Answering Questions About Dating (BEST & WORST FIRST DATES & MORE!) | Girls React
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ส.ค. 2021
- In this video, I have a group of girls answer some questions about dating. It's always nice to get the perspective from other girls on topics like this. Everybody has different tastes, but it's interesting to see what things are unanimous across the board. Thank you all for watching and let me know in the comments what questions you would have asked!
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Any woman who would be against coffee or a drink on a first date and would prefer a full dinner is a red flag on a few levels
Courtney Ryan demands an expensive dinner on the first date.
if you want to have dinner, who cares? ask her to come along
if you want coffee, just have coffee
@@Mogamishu 😞😞😞
@@ifeelhalfnaked484 I don’t think you quite understood the subject. It’s about what the woman expects not what you are willing or wanting to do
@@pdg61met Well great, if you go around expecting too much from human beings, you’re going to wind up disappointed.
Courtney bringing out her friends on her videos is like the Avengers assembling just instead of superhero’s you got a team of super chill, non toxic women
😂👏🏼
A really wholesome video
yeah dude 11:20
You must not have seen the ones where they talk about how much money their man has to make
@@brettlarkin1992 😂
Pokemon Go story was hysterical!
It sure is, though sadly this wouldn't have been that uncommon during the Pokemon-Gomania period!
In Italy we say: "God gives bread to those who don't have teeth"... Like, if you prefer Pokémon Go to that girl... Dude!!
Pokemon Passion.....
@@tizianocolona6582 we have the same saying here in Argentina!
Now I will copy this man, it is an inspiration
The date where the girl had her friends follow her is an awful story. If the guy she was on a date with found out he was getting made fun of like that, it wouldn’t have been ok at all
He proposed it
So disrespectful of that man’s time. I once went on a date, I was like 25, girl was 20. She brought her 13 year old sister and her friends who met up with an even larger group of middle school girls. They followed us around the mall/park from a distance the whole time. Bailed early and never talked to that girl again.
Chicks have so little going on, apart from their interactions with men.
Imagine a guy asking his friends to sit around nearby to watch while he was on a date...
Their response:
"gtfoh dude, I've got sh!t to do today."
I went to play disc golf on my first date with my current girl, it was one of the best dates I ever had, and afterwards we went to a cafe and just enjoy each other’s company.
I did a disc golf date before also this past year. You're right. It's super easy and plus if they haven't played before it's fun to teach them
Nice one dude, glad it worked out well for you
Hi Courtney I just wanted to thank you for your videos, my wife and soul mate passed away and it had been 25 years since I last dated. Your videos helped me to dress, talk to women, flirt, ask her for a date, pretty much everything I took from your video’s. Now three weeks later I’m in a happy relationship, all do to your instructions, keep up the good work.
Sorry for your loss. I hope this new relationship brings you some happiness.
Sorry to hear that honey. Good luck to you
God bless you man
I freakin' LOVE Lina 🤣😄 She's so chill, and low key hilarious.
I adore her 😂
@@CourtneyRyan she's very open minded too. Love her!
I feel the same! Can't get enough of her!
the most blonde one? I love that girl
Not about dating, rather hanging out, but...
Sometimes just sitting under a tree, on riverbank, just on grass, arm to arm, is best way to spend time with person that is close one to you. Just the best way to talk about more intimate problems, not only jokes and other interesting stuff. I have just experienced it for the first time in my life. There was a cry, hard subjects to talk, but it was beautiful and relieving. And I am male.
yea its also great areas to commit murder
@@yunify2203 bleach, don't get close to me, you are scary.
@@komandorbentus2731 Chuckled hard ngl
except for the fact u got ants up ur ass after 10 minutes of sitting
I would love to see the exact questions asked towards men to compare and contrast the answers (Ok maybe not the exact as they won't apply)
This Lina girl sends that mature, down to earth and coolest vibe I have never seen. I love all her answers. She seems to be an awesome person.
A bit too PC for my liking (with all due respect). The type who doesn’t have an opinion of her own and gets away easy with ‘’I think it’s their personal preference, their body their choice etc’’
@@renaldsunset I have to admit. Lately, it's been challenging to distinguish between someone who is sincerely respectful of other's opinions and let them be whatever they want to be from the ones who are just trying to be friendly and not hurting anyone's feelings. Either way, that's fine. If you do have a strong opinion about something, that's cool too. It doesn't necessarily mean the ones that are PCs or on the fence. Sometimes they have other stuff as a deal-breaker and not an opinion about clothes or beard style.
Yes the girls are back I honestly love when you have the girls on they are really fun love the hard work and love the advice 💯
Thank you! ❤️
Good job Courtney, the only caveat is can you have a more diverse group of girls? I would like to hear the opinions of Asian, Latina, Black and Native American women. Mostly because my daughters are 20 & 18 and their friendship groups are very diverse but dating advice on TH-cam doesn't always reflect that.
@@beautifulspirit7420 no, she only has white friends,
@@beautifulspirit7420 In the name of diversity right?
@@oscarpaez123 no, not in the name of diversity. 48% of Americans born after 1996 are not white so if you are in any business or service industry you don't ignore a huge % of your target audience. I'm sure the guys viewing this reflect America too.
Courtney you are definitely a breath of fresh air rather than those divorce scarred men giving men dating advice you have sincerity and honesty in your approach I commend your work I'm glad you're doing live q&a's keep up the good work
Haha he used her as an excuse to catch rare Pokémon at the zoo! 😂
I'm soooooo pro-coffee date for the first meeting!!! Cool to see Hallee on again!
Haven't seen the video yet but I freakin' appreciate you busting out content so regularly! :)
Aw thanks for being here! Happy to do it 😊
My favorite series!!!! Love the honesty and openness
Lina is absolutely brilliant. Such a chill human being, and pretty damn insightful too. 👌🏻
She's my fav
@@25-8 Same. She is very classy. 👍🏻
@@thespuditron9387 she is a porn star LOL. She has no value as a woman and she’s been ran through more times than a subway tunnel.
Good mixture they all have there own style in life. Truly appreciate the honesty love the gym girl she’s absolutely my favorite.
I don't know how she does it, but Lina seems like a chill, fun, relaxed but also wise and understanding woman, she's the best!
I really enjoy these videos where you get input from multiple ladies on topics
These are the best videos!!! Y'all crack me up with the things (outfits, hairstyles) you dislike.
Keep up the excellent work 👍🙂💯
Y’all are so great, appreciate the insight! Have a great weekend everyone🙌
Definitely learned a lot from this one and your videos. I like what they said about working on yourself after experiences bad relationships. That's the path I'm on right now 🙏
I actually like the 'going out for coffee or tea' first idea too it's like a good icebreaker get to know a little bit about somebody and then you can decide whether you like to have an official date to see where it goes, because like you said it would be weird to go out to dinner with a complete stranger and you have no idea what to expect.
Excellent video, I love hearing their opinions! And thanks for using my question! :D
The self awareness of the girl at 17:55! Wow, thats really impressive that she has that introspection. You rarely see a woman do that these days
She’s a gem 😊
Her friends is cute
Always good to see them answering questions like this :-)
I like how CR gets excited and interrupts them talking. Hilarious.
"A hike". What a great idea. You'll be amazed what topics of conversation come up on hikes.
The first date with my wife of 22 years was shooting some pool followed by a long walk.
You are amazing .thanks for your priceless time and content ❤❤❤
❤️ happy to do it!
I’m focus on my self and trying to lose weight and about to head to school next week these ladies are amazing 😻 keep it up Courtney I’m a stay single until a lady loves me for me
I literally came across one of your videos on accident when it was recommended to me after watching a bunch of haircutting videos today. And now I’m obsessed with your channel!! 👌🏻👌🏻
I swear when I heard 'Pokemon GO', I knew it was gonna be a funny one LOL
The girl with the pink blouse is my soul mate. No joke tho she's beautiful inside and out. Super introspective, mature and cool af. Also, thanks for the info you provide Courtney!
You know, these talks you post are one of the most natural and informative videos you post🇵🇭
I love when the girls are on. That Pokémon go story had me in tears 😭. I can’t believe he thought a date would find that to be cool. 🤣
I guess I thought he would kill two birds with one stone, but imagine blowing off a cute flesh and blood girl in front of you to chase imaginary characters?
@@beautifulspirit7420 buddy needs a reality check. If you want to chase invisible characters he might want to find a imaginary time machine to elementary school.
@@Benny_bandit Dude, it’s alright to have hobbies that aren’t “normal”. Going out to parties and getting drunk to talk shit about other people, get laid for the 500th time and having BS conversation isn’t always fun either😂 Video games are truthfully one of the fastest growing and predominant activities in the world.
@Omni-Man well he could have done because for sure she told that story to every girl she knew. Not the best look to become the local laughing stock.
@@Benny_bandit In this case, the mathematics and statistics involved in video game creation are beyond you I guess
Great video. The last thing you discussed on the video about not canceling your plans with family or friends to be on a date with a girl, hit me. I plans to play softball with my sister and I had forgotten about that when I made the date with a girl. My sister was ok about it. The bad thing was a slipped and told my date about it. Which made me look needy. 🤦🏼♂️ With that being said, she ghosted me for a week then after my persistence she texted and gave me an explanation of not communicating anymore. Anyways! Love the channel, I have learned so much. Also, it makes me laugh at myself!
Not gonna lie, that girl Hallee genuinely seems like someone who is really at peace with herself! 👌
Great video as always Courtney!
Keep these videos going Courtney 🔥. So much good content !!
These videos are really enlightening. We (men) really love seeing honest opinions from women on these topics, it’s extremely helpful. Thanks Courtney.
Alright boys time to take notes! These girls are basically telling us whats up!
👏🏼❤️
And they will be telling you what to do moving forward.....welcome to simp world.....try ‘Shetoxing’ and respect yourself
Lol nope!!
amazing pls more of it!!!!!
I’m 26 and my best recent date was playground date.
It was really spontaneous choice but we both had really good time. Make fun of each other and laughing. Also there was a stream nearby. We hold our hands naturally while we cross the stone bridge. And the sun was going down. We sat on the hill and looked down on the city with no talking. It was pleasure moment.
Great video. As far as first date the best is coffee at the park, at the beach...that sort of thing. And yes, sandals or flipflops (we call them "apostolki" in my country😀) are only for the beach/pool. As far as body hair, it looks different on everyone. Just because it was in some movie does not mean that it will look same on you.
P.S. I also had my date bringing her mother on the date. 😬🤣
All down-to-earth, stunning and simply glowing females. Respect to yall.
I don’t know, I once tried to show my competitive side with a fun activity. I busted out Settlers of Catan, and from then on she only saw me as a huge nerd. 😂
Hey I just played that game a few days ago!
Was that before or after you played Pokémon at the Zoo? 😉
@@dbird1356 It was after I showed her my collection of vintage Dino-Rider action figures.
Thank you. This really helped me because I rarely date. Now I know what to look 👀 out for on my end and hers
I really enjoyed this video with your friends/volunteers etc. Good to hear different perspectives from the gals. I agree that unless you both are really into the Pokémon game, that isn’t an activity for a date.
Was going to meetup with a girl at the flea market as a first date, thought it was a cool idea. She ended up flaking Unfortunately.
Than she proceeded to complain on social media that there are no genuine men left LOL
You saved yourself money and nerves
A flea market is an excellent first date idea!
@@stellashepherd3229 I know that was my thought, her loss. She's still single too.
@JeffB Just this week I passed it on to a single friend of mine to keep in mind when the flea market opens back up in Vermont. He loved it. So much to look at and talk about.
Yeah chicks normally love that sh!t
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I'm pretty sure she was disappointed because there was no guarantee that money would be spent on her.
Or she already has fleas.
I love when we can put Ideologies aside for just raw honest Subjective answers to these questions. I've got a question of my own if anyone wants to help out...
Ok, being a introvert, it kinda gets difficult to carry on a Conversation. While over the years, I've become more Balanced between introversion and extroversion. Even though, I became better at Speaking to people... still got a few speech difficulties. If I were to get a date from a woman, would it be wise to be honest and Upfront about it? I kinda think that sometimes it would get in the way.
That shows vulnerability, which is perfectly okay. I think many women would appreciate the honesty. If you don't tell them on the first date because you're feeling nervous to say anything, then I would at least be honest about it sooner rather than later
@@carytigani9859 Thank you for the insight
Cary Tigani, spot on
@Bigtank 9401 ... I hear ya. I did 2.5 years of speech therapy in grade school. What I learned from that is, essentially, when I notice a mistake I immediately correct it - every single time. Never been questioned as to why I do that and only explain it once in a while. I wouldn't mention this on a date unless it became obvious (i.e. your date may just think you're nervous). My jobs solved the introversion I had - Customer Service in IT/Electronics plus worked as a Scuba Instructor for over 30 years.
No real need to mention it specifically, at least in early dating. She'll pick up on it anyway. It's not that big of an issue maybe. Introverts (like myself) tend to be good listeners and very thoughtful, qualities that most women want in a man. Most of the time the woman does most of the talking anyway, and a bit of mystery on the man's side is good. Just learn how to keep the conversation going with active listening and reflecting back that you've heard what she said. Also "why?" and "how did that make you feel?" are always great questions to ask a girl.
i like the fact that these are the most normal girls ever on youtube
The Pokémon Go story had me rolling 🤣🤣🤣 The ladies were great. Thanks for all the great content Courtney.
bro same lmaoo, i wonder what pokemon the dude was catching
I learned sooo much with this video! Courtney your friends are so honest and straight to the point! Your channel helps me a ton!! Hahaha oh my lord! The pokemon go story🤦🏻♂️🤣🤣🤣
Honest? Haha. You blindly believe and accept everything people tell you? You think women are always honest and would never deceive and mislead? If you are that misguided, you have some serious issues. Can not possibly be so gullible and delusional. Has Courtney succeeded in selling you the lie that shallow dishonest girls do not exist? And how many times a day do you get down on your knees to kiss women's feet?
@@Mogamishu Hahahaha you're so funny man🤣
Hallee's lesson hit home so hard. This is exactly what I've been experiencing this past year!
I found helpful to just change the angle in which you are sitting to each other as well. Sit next to her/him, but facing each other in a 45 degree angle. Defuses tension, while sitting in front of each other can subconsciously be confronting and stressful.
And doing an activity, walking around with a take-away coffee is always better than sitting around.
I love hearing difference of opinions and they all are understandable in their reasoning of why they think that way. It really shows that you may not be the blondes cup of tea but you just might really curl the toes of the redhead. The message: Find someone who clicks with you don't be focused on," I MUST HAVE HER and no one else".(mind WIDE and eyes OPEN). There are ALWAYS lessons to be learned from what these girls are saying on sharpening your journey to become a HIGHER value man than you are now.
Doing these kinds of videos brings a LOT of credibility to what you have already been telling us... see guys this is how and why a girl thinks like she does ... its not just me, NOT JUST ME!!
Food for thought: Going out somewhere in public and ask some of these question to random girls((NOT in BARS) but questions from your other videos as well) and see what they say. You can make them very basic at 1st to test the water like ,"Do you like a man who wears cologne?" and grow from there. Kinda like: SEE guys this is what I've been TELLING you!!!! It's not just TELLING us, but SHOWING us, This is what they think (I do believe you have been guiding us in the right direction, it's just kind of cool to see random girls confirmation of what you have been saying the whole time IKR) Age focus them to under 30, 31-45, 50+ (I bet some answers will remain unchanged, while others as exp increases and wisdom sets in some answers will change, and maybe you younger girls can learn from the more seasoned women you talk to)
I know many of you ppl. under 30, think that what you are experiencing is ALL new no one has exp. this before, BUT to be honest the truth is, to us more exp ppl. ,Its a very old song being sung, it just has a new dancer dancing to the tune. The MAJOR difference now is that you have the opportunity to gain YEARS of exp by simply watching videos IF you are willing to open your mind and learn from those who have been there and done that. Or are you going to be the newest dancer in the same OLD song??
These videos are making me consider moving to Cleveland lol. These girls are all level headed, well-spoken and kind not to mention attractive.
'Keep expectations realistic, if you're not a supermodel dont expect to get a supermodel'
Thanks for the reality check! That was very well said, especially with all the dating game packages and promotions BS going on today
Line E! Always has the best vibe!
Courtney you're my inspiration.
❤️😊
sweet a new video on my birthday love your videos Courtney
Happy birthday! ❤️
@@CourtneyRyan awwww thanks Courtney keep up the good work can't wait for the next viedo
I really like Lina's preferences and ideas. They give me hope for myself :))
She always seems to have my favorite responses or faces she makes...
This was a great video idea!!
Yes Yes Courtney with that Tattoo Question! Good Job Im getting a Sleeve tattoo All thanks to Mrs Confident Courtney 💖🥰
Hey Courtney, love your content. Do you think maybe you could interview some older women to see if they have different tastes/perspectives? Like 35ish-45ish?
35 would still be too young for me.
Need more vids like this! Great idea to help men get some ideas In today’s crazy world. 👌
Having your friends on was very informative. I would like to see you do this more often. 🙂
That Pokémon story tho!!!! I’m howling!!! 🤣🤣🤣
Btw.. I really enjoyed this interviews. I feel like men need to hear from the women themselves, good women like these! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 More of these pls!
Thumbs up for the video and the answers of all girls towards the different situations. Good job.
My favorite phrase from courtney is "Chef's kiss".
Hallee suggesting a hike for a first date? My day is complete.
The girls are back in town 😀
🎉🎉
I am glad I am too old to worry about having to navigate a romantic social life. Too much has changed since I was of age. But Courtney your nails are outstanding and your style impeccable.
Hearing these women discuss give men hope.
The pokemon thing cracked me up
Dang Court, no way these ladies are real. They are always so real and cool. I like these colabs, some funny stories.
Not at all like the Tik Tok egirls on Taylor The Fiend.
Great video Courtey
I betcha that the guy Hallee went on the date with is now like:"Are you kidding me?!" upon watching this vid!! 🤣🤣
Have more of these type of videos with friends please.
U help people a lot mam ,
May not be the most important thing but , it's an behaviour enhancing vedios
Thank you ❣️😊
I’ve been burned on reservations before and will never do it again unless we’ve been in a steady relationship for a while. I made reservations, had a baby sitter, was ready to go and got stood up. Embarrassing and very disrespectful.
This video was a breath of fresh air
Awesome! Keep doing this.
Hallee and Maria look really good.
I want to address the concept of fashion real quick: trends are important to know. Reason being is that they are awful. Not because they look bad, but because following a trend says something about you. It shows a lack of individuality. And there's a difference between following a trend, and wearing something that you like, that just so happens to be trending. And as people, we know the difference. Just as an example, I like to wear rings sometimes. Mostly my pinky ring. Always have. If it ever becomes a trend, that's purely happenstance. But if I start dressing like a magazine model, then I'm following trends. And I agree, simple clothes are the best. They are practical, provide utility, easy on the wallet, and can look great. And remember to dress appropriately. Keep the season and occasion in mind.
Nice to get a different perspective. I guess I'll stop showing up to a fancy dinner with my man bush and flip flops for a first date.
Ok Courtney i realize the background music is ur signature theme song now.
Been quite busy all day, so first calm moment I sit down to watch this video. looks like I'm a bit late to the party.
All the friends are gorgeous but Courtney is the queen b!
I always have 2 things planned when I go on a date. If the date goes well it's always good to have a 2nd destination in mind. I think most women like a guy who is decent and is willing to make decisions.
Very helpful thanks
So dates in general don’t always need to be associated with food right?
1. I don't mind body hair
2. Coffee and tea is fine for me.
3. I personally don't like flip flops or slides unless you are lounging or doing recreation.
4. I'm fine with tattoos. I have tattoos. 😆
5. I don't care about body type, but just be clean.
6.My favorite date hands down was the Aquarium and then we went to lunch that then went to dinner. I loved it so much we dated and we got married.
7. Guy showed up late. Haggled the price of lobster at Red Lobster. Tried to pay for our movie tickets with expired coupons, got livid when they weren't accepted then we got back in the car and he had the audacity to ask me for sex.
8. I don't care on the hair. Just keep it groomed.
9. Casual is my favorite. I like a man that puts effort in whatever style he is rocking.
10. If he allows people to call you names and he does not stick up for you, dump them and vice versa. If you allow people to always dump on your partner and you don't stand up for them, you deserve to be dumped.
I have to admit ..
I have a huge crush on "Lina E" 💛
She's pretty , and I like her personality .
Who agrees with me 😄
Literally everyone!
The sleeveless ponytail girl…😍
A big problem I've noticed is that places seem to no longer accept reservations.
Lina E. is so chill :D
That one dislike is from the Pokémon go guy
Lina is the best! She should have her own channel and I would subscribe.
Bravissima Courtney 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Cringe. 🤢
@@Mogamishu what's so cringy about his comment?🙄😒