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Great advice, 100% agree. Reminds me of something I said to a (male) coworker a few years ago here in the west. I'd just taken a girl out on a first date the previous night and my work colleague asked where I took her. I said I took her to a local cheap Chinese restaurant. He asked why I didn't take her to a nice place. I said "she hasn't earned it yet". He was genuinely shocked and confused.
Men treating women just like pets like you do are the worst. You have no idea about a partnership at eye level. You probably can't get women like that and have to buy them. Pathetic!
@KarlaKämmerer Most women behave the way described in this video. Testing limits to figure out where the boundaries lie. If you let them walk all over you, they usually will do exactly that.
For sure if she is not working and she really wants you. She must always adjust to your schedule 😊 plus only give small amounts at a time. They will spend whatever is in front of them!😮
This is very good advice, have been with my filipino girlfriend for 7 years and I reward her efforrt and encourage her family to make better decisions and I find they respect me much more than if I just give them money.
You got right to the point and hit all the markers most of these things. I learned the hard way. But I live in the states and the girl I met lived in the states. And in the endshe ended up with another guy and we broke even. Lesson learned, thanks for the video. To the point.
Listen Carefully Fellas.. Sooo True... You give and she has no idea what universe this magic stuff comes from.. But she'll have her arms wide open to take what you give, and smile looong time.. Till the next thing pops into her head..
I agree with you and I like watching your videos. Lots of good advice! Just a quick note: My LDR Filipina needed money and she wanted me to give it to her so she didn't have to work at McDonald's. I told her if she worked at McD's I would give her some to help her out and she would be that much better off with the money she earned at work.
Thank you so much I been dating this 26 year old Filipino from the province for about one year. I’m 59 and retired. She doesn’t have any children and she been trying hard to become a teacher. I help with transportation and food for her and some food for her family. But i haven’t bought her a new phone or help play for her bills. We are going to talk more about your relationship when I get there in December this year 🙏🙏🙏pray it goes well
I’m probably never going to go to the Philippines but I like watching your videos because you have a really cute accent. The information you give in your videos seems pretty good too.
Great advice AND you’re adorable! Nine more years until I’m 50 and can maybe retire and then I’m off to the Philippines! I’m starting my research now! 😂
Golden advice, Irish! Love your insights, your smile n ur channel! We need to be reminded cos the Filipinas blow our minds! So feminine n pretty, we tend to lose control a bit. So, good advise to keep ur cool, step back n control yourself. It might take a few trips cos man, they are bomb guys. You will get attention form girls that here in the US would walk right by you...not there. Keep the videos coming Irish!!😁
Great Job Girl. Very well organized as many others I have seen from you. The only suggestion I could make is if you can find photos that are related to what you are saying.
YOU ARE A REAL GOLDEN LADY! HOW RIGHT YOU ARE! I WAS A VICTIM OF A REAL BAD FILIPINA WHO WAS THE BIGGEST LIAR I HAVE EVER MET IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR MONEY FOR THIS OR THAT. YOU ARE A VERY INTELLIGENT, REASONABLE AND HONEST LADY. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Hello if you are the teacher I respect you I love filipinos women I really do they look amazing I want to meet one someday in my hometown I live in England 🇬🇧
I went through much of this with my Thai girlfriend (now my wife). The key is to go slow and never give her more than the value she has given you up to that point. If you don't "get ahead" in paying her, you won't be in trouble if she leaves all of a sudden.
My LDR is a self employed care giver and moves from job to job with varying salaries, usually 500-900 PHP per day. I told her that as long as she is earning money that I would guarantee her income up to 1000 PHP per day. So if she earned just 500 a day I would top her up 3500 a week, 900 a day I would top her up 700 a week. Works for us.
Like someone telling me of financial issues or love bombs me I mainly say that's unfortunate and I can't tell someone I've never met I love them. That's when they know your different lol
i wish i had seen your video years ago. i loved my filipina so much, and i gave her some thoughtful gifts, although i never thought i was spoiling her, she gave them all away to her family, which hurt me a bit as i bought them for HER to have the things i bought for HER, and other things like paying for everything and not having her contribute at all, she never valued it i guess. i never made much money, just a lowly cook grinding away every day for years. it took a lot of years of hard work to earn every cent i've made. she left me when i asked her to sign a lease for my protection on a house i was buying for us to live in. she said to me, "fuck this relationship, you don't love me, you don't trust me. this is just a business relationship now" and she left. i later found out she had another (secret) pinoy bf. speaking of secret, she loved to reply to me with, "SECRET" so much. 😞
With 20 years experience of the phils I would never do any of those things. I don’t mind helping some people through time but only those in need and only whatever budget I’ve planned. Never a single Filipina just because she’s pretty.
Asking is not for free, because there is always a bank account in our head and we count the times we are asked. If they ask for much or more, we give less or end giving. At least the ones with options
Right ✅ Example because Filipinas often cook at home. One challenge I presented to a Filipina: cook vegan meals which taste 😋 good 👍. Filipinas I met here in the USA 🇺🇸 and Canada 🇨🇦 have a bigger advantage than those in The Philippines 🇵🇭: exposure to more vegan recipes due to large inmigrant populations. I still have not Filipinas in The Philippines who can cook such meals I described. Lack of exposure is a big problem there. 2nd The Philippines 🇵🇭 is known more for meat 🍖 dishes. I include fish 🐟 as meat .
The red flags. Asking for marriage. Asking for a key. Asking for a ring. Asking for financial help. Asking for gifts. Resigning her job to live with you. Asking for a visa. It will be very obvious from her behavior early on what her attitude to you is. 😅😅 Don't ignore the red flags. Note them. Then, when the time is right do what you can to save yourself. At the same time dont leave here in a mess. Try to be charitable until a time arrives when you decide it's time to cut it out.
Some good advice. If I were to go to PI to find a young wife, I am pretty sure I would be moving there. I know Catholicism is a big part of Filipino culture and since my Catholic faith is very important to me I have an idea that that is where I would go to find a good woman. Am I way off in thinking this?
Look guys most of us are atm machines whether we like or not at first its great u over time u time you just can see the parents come first brothers then kids the dog and then u of shesays she lovez u but in reality is just facade wake before its too late sanity prevailed😅😅
Been in Cebu the past 7 months. I wish I had this common sense advice when I arrived. I'm pretty careful with money, but the trap is that you get blindsided by a beautiful girl. I feel I'm about to move on now since she is currently moody since I said no to the iPhone 13 Pro Max only 2 days ago. I initially helped the family because they were supposedly going to be evicted from the land they have been living on the past 30 years. I haven't given any more, but the father has since asked for a scooter, pigs and financing for his mango spraying. Two weeks ago the niece had a fever and needed to go to hospital, that cost 6000 Peso, which I gladly helped with. But in hindsight, paying for half of anything other than an emergency is sound advice. I do recommend saying no a few times and gauge the reaction, it tells you a lot about people. Amping
This is certainly good advice, and it is not just true of filipinas. This is true of dating virtually any woman in just about any country. Of course, filipinas are generally superior to most western women, so they are more worth the effort. But resist the impulse to get carried away just because a filipina is kind, sweet, and feminine. That is the way women are supposed to be. You still need to use common dating sense. Go East, young man.
I dislike those stupid men that start giving all that money and gifts to a girl they often have never even met, or right away when they do. WTH is wrong with you? Creating scammers when there was none before.
For her to stay legally in the US, she must stay with him for 2 years. If she leaves him before that, he can notify immigration and she will then be classified as being here illegally, subject to deportation without any trial. Happened to a buddy of mine. She was kicked out of the US.
Sweetheart thank you! I have a question! Is it nearly impossible for the average poor Philippines woman to get a passport to come and visit me in the USA if I buy her the tickets round-trip, and give her a little extra for food and board while traveling! ? because it seems nearly impossible and very very expensive for her ,us? and there's no guarantee they're going to give a Visa and or passport to her to come and visit me here before I come to the Philippines? please help me with advice it seems nearly impossible and heartbreaking I'm not a rich American
My friend you are so smart and talented I hope to be able to come to the Philippines but I'm not a rich American and everything seems to be geared towards the rich expat and not the average real person do you have any advice on the cheapest ways to bring my girlfriend over to visit me and for me to travel to the Philippines and get the best prices on airfare and etcetera
To be considered rich in the U.S. you would need 2.6 Million dollars in cash. Probably none of the expats traveling or living in the Philippines have that kind of money. They might be rich in Philippine currency- but definitely not in U. S. Currency.
Thank you for your information. I've decided to avoid the Phillipines. My hope was to ffind a woman who would be greatful for an opportunity at a better life, and to be treated well. But you've showed me that she isn't any different than anywhere else. Or might even be a little bit worse. I appreciate the heads up. What you descrivbe are manipulative, gold digging worthless women, not just psychological quirks.
I disagree with you on a couple of points. No don’t ever send even half the money to their family because they’ll double whatever they need and they’ll get 100% whatever you do they’ve got response to get the money they want and if you’re 20 or 30 years older than her, don’t bring her to the United States for a couple of years. Make sure she really is yours.
I bet many filipinas are angry at these types of videos..where you are protecting the foreigners from getting taken advantage of by a beautiful Filipina….oh, well they will get over it….lol
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Great video, good advice.
I’ve using all these tactics for a while now, relationship is way better.
Great advice, 100% agree. Reminds me of something I said to a (male) coworker a few years ago here in the west. I'd just taken a girl out on a first date the previous night and my work colleague asked where I took her. I said I took her to a local cheap Chinese restaurant. He asked why I didn't take her to a nice place. I said "she hasn't earned it yet". He was genuinely shocked and confused.
Men treating women just like pets like you do are the worst. You have no idea about a partnership at eye level. You probably can't get women like that and have to buy them. Pathetic!
@KarlaKämmerer Most women behave the way described in this video. Testing limits to figure out where the boundaries lie. If you let them walk all over you, they usually will do exactly that.
Mandatory viewing upon arrival to the Philippines 😂
This is true for all women, not just Filipinas.
The #1 rule is to not rush into a relationship.
i thought i had things figured out and she taught me several lessons in this video. Protect this girl at all costs
I needed to hear this four years, three women, and at least two million pesos sooner. Great advice.
Same
I never thought of having her fit my schedule too, makes sense, please protect this girl
For sure if she is not working and she really wants you. She must always adjust to your schedule 😊 plus only give small amounts at a time. They will spend whatever is in front of them!😮
The best advice i received concerning women. These apply to all women across the world
Great advice
This is very good advice, have been with my filipino girlfriend for 7 years and I reward her efforrt and encourage her family to make better decisions and I find they respect me much more than if I just give them money.
You got right to the point and hit all the markers most of these things. I learned the hard way.
But I live in the states and the girl I met lived in the states. And in the endshe ended up with another guy and we broke even.
Lesson learned, thanks for the video.
To the point.
Fantastic advice, thank you so much. I would have probably made all the wrong decisions, not realizing I was heading for a train wreck.
Well done. You put emotion into your presentation. Good accent too and lovely dress
Valuable knowledge. Applicable almost everywhere.
Listen Carefully Fellas.. Sooo True... You give and she has no idea what universe this magic stuff comes from.. But she'll have her arms wide open to take what you give, and smile looong time.. Till the next thing pops into her head..
I agree with you and I like watching your videos. Lots of good advice! Just a quick note: My LDR Filipina needed money and she wanted me to give it to her so she didn't have to work at McDonald's. I told her if she worked at McD's I would give her some to help her out and she would be that much better off with the money she earned at work.
Are you sure that she didn't lied to you?? McDonald's isn't popular in Phillipines as much as elsewhere. The Pinoys prefere Jollibee.
McDo is very popular here in QC
I think you're 1000% Correct On Making Her Work For it !!!!! PERFECT VIDEO. This Applies To ALL women.
Best video ever. Thank you.
Thank you for your good advices.
Thank you for your tips Irish. You are correct on every point, fortunately I have realised this and starting to put my foot down.
I wish I knew this about 3 years ago…. I agree with what you said… 😊. 100 percent…..❤
Good advice. Thank you. God Bless you.
You’re dropping straight up facts here
Awesome advice!
This is so good, Irish. Thank you.
Good advice 💯
Good advice😊
This certainly reinforces lessons that I learned the old fashioned way. 😂
nice girl...trues thinks...salamat po
Thanks!
Thanks so much! You're awesome.
@@SmartGirlPhilippines so are you and your Maganda Filipinas ❤️
Wow, you really are an intelligent Filipina.
Very insightful!
Very wise advice Irish and truly good indeed
Excellent advice.
Thanks so mjuch Irish for your wise and HONEST insights.
Thank you so much I been dating this 26 year old Filipino from the province for about one year. I’m 59 and retired. She doesn’t have any children and she been trying hard to become a teacher. I help with transportation and food for her and some food for her family. But i haven’t bought her a new phone or help play for her bills. We are going to talk more about your relationship when I get there in December this year 🙏🙏🙏pray it goes well
Hoping that she's genuine Filipina, not a liar and scammer
I’m probably never going to go to the Philippines but I like watching your videos because you have a really cute accent. The information you give in your videos seems pretty good too.
Great advice AND you’re adorable! Nine more years until I’m 50 and can maybe retire and then I’m off to the Philippines! I’m starting my research now! 😂
Thank you for this video.
Well said Irish! Great channel! 👌
Very good video. Good advice. Keep up the good work.
Golden advice, Irish! Love your insights, your smile n ur channel! We need to be reminded cos the Filipinas blow our minds! So feminine n pretty, we tend to lose control a bit. So, good advise to keep ur cool, step back n control yourself. It might take a few trips cos man, they are bomb guys. You will get attention form girls that here in the US would walk right by you...not there. Keep the videos coming Irish!!😁
Very good advice
Great Job Girl. Very well organized as many others I have seen from you. The only suggestion I could make is if you can find photos that are related to what you are saying.
Thanks for your tips, they are very useful. ❤❤❤
Great video.👍
Good Job 🎉
This was very good advice. Thank you
Thank you
YOU ARE A REAL GOLDEN LADY! HOW RIGHT YOU ARE! I WAS A VICTIM OF A REAL BAD FILIPINA WHO WAS THE BIGGEST LIAR I HAVE EVER MET IN MY ENTIRE LIFE. THEY ALWAYS ASK FOR MONEY FOR THIS OR THAT. YOU ARE A VERY INTELLIGENT, REASONABLE AND HONEST LADY. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Great Job Irish 🤗
Great example of a great filipinas
Fantastic
Great advice. Thanks!
You just described what just happened to me
Good video. Next time i follow your rule, because i already gave money for passport, iphone and extra for phone load💵🤭
I totally agree.
Hello if you are the teacher I respect you I love filipinos women I really do they look amazing I want to meet one someday in my hometown I live in England 🇬🇧
You very smart girl!!!
Good one!
I went through much of this with my Thai girlfriend (now my wife). The key is to go slow and never give her more than the value she has given you up to that point. If you don't "get ahead" in paying her, you won't be in trouble if she leaves all of a sudden.
Nice advice, subscribed.
Seems like great advice. Thanks for sharing. I subscribed to your channel 👍
'...you have to show some effort, for them to fill your cavity!😂'
Priceless!! Brilliant 'dental' advice!!😅😂
Good advice thank you
is very good video i like it
Yes correct this for All women actually
GOOD INFORMATION IRISH ❤
NEW SUBCRIBER 😊
My LDR is a self employed care giver and moves from job to job with varying salaries, usually 500-900 PHP per day. I told her that as long as she is earning money that I would guarantee her income up to 1000 PHP per day. So if she earned just 500 a day I would top her up 3500 a week, 900 a day I would top her up 700 a week. Works for us.
Keep her working is the most important 😊
Is this video for “Dexcel and Jim Philippines”, Jim needs to see this.
OMG yes! It’s like he has a bag over his head 😮😮😮😮
Like someone telling me of financial issues or love bombs me I mainly say that's unfortunate and I can't tell someone I've never met I love them. That's when they know your different lol
A few weeks later..she was gone” snaps fingers” sayy yaw”….lol
i wish i had seen your video years ago. i loved my filipina so much, and i gave her some thoughtful gifts, although i never thought i was spoiling her, she gave them all away to her family, which hurt me a bit as i bought them for HER to have the things i bought for HER, and other things like paying for everything and not having her contribute at all, she never valued it i guess. i never made much money, just a lowly cook grinding away every day for years. it took a lot of years of hard work to earn every cent i've made. she left me when i asked her to sign a lease for my protection on a house i was buying for us to live in. she said to me, "fuck this relationship, you don't love me, you don't trust me. this is just a business relationship now" and she left. i later found out she had another (secret) pinoy bf. speaking of secret, she loved to reply to me with, "SECRET" so much. 😞
With 20 years experience of the phils I would never do any of those things. I don’t mind helping some people through time but only those in need and only whatever budget I’ve planned. Never a single Filipina just because she’s pretty.
As a rule for all people. They value the most what they've worked hardest to get....
I'll borrow your dentist "filling" reference for my next pick-up line 😅
Asking is not for free, because there is always a bank account in our head and we count the times we are asked. If they ask for much or more, we give less or end giving.
At least the ones with options
Right ✅
Example because Filipinas often cook at home. One challenge I presented to a Filipina: cook vegan meals which taste 😋 good 👍. Filipinas I met here in the USA 🇺🇸 and Canada 🇨🇦 have a bigger advantage than those in The Philippines 🇵🇭: exposure to more vegan recipes due to large inmigrant populations.
I still have not Filipinas in The Philippines who can cook such meals I described. Lack of exposure is a big problem there. 2nd The Philippines 🇵🇭 is known more for meat 🍖 dishes. I include fish 🐟 as meat .
You are so gorgeous
hahahahah! So Funny! But it's TRUE! ✌
Beautiful, young woman and an old man.Sounds like romance novel! What could possibly go wrong?!!
The red flags.
Asking for marriage.
Asking for a key.
Asking for a ring.
Asking for financial help.
Asking for gifts.
Resigning her job to live with you.
Asking for a visa.
It will be very obvious from her behavior early on what her attitude to you is.
😅😅
Don't ignore the red flags. Note them.
Then, when the time is right do what you can to save yourself. At the same time dont leave here in a mess. Try to be charitable until a time arrives when you decide it's time to cut it out.
Some good advice. If I were to go to PI to find a young wife, I am pretty sure I would be moving there. I know Catholicism is a big part of Filipino culture and since my Catholic faith is very important to me I have an idea that that is where I would go to find a good woman. Am I way off in thinking this?
I think it is good advice to all men everywhere as the ladies in the west is spoil too much. Time to let them work alsoa bit harder
Look guys most of us are atm machines whether we like or not at first its great u over time u time you just can see the parents come first brothers then kids the dog and then u of shesays she lovez u but in reality is just facade wake before its too late sanity prevailed😅😅
11 Nov . 2024
Thank you for your presentation .
Been in Cebu the past 7 months. I wish I had this common sense advice when I arrived. I'm pretty careful with money, but the trap is that you get blindsided by a beautiful girl. I feel I'm about to move on now since she is currently moody since I said no to the iPhone 13 Pro Max only 2 days ago. I initially helped the family because they were supposedly going to be evicted from the land they have been living on the past 30 years. I haven't given any more, but the father has since asked for a scooter, pigs and financing for his mango spraying. Two weeks ago the niece had a fever and needed to go to hospital, that cost 6000 Peso, which I gladly helped with. But in hindsight, paying for half of anything other than an emergency is sound advice. I do recommend saying no a few times and gauge the reaction, it tells you a lot about people. Amping
Can we also tell we like the way she works it
I’m an idiot !!!! Sounds exactly like me
This is certainly good advice, and it is not just true of filipinas. This is true of dating virtually any woman in just about any country. Of course, filipinas are generally superior to most western women, so they are more worth the effort. But resist the impulse to get carried away just because a filipina is kind, sweet, and feminine. That is the way women are supposed to be. You still need to use common dating sense.
Go East, young man.
I dislike those stupid men that start giving all that money and gifts to a girl they often have never even met, or right away when they do. WTH is wrong with you? Creating scammers when there was none before.
Ya, learned this the hard way. So much ungratefulness with many filipinas
For her to stay legally in the US, she must stay with him for 2 years. If she leaves him before that, he can notify immigration and she will then be classified as being here illegally, subject to deportation without any trial. Happened to a buddy of mine. She was kicked out of the US.
Sweetheart thank you! I have a question! Is it nearly impossible for the average poor Philippines woman to get a passport to come and visit me in the USA if I buy her the tickets round-trip, and give her a little extra for food and board while traveling! ? because it seems nearly impossible and very very expensive for her ,us? and there's no guarantee they're going to give a Visa and or passport to her to come and visit me here before I come to the Philippines? please help me with advice it seems nearly impossible and heartbreaking I'm not a rich American
My friend you are so smart and talented I hope to be able to come to the Philippines but I'm not a rich American and everything seems to be geared towards the rich expat and not the average real person do you have any advice on the cheapest ways to bring my girlfriend over to visit me and for me to travel to the Philippines and get the best prices on airfare and etcetera
To be considered rich in the U.S. you would need 2.6 Million dollars in cash. Probably none of the expats traveling or living in the Philippines have that kind of money. They might be rich in Philippine currency- but definitely not in U. S. Currency.
Thank you for your information. I've decided to avoid the Phillipines. My hope was to ffind a woman who would be greatful for an opportunity at a better life, and to be treated well. But you've showed me that she isn't any different than anywhere else. Or might even be a little bit worse. I appreciate the heads up. What you descrivbe are manipulative, gold digging worthless women, not just psychological quirks.
lol welcome to reality, better later than never. They’re the same parasites everywhere. They just cost less in such countries
I disagree with you on a couple of points. No don’t ever send even half the money to their family because they’ll double whatever they need and they’ll get 100% whatever you do they’ve got response to get the money they want and if you’re 20 or 30 years older than her, don’t bring her to the United States for a couple of years. Make sure she really is yours.
Yes they talk as a team against the foreigners 😮
I messed up
👍
I bet many filipinas are angry at these types of videos..where you are protecting the foreigners from getting taken advantage of by a beautiful Filipina….oh, well they will get over it….lol