How To Tell A Potential Partner That You Have Genital Herpes

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    One of the question I get asked the most is how to disclose your herpes status to your partner. Here are the five main points I keep in mind when I disclose mine:
    1. Don't just talk about how it's caught, talk about what it is
    2. Don't assume that because they've heard a lot about it, they will know a lot about it
    3. Don't just tell them you have it, tell them what you're doing about it
    4. Don't handle it as a monologue, open up the conversation
    5. Don't be ashamed, be confident!
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  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +230

    This positively GUARANTEED eliminates anyone who is NOT serious about forming a real relationship. The men who see us women as ‘throwbacks’ once you disclose it will run. LET THEM GO! You’re STILL valuable, beautiful, loved, created in Gods Image. when they run it’s like an automatic eliminator. Rejoice! They just showed you guaranteed they’re not the one for you and that’s OK. NEXT!

    • @scanface3315
      @scanface3315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Better save my dick from hidious white spots than a 30 minute dose of dopamine, guys remember, don't put ur dick in crazy and don't put ur dick in ill

    • @abbie9292
      @abbie9292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@scanface3315 … dude who asked you wtf kind of comment is this … you got some serious work to do

    • @scanface3315
      @scanface3315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@abbie9292 I am givin good advice is all, better safe than sorry

    • @abbie9292
      @abbie9292 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@scanface3315 that didn’t help anyone or anything… it was just rude …

    • @sarahlee7303
      @sarahlee7303 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Rejection is gods protection I have heard

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    The MORE you’re honest and disclose the EASIER it gets! Give yourself a round of applause you are growing mentally spiritually and emotionally anyone can lie, that’s NOT you, that’s why you’re here, congratulations! 🎊🎈🍾 you awesome person of character and integrity!

    • @divinegoddess3060
      @divinegoddess3060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      😭😭 its so nerve wreaking i have to pray

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @emmalazarus1282
      @emmalazarus1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@divinegoddess3060 Ingredients on the products we are talking about include
      Echinacea 🌿 stalk, root
      Feverfew. 🌿
      Garlic. Cloves, root
      Ginger. Root
      Gingko. 🌿
      Ginseng. Root
      Goldenseal. Root
      And many more from #drchala here on TH-cam

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@divinegoddess3060 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @violator2695
    @violator2695 5 ปีที่แล้ว +250

    I've struggled with allowing anyone to get close to me since getting HSV. I don't get breakouts ... for the past 4 years I've never been able to let a date get any further than 2 dates as I struggle to disclose this. I get so lonely as I always end things.
    Thank you for sharing this video. The stigma around HSV is so crazy. When it is the same as the common cold sore family.

    • @aprilrandall_Tucker8595
      @aprilrandall_Tucker8595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Same. This is actually my first time admitting it right here on this TH-cam comment page never once before if I said it out loud Or wrote it 😭😭😭

    • @damienknox0714
      @damienknox0714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Same here I have a great sense of humor and woman are attracted to me but I usually fall back quick I dated three woman in the past year an when I told them about my situation they didn't care as long as took my meds an ive hadn't had a outbreak in like 5 years it's just hard to keep telling someone u got it

    • @abigailnistor2296
      @abigailnistor2296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I just found out yesterday I have it😭

    • @damienknox0714
      @damienknox0714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@abigailnistor2296 it hurts in the beginning but I still get dates now u have to be honest some might turn u down but it's ok just take your meds

    • @sunshineshine6658
      @sunshineshine6658 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mike text me

  • @connorstandingready6312
    @connorstandingready6312 7 ปีที่แล้ว +277

    Such an awesome video. The stigma surrounding HSV is so unwarranted and overblown and worse than the virus itself.

    • @VM-wt3ti
      @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Connor StandingReady my outbreaks are extremely painful.

    • @deeloc1993
      @deeloc1993 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Connor StandingReady not really, its disgusting and not worth the risk of popping a nut you can pop with a different girl

    • @VM-wt3ti
      @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dee Loc I had my first outbreak and that was it. So far I’ve had nothing. It’s actually not that bad he’s right. But I have type 1 genital herpes. It’s very common.

    • @user-eu2me4bp7j
      @user-eu2me4bp7j 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      its not overblown, its a legitimate concern.

    • @VM-wt3ti
      @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      C W no that’s why CDC doesn’t recommend testing for it. If it was a big deal people would test for it.

  • @stevegand
    @stevegand 5 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    Very good. I’m researching how to tell this news to someone and I’m choking every day with the thought of doing it. Ugh.

    • @aprilrandall_Tucker8595
      @aprilrandall_Tucker8595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I feel the pain.

    • @danilynn1110
      @danilynn1110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hi, I just got my herpes test result and it's negative.....I went to hospital to get retested to be sure and it is still negative and I am so excited today I am cured. thank you Dr.Okoh for getting me cured I will continue sharing to those suffering from this virus. You may need his email assistance. Drokohsolutionhome@gmail.com

    • @pardonchipepera
      @pardonchipepera 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@aprilrandall_Tucker8595 I wish I could say that’s the end of it because I haven't had any symptoms since then. Do not expose yourself to more danger, use a herbal remedy that is safe and effective. If interested contact him via email address dr.chalaherbalhome@gmail.com OR you can visit his website on drchalaherbalhome.godaddysites.com
      To know more about his product and services

    • @mariahhampton6795
      @mariahhampton6795 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@danilynn1110 hey i would like some information on it

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    A TON of people WONT tell you! Thank you for teaching us. Knowledge is power!

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @kagayakuangel5828
      @kagayakuangel5828 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whoever gave it to me didn’t tell me. They just took advantage. Asshole.

    • @jmcgarry3524
      @jmcgarry3524 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A ton?

  • @afvro75
    @afvro75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It’s never easy to make these kinds of disclosures to any partner no matter how “nicely” you put it. I think it depends on how you say it and the type of person you are dating. Some people don’t care too much but probably most do. It’s one of those situations that can go either way but it’s the right thing to do nonetheless.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @brandonbrandon3337
    @brandonbrandon3337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    i shamed a coworker for giving my friend hsv2 and latter found out that the girl i was with transmitted it to me this world has a fucked up way of telling me i was wrong

    • @sergiocalderon765
      @sergiocalderon765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Same man. I bashed somebody in highschool for it and then college I got it

    • @medalgearsalad1419
      @medalgearsalad1419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@sergiocalderon765 How did you catch it?

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @garettgee6305
      @garettgee6305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lesson learned. I think everyone has that initial "yuck" mindset... but honestly... having this conversation is the worst part of having it. No more than 3 outbreaks a year.. for maybe 4 or 5 days. Its just not as serious as the stigma tends to make people believe.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @A5HL33Robot
    @A5HL33Robot 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You are great for making these videos! I've done a lot of sex Ed in college and I think that I will have to pass along your channel to others trying to give non biased advice and education to people.

  • @viral-dating-almostfreeher8036
    @viral-dating-almostfreeher8036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love this! Thank you for talking about what way too many people are afraid to talk about. This is how we end the stigma!

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @yanit.2548
    @yanit.2548 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hey Laureen I wanna thank you so much for your videos. They really helped to lessen the anxiety i felt about giving my status.
    I gave my first disclosure today. Although via text, it went surprisingly well! (haven't quite mustard the courage for a face to face) Hopefully this will be the last time i have to do this. But even if it isn't, i feel like i can handle it. And it's thanks to you🤗🤗🤗

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @teepepalightup4783
    @teepepalightup4783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thanks Queen 👑 for really sharing this method or suggestions to how to share with a partner I appreciate you!!!! Your amazing!!!!

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @DreamBigJilly
    @DreamBigJilly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Thank you so so much for this. I was incredibly nervous to tell a really nice, sweet, and outstanding man ive started dating on our fourth date. I practiced what I'd say so many times and implemented some of your tips here. It went so incredibly well and although I practiced, my delivery of words was great but my voice was uncontrollably shaking with nerves and emotion. I give so much credit to the guy too - he immediately held my arm when I told him to essentially tell me "you're ok" and when I finished, he leaned in and kissed my cheek and told me I was very sweet to share, etc. But I give so much credit to you for providing a guide for us - so difficult to find this type of information and you're doing us all a service!!
    Thank you for this video and for what you do. You really helped me ❤

    • @b15marie
      @b15marie 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How has disclosing been going for you over the years?

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@b15marie DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @sonjastraszynska7227
    @sonjastraszynska7227 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you so much for this video!

  • @viirose8341
    @viirose8341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    its been more then 10 years since I been out on a date. I just don't feel that I am worthy of someone.

    • @sandracruscrus7348
      @sandracruscrus7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks God for getting my health back,am now free from Herpes virus,all thanks to dr.idowu, am so excited,am living happily with my husband💃🏿💟❤

    • @Girl_who_loves_Wolves
      @Girl_who_loves_Wolves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don't know if you'll see this now but, before I was even tested for herpes I could tell it was HSV and when I went to get myself checked my nurse said it was definately HSV. Today I found out I have HSV type 1 and I'm terrified of dating now or even having sex in general. I got it from my first ever sexual partner who's a carrier and continues to lie about it. I hope you get yourself back out there as this skin condition doesn't define us as a person, but rather I think it's also a good judge of character; if they are genuine they will keep on top of their condition and do whatever they can to keep there partners safe. Then there's the ones like the guy who gave it to me, the ones who lie and blame a ghost for giving you this condition. We are all human, put yourself back out there💓

    • @TalourGalore
      @TalourGalore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You are worthy

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TalourGalore DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    For anyone reading this, please don’t feel ashamed millions of people have it not everyone like you is honest enough to disclose it RIGHT AWAY. When do you tell a potential partner that you have it? As SOON as You see that the relationship could turn serious, so much sooner than later. Give them the opportunity to say yes or no. Be Authentic. Release the outcome. Do the uncomfortable. The more you disclose it the BETTER you get at it!

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @marysaraha1580
    @marysaraha1580 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Really lovely, Laureen. Your confidence, beauty and knowledge really shine..... and bring comfort

    • @kathrynfoster1698
      @kathrynfoster1698 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My Herpes was basically untreatable even when I have already used distinct lotions and creams into it. Thank so much, I discovered this Herpes treatment method *4HerpesCure .Com* It was kind of amazing seeing the same Herpes that have been haunting me my whole life vanish like this.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @pvpfromnj
    @pvpfromnj 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is a wonderful thing your doing here Laureen. You've inspired me. Keep doing your thing.

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @Angelsoul444
    @Angelsoul444 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for this. I hope it goes well ! Most people don’t take it well so hopefully these strategies help.

  • @Dbonesk8
    @Dbonesk8 7 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Lauren, you are really cool! This video has made me feel way better about myself. Thank you so much and if you are ever in New Zealand I'll get the beers!

  • @rocigirlmc84
    @rocigirlmc84 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Laureen, loved your videos, every word is awesomer than the last one. Thank you for sharing something so personal, for the greater good, you have, impact a lot (af) in my life. Thank you and one thousand times thank you!

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @rscampbell3
    @rscampbell3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love love love this video. Thanks x

  • @gerid8216
    @gerid8216 7 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    you're the best ❤ thanks so much for sharing this. very much needed ❤

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @alderjohn2370
      @alderjohn2370 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is alder from Texas,US. I really want this information to be useful to the whole world, it's how my brother was cured of herpes and cold score with herbal remedy prepared by doctor Chimnedum herbal home, and he also cure other virus too, for further information contact doctor Chimnedum herbal home now on his own email address dr.chimneduherbalhome1616@gmail.com or call/whatsapp him:+2347086675538.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @jasmineelizabeth3508
    @jasmineelizabeth3508 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks so much for giving such a good example of how to bring up the conversation. It's brilliant having videos like this on the internet to support people like me who are newly diagnosed and don't know what to expect in the future. You're beautiful THANK YOU ☺️

  • @reverend20piece
    @reverend20piece 6 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Hi Laureen, thank you for the video! I really, really do appreciate it! This topic is part of the reason I have avoided dating recently. I may get shot down, but at least I'll have peace of mind in being honest with any potential partner.

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @chelsey8057
    @chelsey8057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Truly admire the work you are doing :)

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @RunninChic620
    @RunninChic620 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you…getting ready to disclose for the first time.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @tammilynettemcdew6827
    @tammilynettemcdew6827 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stay strong thanks for info

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Please I forgot to add you are so beautiful ,this video is of great value ,help and healing thank you!

    • @emmalazarus1282
      @emmalazarus1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ingredients on the products we are talking about include
      Echinacea 🌿 stalk, root
      Feverfew. 🌿
      Garlic. Cloves, root
      Ginger. Root
      Gingko. 🌿
      Ginseng. Root
      Goldenseal. Root
      And many more from #drchala here on TH-cam

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @lincauley3675
    @lincauley3675 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I just found out within the last few months I have HSV2 and I am having such a difficult time coping with this, I feel angry and ashamed and not attractive. My sex drive has been non existent since I found out. There is someone that I like and I am so scared to tell him because I know if he declines any further involvement it will place my self esteem in a even worse place. I just feel very alone within this.

    • @jasmingoddess1
      @jasmingoddess1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Learn to love yourself , good and not so great things . You aren’t ready to date until you do .

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jasmingoddess1 Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @hollysheppard74
    @hollysheppard74 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank you so much for your videos

  • @TURBOTHETANK23
    @TURBOTHETANK23 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I may have just learned that I have HSV. I'm not feeling as confident atm as you are, I'm not in a dark place, but maybe a little shock. Thank you, so much positive insights.

    • @umarsulaiman9456
      @umarsulaiman9456 ปีที่แล้ว

      Help yourself naturally by clicking #Drgbuyaka for his internal and external treatment for HSV you will be fine.

  • @essab6906
    @essab6906 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you are a blessing to womanhood if I can say that,your videos are very informative .Stay blessed

  • @JackedBlack88
    @JackedBlack88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Thank you for sharing! Videos like this encourage me and I'm sure many others, to not be afriad of pursuing dating! Just because we have Herpes doesn't mean we don't want to get freaky 😝☺

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @brandonmagwood9092
    @brandonmagwood9092 7 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for opening up and sharing your knowledge. You explain things very well. I contracted this virus in December of 2015. I'm still learning a lot about this virus. Please continue to do good, and keep informing people who seek answers and help.

  • @CS-bh4ur
    @CS-bh4ur ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much for this video you’re awesome

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @lukeboyd6065
    @lukeboyd6065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thank you for this so much. I was struggle to think of how to go about this haha ❤️❤️

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @cory8630
    @cory8630 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know it’s been so incredibly long since this was posted and yet it still is helping people out to this day so first I want to extend my gratitude towards you for what you’re doing. If you’re still active or anyone reading this might know, what is the suppressive pill you’ve been taking to keep it dorm? I’ve been taking l- lystine and garlic supplements with echinacea and so far so good (thank god) it’s been a few months now since my last breakout which was the second one ever.

  • @micheleratliff9450
    @micheleratliff9450 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg so so helpful thank you!!!

    • @emmalazarus1282
      @emmalazarus1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ingredients on the products we are talking about include
      Echinacea 🌿 stalk, root
      Feverfew. 🌿
      Garlic. Cloves, root
      Ginger. Root
      Gingko. 🌿
      Ginseng. Root
      Goldenseal. Root
      And many more from #drchala here on TH-cam

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @VM-wt3ti
    @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I sub to your channel and love your videos because they make me feel like I’m not alone in dealing with herpes. You’re so beautiful and seem like such a sweet girl. It’s kind of weird how many people don’t disclose their cold sore status when they know they have it meanwhile genital herpes are expected to it’s not fair.

    • @elvisrichard8227
      @elvisrichard8227 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      All thanks to Dr Okiti for his marvelous works in my life, I was diagnosed of HERPES SIMPLEX VIRUS since 2017. I wasn't satisfied i needed to get herpes out of my system, I searched about some possible cure for HERPES i saw people’s comment about how Dr Okiti helped them and I was also fortunate to be one of those have been cured from herpes with his miraculous herbal medicine, in just 18 days!! Isn’t that amazing? You can contact him for help via emaildrokitherbalhome100@gmail.com

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

  • @terminatorsbk
    @terminatorsbk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks for this video this helped me tell my Girlfriend after weeks of worrying xx

    • @dznation729
      @dznation729 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just wondering...how did that go?are yall still a thing?just curious because a lot of people get judged by it.

    • @jonathanpape3704
      @jonathanpape3704 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed. How did it go??

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jonathanpape3704 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dznation729 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @rashawnevans3039
    @rashawnevans3039 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    God bless you for the video.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @Escobaz96
    @Escobaz96 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They way you disclose will determine alot...be confident and cool, also be knowledgeable about your body and condition and how it effects you and how it might affect them. Some will admire you for it, some will find out they have it to then you will become their best friend. Stay positive! Lol not like we have a choice

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @alexisjackson942
    @alexisjackson942 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Ive been watching yours and other videos, and i just cant get past the fact i actually have it. I hate myself, I hate this , i dont know if i will be able to make it much longer.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @AndresSanchez-kq5hv
    @AndresSanchez-kq5hv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I am curious on how she will react once I tell her I got a skin condition, hahahaha

    • @sandracruscrus7348
      @sandracruscrus7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks God for getting my health back,am now free from Herpes virus,all thanks to dr.idowu, am so excited,am living happily with my husband💛💃🏿

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @James-iz9qb
    @James-iz9qb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think its best to disclose your herpes positive status before sex. But I also think that the way society views it is totally mangled and non-sensical. Everybody accepts people having casual sex as long as they get regular STI checks- but these do not include herpes tests. So it is generally accepted as OK to have casual sex whilst having no idea whether you have herpes- and yet its considered wrong (and people will get angry) to even think about doing the same thing if you have taken to time to confirm that you have it. The risk with no test is 0.25/1000 per sexual encounter whereas with a positive test its 1/1000 per sexual encounter. The change in perception is not AT ALL in proportion to the reality of the risk you are subjecting the other person to.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @maggieh6443
    @maggieh6443 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Being from California, Its so nice to hear someone speaking English without saying “like” every 5 words 😂 I think that’s a reason why I enjoy your videos too lol

  • @AnaCastillo-id4zs
    @AnaCastillo-id4zs 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Hello Laureen,
    I just want to start of by saying that your channel is my support group when it comes to disclosing and feeling more comfortable with myself. As confident and educated as I’ve become since contracting this virus from someone I trusted and he did not disclosed this with me and ended up transmitting it to me, dating while disclosing this I have been able to touch the topic without making the other Person feel uncomfortable thanks to your videos, however afterwards I disclose I pull away and I leave it up to them, to the person, to reach out to me. My question is do you continue to contact a person who has not reached out after disclosing or should I just let that person decide or meditate/digest this ? Would love if you made a video on this topic since I really like someone and unfortunately he was okay when I told him but later pulled away ? thanks really need advise since I struggling with regret.

    • @eloharrison5879
      @eloharrison5879 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      *THE* *PYRAMID*
      In popular culture, a great amount of focus is placed on the Illuminati’s belief that money is not evil. Some view our encouragement of work and wealth as a promotion of selfishness - overlooking the true meaning of the Pyramid and its underlying messages that motivate our diligence.
      In the tenets of the Illuminati, wealth is not simply a means of personal enrichment. Instead, money is a tool that can be used to fulfill each person’s duty to the advancement of the human species.
      The selfish pursuit of money is a hollow goal, but the pursuit of the goodness that money can create is one of humanity’s greatest responsibilities.
      The more money a person owns, the more ability they have to positively change the lives of those who are in need. If you are poor and of good heart, and your friend’s house is burned in a fire, you will remain a good person but have no ability to help them with what they need the most. If the same house burns but you are rich, you can give your friend a place to stay and a new home because you have more than enough for yourself and anyone around you who needs it.
      Money has no feeling, no voice, and no soul - its choice between good or evil is decided by those who use it.
      Though it is not wrong to be poor, the celebration of poverty is rooted in selfishness. A person who is poor can save a life, but a person who is rich can build a hospital and save ten thousand. The poor can do little to help the poor, but the rich can help as many as they are able. If a person is rich, they have the opportunity to do good, but if they are poor they are unable to help anyone but themselves.
      Those with little can still do much. Money is merely paper and numbers that are traded for a person’s time and effort. Therefore if a person does not have money, they can instead use their time and efforts to further the advancement of humanity - positive actions that are of equal value to any charitable donations.
      The greater a person’s fortune, the greater their responsibility to their fellow humans. Like the Pyramid, those with the greatest power can do the greatest good for the largest number of those below them.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

    • @kagayakuangel5828
      @kagayakuangel5828 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. If they were messaging you all the time then stopped, they’re scared, I rather look for a boyfriend who has it too.

  • @Moist_yet_Crispy
    @Moist_yet_Crispy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're a boss!

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @icekinngfloaty462
    @icekinngfloaty462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your awesome 👏💯

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @deniseeggleson7461
    @deniseeggleson7461 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sorry but this video made me laugh when the cat jumped off the table😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. It took the seriousness out of the whole video🤣🤣🤣🤣. You have a great sense of humor🤣 thanks for the information. 👍❤️

  • @philippaduriws3320
    @philippaduriws3320 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve just met a guy who has told me he has it, I’m grateful he’s been honest and upfront about it but how do I protect myself from contracting it.. if I don’t already have it?

  • @reubenjoseph7115
    @reubenjoseph7115 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your a Hero .

  • @jeanettemarie6456
    @jeanettemarie6456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank. YOU! 🤗

    • @bandel8885
      @bandel8885 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im stresss. Im cry every night

  • @Xxxxxrrr6464
    @Xxxxxrrr6464 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank u, u r brave

  • @earthairandselfcare
    @earthairandselfcare ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you

  • @stephaniecaranna
    @stephaniecaranna 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love your video

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @bridgetfreeman5980
    @bridgetfreeman5980 7 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Have you experienced rejection after disclosure? As far as I know, I do not have the virus, but am afraid of contracting it. (I am getting a blood test in a couple weeks to know for sure).
    Because I've been worried about my upcoming test and results, I've mainly been worried about what a positive status would do to my dating life. Although I did speak with my dad about the "what if I have it?", he even said it's not a big deal. When I told him my fear of rejection, he said: "So what if a guy does? Than he's definitely not the guy for you." And it did make me feel a lot better.
    However, I like hearing how hsv+ folks deal with rejection while keeping my emotions at bay. Thanks.

    • @garettgee6305
      @garettgee6305 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that the majority of men will be more understanding than women are to men. Just make sure you disclose when things start getting hot and heavy... make sure you keep condoms around... and give them the spiel. Have options ready at hand. Youll be fine. Women tend to have more options than men generally... so they'll say no more often than men. Hope that eases your mind a little bit.

  • @johnnymateu4427
    @johnnymateu4427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @asceticify
    @asceticify 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are such a beautiful person

  • @mye927
    @mye927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you!

    • @emmalazarus1282
      @emmalazarus1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ingredients on the products we are talking about include
      Echinacea 🌿 stalk, root
      Feverfew. 🌿
      Garlic. Cloves, root
      Ginger. Root
      Gingko. 🌿
      Ginseng. Root
      Goldenseal. Root
      And many more from #drchala here on TH-cam

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @mikemerriott1326
    @mikemerriott1326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I've only had 1 'successful' relationship since my diagnosis 12 years ago. It lasted nearly 9 years but she died may of last year and I knew I would never get involved with anyone like that ever again, I just don't ever want to hurt like that again, my question is do you think that loose sexual relationships like fwb's are morally questionable having herpes? And what platforms have you had the most success with? Thanks for your upload.

    • @mikemerriott1326
      @mikemerriott1326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Gary Debra Where did you go and what treatment did you receive?

    • @kikitales9872
      @kikitales9872 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mike Marriott I got cured from hsv1 and hsv2, so excited.

    • @katelynnwoller7398
      @katelynnwoller7398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kikitales9872 how did you get cured may I ask?? I noticed boosting my immune system by vitamins and other immunity builders i have no more flare ups but wpuld be amazing to be cured

    • @lancejameztucker4140
      @lancejameztucker4140 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      kikitales how did you go about getting cured!? I’m dying to know. Truly, I’d give anything!

    • @sandracruscrus7348
      @sandracruscrus7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks God for getting my health back,am now free from Herpes virus,all thanks to dr.idowu, am so excited,am living happily with my husband💛💃🏿

  • @mandiecarlson56
    @mandiecarlson56 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Where is the link you mentioned about body language, posture. Ted talk? Thanks.

    • @fairlyhills5152
      @fairlyhills5152 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm finally cured from hsv2 after I took the herbs from Curingstdswithherbs. I was diagnosed 3 years ago with hsv2, I've been in several detoxing protocols, none work out not until Godsent came to me.. You can get the herbs @ Curingstdswithherbs@gmail.com.... It's indeed effective and powerful.

    • @sandracruscrus7348
      @sandracruscrus7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks God for getting my health back,am now free from Herpes virus,all thanks to dr.idowu, am so excited,am living happily with my husband💃🏿💟❤

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @mr.p438
    @mr.p438 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    that hair though 😍

  • @RomansPsalm-
    @RomansPsalm- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    There was this guy who liked me and I liked him but I told him if we can be friends then I explained to him bout what I have. He said that he sees only me and not for what I have. Well I fell for it and then he ask would we be able to kiss I said yeah but I have to not lick my lips but just put vaseline on. While being careful not to lick my lips then he said how about french kissing I said no. He said wow that's crazy he said we can work it out. But then he wasn't responding to me at all. And told someone about our conversations we were having. Were not speaking to each other anymore.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @davidfinnie8645
    @davidfinnie8645 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what does herps hurt all the rime

  • @JoseDiaz-qe7wy
    @JoseDiaz-qe7wy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a super baddie. I wouldn’t mind talking to you if you’re single. But I Got Herpies and been trying to treat it by dieting but I’m just hoping to find a partner I can spend life with and not be single forever due to this....

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @shannondylan6673
    @shannondylan6673 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hello, I have a girl friend who has herpes on her gentiles and has found that using Luvena wipes helps with the irritation and also helps with removing the infected area sooner. Please spread the word as it has helped her and am sure she would like many to stop the suffering from the excruciating all day pain. Thank you.

  • @bellmeisterful
    @bellmeisterful 7 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Wow shes awesome, for several reasons

    • @gilbertbanks2551
      @gilbertbanks2551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      As a lifetime herpes patient, I attempted various creams but not one of them really worked for a prolonged period of time. This was 2 months ago, now I`m very happy to state that after using this herpes treatment solution *4HerpesCure .Com* I haven`t seen any manifestation of herpes whatsoever.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

  • @johnrich5021
    @johnrich5021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The last part should end maybe you even have it lol

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @mikealison3928
    @mikealison3928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I will forever be grateful for the great and miraculous work god used you to do in my life, am happy to say this Dr.Ayomede is indeed a great man words can't express how i feel right now

  • @aprilrandall_Tucker8595
    @aprilrandall_Tucker8595 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This kills me.... I don’t now how to even be ok with this myself. I’m going on 3 yrs affected and I’ve told no one , I’m been Completely celibate but I’m trying to enter a relationship with someone I like and I’m too afraid to tell them because I don’t want them to leave but I also would like to have sex with them one day maybe I’ll just call it off with him and collect a 1000 cat n eat bon bons and get fat.

    • @tachyontee3877
      @tachyontee3877 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Don't feel like no one cares about you. Don't feel alone. I went 36 years without having sex of any kind because I knew about this virus. I finally decided to be intimate with a woman a week ago who I had been seeing for about 8 months. I was so careful. Wore a condom and everything but we know that herpes can run right around condoms. Now I'm beginning to see to the early signs of this crap. First time, I let my guard down and bam. I'm scared out of my mind, but I won't let this beat me. I know the embarrassment. I don't want to tell anyone so I understand a bit of what you're going through. Please don't give up on yourself. Please don't...

    • @NaturallyIce
      @NaturallyIce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tachyon Tee Sending you strength on your journey

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @garettgee6305
      @garettgee6305 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men are WAY more forgiving than women in this particular scenario. I promise. Just find the right guy if this 1 doesn't work out. Im terrified to leave my unhealthy relationship because I dont want to potentially die alone. Im interested in a woman at work... but I dont want to leave the comfortablity of what I have for an unknown... potentially devastating rejection.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @chuckmaddison2924
    @chuckmaddison2924 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Laureen., I hope you can answer a question for me. A girl I work with , I guess we are friends and had lunch a number of times. Last week she phoned me up and told she had genital herpes. I am wondering why she did. We don't have a sexual relationship . I told her I will stand by her and still be her friend.........
    Confused.

    • @traeshiagooden790
      @traeshiagooden790 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Shouldn’t have been confused she trusted you enough to tell you in a time of need because many people don’t have people to talk to. She just wanted to know you were there which is you, which is great. I hope you two are still friends if not I hope she is okay

    • @turkanismail1848
      @turkanismail1848 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was sharing, looking for male comfort and acceptance! You could say she was practicing openning up.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@turkanismail1848 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@traeshiagooden790 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @queenesquiresquad
    @queenesquiresquad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How do you tell about oral herpes?

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @mariasanchez-rs6fi
    @mariasanchez-rs6fi ปีที่แล้ว

    Is hsv1 only on the face?

  • @thrivealcoholrecovery
    @thrivealcoholrecovery 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You’re awesome 👍🏼

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @miss_mars931
    @miss_mars931 6 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I got it after my abusive boyfriend at the time let his friend drug me and rape me when I was 16, I had the most painful and extreme breakout and my mum had to take me to the clinic. It was the worst time of my life and everytime it comes back it's a reminder and I can't even talk about it because the last time I did my "friends" told people so I'm to scared now, I just want to hide and disappear... I don't value myself anymore I feel like dirt and no potential partner will want me after they find out...

    • @azaleabrown3904
      @azaleabrown3904 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Miss_ Mars so sorry about your experience. It's hard not to feel damaged but you have to take care of yourself. Eat well, etc. With time your body will adjust to the virus and the outbreaks will be less severe and infrequent to the point where you won't even notice them. Stay healthy and fabulous. You're a survivor

    • @claramacedo2793
      @claramacedo2793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Miss_ Mars use MMS and get cured!

    • @mmdutan4089
      @mmdutan4089 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Clara Macedo MMS?

    • @shielasmall7872
      @shielasmall7872 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All these people talking about curators there is no absolute cure out there known to the CDC to date, the only thing you’re going to find is a bunch of Nigerian and Middle Eastern scam artist trying to get your money and these people are being paid to promote their bullshit... shame on you for coming to videos where people are genuinely seeking advice and help & trying to pray on them!

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

  • @robtam7529
    @robtam7529 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It is embarrassing. I am dating an absolutely amazing woman. We have not engaged in sex because I abstain, make excuses, and fear telling her. I refuse to engage in sex unless she knows. Fear she will end the relationship. Depressed to the point I have even contemplated suicide.

    • @emmalazarus1282
      @emmalazarus1282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ingredients on the products we are talking about include
      Echinacea 🌿 stalk, root
      Feverfew. 🌿
      Garlic. Cloves, root
      Ginger. Root
      Gingko. 🌿
      Ginseng. Root
      Goldenseal. Root
      And many more from #drchala here on TH-cam

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

  • @VM-wt3ti
    @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What about people who have it and don’t test for it? Can they be sued for passing it on?

    • @aileen7688
      @aileen7688 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think if you don't know you have it and you pass it to someone you can't be sued. For example, if you know you have HIV, sleep with someone and don't tell that person you have it, you can be sued. I'm not even sure if that's the same with herpes tho

    • @vovanminh999
      @vovanminh999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      you can not sue someone if they don't know about their condition .

    • @RayniDayze
      @RayniDayze 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      U can sue in Florida but not in Georgia 😒

  • @syreetaj37
    @syreetaj37 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's so embarrassing to talk about though,I have an potential partner,I really like him a lot but I don't think he'll expect, might still be a friend, that's good,but I don't wanna make him uncomfortable by possibly telling him we'll can't be intimate.. I'm very attracted to him but don't wanna lose him as a friend of mine..what do I do..I'm having mixed emotions about it all...

  • @fly_with_a_gemini5477
    @fly_with_a_gemini5477 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sad thing about my case. Even if I use condoms … I don’t have genital herpes… it’s in my mouth. Going on a year now and I haven’t had an symptoms. But I been on a first date and he kept kissing on me. We haven’t been out sense. I felt so bad eventhough my obgyn and primary doc says long as I am not in an outbreak I’m good. It’s all I think about. I can’t go around telling everybody I potentially date I got it. I love kissing and I got mine from my ex. It’s depressing

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

    • @fly_with_a_gemini5477
      @fly_with_a_gemini5477 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lanaowe781 I don’t fool with Africans doing spells so I can be cured. Than I’ll have to promote him like you do so nothing bad happens to me. No thanks

  • @myswagmillionsoaklandcalif1752
    @myswagmillionsoaklandcalif1752 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello how I've been diagnosed with genital herpes I need help

    • @diazlucy2033
      @diazlucy2033 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was enduring Herpes since I had been in my teens and soon after above Twenty years, I was not able to treat this health issue. Even I’ve consulted quite a few dermatologists to checked what exactly I have got, the thing is still there. I straight away tried this Herpes guidebook *4HerpesCure .Com* for about 30 days, amazingly, the Herpes never appear .. .

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @skrillexdenniz7045
    @skrillexdenniz7045 7 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I got herpes and im 13 y/o

  • @cityconference5130
    @cityconference5130 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your beatuiful

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @SalsaColombia
    @SalsaColombia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Once the virus is on a dormant state, can it still be transmitted?

    • @katelynnwoller7398
      @katelynnwoller7398 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      From what I gathered yes, it still can happen. My bf never showed symptoms and never had a breakout but yet i got the skin condition. And yes even when knowing you have it and it lays dormant you are less likely to give it to another but the chances of giving it to another are still likely.

    • @sandracruscrus7348
      @sandracruscrus7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks God for getting my health back,am now free from Herpes virus,all thanks to dr.idowu, am so excited,am living happily with my husband💃🏿💟❤

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@katelynnwoller7398 DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this .

  • @heartwoodtableco.michaelpo171
    @heartwoodtableco.michaelpo171 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Where can I contact you on FB I've got a couple questions for you that I'd rather not ask here.

    • @searsholder8293
      @searsholder8293 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      My face was afflicted with a bad Herpes for 6 months and I went to a number of skin doctors to cure the problem but with no success. Immediately after making use of a number of pricey steroid creams and the like, a good companion advised I consider thsi Herpes guidebook *4HerpesCure .Com* . A couple of weeks had gone and the Herpes had been vanished too. .

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @iamyouyouareme3174
    @iamyouyouareme3174 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I recently found out that I have Herpetic Whitlow ( like literally this morning ). It's a condition when I get these burning blisters on my index finger and although my case isn't as bad as some others that have this condition, my self esteem has dropped and I haven't had sex with anyone at all, which means i must've got it from my parents. And my mom is getting annoyed with all the question I keep asking her. She said their just blisters on my skin that I get and they will eventually go away, and almost everyone gets them, but I'm still in doubt. I'm still a teen, and I'm ashamed and feel super depressed because i have this condition. I keep asking myself what if someone finds out and tells other people and they begin to feel disgusted by me...what if no one will ever want to be in a relationship with my because of my condition. What's even worse is the fact that it can be transmitted by skin to skin contact, but this is only true when the blisters are there. I haven't had these blisters in 3 years, and thought they were gone, but i guess i was wrong. This video really helped me with my anxiety and i really hope I can get over this depression.🙂

    • @MrAgmoore
      @MrAgmoore 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow... that's depressing and awkward. I read Herpes forums for entertainment and there are different suppression regimens that people use.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

  • @FrancescaTomm
    @FrancescaTomm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If you are in a long term relationship and you would love to have sex with no condom, is it possible to do so without risking to pass rhe virus? Do tou transfer the virus even if you have no symptoms at the time you have sex? I know some people have herpes once and then never again, does it mean they won't be able to have sex with no condom anymore or oral sex?
    Im lost and scared... Thanks...

    • @gautam4you
      @gautam4you 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi , I got genital herpes too , and I ask those people who have genital herpes, they said if you are on medication and there is no symptoms you and do sex without condom. Can I have your Instragram I will tell you more things

  • @chuckles2364
    @chuckles2364 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I put "How to tell" and this came up

    • @LaureenHD
      @LaureenHD  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ver, very good to know. Thx! x

  • @Dinowrestler
    @Dinowrestler 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    have you ever had anyone turn you down out right once you told them?

    • @Dinowrestler
      @Dinowrestler 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Laureen HD Yes it matters to me. I've had 2 brake outs. 2nd wasn't bad at all. Now I know more then likely I'll met someone who I like, and once I tell them it'll be a deal breaker. How should I deal?

    • @LaureenHD
      @LaureenHD  7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gotcha! I'll be making a video on how to handle rejection very soon, but drop me a note here if you want to talk about it before then. postpectives.com/holler/

  • @franktruth8341
    @franktruth8341 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn this video got recommended to me after watching Family Guy.
    As fine as she is, SHE GOTS HERPES???? I would have never known
    It's a scary world out here for Men, not only do we have to worry about Men masquerading as Women, but you also have to worry about Women with STDs.

    • @LaureenHD
      @LaureenHD  2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      And humanity has to worry about jerks like you... We each have our own cross to bear I guess!

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @rosemarywilliams5389
      @rosemarywilliams5389 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      #DrObahistoricalherbs.

    • @marx41mans
      @marx41mans 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Wow...so you in your mind, people with herpes have a "look" and you can tell a person's status just by looking at them?
      Come on man, your whole comment is so out of bounds.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

  • @edusam666
    @edusam666 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great

  • @Girl_who_loves_Wolves
    @Girl_who_loves_Wolves 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Haven't long been diagnosed and I have a date coming up so I'm trying to research how to break it to him if things get serious enough. Not gonna lie I'm terrified about telling people and potential partners but I'd rather them tell me to fuck off than give them anything, as I was lied to and given HSV type 1 with the first man I ever slept with. It's hard not to feel stupid about getting it and feeling dirty, and unloveable. I'm excepting it more as I research about it and actually learn. It's been two weeks since I was tested and today I found out what HSV type. So fuck it haha.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this

    • @lanaowe781
      @lanaowe781 ปีที่แล้ว

      Behold the results was negative. I'm HSV negative it's been 4 years since I got my complete healing naturally with the help of Drchala from west Africa who I find here on TH-cam channel …

    • @kelseymurillo6384
      @kelseymurillo6384 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      hi girl i was diagnosed last year w it and also with my boyfriend who didn’t tell me it was herpes, and also the first person i ever slept with. i hope you’re doing great

  • @chapleau007
    @chapleau007 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I am going on date number 6 now, and it's a long distance thing, so whenever I'm in their neck of the woods, I message them, so far - things are great! In my mind, I wanna wait until I feel like there's true potential and that I can 100% trust this person before getting intimate and having to disclose this.. do you think they'll be upset I went too long without telling them? It's very controversial on whether you disclose early or later (obviously before intimacy/risky situations). Some people prefer early to weed out the runners, but I don't feel it's necessary to disclose until I truly believe I also want to be with this person forever. With sex comes oxytocin and vulnerability (for me), I think it becomes harder to be objective and recognize red flags and I don't wanna start excusing certain behaviours. I may not be a virgin anymore, but I don't see myself sleeping with anyone unless I feel it's truly gunna work long-term. If he seems to feel the same, then I'd disclose.. and see what they think, maybe ask em to sleep on it.. send em some videos like this... What are your thoughts on that based on your experiences?

  • @kevincondna8784
    @kevincondna8784 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    are you hispanic? I hear an accent somewhere in there.

  • @Carlos-nq7up
    @Carlos-nq7up 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are a beautiful woman.

    • @lanarey4944
      @lanarey4944 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      DrChala on TH-cam here, thanks for all you do.my son is doing well now, I will keep letting the world know about your good work sir DrChala. I'm convince he can help you with any health issues like this ..

  • @arthureric3667
    @arthureric3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am really grateful and thankful for what Dr Adewale on TH-cam has done for me and my family.

  • @iridescentlaboratory70
    @iridescentlaboratory70 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Texting it always helps me lol

  • @willflamank5180
    @willflamank5180 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    your absolutely beautiful!!!, I wish I could find a chick like in Australia.

  • @demijansen4572
    @demijansen4572 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    My (now ex) boyfriend gave it to me on purpose.. he knew he had it and he didn't tell me.

    • @orbital92hotmail
      @orbital92hotmail 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you should sue him

    • @VM-wt3ti
      @VM-wt3ti 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Demi Jansen which type? The stigma makes it harder for people to disclose although I always disclose my hsv1 status to everyone that’s how we fight it.

    • @RomansPsalm-
      @RomansPsalm- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me 2.

    • @sophiapalacios1050
      @sophiapalacios1050 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That happened to me too

    • @chadharlan3787
      @chadharlan3787 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't worry Demi, you're not alone...There are millions and millions of us out here that're in the same situation...You're still valuable...Do NOT let this get you down...I'm in the same situation as well...