Story 1: had a neighbor like that. We bought a house (my ex and I) and the neighbor was renting. Single mom, stay at home, her ex was paying the bills on the house still. She met my then husband and started talking to him. After that it was "can I borrow tools? Oh my fence broke can you fix it? My cable isn't working can you help?" Then when he tried to tell her no she would literally sob, telling him "no one can help me I am all alone and my son and I need help!" Then he would trudge over and help reluctantly. One day he came running back, pale and sweaty, she had asked him to.fix her cable, the. Walked out of her bedroom naked and told him she KNEW he wanted her. He ran for it. I could hear her screeching at him to come back and she ran out her front door in a freaking towel and told me they LOVED each other. Lmao I hit her with the hose and she left screeching at me. She got evicted the next month and there wad blessed silence.
Story #2 was absolutely heartbreaking 💔!! She does not deserve the moniker of “mother” or “mom” or anything close to the honorific relating to a parent. OP is a special person who does NOT deserve their lot in life. I truly hope they find happiness.
EM needs help alright, it's called a thorough mental health evaluation and hopefully her child can get into a more stable home environment with loving adoptive parents. EM can perhaps be put into a care home facility. Hopefully in the meantime OP can move on with his life and be free of his abusive EM/caretaker.
Wow. This was my life too. I coped the best way I could with what I had. Guilt trips, love bombs, passive aggressive, toxic toxic toxic behavior is not love. It's abusive. Yeah, I'm still getting over it. Great video. Keep it going and thanks.
Story 2 how the Fork does the psycho mother thing think they can evict OP from someone else's apartment. Oh dear totally off her tree! I'd go see if you can find anything about your bio parents. Lots of hugs OP.
Story 2. Love her and love yourself. As you suggested she’s a master manipulator! Mom did this to me when I retired from my first job. I had just moved to a different state with my 2 cats and I was all alone. She seemed to think it was ok to live with me. It was but she had to live by my rules. It was tough for both of us but she finally came around. It was either that or go home and live by herself and deal with the drive by help from my other sister. My social life sucked. Days led to weeks to months. Bottom line I loved my mom and now that she’s gone, I’m in my 70s and alone with a cat and dog. It sucks. So stand your ground, do what you want. You don’t get do-overs. Be happy, visit, but don’t live with your mother. Don’t miss out, you have a right to be happy❤
Last one; op needs to stay completely away from the “mommy dearest”. Go no contact, change his phone number if needed. If she comes to his home, don’t let her in, call the police and have her trespassed. Get a restraining order. Go to a decent therapist, not a shill for a church, adoptive services, your adoptive monster, but one that is there to help YOU. Things are bad, but you’ve been through the worst of it, and by escaping from her psychotic clutches, it will get better.
I know poor OP I feel so bad for them and I don't think their mom can evict them from their significant other's home for one I don't think mom owns the home they are living in she just want's to isolate OP from everyone so he or she can only rely on her and only her
From what OP says, she has. It just hasn't had any meaningful impact yet. From my second-hand experience concerning custody battles, if the father is documenting all these instances, then he'll have a chance for a court-ordered custody switch, but it's not him who made this post.
I'm from a very violent and abusive marriage having cps called all the time to no avail and I was nothing like that person as I was very active in my children life and church but the police in this case didn't do their job
Last story He should practice saying NO. With the cancer diagnosis the old Bat will be assigned skilled care as needed, he does not have to be her dancing puppet.
Save yourself. Cut ties from your mother.She can get a social worker through her doctor that can help her. You need therapy for the abuse. Support from the LGBT community. I wish you happiness.
Love the shades! Sick. For the last story, I agree with the advice. She's not his mother, she is an abuser that adopted him. He's of legal age, he owes her nothing. He needs to live his live, as he sees fit. He has done no wrong. But I would add that he still needs to seek out a therapist that can help him deal with the conflicting emotions. Just keep looking. He will find one. I hope he can finally be happy.
Last story. Your decision will be up to you. However, you desperately need help yourself. OP you owe her nothing! If you and your SO can move , go as far as you can. No matter what you do, it will never be appreciated by your mother. You appear to be so depressed that you are are almost catatonic. Please sweetie, Lord know she failed you, but you need help. Therapists in the past were unethical. They should have lost their license. Yes, your mother needs therapy but that is no longer or ever been your responsibility. Go for therapy and forgive yourself for wanting to leave your mother. After that work on your issues. Know that it will take years but if you put forth the the effort, yes you have to work really hard, you’ll succeed. You deserve inner peace and to love yourself . Again, you have to work at it. Please accept a hug from an internet stranger. Know that you are strong, as you have not given up. Please be selfish and let go of your mother for your sake. Wish you the best.
I think OP should make some calls to agencies like hospice, home health care and her doctor. Set up what she needs , agree to meet with people, all in one day, at his mom's to get all her information, sign permissions etc Then walk away. That is only IF she has no one else that can do it. OP will carry guilt if he doesn't do anything to get her started with assistance. OP doesn't need guilt on top of other issues with his mental health.
I think anyone who wants to adopt really needs both a full mental evaluation and to be questioned as to what their motives are, because there are people who want to adopt for less-than-wholesome reasons. (Disclosure: was adopted by my grandmother, who wasn't exactly in her right mind and may have had undiagnosed bipolar disorder.)
2nd OP. This abusive women does not deserve you. She's trying to isolate you and guilt you into coming back to live with her. I can't call it home. My advice change your phone number, move to a different address if necessary and look after your own health. And good luck with your boyfriend. OP1 is acting like a spoiled child. I'm puzzled why you've allowed her to get away with so much for so long.
OPs that constantly keep in contact with their abusers can't be helped if they can't help themselves. Like, you attempted suicide in their care but you HAVE to keep in contact and continue being abused because why????
OPs bullying was a reaction of mothers abuse rather than the other way around. Why would you want to be a female with a mother and role model like that?
The last. I am 60 years old and only a year ago finally figured out how much my mother messed up my life. I had suppressed childhood memories. I have not seen her in about a year and have not talked to her on the phone more than 3 times in that year. Very short calls. My blood pressure dropped. I am calm. Hopefully he does the same. Just block her number and let her get her just results. God will judge her fate. It is not his to tend to.
To the second story of OP's nightmare life with his/her adoptive momzilla. It is your turn to be the adult you want to be without that millstone of a so called mother around your neck. You have been hammered down for so long, I have to wonder if you even know how to be happy. Time for a therapy that works......even if that means having to go through "X" number of therapists to find one that works for you. As for Momzilla, ask her doctors for a list of adult care/in home visitational programs your mom could possibly utalize in order to get the care she needs. I agree with anyone who says no contact with her is best considering how she is. You can request the organizations that may be able to assist her to keep you informed with regular updates as to your mothers welfare. That way you can keep tabs without having to put up with direct contact. Remember, you can only love someone as much as they will let you. The persons opinion who counts the most about you is the one you have of yourself. Learn to love you.
Just because someone adopts you doesn't mean that they own you. OP needs to make a fresh start with his life and partner and forget he ever met her. His adopted mom is toxic and will eventually push him over the edge. OP you have the right to be happy and feel safe and as long as she has any part in your life that will never happen.
Last story. Run, Honey, run. You deserve a good life. You don't say but go to church. Find God and his people will help you. Praying for you and your partner.
S2, Op your mother didn't adopt you to care for you ,but as a punch bag .Op if your adopted mother needs medical care then she can be put into a nursing home and they won't take what your mother is doing to you lightly and will treat her behaviour as unacceptable and she could be placed in a nursing home for people with long term mental health problems .NTA
If this is the United States they could move out without finishing the lease because of the landlord takes them to court they have a huge case for constructive eviction because he refused to remove this woman and made it so they could not have clear comfortable use of their property for at least a month
OP in the second story focus on his relationship with his partner. His partner seems to be his safe person. OP should stop taking calls from that psycho. She is not a good person. A person who abuses him (mental and physically), does not deserve anything from him. Cut the ties and live your life. OP has issues that he needs to deal with. I hope he finds resources to help him. Mental issues are a serious topic that needs to be addressed. Thank you for posting.
Imagine thinking being Non-Binary is such a horrible thing. No one forced you to be Non-Binary. You are who you are and there is no need to have ANYONE else’s approval even your parent’s. Really makes this person look bad talking bad about Non Binary people this way while being Trans. But you know. 😬
For the second story Ik how you feel your story is very close related to mine and if you ever read this, put yourself and your happiness first, you will be so happy once you put your foot down
We were in OPs situation. The horrible layer off party every night neibors. After getting kicked out and having all items removed from said apartment. Ya we bought and paid to install the washer and dryer in the basement of the apartment. We had keys. They tried to break in.then they cut the lock and left their cloths in. We called the land lord. Then he told them ok no one dose laundry. So we still did laundry just turned the water off in between. One day we caught them again, the lock cut on the laundry room again and plugged an extinction cord into our power outlet. We paid for the electric and water to the room. My husband kept cutting the extinction cords after finding out their power was cut for nonpayment. We breathed a sigh of release when the sheriffs moved them out. That night however. They broke a window. And let them selves in. The neibors saw the crowbar and called the police. We called the landlord when we saw boxes of wine and cases of beer going through the window. They were kicking the door down trying to get a group of people to enter. Becouse the landlord changed the locks after they were removed. We could hear them trying to kick down the basement door but the landlord wanted to control the loss of his personal items he stored there and placed a bar across it. We then heard some one comming up the back Inclosed porch. My husband stopped them before they came to the landing. These folks just wanted to plug an extendtion cord in for music. Someone screamed run .And six cop cars had pulled up light flashing but no sirens. The folks poured out of everyopen window. Like rat’s leaving as sinking ship. Only to have police cuff them and drag them off. The landlord showed up removed all the rest of the crap. Including a large set of speakers and a stereo. We had given our notice to leave several months before . And landlord was going to do a spruce job and go for a quick sell with the place empty. The squirrel problem in the attic had not secured a buyer. So we moved out 2weeks later. Never so happy to get rid of people who thought just because they had Tuesday off ment they could party. Until sunup. Then they could complain about us showering and walking down the stair to leave at 5 am. Good neibors are a gift from the gods. A bad neibors are daemons beyond all reasonable control.
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You have been abused, you have your own mental problems which were brought on by her. Before helping someone else, help yourself. Pray for her, do what you can from a distance, but you won't heal as long as you allow her to manipulate you. Praying for your recovery. Remember, you come first, so get the help you need the rest will come later.
I was a naughty girl. I had 3 babies and kept them before I was 18. Mama was tired of it grandparents was ashamed but happy I kept them. |I was in a state program they will pay my child care at a school center end of my block so convenient, I had to volunteer at the needy food pantry, same place, for ever 2 hours i got one bag of food for free, so I hand 2 bags each time, I worked the limit of 2 days a week, Saturday and Sunday for 4 bags of food. got free baby sitting with transportation time permitted. was next door so was all good lol, I had to show pay stub and bank deposit. I had 2 jobs at fast food for 6 hours a day, other was janitor few stores over, 2-4 hours a day. 7 days a week. Parents never charged me rent long as I cared for my kids. I Turn 18 and my aunty said I had to live with her I am out of control she was my grandmas older sister, She demanded the food 90|% was formula, toddler milk and there food. |I ate lot of rice and tuna, ramen with an egg like that cheap and i was full and happy. my kids got store milk and we got left overs. my baby is 2 months, 1.5 years and 3 years old. for those that ask, I don't breath feed I don't produce enough breastmilk never have. I get WIC (woman Infants and Children its formula and food) she is demanding this to then she demanded my money to pay her rent. first month we all in a small bed on a single size mattress, only sunlight she said power to expensive. she turn off the power to home when she is at work and fridge and food locked in her room, so when I bathed the kids I boiled water and in the sink I washed them then she turn off the water too. I fainted at my janitor work. begged not to fire me. or tell. don't want to lose job. I cried so much shaking hysterically they called the ambulance, cried for my kids who will pick them up cant be my aunty she's to cruel to be by them. the supervisor in charge of me at the woman's with infants (5 years and under) She rushed to me and went to the hospital with me, order no one to pick up the kids. My Aunty arrived the work place called the emergency contact my parents are, listed so |I don't get why she was called. She was screaming I know your pregnant again i knew it. give me the kids sign them all over to her she will find homes and get good money for them give them to me now.... Her talk stopped as she looked up saw a police man, doctor, CPS and my social worker boss lady that I'm assigned to. as they spoke to her in cuffs, they took me home to gather my things. The started opening cupboard and fridge they know i brought food home this morning before work asked where is it "I pointed in her room." my food, my kids food and our medication. they did some calls and broke door down. the center bagging has a red stamp on all the food. Donation foods not for sell, turn in people selling for a reward. they gave me a hotel room and return my kids to me next morning. end of the week I| was assigned a 2 room apartment, rent and utilities is paid by the WIC center direct from them I get a $20 cash. now i have my appt, my 3 girls sleep in the master bedroom, I have the spare room the kids still pile up on me lol. they are 18f years going in the navy, 16.5f years and 15f years old, 11f, 10f, 8f then twin girls 4f, 4f. I am done. my mother and grandparents was told by my aunty I demanded out and not want to see them again lot of other rubbish. they called me allot and dropped by aunty neve told me, we made up and for gave each other a misunderstanding, I still bag food, 2 times a week, with mama, grandma and my eldest child. I live in same apartment it went on sale to residents for 29k what i saved up lol $32k lol its cramped we put put a door on opposite side of bathroom to living room, then we took the walls down in master closet, and the center wall of the 2 rooms and made made 5 rooms lol its tinny lol 3 single bunks (bunk is sleep over and or storage. reading loft... each room 4 foot closet side of the door end of bunk. 4 foot floor space with a long wall shelf with stools desk 1 full wall shelf for extra clothes shoes and book bag. 8x11.5. each have a window, and working door lol. It works for us. when my eldest leave. I'm threatening the next child to move in with the middle kids lol. it will be my lounge privacy room. its not what i planned, its not ideal but it is ours, its paid off the tax is dirt cheap. we doo solar lanterns for each floor aka bunk bed spots. i cook out of toaster oven and pressure cookers, saves hell lot of electricity. my oven is only good for turkeys lol and that i buy on sell 20lbs avg for 4 each at wall mart lol and hams 12-15 lbs. for $5-9 spiral ehh give me the cheap one lol. I still work as a janitor at night for 4-6 hours. and now I work at the woman's center. O organize and teach parenting classes and food drives. don't pay much but a state pension. and love it. Why janitor. why ask why 8 kids lol and me. wished for a boy but I got all girls. glad we not had a boy. life would been harder no hand me down for him, and a private room just for him lol. My auntie was arrested and sentenced for 28 years but got out 12?13 selling kids having kids sign over the kids as guardians then take them after few years thru adoptions few was good folks, may was abusive. she tried to contact me to sell my twins. I reported her. no proof she nearly had to do her full sentence, she's not allowed by kids of any age or pregnancy. or get sent in. she moved state side never heard or saw her again.
I feel bad for the poster of the last story. And also for the loss of their adopted father. I have to also hope for his sake she gets better and doesn't join him soon. I can only imagine the peace that husband felt getting away from her.
the last story OP your a full grown adult mommy can't tell you what to do anymore not now not ever so don't go BACK and maybe try asking your doctor for some medical help like an antidepressant I take one and I haven't felt well you know once since I started taking them but my mom was never like your mom I wish you and your partner the best
Many won’t like this comment, but as far as the last one goes, the author of this story, does actually seem very similar to the mother and not just her victim. I don’t think they are scared of leaving the mother due to fearing her, or for leaving her in the lurch! I don’t doubt the mother has a mental illness, I’m suggesting they both do, and they’ve been blaming each other for their short comings the whole time, they’re now scared to walk away simply because it’s hard to face the reality of your own demons without anyone to scapegoat. Now for those that might get upset by this, I’m not suggesting this person is actually conscious of this, I’m getting this from the way the story was written and the way they express themselves. I will say this to the author though, you no longer live there, it’s ok to move on with your life, but it does mean taking responsibility for your own mental health, otherwise you may end up transferring blame from that woman to your partner, when you realize your mental health hasn’t all of a sudden improved. You’re not bound to this woman, you can’t be forced to help her etc, especially if that involves isolating yourself from the rest of your world. This is totally your choice, and that choice must be something you can live with, the opinions of strangers can’t help you with that! If I was you I wouldn’t do it, plain and simply because being isolated with together won’t be good for either of you, but I would help her arrange said help from a third party for her medical issues, if not for her, for yourself! Healing never starts from running away from your perceived problems, it start’s with find new and better ways to overcome or live with them. She will either accept this help or not, if not then you can move on with a clear conscience. You’ve already expressed suicidal tendencies, so why risk regretting something you cannot take back later. Imagine being with a partner later in life with you suffering a physical illness and a mental disorder. Now imagine your relationship was under strain before this, would you A hope they still thought enough of you to arrange some help for you before leaving, B just leave you to die and move on, or C condemn them to stay by your side making both of you more miserable with both of you wishing for your end. Essentially A causes the least possible damage for all involved, it also leaves the possibility for forgiveness, that might sound strange, but sometimes learning to forgive in this kind of situation, is in fact the quickest way to self healing 👍🏻 If you can show even the slightest kindness to this woman after everything, it’s a huge positive reflection of yourself, showing yourself to be a good person, regardless of how others feel. Last comment on the subject, get yourself professional help immediately, you’ve already witnessed first had as to where untreated mental illness leads, do it for yourself and any present or future partners. No one is responsible for your happiness and well-being, that my friend is yours alone, as it should be. Just know that I do relate to at least parts of your struggle, so not a single word of this comment is actually of a negative nature towards you or your story. It’s merely from my own life experience and observation recognized from your story alone, I’m never mean, just for the sack of being mean. Best of luck to you
1st in my younger years I would have caught a case. I was a very angry person so I know if I had a neighbor like that. It wouldn't have been good. Now I use my brains. 2nd Op sounds like my 15 year old. It's amazing how much damage a parent can do to you. And, how hard it is to shake those feelings off. And, the therapy you would need. Ops bf needs to take him and move away far far away!!! Op needs to change his number. Go NC at all!!! Yes great comment. I still have scars. The best advice for Op is changing your number. Go to the hospital and get therapy. Therapy is a "Must." Wish him well.
Story 2, If it's cancer in the esophagus, I'm betting she has less than 2 months. You don't owe her anything. If you want any kind of family, maybe try to find your birth mother. I know it's hard but even if you can only find one good thing a day, it's a start for recovery.
My brother survived esophageal cancer, with surgeries and treatment over 18 months. Not able to eat. A year after his recovery, he had lung cancer. He didn't want to fight it. So he didn't.
Story two: "JK Rowling's crappy opinions" have been repeatedly misrepresented in the media. Rowling merely complains that real women have wombs and have the potential of motherhood. She objects to the misuse of the word "woman" because it denies the reality of potential motherhood as a condition of the definition. She has a point, as the women's movement deserves its own nouns and pronouns that others should not be allowed to appropriate. To deny women that right would be hypocrisy. The mangling of language and indiscriminate violation of pronoun protocls must be of importance to a writer who seeks to be understood. Rowling has been a champion of freedom to identify as gay, lesbian and whatever, but herchampionship of proper usage has led the "woke" to vilify her when they should be coming up with a few new words (pronouns especially) that would allow the user to be understood without offending. In story two, OP is complaining about the behaviour of others while defaming others herself. This long time social justice advocate rejects her vile lack of understanding. It is clearly wrong to demand the right to self expression while denying it to others. Duh!
On the 2nd video cut your adopted mother off as in no phone calls change your phone number change your address seek medical attention for your depression and a counselor does help I have been dealing with depression and medical problems for the last 20 years it does help even with a awesome counselor that I can vent and say things or talk about that I would never tell anyone else about. She needs to be placed in a nursing home not you taking care of her. Peace be with you my friend .
I am Bi-polar. You can use anything as an excuse or an explanation. She uses it as an excuse. Once I was diagnosed I took treatment seriously and do none of the things that your "mother" does. She made her choice. It is not your choice. I have a child that is also non binary and would never do that to them. I have always explained to them and their friends that I may accidently call them he or she but that is only because its hard for me to think in they or them when I am not putting alot of mind to it (Had a coma and TIA years ago so it makes words hard as is. Sheesh I use the wrong pronouns for myself sometimes) but to give me time and I try. In fact found that when I type I don't have the same problems with that. But I digress (word?), she is choosing to be how she is and effected the way she is. There is nothing wrong with you. You do need to get help to deal with the reprocussions of her life choices. Find your own therapist. One you can work with. She can fall in line and get help or you can drop her like a hot potato. Don't ever go out to save a drowning person if you are not a lifeguard. They will drown you with them. you are not a medical or mental health professional. It will be no good for you physically or mentally if you try. Love yourself. Love whom you love. And heal. Do not let anyone bring you down with them.
#2 story OP, it's heartbreaking to have a bad mother. I can sympathise as I had one myself. Btw, I've known transgender people all my life and it's never bothered me. I think you've simplified the jk rowlings' matter, as she's actually a left leaning individual, as I am also a center left. She is okay with the LGBTQ people, as many of her friends are LGBTQs. What she is not in agreement is the hard left, woke, movement of allowing trans women who haven't done bottom surgeries to enter female safe spaces (toilets, changing rooms, prisons, etc.) And for trans women to compete with biological females in sports for the obvious biological advantages. Also for underage children to receive puberty blockers, and hormone therapies. If you and your fellow trans who are of age wants to transition, you can do whatever you want as your lives are already your own responsibilities as adults. Any medical consequences from your transitions will be yours to bear and you won't be able to put the blames onto the adults in your lives (especially the parents) and sue them. That's the general opinions of the people you call terfs. Think it over again when you've calmed down, and you've moved on from your adopted mother.
Story 1 I consider the term "milf" an insult. I would punch the lights out of anyone who applied it to me. This woman is arrogant but also insecure because she can't accept her age and has to try and make it appear that she is still irresistible to younger men.
poor man, adopted by a selfish woman. and father. Intentions was good when adopted remember that, parenting is not easy and not for everyone, we learn by examples form family and friends, she has no mentors. you love you mama i get that, but some times afar loving is better. my my grandpas mother died when she was 15, she became the mama to 14 kids and 3 step kids. she gave up her education for a job and she put all but 2 in college with success, other 2 was wild children led to hard lives but my favorite uncle and aunty.. grandma adopted 9 kids including my mama she was strict, all catholic schools demands good grades and labor at her business funny 7 ran off became successful rich people said cant deal with grandma and her demanding to do well. with out her they would not have what they have they are smart because of her training of them. they complained at her funeral, |i countered back, how did you get in to college, studying forced by grandma, how did you pay for college, they work you did at her business yes she kept half your money to pay for your higher education with it and great weddings and down payment from home. with out her you be not as smart will not be at college paid fo in full with out working she insisted study full focus don't work. cost out of the pocket for the wedding and home deposit plus. where will you be right now with out it but you blame her for all, your selfish one, you still want more out of her. why|? love? what ore love then waning your kids successful so they don't have to work to death when older better job means better savings retire early and live easy. they not spoke after me. my mama was adopted raised us 17 kids, dad left and left his boys behind. mama was strict with education but public school. she saved tht money for college, we went to community college. if want more get a job. she to not charged us long as we do good in school. I had 3 kids adopted 6 and had 2 step kids. 2 nurses, 5 police officers, 2 prison guards. one bumm lol at home good kid not lazy not sure depressed or a shut in, don't go out stays home but he cleans spotless daily part of deal of being home not working. he learn dog grooming and wash built a small cottage for grooming, wash and small kennel to hold them ac room with dog run until picked up is his job. rare he leaves out front door. Needs lot of emotional support. i take him out we look at other groomers and wash stations, I believe he is autistic to be honest. last child he's in the military ran off cant deal with he was adopted. he is gay and my 2 daughters, we had all of them from 3 and under. i cant speak for others. we al want family love adopted or not. she did not save you as an healthy infant another would have got you, better or perfect life you would have had i don't know we don't. hand selected adoption don't work like that. yes you pick but out of a collection of faces you pick of that your eligible for, i say what grandma, mama said to me and tell my kids, god child at birthing, Adoption the child is picked for you, guild you to them or by chance, still its fate how you find each other. they not shop out of the blue they/we go thro a long interviews and home inspections over 6 months of surprises, long back ground ck and mandated parenting classes. my first foster son calling him David, so active and crazy lol sneaky boy. drove me nuts. He was my respite child. moved on then 8 months later and 20 plus more kids pass lol he was a perfect angel lol i never lived with a child before him. did not know he was normal. that's the issue with adoptions and parents there expectation is off at times and your get bad parenting for it. Tell her you love her, but i need to live my life not yours, your idea of what you wanted out of a child is xxx that is not me, as a child and an adult i want this a clam happy life, that don't make me insurable, to do that we must live apart to heal then, only thin i will come visit you. my 25 year old daughter and her older wife now is adopting siblings of 4. and we carry on. told her insist on birth parent notes if can get, talk about siblings, there parents education favorite clothes' and colors, wish to be, and became, why? sounds odd but its things i wish to have known of my parents, my siblings say the same and my aunties. we al wonder. we had close adoptions, my kids is open and my daughters, just because open don't mean they will be in 18 years.
OP and her husband dealing with a neighbor from H(#&. I'm surprised the Police haven't arrested her for constant false reports. Much less that CPS hasn't taken her poor child since she is so abusive. Story 2: OP has had a horrible childhood. Adoption is supposed to check if the would be adoption parents have mental or emotional issues. OP is helping his adopted mother out in her cancer, but living with her is NOT an option with her verbal and mental abuse.
JK Rowling thinks that trans people should be able to live their lives in peace, and not shamed for their gender. How is that remotely similar to OP's mother? Why the gratuitous slander for JK?
It's over a book where on sentence said that the criminal had tried to disguise himself as a woman to try to get away with that crime. It's a classic story twist. She also said, apparently, that they are still female, not male type thing... now she has a point, that's what makes them trans. A lot of times, people get triggered by just basic stuff, even if it's fact. I don't think she ever said they can't live as trans. There is a mentality where, if I say I'm a llama, then I'm a llama. it creates a massive argument. I might not agree with it all, but I just don't care what they do. I don't agree with young kids going that way. They might want to stop being llamas and can't get rid of those llama ears 🤷♀️
I don't believe this story one bit. So many things that are onviously lies. How dad of a life someone has to make shit up. First of all they called the police and said they were being assaulted and when the cops came they said she was a prostitute? No they would have arrested for for a false report and police call. This literally would have been solved with a lawsuit. You have the right to live in peace in your home. She would loss the lawsuit and have to pay their fees. Also they have witnesses for th slander. Actual police officers were her witness. Calling her a prostitute, saying she attacked her. A drug dealer, None of this ever happens. Not to mention trespassing and distributing the peace.
There are cases of mentally ill neighbors that harass and attack other residents. I had a shitty neighbor that would blast music late at night, with random men and her children in the apartment. She had a history of being investigated by CPS and police. I think that's why she was finally evicted because there was no more noise coming from that apartment. Now I just have to deal with one of my other neighbors who does the same thing, only less frequently.
Last story u can’t leave a sick elderly alone to die. That’s heartless. Yes she treated u bad but she’s dieing. U could put her n a nursing home that can give her better care. Stop & think fo u want to die alone?
Have you ever heard of the saying "you reap what you sow?" Actions have consequences, regardless if you're the parent or the child. I honestly wouldn't be too surprised if people left me for dead if I was that insufferable around the people I supposed to love, cherish, and respect.
Story 1: had a neighbor like that. We bought a house (my ex and I) and the neighbor was renting. Single mom, stay at home, her ex was paying the bills on the house still. She met my then husband and started talking to him. After that it was "can I borrow tools? Oh my fence broke can you fix it? My cable isn't working can you help?" Then when he tried to tell her no she would literally sob, telling him "no one can help me I am all alone and my son and I need help!" Then he would trudge over and help reluctantly. One day he came running back, pale and sweaty, she had asked him to.fix her cable, the. Walked out of her bedroom naked and told him she KNEW he wanted her. He ran for it. I could hear her screeching at him to come back and she ran out her front door in a freaking towel and told me they LOVED each other. Lmao I hit her with the hose and she left screeching at me. She got evicted the next month and there wad blessed silence.
I wish I could see the epic water blasting!
Well what else are you supposed to do with crazy cat in heat? Lol
@@DemonAngel hahahahahahaha
Story #2 was absolutely heartbreaking 💔!! She does not deserve the moniker of “mother” or “mom” or anything close to the honorific relating to a parent. OP is a special person who does NOT deserve their lot in life. I truly hope they find happiness.
EM needs help alright, it's called a thorough mental health evaluation and hopefully her child can get into a more stable home environment with loving adoptive parents.
EM can perhaps be put into a care home facility. Hopefully in the meantime OP can move on with his life and be free of his abusive EM/caretaker.
It sounds like the grandparents are doing all the actual parenting and the child just visits EM.
Story :1 I Hope Op get a straining order for that lady she's definitely unhinged and a hope that someone else take care of that poor baby.
Story 2, OP should have left and blocked her long ago. I know his pain as my parents have disowned my 20yrs ago for not being perfect like my siblings
Wow. This was my life too. I coped the best way I could with what I had. Guilt trips, love bombs, passive aggressive, toxic toxic toxic behavior is not love. It's abusive. Yeah, I'm still getting over it. Great video. Keep it going and thanks.
In the US she would be reported to the Area Agency on Aging as an elder in danger. You have to keep calling but they might be able to help
Story 2 how the Fork does the psycho mother thing think they can evict OP from someone else's apartment. Oh dear totally off her tree! I'd go see if you can find anything about your bio parents. Lots of hugs OP.
The way you said mari-joo-ana hahagaha
Story 1; What would I do? I'd start a TH-cam channel starring her. 🤩🤣🤩
Story 2. Love her and love yourself. As you suggested she’s a master manipulator! Mom did this to me when I retired from my first job. I had just moved to a different state with my 2 cats and I was all alone. She seemed to think it was ok to live with me. It was but she had to live by my rules. It was tough for both of us but she finally came around. It was either that or go home and live by herself and deal with the drive by help from my other sister. My social life sucked. Days led to weeks to months. Bottom line I loved my mom and now that she’s gone, I’m in my 70s and alone with a cat and dog. It sucks. So stand your ground, do what you want. You don’t get do-overs. Be happy, visit, but don’t live with your mother. Don’t miss out, you have a right to be happy❤
Last one; op needs to stay completely away from the “mommy dearest”. Go no contact, change his phone number if needed. If she comes to his home, don’t let her in, call the police and have her trespassed. Get a restraining order. Go to a decent therapist, not a shill for a church, adoptive services, your adoptive monster, but one that is there to help YOU. Things are bad, but you’ve been through the worst of it, and by escaping from her psychotic clutches, it will get better.
I know poor OP I feel so bad for them and I don't think their mom can evict them from their significant other's home for one I don't think mom owns the home they are living in she just want's to isolate OP from everyone so he or she can only rely on her and only her
Story 1, EM needs to have CPS called on her and the police should arrest her for her behavior
From what OP says, she has. It just hasn't had any meaningful impact yet.
From my second-hand experience concerning custody battles, if the father is documenting all these instances, then he'll have a chance for a court-ordered custody switch, but it's not him who made this post.
I'm from a very violent and abusive marriage having cps called all the time to no avail and I was nothing like that person as I was very active in my children life and church but the police in this case didn't do their job
Last story He should practice saying NO. With the cancer diagnosis the old Bat will be assigned skilled care as needed, he does not have to be her dancing puppet.
I feel bad for this child with a terrible mother like this story1
The last story was so helpful to me. I’m in a similar situation and I feel like that last comment set me free in a way. Good, but sad, story.
Save yourself. Cut ties from your mother.She can get a social worker through her doctor that can help her. You need therapy for the abuse. Support from the LGBT community.
I wish you happiness.
She cant kick you out of your own place and for god sake don't go and cut her out of your life and block her number
Love the shades! Sick. For the last story, I agree with the advice. She's not his mother, she is an abuser that adopted him. He's of legal age, he owes her nothing. He needs to live his live, as he sees fit. He has done no wrong. But I would add that he still needs to seek out a therapist that can help him deal with the conflicting emotions. Just keep looking. He will find one. I hope he can finally be happy.
Happy Monday Everyone from Tacoma Washington! ( Stay Safe)
What's with the shades 😅🤣... Daredevil
I think they look rather "DASHING", don't you??
@@bobbierobinson3608 They definitely suit him 💯
I agree with the advice, also. Please block her, on your phone. It's your life now.
2.) They should have contacted CPS and the cops, by the 2nd time 3.) Definitely NC
Last story. Your decision will be up to you. However, you desperately need help yourself. OP you owe her nothing! If you and your SO can move , go as far as you can. No matter what you do, it will never be appreciated by your mother. You appear to be so depressed that you are are almost catatonic. Please sweetie, Lord know she failed you, but you need help. Therapists in the past were unethical. They should have lost their license. Yes, your mother needs therapy but that is no longer or ever been your responsibility. Go for therapy and forgive yourself for wanting to leave your mother. After that work on your issues. Know that it will take years but if you put forth the the effort, yes you have to work really hard, you’ll succeed. You deserve inner peace and to love yourself . Again, you have to work at it. Please accept a hug from an internet stranger. Know that you are strong, as you have not given up. Please be selfish and let go of your mother for your sake. Wish you the best.
Story 2......do not go back. She is a monster.
I think OP should make some calls to agencies like hospice, home health care and her doctor. Set up what she needs , agree to meet with people, all in one day, at his mom's to get all her information, sign permissions etc
Then walk away. That is only IF she has no one else that can do it. OP will carry guilt if he doesn't do anything to get her started with assistance. OP doesn't need guilt on top of other issues with his mental health.
I think anyone who wants to adopt really needs both a full mental evaluation and to be questioned as to what their motives are, because there are people who want to adopt for less-than-wholesome reasons. (Disclosure: was adopted by my grandmother, who wasn't exactly in her right mind and may have had undiagnosed bipolar disorder.)
2nd OP. This abusive women does not deserve you. She's trying to isolate you and guilt you into coming back to live with her. I can't call it home. My advice change your phone number, move to a different address if necessary and look after your own health. And good luck with your boyfriend. OP1 is acting like a spoiled child. I'm puzzled why you've allowed her to get away with so much for so long.
OPs that constantly keep in contact with their abusers can't be helped if they can't help themselves. Like, you attempted suicide in their care but you HAVE to keep in contact and continue being abused because why????
That therapist should have his license taken away, how unprofessional and an epic you’re taking a good thing and making it bad.
How do you go about evicting a person from someone else's house?
OPs bullying was a reaction of mothers abuse rather than the other way around. Why would you want to be a female with a mother and role model like that?
I full agree with that post be your self and never look back you deserve to be happy
The last. I am 60 years old and only a year ago finally figured out how much my mother messed up my life. I had suppressed childhood memories. I have not seen her in about a year and have not talked to her on the phone more than 3 times in that year. Very short calls. My blood pressure dropped. I am calm. Hopefully he does the same. Just block her number and let her get her just results. God will judge her fate. It is not his to tend to.
To the second story of OP's nightmare life with his/her adoptive momzilla. It is your turn to be the adult you want to be without that millstone of a so called mother around your neck. You have been hammered down for so long, I have to wonder if you even know how to be happy. Time for a therapy that works......even if that means having to go through "X" number of therapists to find one that works for you. As for Momzilla, ask her doctors for a list of adult care/in home visitational programs your mom could possibly utalize in order to get the care she needs. I agree with anyone who says no contact with her is best considering how she is. You can request the organizations that may be able to assist her to keep you informed with regular updates as to your mothers welfare. That way you can keep tabs without having to put up with direct contact. Remember, you can only love someone as much as they will let you. The persons opinion who counts the most about you is the one you have of yourself. Learn to love you.
4:23 Good god! The house is possesed and trying to eat them!
Thanks Mr R. As usual I love your style of storytelling and the wonderful stories you find for us.
You are very welcome
Just because someone adopts you doesn't mean that they own you. OP needs to make a fresh start with his life and partner and forget he ever met her. His adopted mom is toxic and will eventually push him over the edge. OP you have the right to be happy and feel safe and as long as she has any part in your life that will never happen.
RUN & NEVER LOOK BACK!
Last story. Run, Honey, run. You deserve a good life. You don't say but go to church. Find God and his people will help you. Praying for you and your partner.
Thanks again for the stories. These EMs need help
The entitlement of many single moms. Poor kid.
S2, Op your mother didn't adopt you to care for you ,but as a punch bag .Op if your adopted mother needs medical care then she can be put into a nursing home and they won't take what your mother is doing to you lightly and will treat her behaviour as unacceptable and she could be placed in a nursing home for people with long term mental health problems .NTA
The last story I have one. Thing to say. RUN. RUn. RUN. Get as far away as you can
Me, looks at title…… mmmm, so where did the “sister” disappear to?
If this is the United States they could move out without finishing the lease because of the landlord takes them to court they have a huge case for constructive eviction because he refused to remove this woman and made it so they could not have clear comfortable use of their property for at least a month
OP in the second story focus on his relationship with his partner. His partner seems to be his safe person. OP should stop taking calls from that psycho. She is not a good person. A person who abuses him (mental and physically), does not deserve anything from him. Cut the ties and live your life. OP has issues that he needs to deal with. I hope he finds resources to help him. Mental issues are a serious topic that needs to be addressed. Thank you for posting.
Imagine thinking being Non-Binary is such a horrible thing. No one forced you to be Non-Binary. You are who you are and there is no need to have ANYONE else’s approval even your parent’s. Really makes this person look bad talking bad about Non Binary people this way while being Trans. But you know. 😬
That's when you go to the board and have him forced to practice anymore
Sorry I forgot to put out of and thanks for the heart my friend
Last story: it's weird telling a trans dude it's time to GROW A PAIR and just tell your abusive mom you're going NO CONTACT.
For the second story Ik how you feel your story is very close related to mine and if you ever read this, put yourself and your happiness first, you will be so happy once you put your foot down
Love the sunglasses!!!!!
OP in the last story doesn't have hatred for his mother, if he had a lot of hatred for her the guilt tripping wouldn't bother him
We were in OPs situation. The horrible layer off party every night neibors. After getting kicked out and having all items removed from said apartment. Ya we bought and paid to install the washer and dryer in the basement of the apartment. We had keys. They tried to break in.then they cut the lock and left their cloths in. We called the land lord. Then he told them ok no one dose laundry. So we still did laundry just turned the water off in between. One day we caught them again, the lock cut on the laundry room again and plugged an extinction cord into our power outlet. We paid for the electric and water to the room. My husband kept cutting the extinction cords after finding out their power was cut for nonpayment. We breathed a sigh of release when the sheriffs moved them out. That night however. They broke a window. And let them selves in. The neibors saw the crowbar and called the police. We called the landlord when we saw boxes of wine and cases of beer going through the window. They were kicking the door down trying to get a group of people to enter. Becouse the landlord changed the locks after they were removed. We could hear them trying to kick down the basement door but the landlord wanted to control the loss of his personal items he stored there and placed a bar across it. We then heard some one comming up the back Inclosed porch. My husband stopped them before they came to the landing. These folks just wanted to plug an extendtion cord in for music. Someone screamed run .And six cop cars had pulled up light flashing but no sirens. The folks poured out of everyopen window. Like rat’s leaving as sinking ship. Only to have police cuff them and drag them off. The landlord showed up removed all the rest of the crap. Including a large set of speakers and a stereo. We had given our notice to leave several months before . And landlord was going to do a spruce job and go for a quick sell with the place empty. The squirrel problem in the attic had not secured a buyer. So we moved out 2weeks later. Never so happy to get rid of people who thought just because they had Tuesday off ment they could party. Until sunup. Then they could complain about us showering and walking down the stair to leave at 5 am. Good neibors are a gift from the gods. A bad neibors are daemons beyond all reasonable control.
I get the EM parts first and last but there's no mention of a sister putting them in their place.
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You have been abused, you have your own mental problems which were brought on by her. Before helping someone else, help yourself. Pray for her, do what you can from a distance, but you won't heal as long as you allow her to manipulate you. Praying for your recovery. Remember, you come first, so get the help you need the rest will come later.
Good story about the mentally Ill!
I was a naughty girl. I had 3 babies and kept them before I was 18. Mama was tired of it grandparents was ashamed but happy I kept them. |I was in a state program they will pay my child care at a school center end of my block so convenient, I had to volunteer at the needy food pantry, same place, for ever 2 hours i got one bag of food for free, so I hand 2 bags each time, I worked the limit of 2 days a week, Saturday and Sunday for 4 bags of food. got free baby sitting with transportation time permitted. was next door so was all good lol, I had to show pay stub and bank deposit. I had 2 jobs at fast food for 6 hours a day, other was janitor few stores over, 2-4 hours a day. 7 days a week. Parents never charged me rent long as I cared for my kids. I Turn 18 and my aunty said I had to live with her I am out of control she was my grandmas older sister, She demanded the food 90|% was formula, toddler milk and there food. |I ate lot of rice and tuna, ramen with an egg like that cheap and i was full and happy. my kids got store milk and we got left overs. my baby is 2 months, 1.5 years and 3 years old. for those that ask, I don't breath feed I don't produce enough breastmilk never have. I get WIC (woman Infants and Children its formula and food) she is demanding this to then she demanded my money to pay her rent. first month we all in a small bed on a single size mattress, only sunlight she said power to expensive. she turn off the power to home when she is at work and fridge and food locked in her room, so when I bathed the kids I boiled water and in the sink I washed them then she turn off the water too. I fainted at my janitor work. begged not to fire me. or tell. don't want to lose job. I cried so much shaking hysterically they called the ambulance, cried for my kids who will pick them up cant be my aunty she's to cruel to be by them. the supervisor in charge of me at the woman's with infants (5 years and under) She rushed to me and went to the hospital with me, order no one to pick up the kids.
My Aunty arrived the work place called the emergency contact my parents are, listed so |I don't get why she was called. She was screaming I know your pregnant again i knew it. give me the kids sign them all over to her she will find homes and get good money for them give them to me now.... Her talk stopped as she looked up saw a police man, doctor, CPS and my social worker boss lady that I'm assigned to. as they spoke to her in cuffs, they took me home to gather my things. The started opening cupboard and fridge they know i brought food home this morning before work asked where is it "I pointed in her room." my food, my kids food and our medication. they did some calls and broke door down. the center bagging has a red stamp on all the food. Donation foods not for sell, turn in people selling for a reward. they gave me a hotel room and return my kids to me next morning. end of the week I| was assigned a 2 room apartment, rent and utilities is paid by the WIC center direct from them I get a $20 cash.
now i have my appt, my 3 girls sleep in the master bedroom, I have the spare room the kids still pile up on me lol. they are 18f years going in the navy, 16.5f years and 15f years old, 11f, 10f, 8f then twin girls 4f, 4f. I am done. my mother and grandparents was told by my aunty I demanded out and not want to see them again lot of other rubbish. they called me allot and dropped by aunty neve told me, we made up and for gave each other a misunderstanding, I still bag food, 2 times a week, with mama, grandma and my eldest child. I live in same apartment it went on sale to residents for 29k what i saved up lol $32k lol its cramped we put put a door on opposite side of bathroom to living room, then we took the walls down in master closet, and the center wall of the 2 rooms and made made 5 rooms lol its tinny lol 3 single bunks (bunk is sleep over and or storage. reading loft... each room 4 foot closet side of the door end of bunk. 4 foot floor space with a long wall shelf with stools desk 1 full wall shelf for extra clothes shoes and book bag. 8x11.5. each have a window, and working door lol. It works for us. when my eldest leave. I'm threatening the next child to move in with the middle kids lol. it will be my lounge privacy room. its not what i planned, its not ideal but it is ours, its paid off the tax is dirt cheap. we doo solar lanterns for each floor aka bunk bed spots. i cook out of toaster oven and pressure cookers, saves hell lot of electricity. my oven is only good for turkeys lol and that i buy on sell 20lbs avg for 4 each at wall mart lol and hams 12-15 lbs. for $5-9 spiral ehh give me the cheap one lol. I still work as a janitor at night for 4-6 hours. and now I work at the woman's center. O organize and teach parenting classes and food drives. don't pay much but a state pension. and love it. Why janitor. why ask why 8 kids lol and me. wished for a boy but I got all girls. glad we not had a boy. life would been harder no hand me down for him, and a private room just for him lol. My auntie was arrested and sentenced for 28 years but got out 12?13 selling kids having kids sign over the kids as guardians then take them after few years thru adoptions few was good folks, may was abusive. she tried to contact me to sell my twins. I reported her. no proof she nearly had to do her full sentence, she's not allowed by kids of any age or pregnancy. or get sent in. she moved state side never heard or saw her again.
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I feel bad for the poster of the last story. And also for the loss of their adopted father. I have to also hope for his sake she gets better and doesn't join him soon. I can only imagine the peace that husband felt getting away from her.
the last story OP your a full grown adult mommy can't tell you what to do anymore not now not ever so don't go BACK and maybe try asking your doctor for some medical help like an antidepressant I take one and I haven't felt well you know once since I started taking them but my mom was never like your mom I wish you and your partner the best
If I was op I would block the mom and seek counseling story2
Story 1 I hope there will be an update
DO NOT WEAR THOSE SHADES. THEY DON'T GO
Many won’t like this comment, but as far as the last one goes, the author of this story, does actually seem very similar to the mother and not just her victim.
I don’t think they are scared of leaving the mother due to fearing her, or for leaving her in the lurch!
I don’t doubt the mother has a mental illness, I’m suggesting they both do, and they’ve been blaming each other for their short comings the whole time, they’re now scared to walk away simply because it’s hard to face the reality of your own demons without anyone to scapegoat.
Now for those that might get upset by this, I’m not suggesting this person is actually conscious of this, I’m getting this from the way the story was written and the way they express themselves.
I will say this to the author though, you no longer live there, it’s ok to move on with your life, but it does mean taking responsibility for your own mental health, otherwise you may end up transferring blame from that woman to your partner, when you realize your mental health hasn’t all of a sudden improved. You’re not bound to this woman, you can’t be forced to help her etc, especially if that involves isolating yourself from the rest of your world.
This is totally your choice, and that choice must be something you can live with, the opinions of strangers can’t help you with that!
If I was you I wouldn’t do it, plain and simply because being isolated with together won’t be good for either of you, but I would help her arrange said help from a third party for her medical issues, if not for her, for yourself!
Healing never starts from running away from your perceived problems, it start’s with find new and better ways to overcome or live with them.
She will either accept this help or not, if not then you can move on with a clear conscience. You’ve already expressed suicidal tendencies, so why risk regretting something you cannot take back later.
Imagine being with a partner later in life with you suffering a physical illness and a mental disorder. Now imagine your relationship was under strain before this, would you A hope they still thought enough of you to arrange some help for you before leaving, B just leave you to die and move on, or C condemn them to stay by your side making both of you more miserable with both of you wishing for your end.
Essentially A causes the least possible damage for all involved, it also leaves the possibility for forgiveness, that might sound strange, but sometimes learning to forgive in this kind of situation, is in fact the quickest way to self healing 👍🏻
If you can show even the slightest kindness to this woman after everything, it’s a huge positive reflection of yourself, showing yourself to be a good person, regardless of how others feel.
Last comment on the subject, get yourself professional help immediately, you’ve already witnessed first had as to where untreated mental illness leads, do it for yourself and any present or future partners. No one is responsible for your happiness and well-being, that my friend is yours alone, as it should be.
Just know that I do relate to at least parts of your struggle, so not a single word of this comment is actually of a negative nature towards you or your story. It’s merely from my own life experience and observation recognized from your story alone, I’m never mean, just for the sack of being mean.
Best of luck to you
1st in my younger years I would have caught a case. I was a very angry person so I know if I had a neighbor like that. It wouldn't have been good. Now I use my brains. 2nd Op sounds like my 15 year old. It's amazing how much damage a parent can do to you. And, how hard it is to shake those feelings off. And, the therapy you would need. Ops bf needs to take him and move away far far away!!! Op needs to change his number. Go NC at all!!! Yes great comment. I still have scars. The best advice for Op is changing your number. Go to the hospital and get therapy. Therapy is a "Must." Wish him well.
Last story ❤️❤️❤️
Good luck one step at a time
Where do they live that she can get delivery? I want to move to that state.
Anybody else think the title doesn't match either story?
Story 2, If it's cancer in the esophagus, I'm betting she has less than 2 months. You don't owe her anything. If you want any kind of family, maybe try to find your birth mother. I know it's hard but even if you can only find one good thing a day, it's a start for recovery.
My brother survived esophageal cancer, with surgeries and treatment over 18 months. Not able to eat. A year after his recovery, he had lung cancer. He didn't want to fight it. So he didn't.
The title for this video didn’t match any of the stories
I noticed that too
Story two: "JK Rowling's crappy opinions" have been repeatedly misrepresented in the media. Rowling merely complains that real women have wombs and have the potential of motherhood. She objects to the misuse of the word "woman" because it denies the reality of potential motherhood as a condition of the definition. She has a point, as the women's movement deserves its own nouns and pronouns that others should not be allowed to appropriate. To deny women that right would be hypocrisy.
The mangling of language and indiscriminate violation of pronoun protocls must be of importance to a writer who seeks to be understood. Rowling has been a champion of freedom to identify as gay, lesbian and whatever, but herchampionship of proper usage has led the "woke" to vilify her when they should be coming up with a few new words (pronouns especially) that would allow the user to be understood without offending.
In story two, OP is complaining about the behaviour of others while defaming others herself. This long time social justice advocate rejects her vile lack of understanding. It is clearly wrong to demand the right to self expression while denying it to others. Duh!
op knows way too much about this woman 😭
If it were me they would never find her body!
Crazy people make the best stories LoL
On the 2nd video cut your adopted mother off as in no phone calls change your phone number change your address seek medical attention for your depression and a counselor does help I have been dealing with depression and medical problems for the last 20 years it does help even with a awesome counselor that I can vent and say things or talk about that I would never tell anyone else about. She needs to be placed in a nursing home not you taking care of her. Peace be with you my friend .
I am Bi-polar. You can use anything as an excuse or an explanation. She uses it as an excuse. Once I was diagnosed I took treatment seriously and do none of the things that your "mother" does. She made her choice. It is not your choice. I have a child that is also non binary and would never do that to them. I have always explained to them and their friends that I may accidently call them he or she but that is only because its hard for me to think in they or them when I am not putting alot of mind to it (Had a coma and TIA years ago so it makes words hard as is. Sheesh I use the wrong pronouns for myself sometimes) but to give me time and I try. In fact found that when I type I don't have the same problems with that. But I digress (word?), she is choosing to be how she is and effected the way she is. There is nothing wrong with you. You do need to get help to deal with the reprocussions of her life choices. Find your own therapist. One you can work with. She can fall in line and get help or you can drop her like a hot potato. Don't ever go out to save a drowning person if you are not a lifeguard. They will drown you with them. you are not a medical or mental health professional. It will be no good for you physically or mentally if you try. Love yourself. Love whom you love. And heal. Do not let anyone bring you down with them.
#2 story OP, it's heartbreaking to have a bad mother. I can sympathise as I had one myself.
Btw, I've known transgender people all my life and it's never bothered me.
I think you've simplified the jk rowlings' matter, as she's actually a left leaning individual, as I am also a center left. She is okay with the LGBTQ people, as many of her friends are LGBTQs. What she is not in agreement is the hard left, woke, movement of allowing trans women who haven't done bottom surgeries to enter female safe spaces (toilets, changing rooms, prisons, etc.) And for trans women to compete with biological females in sports for the obvious biological advantages. Also for underage children to receive puberty blockers, and hormone therapies.
If you and your fellow trans who are of age wants to transition, you can do whatever you want as your lives are already your own responsibilities as adults. Any medical consequences from your transitions will be yours to bear and you won't be able to put the blames onto the adults in your lives (especially the parents) and sue them.
That's the general opinions of the people you call terfs.
Think it over again when you've calmed down, and you've moved on from your adopted mother.
Can’t argue with a chemical.
Glue her locks.
Story 1 I consider the term "milf" an insult. I would punch the lights out of anyone who applied it to me. This woman is arrogant but also insecure because she can't accept her age and has to try and make it appear that she is still irresistible to younger men.
poor man, adopted by a selfish woman. and father. Intentions was good when adopted remember that, parenting is not easy and not for everyone, we learn by examples form family and friends, she has no mentors. you love you mama i get that, but some times afar loving is better. my my grandpas mother died when she was 15, she became the mama to 14 kids and 3 step kids. she gave up her education for a job and she put all but 2 in college with success, other 2 was wild children led to hard lives but my favorite uncle and aunty.. grandma adopted 9 kids including my mama she was strict, all catholic schools demands good grades and labor at her business funny 7 ran off became successful rich people said cant deal with grandma and her demanding to do well. with out her they would not have what they have they are smart because of her training of them. they complained at her funeral, |i countered back, how did you get in to college, studying forced by grandma, how did you pay for college, they work you did at her business yes she kept half your money to pay for your higher education with it and great weddings and down payment from home. with out her you be not as smart will not be at college paid fo in full with out working she insisted study full focus don't work. cost out of the pocket for the wedding and home deposit plus. where will you be right now with out it but you blame her for all, your selfish one, you still want more out of her. why|? love? what ore love then waning your kids successful so they don't have to work to death when older better job means better savings retire early and live easy. they not spoke after me. my mama was adopted raised us 17 kids, dad left and left his boys behind. mama was strict with education but public school. she saved tht money for college, we went to community college. if want more get a job. she to not charged us long as we do good in school. I had 3 kids adopted 6 and had 2 step kids. 2 nurses, 5 police officers, 2 prison guards. one bumm lol at home good kid not lazy not sure depressed or a shut in, don't go out stays home but he cleans spotless daily part of deal of being home not working. he learn dog grooming and wash built a small cottage for grooming, wash and small kennel to hold them ac room with dog run until picked up is his job. rare he leaves out front door. Needs lot of emotional support. i take him out we look at other groomers and wash stations, I believe he is autistic to be honest. last child he's in the military ran off cant deal with he was adopted. he is gay and my 2 daughters, we had all of them from 3 and under. i cant speak for others. we al want family love adopted or not. she did not save you as an healthy infant another would have got you, better or perfect life you would have had i don't know we don't. hand selected adoption don't work like that. yes you pick but out of a collection of faces you pick of that your eligible for, i say what grandma, mama said to me and tell my kids, god child at birthing, Adoption the child is picked for you, guild you to them or by chance, still its fate how you find each other. they not shop out of the blue they/we go thro a long interviews and home inspections over 6 months of surprises, long back ground ck and mandated parenting classes. my first foster son calling him David, so active and crazy lol sneaky boy. drove me nuts. He was my respite child. moved on then 8 months later and 20 plus more kids pass lol he was a perfect angel lol i never lived with a child before him. did not know he was normal. that's the issue with adoptions and parents there expectation is off at times and your get bad parenting for it. Tell her you love her, but i need to live my life not yours, your idea of what you wanted out of a child is xxx that is not me, as a child and an adult i want this a clam happy life, that don't make me insurable, to do that we must live apart to heal then, only thin i will come visit you. my 25 year old daughter and her older wife now is adopting siblings of 4. and we carry on. told her insist on birth parent notes if can get, talk about siblings, there parents education favorite clothes' and colors, wish to be, and became, why? sounds odd but its things i wish to have known of my parents, my siblings say the same and my aunties. we al wonder. we had close adoptions, my kids is open and my daughters, just because open don't mean they will be in 18 years.
OP and her husband dealing with a neighbor from H(#&. I'm surprised the Police haven't arrested her for constant false reports. Much less that CPS hasn't taken her poor child since she is so abusive. Story 2: OP has had a horrible childhood. Adoption is supposed to check if the would be adoption parents have mental or emotional issues. OP is helping his adopted mother out in her cancer, but living with her is NOT an option with her verbal and mental abuse.
I've noticed that neither story matches the video title
Oh my, such creatures exist! Its crypto time🌞
Story 1 and people think there is nothing wrong with America.
35👍's up thank you for sharing
Story one - Child services
The child is with the grandparents so not at risk
I have a question mr reddito. Where are you from? I can’t be certain but occasionally there’s a hint of an accent when you speak. Just curious.
Story 2: OP you need to get a grip and quit blaming your parent or parents for how you feel. Get some therapy kid.
Old lady based?
JK Rowling thinks that trans people should be able to live their lives in peace, and not shamed for their gender. How is that remotely similar to OP's mother?
Why the gratuitous slander for JK?
It's over a book where on sentence said that the criminal had tried to disguise himself as a woman to try to get away with that crime. It's a classic story twist. She also said, apparently, that they are still female, not male type thing... now she has a point, that's what makes them trans. A lot of times, people get triggered by just basic stuff, even if it's fact. I don't think she ever said they can't live as trans. There is a mentality where, if I say I'm a llama, then I'm a llama. it creates a massive argument. I might not agree with it all, but I just don't care what they do. I don't agree with young kids going that way. They might want to stop being llamas and can't get rid of those llama ears 🤷♀️
~sighs~ I'll miss the channel, but well time to just move on.
I don't believe this story one bit. So many things that are onviously lies. How dad of a life someone has to make shit up.
First of all they called the police and said they were being assaulted and when the cops came they said she was a prostitute? No they would have arrested for for a false report and police call.
This literally would have been solved with a lawsuit. You have the right to live in peace in your home. She would loss the lawsuit and have to pay their fees.
Also they have witnesses for th
slander. Actual police officers were her witness. Calling her a prostitute, saying she attacked her. A drug dealer, None of this ever happens. Not to mention trespassing and distributing the peace.
There are cases of mentally ill neighbors that harass and attack other residents. I had a shitty neighbor that would blast music late at night, with random men and her children in the apartment. She had a history of being investigated by CPS and police. I think that's why she was finally evicted because there was no more noise coming from that apartment. Now I just have to deal with one of my other neighbors who does the same thing, only less frequently.
The title of this doesn't match the stories.
I don't agree with the Second Story I think he's made up
Worst story I have read so far😢😢
Sorry this is crap it says she was evicted if so she had to leave by law so nope fake af
Last story u can’t leave a sick elderly alone to die. That’s heartless. Yes she treated u bad but she’s dieing. U could put her n a nursing home that can give her better care. Stop & think fo u want to die alone?
so what if she's dying? OP doesn't owe that woman ANYTHING.
Have you ever heard of the saying "you reap what you sow?" Actions have consequences, regardless if you're the parent or the child. I honestly wouldn't be too surprised if people left me for dead if I was that insufferable around the people I supposed to love, cherish, and respect.