucky you can see things clearer now. :)
Communication is one of the most important things you need to be able to do with your partner. And while fighting can sometimes be a normal part of that process...you're right. If you keep fighting about the same things over and over and aren't willing to make changes and compromises together, it's probably better to go your separate ways. But it's never an easy thing to go through... Find someone who is willing to put the work in for you and who you want to do the same for! :)
Very wise advice, and i totally agree. I hope you all the best in your relationship, n wish you well.
Is it sad I haven't gotten in any fights at all
I can totally relate to this on a spiritual level
I'm in a long distance relationship with myself
That hit me hard idek why
@@halaothman7487 lmao same
Wut hahaha
Ha! Gaaay!
O shit
I've been in a long distance relationship for about 5 months now. And even though it seems short, it feels like the longest, hardest experience I've ever lived through. We have seen each other once in that time and I've learned that seeing them is what's worth it. I'm a physically affectionate person who needs constant attention and comfort- and he anchors us despite being 2000 miles away. But I've seen that reuniting after a long period of missing him only makes us stronger.
To all those struggling to find the purpose to go on, dont give up. 💜
I've been in a similar situation and the time apart can be excruciating! I'm glad that you feel stronger once you reunite and are able to keep a positive outlook about it! Best of luck and I hope it only gets easier!
@SarcasMiss I see my partner once a month but things have been so hard lately.. We've been together for almost a year now, and he's just really struggling cause he's used to having a girlfriend at home and we're a 9h drive apart.. Really hope things work out for everyone
My girlfriend finds it hard that we're far from each other and both her mother and me are convincing her it'll be worth it when we see each other. We see each other in person for the first time next week. God I'm excited. She's the sweetest person I've ever met guaranteed.
@SarcasMiss oh same girl still 3 years to go if everything goes well.. We're on a break now and will see each other in a month or maybe two, but we both want to try again because we love each other endlessly, I'm not sure if it ever gets any easier.. Can you plan some more visits or is it reeeeally impossible? The more visits the easier it is I think
@SarcasMiss oh my gosh that's so exciting!! have fun babe :) I'm trying to attract my ex back into my life, been looking at Veronica Isles her video series and it's really helping and I'm feeling that he'll contact me soon to meet up again and to tell me that he misses me and wants me back in his life!
I'm currently in a LDR. We are more than 6000 miles apart, 14 hours flight journey from each other, 8 hours difference in time zone. It is difficult, without a doubt. It hasn't been a smooth journey at all for us. And there is no one-fit-all formula in LDR. Every couple will do it differently. But one of the key aspects is definitely trust, you can't work LDR without completely trusting each other. And another important thing is to have a point of the next meet up, as well as a plan on when the LDR will end. Because at the end of the day LDR is just a phase, it can't be a permenant state of your relationship, the distance must come to an end at some point so that you will be together again. If you don't have the trust and that plan, you're creating a recipe for disaster.
That's very good advice you've shared. Yes, trust and having meetups are definitely important, and an end goal must be met. How long have you and your partner been in an LDR for? Sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders, we wish you the best of luck. ♥
@@Psych2go we've been in LDR for slightly more than a year. Thanks. Hope we can push through it.
Same here. Driving distance, we're 21 hours away from each other and by flying, it's 4 hours. I live in Canada and she lives in the US. It's been nearly 10 months we're together and we have never met in person yet. Our first meeting in person will be next week on Thursday. She's coming down to where I live. I am thinking of going to where she lives in the summer or the fall and spend a week over there (this will possibly be my first time travelling alone as well). We've talked about pretty much everything in this video except when the long distance will end. She's in school for the next 5 years and I didn't go to school yet (graduated high school last year in June). I don't find it that hard being long distance as I'm used to not having a girl who's with me all the time in person but she does. Hopefully we can pull through as if she keeps believing in this and staying strong, maybe one of us will end up moving (got a feeling it'll be me). I'm super excited to see her next week though. We've been waiting for months to see each other and it's finally happening.
Well i hope the 2nd year he wouldn't change like my ex did. 6 years in LDR. It's tough. You're lucky if he loves you till the end.
+@@littlemissai8997 Keep staying strong. It's been almost a year I'm in my relationship and I just keep telling myself we will see each other and we will make it work if we really want to/are meant to be together. We met in person once last month and spent 5 days together and it was amazing. Yes it was tough when she left to go back home but we got through it and we're fine now. Just believe in your relationship and keep being strong and it'll probably work out. Due to my girlfriend and I staying strong and believing in this, we're gonna see each other a second time. Possibly in October. I'm gonna go visit her where she lives.
I’ve been in long distance for almost four years now and we are going strong. It’s possible :)
That sounds awesome. I'm happy for you and your other half. And, thanks for sharing this. It shows to everyone here that LDR is totally possible.
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Updates?
Its weird...im used to long distance relationships than physical ones
Same here.
Interesting! Do you prefer LDRs then?
@@Psych2go As for me, yes. The distance stinks, yes. Not spending time in person for a long time isn't fun. But what I like about LDRs is that they emphasize communication skills and the gradual building of trust. Things seem to be rushed in local situations. Also, people take things for granted because of easy local access. You're more appreciative of what you have in an LDR. Well, another thing is that I want to relocate and travel often, so long-distance arrangements work pretty well.
@@Psych2go Pretty much what Nancee said. Plus the added longing and passion when you do meet after that long period of time.
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I’m in a long distance relationship but we are so in love that the struggles of LDR are worth it. Sometimes it’s sad but but I know I’d be even more sad if he wasn’t in my life
That was the case with me and my partner earlier, for 2 years. The pandemic has made it 3 years in a 4 year relationship and it seems like most probably it will end. The problems only started in feb 2021 but are continuous and he has said he doesnt love me anymore and i don't feel respected enough. It's almost over. I hope you guys don't have to face similar challenges and grow stronger
I'm so glad that he does it for you, I have that same with you, to me, my boyfriend and I are not fans of the distance between us, but the struggle is worth it because we're both for sure in love, I hope the best for you both ❤
It depends on the circumstance and time frame. I had two friends who had girlfriends going to completely different colleges in different parts of the world. One of them decided on staying together and trying long distance. His girlfriend ended up cheating and they broke up somewhere down the line. My other friend who's a little younger wanted to try the same a couple years later and asked me for some advice. I told him about my previous friend's situation that ended badly. I told him to be very realistic and ask his girlfriend if it would be okay if they used this time to take a break and just live life since they were young, and when they're done with college, he'll be waiting for her to resume properly again. She surprisingly agreed, and they both went off to college. The funny thing is, they continued talking to each other as friends and even visited each other during holidays. While they were in college, they went on a couple of dates with others here and there but didn't really see anyone else extensively. When they graduated and came back home, they got back together as if nothing happened and everything was the same. They've just got engaged a couple of months ago and he thanks me all the time for giving him that advice.
I know, that long distance relation ships aren't for me and I'm sick of constantly checking my phone.
But I still love him...i don't know what to do.
Me and my gf were together for 1 and a half year... Broke up last month... Im trying to be happy, but its harder than i thought it would be.
She was going trough the same things u are talking about, she tried so hard to make us work, but it was destroying her, of constantly having to talk to a phone screen and not her bf himself... So she decided to let go, as hard as it was.
BlueMoon Nest I completely understand that because I feel like I am that girlfriend. My boyfriend talks a lot about pursuing his dreams that can mainly happen out of state and for long periods of time. It worries me deeply and I feel terrible because we communicate, he reassures me, and when he’s in a relationship he’s 100% faithful. I know I shouldn’t worry so much and be content but I am always the opposite. Im so sorry this happened and I hope this gives a sort of insight and some reassurance that it happens to the best of all of us. I hope you are doing better! :)
@@spirittac All i have to say is that he loves you, and if you both truly love each other you can make it work out, even if you have issues along the way everything will be fine, a perfect relationship is built with trust and patience, and i know you both will do it... Thanks for wishing me the best, in a year i will be moving to her country, and possibly be able to meet her...But now she feels horrible because she lost her "love of her life" because she wasnt patient enough, and now ill be going there but im not hers anymore, we are getting closer again, and even tho everything is working to make us together again like if it was a big love story movie thing and be able to follow our plans and dreams we made, i dont know if i should give her a chance, i love her and shes so unique and special, but i found out the other reason why she broke up, and it makes me want to forget her forever.
BlueMoon Nest Our relationship is in a very tough spot at the moment and neither of us know if it is just a compatibility issue. This is the first time I’m actually contemplating leaving and he actually did breakup with me multiple times before. We continue to talk throughly about everything. I wish you good luck in a new country! Do whatever feels best for you and everything good will come, I’m glad you are feeling better coming out of it. I just don’t know what to do anymore. Thanks for being so kind.
I wish I would've seen this video before starting my LDR! Instead, we had a hard time saying goodbye so we just prolongated the inevitable.
So glad you found our video helpful! Thanks for watching! ♥ :) And aww, I'm sorry to hear about that. What made you guys come to an end?
I can relate.
must be hard. be strong. have a nice day :)
R E A I wish toooooooo! I’m in LDR almost 3 years and it’s hardest thing I had ever seen!
Going through the same exact thing right now.. It's so hard >.
Having a long distance relationship, I can tell you that no one does perfect in the beginning. When my bf and I got together the both of us were struggling. We struggled with communicating, myself I struggled with having to read things like I love you instead of hear them and he struggled with jealousy. But as time passed we got more comfortable and just knew how to do keep each other happy.
In the start we had many fights but we made up and we haven't since quite some time now.
Tip for those is a long distance relationship: try to put your s/o in your daily routine. Like when I wake up I text my bf "good morning" back and when I go to sleep we call. That's something that happens everyday. Even on days he is sleeping already.
Are you still together?
and how long did it take for you to get to that point?
Yow update
I'm in a long distance relationship too. We met online, and kept our relationship for 11 months until we met last November 20, 2019. He stayed with me for 2 months before going back again. It's sad, it's difficult and I have to endure it till next year before I could see him again. It's hard to be honest, we broke up twice but then still got back together. We're still together until now despite lots of tears and hurt, I guess, that's how it really is when you love someone and working it out. Hopefully, we'll grow together, and whatever shortcomings we have will be a lesson that will make our relationship even stronger. It's a struggle but the key is not giving up on each other. Be honest and trust your partner. Don't let your insecurities and overthinking get to you, it will surely ruin your bond. 🙂
This is beautiful. I wish you and your partner all the best. I just began a long distance relationship recently and we have had disagreements but nothing to major that we weren’t able to work through. At times I can see how challenging it could be having to deal with this for a longer period of time. Like we just got together and we’re already going crazy lol. I think it’s really amazing that you and your partner are able to work through things. Ik there will always be challenges but having the strength and love and all these other factors to sort thru issues really makes all the difference. I hope it works out for you both.
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Hi! We have the same experience. Im in a LDR for 1 and a half year. The last time we were together was 6 months ago. We almost broke up many times because of my insecurities. I am so lucky he always forgive and understand me. Maybe we just truly love each other and we're making sure this LDR work for us.
Thanks for these words. Am really thankful. I know, I'm the one who is quite toxic in the relationship. My boyfriend was like... He's cool. He trusts me. He's okay with me. I'm the one that is overthinking and having the insecurities. I was like controlling him on the social media. Checking up on him like crazy on the social media. Me myself have to change my bad habits. Or else..... The bond will break.
Good luck well its tru i always have insecurities that whether my long distance bff treats her bf better than me sad hopefully we wont quarrel anymore
I had Long Distance Relationships when I was in early 20s, It was a very different experience & knowing someone from far away with technology at that time was difficult. The key is Trust & yes it can be very gruesome & heart wrench for a couple. Sometimes temptations gets in the way as well to the point we feel like tearing up when hearing something that we don't want to hear. It's not for everyone & I've learned it the hard way.
Thanks for sharing this story. Long distance relationships can be very emotionally taxing and I'm so sorry you had a sad experience with one... It's true that the technology available these days offers us incredible new ways to connect from a distance, but ultimately it can never completely replace the ability to physically be with the person. I hope things have gotten better for you since then.
My boyfriend and I were in a long distance relationship for 6 months. It was extremely hard, but now we’re together and I can’t express how happy I am :) Now when things get tough, I have him by my side to help me through it ❤️
Both sides need to be 100% sure a long distance relationship will work out
That's true
No one can be that sure
I think we both didn't.. 😭
Time can also play a big factor. Having schedules that don’t match up makes it really hard. You may have free time during the day when he’s at work, but when he’s off you’re in the lab working on a group project with the rest of your members.
Finding time to call and talk to each other. What’s worked for me, is asking what they do when they are out with friends. You went and did such and so? That’s cool. Gives you reassurance while telling them you care and aren’t against them going out.
I just recently got into a long distance relationship. I've never been in one before and I hope we can make things work out. We're so perfect for each other and even if we lives hundreds of miles away from each other i still hope and pray we can get as close as we would if we could see each other in real life every day. 💕
Aww, I'm so glad to hear your optimism! That plays a big factor in LDRs actually. I hope things work out for the both of you, too. ♥ Keep us updated on the situation.
any updates?
I was in a ton a LDR but now, I've realized it has destroyed me...
I never had a "real" relationship and because of that, I felt so empty and so full at the same time that I just needed to give my love to anybody or I'll become empty and depressed again...
But now, I wanna change so I've decided to not rely on LDR anymore and instead, trying to have a *real* special somebody... ❤
I think an LDR is real just as any relationship, but it just comes with a different set of challenges. I'm so glad you're giving love another chance though. Good luck! I have faith you'll find someone special. ♥ :)
@@Psych2go Oh.. :o
Never thought you would say that to me.. thank you a lot ❤ honestly, your channel helped me a lot so I'm really glad to have a reply from you, it means a lot to me... ^-^
But yeah, I hope I'll find someone... ♥
@@Psych2go I totally agree on all counts. :)
I’m in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 6 months and yes it gets tough sometimes knowing we can’t see each other in person and probably won’t for a while. I still love him in every way possible I honestly have no idea what I would do without him if it weren’t for him I’d still be the lonely shy awkward homeschooler that I was now thanks to him I have someone, I wasn’t much of a believer in LDR since I always thought things wouldn’t work out it still scares me knowing there’s a chance that some day he’ll see me the way I see my self and realized how much more better he deserves in life. I’m hoping some day I can actually see him in person and get to hold him in my arms he’s my other half and I’m willing to do anything for my other half. I love you zach ❤️
zumzy u that’s fucked up, how can you live with yourself? Okey she did it but what if she didn’t. Trust each other i now realise i do not want to become someone like you
I’ve been in a long distance relationship for so long, I’ve gotten numb to the idea of it hurting to be apart lmao it’s to the point where I almost don’t care that he’s gone 97% of the time. Looking at this video I’ve realized I wasn’t ready for one back then..
I don’t really get that excited when he comes home anymore lol I enjoy when he’s home but I know him being in my presence will not last long. 🤷🏽♀️ being in a LDR sucks.
Hey Leah. Sorry to hear your relationship isn't the greatest. I completely get what you mean. I was exactly like this with my ex. It sounds to me that the long distance has effected your relationship in a negative way. I myself can't stand LDR and it made it very stale towards the end because sadly you get bored when you're away from eachother for so long. Maybe talk to him about this if it's effecting you? Hope for the best.
Hi Leah, I'm sorry to hear about that. Have you talked to him about how your feelings have shifted from excitement to numbness? Maybe you can both work at keeping the flames going, but it all starts with an open conversation. We really hope things turn around. ♥ Stay strong.
Same
I wasn't ready for a long distance relationship... and I haven't seen my bf for almost a month... because of lock down... i hate this virus... I'm so sad
Uhh its actually helped me lol
Hey! I think long distance relationship videos are great and many people need them too! I don’t know if maybe you could expand a bit more on the topic. Maybe do a video about misconceptions that people have over long distance relationships.
Also thank you all so much for putting so much effort into your videos!
That sounds like a great idea! I'll run this by the team! Thanks so much for watching, it means a lot. :) ♥
i agree, a video about misconceptions would have helped me a lot...
I’m in a long distance relationship currently and sometimes worry if it’s too hard on him, but he tells me everyday that it’ll be worth it when I come back in two years and that this distance doesn’t bother him knowing that I can visit him and he constantly tells me “baby two years apart means nothing if I get to have you for the rest of my life” I always tear up when he says it because he’s right and I love him so much
Congrats! It sounds like you're both very supportive of eachother and it's very important to stay positive in a LDR :)
Smol Tsundere thank you! I try to stay positive as does he and I’m gonna go surprise him next month I got his family involved to help ❤️🙌🏼
I've rushed into an LDR relationship without knowing that all of these signs are 100% me. We fought often (over text), and it was extremely toxic overall. We broke up awhile later and I feel so relieved.
I personally couldn't deal with a LDR. A lot of it was because I have major depression and anxiety, and I also suspect I have BPD which explains my fear of abandonment and attachment issues. I couldn't stand being without her and I would worry constantly about her liking other people and was doing things behind my back. It made me become very toxic and possessive. It also made the relationship turn extremely stale and boring. Thankfully I'm in a great relationship now and I live with my current boyfriend. He knows about my flaws and he's so understanding that I rarely get angry or toxic. My advice is if you have depression or anxiety, I would consider a LDR only if you're 100% mentally prepared.
This was my current situation…but me and my s/o have been together for 6 years…but the insecurity and toxicity grows inside me and it tears both of our hearts…tge damage is done and it won't be the same again to my bf… 😢
A sign for me at least for long distance relationships won't work out is when the person is too clingy and makes you feel like a terrible person when you're busy with something and don't have time to talk to them
I couldn't deal with a long distance relationship... this is coming from a guy with no relationship lol
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@@dn6893 hey w
One of the team leaders give me a hug!!!!!
Fully thought you where a girl from your pfp
i think ldrs are even harder for ppl who havent been in a relationship because the picture we have in our minds of an ideal relationship doesnt include ldrs
@@dn6893 weed eater
I have been in ldr for a year we met by waiting for an oppurtunity I could ride a plane for 1 year and 2 months. I spent only a week but that week will rest on the rest of my life. I never will get jealous anymore for she waited for me so long.
Tip: choose a good person to trust
Tip 2: Always solve not blame
Tip 3:Don't judge quick
Tip4: love her more than anything
Tip5: always give her reassurance
Me, in a long distance relationship: Let's see how many of these I don't relate to
Update:
I only related to one, and it isn't even a problem for me so we gucci (it's number three)
I'm currently in a LDR with someone who has moved across the country. It gets pretty tough, especially when I hit a low point and sometimes our communication is very on-off. But even then, the long conversations and even short conversations make it worth it. Even a simple "I love you," from him can make my day.
I've been in a LDR for over 2 years now. We already met in person and we had an amazing time together! He bought me a promise ring when he came here and we both feel very lucky to have each other. The quarantine thing has made it unceirtain to know when we'll see each other again, but we are okay with waiting as long as needed because we know a year or two is nothing compared to a lifetime together.
I was left by her. We tried communicating, including the most difficult conversations.
Invested a lot. But, I'm reassuring now that love isn't really for me.
I wish that my nephews, nieces, and perhaps future grandchildren get married with the one, and don't experience what some and I guess, including myself the feeling of going our own way.
I was in an online relationship for a period of 4 years and it took me awhile to realize that it was affecting my mental health...I miss you, Shaz
So sad
Im in the same situation.. it hurts
I had a long distance relationship once. It was a year, the most painful one and the longest relationship that I’ve ever had. But at the end it’s over. Maybe we just didn’t mean to be together in the first place. For people that are in a LDR right now. I hope you and your partner can make it work.
Your still together?
Me and my girlfriend have been in a long term relationship since she moved away for university. We barely see each other, but when we do I'm the happiest. ❤
This video came out of the blue in the perfect moment for me... I understand better now that we made the right call in ending our relationship. Apart from everything said in this excellent video, I think it's important too to consider that you are not planning a meet day. If there's no meeting day, one when the time and place benefits both partners, then there isn't really a point in maintaining the relationship, because it would be two people holding on to the past, not thinking about the future... Thanks for this video, it gave me strength to let go.
I can’t be in a long distance relationship with pringles.. 😭😂
Haha, me neither. That would actually be devastating...
Psych2Go yes 😂
Love ur vids btw :3
Very Relateable
I’m in a LDR with my bf (and it’s temporary). I started to have a second thought about us (and the funny thing is it’s unwanted and for no reason), but the thing is I don’t want to give up, because when I imagine our future with us or I remember us spending time together, it makes me feel better and stronger about us. My parents and friends support us no matter what. And we (me and my bf) really do believe that we can be together. 💜
Happily in a LDR and will be meeting up by the end of this month once again ❤️
We go through everything together and can talk to each other about anything. No matter the arguments we still grow together.
We’re both patient, trust each other, and know everything is worth it in the end no matter how hard it may be because of our love and care for one another.
Where are things now? I’m curious
I never had a relationship before and i finally opened myself to someone who is across the world. I often get jealous easily especially after i knew all his ex are prettier than me, i often feel paranoid that he could cheat even tho i know he’s not going to do that, i trust him 100% but i also have a lot of insecurities and i knew from the start that this jealousy could break my relationship and i really dont want that to become true. Im planning to have a therapy just to stop my overthinking, it really stress me out when theres nothing to stress about
I understand you keep strong!Sometimes i also feel like that uhuk...
Yeah.. I too overthink
I'm surprised I found this video 2 years later, and I never thought I would be here as I never thought of long distance relationships. But here I am, since it is my first time being in a relationship, I don't know how to feel or what to do...
I'm in a long distance relationship right now and I feel we're pretty lucky that we live in the same country. I've been through some long distance relationship before but they apply a lot to the list. The long distance relationship I have right now is very stable and we would be willing to meet next summer break ♥ IM SHO EXCITED >_
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I've been in a few LDRs and each one of them ended. Personally its extremely difficult to feel connected to someone when im not able to physcially be in their presence. I tried forcing myself to love them but i simply didn't. Of course it is different for everyone though! I found a great guy irl but long distance relationships can work as long as there is an extra effort put by both parties
I’ll be moving in with my long distance boyfriend next year~
How long have you guys been together?
thank you very much for this video. i'm in long distance relationship. although i haven't doubts about it, seeing this video "on the contrary" made me think about my approach to communication through technology. lately, i find difficult to use messaging apps, as if i had very little content to write. instead, i love skype, because it simulates in a realistic way the coexistence. i can talk more and even when i'm silent, non-verbal communication conveys many feelings. i hope i can have more motivation for written communication, so that communication in my relationship doesn't suffer too much physical distance.
Aww, we love knowing we can be of help. ♥ And best of luck to you and your partner!! Skype is such a great way to host dates, especially since it touches upon the non-verbal communication you mentioned. It just seems more natural that way. :) I think having a balance of both webcam dates and text messages can keep LDRs healthy. Have a great day, and we hope your next date goes well! :D
We're so lucky to have things like Skype available to us so we can simulate being together in realtime when we have to be far away. It can be difficult for some people to know how to keep up a text message conversation sometimes... Have you ever tried Rabb.it? It's a cute website that I think can also be used as a phone app; and it allows you to stream things like Netflix or TH-cam together. It has its own little messenger built in to the room too. It's a fun date night idea!
Funny I just got out of a long distance relationship last night. Funny to see this video here. Every thing mentioned in this video checks out. Whish I had this video sooner, but i am glad it is here to help those in the future.
A broken crayon can still color!
Did anyone else suddenly get thrown into a ldr short notice due to Corona virus and college closures?
I don’t mind an LDR - I just hope that when it ends, it ends well
I am in a relationship with my childhood best friend I’m so glad we are a couple now he is the sweetest guy we are in sort of a long distance relationship but we promised to make it work 💙 I love him so much
Love Psych2Go and hope y”all are having a great day
Good luck to you two and your blooming relationship
jin adachi Aw thanks 😊
That's so amazing, I wish you the best!
That's so sweet! ♥ Ah, I love hearing stories like this! Relationships that bloom from solid friendships like this are the best. :) Have a great day as well, and tell him we said hi as well. :D
Aw, friends to romance is such a great feeling! That's so cute! Long distance relationships can be hard, but if it's something you guys are truly willing to work on I have a lot of confidence you two will be fine! :) Congrats!
I related to a lot of these on this list 😥 deep down inside I know I'm not built for a ldr and I feel bad that I moved away. I truly love this guy and I genuinely feel like he's my soul mate but I have really bad trust issues and the way he is really doesn't make it any better. He doesn't fix the issue and I want it to end but my heart doesn't.
I'm in a long distance relationship and I have to say that it came on a perfect time. Right now, I'm pursuing my career and I definitely won't have time to be with him every single time. Sure, the time difference sucks, not being able to comfort him hurts and wishing we could cuddle on cold days makes me miss him more. But we do our best to maintain communication and commitment in spite of this all. We are friends first and lovers after. Having that foundation and knowing each other's values help me believe that we could finally close the distance one day. But for now, we have to be patient and do our best to nurture our relationship, no matter the distance :)
Hey there. It's great that you two are managing in a difficult situation. It can be really hard but staying positive and maintaining communication is important. Wishing you the best for the future.
Im in a LDR with the love of my life. I love him so much and looking back at the conversation and the times we spend together i feel so good and bad at the same time. He is not like that anymore. Its been 1 year he is away from me and alot has changed and i think he is bored of me and makes reasons to not talk to me. Idk im so scared i cant lose him
Hey Nabina. I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. Everyone deserves a happy relationship and if you're not happy I think it would be a good idea to talk to him properly about the issues you have adressed here. Take care.
I agree with Smol. It is so important that you learn how to be happy on your own and to love yourself properly so that even if you do not have a partner you can still function and be happy. Try not to be scared, because if he is bored of you, that just means he isn't the right one to truly appreciate who you are. Stay strong.
Hi Nabina, I'm so sorry to hear. Are you happy with him? I think your happiness matters just as much as his. It sounds like the two of you really need to talk about this. We wish you the best of luck, please keep us updated on the situation. I know it can be scary to discuss about heavy topics like this, but it's better to be honest about what's been bothering you instead of letting those feelings bottle up. ♥
Thank you everyone for giving me suggestions. Pouring my heart out in comments and getting people support made my heart lighter. And i think im unhappy as well being in this situation. I'll definitely have a talk and keep things updated. ❤
Nabina I'm in the same situation girl I mean hell we don't even know who's gonna move where like.. But I'm in Love with him though all I gotta Say is have faith trust in God and he will work out your situation and if it's meant to be than it'll happen and take place💯
I always thought I would be able to do a LDR but now that I’m being faced with that actually happening I’m not sure.
Im happy with my relationship, and cant wait till we meet in person :D
I tried a long distance relationship 12 years back, but it didn't last long.
But in the end, I learned a very valuable lesson, and a lot more lessons from it for that matter.
The fire fades away
Most of everyday
Is full of tired excuses
But it's to hard to say
I wish it were simple
But we give up easily
You're close enough to see that
You're the other side of the world to me
That awkward situation when nobody will date you in person and long distance doesn't work for you
I'm in a long distance relationship, and it depends on the both of you.
The main ingredients: Trust, Faithfulness, Prayer..etc
I was in a long distance relationship for two years with a mentally abusive girl. I left her after realizing that was what was best for me, and now have the most amazing girlfriend in the whole world
I am glad you have grown out of that situation. You deserve to love and be loved
Me and my boyfriend has been in a long distance relationship for 5 years now. We've never met in person but this man is my best friend and I love him so much and we finally have a chance of meeting for the first time but it wont be til late August and I swear my heart is in a serious ache of happiness. I can't wait to be by him physically, the road has been tough and its truly hard but as long as you love eachother and have complete trust you can do it.
I'm in a long distance relationship for 8 years. We get to see each other at least twice a year, but it's all worth it. He's the sweetest, most caring guy ever!
Ldr is hard and I'm already having second thoughts and I'm going through so much with my family
Same...
I just saw this. and i am in a Long distance relationship. 5 year soon 6 to exact 😀 we have never see each other in real yet. but we both love each other. and we may have different time zone but we always have a reasonable time where we can video call and see each other. i hope soon i get to be with her in real but for now i am very happy 😁 we both trust each other.
Damn bro. Its 6years now.
Btw did u meet her yet?
@@ashes2486 no no yet but i hope soon
@@huntermaster414now ??
I'm in a long distance relationship.
The biggest struggle is that I wanna be held or hold my boyfriend. We've never met in person and I don't think I'd be able to let go if I did meet him lmao
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I've connected with people a lot deeply when speaking to them away. Although its even better to see them, I think you become something greater when you always speak deeply without seeing them.
Damn the truth. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. 2 has been long distance. It's hard, but it's worth it. He's worth it.
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i’m a big loner in person and i’ve met someone who hopefully will help me go trought obstacles of becoming a adult. he live in New York city and i live in Canada so we have 5 to 10 hours away wich isn’t that bad compared to other LDR relationship stories. I love him so much because he make me feel pretty and smart. :))
That's so awesome to hear! I know a lot of people feel the same way. Sometimes it's easier to start of in an LDR because it relieves some of the pressures and obligations being face to face can leave you with. It's a commitment that focuses exclusively on communication, which can also sometimes be the hardest part! So it's a good way to see if you're compatible with someone in that way, while also allowing you to put a little more focus on getting your own life in order. What a nice bonus that you're not too far from each other, though! I wish you guys happiness!
Most of my relationship are long distance. Short distance would shook me now 😂
i've been in a ldr for a little over a year now, and it's definitely not easy but you gotta have BOTH sides willing to work things out... just like any type of relationship. i think that being w my gf made me learn a lot about myself and do things to become someone wayyyyyy better than when we first started dating. anyways ya it does depend on what you prefer, but it also will really matter if everything reciprocates or someone refuses to communicate
Watched this video to see if my current LDR fit any of the criteria. Happy to say none of them applied :)
I've never experienced any of those. I've dated my boyfriend since November and we are still going strong and creating future plans.
I’ve already been through two long distance ones. Both had major mental health issues and it was hard as heck knowing that they were harming themselves and there was nothing you could do about it. Everyday was a struggle and it was very draining, but I was able to get through it (even after one of them admitted to cheating) and it was a significant learning experience on learning about myself. Through those relationships, I’ve learned that long distance isn’t for me and being with someone with mental issues is also not for me. I just wanted to share my story out there but my long distance relationships helped me realize my needs.
Hey I'm sorry to hear that your former partner cheated on you. It must of been very hard on you. Dating someone that has mental health issues, especially if it's long distance is always going to be difficult sadly. However I hope you find the right person for you eventually :)
I’m 30 & never been in a relationship...despite the fact that I’m handsome, nice, cool, smart, & unique. To be fair, it is partially my fault since 1. I’m very picky 2. I don’t go out to socialize. I’ve tried the long distance relationship thing a few times & it’s not for me. I have a hard time trusting girls.
Don't you feel lonely though?
I see, what are you picky about? Do you wish you could change something to be closer to a potential partner?
I purple u v KTH I do. I really do.
Psych2Go I’m picky about looks & what the girl is like. I have somewhat high standards.
Victrola 1925 Thanks
i’m in a long distance relationship and i’m meeting my girlfriend in 8 months (august at comic con), i cant wait to finally hold her in my arms
I am in a long distance relationship with my best friend and we've been together for only two months, but have liked each other for a long time! We're very happy, and don't expect to be long distance for too long.
Was in a LDR for about 2 years. At least I considered it a LDR. Hour and a half drive. I drove most of the time. Every other weekend and some days during the week. When you love someone you make sacrifices however, over time, it appeared to be one sided. As time went on, the communication diminished, we second guessed the relationship and the person I was with when projected on to me, for reasons unknown to me. It took a toll on me and I was miserable. We communicated about it but we were just, as someone said here, prolonging the inevitable. It was difficult however I met someone close and I was able to fall in love again. No hard feelings towards my ex, I wish her the world, just like she wished me the world. Life is full of surprises.
Why is this in my recommended vids.. we both just ended our LDR.. he said it's for the best...
Ah...something that's caused much more pain than I could ever imagine.
It was a good learning experience, though...except the fact I was cheated on.
That sucked.
Good thing I didn’t relate to any of these! long distance can be very hard sometimes but I know that I will be able to see my girlfriend sooner or later ^^ we also have a lot of trust with one another and like to talk about our futures together! It does kinda suck without the physical attention but patience is key! I’m just glad I even met her in the first place, just talking to her over video chat makes my day a whole lot better
Also me and my girlfriend want to go to the same art school so if we both get in we could quite possibly start living together!!
I'm also in a LDR right now. We met through a dating site for anime fans and we haven't met in real life. By the way before I started anything I made sure he was legit and he was. I have never been in an actual relationship before so for me it's still mostly calling and a lot of texting. We will meet in two months at a convention and I can't wait to meet him. For now it's all good. We have the same interests, values and even though I've only been dating him for a couple of days, I feel like I have known him for years. I really love him.
I'm in an LDR at the moment and just met my partner in person this passing June. Took us 6 years but it was worth meeting him, I'm so ready to see him again and work on a future together! 😍💕
Communication is definitely huge. We try to text and video whenever and letting each other know when we will be busy or with people.
DororoXPenana How old were you when you started and how old were you when you met?
@@alextorres5467 sorry for a late response! Lol we both started around 15/16 and met in person at 22/23 😭💕. Even we forget what age we were when we first started talking but it was definitely wayyyy long ago.
What if I cant even get a girlfriend?
Serena Phoenix I feel ya sis
sumiko mak xze xin i believe in destiny but i feel so down
I can't get either... Guys either see me as their annoying mom friend or their annoying little sister and girls see me as... well... their best friend who'd they would never be into...
How limiting to see yourself as destined for anything. You can't expect anything from anyone without effort your side. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, that's life. But sitting down, arms crossed saying "I got a true love coming my way!" will lead to a very bitter disappointment.
I used to think those same thoughts, but with regards to getting a boyfriend. Your time will come. :)
So this is for if your normal relationship becomes long distance, but what about starting a long distance relationship with someone you maybe met online or something like that?
Oh. Just don't do that. It never works.
Sometimes those work out, but rarely. If you did start a relationship with someone online then just test the waters first to see if this is something you'd both be ok with.
That happens more often nowadays with better technology. So far so good with my second LDR. We met on Facebook. We're both LDR veterans. My brother lucked out. He met his wife in an AOL chat room back in ye old dial-up days.
That's definitely a challenging situation. How long have you talked to this person online? And how serious do you feel about them?
@@Psych2go oh I'm not, it was just a hypothetical question😏
I’m learning and adapting, all these videos positives or negatives are giving me better understanding on making things work and how to handle everything with my own compassion. I’ve been abstinent with one mishap being used and incapable to function.
all my life I’ve waited to even consider dating until I met the right one I’m 29 and finally met someone who I hope to by my first and only Partner and if things work my purpose in life. She’s like the angel to my demon 💞 and I want this to be perfect, slow and dealing with social apps later. I want to be in a mutually balanced relationship and make it official via social later.
We’re both content with the idea so all I can do is make the best version of me thru self improvement and new skills.
I thought long distance wasn't for me. But this girl, she has me hooked, it's perfect there is total honesty, every misunderstanding is solved in seconds we totally trust eachother, al we want is be together. And I am so sure we can make it work in the future. I love her so much and what we have I couldn't even imagine having with anyone else, close or far away
Long distance relationship really difficult so we need to think over before you enter into it
1 sign is when you and your lover are arguing constantly
That's true for almost all relationships I think. What are your thoughts?
@@Psych2go i had a boyfriend that lived 30 mins from me i know its not that far but its an hour with driving back and forth anyway whenever we were not together and even when we were together we argued all the time and then constantly broke up and he used me for money and my car sometimes the fights got physical
True 💯😭
True 😭😭💯
I'm have been always alone because most of my relationships have been long distance and I got used to it. Now I understand why and how long distance works, but my partners never will. I wish to be with someone who lives around my area but for some reason it never happens.
Yep, same here. Most of my relationships and relationship attempts have been long distance. I'm used to that stuff. Nothing has ever happened locally. Thankfully, so far, so good with my current one. He's also an LDR veteran.
Nancee-Laetitia Marin I wish the best in life and in your relationship Nancee, i know how it can be in a long distance relationship. It takes a big heart with an open mind to love someone when they are not next to you specially when loneliness and depression strikes you hard. Hopefully your partner is their for you when are sick......... always be strong my friend.
@@VannyARTS Thank you and best wishes to you too! :) It's especially hard during the holidays, which is just around the corner. I've never been with anyone during those times. I kind of feel like I'm physically single (but not emotionally, of course). Luckily, my SO has always been there for me. We're both huge goofballs and jokesters, so we entertain each other to keep each other sane. :)
THIS IS WHAT I NEED RIGHT NOWWWW
After this year, I will never do long distance again. There's too much feelings involved & you can never be sure if the other person believes just like you to think that what you have will work out. However, communication is always key.
Been in a long distance relationship with someone for 5 years and it is tough but worth it for me as we've grown and learned so much together.
That's awesome. I am happy for you and your other half. I hope that the journey you two share continues to be a beautiful one and develop more personal growth.
@@CoolHumanBeing Much thanks, stranger lol ☺