BIRTHDAY SHOPPING FOR THE TWINS!

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  • BIRTHDAY SHOPPING FOR THE TWINS
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  • @heidrivandervyver4663
    @heidrivandervyver4663 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    The fact that James is so excited and none of the gifts are for him just shows the type of caring and empathic young man he is. Well done Elicia...

  • @darceyrook4929
    @darceyrook4929 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    I love how invested James is for his brothers birthday shopping. He’s such a nice young man

    • @jordiflower
      @jordiflower ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right

    • @mauricecooper9763
      @mauricecooper9763 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      And one incredible sibling to have. He'll be a great dad someday.

    • @couponwatchdog
      @couponwatchdog ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wasn't brody's birthday last week, spaghetti table. He got only 3 things, so I'm glad James had his back. The twins wow. What a haul.

    • @DoughertyDozen
      @DoughertyDozen  ปีที่แล้ว +39

      He really is 🧡🧡🧡

    • @darceyrook4929
      @darceyrook4929 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@couponwatchdog Bodhi got a LOT of stuff.

  • @angiriberdy5094
    @angiriberdy5094 ปีที่แล้ว +330

    The absolute excitement emanating from James is infectious! He is always absolutely invested in finding the right stuff for the right family member, and it melts my heart.

    • @DoughertyDozen
      @DoughertyDozen  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🧡🧡🧡

    • @Goaway624
      @Goaway624 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@DoughertyDozen the kids behavior reflect how they are being raised......and both parents do soooooo well with that

    • @pollygoodwin9395
      @pollygoodwin9395 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He isn’t appreciated though, because he doesn’t bring the flash and views. He’s appreciated by the viewers though- we see you!

  • @annettewashington73
    @annettewashington73 ปีที่แล้ว +356

    James is totally your shopping partner. He helps you out by picking items that he knows his brothers and sisters would love.

    • @DoughertyDozen
      @DoughertyDozen  ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Yup!! SO glad he helped out 🧡🧡🧡

  • @crystalwilson161
    @crystalwilson161 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Sorry you lost me on this one. I watched the video of them opening up the gifts and they NEVER said THANK YOU!!!
    Show us that your teaching then the value of money and the chore list.
    Are you preparing them for real life if you won’t allow them to make their own lunch.

  • @louisescaife8304
    @louisescaife8304 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I'm sorry.
    But you spent too much. You are spoiling them. You got dollar signs in your eyes

  • @hayesh4
    @hayesh4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That was far too many gifts even for 2 children. There is other things you need to be giving your children besides just “things” how about healthy eating. Get a cooking and health class for yourself. The acid reflex that at least one of your children have would benefited by healthier eating

  • @amywins6509
    @amywins6509 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I’m sorry your not teaching your kids to value anything, the amount you purchased them for a birthday is just disgusting.

  • @manoni75
    @manoni75 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    This is absolutely insane spending! What are the boys getting for Christmas, they already have everything!!

  • @joanabongato3901
    @joanabongato3901 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Happy birthday Jordan & Jason! 🥰 Also, you can really tell that James pays attention to his siblings. He knows everything, from their favorite snacks/drinks, to the kind of pasta that they eat, and the toys that they’ll love! Amazing big bro and a young man with a heart of gold. 🥺

  • @paisleygirl8357
    @paisleygirl8357 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    you should really teach the kids to take better care of their stuff and not to lose things all the time.

  • @jillshepherd407
    @jillshepherd407 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Am I the only one who thinks this is an insane amount of gifts for a birthday? I am sure she is in the thousands at this point. Wow. It’s wonderful they can spend so freely but that’s not real life for anyone else.

    • @BeeBee-cu6bc
      @BeeBee-cu6bc ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Why you so worried about her pockets? If she has the means to do it. That’s her business !! Don’t watch her blogs if it bothers you so much

    • @ladyjmarie5569
      @ladyjmarie5569 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@BeeBee-cu6bc they are just expressing an opinion I don't think they are bothered

    • @pbj0815
      @pbj0815 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@TheBrittbrat2341 so negative. Go away

    • @rosemarie8059
      @rosemarie8059 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      too bad you can't buy spending quality time with your children without dropping hundreds of dollars. Kids need love, and consistency.

    • @Lizziekbeezee
      @Lizziekbeezee ปีที่แล้ว +35

      To answer you, you’re DEFINITELY not the only one who thinks that. It may seem like it when you’re gaslighted for having your own opinion, but trust me… you’re NOT alone. Lol

  • @LucyGirl-61
    @LucyGirl-61 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Way too much stuff. You should teach them to be responsible with money but you aren’t. Just because you have it to spend doesn’t mean you need it.

    • @dianafeese2161
      @dianafeese2161 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just let her be a mother and if getting gifts like that for kids let her. Cause some of the kids wouldn’t be treated this way if they were with their natural parents. SHE IS DOING A Great Job. Just making a point

    • @LucyGirl-61
      @LucyGirl-61 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dianafeese2161 do a little searching on her.

    • @yeoone6835
      @yeoone6835 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@LucyGirl-61 Bro how hard is it to provide the information instead of saying “do your research”, plus why are you even hating, if youre jealous her kids get to have a lot of presents and you didnt thats not really her issue, dont act like you care about “teaching them to be responsable with money” or “teach them to be humble and grateful”.

    • @LucyGirl-61
      @LucyGirl-61 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@yeoone6835 I grew up with money and have worked hard and invested well. I had what I needed growing up and did the same for my children. I am far from jealous 😂 she is definitely nothing to be jealous of.

  • @victoriamartinez1199
    @victoriamartinez1199 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I just think it’s crazy how you
    went above and beyond for the twin’s birthday but for Bodhi all he got was a couple car sets and cold spaghetti on a table. Sad af.

  • @KellyKatyCollie
    @KellyKatyCollie ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Buying a reasonable amount of birthday presents would not make the over the top content she is looking for. As a parent who can afford to buy a lot of things for my boys, I don't. Just because you can doesn't mean you should. If my boys wanted something I would not buy, they worked for it. My youngest son wanted a vr, and that was 1000 dollars. At 16 he got a job, saved for it and bought it. Just my opinion, I would have done my sons a disservice if I bought them everything they wanted. They both had jr bank accounts and learned to save. They had weekly chores that they were expected to do. It is my responsibility as a parent to raise self sufficient, responsible kids. Before someone starts griping about a lot of the DD kids having medical issues and can't do anything, my youngest son is on the spectrum but that does not mean we could not place appropriate expectations on him to be responsible.

    • @helimonni
      @helimonni ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Plus she buys them a ton of stuff they didn't even ask for, so how much of it is going to end up forgotten in their room or in the trash? Even though "they are gonna love that" for the moment, they're gonna be over it just as fast...

    • @quinlozano1150
      @quinlozano1150 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’m just confused as to why your concerned with what another PARENT does for their kids 🤦‍♂️😂

    • @KellyKatyCollie
      @KellyKatyCollie ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@Ellie_bloy for everything they get they are paying a heavy price for it. Having their lives exposed to the entire world is something some of the kids are not old enough to decide. I can only speculate this will have some dire consequences in their future.

    • @quinlozano1150
      @quinlozano1150 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@KellyKatyCollie that’s true but it would be different if there was a real concern, and also her adopted kids came from bad situations so she tries to make their birthdays to be as special as possible

    • @quinlozano1150
      @quinlozano1150 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @UCTrLXBX-g5BawC3uHvzCmnQ and if special means to buy them a bunch of stuff then so be it, people constantly say that she needs to find other ways and be more “there” and let’s be real she has 12 children and the least she can do is go all out and splurge on their birthdays, and plus she takes her kids every Monday for one on time. You should check out other family vloggers, no one is perfect but she is genuine unlike most of these other family vloggers.

  • @amycutler3685
    @amycutler3685 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    How does anyone find this relatable? It is so tone deaf and wreaks of privilege.

  • @trinitybabe9362
    @trinitybabe9362 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i love this channel.....no hate....but that is sooo much to buy for a child?? i mean a tv or hover board is a big present on its own needed just a few bits to go with it. Just seems like a lot to buy for a young child.

  • @sarniajohnson1626
    @sarniajohnson1626 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Why do you have to spend so much money on the kids is it because everybody gives you money just because you have a lot of kids stop wasting so much money you’re just going overboard

    • @junebuchholtz287
      @junebuchholtz287 ปีที่แล้ว

      And why don't you spend more money and your children why are you so cheap

  • @nettijoyce9357
    @nettijoyce9357 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Your consumerism knows no bounds, is this how all Americans live?

    • @as_creates
      @as_creates ปีที่แล้ว +6

      NO!

    • @kayp974
      @kayp974 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ha no Netti, most Americans do not live like this.

    • @KrissyMeow
      @KrissyMeow ปีที่แล้ว +4

      No, she's nuts. Most everyone watching will never be ever to spend like this, and realize how insane this is to do even if you have the money.

    • @easytoslip
      @easytoslip ปีที่แล้ว +5

      yes, every single of the 330 million people in america has the exact same amount of money LOL

    • @evamarie4527
      @evamarie4527 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No. Not even close.

  • @denisemiddlemass1658
    @denisemiddlemass1658 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When during this whole buying frenzy did you decide that the twins should open all of the obscene amount of gifts in front of their biological siblings. It was an incredibly cruel and thoughtless thing to do. Please please try and think about the impact of all of this. You have a massive problem and you need help.

  • @nakitabrooks2273
    @nakitabrooks2273 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    this is actually disgusting. knowing the biological mom dad and siblings are going to be at the party.. SHAME ON YOU!! MONEY DOESNT BUY LOVE MONEY DOESNT STOP THE HURT FROM THE PAST!!

    • @junebuchholtz287
      @junebuchholtz287 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you ever think that they might be so happy with their children being taken care of so well? I know it would warm my heart if it was me

    • @nakitabrooks2273
      @nakitabrooks2273 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@junebuchholtz287 they brought the twins other sibling to the party.. did it ever occur to you how that child feels seeing their brothers get all this stuff?

    • @junebuchholtz287
      @junebuchholtz287 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@nakitabrooks2273 Did you also know that her and Josh helped take care of the other siblings? I don't think you did know that

    • @nakitabrooks2273
      @nakitabrooks2273 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@junebuchholtz287 where is that shown?

  • @traceyforth8170
    @traceyforth8170 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Oh dear, when so many families are struggling to make ends meet.

    • @saraanderson6615
      @saraanderson6615 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True! Talk about spoiling kids! Why did they need 3 or was it 4 footballs?

    • @lionetigger
      @lionetigger ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@saraanderson6615 they got 4

    • @moonlitskylight5740
      @moonlitskylight5740 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, someone has to keep your fragile economy going.

    • @junebuchholtz287
      @junebuchholtz287 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get another job...dont just complain about others

    • @NikolasZedalisDesigns
      @NikolasZedalisDesigns 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s her family you have no right to judge

  • @elli9511
    @elli9511 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You should seek therapy… I think you have an addiction. You are seeking dopamine hits through shopping. It’s very concerning actually

  • @maureencarroll6907
    @maureencarroll6907 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I'm a twin and our mother did not buy us two of everything. We learned to share and be thankful for what we got. Learn the value of a dollar Alisha Dougherty! I think your just trying to make the birth parents feel bad because they can't afford to overspend and spoil them like you do!

    • @moonlitskylight5740
      @moonlitskylight5740 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Or maybe she wants them to feel individual on their birthday. I've heard some twins mention they ALWAYS had to share because they are twins. Kids should be treated as individual especially when it comes to twins. How about go through the foster system and tell me what you think about her parenting. Goddamn.

    • @raya74
      @raya74 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@moonlitskylight5740 exactly people so critical and couldn't do half of what she does

  • @RH-fe2ut
    @RH-fe2ut ปีที่แล้ว +59

    The amount of money that was spent in 2.5 hours was anxiety inducing and it wasn't my money. Wow, this is insane!

  • @Aebcin
    @Aebcin ปีที่แล้ว +40

    What the heck are you gonna get them for Christmas? Holy heck this is insane omg.... wow I'm shockedn

  • @shirleygiordano7627
    @shirleygiordano7627 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    James loves his siblings. He's such a good big brother. I am glad you have his help.

  • @JudyCKim757
    @JudyCKim757 ปีที่แล้ว +172

    All of your kids are so thoughtful. They're always thinking of their siblings. You've done a good job raising them.

  • @Lizziekbeezee
    @Lizziekbeezee ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Money is tight for us now. I see many others in the comments section whose reality is a tight budget as well…
    I found something in Pinterest about living meaningful and minimal. It’s awesome.
    “Something they Want
    Something they Need,
    Something to Wear
    Something to Read”.
    I thought that was an awesome guide to navigate through the ads and greed of todays world. My daughter is 2, turning 3 early January and this Christmas will be my baby’s first, so Santa is all about making the holidays fun without breaking the bank.

    • @as_creates
      @as_creates ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Your kids will remember the fun times spent. with family not all the “stuff”.. my opinion

    • @JustJanine91
      @JustJanine91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love this! ❤️

    • @tamlynn786
      @tamlynn786 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No need to buy something to read. Support your local library!!

    • @JustJanine91
      @JustJanine91 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tamlynn786 ohhh you’re so right! ❤️ love it!

  • @tynamiller614
    @tynamiller614 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Um it's a birthday not Christmas Jesus. Why not just one gift from you and the rest from friends and family at the party? How is your house big enough for all this stuff?

  • @daphne10120
    @daphne10120 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I fully intend on spoiling my future kids but this is insane. I guess this is their cut of the TH-cam money seeing as you are monetizing their childhood. But I hope they know that they don’t have to be in videos to receive these types of gifts. That presents aren’t conditional and they actually have money put away for their futures from the ad revenue

    • @junebuchholtz287
      @junebuchholtz287 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't have a clue what these parents are doing

  • @loveeara
    @loveeara ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Children who receive excessive dopamine hits like this quickly become numb to it and grow up to seek that rush in other ways. Please consider.

    • @sc30daboss
      @sc30daboss ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes this

    • @Angela-sz6mz
      @Angela-sz6mz ปีที่แล้ว

      Perhaps she has. Have you considered that?

    • @G.george.glass24
      @G.george.glass24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why watch her videos to critique her and be judgmental? So unnecessary. Move along.

    • @melindaahmed1392
      @melindaahmed1392 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ohh look TH-cam's best psychologist is speaking out, how wonderful! 😒

    • @GoldestGlitter
      @GoldestGlitter ปีที่แล้ว

      Excessive dopamine? Do you mean just being happy their birthday is being celebrated like the celebration it is supposed to be? I don't think that doing this once a year can even be considered excessive, there is no way you can make a yearly thing 'habitual' to become numb to it, there are enough people who enjoy Christmas as adults and elderly too. So I'm not sure what compelled you to make this remark about a remarkable woman trying to give her children the best she can offer.

  • @cherries4life7
    @cherries4life7 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    i love how excited james is to help you shop for his little brothers. such an amazing big brother 🥺

  • @marieg3265
    @marieg3265 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    The amount of money she spends in one day...oh my goodness

  • @JosieBClark
    @JosieBClark ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I mean? Thousands of dollars on toys for just one birthday? You go over board for no reason. I actually liked your channel but this is glutinous and weird at this point. They have no value to their things and you are teaching them horrible habits for their adulthood. What are they going to need if they have everything?
    This is shocking and pretty absurd. 😮

    • @Makeupwerido
      @Makeupwerido ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true

    • @JosieBClark
      @JosieBClark ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Makeupwerido I just don't get it. It's actually ridiculous to keep watching and I'm not sure why I do it this point. She has some major issues and is pushing those issues onto all of her children.

    • @sc30daboss
      @sc30daboss ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She goes overboard on purpose I’m sure

  • @lifesloweddown1247
    @lifesloweddown1247 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    And I struggle to buy groceries every week...

  • @angelalaforest8631
    @angelalaforest8631 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Keep showing off! You are not impressing anyone ...Put the money in your shabby kitchen

    • @raya74
      @raya74 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would rather spend money on kids and seeing their faces light up getting what they want on their special day then spend it on my 'shabby kitchen'

  • @sheaneenstrom
    @sheaneenstrom ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Why didnt you shop like this for bodhi? Do you have a limit for each child? This seems extremely excessive for 2 8 yr olds. What will happen when christmas comes? They will expect bigger and bigger as each bday and Christmas comes along. From what I've seen from the Bodhi video I dont feel this is fair to spend all this for the boys. Jmo but I feel like you should have a spending limit for each child and it should be the same. Why do they each need an alexa? Arent they in the same room? You should have them all write out a list so you know exactly what to get them for their bdays/Christmas

  • @paige.441
    @paige.441 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The fact that you would get two people all of this for a birthday is insane. What about Bodhi? Most people that watch your videos couldn't even afford half the things you got for there childs birthday! Sure a TV for there birthday and maybe a book or game but not A Hoverboard, Tv, Alexa$,200 outfits, $100 Lego sets.etc.

  • @kodiedyani
    @kodiedyani ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is so sad. I can’t imagine how this is going to effect their mental health when they get older or when the money runs out. Poor things 😢

  • @theorangenik17
    @theorangenik17 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    excess of materialism does not equate warm, wholesome love. it's portraying such a toxic message to the masses.

  • @Fiona-is7jz
    @Fiona-is7jz ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How do you decide which kid gets what? Your other little boy whose birthday it was recently got so much less than these.

    • @ItsJustLeann
      @ItsJustLeann ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm beginning to think she buys like this for the adopted kids to show off to the biological parents because it seems like the bio families are at all the birthdays..

    • @sc30daboss
      @sc30daboss ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsJustLeann Also cause she gets tons of views off it.

  • @KelliJay24
    @KelliJay24 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Girl you better be saving some of the yt money for all their college funds!!! If not this spending is outrageous

  • @lifeinthefastlane362
    @lifeinthefastlane362 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That is more than most people spend on Christmas. Wow!!!! I just can’t imagine. Is this all sponsored or Tax write offs?

    • @JosieBClark
      @JosieBClark ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Probably write offs.

  • @patrustemeyer9401
    @patrustemeyer9401 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    How much money do you spend on birthdays? What’s left to buy for Christmas?

  • @MaryJane-tp4ly
    @MaryJane-tp4ly ปีที่แล้ว +19

    What happens when they turn 9? You spent way to much for any kids birthday. Why did the little guy only get hot wheel toys? Is it because you want to show off to their bio family?

  • @daniellef6868
    @daniellef6868 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Happy Birthday to the twins! I just love to see the heart and thought you put into each kiddos birthday❤️ Always magical💫

    • @DoughertyDozen
      @DoughertyDozen  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you so much!! 🧡🧡🧡

  • @bemyescape081012
    @bemyescape081012 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Why spend so much money on a birthday?

  • @kathleena247
    @kathleena247 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Think they need to start following “Really Very Crunchy.” This is so bad for the environment :( I’m sure the kids enjoy and deserve to be spoiled on their birthday.. but isn’t this just too much??

  • @aleedee4156
    @aleedee4156 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    I’ve never seen someone buy so much stuff for their kids birthday before. Buying more in one day than I would buy All year for the kids besides clothes.

    • @trailer_trash_Barbie
      @trailer_trash_Barbie ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Right and I can't even afford food right now for me n my son too eat and the food bank isn't till next Friday I'm just heartbroken

    • @pbj0815
      @pbj0815 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Everyone lives different lives. Let them be or don’t watch

    • @kellyowens7417
      @kellyowens7417 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Totally agree. It's just too much honestly.

    • @user-vq6hj
      @user-vq6hj ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@trailer_trash_Barbie if u spent less time smoking weed & hating on others TH-cam videos maybe you could put that energy into bettering your career. Not being able to feed your child?! That’s endangerment

    • @jojodabaddie35
      @jojodabaddie35 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@trailer_trash_Barbie get a job😊

  • @Puglover130
    @Puglover130 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    $150 for a football 😨😨

  • @kolrox73
    @kolrox73 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Please put shoes on your childrenes feet! I KNOW you have bought them for your children! Also during the twins party, it looked Navaeh had no shorts or pants. No hate just know what the weather is like in Rochester right now and none of the kids had shoes on!

  • @ksf9729
    @ksf9729 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1st time watching this. I love shopping hauls but, this dosnt make sense. She seems so nice but, common sense is missing.

  • @patricklazare3833
    @patricklazare3833 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Vile! 🤢🤮

  • @RebSBS
    @RebSBS ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Tell me this is a joke. I have never seen such ridiculous spending for childrens' birthdays. You don't even try to be humble about the prices! Disgusting.

    • @Troublemonkey5678
      @Troublemonkey5678 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop watching her video if your going to talk negative towards her

    • @RebSBS
      @RebSBS 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Troublemonkey5678 don't worry, I have. I left that comment a year ago 🤣 and I'm pretty sure it's the only one I have ever watched!

  • @lindacoveleski7224
    @lindacoveleski7224 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This was disgusting spending over 2,000 on Birthday Gifts, SERIOUSLY this woman is a nut case, that was shopping for more like Christmas NOT a Birthday....Who are you trying to impress YOU?????? Nasty

  • @evethomas._88
    @evethomas._88 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Omg this was really bad these kids will have problem when they get older they will not be grateful for anything.

    • @nessaravenclaw
      @nessaravenclaw ปีที่แล้ว

      Just curious... what do you think is an appropriate amount for them?

  • @shawnahamilton4241
    @shawnahamilton4241 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is honestly atrocious. Poor Bodhi got cold table spaghetti for his birthday. 🤦‍♀️ Setting her kids up for failure when they all grow up. Value is not being taught. They will all be entitled. Have fun with that.

  • @connievassilev7911
    @connievassilev7911 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Kids need safe home, warm healthy food, love, and protection. Please stop doing this to them. They will never, in their adult lives, be able to afford to shop like this and the let down from all this excessive shopping will be a horrible lesson for them to learn. Please, the kids are so precious.

  • @susanrhead7708
    @susanrhead7708 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Wow. You even say they are spoiled. I just can’t.

  • @saraheyad8930
    @saraheyad8930 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    am i the only one here find it little over the top riddiculuos too much gifts?

    • @judyloveday9615
      @judyloveday9615 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she's disgusting....she may be on cloud 9 and making crazy money but the public is catching on to her explortation of the kids and are going to quite watching....

  • @manonfrance7427
    @manonfrance7427 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    This is the first time watching a Dougherty 12 video that leaves me totally confused. Why buy so many birthday gifts? I really hope they understand it's prettty unusual....Anyway, Happy birthday J&J🥳

    • @pollygoodwin9395
      @pollygoodwin9395 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Welcome to the “make it make sense family”

    • @keijua.7834
      @keijua.7834 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      After all the years the kids are with her I’m sure this is the first time she’s buying them this much for the “VIEWS” ohh no wait for the “CONTENT” i mean 😂 i feel bad for the kids when they grow up like adults.

    • @Twoplustwo_Equalsfour
      @Twoplustwo_Equalsfour ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Al-uh-sha lives to give DCP more content.
      Well played, Al-uh-sha. Well played.

  • @genevieveordeal5547
    @genevieveordeal5547 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I love James! He is so observant of what his siblings want. 🧡💙 So sweet

  • @Melissa-gq2yx
    @Melissa-gq2yx ปีที่แล้ว +23

    With all due respect I have a son who just turned 8yo and a granddaughter who's almost 8yo. They have basically been raised like twins. I also have a 30yo and 24yo. If you keep doing this you are going to cause your children to be ridiculously entitled!! I spoiled my older children and had the entitlement problem!!! We still spoil the younger children but not nearly as much and nothing ever like this their Christmases were like this!! I know it doesn't seem like it but you are hurting your children going this overboard!! Please reevaluate your priorities I don't thank you realize what you're doing is actually going to harm them in the long run!!

  • @stacyscarpello33
    @stacyscarpello33 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The twins are going to be so excited about their gifts! James is such a wonderful helper. My mom has always made birthdays and holidays special the way you do for your family and I can tell you from a 36 year old woman, I cherish every single one bc she still does it (and passed it on to me). Your kids will have some of the best memories ever!

  • @angelablack7946
    @angelablack7946 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “ But first…. White Claw!”””

  • @bjjjb3056
    @bjjjb3056 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Am I the only one that thinks this is insanity? This is a birthday.... 100 plates? Are you having a family reunion too? I know the family is large but the supplies alone was over kill... The presents... Girl, respectfully that's wayyyyyy tooooo much for a birthday. I personally wouldnt think my kid should expect that massive haul for a birthday. What's gonna happen if heaven forbid something financially huge arises and in 3 years you're thankful to bake them a cake a home and spend $50 each. They're 8. They won't be too arrogant and entitled... I feel like she's buying their love

    • @bjjjb3056
      @bjjjb3056 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hoosierladyus48 I can say my kids are spoiled but that was enough for a life of birthdays I'm sorry. If my kids saw that I would have to sleep with one eye open 😂. Honestly, if I was able to do that financially.... I still would not do it

    • @bjjjb3056
      @bjjjb3056 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hoosierladyus48 my father has never even told me happy birthday let alone acknowledged anything close to that

    • @bataineh
      @bataineh ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bjjjb3056 I’m sorry that your day is POS. You deserve better than that

  • @destinywilson7931
    @destinywilson7931 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Why do you get Boady three gifts and cold food. But these kids get all this don’t you think you should be fair. It is going to crush that little boy

  • @jovance1909
    @jovance1909 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    James is a thoughtful sweetheart. Jason and Jordon are going to have a wonderful birthday with their beautiful family.

  • @meganh731
    @meganh731 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You must have a huge budget for their birthdays…they are sooooo spoilt…

  • @Jessica-ml6td
    @Jessica-ml6td ปีที่แล้ว +29

    James is such a nice & helpful young man 🧡 I understand how teens can be at times

  • @anncarroll2204
    @anncarroll2204 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    It’s crazy, you guys spend too much money on the kids. Not good. Makes me very sad. 😢

  • @heidimyers2333
    @heidimyers2333 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    James is so special! I love that kids heart. He cares for others! No hiding that!
    Happy Birthday Jason and Jordan!

  • @Heyitskenny
    @Heyitskenny ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Heard of a book? Or motherly love?

  • @christiesmith978
    @christiesmith978 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Dollar Tree would have had EVERYTHING that you purchased except for the pinatas. Would have been so much cheaper and would have been the same quality as Party City.

  • @sarahmaggle1767
    @sarahmaggle1767 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    aLUSHa I love that you turned your comments off on the party video because you knew you messed up 😂😂 buying $1000s in gifts did not work out how you wanted 🙃

  • @Hadley378
    @Hadley378 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    They got more stuff than I have gotten with all my birthdays combined😂

  • @spenn6942
    @spenn6942 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Materialism doesn't replace love.

    • @spenn6942
      @spenn6942 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@Gamergirl36-e1l It's beyond what they truly need. She needs to put down the white claw and credit card and spend some real time with them. Without a camera shoved in their faces.

    • @johnnywalker8326
      @johnnywalker8326 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@spenn6942 So negative. Maybe a therapist could help you with that.

    • @spenn6942
      @spenn6942 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@johnnywalker8326 I have a therapist for c-ptsd actually caused by emotionally neglectful parents who also thought buying my love was suffice. Anything else?

    • @Hollyis
      @Hollyis ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like you’re projecting. She gives both.

    • @johnnywalker8326
      @johnnywalker8326 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spenn6942 Your projection skills are amazing. These parents buy their kids a lot of nice gifts but are in no way 'neglectful'. They are hands on and involved. At some point in your life- as an obvious adult- I hope you can let go of the past that made you so miserable. Cheers.

  • @kirbysclubhousechilddevelo4352
    @kirbysclubhousechilddevelo4352 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Stop exposing your children on the internet

    • @Mysisterdoesshorts
      @Mysisterdoesshorts 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's not exposing they consented to it an it's their birthday

  • @natalieunis5122
    @natalieunis5122 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    This seems so excessive?!

  • @jewelz5864
    @jewelz5864 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    🤢

  • @tamlynne2101
    @tamlynne2101 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    James is such a awesome person! You can see in every video the love he has for everyone in the family. He helps with everything, thinks of everyone else first. Just such an amazing kid and I love that he still acts like a kid. I hate when kids try to grow up too fast. Just have fun while you can!

  • @camilaflores1146
    @camilaflores1146 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This woman needs HELP !!! That is not good parenting sorry but no no no !!! SHE is wrong the kids have no clue of control this is not how you show love !!!

  • @loridobough6289
    @loridobough6289 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I would never spend that much on a child for their birthday. A couple of well thought out gifts is enough.

  • @eimz28
    @eimz28 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Omg how much did you just spend 😳 is it necessary? A tv each?? Spoilt rotten

    • @breewinter798
      @breewinter798 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes way to much ,your crazy lady .

  • @ImagineAsylo
    @ImagineAsylo ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Watching this after watching Bohdi’s birthday is so sad…

  • @gaylerhodes7757
    @gaylerhodes7757 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Cannot believe how much you spend. Save for their college. They get too much!

  • @cameliapb
    @cameliapb ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Omg ! Overbuying. Too much gift !!! 😮 spend quality time with them instead

    • @kiaallen9459
      @kiaallen9459 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Trust she does adopting them alone show how big her heart is she spends plenty time with them, nothing wrong with going a out on a birthday, she explained in another vlog why she goes all out for ALL HER KIDS ON THEY BIRTHDAYS! MAYBE U SHOULD WATCH IT

  • @stephanieskowronski1979
    @stephanieskowronski1979 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Happy birthday to the twins!! 🎁🎈🎉
    James is so thoughtful to think of his brothers! Very cool!

  • @alicerabbit8
    @alicerabbit8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    A bottle of water for James would be better than a slushie and then a soft drink.

  • @devonyruss
    @devonyruss ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Anyone else think it’s insane spending €150 on a football 🤦‍♀️

  • @elli9511
    @elli9511 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Do they need that much stuff for their birthday?? 😮😮😮😮

    • @elli9511
      @elli9511 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Holy crap…. I hadn’t even made it to the hover boards and tvs yet!!!

    • @dodobird7274
      @dodobird7274 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@elli9511 Hoverboards and TVS?!? I’m only 20 minutes in and she’s already spent the equivalent of my entire life savings 💀

  • @kellykel5935
    @kellykel5935 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A little much…..

  • @myshadowstalksme
    @myshadowstalksme ปีที่แล้ว +8

    No one is going to mention the giant tub of frosting that’s not white chocolate for melting 😂

  • @suekornely9177
    @suekornely9177 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    who spends 2,000 plus on a birthday

    • @Jac-Jay
      @Jac-Jay ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Someone who tries to buy their kids love

  • @evelynmiller6695
    @evelynmiller6695 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    How in the world with all your children can you afford to spend all that kind of money on their birthdays?

    • @Brittbritt15
      @Brittbritt15 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bc ANYTHING she films is a write off…it’s a business expense.

  • @rosemarie8059
    @rosemarie8059 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    why do you spend so much money on the kids for birthdays? Did you ever think to teach them to donate to charity, pick a charity and donate. For a birthday buy them something they need, want, read, and wear and one in each category and a birthday dinner of their choice and donating or volunteering for charity. Teach the children life isn't about possessions it's about being decent human beings.

  • @Lethalbarbie
    @Lethalbarbie ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Dollar store would have saved a ton of $$$ on party supplies !

    • @daphne10120
      @daphne10120 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t buy party stuff anywhere else lol. Same with holiday cards 😂

  • @mariewilliams6786
    @mariewilliams6786 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Give them love and affection not a million dollars in gifts

  • @Kassie.r87
    @Kassie.r87 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    This is more than I would spend at Christmas dang. Wonder what the Christmas shopping vlogs are going to be like

    • @dianabeauchesne6121
      @dianabeauchesne6121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They can write off anything bought that they put in their video. Plus sponsorships. They have a good thing going with all the social media platforms.

    • @dianabeauchesne6121
      @dianabeauchesne6121 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@lisaclark6212 yes I do think she loves and takes care of her kids.

    • @amirakhan898
      @amirakhan898 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lisaclark6212 This is not 'taking care' of them. Throwing things at children and not teaching them the right values if 'taking care' of them. And don't even get me started on the food these kids eat.