It’s crazy how I was sitting yesterday with God saying and asking him if it was okay to not be okay and I wake up to this message on my TH-cam, thank you God and Broc 🙏. It’s is also my birthday today 🥳
Wassup Broc, just turned 21 a couple days ago and I feel what you feel. Months before my birthday, I was suddenly betrayed and abandoned by the woman who I loved dearly so these past months have been the hardest of my life struggling with the feeling of hatred towards me and loneliness. Love you bro, I know God has something for us.
You are not alone! “No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.” I Corinthians 10:13 NKJV
I thank you for your honesty. It reminds me that life is a struggle sometimes, but that’s okay. I have had problems with loving myself and I ask that ya’ll pray for me.
Thank you for being vulnerable. That show is men put up can be dangerous, and I feel what you mean with that disassociation and feeling as if you don’t fit in. That’s the demonic trying to pull you away. Way I was told is the devil will tell you two truths and a lie. Keep your head up bro, we got this💯
8:50 My heart literally breaks at the thought of you struggling but as we know the walk is not only blessed it’s also tried and we have to not let the enemy win I’m only 19 and the walk seems lonely and I live with 6 other people but that’s how you know that the enemy whispers and the flesh responds always run to prayer with these things I’m praying for you❤️
Hi. I'm 42, believer since 33. Single since I was 28. Had unhealthy relationships before I got saved. Now I'm very picky. But it's ok. Jesus knows my heart that I want to be married. And I will trust Him to provide me with the man He prepared for me. God bless you with a Godly woman 🙏.
@jhp4012 Oh, sorry... I'm a woman... I was hiding here on TH-cam behind a men's name... But now I changed it to my first name... The last name is still incognito 🥸 :)) I wish you to find your ordained Godly woman 🙏.
I feel you bro, I'm 19 and alone. I also struggle with self worth I fell for Satan's counterfeit last year and it took a big toll on my mental health because it was very toxic, so it made me struggle even more with how i view myself and my self worth I truly believe God will give us a godly wife and give us a family to Lead 🙏🏻 stay praying brother!
Thank you for sharing this video, you being a man of God telling us how you feel, and what you’re going through really helps. As a Christian, and following God myself I hide my feelings sometimes from God, when I should be honest. Thank you for this video, knowing I am not alone! And that we can be true with our feelings to God.❤
Wow I’m 22 years old as well, Christian and have thought about this topic many times. It’s crazy because I was just crying today thinking “nobody knows what I go through”. A lot of people just look at the surface and that’s it, lots of people fail to see beyond. God has told me many times that you were not meant to fit in! Many are not supposed to have access to you, that’s also part of being chosen. So to everyone who feels alone, you are never alone, God is always with you even when you feel alone ❤️. God did create us to be relational beings, and one day you will encounter/connect with the people you are supposed to. Be patient, trust in God it’ll be worth the wait ❤️!! Love you all, stay safe out here and wishing everyone many blessings ✨✝️.
I have been feeling so alone, no self esteem, I’m awkward around people because I’m scared they would judge me, I’m 25, I’m a virgin, never had a girlfriend, I’m a mommas boy and get made fun of for it, I am miserable, I am ugly, this is how I naturally feel, then the Lord Our God, tells me, It is Done. The good work is his, not mine, I feel like a hypocrite because I try to walk with the spirit but I feel so sinful, and alone. I have found not to lean on my own understanding, because when I do, I destroy the little boy in me. God will make me a man after his own heart, not me. I thank you for this video and being strong enough to tell your story, God is always with us. It is Done. Victory is ours, don’t fake it until you make it, try until you die. Amen, Lord I thank you.
Hey man, let me tell you from my own experience: I'm also 25, never had a girlfriend, virgin, find myself ugly. The best way to start is to try and make something real in life. You can start by making friends. You'll find that there are many people out there who would be friends with you if you put an effort in being a friendly person. So you'll begin to feel like you can accomplish something on that matter, and even if people judge you, you'll be OK. Try to evolve professionally and physically, that'll give two more reasons. One another important aspect is ghat the Holy Spirit can actually act on your perception of life. He can change the way you see. So you should like this guy on the video, be totally vulnerable in His presence, I guarantee you He cares about your pain. Ask him about your purpose in life and what His will for you is. I've done that and God showed me how He does have something special for me in this life, and He wants me to live a meaningful life, so I can't sink into my misery and wither. I can't bury my talent. Be strong on your journey with the Lord. Sending you my love and prayer, my brother.
Broc, let me just tell you how brave you are for speaking up about this. 🔥 So many people shy away from talking about it bcs of shame, yet so many are suffering with the same thing. Thank you for your courage to step out. 🙏🏼 I pray that God will bring people into your life that make you feel seen, heard and understood. ✨ Btw i felt it on my heart to say that those who God sets apart and sanctifies have a harder time “fitting in” bcs God has made you different from the crowd in order to fulfill the purpose He has for you, a great purpose. You stand out from the crowd for a good reason 😉 This is not to dismiss the hard feelings that come from being set apart. It’s not easy.
Also 22, I was just telling the Lord I know I'm not alone but I feel alone but I know I'm not alone (life and death in the tongue) and this was today. People see me and think I've got it all together, my life is perfect, in the sense that i know Jesus it is, but God's grace is what holds it together. By no means do I want Him to rush this process, but it seriously scares me when I don't hear from Him the way I want to. He is my best and only true friend. I know that He brought me to see your page because of the purpose in your trials. Through God, you help me feel seen. The Father ADORES you. You make him smile every day. If there was no resistance at all, then you might wanna start reevaluating. Growth is uncomfortable. Thank you to all of the Lords vessels out here for being who He made you to be
Broc thank you for being so vulnerable with us and I pray for you . I understand what you are going through, heck I am going through the same just last night I was talking to God bout this lol but I will continue to pray for you to overcome the struggles you are facing. I thank God for giving you this platform to share His word with us and giving you the courage to do this. Know that Jesus is soooo proud of you heck I'm even proud of you. Don't be so hard on yourself and I know its easy to say but soo hard to do and know that you are a handsome, kind and I could see it from the videos I've watched, you are so courageous, I could just see Jesus in you man. Just pray and give it all to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Amen!. Hopefully this message reaches you🫂🙏 Man like I did a whole speech or something lol🤣
I was talking to God about this today. I realized that I’ve struggled being vulnerable in the simple ways with Him. I’m learning though, and then I can take it into other relationships and connect. It’s nice to hear this being talked about on a platform. Thank you and I hope God blesses your heart and life.
Thank you for your vulnerability. If we were friends, hearing this from you would be even more of a breath of fresh air than it is now. I'll be praying for you from my corner of the earth.
Broc can I just say, as someone also 22 about to turn 23, I thought you were older, and I mean this in a compliment way. I know we only get to see what you choose to put out there, but the way you carry yourself, wisdom and advice that you have, reflect a maturity I wish to have for myself. I appreciate the content you put out, and your tiktok skits always crack me up. I started watching your videos at a time where I was just discovering Jesus and God, and they really helped me in a lot of ways. Thankyou for everything man. Glad to have a brother in Christ such as you.
Ive been going through the same thing :/ I don't know if it's also the holidays making it a little worse, since the holidays are usually spent with loved ones, and it's different when our loved ones are no longer here. If you Broc, or anybody here needs anyone to talk to, im always available. Much love everyone ❤
Don’t knock yourself down. I went through this recently. The enemy deceived me into a sense of false humility which led to a misunderstanding of true humility. I wouldn’t accept any compliments to appear righteous. I would reflect on the past and would say it was all God “how could I be proud of myself”. I was struggling with this until I realized through my mentor that humility is not beating myself up or having negative self talk. True humility is recognizing where we stand in relation to God. And that when we do receive compliments to say thank you and to thank God in prayer for the blessing to be praised by others for the works God is doing in our lives. Realizing who we are in Christ is true humility. With that brings joy and peace and is a living testimony to what God has done in our lives.
thanks broc cause as of recent i’ve been struggling trying to learn to become a leader as the oldest of three siblings cause i was raised with God mostly naive n i never woke up to reality until about two years ago an i’ve lost a relationship cause i wasn’t emotionally mature but finding you being about a year or so older than me feels good to know i’m not alone in this strive to be something great for once and learning to say no an not so lenient with others and i go through nights too of this feeling of just wanting that one person to get along with finally but obviously i’m not ready then others tell me that you’ll grow together but i don’t want to drag her down that’s just a little you know ? an want to finish with a thanks to you being someone i can find a likeness with n feel a bind with ( just wanted to add i got a new pup recently too using this as a opportunity to become more responsible )
God is so good and so busy low key that it really does surprise me sometimes.. I am 29 years old and for the past 6 months I have been doing this walk with God and I am also fighting this alone feelings as I came out of a relationship that was toxic for about 6 years... I just feel so much time was wasted from my life and now I am back at square one with basically nothing to my name, not even a single friend.. I know God has a purpose for me and a future as I know He called me He saved me from the path of destruction I was on. But like you said it's hard to sometimes see the future or understand what's next and stop doubting God's plan.. Anyway thanks for sharing, not that we wallow in negativity but that we relate and refocus our sights and faith in Jesus our Savior who understands all our frustrations and sympathises with us! Much love from South Africa🙌
bruh I'm 22 and I've been struggling with loneliness and depression, this Christian walk is hard man, you feel like your doing something right but judge yourself for every little thing you do, I'm never gonna surrender to the darkness though, you don't know how many lives you've touched bro, including mine, stay strong soldier, like Tupac said no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it.” stay blessed brother
omg Broc I am crying! not because I am sad but because I am happy. I hate that we deal w this but to know that there is a coummunity out there that can come together and help each other. i went through this around 2022 as well and lowkey still is but ive learned to be alone over the years kinda sorda lol. God is always w us but God wont go shopping or ride a roller coaster w us lol so i get it. I pray that you heal soon Broc (and me as well) and that you find your companion that can fill the void for you.
How amazing is it and profound we all have birthdays in the same month going through similar things ( as I read the comments ) LIKE WOWWW happy birthday everyone !!!
Nahhhhhhh this is hittin fr. This whole dang video. Especially parts where being proud of myself almost seems prideful and i feel like I would go top far so i genuinely barely compliment myself and truly am hard on myself
Wow I love this video Broc. This was like a part 2 of the previous video for me. And I been hurting today cause I spent my birthday today alone. And it hurt. But this video was like a hug. I dont know how else to explain it. God Bless You Broc.❤✝️
someone once told me an analogy- you stop feeling your shirt after wearing it all day. you get used to it! God is still with us, but you have to remind yourself that He's there.
You are literally the male version of me. I’m also 22 I’ll be 23 in March. I have no family friends or a partner. I don’t fit in anywhere either. I mean your story sounds like mine in every way. I too desire to be a wife and mother with a husband who knows god. I’m a very physically attractive woman so I’ve been around quite a few men in my life and trust me when I say, men your age who love god and has your mindset are RARE. You’re a needle in a haystack. Wish I knew people like you
Such a great message that many Christians struggle with. Being vulnerable with God and your peers is one of the hardest things to learn but also highly rewarding. Love yall ❤
Hey Broc, thx for making this video man. It feels like the loneliness has gotten a lot stronger ever since the holiday season started. Thanks for being vulnerable with us, it takes a lot of courage🙏🏾✝️
It's hard to admit these things and be open and vulnerable about them. It's true that you may not be where you want to be at the moment, but you're not where you use to be. God is working through you. 🙏🏾
im only 7 seconds in and im already feeling convicted, Broc. I’ve been so on and off on the dating apps and I feel like the Lord is telling me to stop. I want to be in a relationship so bad but God is preparing me to be a wife before I even step into a relationship 🥲 I definitely have to pray about my patience in that aspect because I know my husband is out there somewhere 😭🙏🏾 God bless you!!
Bro I’m 36. Single for 10 years. Love Jesus so much and get to know him. Trust in the Lord. He wants you to be happy. Trust me it gets better. Great channel.
Hey man I feel your pain the exact pain I think it’s because we were in that relationship and that person cheated on us and made us feel like not enough and how we pictured our life with that person and the love and companionship making it seem like this is the person ima build the family with because I have hit that point where I want kids because kids are life I’m just guessing but that’s how I feel tbh I’m feeling down because of the worry of when will I have my person to create a family and live life with
I don’t know what your life looks like outside TH-cam and instagram, but your content and videos help me get through every day and helps me relate to struggles both of us face. Thank you brother and keep pushing ❤
You know Broc I feel this exact way when i woke up today I had remembered the dream I had in the night and I feel so lonely and I believe this video helped so thank you Broc
Hey Broc! This video is sooo relatable. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. I’m a Christian content creator as well & I too struggle with being proud of how far I’ve come on my journey with Christ. I still find myself struggling with my worth in who God says I am from time to time as well. Everything you said about not fitting in resonated with me! Sometimes it’s hard for me to embrace community when I still deal with confidence issues. This journey with Christ comes with ups & downs, but it’s all for our good & His Glory! Keep being a light! God is always with you. 🤍
Hey Broc just wanted to say there is nothing wrong with wanting wife and kids. But being contempt with yourself before you add additional things to your life is also important. God says to love your neighbor as yourself, and if you can’t love the time with yourself then you can’t love your neighbor properly (others). I hope this makes sense
My brother, I feel your heart. I'd suggest you analyze if the people around you have the vibe you're looking for (cause they might not, even though you're in the same environment). You can always make friends from a different church or another circle. Just don't let that frustration because of a detail put you down. I believe you can do it. Trust me I used to feel like that, bit today I've realized my ability to make friends and how natural it is. And, of course, you could use some therapy. find a good Christian therapist out there. Stay strong brother.
Yea it does feels lonely but I just have to reminds myself always that I'm not, let say last time I was feeling some type of way I told the Lord to give me a word that He wanted me to talk about since I do Bible studies online in that day I went to pick up my younger sister and as I was driving by I see this post that said God got you I felt so good, you will be alright.
You are NEVER alone. God us with you, through good times and bad. Do not despair.. Do not worry. God is with you no matter what. You don't need the world. God gives you everything. The reason why you feel alone is because God has something planned for us and he wants to protect us from the worlds wickedness! Loneliness is a trick. A lie from the enemy trying to get you back to a sinful life! Do not fall for it! Keep on the path God has set for you and you will be saved! You are never alone. No matter what, God is here to help. Have faith!
I feel the same way Man Ive just recently gave my life to Jesus, and If Im being honest my Life has gotten worse and my Social life has too but I know this is what comes with my Journey in Christ. I know that I may feel lonely but god really is there for me when no one else is.
Bro I dealt with this but I heard this in a sermon several weeks ago and it changed my perspective. Sounds like you may have a thorn in your side. I know I have one. Paul talks about this. 2 Corinthians 12:1-10
You saying how others always tell u how much progress you’ve made and knowing that you have but yet u feel the same is how i feel bro i Kno God has saved me and loves me but it’s me not allowing the love to reside and still feeling lonely as if God wasn’t with me at all i would say these are tough ages we are in i just turned 24 and to not go back to my old sins or lifestyle has been so difficult it’s constantly calling me back i kno if i endure the reward is great but sometimes i give up but im really tired of giving up
I also can relate but when I feel that way I just express how i feel to the Holy Spirit because he is my friend. So if anyone feels that way, just express how you feel to the Holy Spirit because he is our comforter.
i stop listening to secular music because the lyrics were not so good, talking about guns, drugs etc.... . I do sometimes listen to rap i usually play the clean version of the song depending what it is. but technically no depending what you listen to thats my perspective
it’s not good to make it an idol. I too used to listen to it everyday and it was very addictive. I start to listen to more christian version of songs and find what works for you. also having some calm, chill, good vibes help mellow that urge to listen to all that secular music.
Hey, I hope you see this. I may not know exactly your situation, but while watching this video, these words came to mind: Broc, You may not believe in yourself, if you've done a really good job and even people around you tell you so, but God believes in you. He believes in you, bro. He is making you like Him-not only outwardly (as He created us to be), but inwardly as well. This transformation happens because of the choice He gave you, and you made that choice: to follow Him, to be with Him, and to become like Him. Everything that is not Him is empty, meaningless, and devoid of love-because He is love. Don't doubt God's work, even when He is working through you. He loves you no matter what you're doing or who you are. The question is: do we love Him? About the wife and kids you mentioned in the video: If you truly want them-not just them, but everything in and around you-to be from the Lord and with the Lord. I know you may already know this, but until you get it, it's not the same. You have to love so much, to love so clearly Christ our Lord, The Son of God Jesus and The Father and The Holy Spirit, that all these things no matter what they are/ who they are. To don't matter to you if you have them or not, cuz He is with you always, no matter if you have them or not. Are we with Him even if we never get the things we want to have, while we are still on Earth? Love Him like you have nothing, but only Him. Because trust me, we have only Him. Nothing is truly ours; everything belongs to Him. ( Now of course if we are truly His, from the heart. All that He has, we also have. But I hope you see what I mean: He gives; we don't create and gain anything on our own.) All the things will be given to you as He promised if you focus on Him, but what do you want? Do you want, what you desire or do you want what He wants for you? ( His will) All who read this, think about who knows better The Creator or the creation? Focus on The Lord, He knows what He is doing. Don't let demons tell you how you feel. Love is not feeling. God bless you all. Stay humble, and whatever you need, God has got you. Just trust Him-you have nothing to lose. The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you all. Amen. - Revelation 22:21
22 years? Try 35 years alone. At this point, I'm content to be alone forever. It's not so bad most of the time. I have my hobbies to keep me going. Friendships and finding a significant other just isn't something I was made for.
Bro I was just saying too. I’m turning 36 too single. Waiting for anything for what Gods got planned for me. Either way I’m enjoying myself and doing what I want in life. Gods got a plan. I always trust in him
Broc can I PLEASE GET A RESPONSE I DONT KNOW WHATTO DO I DONT EVEN CARE ABOUT A MAN FOR REAL THEN ALL THW SUDDEN profits or maybe false profits pop up on my TH-cam telling me about a kingdom spouse and I have started to learn my lesson about these things and not listen to everybody and I’m really confused because of this I have piercings that I did before I came to Christ when I was a minor and I 100% acknowledge and speak with my mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord and I just want that to be enough. I don’t want to have to conform to what people want me to look like and I’m so confused if the devil is coming after my mind because that’s what I’m saying is it keeps coming into my mind and I’m feeling shamed about it and I’m feeling, really pressured by it and so I’m confused if it’s from the Lord or not and when I’ve prayed about it and I told God please don’t bring people online but have someone come up to me and speak what you want to tell me in person and even on live streams, holy spirit filled worship streams i’ve asked the Lord like please use your people when I ask this question openly and I’ve been told what I’ve read in the Bible that God cares about my heart more than what I look like but I’m still struggling with these stats and I’m just so confused. I really need help. I don’t want to disobey God I want to be good as good as a sinner gets I guess sacrifice for him a living sacrifice for him and I’m feeling so lost and confused please help.
I used voice to text I promise I know how to spell prophet 🙄lol but all seriousness I know that God knows that deep down I want somebody to love me but God also knows that well he only knows how long it’ll take for me to trust a man again for my understanding that I have and not his own understanding, but my own is that I might never trust a man ever again and I only want to put my trust into Jesus. I don’t even like I said I don’t even care about a man for real. I don’t even want to put my trust into a man for real to love me because I know that no man will ever love me like Jesus loves me and then all the sudden falls hope from TH-cam comes up like oh blah blah blah blah blah about a man, like as a woman who is created for man of course I want that but in today’s world it’s seemingly impossible that that will ever happen to me and I don’t want to lose hope I do believe that God has somebody for me. I don’t know if these are self righteous thoughts but I know that men deal with corn more than women do statistically and I tell God like if he’s dealing with these lustful things to be honest I don’t even want him and I feel like that’s also wrong with me because I’m being judgemental but it’s like I don’t wanna have to deal with the man who isn’t fully healed from these things and I don’t wanna have to wait for a man to get over these things when he supposed to be focused on supposedly me you understand what I’m saying
Thank you for being so vulnerable with what you’re going to do because honestly as your sister in Christ I’m going through the same exact thing and the devil is a liar. You are not alone in this season and God definitely has a lot of his children going through the same season so that we can learn from each other and lean on what God is speaking to each other being in the same season. I actually just turned 20 years old today. I’ve been celibate for like over two years just recently got sober from fentanyl and meth and got baptised and, just trying so hard so so so hard to do everything in my little human life to please God I believing what his son did for me and I know that absolutely nothing that I did could ever please him except for acknowledging what his son did for me anyways I feel the exact same way like I have this family and today was my birthday and then they were all talking about their own issues and I just feel like such a burden into my own family Even when supposedly this supposed to be about the day that I was born that God or ordain me to have a mission on this earth and they claim to be Christian but don’t read the Bible don’t understand what I say when I don’t want to be around sinful nature like you clearly don’t read the Bible or know what Jesus did because he literally spoke to the Pharisees about these religious things that people do and I’m not a religious person I have a relationship with Jesus Christ my Lord and saviour and I just don’t know how much longer I’m gonna have to quote “be all by myself because I know Jesus has always been with me, but Sometimes I just want someone to hold my hand physically or like actually look me into my eyes and mean what they say to me and feel emotion like I’ve been feeling like life isn’t even real and I’m more sober than I’ve ever been in my whole life and life somehow feels more than it ever did Then compared to when I was sober, like I don’t know if it’s real or I don’t know what it is but just know that you aren’t alone
Sorry I’m literally blowing up your chat with these super blown out long messages but I’ve literally never related to another person near my age who is believing in Christ like I’ve related to you people always tell me oh you should be proud of yourself like I’m literally sober from fentanyl and meth, but I still feel like a failure no matter what I do I just can’t be happy for myself and I know that I should be and I can acknowledge from what other people say but I hold myself to a very high standard because of actually I don’t know what it is. I do I want the best for myself and I think it’s that I care about my reputation and I don’t like people lying about me so I have to always be on my best behaviour to make sure that I’m 10 steps ahead of everybody to make sure that they can’t say lies about me or to make sure that I’m justified in my actions like it really messes with my brain
More fake * and I’m talking about my family with the Pharisee thing, it’s the truth I don’t want to slander people I’m truly struggling with this my bad Broc I’ve said too much 😹😹
It’s crazy how I was sitting yesterday with God saying and asking him if it was okay to not be okay and I wake up to this message on my TH-cam, thank you God and Broc 🙏. It’s is also my birthday today 🥳
Happy Birthdayyyyy🥳🥳🥳 hope you have a wonderful day 🫂
Happy Birthday! I hope today is the best one yet. God blessed you
Happy birthday 🎉! Do something that makes you happy. God bless you 🙏.
Happy birthday 🎊
happy birthday !!! have a wonderful day celebrating and i pray blessings over your life 🙏🏻🤍
Wassup Broc, just turned 21 a couple days ago and I feel what you feel. Months before my birthday, I was suddenly betrayed and abandoned by the woman who I loved dearly so these past months have been the hardest of my life struggling with the feeling of hatred towards me and loneliness. Love you bro, I know God has something for us.
Thank you making these videos and being vulnerable with us Broc. One day the lord will provide you with a beautiful wife and amazing kids ❤️🫶🏼
i believe so too, thank you 🤍
You are not alone!
“No temptation has overtaken you except such as is common to man; but God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will also make the way of escape, that you may be able to bear it.”
I Corinthians 10:13 NKJV
i love that.
Definitely going through the same thing, I can relate. I appreciate the vulnerability. Thank you for allowing God to use you. I needed to hear this. ✨
I thank you for your honesty. It reminds me that life is a struggle sometimes, but that’s okay. I have had problems with loving myself and I ask that ya’ll pray for me.
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His timing really is perfect
Thank you for being vulnerable. That show is men put up can be dangerous, and I feel what you mean with that disassociation and feeling as if you don’t fit in. That’s the demonic trying to pull you away. Way I was told is the devil will tell you two truths and a lie. Keep your head up bro, we got this💯
8:50 My heart literally breaks at the thought of you struggling but as we know the walk is not only blessed it’s also tried and we have to not let the enemy win I’m only 19 and the walk seems lonely and I live with 6 other people but that’s how you know that the enemy whispers and the flesh responds always run to prayer with these things I’m praying for you❤️
When you catch yourself having full blown convos with your animals - you’ve made it 😂🤣
Mannnn I pray for my cats when I think they be having bad dreams like I COVER YOU IN THW BLOOD OF JESUS this is how alone I am 😹😹😹😹
@ 😂😂😂 or deliver them from demons
8:57 it’s good to know there are people who goes through the same situation. Thank you for sharing bro 🙏🏻 God bless you
Hi. I'm 42, believer since 33. Single since I was 28. Had unhealthy relationships before I got saved. Now I'm very picky. But it's ok. Jesus knows my heart that I want to be married. And I will trust Him to provide me with the man He prepared for me.
God bless you with a Godly woman 🙏.
Amen brother. I’m 36. Also waiting patiently. She’s coming
@jhp4012 Oh, sorry... I'm a woman...
I was hiding here on TH-cam behind a men's name... But now I changed it to my first name... The last name is still incognito 🥸 :))
I wish you to find your ordained Godly woman 🙏.
I feel you bro, I'm 19 and alone. I also struggle with self worth
I fell for Satan's counterfeit last year and it took a big toll on my mental health because it was very toxic, so it made me struggle even more with how i view myself and my self worth
I truly believe God will give us a godly wife and give us a family to Lead 🙏🏻 stay praying brother!
Thank you for sharing this video, you being a man of God telling us how you feel, and what you’re going through really helps. As a Christian, and following God myself I hide my feelings sometimes from God, when I should be honest. Thank you for this video, knowing I am not alone! And that we can be true with our feelings to God.❤
Wow I’m 22 years old as well, Christian and have thought about this topic many times. It’s crazy because I was just crying today thinking “nobody knows what I go through”. A lot of people just look at the surface and that’s it, lots of people fail to see beyond.
God has told me many times that you were not meant to fit in! Many are not supposed to have access to you, that’s also part of being chosen. So to everyone who feels alone, you are never alone, God is always with you even when you feel alone ❤️. God did create us to be relational beings, and one day you will encounter/connect with the people you are supposed to.
Be patient, trust in God it’ll be worth the wait ❤️!! Love you all, stay safe out here and wishing everyone many blessings ✨✝️.
I definitely can relate to this. Before I even seen the video or the title, I was thinking about how alone I’ve felt also.
I have been feeling so alone, no self esteem, I’m awkward around people because I’m scared they would judge me, I’m 25, I’m a virgin, never had a girlfriend, I’m a mommas boy and get made fun of for it, I am miserable, I am ugly, this is how I naturally feel, then the Lord Our God, tells me, It is Done. The good work is his, not mine, I feel like a hypocrite because I try to walk with the spirit but I feel so sinful, and alone. I have found not to lean on my own understanding, because when I do, I destroy the little boy in me. God will make me a man after his own heart, not me. I thank you for this video and being strong enough to tell your story, God is always with us. It is Done. Victory is ours, don’t fake it until you make it, try until you die. Amen, Lord I thank you.
Hey man, let me tell you from my own experience: I'm also 25, never had a girlfriend, virgin, find myself ugly.
The best way to start is to try and make something real in life. You can start by making friends. You'll find that there are many people out there who would be friends with you if you put an effort in being a friendly person. So you'll begin to feel like you can accomplish something on that matter, and even if people judge you, you'll be OK. Try to evolve professionally and physically, that'll give two more reasons.
One another important aspect is ghat the Holy Spirit can actually act on your perception of life. He can change the way you see. So you should like this guy on the video, be totally vulnerable in His presence, I guarantee you He cares about your pain. Ask him about your purpose in life and what His will for you is. I've done that and God showed me how He does have something special for me in this life, and He wants me to live a meaningful life, so I can't sink into my misery and wither. I can't bury my talent. Be strong on your journey with the Lord. Sending you my love and prayer, my brother.
BTW being a virgin is no shame, it's a beautiful thing while you're still single.
I’ll pray for you ❤
Broc, let me just tell you how brave you are for speaking up about this. 🔥 So many people shy away from talking about it bcs of shame, yet so many are suffering with the same thing. Thank you for your courage to step out. 🙏🏼 I pray that God will bring people into your life that make you feel seen, heard and understood. ✨ Btw i felt it on my heart to say that those who God sets apart and sanctifies have a harder time “fitting in” bcs God has made you different from the crowd in order to fulfill the purpose He has for you, a great purpose. You stand out from the crowd for a good reason 😉 This is not to dismiss the hard feelings that come from being set apart. It’s not easy.
Also 22, I was just telling the Lord I know I'm not alone but I feel alone but I know I'm not alone (life and death in the tongue) and this was today. People see me and think I've got it all together, my life is perfect, in the sense that i know Jesus it is, but God's grace is what holds it together. By no means do I want Him to rush this process, but it seriously scares me when I don't hear from Him the way I want to. He is my best and only true friend. I know that He brought me to see your page because of the purpose in your trials. Through God, you help me feel seen. The Father ADORES you. You make him smile every day. If there was no resistance at all, then you might wanna start reevaluating. Growth is uncomfortable. Thank you to all of the Lords vessels out here for being who He made you to be
Broc thank you for being so vulnerable with us and I pray for you . I understand what you are going through, heck I am going through the same just last night I was talking to God bout this lol but I will continue to pray for you to overcome the struggles you are facing. I thank God for giving you this platform to share His word with us and giving you the courage to do this. Know that Jesus is soooo proud of you heck I'm even proud of you. Don't be so hard on yourself and I know its easy to say but soo hard to do and know that you are a handsome, kind and I could see it from the videos I've watched, you are so courageous, I could just see Jesus in you man. Just pray and give it all to Our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ Amen!. Hopefully this message reaches you🫂🙏
Man like I did a whole speech or something lol🤣
I was talking to God about this today. I realized that I’ve struggled being vulnerable in the simple ways with Him. I’m learning though, and then I can take it into other relationships and connect.
It’s nice to hear this being talked about on a platform. Thank you and I hope God blesses your heart and life.
Thank you for your vulnerability. If we were friends, hearing this from you would be even more of a breath of fresh air than it is now. I'll be praying for you from my corner of the earth.
Broc can I just say, as someone also 22 about to turn 23, I thought you were older, and I mean this in a compliment way. I know we only get to see what you choose to put out there, but the way you carry yourself, wisdom and advice that you have, reflect a maturity I wish to have for myself. I appreciate the content you put out, and your tiktok skits always crack me up. I started watching your videos at a time where I was just discovering Jesus and God, and they really helped me in a lot of ways. Thankyou for everything man. Glad to have a brother in Christ such as you.
Ive been going through the same thing :/ I don't know if it's also the holidays making it a little worse, since the holidays are usually spent with loved ones, and it's different when our loved ones are no longer here. If you Broc, or anybody here needs anyone to talk to, im always available. Much love everyone ❤
I cannot explain how I feel this and needed this Preciate you bro much love
Don’t knock yourself down. I went through this recently. The enemy deceived me into a sense of false humility which led to a misunderstanding of true humility. I wouldn’t accept any compliments to appear righteous. I would reflect on the past and would say it was all God “how could I be proud of myself”. I was struggling with this until I realized through my mentor that humility is not beating myself up or having negative self talk. True humility is recognizing where we stand in relation to God. And that when we do receive compliments to say thank you and to thank God in prayer for the blessing to be praised by others for the works God is doing in our lives. Realizing who we are in Christ is true humility. With that brings joy and peace and is a living testimony to what God has done in our lives.
thanks broc cause as of recent i’ve been struggling trying to learn to become a leader as the oldest of three siblings cause i was raised with God mostly naive n i never woke up to reality until about two years ago an i’ve lost a relationship cause i wasn’t emotionally mature but finding you being about a year or so older than me feels good to know i’m not alone in this strive to be something great for once and learning to say no an not so lenient with others and i go through nights too of this feeling of just wanting that one person to get along with finally but obviously i’m not ready then others tell me that you’ll grow together but i don’t want to drag her down that’s just a little you know ? an want to finish with a thanks to you being someone i can find a likeness with n feel a bind with ( just wanted to add i got a new pup recently too using this as a opportunity to become more responsible )
Keep being a light to others Broc!! You’re doing amazing! God has great plans for you, just continue trusting him and his timing even in the valley 🧡🧡
God is so good and so busy low key that it really does surprise me sometimes.. I am 29 years old and for the past 6 months I have been doing this walk with God and I am also fighting this alone feelings as I came out of a relationship that was toxic for about 6 years... I just feel so much time was wasted from my life and now I am back at square one with basically nothing to my name, not even a single friend.. I know God has a purpose for me and a future as I know He called me He saved me from the path of destruction I was on. But like you said it's hard to sometimes see the future or understand what's next and stop doubting God's plan..
Anyway thanks for sharing, not that we wallow in negativity but that we relate and refocus our sights and faith in Jesus our Savior who understands all our frustrations and sympathises with us!
Much love from South Africa🙌
bruh I'm 22 and I've been struggling with loneliness and depression, this Christian walk is hard man, you feel like your doing something right but judge yourself for every little thing you do, I'm never gonna surrender to the darkness though, you don't know how many lives you've touched bro, including mine, stay strong soldier, like Tupac said no matter how hard it gets, keep your chest out, keep your head up and handle it.” stay blessed brother
omg Broc I am crying! not because I am sad but because I am happy. I hate that we deal w this but to know that there is a coummunity out there that can come together and help each other. i went through this around 2022 as well and lowkey still is but ive learned to be alone over the years kinda sorda lol. God is always w us but God wont go shopping or ride a roller coaster w us lol so i get it. I pray that you heal soon Broc (and me as well) and that you find your companion that can fill the void for you.
How amazing is it and profound we all have birthdays in the same month going through similar things ( as I read the comments ) LIKE WOWWW happy birthday everyone !!!
Nahhhhhhh this is hittin fr. This whole dang video. Especially parts where being proud of myself almost seems prideful and i feel like I would go top far so i genuinely barely compliment myself and truly am hard on myself
Wow I love this video Broc. This was like a part 2 of the previous video for me. And I been hurting today cause I spent my birthday today alone. And it hurt. But this video was like a hug. I dont know how else to explain it. God Bless You Broc.❤✝️
Happy Birthday!
@DanielM-w1n thank you
Happy birthday. I also have my birthday coming up and I choose to spend it alone. With Jesus. It’s going to be a great happy healthy year. God bless
someone once told me an analogy- you stop feeling your shirt after wearing it all day. you get used to it! God is still with us, but you have to remind yourself that He's there.
You are literally the male version of me. I’m also 22 I’ll be 23 in March. I have no family friends or a partner. I don’t fit in anywhere either. I mean your story sounds like mine in every way. I too desire to be a wife and mother with a husband who knows god. I’m a very physically attractive woman so I’ve been around quite a few men in my life and trust me when I say, men your age who love god and has your mindset are RARE. You’re a needle in a haystack. Wish I knew people like you
wow twins is right 😮
Such a great message that many Christians struggle with. Being vulnerable with God and your peers is one of the hardest things to learn but also highly rewarding. Love yall ❤
Hey Broc, thx for making this video man. It feels like the loneliness has gotten a lot stronger ever since the holiday season started. Thanks for being vulnerable with us, it takes a lot of courage🙏🏾✝️
Thank you for your honest video.
You speak from my soul. it touches me to hear that others feel the same way as me.
You are so strong to show your vulnerability ❤
It's hard to admit these things and be open and vulnerable about them. It's true that you may not be where you want to be at the moment, but you're not where you use to be. God is working through you. 🙏🏾
We're gonna get through this. Keep going, God loves you.
Thank you for being open and vulnerable ❤️ praying for you
im only 7 seconds in and im already feeling convicted, Broc. I’ve been so on and off on the dating apps and I feel like the Lord is telling me to stop. I want to be in a relationship so bad but God is preparing me to be a wife before I even step into a relationship 🥲 I definitely have to pray about my patience in that aspect because I know my husband is out there somewhere 😭🙏🏾 God bless you!!
also, being 23 and dating is super hard in this generation. I’m lowkey losing hope but I gotta keep my faith in Christ 🤍
Also important to remember even if your married doesn’t mean there’s no loneliness know a lot of marriages that are like that
Bro I’m 36. Single for 10 years. Love Jesus so much and get to know him. Trust in the Lord. He wants you to be happy. Trust me it gets better. Great channel.
Hey man I feel your pain the exact pain I think it’s because we were in that relationship and that person cheated on us and made us feel like not enough and how we pictured our life with that person and the love and companionship making it seem like this is the person ima build the family with because I have hit that point where I want kids because kids are life I’m just guessing but that’s how I feel tbh I’m feeling down because of the worry of when will I have my person to create a family and live life with
I don’t know what your life looks like outside TH-cam and instagram, but your content and videos help me get through every day and helps me relate to struggles both of us face. Thank you brother and keep pushing ❤
Commenting to support Broc, he was real on this one 💯
You know Broc I feel this exact way when i woke up today I had remembered the dream I had in the night and I feel so lonely and I believe this video helped so thank you Broc
Hey Broc! This video is sooo relatable. Thank you for being vulnerable with us. I’m a Christian content creator as well & I too struggle with being proud of how far I’ve come on my journey with Christ. I still find myself struggling with my worth in who God says I am from time to time as well. Everything you said about not fitting in resonated with me! Sometimes it’s hard for me to embrace community when I still deal with confidence issues. This journey with Christ comes with ups & downs, but it’s all for our good & His Glory! Keep being a light! God is always with you. 🤍
Thank you for your videos it's truly amazing
I love you bro. Keep pushing. More Big Things Coming🙏🏼 Keep Stomping On The Enemy
Relatable. Thank you for being raw with us... In the name of Jesus, God bless.
May God comfort you and give you contentment in him. Im praying for you broc my brother in Christ
Hey Broc just wanted to say there is nothing wrong with wanting wife and kids. But being contempt with yourself before you add additional things to your life is also important. God says to love your neighbor as yourself, and if you can’t love the time with yourself then you can’t love your neighbor properly (others). I hope this makes sense
My brother, I feel your heart. I'd suggest you analyze if the people around you have the vibe you're looking for (cause they might not, even though you're in the same environment). You can always make friends from a different church or another circle. Just don't let that frustration because of a detail put you down. I believe you can do it. Trust me I used to feel like that, bit today I've realized my ability to make friends and how natural it is. And, of course, you could use some therapy. find a good Christian therapist out there. Stay strong brother.
As a person who struggle witg being vernable with God Journaling and talking to him through journaling Helps a lot
Yea it does feels lonely but I just have to reminds myself always that I'm not, let say last time I was feeling some type of way I told the Lord to give me a word that He wanted me to talk about since I do Bible studies online in that day I went to pick up my younger sister and as I was driving by I see this post that said God got you I felt so good, you will be alright.
LONELINESS not a pretty good word to use but yeah i relate being a young girl in my 20's not easy ,,all in all God above everything.
Thank you bro I’ve been dealing with the same stuff keep it up
true inspiration
Another great testimony. Thank you.
Its hard to find a church. It honestly feels like going to an A.A meeting😬
Great video Broc, I wouldn't mind seeing more of these videos. Keep up the good work, God bless.
Needed to hear this🙏🏾
You are NEVER alone. God us with you, through good times and bad. Do not despair..
Do not worry.
God is with you no matter what. You don't need the world. God gives you everything.
The reason why you feel alone is because God has something planned for us and he wants to protect us from the worlds wickedness!
Loneliness is a trick. A lie from the enemy trying to get you back to a sinful life!
Do not fall for it! Keep on the path God has set for you and you will be saved!
You are never alone. No matter what, God is here to help.
Have faith!
Going through the same thing day by day and always not sure who I am in Christ knowing well that he already reassured me in his word.
I feel the same way Man Ive just recently gave my life to Jesus, and If Im being honest my Life has gotten worse and my Social life has too but I know this is what comes with my Journey in Christ. I know that I may feel lonely but god really is there for me when no one else is.
all glory to God. we love u broc!
Bro I dealt with this but I heard this in a sermon several weeks ago and it changed my perspective. Sounds like you may have a thorn in your side. I know I have one. Paul talks about this. 2 Corinthians 12:1-10
You saying how others always tell u how much progress you’ve made and knowing that you have but yet u feel the same is how i feel bro i Kno God has saved me and loves me but it’s me not allowing the love to reside and still feeling lonely as if God wasn’t with me at all i would say these are tough ages we are in i just turned 24 and to not go back to my old sins or lifestyle has been so difficult it’s constantly calling me back i kno if i endure the reward is great but sometimes i give up but im really tired of giving up
i often experience that while i was in college
very good video brotha love you keep going with confidence in god!
My brother in Christ, I feel the exact same way!
I also can relate but when I feel that way I just express how i feel to the Holy Spirit because he is my friend. So if anyone feels that way, just express how you feel to the Holy Spirit because he is our comforter.
Am I allowed to listen to rap as a Christian. If not how can I stop, it’s addictive
i stop listening to secular music because the lyrics were not so good, talking about guns, drugs etc.... . I do sometimes listen to rap i usually play the clean version of the song depending what it is. but technically no depending what you listen to thats my perspective
If it’s Christian rap sure. Even if it’s not, as long as you know you’re not being negatively influenced by the music, it’s probably ok.
There are usually instrumental only versions out there
it’s not good to make it an idol. I too used to listen to it everyday and it was very addictive. I start to listen to more christian version of songs and find what works for you. also having some calm, chill, good vibes help mellow that urge to listen to all that secular music.
Been single my whole life man 🤷🏾♂️
I'm 22 and alone too
Love you kuz
That second thing, you mentioned, has a name: perfectionist.
Me too, brother... 😎
Relatable...
I feel you bro. I’m at the same level 😓 and it’s not easy 5:06
Happy birthday mine was the 29
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Bro you should start a Spotify account
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Hey, I hope you see this.
I may not know exactly your situation, but while watching this video, these words came to mind:
Broc,
You may not believe in yourself, if you've done a really good job and even people around you tell you so, but God believes in you.
He believes in you, bro. He is making you like Him-not only outwardly (as He created us to be), but inwardly as well. This transformation happens because of the choice He gave you, and you made that choice: to follow Him, to be with Him, and to become like Him.
Everything that is not Him is empty, meaningless, and devoid of love-because He is love.
Don't doubt God's work, even when He is working through you. He loves you no matter what you're doing or who you are.
The question is: do we love Him?
About the wife and kids you mentioned in the video:
If you truly want them-not just them, but everything in and around you-to be from the Lord and with the Lord.
I know you may already know this, but until you get it, it's not the same.
You have to love so much, to love so clearly Christ our Lord, The Son of God Jesus and The Father and The Holy Spirit, that all these things no matter what they are/ who they are. To don't matter to you if you have them or not, cuz He is with you always, no matter if you have them or not.
Are we with Him even if we never get the things we want to have, while we are still on Earth?
Love Him like you have nothing, but only Him. Because trust me, we have only Him. Nothing is truly ours; everything belongs to Him. ( Now of course if we are truly His, from the heart. All that He has, we also have. But I hope you see what I mean: He gives; we don't create and gain anything on our own.)
All the things will be given to you as He promised if you focus on Him, but what do you want?
Do you want, what you desire or do you want what He wants for you? ( His will)
All who read this, think about who knows better The Creator or the creation?
Focus on The Lord, He knows what He is doing. Don't let demons tell you how you feel. Love is not feeling.
God bless you all. Stay humble, and whatever you need, God has got you. Just trust Him-you have nothing to lose.
The grace of the Lord Jesus be with you all.
Amen.
- Revelation 22:21
22 years? Try 35 years alone. At this point, I'm content to be alone forever. It's not so bad most of the time. I have my hobbies to keep me going. Friendships and finding a significant other just isn't something I was made for.
You may be by yourself but your never alone Christ is always with you even when your not looking at him
Bro I was just saying too. I’m turning 36 too single. Waiting for anything for what Gods got planned for me. Either way I’m enjoying myself and doing what I want in life. Gods got a plan. I always trust in him
Broc can I PLEASE GET A RESPONSE I DONT KNOW WHATTO DO I DONT EVEN CARE ABOUT A MAN FOR REAL THEN ALL THW SUDDEN profits or maybe false profits pop up on my TH-cam telling me about a kingdom spouse and I have started to learn my lesson about these things and not listen to everybody and I’m really confused because of this I have piercings that I did before I came to Christ when I was a minor and I 100% acknowledge and speak with my mouth that Jesus Christ is Lord and I just want that to be enough. I don’t want to have to conform to what people want me to look like and I’m so confused if the devil is coming after my mind because that’s what I’m saying is it keeps coming into my mind and I’m feeling shamed about it and I’m feeling, really pressured by it and so I’m confused if it’s from the Lord or not and when I’ve prayed about it and I told God please don’t bring people online but have someone come up to me and speak what you want to tell me in person and even on live streams, holy spirit filled worship streams i’ve asked the Lord like please use your people when I ask this question openly and I’ve been told what I’ve read in the Bible that God cares about my heart more than what I look like but I’m still struggling with these stats and I’m just so confused. I really need help. I don’t want to disobey God I want to be good as good as a sinner gets I guess sacrifice for him a living sacrifice for him and I’m feeling so lost and confused please help.
I used voice to text I promise I know how to spell prophet 🙄lol but all seriousness I know that God knows that deep down I want somebody to love me but God also knows that well he only knows how long it’ll take for me to trust a man again for my understanding that I have and not his own understanding, but my own is that I might never trust a man ever again and I only want to put my trust into Jesus. I don’t even like I said I don’t even care about a man for real. I don’t even want to put my trust into a man for real to love me because I know that no man will ever love me like Jesus loves me and then all the sudden falls hope from TH-cam comes up like oh blah blah blah blah blah about a man, like as a woman who is created for man of course I want that but in today’s world it’s seemingly impossible that that will ever happen to me and I don’t want to lose hope I do believe that God has somebody for me. I don’t know if these are self righteous thoughts but I know that men deal with corn more than women do statistically and I tell God like if he’s dealing with these lustful things to be honest I don’t even want him and I feel like that’s also wrong with me because I’m being judgemental but it’s like I don’t wanna have to deal with the man who isn’t fully healed from these things and I don’t wanna have to wait for a man to get over these things when he supposed to be focused on supposedly me you understand what I’m saying
Thank you for being so vulnerable with what you’re going to do because honestly as your sister in Christ I’m going through the same exact thing and the devil is a liar. You are not alone in this season and God definitely has a lot of his children going through the same season so that we can learn from each other and lean on what God is speaking to each other being in the same season. I actually just turned 20 years old today. I’ve been celibate for like over two years just recently got sober from fentanyl and meth and got baptised and, just trying so hard so so so hard to do everything in my little human life to please God I believing what his son did for me and I know that absolutely nothing that I did could ever please him except for acknowledging what his son did for me anyways I feel the exact same way like I have this family and today was my birthday and then they were all talking about their own issues and I just feel like such a burden into my own family Even when supposedly this supposed to be about the day that I was born that God or ordain me to have a mission on this earth and they claim to be Christian but don’t read the Bible don’t understand what I say when I don’t want to be around sinful nature like you clearly don’t read the Bible or know what Jesus did because he literally spoke to the Pharisees about these religious things that people do and I’m not a religious person I have a relationship with Jesus Christ my Lord and saviour and I just don’t know how much longer I’m gonna have to quote “be all by myself because I know Jesus has always been with me, but Sometimes I just want someone to hold my hand physically or like actually look me into my eyes and mean what they say to me and feel emotion like I’ve been feeling like life isn’t even real and I’m more sober than I’ve ever been in my whole life and life somehow feels more than it ever did Then compared to when I was sober, like I don’t know if it’s real or I don’t know what it is but just know that you aren’t alone
Ignore the typos ain’t no way I’m typing all that out so voice text did me dirty
Sorry I’m literally blowing up your chat with these super blown out long messages but I’ve literally never related to another person near my age who is believing in Christ like I’ve related to you people always tell me oh you should be proud of yourself like I’m literally sober from fentanyl and meth, but I still feel like a failure no matter what I do I just can’t be happy for myself and I know that I should be and I can acknowledge from what other people say but I hold myself to a very high standard because of actually I don’t know what it is. I do I want the best for myself and I think it’s that I care about my reputation and I don’t like people lying about me so I have to always be on my best behaviour to make sure that I’m 10 steps ahead of everybody to make sure that they can’t say lies about me or to make sure that I’m justified in my actions like it really messes with my brain
More fake * and I’m talking about my family with the Pharisee thing, it’s the truth I don’t want to slander people I’m truly struggling with this my bad Broc I’ve said too much 😹😹
Maybe you can have Bible studies or men's group I feel like that helps a lot
I receive this🥹