My "mother" taught me to hate myself by making me the family scapegoat. They do this to transfer their own feelings of self-loathing that they refuse to feel or take responsibility for. She also instilled existential guilt (guilt for being born), she did this by mentioning numerous times (when we were children) how my sister and I had interrupted her promising sports career. Her loveless abuse has emotionally crippled me, and her abuse also set me up for further abusive relationships later in life with similar women. Self-love / Self-compassion is the only path to healing. But it is not at all easy to undo these core beliefs that were instilled from such a young age.
Thank you for your sharing. This feeling of lack and rejection is passed on from generation to generation. The generation that realises this has the ability to break through. I wish us all the best of luck in our practice. It's not easy, but it is possible.🫶
How fortunate I feel to have been introduced to Thay and Plum Village, by means of interdependent coarising. The subject and the object are one! Alas, freedom is possible! Thank you dear brothers and sisters. May your days and nights be well and the health of your families be blessed. A lotus for you 🙏 🤲 🌼 🤲 🙏
Thay's Continuation. Like His Children. 🤭 Watching Lord Hanh Is Like Watching A Real Life Angel. All divine messengers are like this, envied, misunderstood, and hunted all their lives. They are contraversial and are rare. They always have this in common however; They create justice, love and bring us peace. It is always a joy even hearing his voice. 🌧️ 🙏🤍🌷
I saw a TH-cam ad for a charity with the message of what someone learned in residential schools: " I learned three things when I was there: I was stupid, I was ugly, and I would burn in hell." How many people learn to hate themselves from being in school?
Its important to have positive teachers that care i remember how negative my teachers are so all they taught was negatively and mostly didnt want to be their neither did they care about the students
3:48 "School teachers do not know how to love themselves and take care of themselves." So true 🙏 The teachers in my high-school era always said negative things. I absorbed that so I suffered from wrong perceptions of myself. It was hard to get out of bad habits like drinking 🍺🍷
Bhudda bhudda bhudda Understanding understanding understanding. Metta metta metta Community community community. Sanga Sanga sanga Keep and try to become bhudda Understanding understanding understanding
Thank you dear brothers & sisters of P.V. for this and the other beautiful videos. I've a question, I'd like to correct the automatically generated Italian subtitles, can you help me? A smile Antonella
Do you have someone who could help you translate all these wonderful Dharma talks to Spanish? I offer you my translation services for free. I am not a professional translator but I am certified in English and am a native Spanish speaker, so the script will be accurate. If you are
ok you really needed someone to go in the rows and tell those 2 to stop talking if they are gonna come to a sacred space. You could see everybody turning heads every minute and being distracted. Have some respect or go out!
I am so grateful that we are blessed with these recordings thank you so much sisters and brothers, sangha and Thay.
My "mother" taught me to hate myself by making me the family scapegoat. They do this to transfer their own feelings of self-loathing that they refuse to feel or take responsibility for. She also instilled existential guilt (guilt for being born), she did this by mentioning numerous times (when we were children) how my sister and I had interrupted her promising sports career. Her loveless abuse has emotionally crippled me, and her abuse also set me up for further abusive relationships later in life with similar women. Self-love / Self-compassion is the only path to healing. But it is not at all easy to undo these core beliefs that were instilled from such a young age.
Thank you for your sharing. This feeling of lack and rejection is passed on from generation to generation. The generation that realises this has the ability to break through. I wish us all the best of luck in our practice. It's not easy, but it is possible.🫶
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How fortunate I feel to have been introduced to Thay and Plum Village, by means of interdependent coarising. The subject and the object are one! Alas, freedom is possible!
Thank you dear brothers and sisters. May your days and nights be well and the health of your families be blessed.
A lotus for you
🙏 🤲 🌼 🤲 🙏
Thank you to the person who asked this question. Very important
I genuinely admire brother phap linhs stoic concentration. So open and receptive. No wonder he now Shines as a brilliant dharma teacher! 🙏
Thay's Continuation.
Like His Children.
🤭
Watching Lord Hanh Is Like Watching A Real Life Angel.
All divine messengers are like this, envied, misunderstood, and hunted all their lives. They are contraversial and are rare.
They always have this in common however; They create justice, love and bring us peace.
It is always a joy even hearing his voice. 🌧️
🙏🤍🌷
@@steevo211 beautiful comment ❤️ 🙏
Thank you, beloved Thay! 🙏❤
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I saw a TH-cam ad for a charity with the message of what someone learned in residential schools: " I learned three things when I was there: I was stupid, I was ugly, and I would burn in hell." How many people learn to hate themselves from being in school?
Thank you! Love ❤🤍
謝謝你.
thank you
This is great!
Its important to have positive teachers that care i remember how negative my teachers are so all they taught was negatively and mostly didnt want to be their neither did they care about the students
3:48 "School teachers do not know how to love themselves and take care of themselves."
So true 🙏 The teachers in my high-school era always said negative things. I absorbed that so I suffered from wrong perceptions of myself. It was hard to get out of bad habits like drinking 🍺🍷
Bhudda bhudda bhudda
Understanding understanding understanding.
Metta metta metta
Community community community.
Sanga Sanga sanga
Keep and try to become bhudda
Understanding understanding understanding
🙏
Needed this❤
Thank you dear brothers & sisters of P.V. for this and the other beautiful videos. I've a question, I'd like to correct the automatically generated Italian subtitles, can you help me? A smile Antonella
Dear Antonella, please email catalin@plumvillage.org 🙏
@@plumvillageapp thank you I will :)
❤
If i am an boddisaava, do i have to search for beauty?
Do you have someone who could help you translate all these wonderful Dharma talks to Spanish?
I offer you my translation services for free. I am not a professional translator but I am certified in English and am a native Spanish speaker, so the script will be accurate.
If you are
If you are interested please contact me via my email. I have contacted you through your app so you should have my information contact in your database
What happened to the Spanish subs? I'm not Spanish but it would be good for the Espanol listeners to have the great opportunity to understand
Please traducir al español
Please traducir los vídeos de Thich al español
ok you really needed someone to go in the rows and tell those 2 to stop talking if they are gonna come to a sacred space. You could see everybody turning heads every minute and being distracted. Have some respect or go out!