This teen’s emotional intelligence is off the charts. 📈
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Hear me out; parents on here need to stop exposing and embarrassing their kids. It would probably just cause more tension between them.
Yes I’m not sure why people willingly go on these type of shows no matter how much they get paid. It’s just weird to put you and your child’s private lives out there for everyone to hear and watch for entertainment.
This is not her Parent. It is her Sister
I love how parents are actually exposing themselves though
@hajimehinata8967 her sister
Sometimes that's your ONLY OPTION.
For a 16 year old, she’s well spoken and obviously aware of everything she’s doing sooo she has to want better for herself. With guidance and love, she’ll be okay
Agree. She just need someone to love and guide her.
Amen! Indeed she will, despite everything she very well enlightened. I tell my kids this all the time, there are kids out there crying for love and attention and not to me or my love that shower upon them for granted. This young lady just needs a hug and someone to listen, hold her hand and pray with her. I wish her well and love.
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Excuses . A child who wasn't loved , will take whatever love comes their way , so when she be saying " I don't need a sibling" she is LYING . and yes , I HAVE BEEN HER . I was 4 though . When I was abandoned , I was a real child . I did not rebel , I just did as I was told and appreciate the love I was given . COP OUT !!!
This the issue talk to much
Very self aware, intelligent, and well spoken💙
She's too worldly for 16.
@MarauderM00gi she's speaking her mind. There's a lot of people her age and younger who can speak their mind because they can relate to what she's saying.
Jesus Christ Loves You! Jesus SAVES!
Full of crap. She may be well spoken but most bullshiters are.
She's a frigging fos manipulator. She doesn't care she is a 304 on training.
This young girl is so innocent. She said she had no parental guidance. This young lady realize her actions weren’t the path she wanted to take. I can’t help but respect her.
DA
@@labrea654Don’t be mean. You should have learned that from your parents.
No she's not
She's craving her parents' guidance. I'm hurting for her.
Parents' guidance creates a stable environment for growing kids.
Truly you haven't met a sixteen year old girl that has been caught having sex. Saying she needs guidance is a scam to get the sympathy vote. Try guiding her as a parent and you will find out quickly how she is old enough and can make her own choices.
This princess has the audacity to be mad that someone shouted at her when they caught her having a good time on the stairs.
One of the things I remember growing up, is me following in my dad's footsteps and him telling me that I should know better than to do that. But how would I know how to do any differently if that's the only example I have? It just felt like he didn't want to take responsibility for my education but then criticised everything I did.
Thankfully our relationship is a lot better now, but I'll never forget those years
@@bluewolfchicken7310 You're so right. Do as I say and not as I do is a confusing concept for kids.
I'm glad your relationship is better. God bless. ❤️🙏
As a mental health care worker, it is 100 percent the parent's or lack of parent's fault what happens in early development. But I also know teens are manipulative AF. 😅
I went though craving my parents guidance and comfort for years. Especially my mother’s. I’m grown today with issues because I was never healed. I’m not comfortable around my father because I feel like he doesn’t know me, and my mother is just careless to how I feel because she went through the same thing so she’s in a stage of living for herself. I feel for her
"You left me to figure it out on my own" wow. She's right. Parents do that and wonder why teens go with the wind
That's because kids don't communicate...
sometimes some of our parents asks us if we are okay... and we don't answer..
the truth is that, they can never know what's on our mind if we don't tell them..
@@lawrencesam8564Often, kids aren’t equipped yet to deal with extremely complex emotional situations, especially traumatic emotional situations. Sometimes they can’t talk or don’t know how. Sometimes, they don’t even know what’s going on with themselves. Sure, it’d be _nice_ if our kids talked to us, but we need to give them the tools and strategies to cope with a variety of things, especially as they get older and are teens. Put the foundation there in the first place.
I’m working on helping my daughter’s (5yo) emotional intelligence increase by giving her tools to deal with big feelings, and guiding her through self-soothing. I also teach her in an age-appropriate manner why certain feelings are felt when, etc.
This early start is so that by the time as she’s a teen and starts feeling intense emotions related to puberty & teenagehood, she’ll have her tool box ready and will be okay.
This poor girl didn’t have any guidance and had to learn the hard way. There’s no reason we parents can’t put our pride aside and help our kids, even if that means we meet them more than halfway. Even if we have to meet them where they are and take up the distance ourselves.
If a child want to go wind, it's child child fault, when I was little my mom goes out early and come back late, all I wanted was just to study and have a good career so that i stop my mom from hardship, she is saying rubbish
@@lawrencesam8564not alot of parents make their kids feel comfortable sharing their emotions with them. They only act from a place of authority and don't put in any effort to create a bond with their child. So many people find it so easy to blame the gurl because they did this and that, but they don't realize that it's not the childs place to get help.
@@lawrencesam8564yeah because someone parents are emotionally unavailable and when they do ask you you don’t know how to fucking express your feelings cause they never guided you. All in all, still parents fault.
She is just an honest teenager...help her and guide her
This generation is so lost, and they are being treated like adults at times, so they have zero guidance and like she said I have to figure this stuff out myself at 16 and her mom just skates by it that her daughter is traumatized and needs therapy 😢😢
She is absolutely right about needing guidance.
So proud of her for preaching her needs. Good job, girl. Advocate for your needs.
She’s just trying to get the blame off of herself.
@DB-sy6xc oh please! she's not. She acknowledges what her problem is and is trying to get the help she needs.
Say you didn't watch the video without saying it lmao
Yes it so necessary
Normalize believing kids when they speak up.
A lot of families will treat a troubled teen worse than the trouble the teen did. Dragging their name thru the mud and gossiping. Reminds me of Mean Girls.
Well said.
It's called 'collateral victimisation'; whereby the family/ community benefits off that one person's mistreatments and accusations. Bless her; pray she gets the help she needs.🩵
I absolutely understand her.... I was treated like I was less than a stray dog when I was a teen. I even asked for mental help and was told I didn't need it.
@@Cious05 Thank you for explaining that term. Teenagers will pay for the problems/mistakes of the parents. I wish this young lady well. 🙏 She articulatily explained herself well.
We don’t know the entire story. Unfortunately, this generation is hooked on playing the victim instead of taking accountability. Y’all fall for the sob stories every time !
Once she heals completely no one will ever knock her down again. God has his hands on her. She highly intelligent she just needs the right people in her corner.
She needs someone to love on her!!! That girl needs a hug and someone to be there for her. I've come across so many moms and dads who think providing is enough and it not...
She has a sister who does.
A sister who shares her experience as also having passed through teen years as a girl.
She wants guidance yet follows what other teens do but ignores her older sister's advice.
You are just as naive as they come. You DA
@@kundakapsthat's what im saying!! She already has guidance from her sister, and thats a luxury. Everyone wasnt blèssed with functional parents, and everyone DAMN SURE wasn't fuckin under stairwells...TF smh
@@kundakapsThe advice of a sister is not the same as craving the validation, love, and guidance from her parents. She knows what she did and owned up to it, yet her parents still can’t find a way to support her past that.
I remember this student from my first year teaching. She was so sweet, pleasant, and respectful. I remember her telling me she was moving, I wish her the best.
TF does a darn thing you just said has to do with this post? Go read a book bcs GOD help us if you are teaching our kids.
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Y is there always some knob in the comments pretending to know the person in the video? Get help.
@@fulltimeonfire8536how do you know for sure that they don’t know her? were you there the whole time?
@@fulltimeonfire8536you don’t know that tho they probably do know her so stop 💀
Well spoken children usually are a sign of neglectful parents. They are so well spoken, because they had to grow up faster than others.
Like Matilda the movie
Ugh yeah shouldn’t base psychology on a Movie. But she is definitely intelligent
This is incorrect as an all inclusive statement. My daughter has always been well spoken, and has never been neglected by either of her parents, who are both involved in her life, married, and stable. We’ve always taught her to advocate for herself, and we talk to her, not at her. We allow her to express herself, and rely on the her parents.
Well-spoken children are usually a sign that someone in their life is teaching and guiding them. Children who are neglected usually have learn on their own, and are not taught to speak well, nor are they taught how to, or to advocate for themselves clearly. Early childhood trauma can also interrupt development causing a lack of confidence to be well spoken, and advocate for oneself. There was some foundational security instilled in this young lady by someone, even though it wasn’t her parents. It was some other family members.
My mom used to receive so much compliments all the time about how well spoken me and my siblings were and she never neglected us, actually she was more on the overprotective side lol
I'm sorry I can't agree. My oldest son is very well spoken where as my 3rd child didn't start talking until almost 3 years old. Kids develop on there on levels 😅😂🥴
I work with clients from ages 12-15 currently and despite all of the diagnosis that the DSM 5 can name, most of them just want someone to see them, hear them, and be there for them. That’s been my discovery with the clients I see. I hope that she gets the mental health care and support that she desires.
She has her sisters though.
Omg her sibling felt that deep. You can see the emotion on her face. This child parents is gone. She needs therapy. She is not delusional or anything. She speak with such grace and class.
It seems like they all do. Hurt people hurting other people. I pray for her and her family.
Minors can be assertive without being disrespectful. She in turn will become a straight forward speaking adult that don't candy coat anything and people won't be able to handle it. She will be considered mean and she will definitely be misunderstood. It will take a special kind of person to love her through her trauma.
THANK YOU! coming from a minor. PREACH!
this is true 100%
Love this! This is me now.
I literally am called mean all the time for being assertive and defending myself because I never used to. It used to hurt my feelings but now, I don't care because if me stating the truth makes me mean then I guess I am.
I already love her ❤... praying for her well being while I type
True, parents must be there for thier kid's,she's speaking out 😭
She’s so articulate and self aware. Please give this baby what she deserves.
She’s smarter than most adults there
How ? Waiting for her parents to listen to her sister who is there for her, okay let talk about orphans, stop creating excuses for her bad manners
@@idaraesitdaniel3946just shut up🤦🏽♀️
Smart enough to know that life is sometimes hard. Sleeping around like most teenagers is not smart.
How? Because she wants parents to be in her life? That’s a basic want.
@@oni6903 🤦🏽♀️you are clueless…it’s deeper than that
She is a diamond.... The confession speaks volumes
Looking for someone to blame
@@ArthurMrganShe’s a child. Find something else to critique. I was sexually assaulted as a child too and harmed others and experienced worse things in ELEMENTARY school. I only didn’t turn out like her because I had a mother who was raped and understood what it was like to be sexually assaulted, sodomized, and harassed and it started for me as young as 4 years old. Also my sexual attraction and desire is nonexistent. So there literally not reason for me to have done what she did at her age.
@@mastergirl922nothing you said is a justification. It’s like killing somebody and then saying “oh well I was abused and I have trauma I need to act out” like wtf dude nobody asked for your autobiographical details. This individual did something wrong that she shouldn’t have done. Repent and don’t do it again. Simple.
@@ArthurMrgan Read up on child development.
she wants to be better..mom needs to get her head out the mistake and help her be great..some children dont speak at all..then bash parents when they are older..give this young Queen her flowers for speaking out..help her..bless her soul💚💚💚She will be doing great things in life💚👏🏽🙌🏽🦾
Aww baby girl I feel you.. I grew up without parents too. Nobody truly understands unless they have been through it. I wish I could hug her
She so damn beautiful. I wish she had the guidance she needed.
Do not sexualize her. Not okay.
@@oni6903 saying someone is beautiful is sexualizing now??
@@oni6903nobody is sexualizing 💀
@@oni6903 look up the definition of sexualize then come again bcuz you're REACHING
@@oni6903 I think you are..
Deep down, I want to cry for her. She is legit telling you ahe needs guidance. Teach her, dont just tell her. So many of us needed, still need, and always will want guidance. Life lessons dont have a age or race. Things happen, but if you dont help correct it or teach morals that will stay with her. Youre apart of the problem
But, she looks like one that don’t want to listen either .
@@sandrajones8276 she can look like all kind of things. It’s still the parents responsibility to teach and guide her no matter what
@@sandrajones8276bam, she's full of shit, I'm a social worker and I see this all of the time when teenagers want to do them with no repercussions and don't want to be held accountable their situation with their parents are their go to get out of jail free card
@@sandrajones8276 you sound like you don't know a whole lot about kids. Kids don't come pre-taught my guy.
However way you choose to look at a Kid they Always need Guidance. Its not their choice to need guidance, it's how life is supposed to be. You don't teach them as Kids , you end up dealing with corpses as Adults
I feel her pain as a grown woman who wen5 through this exact thing. Took me years to reach her level of emotional maturity!
She’s a very intelligent beautiful young lady begging for love from her parents and help 🙏🏾
She’s going to be alright. She’s highly self aware and just going through experiences that most teens go through.
She tried to "out" her distasteful past behavior to the audience but fell to realize that she's more mentally mature in thought and reasoning than she is. She seems to be judgemental instead of trying to be understanding when she may have done worse things in her youth. Judging, gossiping and lack of understanding can damage her severely all while not helping to guide her and give her critical advice.
Exactly , weird
Wait but if her mom said don’t fuck in under stairwe and she when and did it how is that mama fault ?
@@22625223 Who said anything about that being "mama" fault? If you want to be honest, it is her "mama" fault because she's not there to guide her and give her advice. The woman on the stage is not her mother also. So mom isn't even present. She's pretty much left to figure life out on her own.
Yep, well said
@The Existential Mapout no she said she doesn’t have parents
That baby said "I needed help and no one was there" that made me cry. Because I know exactly how she feels.
Edit- and all you people that are saying "but siblings were there" are missing the point. Her siblings are just that, siblings! That baby needed her parents. HER PARENTS an authority figure, not someone she sees as her equals.
Also, yes she could have spoken up, but if you have ever struggled that way, asking for help is not always easy, especially if you are in an environment were you don't feel safe to do so. Or loved enough to matter.
Things are not always so cut and dry. The bottom line is that baby needed help. And so many others need help also.
😢me too
Felt those words in my heart 😢
I have autism spectrum an struggled😢 an struggle with PTSD from trama . I understand the level of abandonment I can feel how deep it goes . I have been going through this sense childhood and still dealing with abandonment now that I'm an adult was raised by two parents that were disabled themselves with mental illnesses they couldn't be there for me even if they wanted to my sister an I had to take care of our parents with grandparents an aunt's an uncle's help at a very young age cooking cleaning getting ourselves to school.had to be adults never had time for childhood memories. Now I'm a mother with two boys divorced an remarried I've worked an held 5# jobs for 7 years in a nursing home cook dietary aide house keeper an laundry aide per diem fulltime an artist by night. My boss would let my hide my kids in the laundry room office watching DVD just so I could keep my jobs I worked til I couldnt work no more . I'm slowly getting help with SSI I now own my own little business with my children and husband working at my own paste . What I'm trying to say out of all this . we have to take all things that we go through as lessons because they turn into blessings. I'm proud how strong 💪😜 I've become.we may want our parents naturally But All we really need an your parents need is God's guidance 🙏 that's within you.
I think alot of teens feel this way. But you also have to be strong enough to ask for help. Which is the hardest part bc you want someone to notice without having to ask 🤷♀️
@@amberdavis5311 Right, though unfortunately even when we ask for help, it's hard to find someone who will take us seriously. The way we're painted as rebellious shits across everything just ruins any trust adults have in us tbh
She is articulate; she has to realize that her sister (or whomever the lady on set with her is) is trying. Obviously, her parents aren't there; she needs to accept the guidance she is getting and move forward as best as possible. Hopefully she will get the assistance she needs ASAP!
Crazy this conversation needed to happen on national television for it to happen
As a 34 year old who had barely any parental guidance, my heart is with this young lady.
The same thing happened with me and the way she speaks reminds me of me in someways. But also now I’m disciplining myself in god’s word and in reality with education/physically/mentality because nobody ever helped me. Also I’m not doing drugs anymore or drinking.
I go through the same thing my parents don't care
Agree at the age of 16 i was left to figure it out
I went through the same thing.
It's called growing up. Men go through this but don't talk about it. You women need to grow up.
They're still not listening. She said "nobody got me help for my mental or emotional needs" Her .other & father failed her & even though shes with her sister, she's failing her too. Crazy thing is, her sister took her in, more responsibility on her & I'm sure she needed help as well. She's the oldest & pretty sure she saw & heard way too much. It's a vicious cycle. I pray they heal as a family.
She can just go to church. They talk about these things all the time.
She is not listening to her sisters and being a rebel.
When things happen like this and you DON’T or can’t get the HELP or UNDERSTANDING you DESERVE NOBODY should get looked down on for not knowing or understanding how to deal with something they didn’t or haven’t dealt with 🙏🏾
Omg she’s so pretty❤
She is feeling so alone and lashing out. Somebody give her a hug and help her find peace. 🙏 🤲 🕍
Yes I was her 😢😢😢❤
@Simply.Shonta its super true. She is calling out for help but people who never been through it don't understand
And I feel like her sister is just blowing her off. But if she was messing with other women I bet you it would be ok.
@sanzrich9887 big facts men are built different from men, she gone pop off the right time and somebody gone give her a taste of that same energy but worse 💯
Somebody please get her the help she is asking for . Children don’t act out for nothing; she’s needing love, support and guidance
absolutely!
She is taking more accountability than a lot of grown folks. Facts Dont have feelings.
"Audience you guys were having sex in the stairwells at the age of 15"
That was WAY OUTTA LINE
That is the exact shit my mom has done to me during arguments/conversations in private and in front of family. So I really feel for her… it feels like constant bullying over some mistakes made stemming from their lack of guidance and emotional intelligence.
This baby is in pain.Please don't rub salt in her wounded soul by bringing up what she did. Sexx in the stairwell is way out of line. Is that the only thing that you could question. Please stop judging her. I am a senior and it hurts me as well.
You get judged by your actions. Your past is the best predictor of your future actions.
Don't act in a way that you don't want to be represented as.
@@anow2Not always. . . .
I mean… she did it and not all teens do shit like that. It’s pretty embarrassing for a young lady to be doing that in a stairwell 🤨
I think we are forgetting that her sister didn't have her parents present as well, but she is doing so much to help herself and this girl in question. Nobody sees her pain and struggles. I think she needs just as much help, guidance and counseling. She really didn't ask to be a parent at such a young age.
Finally someone said it! So true!!
then how abt she communicates that instead of shutting everyone out and, putting the baby through the same thing
@@berserkk76 how do you know she hasnt. and she obviously isnt putting her sister through the same thing because shes actually showing up unlike their parents.
@@mary6531 showing up isn't the same as BEING there, and it's obvious if the girl is literally saying she has no one around her to give her guidance, I promise context clues aren't hard to follow 😭
I'm saying this from the perspective of, someone who grew up in an extremely similar situation, i don't think she's placing blame on her sister. If anything she knows that her sister is doing her best, but what they both need is their parents. Neither of them deserved to grow up like that, no one does
The question to the audience told me everything I needed to know about the mother.
She sounds sincere.
It’s called looking for love in all the wrong places. A lot of teens who have absent parents go through this phase. They may or may not have ppl around them trying to help , but just imagine the void they feel. I’m not condoning the behavior but we never know someone’s inside pain and voids. Let’s keep this baby and her family in prayer ❤
Very true.
I've been her . I've been abandoned on a door step . I didn't lose my virginity until I was 18 . I had my first child at 21 , I've never broken a law or committed a crime . This girl is just making excuses . Her sister loves her and if she is as abandoned as she claims to be , Her sisters love , would be enough !
@@user-yl1lb2st6z God bless you sweetie and I’m sorry for what you went through. I myself had a very rough childhood. My teenage years were even worse for me. I’m still standing I have a wonderful life but I’m still in pain at times and no one around me even knows.
If I told my story your jaw would drop. I have compassion for others because I know all of our mindsets are not the same we don’t think the same , we don’t bounce back the same.
I now volunteer with fostered teens , teens no one want to adopt and I’ve seen and heard just about everything you could think of. Every last one of their outlook on life is different. Do you know how many of these children’s parents and family members still come and sit next to them at meetings but still aren’t offering the support they need? The parents themselves also learn how to make excuses or paint a very different picture of occurrences than the child’s because they feel guilty that they’ve failed the child. At that point you don’t know whose story is accurate all you can do is try to help all parties heal and prayerfully reunite. I’m not saying that this young lady isn’t just making excuses but that does not mean she isn’t hurting.
In all actuality when I hear her talk it sounds like therapy talk. You learn to repeat what you’ve learned in therapy because it empowers you. They’ve finally helped you learn how to express what you need from ppl.
I could be dead wrong about my outlook on everything I just wrote but again because of where I’ve been I will keep this baby and her family in prayer.
I’ve always said ppl don’t realize that some ppl go through some unimaginable things in life and guess what they themselves block it out. So sometimes when you hear their story you are getting the pg13 version because the xrated part is buried because of shame. Let’s just be kind to each other and just say thank God that’s not me. ❣️
@@Kee2life Im so sorry but I don't care . As someone who was abandoned as a child , I know for a fact that , if someone is showing love like the siblings are doing , then that is enough . A tiny bit of attention from anyone , is enough . She doesn't want help , she just wants to be a WHXRE on the stairwell and make excuses for it . I think you as adult should quit encouraging kids to be this way !! You're half of the reason we have generations of stupid people !!
@@user-yl1lb2st6zf you’ve been in her situation then you should understand how lost she is instead of bigging yourself up in these comments for an applause. Otherwise, you probably didn’t experience it to the degree she did hence the difference in outcomes. Maybe you had more of a guardian step in or maybe you did have better morality. Either way, your morality shows right now with the comparisons and lack of empathy & understanding for this young lost teen.
She is what we need more of. As in she is very intelligent and not afraid to tell her story as it is. It's so sad that so many like don't get the help they desperately need and are asking for
What a beautiful child!!! CHILD is the key. She's trying to raise herself apparently. She does need guidance, acceptance, patience, and love.
I felt this. She messed up and owned up to it but nobody tried to really help her. This spoke volumes
I’m 25 and felt the same way at her age and still struggle to this day because of it. I’m glad she’s so outspoken about it and holds her truth so strong she’s resilient
Same. Exactly the same.
Same here!!!
Yes preach girl.. this is where we go wrong .. parents want to be friends with they kids , instead of discipline them from right from wrong and understand what they kids are going through. Real parents please stand up!!
I remember being a teenager and she’s absolutely right, we all did shit back then we’re not proud of, a lot of adults like to lie about their past experiences and they’d rather forget the unsavory memories they have and pretend they’re perfect
For a 16 year old, she’s very mature and can articulate herself well. She’s right, where are her parents when she needs them? She needs guidance, especially as a teenager. Someone needs to take a stand and help this girl out.
If her sibling is taking the time to help her then she should be grateful. Some of us dont have any support system. If she is acting a fool, and gets called out by a sibling, its love, not hate.
@@NoneofyourbeeswaxInc But even still she doesn’t need to feel like everyone is ganging up on her, she’s still a child regardless of her age. She needs proper guidance and not someone yelling in her face all the time or ignoring her needs.
@@ChelseyIsATotal5SOSFan it's better to have a loved one yell at her than no one there for her at all.
@@NoneofyourbeeswaxIncyelling is not helpful. At all.
@rnbsteenstar you'd prefer to be alone than have a loved one yell at you for your inadequacies? Something someone needs to tell you because as humans we are flawed and have areas to improve? You really thinking being yelled at is worse than being alone in the world?
when a child cries out for help and still nothing is being done, whilst their pleas are unheard…
That’s heartbreaking 💔
Yeah, this clip sounds like her past indiscretions were cries for help, and she clearly needs and misses her parents. Siblings placed in the parent role do love their siblings, but they need guidance as well, sometimes because they are going through their own thing grieving the loss of their parents as if their younger siblings have no feelings. I'm glad to hear this child is able to articulate her feelings to the point that she's definitely going to get the help she needs. Her siblings as well.
God Bless them 🙏 at this time they need each other to lean on.
I was that child since like 10 lots of us had to take care of ourselves.
as a 16 year old I 100% see where she's coming from.
she's 100% right too, she can own up to her actions and explain WHY she did them. she's aware on what the issue is and she is voicing it. mad respect bruh, i went through the same thing. Ive sent photos not engage in sexual activity but they were for the SAME exact reasons. even if not every teenager with parental issues or issues in general doesn't cope sexually (because it was wrong for her to just blurt out her doing what she did on the stairs) A LOT of us teenagers now are suffering from parents who don't know how to guide us or any guardian over us. then WE get blamed for it all and called names and shamed but NOBODY understands why we may act out the way we do and try to break down the situations and HELP us WE'RE KIDS WHO ARE LOST AND WE DEPEND ON ADULTS BECAUSE WE EXPECT THEM TO KNOW WHAT TO DO. I give my parents empathy because they are still human too and had a corrupt childhood as well but it's time for adults now to open their eyes. if teens NOW can comprehend things like this adults now should have the same common sense.
I see a wise soul in this girl. She will find her way and use the light in her to guide others.
She has a moral compass sometimes you don’t need parents
Yes she think ducking undetqr stair is okey because some
How her mom didn’t said to no fuck under stairwell 😊
The best reply I've seen so far ...most people don't have parents too does that makes them act anyhow??? Some that have doesn't still act right. Imbedded morals matters alot
"sometimes you dont need parents"??? then who tf gon guide you???
People don't start off having a moral compass
@@quipo.0166 they ain’t guide her though so she’s a example of sometimes you don’t need parents
She’s aware of her mistakes and that speaks volumes given her age most adult cant even do that. I hope she gets the love help and guidance she deserves and desires! We need more parents to step up to the plate and break the cycle!
she should be grateful for any help from wherever she can get it...
If her sister cares for her she should absolutely listen to them..
Keep that attitude in check young girl...
Well, she seems to have been working on herself- trying to undherself. That is a great quality because it shows that she wants to grow and learn from her mistakes.
Smart, well calculated and calm people will always find a way to shut wrong people down. She knows she’s right.
When I was 16 good lord I was awful😂😂 luckily I had a condo and not a stairwell. I" ran away " to 1 of my parents property in the city. Certain kids have to go through it.
No she can't be 100% right. She needs help, guidance and support. If she has a sensible sibling she should let them into her life. However if they are not reasonable enough then she needs foster hood
Once she said she didn’t have parents I understood. Hope she gets the guidance she needs cos she seems so intelligent due to the fact she’s aware of her mistakes.
I hurt i feel her pain. She's young ,she's a beautiful young lady she needs help and guidance. Lord plz. Give her what she needs lord. Lord you said you'd be a mother for the motherless. Love u❤❤❤
Damn. I’m 37 she just made me realize some shit. 😢❤❤
She is a Disruptor in the best way! She is smart, articulate, insightful. With guidance and appropriate love that has boundaries home girl will be just fine. Disrupters are often misunderstood but often innovators, entrepreneurs, and creatives. Praying for her healing ❤
Articulate, no.
Well she has to want to get off the bullshit and quit using her parents as her go to get out of jail free card
Reading your comment I cried 😢I was a disrupter and definitely all of the above mentioned ❤
@@marimarielove Shes 16. Not having parents is a HUGE shift in emotional and physical progress. A sister could never fully replace a parent. You also have to acknowledge that with that trauma shes probably has some underlining mental issues. Which could vary from ODD or Bpd etc.
@@AkireMaru do you know what articulate means ? I think you just wanted to be negative :)
That was so uncalled for… when all you really look for at that age is love. With proper guidance and discipline, she never had to be that girl described.. but I’m sure they all see it and that’s why they continue to bring it up and throw it back at her. Such a beautiful and well spoken young lady with tremendous potential. My heart goes out to her.
This young lady is more aware and mature than the older ones. They're just providing for her.... Not guiding her.
This little girl speaking all truth nothing but the truth the adults in her life failed and they way she articulated herself hopefully they understand!
i felt this so hard. all we needed was someone to step up, so eventually we became that person for ourselves
Yeah thats some true shit. Become your own person you rely on cause all the adults seem to have forgotten or don't care.
She needed her "Mother and Father" I loved how she said that
❤❤❤❤❤She needs help, understanding and LOVE as a matter❤of urgency❤❤Please embrace, hug and cuddle her and don't judge her for her past which were misguided and obvious mistakes!!!
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I really felt this parents be so quick to judge when kids do things out of their norm when whole time you need to figure out why she feels she needs to do that whether it’s an acceptance thing or something with in
Seeing how her mom is reacting shows why she is so well spoken and mature
Poor child. A little motherly love
Trust me the mother would react worse than the siblings...
@@kataikeevastella9686 except her parents abandoned them so
@@kataikeevastella9686if she had a mother, she wouldn’t be where she is now.
No lies told. She found out at a young age. I’m so proud of her ❤
I hear what’s she’s saying. I didn’t know how to act as a kid, and I knew I wasn’t acting properly, but I needed guidance of some type. I couldn’t figure it out on my own, and I kept making the same mistakes over and over again. Wasn’t until I was grown and moved out that I figured my shit out. I feel for her.
She’s going to be a great mother 💯
A sibling cant replace a parent. Your parents had decades of success and failures. Your siblings has only one or a couple of decades on you. They can only be there for you so much.
Sometimes. My brother raised me. He is the best dad a person can ask for. He wasn’t perfect and didn’t expect me to be. He only asked that I owned up to my mistakes and he did the same. He did what he could and he is only 7 1/2 years older than me.
she's aware of self, her past, her mistakes and why she reacted in those manners.. very mature, very wise
I hear her , some children go through life without guidance learning as they go ,instead of as she saying not getting help
She's rebeling because she doesn't know struggles come with life. She's a beautiful young lady who is apparently smart. She needs hugs and heart to heart and, of course, counseling. I'm praying for our youth 😢❤
This hit home!! I don’t need a sibling or friend I need a parent who is willing to guide me through life!! I didn’t ask to be here so why bring me here than abandon me in more ways than 1?
Wait but when she might tell you you can’t go out would you listen or would you go out ?
Cause that guiding when she as for asexual change and want to be a son of you tel her nah yiy just going to a face is that no guiding ? So why is that wrong but now you want guidance ?
@@22625223 read what you wrote and please tell me what tf your talking about ???
@@She_So_Sukafree they are saying that since she was taken in by her sister. The sister herself was young and the girl wouldn't even listen to her sister even if the sister tried to guide her because in her mind she needed a parent to guide her not her sister. The sister took her in and she decided to have sex on the stairs in her sister's home. The sister was probably mad about it, but the girl didn't want to stop because "other teenagers are doing it". She didn't want to be told off by her sister because she only saw her sister as her sister not her parent.
@@nanaabaafriyie2453 what she said and her feelings are still valid and so are mines. Regardless of their situation dynamics it hit home for me.
Wow for her to articulate her hurt like that almost made me cry. Baby I hope you get that help and all the adults around you help you get it. I wish I could go back at your age now and be able to articulate my hurt with those exact words 😢May GOD continue to Bless you❤
It’s very hard to communicate effectively at that age and I noticed immediately how good she is at detailing what she is feeling without it coming off as overly aggressive or accusatory. She’s simply conveying her experience of what’s shes gone through and how she feels the people around her failed to do what she felt could have helped. I’m 24 and still working on communicating so effectively
Standing for herself and that's the truth. ❤❤❤❤❤
I really felt this on a deep level. I was abandoned by both my parents due to their alcoholism, narcotics abuse, and past lives. There have been so many days I cried out just wishing either of them could be there for me, to help me learn how to survive in this world. I really feel for this girl.. and I hope she gets all the love and help she needs. 💜
Young lady hit nail on the head. There’s still hope for our kids future 😊
Realizing theres nobody here to save us but ourselves is a painful road to go down. Salute to her for being so aware and speaking on it at such a young age, instead of acting out.
Your blessed to have siblings, a lot of people don't have that. A lot of people don't have parents. Don't say you don't have anybody when you have siblings right there in front of you.
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Some might see it as a curse not a blessing and parent and a siblings are completely different she knows what she wants and need and thats her parents and shes not wrong for wanting them every child does
That’s it!!! She spoke the truth on that one 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯💯💯
Well spoken and smart. She just need a whole lot of love, guidance and attention. Her inner child is seriously crying for HELP!
I understand she hurt, but she must understand her siblings can't force her parents to be in her life, but THEY are there and fighting for her and doing the best they can because they love her.
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That’s what she need to understand and she need someone to break that down for her. Right now she can’t see through her pain. I hope she get help with that soon before she damage herself more and then have too many regrets
How is exploiting her on a tv show helping??
I think you misunderstood her point. She was saying she had no one to help or guide her like her parents should. Yes, her siblings are taking care of her financially and what not, but as she said, she isn't getting the help she needs emotionally and mentally. Not to mention, bringing her on this show isn't helping her AT ALL!
@@littlefoxx333 this
No child of 16 yrs should have emotional issues like this. Her actio s are a consequence of her emotional neglect. Its not the same for everybody, but it doesn't make her needs any less.
I hope your doing good ❤
I feel her to some extent but also appreciating the presence of guidance in your life is important especially when you don't have a choice bcs facts... that sibling didn't make a choice to be the voice of a parent.If its good guidance,,take it! The source is really not a choice sometimes so if you wait for it to come from absent parents then it's a double loss
We need more people her age who realize what she has found out. She doesn’t need a sibling, she needs a parent to guide and I would add:CORRECTLY.
She expresses herself very well.
She needs to know about accountability. They need to get her professional counseling so she doesn't become another satistic. Sister, do your best. Blessings
This what am talking about here Exacly yes am sure they are present because if not she wouldn’t have not have that kind of vocabulary
She obviously recognizes her wrongs. And trust is earned not just given like an attendance award. Many people don't have anyone to guide them but have not done what she has. Yes she needs help but she also needs to take accountability and stop using her lacks as a crutch. The problem with the millennial. They want to be hand held. Unless you a twin doing Nd learning things on your own is not an option it is life.
@@jamellwilson4328 I feel like she did take accountability. She knows what she did was wrong. No one wants to be hand held. We just want the people who are supposed to guide us to actually do that. The only people not taking accountability are her parents or guardians. It's clear to me that they are the ones not doing something right. Yes she's very well educated. But parenting is about more than just putting your kids in the best schools. There needs to be love and encouragement and it doesn't appear that she has any of that.
@@jalynharrison1947 I agree but obviously the parents haven't stepped up. She is obviously older than 16 and now living with siblings that are trying to help and guide her. She is demanding her parents step up and be there, but there lies the childishness entitlement, for they haven't thus far what miracle has occurred that makes you think rhat will change. But yet you have family/siblings that are their for you. Instead of thanking God for the little blessing and proving yourself competent and able to those that are there willing to help you...She prefers to bitch and moan. Sadly I am from the generation of you get lemons you make lemonade, so the help me, do for me generation I find to come off as entitled....🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@@jamellwilson4328 it’s so disgusting to see how apathetic people in humanity have become… seriously. Bitch and Moan ? The girl is 16! 16 is a damn child. The prefrontal cortex isn’t fully developed until the late 20s. She’s crying out for mental and spiritual help and here y’all are in the comments being nasty that’s why nobody asks for help now. She’s misguided, and uneducated about the true value of herself and her body. Children and teenagers truly need parents to instill morals, values, love & lessons. She’s right she needs authoritative figures and good examples to show her how a young woman should carry herself thorough life. That’s why so many young girls go through life giving their body away seeking love and validation. She needs people to speak life into her and not tear her down . Convict but not Condemn. You’re not a female so you don’t understand our complex and why we equate sex to love. This baby is gonna be just fine she’s 16 and she sees what she’s doing is not right and she’s asking for help. There are women in their 30s and 40s still stuck in this same cycle.
Yet she has someone because she could have no one. 💯🙏🏾
No one needs a person who blasts their mistakes to the world for judgement 💔
This girl smarter than 99.9% of adults.
No she's not!
I don’t think having sex on the stairwell is smart
She is she is acknowledging the way that she is at 16 and a lot of people who are 30 plus can't even do that
I admire this teenager. She's wise and expressive. She has tremendous self-awareness and knows what she needs. Her parents needed to step up and do their damn job; it's not supposed to be the sibling's job. Some of these parents are so damn irresponsible. They have too many children and leave too much of the burden onto the oldest child. Not fair.
Having children can be so selfish imo 😭 especially for emotionally immature parents. Ever ask the kids if they wanna survive you? 😂❤😭✌🏾 ughhh
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She is obviously mature enough to reflect and analyze her past decisions and reasons. Then she is capable of growing up and moving forward! Don't be a victim be victorious
You hurt but honey you have a sister that loves you and she is struggling! 😢
You are grieving but you need to get a grip on it before you lose YOU! You are a beautiful girl. May God bless you my dear with the answers and love you looking for
She’s a good person you can see and feel that. She’s right for asking for help sooner than later rather than ignoring herself too and letting it get out of hand. I just wish I could give her a hug. Can’t wait to be able to adopt kids like this and teach them what life is really about
I know how she feels man, it hurts even more when your parents are there and still don’t guide you
Exactly
Amen to this. There but NOT!
The parents probably don't know how to bring up kids because they struggled too
@@designshop7264 very well understood, it helps ease the pain understanding it, and there is still damage done and it’ll never take away from the fact that the kids still had to learn without their oarents
I'm 23,I just realized how emotionally unavailable my parents was