You Don't Need MONEY to get a FILIPINA: the three things that work
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 7 ก.พ. 2025
- Most men think it's all about money in the Philippines. But, this is a huge misconception. We explain why in the video.
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In this video, I'm explaining why you don't really need money to get a beautiful Filipina. It really comes to 3 things that have nothing to do with money. And, if you have them you're almost guaranteed to be dating the woman of your dreams in the Philippines.
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I met the most beautiful Filipina almost 2 years ago when I was 51 she was 41. I am clean shaven I smile a lot and make her laugh. I think she is absolutely gorgeous 😍 I don't have a lot of money. We have been married almost a year now and living in Australia. I have never been so happy. She is the most loving and caring lady I have met. Filipinas are the best people I have met. She is a great wife.
Fellas, don’t feel like you have to settle for a single mom. Know your worth.
Hi, married a single mom with two kids 40 years ago and we’re still going strong👊🏽💯
Hi, married a single mom with two kids 40 years ago and we’re still going strong👊🏽💯
@@neilbrooks6372Congratulations
It's definitely something to seriously think about. There are tons of gorgegous single moms our there, and you may think "I love kids" so it's a win-win. Just remember that roughly half of marriages fail (yeah, I know, there's no divorce in PI, but couples seperate all the time). So, if your relationship goes south, not only do you lose your hot wife, but you lose a kid/kids that you might be very attached to, and that loves you back.
They are all single mums aged 17+
I do agree that having game and taking care of yourself is key! Does money matter yes, but you don't want that to be the only redeeming trait about yourself!
I did a video on this. In many of their minds a poor man is similar to a rich man. A poor man making 20-30k usd is basically making 100k+ over there lifestyle wise. In a nation of poverty 100k lifestyle is basically millionaire luxury. The lifestyle between them and an actual millionaire isn’t that different. Other than the millionaire probably spends more time in bgc Or borocay in 5 star resorts.
And they already think you’re rich even if you aren’t.
Plus lots of things are more important than money. Are you romantic, faithful, a gentleman, chivalrous, they love these old fashioned men. Bonus points if you’re religious and want to settle down and get married and have kids etc.
So glad to see you guys uploading real videos again. This one sounded like good advice. ^^
I agree with everything you said. I go to the Philippines twice a year. I find Filipinas to like clean shaven men that are confident. Also Filipinas don't like guys who brag about their money ( leave that in the West). Last, as long as you take care of yourself, you will have no problem meeting beautiful Filipinas who want to take care of you.
@jairusmedley8246 they just want to know that you can take care of them they do not care how much money you have. Most of them don't want any more than what they need to survive reasonably comfortably
Never ever shaving my epic beard for anyone for any reason. I'll find those who love it.
@@corporaterobotslave400 He's just a Simp ...keep your beard bro .
He's just a Simp bro ...keep your beard bro . He'll don't shave it ,if he have it 😂😂.
So why are the wanting to date white guys? They clearly have a different motive. They are not sweet lmao.
Your videos are amazing! I married a Filipina 27 year ago and raised 6 children. But after 10-15 years in the US, she wanted to become like her Filipina friends, single with no children. I still consider 20 years of marriage a success. I'm with a Dominican girl now. But I must say, I'm always thinking about going back to the Philippines. They truly are the best women in the world!
The problem with taking a woman who leaves her current love because you are the better option is that it won't be long before she leaves you for a better option.
Facts
Then completely forget about Filipinas.
EXACTLY!!!!
Here’s some dating advice that’s realistic. Ask “ Humihingi ka ba ng pera” That means “ Will you ask for money”. Saves time
No ask expect
@@jurgschupbach3059 Sige Totoo
Best advice ever!
That was a well done presentation. Thanks for the reminders about presentation. 😘
Yes but you need to be very careful I know some that only want money
Yes, that is why you must know the lady for a time, because that will bring out any inconsistencies. They are really wonderful women though, and very traditional, especially from the provinces.
You are right about having a smile there is Smile Back just be yourself and I have found being funny goes a long long way
We're not all blessed with a funny bone
Thank you very much for this video!
budgeting is something that impresses me. I am probably impressed fairly easily though.
Starts around 6.00
1- show up in person in PH. Not just chat online
2- be the better option
3- have better game.
1 and 2 are have money, then 3 is easy.
#2 is a red flag.
Because there is always a better option. If she will leave someone for me, she will leave me for someone else.
Pass
Exactly- Pass.
Great content
But if she's with someone she will dump to upgrade to me, she will dump me to upgrade to a younger or richer foreigner, too, yes?
It's human nature to choose the best offer. If something better comes along, then the relationship you have formed needs to be strong enough to overcome those opportunities that may pop up. If you're providing value to her life, helping solve her problems, and you have love, then it's likely she won't dump you and the same is true the other way around.
At 1:55 you talk about Filipinas not looking for man with money. I am going to differ with this, I have lived in the Philipines, 5 years. I have been with 5 different Filipinas, Also there are videos about the Philippine way of life for the oldest daughter to have a job and send money to the family, there is a Philippine phrase for that. She is obligated because her mother gave her birth. Most common is Money Money Money. If the Money is not for them , they want to send money to there Family to live from your pension. Many Foreigners on youtube that talk about they send money to the family for the Filipina. My question is, what did they do before the Foreigner come into there life?
**VISA** not 'visit'
**GOING** not 'hoing'
Thank you. Advice from you, a sweet Filipina, has a lot of credence. Once you find the right Filipina, then their deep feminine nature, support, caring and love is overwhelming and wonderful. God Bless the Filipinas.
Do you know something commentators? A surprising number of you are excellent sons of encouragement. I salute you.
You don't need money, but it helps. Especially if you want to meet a Filipina as beautiful as Ann.
Reason; number two….. beware guys you will spend your life and money keeping your Filipina and if you bring her to America? She will go to church and all the Filipinas there will help her find an upgrade
Her female Filipina friends will most likely be extremely corrupting...
You don't need a lot of money - even considering expenses. If you work, save, and handle your money wise, you can "marry" on a budget. My brother did. He took time, though, to meet his woman, get to know her, let her get to know him. She's been a good wife - a good person, good mother, works and makes her own money. He is also a good, decent husband and father. They are good people. Money attracts gold diggers - albeit every rare now and then it might attract a good woman. Being honest and ordinary yourself, looking for an honest and ordinary woman is better than any amount of money.
Thank you for enlightening me. You're a beautifu lady.l
Well Ann, u have a lovely glowing tan! n I’m a fan! 😉u r a Beautiful! Beauty! ❤️👍✌️👋 n GodBless!
The truth is that a Filipina is dedicated to the health of her family as a responsibility . So even if she choose the poor guy for love , it won't last too long before she chooses the rich guy . She's already tired of living poor so long 😅 not to mention because of the gossip she found a poor man , it will drive her crazy and the trike driver is convenient and he is there when she gets bored :)
I downloaded your cheat sheet. Some time in the distant future I hope to make at least one journey to your country & stay at least a week or 2
I like her video ❤
Yeah, I agree with most of your points. Nice. But I would emphasize...
Lots of people say Filipinas like clean shaven but I’ve had thousands of Filipinas message me etc with my little bit of facial hair or short beards. They like clean, showered, good hygiene better. People with beards can definitely get girls still. It’s kind of old half true outdated advice, like Filipinas love white men, well they do, but many love black men too now.
I'm coming to the Philippines for a month for the first time next year.
Where would you recommend for the first time? I want to see as much as possible, both in city and province.
I would go to Cebu, then onto Bohol
@stevenrichards7902 Thank you for the reply. Would you base yourself in Cebu? I'll be looking at an Airbnb for the month. What time of year would you recommend going?
Cebu and Bohol would be great. If you have a month, you could do Manila, Angeles City, Boracay, Cebu, Bohol, and Palawan to see a lot of different places...if you're a beach lover then I would do Boracay, Bohol, and Palawan. If you want to see the province, then you could do Cebu and then get a ferry to Leyte or Dumaguete. Manila is great, but only for a few days - stay in Makati or BGC.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines thank you so much for taking the time to reply. I honestly can't wait to experience the Philippines
It takes $$ no matter where you go...might be a lil cheaper there but still. A beer is still $1 there. You need a baseline budget n your USD goes further there but nothing especially women...are free. Be ready to pay for EVERYTHING you're gonna do on a date. Be ready for them to want to bring their friends...and to pay for them too. But patience pays off n if you can handle the hoops ya jump through it can be worth it. Once a Filipina loves you its a wonderful wild ride.
Not sure how i got these Filipina vids in my feed. But I've watched quite a few. And the woman narrating this video is stunning. She has beautiful hands.
Ma'am, you have some serious marketing skills !
There are two smart girls in the Philippines
You are beautiful. Where is the link for 97 tips? I have been looking for a Filipino girl. I am on Christian Filipina dating site. I find so many of them are poor. Thanks for listening. Barry
Guys, it's not like it's hard to get a Filipina. Just show up. Now getting a young upperclass graduate Filipina with no children, that's a different story.
Not as easy as you think. Some prefer their own men.
@@ScottieMitchell-f8y I live here. Low hanging fruit are easy pickings.
@Paul-McB me and my wife own a house in caloocan. Lots of women prefer their own. I refer to them as women because they're human. Not low hanging fruit.
@@ScottieMitchell-f8y according to the PSA, Caloocan has less than .05% foreigner population. Of course they are sticking with their own with what's available.
You also can't have the expat experience because you're married. Where else can an old expat easily hook a twenty something year old? Only on easy street.
@@frankfurtur5531 you seem pleasant
you're excellent
So, monkey branching, essentially is why she'll date you. No surprise there, right, Gentlemen?
Im here for educational purposes
She may be OK with going with someone below average but I'm not OK with me being below average.
Beautiful Ann ❤
She's amazingly beautiful
MOST want money, it is most important.
The best women to learn are about 38 to 45. They are still beautiful, experienced in relationships and children are grown.
Just make it clear that you are not supporting family because family involve siblings, parents, aunts and uncles and cousins.
I have long white beard and my partner loves it.
I'll be in Philippines soon cutie ko! Like to meet na? Hihihi😂
Just subscribed ur 💓 channel i think 🤔 u a re most beautiful TH-camer.! Greetings 🇬🇧 🙏 uk , by the way can you do some vlog with moslem ladies of Philippines 🇵🇭.
My Filipina wife is well-off now in Oz as she works hard.
im coming to live there in 1 week forever i hope :)
She’s smart. ❤
Wheres the link in comments?
If you were as poor as Filipinos finding a wife a good wife would be next too impossible.
Filipinas are looking for an upgrade in lifestyle. Even the good ones.
If you are as poor as a Filipino guy no money no honey!
4:58 The vast majority of beautiful Filipinas already have partners or suitors.
This is all you need to know. Don't waste your time.
A grain? A grain of truth?
Gezuz..... you need a whole Silo worth of Truth to get any women, especially a Foreign women, and especially a younger and attractive women.
Jesus
Turns out her family will be denied benefits by the government just because she has been seen with me as a foreigner. Of course it's me to make up for this since they are really poor people. Also the burocracy of my country (Germany) and the Philippines is quiet complicated and also costly since my government requires of her to complete a German A1 exam since we want to get married before even issuing a visa plus other complications.
The only thing you need to get any girl is a big wallet and nothing else.
You need tons of money: Constant Travel, food, lodging, transportation, dates, supporting her and supporting her family. It's the law. Then, comes children. There are no guarantees it will work out.
It ain't cheap or easy. Nothing worthwhile is. But for most of us, it's *possible*. My wife of 23 years is Pinay, and I just got lucky to meet her at the right time, to be sincere and the better option, in her perception.
Guess I'm gonna have to shave..damn it 🤣
Nah bro, don't do it.
@@jc_galvaneal1181 gotta stay true to yourself - won't shave of course 👍
@@derkobold8214good choice
Where do you live in philippine?
My weakest point is how to be funny?? Puzzles me. What is fun?
Does age matter in Philippines, if a man is Single and aged like 38. Is it fine to come over there and will he get a partner who can stays forever 😊
Age doesn't matter if you have the 3 things I discuss in the video.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines Please say, if there are any applications, where i can search my Female partner from India 🇮🇳 and move to Philippines 🇵🇭 🙏
Yes you can. I'm 38 also. Being 38 is better than being 83 and even pensioners get girls in their 20s and 30s there. If you've got no money and are cheap you will struggle though. Just fly over and see for yourself and you will see how easy it is to meet girls.
Yeah, sure! 😂
Protect this girl please
🙌
Spero di incontrare una brava Donna Filippina, sono buone persone amabili, di cuore, gentili e amorevoli. Ciao dall' Italia stai bene 👋
Why money isn't everything
As long as you have a wonderful conversation treat each other with respect
I wish I took up the opportunity to visit your country
She was a beautiful person
❤️💖✨️✨️🍎🌳143 ♾️
As melhores garotas das Filipinas são as de Cebu, na minha opinião.
So they going for the highest bidder.. or better option. so she'll be with you until a better option comes along.... hummm sounds familiar.
LAS CHICAS FILIPINAS NO LES IMPORTAN QUE UD SEA VIEJO O JOVEN, TODO LO QUE DESEAN ES QUE UD TENGA LOS MEDIOS PARA MANTENERLA, LLENARLE LA MESA, DARLE ALOJAMIENTO Y COMPRARLE UN SEGURO MEDICO Y ELLA TE SERVIRA FIELMENTE , LO CUIDARA , LO APOYARA Y LO TRATARA CON AMOR
God damn, I'm not going to shave! There are also foreign single women in PH who think man must have beard to look manly 😊
sounds like someone who would love my wallet more than me. perhaps I should just look for a better option.
Uh yeah, sure. You want a beautiful and young one and you are an older man, you are going to pay $$$!
1. Luck 2. Lie 3. Looks
I have a beautiful Filipina; she is a ride-or-die. I have a beard, tattoos, bad teeth, and knows, it is not only about me and what I want but her and what she wants; we work together; I have this ability few people have; I make people lives better, just by being me, most people only think of themselves, and what they want, that's my experience, most people I know, Know and if they don't, they can stay, not knowing,
I'm sure she is ride or die. Most of the are if you financially benefit them. I've never met a man who had a ride or die partner and they're splitting all the bills 50/50 😂.
@@reggie5495 Well, mine does; your empire and mine are not the same, but people think ALL people are just like them or just like what they believe. Hate to tell y'all this; you may not know what you are doing, just something to think about 👁
@@TheStygianKing but that's what everyone says. "Mine is different" until she's not. And I'm not saying she isn't either. There are lots of lovely and honest Filipinas out there but how long have you been together? Easy to say after a few years but 10-20 years is different matter. Also, has your relationship ever been tested? What would happen if the money ran out? Would the teeth and tattoos be an issue then? A lot of Filipinas tolerate their partners and overlook all the things that would disgust somone else because you're their ticket out of poverty. It's not like they have a fetish for old overweight foreigners with bad teeth. They like the financial stability. They could shack up with a younger more handsome Philippino if it wasn't about the money but maybe I'm wrong and you are truly a team splitting all bills 50/50 etc. Countless foreigners fall in love with their perfect little angels who could do no wrong and then as soon as the house is built it gets taken from them or if the money dries up they're gone. And I'm not even saying that happens more often than not. I have met plenty of people who have happily been with their partner 5/10/20 even 30 years. I've also met people who have been ruined by them and they all thought she was ride or die initially. They always are until the wheels fall off. You wouldn't marry them or build them a house if you didn't think that. I've met a lot of deluded men who think that their partners are with them solely for their personalities and charm yet are paying all the bills, rent and grocery shopping. Stop doing all that and how long will she stick around for your personality? The majority will be gone, but maybe you have found a true ride or die and I'm happy if you have. Those are a rarity but you've also probably never hit rock bottom. Would she really be ride or die if you're living on the street destitute? That would obviously be the biggest test but luckily it doesn't really ever come to that if you're wise with your money but let's be honest of what the outcome would likely be if it did ever happen.
@@TheStygianKing But that's what everyone says. "Mine is different" until she's not. And I'm not saying she isn't either. There are lots of lovely and honest Filipinas out there but how long have you been together? Easy to say after a few years but 10-20 years is different matter. Also, has your relationship ever been tested? What would happen if the money ran out? Would the teeth and tattoos be an issue then? A lot of Filipinas tolerate their partners and overlook all the things that would disgust someone else because you're their ticket out of poverty. It's not like they have a fet ish for old overweight foreigners with bad teeth. They like the financial stability. Sad but true. I hope you've found one of the good ones but without the money we both know what the likely outcome would be.
@@TheStygianKing you split all the bills 50/50? If so, congrats. You've got one of the best, but you're the minority. I've lost count of how many times men think they've got the good one and claim they've never asked for a penny yet are paying all the bills rent food and dates. Nothing in life is free.
they like black belts in karate and master shottists rifle and pistol, too.
So basically women around the world lol i have Brazilian roots so already know all these..
I need two filipinas so I need bring some money.
No, i didn't need to have money to get some Filipinas, i met some in Spain where i live 🙃
HMMM I AM NOT SURE....MAYBE THE ONES FROM THE PROVINCE...THINGS ARE CHANGING NOW IN THE PH...WITH A RAPID STEP THEY ARE BECOMING...WESTERNIZED!
😉❤️👍✌️
ai soosss
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$ not important as us residency
If you say you don't need money then you are lying, Bye the way, an airplane ticket and a green card are money.
So what is happening to the Filipinos, the men in Filipines?
GGGGEEEESSSSSSSSSS post some fun so when are you posting your wild dancing video in white shorts?
I need A Cheat Sheet to get A filipina woman?😭
What a shame, what about the quality of halling in l8vw
It's nice to know you're Filipina will leave you for the first "better option" that comes her way. I think these Filipina's need to humble themselves, and quit making videos like their something special. They're not.
I’m broke , have a skin disease and look like a frog. Are you saying I’m in with a chance ? Or just tripping.
You've got a chance!
@@SmartGirlPhilippines With a broke , single mom who is 20 kg overweight?
Nope. You have to look like jamea reid to be noticed at least.
You really should have rehearsed this video more before uploading it.
I really don’t think you know what you’re talking about
These AI thumbnails really are total BS....get real please.
Thank you! You are preaching to losers. I was new, so now I have unsubscribed.
Phillippinas like three things (just like any good women): 1) a good age, 2) good looks 3) some kind of really good talent
You forgot: MONEY
SWEETHEART ALL THAT YOU SAY IS COMMON SENSE FOR ANY CIVILISED MAN. I'M AFRAID I HAVE TO DISAGREE WITH YOUR OPINION THAT A TRICYCLE DRIVER CAN GET A GIRL THAN ANY HIGHLY EDUCATED, REFINED WESTERNER. WHEN I SAY WESTERNER I DO NOT MEAN ANY AMERICAN ALCOHOLIC BUM. I MEAN A PEGIGREE EUROPEAN.
So bottom line: A man DOES need A LOT of money to get a Filipina. ...And the truth shall set you free! 😂😂😂
I wish I had that .pdf before I went to my gf last month. It would have saved me a lot of money, haha 😅