@broc.saeger Yes I have been for 3 years of high school and I needed this video and I think God has me because his trying to protect me from getting and continually getting hurt from Girls and rejection
I was in a talking stage for almost 6 months with a Christian Man. I realize that as a Woman of God aspiring to be a Prov. 31 Woman, I need more than a Christian man, but rather a Man of God. We Bible studied and did all the things we were supposed to - waiting, no fornication, managing long-distance, but we made the mistake of prioritizing each other > the Lord. He began to feel suffocated and decided that he was scared to commit, and he decided that we need a “break”. He began to become meaner, and he told me that he no longer likes speaking to me knowing how he hurt me. I began convicting him by staying true to Christ where he was failing. We now are in a limbo state of being, no longer talking - but not exactly over. I began to feel abandoned, and still do at times. I ran to God. Whether we come back together or not - because he is a good man, and I do not want to speak ill of him, I now know that for ANY relationship to work, prioritizing God over your partner is a MUST 🙌🏽🖤 That is truly wisdom, and being wise is understanding that God has to be the center of a relationship for it to work, not idolizing the other person and blaming yourself for their issues and personal warfare. Now I just pray and wait for what/who God has for me 🙌🏽 I am currently studying youth ministry along with my many other callings, and placing God above all, focusing on MY purpose in Christ, and allowing whoever to come into my life to only be an asset to me and the works of the Kingdom 🙏🏽✝️
I am, I asked him to put me there saying-‘God if she isn’t the one then i don’t want her in my life, no matter how much it hurts, remove her’ And he did…
Been single all my life and recently I’ve been really content with it, I used to go through moments of loneliness but the closer I got to Jesus I no longer feel like that. I believe that in this season personally God is refining me for his kingdom and my kingdom spouse. I’m getting more in-depth with God spiritually and the closest I’ve been to him. All glory to Jesus🙏🏼. This is the busiest I’ve been with God and I still feel like I can do much more for his kingdom.
im definetly in the season of singleness the devil temped me with a guy and god let me see how bad guys can be so now im single the relationship lasted 3 days lol and he chased me down 4 flights of stairs and ruined my weight loss journey getting revenge on me . I know he has me in this season because hes preparing me to meet my husband he told me i got 1 month left so im so excited God told me my mom has cancer so rt now he told me once i get through this ill meet him and he will be with me thru all of this . Thankyou for making these videos i love them .
14:03 i literally laughed hearing this. I was in a relationship for a year and had been having dreams for months of him cheating, he preached “godliness” and that he was my partner sent by Christ. Needless to say he broke up with me on Thanksgiving after I prayed for days asking God to show me if it was true. Not only that but his demeanor completely switched almost feeling like someone I never knew. God truly knows everything lol
been crushing on this girl at church for months (im 16M) and ive been paying and god has consistently told me to focus on him and he will provide. so seeing your tiktok about seeing a girl on fire for god and god tell you your not good enough spoke directly to me. after months of beeing in the word i had almost forgotten about her i prayed one last time and he gave me to go ahead as long as i keep him 1 at all times. so i got her number... this video is a great one man keep it up!
Ugh I definitely have been struggling with this. I see other women my age, and they all seem to have the perfect life, and me, I feel like I've been in a constant uphill battle. I sometimes don't feel like I deserve a Godly spouse since I dealt with alot of verbal abuse from my dad. Going through that made me think if my own dad dislikes me this much, then what man would want to marry or date me.
Perhaps you should try a Christian psychologist? This childhood memories destroy our lives... I will go for a week in a Christian therapy group... God only knows if it would help me... But try... God bless you 🙏.
I will say don't compare your life to others. I will pray for you in that area because it sounds like you need to heal. And also don't forget GOD loves you sister.
@nicoflight3982 i really appreciate you responding. Yeah I really do need healing. The worst part is that I'm also dealing with rejection at work from coworkers for being too quiet 🙃. They literally act like I don't exist here. Dealing with rejection from coworkers just reminds me of my fathers rejection all over again. I really need prayers rn thank you so much 💖
@@spacey1335 How long do you work there? Perhaps you could find a friend there? I was and am quiet too... Interesting, today I had online fitness hour and I was asked questions and when a girl interrupted, she was told to be quiet so my answer would come through... I found that really outstanding... I'm shy, and if I don't know people so good, I'm quiet most of the time :).
So good! Thanks so much. I really relate to this because I have a strong calling on my life and believe the man God has for me does too and that we’ll be on the same page spiritually. I don’t want to settle. I’m trusting God and waiting on His timing and surrendering to Him.
I am in a season of singleness and I think God knows that I need to heal from past unyolked and toxic relationships. I believe he knows what’s best for us all ❤
Hey Brock. Your videos and their message always manage to strike a cord with me. There's this girl that I'm certain is THE one. She's not the type I have ever been into, doesn't have the body I envisioned to be perfect, the hair, the eye color, or the most important factor, wear glasses 😅. However, this girl has been stuck, and I mean running some serious laps, breaking world records and all in my head. When I first saw her, I simply thought she was pretty, like many of the women I've seen in my life. But over the following days, weeks, months, almost a year, that I had spent without ever seeing her face again, she just kept of popping up in my head. It came to the point that she was up there 24/7. It was infuriatingly distracting and frustrating, to say the least. It still kind of is. I would pray to God on the daily to just make this woman disappear form my thoughts, only to wake up the next morning and have her name and face pop into my head right after saying thanks to God for the new day. I'm not a confident man in my looks, actions, style yadi yada, not confident, and tend to wonder how much of a miracle having someone find me attractive would be. She, on the other hand, opened up a new list of what I want for a wife and is, to put it bluntly, so out of my league it would probably be offensive to think I have a chance. I had managed to talk to her for the first time🎉, and it was a terrible blunder. It wasn't anything important, just asking her for information about a ministry group she helped found in my grad school. Yet I stumbled through that conversation like a blind man in a maze filled with a bunch of things to make you trip😅. So, that brings me to why I haven't asked her out, and I just want your opinion on what you think I should do. Firstly, it is my belief that she's out of my league. Pretty simple observation on my part. Secondly, im a broke grad school student with a higher IQ than I have money in a bank account. How could I ever take someone out on a date with $30 to my name that I use for public transport. Thirdly and most important of all, I believe we're not equally yolked, not yet, at least. She seems to have it all figured out, is one of the leaders at my church, and she seems to have that connection with God that I honestly still lack. I'm a man that's in a YoYo of running from and falling to lust, and I'm simply not deserving or even worthy of one of God's precious daughters. So I'm trying to focus on growing in God first before I approach her. So, do I keep on growing, trying to get closer to God before I try to get to know her on a more personal, friendly level, or do I just aim for the bushes and hope for the best? Did I mention I'm 21 and have yet to have a relationship that goes past being childhood friends with a woman😅?
@olenjka55 it's hard to find a good job with the little free time I have due to grad school. I'm going out of state for about a month until my next semester, so I'll see to trying to be around her more. But she also seems to be a busy person. After service, she sticks around for a little bit before rushing out the door. Dont know if she's busy or not up for the social atmosphere
@@Ghxst750 Hmm, interesting... You could ask her what she does after church... :) I also was a student, I did Bachelor in Chemistry... :) and I was a servant in a luxury building in the evenings... Not every evening but still... It was an interesting time... :)
Thank you so much! This video is so helpful, especially hearing the perspective of a Godly man. I know God is still preparing and protecting me for my future spouse. I'm working on seeing Godly men as my brothers in Christ 🙏 Being single my whole life as a 22 year old can seem hard at times, but I know God wants what's best for me:) God bless you Broc!
Hey! I came across your IG account recently and decided to take a look at your channel! I just subscribed to it, I love what you are doing on here! Keep preaching dude! Jesus is king 👑
sanctification is definetly real and the process is fast but the keeping to the commandments and the learning is pretty hard lol God took me through all the commandments in life lessons to teach me not to do them The scariest one was stealing the angels told me i was allowed to steal for the lesson but i almost got arrested and it taught me to NEVER steal so its scary sometimes but its important to go through the walk because you get your beautiful life at the end . This has been about a year since i came to Christ and now i get my kingdom spouse in a month as God told me
Hey Brock. Relatively new follower of yours, but thanks for talking about this. I (16M) have been looking for qualities I want in a spouse. I realized a few months ago that the person I was with at the time didn’t match to what I wanted, even though I had been with them for 1.5 years. So, I left. Today would’ve been 2 years for us, so I find it ironic this video came up for me today. With that being said, I do have some questions for you before I go looking for my spouse, because I’ve actually had my eye on this girl at my church. 1: How do you know if God needs to purify you? 2: If he does, how do I go about making that happen? 3: How can I start bearing more fruit and stop being lukewarm? Again, thanks so much for doing this, God bless you my brother.
It’s funny, I don’t believe in coincidences and I’ve been “randomly” thinking about the time I got my permit/license. I didn’t understand why it was on my mind, but I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Then you just used that analogy! Some other things have happened in your videos too, it’s getting to a point where I think God really led me to your videos!
I am so happy to hear you say "the laying on of hands." Today's churches do not practice this Biblical act. Being equally yoked is essential. or it won't last. If it does, it will be an unhappy marriage.
I was in a relationship with my ex for almost 2 years and at the time i didn’t know God at all and i hurt him which i’m not proud of at all and i regret everything i ever did to him but he led me to God but we weren’t equally yoked at all but i always wonder if we’d see each other again
Same sister but we just gotta understand that we are forgiven for our past mistakes and God allowed it to happen for our growth. 2 Corinthians 5:17, which reads, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new" And if it is Gods will to bring him back then thats great and if not then he has someone even better for you all you need to do is have trust, patience, and faith. Know that God works out everything for the good of those who love him.
As a non Christian i was in toxic relationships... Then i became a believer in Christ... But i didn't search for a man. Some christians were interested but not me. For me it's difficult to trust God and to trust a man, so i only fall in love with unreachable men. So i first must work on my trust issues towards God (because of childhood problems). Perhaps then i could start to be more open towards a man. In Germany we have not very many followers of Christ. Or i see it so.
Asking for things in general but: How can I have my heart neutral towards everything? Like, if God asked me to give something up, I would, but I also enjoy doing the thing (speaking of hobbies here) so should I stop enjoying it/having my heart excited towards it? How would I do that?
Are you in a season of singleness? If so why do you think God has you in this season?
@broc.saeger Yes I have been for 3 years of high school and I needed this video and I think God has me because his trying to protect me from getting and continually getting hurt from Girls and rejection
I was in a talking stage for almost 6 months with a Christian Man.
I realize that as a Woman of God aspiring to be a Prov. 31 Woman, I need more than a Christian man, but rather a Man of God.
We Bible studied and did all the things we were supposed to - waiting, no fornication, managing long-distance, but we made the mistake of prioritizing each other > the Lord.
He began to feel suffocated and decided that he was scared to commit, and he decided that we need a “break”. He began to become meaner, and he told me that he no longer likes speaking to me knowing how he hurt me. I began convicting him by staying true to Christ where he was failing.
We now are in a limbo state of being, no longer talking - but not exactly over.
I began to feel abandoned, and still do at times.
I ran to God.
Whether we come back together or not - because he is a good man, and I do not want to speak ill of him, I now know that for ANY relationship to work, prioritizing God over your partner is a MUST 🙌🏽🖤
That is truly wisdom, and being wise is understanding that God has to be the center of a relationship for it to work, not idolizing the other person and blaming yourself for their issues and personal warfare.
Now I just pray and wait for what/who God has for me 🙌🏽
I am currently studying youth ministry along with my many other callings, and placing God above all, focusing on MY purpose in Christ, and allowing whoever to come into my life to only be an asset to me and the works of the Kingdom 🙏🏽✝️
I am, I asked him to put me there saying-‘God if she isn’t the one then i don’t want her in my life, no matter how much it hurts, remove her’
And he did…
Been single all my life and recently I’ve been really content with it, I used to go through moments of loneliness but the closer I got to Jesus I no longer feel like that. I believe that in this season personally God is refining me for his kingdom and my kingdom spouse. I’m getting more in-depth with God spiritually and the closest I’ve been to him. All glory to Jesus🙏🏼. This is the busiest I’ve been with God and I still feel like I can do much more for his kingdom.
im definetly in the season of singleness the devil temped me with a guy and god let me see how bad guys can be so now im single the relationship lasted 3 days lol and he chased me down 4 flights of stairs and ruined my weight loss journey getting revenge on me . I know he has me in this season because hes preparing me to meet my husband he told me i got 1 month left so im so excited God told me my mom has cancer so rt now he told me once i get through this ill meet him and he will be with me thru all of this . Thankyou for making these videos i love them .
14:03 i literally laughed hearing this. I was in a relationship for a year and had been having dreams for months of him cheating, he preached “godliness” and that he was my partner sent by Christ. Needless to say he broke up with me on Thanksgiving after I prayed for days asking God to show me if it was true. Not only that but his demeanor completely switched almost feeling like someone I never knew. God truly knows everything lol
I literally was just praying for my future kingdom spouse, I needed to hear this 🔥
God’s timing is like no other 🙏🏻
been crushing on this girl at church for months (im 16M) and ive been paying and god has consistently told me to focus on him and he will provide. so seeing your tiktok about seeing a girl on fire for god and god tell you your not good enough spoke directly to me.
after months of beeing in the word i had almost forgotten about her i prayed one last time and he gave me to go ahead as long as i keep him 1 at all times.
so i got her number... this video is a great one man keep it up!
Ugh I definitely have been struggling with this. I see other women my age, and they all seem to have the perfect life, and me, I feel like I've been in a constant uphill battle. I sometimes don't feel like I deserve a Godly spouse since I dealt with alot of verbal abuse from my dad. Going through that made me think if my own dad dislikes me this much, then what man would want to marry or date me.
Perhaps you should try a Christian psychologist? This childhood memories destroy our lives...
I will go for a week in a Christian therapy group... God only knows if it would help me...
But try... God bless you 🙏.
I will say don't compare your life to others. I will pray for you in that area because it sounds like you need to heal. And also don't forget GOD loves you sister.
@olenjka55 thank you for responding. God bless you as well. 💓
@nicoflight3982 i really appreciate you responding. Yeah I really do need healing. The worst part is that I'm also dealing with rejection at work from coworkers for being too quiet 🙃. They literally act like I don't exist here. Dealing with rejection from coworkers just reminds me of my fathers rejection all over again. I really need prayers rn thank you so much 💖
@@spacey1335 How long do you work there?
Perhaps you could find a friend there?
I was and am quiet too... Interesting, today I had online fitness hour and I was asked questions and when a girl interrupted, she was told to be quiet so my answer would come through... I found that really outstanding... I'm shy, and if I don't know people so good, I'm quiet most of the time :).
So good! Thanks so much. I really relate to this because I have a strong calling on my life and believe the man God has for me does too and that we’ll be on the same page spiritually. I don’t want to settle. I’m trusting God and waiting on His timing and surrendering to Him.
When you follow Him and let Him lead you eventually you’re gonna cross paths with her because His path for both of y’all will have y’all cross
I am in a season of singleness and I think God knows that I need to heal from past unyolked and toxic relationships. I believe he knows what’s best for us all ❤
the way he raised his hand 😭😭
Hey Brock. Your videos and their message always manage to strike a cord with me.
There's this girl that I'm certain is THE one. She's not the type I have ever been into, doesn't have the body I envisioned to be perfect, the hair, the eye color, or the most important factor, wear glasses 😅. However, this girl has been stuck, and I mean running some serious laps, breaking world records and all in my head.
When I first saw her, I simply thought she was pretty, like many of the women I've seen in my life. But over the following days, weeks, months, almost a year, that I had spent without ever seeing her face again, she just kept of popping up in my head.
It came to the point that she was up there 24/7. It was infuriatingly distracting and frustrating, to say the least. It still kind of is. I would pray to God on the daily to just make this woman disappear form my thoughts, only to wake up the next morning and have her name and face pop into my head right after saying thanks to God for the new day.
I'm not a confident man in my looks, actions, style yadi yada, not confident, and tend to wonder how much of a miracle having someone find me attractive would be. She, on the other hand, opened up a new list of what I want for a wife and is, to put it bluntly, so out of my league it would probably be offensive to think I have a chance.
I had managed to talk to her for the first time🎉, and it was a terrible blunder. It wasn't anything important, just asking her for information about a ministry group she helped found in my grad school. Yet I stumbled through that conversation like a blind man in a maze filled with a bunch of things to make you trip😅.
So, that brings me to why I haven't asked her out, and I just want your opinion on what you think I should do.
Firstly, it is my belief that she's out of my league. Pretty simple observation on my part.
Secondly, im a broke grad school student with a higher IQ than I have money in a bank account. How could I ever take someone out on a date with $30 to my name that I use for public transport.
Thirdly and most important of all, I believe we're not equally yolked, not yet, at least. She seems to have it all figured out, is one of the leaders at my church, and she seems to have that connection with God that I honestly still lack. I'm a man that's in a YoYo of running from and falling to lust, and I'm simply not deserving or even worthy of one of God's precious daughters. So I'm trying to focus on growing in God first before I approach her.
So, do I keep on growing, trying to get closer to God before I try to get to know her on a more personal, friendly level, or do I just aim for the bushes and hope for the best? Did I mention I'm 21 and have yet to have a relationship that goes past being childhood friends with a woman😅?
Yes you should prioritize your relationship with God always remember that he is the blesser for the blessings
But you could still work on your confidence, finding a good job or something... And trying to be around her, to get to know eachother...
@olenjka55 it's hard to find a good job with the little free time I have due to grad school. I'm going out of state for about a month until my next semester, so I'll see to trying to be around her more. But she also seems to be a busy person. After service, she sticks around for a little bit before rushing out the door. Dont know if she's busy or not up for the social atmosphere
@lolololzkelly yeah, I figured. If we ignore my lack of "play" and confidence, it's one of the main reasons I haven't really approached her.
@@Ghxst750 Hmm, interesting... You could ask her what she does after church... :)
I also was a student, I did Bachelor in Chemistry... :) and I was a servant in a luxury building in the evenings... Not every evening but still... It was an interesting time... :)
Thank you so much! This video is so helpful, especially hearing the perspective of a Godly man. I know God is still preparing and protecting me for my future spouse. I'm working on seeing Godly men as my brothers in Christ 🙏 Being single my whole life as a 22 year old can seem hard at times, but I know God wants what's best for me:)
God bless you Broc!
I’ve been single for almost 6 years 😭. As a man that just turned 26 seems like time is ticking 😭
soon brother
Hey! I came across your IG account recently and decided to take a look at your channel! I just subscribed to it, I love what you are doing on here! Keep preaching dude!
Jesus is king 👑
Thank you for this message. I know the time will be right in His timing. Let’s work on ourselves for His best!
God Bless you Broc 🙏🏼💫
oh, I definitely got A LOT from this video!!! Your videos help answer my questions but I know that's God using you to do that for people like me.
W man ✝️
that is a wisdom that i am experiencing right now its just becoming more clear now
Needed this one Brock! Good stuff man!!
I relate so much to your story, thanks for sharing 😊, God Bless!
I love broc so much
Such a banger brotha🙌
Honestly, hearing this message, helps with my confidence in wanting a battle partner that will spiritually fight WITH me. Thank you.
Ty buddy, god bless u
sanctification is definetly real and the process is fast but the keeping to the commandments and the learning is pretty hard lol God took me through all the commandments in life lessons to teach me not to do them The scariest one was stealing the angels told me i was allowed to steal for the lesson but i almost got arrested and it taught me to NEVER steal so its scary sometimes but its important to go through the walk because you get your beautiful life at the end . This has been about a year since i came to Christ and now i get my kingdom spouse in a month as God told me
I get excited whenever you post :)
Hey Brock. Relatively new follower of yours, but thanks for talking about this. I (16M) have been looking for qualities I want in a spouse. I realized a few months ago that the person I was with at the time didn’t match to what I wanted, even though I had been with them for 1.5 years. So, I left. Today would’ve been 2 years for us, so I find it ironic this video came up for me today. With that being said, I do have some questions for you before I go looking for my spouse, because I’ve actually had my eye on this girl at my church.
1: How do you know if God needs to purify you?
2: If he does, how do I go about making that happen?
3: How can I start bearing more fruit and stop being lukewarm?
Again, thanks so much for doing this, God bless you my brother.
Thank you love ya brother
grand rising :) thank u for this vid bro. God bless 🙏✝️❤️
It’s funny, I don’t believe in coincidences and I’ve been “randomly” thinking about the time I got my permit/license. I didn’t understand why it was on my mind, but I couldn’t stop thinking about it. Then you just used that analogy! Some other things have happened in your videos too, it’s getting to a point where I think God really led me to your videos!
Amen brother, beautifully articulated! God works through you in astonishing ways 🙏🏼
Thank you for the fire video brother. God is good always.
If my girl is a freethinker and she brings me closer to god and reminds me not to put gods name is vain, is that a sign?
I am so happy to hear you say "the laying on of hands." Today's churches do not practice this Biblical act. Being equally yoked is essential. or it won't last. If it does, it will be an unhappy marriage.
How do I know if I am spiritually ready to ask someone out? Like how do I know if God thinks I am ready to care for and be responsible for someone?
Yu needed this
I was in a relationship with my ex for almost 2 years and at the time i didn’t know God at all and i hurt him which i’m not proud of at all and i regret everything i ever did to him but he led me to God but we weren’t equally yoked at all but i always wonder if we’d see each other again
Same sister but we just gotta understand that we are forgiven for our past mistakes and God allowed it to happen for our growth. 2 Corinthians 5:17, which reads, "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new" And if it is Gods will to bring him back then thats great and if not then he has someone even better for you all you need to do is have trust, patience, and faith. Know that God works out everything for the good of those who love him.
@ thank you i really needed that🤍
This was very much needed☺️
let’s be friends broc
W vid!!
As a non Christian i was in toxic relationships... Then i became a believer in Christ... But i didn't search for a man. Some christians were interested but not me. For me it's difficult to trust God and to trust a man, so i only fall in love with unreachable men. So i first must work on my trust issues towards God (because of childhood problems). Perhaps then i could start to be more open towards a man. In Germany we have not very many followers of Christ. Or i see it so.
Bro you should start a Spotify
Asking for things in general but: How can I have my heart neutral towards everything? Like, if God asked me to give something up, I would, but I also enjoy doing the thing (speaking of hobbies here) so should I stop enjoying it/having my heart excited towards it? How would I do that?
Hey bro can u help me grow my faith in God? I'm tired of being stuck in sadness and i wanna live passionately for Him.
How do you like for certain it’s God talking and not the enemy another thing… How do you know Gods trynna talk to you😭😅
Suiii
lmao wtf