Enough already!! Cut it out, will you? There's no such a thing as "emotional intelligence" or "almond milk" or "white chocolate" or "trade deficit"... We no longer know what universities are teaching. We got people all over the place calling themselves "scholars" or "experts" who publish and write in academic journals and sit in scholarly or academic seats; they give speeches, they head departments… And you know that what they’re saying is COMPLETELY FALSE. THE TRIUNE BRAIN THEORY AND NEUROLOGY COMPLETELY DEMOLISHES THE CONCEPT "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"...
Emotional inteligence should be taught in schools. Starting to learn these sort of things in adulthood or in your professional career through "soft skills" workshop is NOT enough. We should all know how to deal with our own emotions and how to respectfully communicate with others. It's a skill to be learned and our children need to learn it now.
Yeah it's good to have subject like emotional intelligence in school but at the same time these are the things that cannot be learnt theoretically or it should have to more of practical.
Paul the warrior Also no one can lie to your face and not be "sniffed" out. What does that say for 62 million Americans who voted for the lying orange clown faking it?
@@normadeluna3349 the first step is self awareness. We need to understand our feelings, emotions and over all personality and conduct a SWOT analysis first
emotional intelligence refers to how well we handle ourselves & our relationships: the four domains; self awareness, self management, empathy, putting that all together in a skilled relationship
SMART START: ANSWERS 1. Recognize your EMOTIONS. 2. MANAGE your emotions. 3. Motivate self to ACHIEVE GOALS. 4. Recognize emotions in OTHERS. 5. Manage your RELATIONSHIPS. The video our teacher chose didnt have the answers at all 😅
Self-awareness is key!!! Ask yourself, "What's my current emotional state?" Most people struggle to answer this question even with conscious effort. That being the case, those living their day on autopilot (unconscious) will be nearly impossible to become self-aware.
1)self-awareness 2) how we react to our distressing emotions And align our passion with our action 3) Empathy I.e. thinking about what others are feeling 4) putting them altogether....It is called emotional intelligence.
I honestly think social media has been the most destructive force for Emotional Intelligence our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to see if/how we'll adapt to it.
There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others. One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.
In this point I should oppose with you. Before that, I want to mention that the social media is not for adaptation it was created for information availability and everything in internet. Our goal should be to manage that information by being Emotional Intelligence.
@@KhachikKarakeshishyan-ny1zp It's a poor argument to say what it was intended to do in the fave of the obvious harms it *actually* does. The informational aspect of the internet does not require social media to exist to fulfill its purpose, for that matter.
I honestly think that emotional intelligence has been the most destructive force for social media our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to poo on it. 🙉💩
@@jeremyjery01I agree with this idea. Social media has created a barrier to more human direct interaction. Why do we call it social media? There aint a thing social about it if our children cant spell their names correctly without asking google or siri (Secretary of Secrets)
They say grief is the root of compassion. Once you get in touch with your emotions and understand them, you can use them to read people etc.. ADHD is also correlated with EI
I've had Daniel Goleman as my Hotmail avatar since 2004, when I was 12. I see his face every time I log into my laptop. Never knew who he was and only found by google image searching him. What a discovery. I feel like I'm meeting up with an old friend.
There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others. One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem. However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.
All of which can fall under the umbrella of General intelligence, so a separate theory is not required. Low IQ people have low impulse control, we already have a working theory for this stuff. EQ is just a cope. "Well, you might not be academically gifted, but you're emotionally gifted." is just complete nonsense. Feeling feelings is not intelligence, either.
Emotional Intelligence is one of principal method in our life and everyone has their own method in order for being individual. However we know a lot of people whose call emotional and quick to anger, so it's never too late for changing yourself by managing your emotions.
I respect him so much. He understand when to emphasize the important shit with intelligence.
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DANIEL GOLEMAN IS THE BEST! (WELL, ONE OF THEM). MY ETERNAL ADMIRATION AND GRATITUDE. I'VE LEARNED A LOT FROM YOU THROUGH YOUR BOOKS FOR BALANCING, INCREMENTING MY EI AS WELL AS MY STUDENTS'!
Thank you so much Prof. Daniel. Now says, I we see many people esp young people lacking basic social skills, they need to learn " emotional intelligence".
I think a lot of cultures have a misleading perspective about emotional intelligence. for example, in my region in china, people associate emotional intelligence with not being authentic, and always focusing on social skills. I think it's dead wrong. just as daniel mentioned in his talks, great leaders have both inner awareness and outer awareness that make them drive high performance in teams.
Managing distressing emotions… but it’s sounds very much like “don’t ever have huge outbursts”. Just to confide in some definition. But feeling and expressing feelings expressively is what makes us humans, but yes, let’s all be ashamed of certain public emotions. If you listened carefully that’s essentially a nutshell.
I am watching because i have lake of confidence I can't even talk to others While I talk I cant make eye contact After few second my face colour changed into red My eyes filled with water And I can't even tell it to someone
Great stuff! My emotional intelligence has improved significantly since applying myself and understanding that I NEED to do it! Put the work in! It pays dividends!
Hi Daniel I began your book this day. And despite not having read too far, I concur. Problem? The folk who need to learn from your book will rarely read (if indeed they can read!) Oh incidentally I am a mere 15 months younger than you. I do not mean to detract from your wise words however as a bloke (I an Aussie living in Thailand) who did not complete secondary school, I support your words. I revert to my second sentence. Cheers, with respect from this fella whose nickname is Grumpy.
If you've ever interacted with someone from Brazil and compared those with someone from East Asia. There is a huge difference in emotional intelligence that one can so easily sense in a conversation. A person from Brazil will be so much receptive and cognizant of other's feelings in a conversation and at the same time is so much better at verbalizing their own emotions.
I discovered my EQ is a 135 after doing an extensive 1 hour test. Im blown away. And my IQ is 130 plus. I am blown away. Do you have any tests? By the way I am 56 and a half, so I contribute the number from my street smarts and experience. Plus, I am an Empath, so my social and self awarness and management is near perfect. I am glad that I did these tests during covid. I even outscored Dr, Phil once, 160 EQ. Good to know where I stand worldwide. I just thought I was me. I was a singer and drummer in a band, mental health care worker and Mom. Im glad I know how important it I s to just read anyone. I think, it can be a negative thing too. I feel things that aren't always good. Good to know
Two issues regarding leaders that fail to be addressed - 1) a lack of necessary technical skills to operate independently and successfully in their field, and 2) the lack the ability to think or argue rationally - this is an issue that I think will continue to be problematic, especially since these are not really considered ...
Interesting how society has rediscovered this concept. I would suggest this is a natural corrective reaction to the PC trend that tends to negate individual responsibility for what they do with their emotions and places it on everyone around them - the "I'm sad and its your fault, so fix me" attitude. Focus on emotional inteligence allows critique of individual reactions born of emotional impulse. Hopefully it will give acceptance to the notion of individual responsibility in pulling ones self out of a sense of victimhood, but without destroying the concept of justice needed for social order.
The 11% increase in academic scores got me listening. It stands out tremendously, and I want to know more about that. It's not about buying or not buying. It's about true or not true.
EI is an attempt to encompass the values we follow , in terms of our culture, intuitions, intentions and discipline to confirm how capable we are to control ourselves and then the other's issues come
I think people like to believe they're more emotionally intelligent. I think they're more emotionally aware. Being aware is only part of the process. You have to be aware, be willing to take in as much information as you can in the time allotted in the specific situation. Knowledge is key. You're less likely to react emotionally out of sorts if you have knowledge and understanding of something. We fear less that which we are aware of and have some understanding of. The unknown is man's biggest fear.
i firmly believe it is a skill still not widely taught in schools but should, many teachers themselves are lacking emotional intelligence so how could they teach the students? great intro video on emotional intelligence :)
emotional intelligence is difficult to put up with; we are always caught up decent, showing our bubble. Empathy is what we lack; we always assume the sky is falling discrimantly on us...we don't want to know what others go through
Daniel Goleman Introduces Emotional Intelligence | Big Think 1. What is emotional intelligence? 2. Are we becoming mora emotionally intelligent? 3. Are woman more emotionally intelligent than men? 4. What cultures have the highest emotional intelligence?
This is an AWESOME video Emotional Intelligence! Emotional Intelligence is the first of the eight Principles we teach! Thanks for making such a wonderful video!
I agree we should be ble to measure EQ in different cultures. religion, cultural limitations like a gendere segregated societies surely will impact, for example, a person's ability to exercise great listening skills or empathy. Also, surely in autocratic societies or countries it would be compounded by authoritative leadership and even dictatorships?
Everyone can improve their lives, but we see that our society divides children on the basis of ability instead of helping them to move forward in life.And those children who for some reason are left behind in the field of life are treated as scrubby thing
Change ourselves within and we see the change without. Our physical body need proper diet, exercise and rest; so is our inner-self, the spirit soul (symptom of life) is in need of special nourishment and attention to bring about peace and harmony within and without. The supreme natural law of action and reaction, cause and effect. As Bob Dylan, the great poet, and nobel prize recipient 2016 sings - the answer is 'Blowing in the wind". " Every Grain of sand", It's A Hard Rain gonna fall", "Gonna change my way of thinking". "Do you hear what I hear? Do you know what I Know".....May we all learn to be more compassionate and less selfish beings to shape the world we want to see.
very interesting topic. The military when training senior NCOs, Officers, help them in their war time Peace time missions. Solid presentation and well appreciated!!
When something stands for something it means nothing. Prefrontal cortex. Meta-analysis. Goleman has never once conducted a research article in his life. He uses terms without really understanding their meaning. Science constantly disproves his claims about the magnitude of EI's importance, especially b/c he defines it so broadly it means virtually any good quality beyond cognitive ability. Of course it make sense to be 'well-adjusted' or 'use emotions wisely.'
I love all humans. And i always say good stuff. In school i never knew how to approach my classmates (not friends - a friend is for life). And they did not know how to approach me or did not want to So even in 1995 i came second to class but was more into story books
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Good morning
I'm gonna jump at that.
Enough already!! Cut it out, will you? There's no such a thing as "emotional intelligence" or "almond milk" or "white chocolate" or "trade deficit"...
We no longer know what universities are teaching.
We got people all over the place calling themselves "scholars" or "experts" who publish and write in academic journals and sit in scholarly or academic seats; they give speeches, they head departments… And you know that what they’re saying is COMPLETELY FALSE.
THE TRIUNE BRAIN THEORY AND NEUROLOGY COMPLETELY DEMOLISHES THE CONCEPT "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE"...
"Emotional intelligence" is like "almond milk" or "white chocolate": IT DOESN'T EXIST.
real smart or "emotionally" smart
Emotional inteligence should be taught in schools. Starting to learn these sort of things in adulthood or in your professional career through "soft skills" workshop is NOT enough. We should all know how to deal with our own emotions and how to respectfully communicate with others. It's a skill to be learned and our children need to learn it now.
as small a skill as taking a conscious breath before doing anything helps enormously!
Yeah it's good to have subject like emotional intelligence in school but at the same time these are the things that cannot be learnt theoretically or it should have to more of practical.
they teach it at mine. exceptionally irritating pseudoscience
@@ben_alfred Yours is the only sane comment here!
@@ben_alfred it's not pseudoscience. Share one argument for your opinion.
Honestly once you become emotionaly intelligent nothing or no one can shake your happiness no matter what they say
+secret person Yes, I think the bad stuff is there to teach us lessons. That's the only way we grow.
Paul the warrior
Also no one can lie to your face and not be "sniffed" out. What does that say for 62 million Americans who voted for the lying orange clown faking it?
Paul the warrior AGREED! That’s why it’s our first Principle at LYFE CAST for that very reason!
Paul the warrior I want to practice emotional intelligence. I want to have peace.
@@normadeluna3349 the first step is self awareness. We need to understand our feelings, emotions and over all personality and conduct a SWOT analysis first
emotional intelligence refers to how well we handle ourselves & our relationships: the four domains; self awareness, self management, empathy, putting that all together in a skilled relationship
you an idiot being clever is more important than being a little sis do you think wars are won by being EMOTIONAL?????
sharafat hussain u literally copied this from the video
@@royward410 emotional intelligence is crucial for great success it often brings greater health and success than IQ
@@royward410 IF YOU ARE EMOTIONALLY ENTELLIGENT , YOU CAN EVEN AVOID WARS
poggers helped with my college hwk chad
Many people lost their position,job,promotion,because of not controlling their emotion and fell prey to their enemies.Balakrishnan
True
I am one of them,
Well said!!
True,I am a victim of that
Good morning .
I do agree with your opinion.
SMART START: ANSWERS
1. Recognize your EMOTIONS.
2. MANAGE your emotions.
3. Motivate self to ACHIEVE GOALS.
4. Recognize emotions in OTHERS.
5. Manage your RELATIONSHIPS.
The video our teacher chose didnt have the answers at all 😅
Camarito Cyborg omg please help me with this for school!!
who's watcting this for class
me :/
yep for snhu
right here brother lol
me
Let me get them notes
I believe EQ is what makes true leaders as opposed to only managers.
Empathy?
@@Kurio71 emotional intelligence.
Self-awareness is key!!! Ask yourself, "What's my current emotional state?" Most people struggle to answer this question even with conscious effort. That being the case, those living their day on autopilot (unconscious) will be nearly impossible to become self-aware.
What’s the solution to that?
1)self-awareness
2) how we react to our distressing emotions
And align our passion with our action
3) Empathy I.e. thinking about what others are feeling
4) putting them altogether....It is called emotional intelligence.
I honestly think social media has been the most destructive force for Emotional Intelligence our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to see if/how we'll adapt to it.
There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others.
One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.
However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.
In this point I should oppose with you. Before that, I want to mention that the social media is not for adaptation it was created for information availability and everything in internet. Our goal should be to manage that information by being Emotional Intelligence.
@@KhachikKarakeshishyan-ny1zp
It's a poor argument to say what it was intended to do in the fave of the obvious harms it *actually* does. The informational aspect of the internet does not require social media to exist to fulfill its purpose, for that matter.
I honestly think that emotional intelligence has been the most destructive force for social media our species has faced so far. I'm quite curious to poo on it. 🙉💩
@@jeremyjery01I agree with this idea. Social media has created a barrier to more human direct interaction. Why do we call it social media? There aint a thing social about it if our children cant spell their names correctly without asking google or siri (Secretary of Secrets)
I am a paid member of Big Think Edge, and I must say it has changed my life.
Thanks a lot to the entire team.
They say grief is the root of compassion. Once you get in touch with your emotions and understand them, you can use them to read people etc.. ADHD is also correlated with EI
Tell me more about how it relates with adhd ..please
@@dudutv4769 2 schools of thought. nature and nurture...if your brain is only 50% the surrounding is 100%...the result is 75% no regret.
@@dudutv4769people with ADHD tend to be emotionally sensitive, especially when it comes to rejection
the book is really precious...it affects my own life in a positive way
I've had Daniel Goleman as my Hotmail avatar since 2004, when I was 12. I see his face every time I log into my laptop. Never knew who he was and only found by google image searching him. What a discovery. I feel like I'm meeting up with an old friend.
There is evidence to suggest that excessive use of social media may have negative effects on emotional intelligence. Social media can lead to increased feelings of loneliness, anxiety, and depression, and can also contribute to a reduced ability to empathize with others.
One reason for this may be that social media platforms encourage users to present a curated version of themselves, leading to a lack of authenticity and empathy in interactions. Additionally, social media can create a sense of FOMO (fear of missing out) and social comparison, leading to feelings of inadequacy and low self-esteem.
However, it's important to note that social media can also provide opportunities for connection, community-building, and learning, depending on how they are used. It's all about finding a healthy balance and being intentional with our social media use.
The talk makes a lot of sense and makes the understanding of the subject more complete
IQ is definitely only one aspect of intelligence. EQ is not something that is naturally taught in school, but extremely important.
Emotional intelligence: self-awarness, self-management, empathy, social relationships.
All of which can fall under the umbrella of General intelligence, so a separate theory is not required. Low IQ people have low impulse control, we already have a working theory for this stuff. EQ is just a cope.
"Well, you might not be academically gifted, but you're emotionally gifted." is just complete nonsense. Feeling feelings is not intelligence, either.
@@infini_ryu9461
Spotted the guy with low EQ. =P
@@AlbinosaurusR3X I would be offended if EQ meant anything. It doesn't.
@@infini_ryu9461
It wasn't meant to offend. Was simply a joke. =)
Emotional Intelligence is one of principal method in our life and everyone has their own method in order for being individual. However we know a lot of people whose call emotional and quick to anger, so it's never too late for changing yourself by managing your emotions.
Self awareness
Self management
Empathy
Putting it all together
My business tutor showed me this today, im doing a diploma and emotional intelligence is the key to success.
I think this is not taught nearly enough in our educational systems. It is a huge problem.
agreed
Emotional Intelligence is most important! I agree
I love your pfp
I respect him so much. He understand when to emphasize the important shit with intelligence.
DANIEL GOLEMAN IS THE BEST! (WELL, ONE OF THEM). MY ETERNAL ADMIRATION AND GRATITUDE. I'VE LEARNED A LOT FROM YOU THROUGH YOUR BOOKS FOR BALANCING, INCREMENTING MY EI AS WELL AS MY STUDENTS'!
He's a good speaker. I like the way he simply broke this down
Best book I read during my undergrad studies. Thank you, Mr. Daniel!😉
Thank you so much Prof. Daniel. Now says, I we see many people esp young people lacking basic social skills, they need to learn " emotional intelligence".
Wow! Daniel Goleman has EQ expertise and I genuinely was soaking up every word. I absorbed and highly enjoyed this educational snippet. Thanks!
I'm in. We need more training on Emotional Intelligence.
Have a look at this th-cam.com/video/7DbAe9T9Flk/w-d-xo.html
I often wonder why we don’t teach Emotional Intelligence to kids at school. At least not intentionally.
Simple words to understand yet very powerful knowledge about human emotions. Thank you for the video
Truth be told, I'm only watching this to pass my finals since I don't copy notes. The joys of college....
same here po.
Same here haha.
Same ...
Lianza D. I
same here but they are really helpful in life as well.
I think a lot of cultures have a misleading perspective about emotional intelligence. for example, in my region in china, people associate emotional intelligence with not being authentic, and always focusing on social skills. I think it's dead wrong. just as daniel mentioned in his talks, great leaders have both inner awareness and outer awareness that make them drive high performance in teams.
Mr. Daniel you are a genius.
Managing distressing emotions… but it’s sounds very much like “don’t ever have huge outbursts”. Just to confide in some definition. But feeling and expressing feelings expressively is what makes us humans, but yes, let’s all be ashamed of certain public emotions. If you listened carefully that’s essentially a nutshell.
The idea that EQ can be learned is so encouraging.
Okay, you're the new Einstein, no doubt anche it.
You saved my life years ago, but only now I can really understand why.
To every culture emotional intelligence can be learned with practice, but in saying that some are not very open and flexible
I would love to see how this could apply to our teens in high school, to promote better image positivity.
I am watching because i have lake of confidence I can't even talk to others
While I talk I cant make eye contact
After few second my face colour changed into red
My eyes filled with water
And I can't even tell it to someone
Great stuff! My emotional intelligence has improved significantly since applying myself and understanding that I NEED to do it! Put the work in! It pays dividends!
Im using your Theory of Emotional Intelligence as the main model for my theses in my MPhil.
Hi Daniel I began your book this day. And despite not having read too far, I concur. Problem? The folk who need to learn from your book will rarely read (if indeed they can read!) Oh incidentally I am a mere 15 months younger than you. I do not mean to detract from your wise words however as a bloke (I an Aussie living in Thailand) who did not complete secondary school, I support your words. I revert to my second sentence. Cheers, with respect from this fella whose nickname is Grumpy.
If you've ever interacted with someone from Brazil and compared those with someone from East Asia. There is a huge difference in emotional intelligence that one can so easily sense in a conversation. A person from Brazil will be so much receptive and cognizant of other's feelings in a conversation and at the same time is so much better at verbalizing their own emotions.
I'm reading this book now and it's a real eye opener.
What's the name of the book
I discovered my EQ is a 135 after doing an extensive 1 hour test. Im blown away. And my IQ is 130 plus. I am blown away. Do you have any tests?
By the way I am 56 and a half, so I contribute the number from my street smarts and experience. Plus, I am an Empath, so my social and self awarness and management is near perfect. I am glad that I did these tests during covid. I even outscored Dr, Phil once, 160 EQ. Good to know where I stand worldwide. I just thought I was me. I was a singer and drummer in a band, mental health care worker and Mom. Im glad I know how important it I s to just read anyone. I think, it can be a negative thing too. I feel things that aren't always good. Good to know
Working on this myself, never too late if the Millenniums “ get it”. ❤️
Two issues regarding leaders that fail to be addressed - 1) a lack of necessary technical skills to operate independently and successfully in their field, and 2) the lack the ability to think or argue rationally - this is an issue that I think will continue to be problematic, especially since these are not really considered ...
I think a practical model should be introduced in every school and organization curriculum.
Love how he juked that question about cultures via cultural relativism, smooth move dodging the bait, well played
Interesting how society has rediscovered this concept. I would suggest this is a natural corrective reaction to the PC trend that tends to negate individual responsibility for what they do with their emotions and places it on everyone around them - the "I'm sad and its your fault, so fix me" attitude. Focus on emotional inteligence allows critique of individual reactions born of emotional impulse. Hopefully it will give acceptance to the notion of individual responsibility in pulling ones self out of a sense of victimhood, but without destroying the concept of justice needed for social order.
Handling own and customers emotion is the key to success in customer care
True. Sales is like this too.
good luck on your assignment everyone 🙏
The 11% increase in academic scores got me listening. It stands out tremendously, and I want to know more about that. It's not about buying or not buying. It's about true or not true.
All this sounds good as long as we respect those who have different EI than us
EI is an attempt to encompass the values we follow , in terms of our culture, intuitions, intentions and discipline to confirm how capable we are to control ourselves and then the other's issues come
To became awarded of your own emotions and pick up more emotions in your surroundings
Doing research on emotional intelligence. Thanks for this video
Go get his book! 11/10 recommended!
Thinking back on my upbringing and it shaped my emotional intelligence being challenged mentally by my Mum
I think people like to believe they're more emotionally intelligent. I think they're more emotionally aware. Being aware is only part of the process. You have to be aware, be willing to take in as much information as you can in the time allotted in the specific situation. Knowledge is key. You're less likely to react emotionally out of sorts if you have knowledge and understanding of something. We fear less that which we are aware of and have some understanding of. The unknown is man's biggest fear.
This says a lot about the schools I went to
Thank you very much for such simple explanations!
i firmly believe it is a skill still not widely taught in schools but should, many teachers themselves are lacking emotional intelligence so how could they teach the students? great intro video on emotional intelligence :)
Well, to me "emotional intelligence" is like "almond milk" or "white chocolate": IT SIMPLY DOESN'T EXIST.
I read many positive think like book but emotional intillegince very relibale and practical.
Thank you for good read!... difficult to find browsing shelfs things that speak to you... very clearly winner.
Wow these was very helpful and understanding on my module that I'm busy with it thanks
Self awareness
Self management
Empathy
Skilled relationship
I could listen to him talk for much longer :D
emotional intelligence is difficult to put up with; we are always caught up decent, showing our bubble. Empathy is what we lack; we always assume the sky is falling discrimantly on us...we don't want to know what others go through
I am really excited to learn more about it and become and emotionally inteligente person. I just started reading his book and I am enjoying it a lot!
Daniel Goleman Introduces Emotional Intelligence | Big Think
1. What is emotional intelligence?
2. Are we becoming mora emotionally intelligent?
3. Are woman more emotionally intelligent than men?
4. What cultures have the highest emotional intelligence?
Im watching to better my life
Sounds more like awareness than control. Intelligence is thought but what this video describes is maturity and mind control.
This was very helpful. Crisp and clear. Thank you.
simply awesome hugs n love to u i can see an amazing and strong person in u God bless you
very interesting and so so important. Great channel.
In a nutshell, EI is the ability to understand behaviours of others and controlling own emotions.
Thank you to share your knowledge and deep feeling with us!
Heyy
For years I've said we should teach young children to self interrogate. It would eliminate hate.
This is an AWESOME video Emotional Intelligence! Emotional Intelligence is the first of the eight Principles we teach! Thanks for making such a wonderful video!
I agree we should be ble to measure EQ in different cultures. religion, cultural limitations like a gendere segregated societies surely will impact, for example, a person's ability to exercise great listening skills or empathy. Also, surely in autocratic societies or countries it would be compounded by authoritative leadership and even dictatorships?
Everyone can improve their lives, but we see that our society divides children on the basis of ability instead of helping them to move forward in life.And those children who for some reason are left behind in the field of life are treated as scrubby thing
Ive learn this skills as I stater practicing meditation.
You know a man knows what he's saying when he can give a lecture in 5.31 minutes and you understand.
Such training should start from childhood for improvement in EQ.
Muito bom a colocação das palavras ,tive que vê várias vezes para ler mais deu para entender , obrigado
Meditation books like Practical meditation and The way and goal of Rajyoga can help in similar ways, they are at 'omshantistore'.
Daniel Goleman a whole legend
2:30 LOL. I have had lots of close encounters with those entities in my job and because it. Sometimes I have won, sometimes it has been a big fail!
Best book I have ever read
very useful videos
thanx alot
Change ourselves within and we see the change without. Our physical body need proper diet, exercise and rest; so is our inner-self, the spirit soul (symptom of life) is in need of special nourishment and attention to bring about peace and harmony within and without. The supreme natural law of action and reaction, cause and effect. As Bob Dylan, the great poet, and nobel prize recipient 2016 sings - the answer is 'Blowing in the wind". " Every Grain of sand", It's A Hard Rain gonna fall", "Gonna change my way of thinking". "Do you hear what I hear? Do you know what I Know".....May we all learn to be more compassionate and less selfish beings to shape the world we want to see.
Great video!
very interesting topic. The military when training senior NCOs, Officers, help them in their war time Peace time missions. Solid presentation and well appreciated!!
When something stands for something it means nothing. Prefrontal cortex. Meta-analysis. Goleman has never once conducted a research article in his life. He uses terms without really understanding their meaning. Science constantly disproves his claims about the magnitude of EI's importance, especially b/c he defines it so broadly it means virtually any good quality beyond cognitive ability. Of course it make sense to be 'well-adjusted' or 'use emotions wisely.'
I love all humans. And i always say good stuff. In school i never knew how to approach my classmates (not friends - a friend is for life). And they did not know how to approach me or did not want to
So even in 1995 i came second to class but was more into story books
Nice explanation
Very interesting and useful analysis.