Story 1: He isn't obligated to donate anything to anybody. They hired a PI to find him. That costs time and money. They could just use that effort to wait and get a regular donor instead. OP's right, they wanted to know where he is so they could use him as a free meal ticket. Good on OP and his real family for standing up to them. All the commenters complaining he has to donate or it'll be bad karma. Get the duck outta here with that nonsense.
STORY 2 Idk how people start to take other people for granted...its disrespectful..Even OP she already pushed once making finance family works it out, now she is made to do it again... I wouldn't be surprised and fiance family have up on this wedding... And his fiance walking away from OP.. like get your act straight women !!
Wow, the comments on the first story are crazy. NTA and he's under no obligation to do anything. Regardless of the "giving him life". Yes, he would be the hero if he did but he's not the ahole for saying no, especially since the tracked him down and harrassed him. They literally just wanted his bone marrow, not him. They lost custody for a good reason.
What is up with the comments on the first one? Did everyone forget the threat the birth parents made towards OP and their family if they said no? These people are just as crazy as the birth parents.
I question the validity of Story 1. The ideal [bone marrow] donor is typically an histocompatible-matched relative, most often a sibling, rather than the child of a parent with leukemia.
Yeah, no... He's not obligated to donate anything to anybody. I hope the next time you don't give the literal shirt off your back to a homeless person that "karma" doesn't come for you.
@@MegaHarvickFan29 Of course, he's not obligated to save a life. This being said, OOP is setting itself to be refused the same way. Such is the way of Karma.
Naw you good Fam! You don’t owe them Jack sh*t 🤬🤬🤬🤬
Story 1: He isn't obligated to donate anything to anybody. They hired a PI to find him. That costs time and money. They could just use that effort to wait and get a regular donor instead. OP's right, they wanted to know where he is so they could use him as a free meal ticket. Good on OP and his real family for standing up to them. All the commenters complaining he has to donate or it'll be bad karma. Get the duck outta here with that nonsense.
STORY 2
Idk how people start to take other people for granted...its disrespectful..Even OP she already pushed once making finance family works it out, now she is made to do it again... I wouldn't be surprised and fiance family have up on this wedding... And his fiance walking away from OP.. like get your act straight women !!
Wow, the comments on the first story are crazy. NTA and he's under no obligation to do anything. Regardless of the "giving him life". Yes, he would be the hero if he did but he's not the ahole for saying no, especially since the tracked him down and harrassed him. They literally just wanted his bone marrow, not him. They lost custody for a good reason.
Love the new intro
What is up with the comments on the first one? Did everyone forget the threat the birth parents made towards OP and their family if they said no? These people are just as crazy as the birth parents.
I question the validity of Story 1. The ideal [bone marrow] donor is typically an histocompatible-matched relative, most often a sibling, rather than the child of a parent with leukemia.
Day 275 of commenting to help secretvoices, just the countdown to 300 BEGINNNN(it wont be the wnd)
Story 1: YTA. I think I have heard a Nirvana song because of the strong edgy teen spirit's smell. I hope Karma will not be too hard.
How in the hell is the kid the asshole here?
Yeah, no... He's not obligated to donate anything to anybody. I hope the next time you don't give the literal shirt off your back to a homeless person that "karma" doesn't come for you.
Karma for what? Consent?
At least they have an excuse to be "edgy". Kids are a bit cringe. What's your excuse?
@@MegaHarvickFan29 Of course, he's not obligated to save a life. This being said, OOP is setting itself to be refused the same way. Such is the way of Karma.
@@topazcoyote5482 If you are doing nothing to save a life when you got a risk-free opportunity to do so, what does it make you?