Forgiveness in an unforgiving world | Megan Feldman | TEDxBoulder

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  • This talk was given at a local TEDx event, produced independently of the TED Conferences. We have to learn to forgive if we are to heal the planet.
    Megan Feldman is an award-winning writer. Her journalism has appeared in publications including 5280, Glamour, Details, and The Daily Beast. She spent the past year on a global adventure to report and write her first book, TRIUMPH OF THE HEART: Forgiveness in an Unforgiving World, which is forthcoming next year from Hudson Street Press at Penguin. Megan holds a master's degree from the Columbia University Graduate School of Journalism in New York City, and has taught as an adjunct professor of journalism at Metropolitan State University in Denver. Visit her at www.meganfeldman.com, or join the conversation by liking The Heart of Forgiveness on Facebook.
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  • @shonaharris9328
    @shonaharris9328 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Great talk! Buddhists say start with compassion of self, extend it to others. Part of compassion is patience.

  • @RobertGold
    @RobertGold 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Megan, what a wonderful talk! I love your writing style. I remember celebrating all the awards you won as a journalist. I am looking forward to Penguin Random House release of your book, Triumph of the Heart: Forgiveness in an Unforgiving World.
    The next two decades have the opportunity to be extraordinary as we resolve tough issues, such as: hunger, contaminated water and unhealthy living conditions. Before we begin, we must open our hearts.
    August 11, 2015 can't come soon enough. Sarah Lusher and Maria Burton ... I wanted you to be aware of Megan's first book.
    For those who don't know Megan, she is an incredible journalist. Her wisdom and selection of stories that she researched and extensively interviewed are gripping and moving.
    I have been waiting for you to write a book for a long time now, Megan. I don't remember who said it, but to paraphrase, the heart is designed to be broken. It might be broken many times. Engaging in trust and forgiveness makes the heart whole again.
    Before the '20s and '30s there are hearts waiting to become whole once again. Megan, your timing couldn't be more perfect as 2015 is turning out to be a remarkable year as controversial issues that have persisted for a long time are being addressed and resolved. In a month we get to turn our attention to our hearts.
    Thank you.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Robert Gold Thanks, Robert!

  • @nidaislam1625
    @nidaislam1625 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredible talk. I'm still under the spell of those magical words that really helped me to bring positivity in my life.

  • @adammccoy77
    @adammccoy77 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was a great talk Megan...there is no doubt that forgiveness is something we all need to learn to embrace.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Adam McCoy Thanks, Adam!

    • @throe68
      @throe68 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Should we forgive the arrogance of thinking you speak for "we all?" Just a thought...

  • @D00dman
    @D00dman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I want to say I have forgiven my dad for being the parent that he is, I don't resent him, I just don't ever want to deal with him. Idk

    • @yathinkinc
      @yathinkinc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your choice is perfectly ok, I made the same one although it is my mother I cut contact with for my life to be healthier

  • @caroleconlon2272
    @caroleconlon2272 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent look into a topic that is too often ignored or avoided. Megan points the way.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Carole Conlon Thanks, Carole!

  • @kristelstreib673
    @kristelstreib673 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    If my people who are called by my name will humble themselves and seek my face and turn from their wickedness then I will heal their land!

  • @debilefaye3816
    @debilefaye3816 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent. Very time appropriate!

  • @coppermugs1165
    @coppermugs1165 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful message! Thanks Megan!

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Copper Mugs Thank you so much!

  • @ScottFassett
    @ScottFassett 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great talk Megan, thanks for sharing the video.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Scott Fassett Thanks so much for this. I really appreciate it.

  • @jgiza8888
    @jgiza8888 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not forgiving holds you hostage, forgiving sets you free.

  • @mikeleatherwood7699
    @mikeleatherwood7699 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're my hero!

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mike Leatherwood Thanks so much, Mike! I appreciate you watching.

  • @dreat0227
    @dreat0227 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such a beautiful! Talk!

  • @ShannonLooper
    @ShannonLooper 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great talk Megan! We miss you. :)

    • @sexymate8654
      @sexymate8654 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Isn't she my my beautiful/ dear sister. Indeed I'm very proud of her! forgiveness is the only medicine for a broken heart & soul! your talk is highly appreciated!

  • @adamdaman2760
    @adamdaman2760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello everyone 👋

  • @TusharPatel-ke3kb
    @TusharPatel-ke3kb 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lovely talk thank you. I am at the beginning of this process because of a difficult year I have had. Giving up resentment feels immensely powerful. It's like laying down all your madness and burdens and feeling light in the world again.

  • @celebrity_rooster7488
    @celebrity_rooster7488 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aka Laziness in a productive world

  • @dementedbowine8681
    @dementedbowine8681 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    well sometimes best to try and forget stuff still nice speech

  • @leolcjt
    @leolcjt 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I try to forgive my family. But they take my kindness for weakness. now I don't know how to Forgive them! Yes...its more than just one person.

  • @mama27f
    @mama27f 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I thank God for souls like you cause it is possible to forgive cause we must let go by seeking help from God who forgave us first. Thank you Lord for Megan

  • @johnolaughlin1189
    @johnolaughlin1189 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I've had the great fortune to meet Azim, to hear and be inspired by his story and commitment to forgiveness. Megan thank you for bringing more light to this important topic.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      John O'Laughlin Thanks so much for watching and taking the time to comment! All my best, Megan

  • @mirunagavaz
    @mirunagavaz 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I do not like these kinds of videos, for the simple reason that they seem to offer answers to how, but they don't. Not even a bit. It's the how i don't know, not the why.

  • @danny5320
    @danny5320 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful! I love your wants for your son. I believe we can all relate to those times when we are kids and something felt so heavy, but is really just our life playing out. Forgiveness is such an important skill. One that we can benefit from using every day -- an antidote to judgment.
    TY for sharing.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dan Bartels True indeed. Thanks so much, Dan.

  • @angelajackson4120
    @angelajackson4120 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent talk Megan! Powerful words indeed. Congratulations on your marriage, son and the upcoming book.

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Angela Jackson Thanks so much, Angela! I hope you're well!

  • @Stratman389
    @Stratman389 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Can you forgive when the injury is ongoing/irrevocable?

    • @hollypattersonwriter
      @hollypattersonwriter 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What do you mean?if your being abused please call the police and report it .your not alone.

  • @deborahbowman2919
    @deborahbowman2919 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Megan shares from the heart about an aspiring story well worth our time. I can't wait until her book comes out!

    • @megfeldman
      @megfeldman 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Deborah Bowman Thanks, Deborah!

    • @okellodorice9318
      @okellodorice9318 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah forgiveness is possible

  • @michaelwayne1012
    @michaelwayne1012 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    forgiveness on one hand can only be meet when " REPENTANCE " is extended by the offending other....... Damnation can still apply to the unrepentant even if you are forgiven ........ Example: Depending on the situation , I may forgive you . Yet The Most High may not. Forgiveness is not given for selfish reasons. It is given that with hope that you and the offender may stand clean of strife and to bring closure to a wrongful situation.... On any level.

  • @carolnichols5970
    @carolnichols5970 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Forgiveness would change everything we know in the real world.

  • @unzahid
    @unzahid 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    powerful words.