I am an Indian from Kerala. Million bows to my brothers and sisters from the north of India who despite trauma of centuries still hold on to Dharma. It's you people who are still democratically safeguarding India from regressive ideologies. It's just because of you people that we in the South of India have started dreaming of the rise of the Golden age of our civilization and its key religion/darshana: Vedanta. Saashtaang namaskaaram!🙏
There is old saying " a marwari will show ₹ 1 if he has ₹100 with him, a Gujarati will show ₹ 1 if he has ₹ 10, a Punjabi will Show ₹ 10 if he has ₹ 1.
I am from South India. Born, bred here, never had a chance to understand this. My daughter got a seat in Airforce school through general category, by sheer luck. I met the principal who was from Delhi. She asked me to introduce a good real estate agent who could help her get a house to buy. I was visibly surprised when she told me that she wanted to settle here. She then explained to me that she liked the simple ways of South Indians and that language had never been a barrier for her here. I felt happy on hearing this. Now I understand this completely. ❤
As a Tamil, I fully agree. The prosperity of the South initially was because of the sacrifices by the North people. The barbarians never truly reached South and were mostly tackled in North itself. 🙏🙏🙏
@Venkatesh Ramanujam if your Varna system wasn't based on skill. Others would have not entered North. What Termite will do to wood. Cste has done to Sanatan
I am a Bengali who lived in Punjab for 27 years and now in South India. The level of show off is extremely high in Punjab, Haryana, New Delhi.. I know many people who consider eating with hands as dehati. Also, I have seen unemployed people having iphones, cars, in debt. Most of all, I see many Punjabis in a lot of stress that if they can't go to Canada or increase their standard of living, their life will be difficult. I don't say Bengal or South is free from it, show off in one way or other is everywhere.. but the show off in North will definitely exhaust u if u don't earn a lot or don't belong to rich class...
I am a Bengali, born and brought up in UP, studied in UP and Delhi, and then with a brief stay in Maharashtra lived in South India for the past 25 years. Agree with everything you wrote and what is mentioned in the video 😀
Dada ora flaunt kore keno janen karon okhane oder kache weekend e ghorar moto serom kichu jayga nei.. Kolkata e dekhun amra sadharonto week-end e digha, puri, purulia nana jaygay ghurte jai kintu oder kache limited scope tai flaunt kore beray
@@rounakmondal5839 North India te actually nearby tourist spots Kolkata theke onek beshi. Apni bepar ta ulto bollen..puro. Delhi theke weekend trip options are really good. Ota r showoff er kono relation nei.
And the level of Bengali cultural snobbery is altogether at another level. Phrases like "What Bengal thinks now, India thinks 50 years later" and all that crap. Bengal who got divided on religious line giving sermons to rest of India.
This is absolutely right, north Indians spend more money on the showoff items. Specially Punjabi's in Delhi NCR. 😀 My punjabi friend don't have car parking but still bought 50 Lakh BMW and parking it in the streets of Patel Nagar. 😄
Also if you go to west Delhi areas like Janakpuri, Rajouri, Subhash nagar etc the Restaurant & Pub business is growing like anything. All these areas have maximum Punjabi's population. My many punjabi friends visit pubs & restaurants every weekend and spend 5k to 10k. Its huge. Punjabi have big hearts 💕 though.
Well said Sir. I have observed this in my own life. I have stayed in Dehradun for my studies and am currently staying in Chennai for my Job . People in the North are more towards physical strength viz. People are into joining the Army more and show off culture buying iPhone and Cars even if it's on EMI whereas people in the South are more towards saving culture and they are spending a lot on Education and Savings like Gold(proof by data). They don't like to show off and I could see even a person earning so much is so humble . We should learn from both sides and have balance in our life.
That may be a stereotype that has been fed into the peoples' minds, I do not know from where. I am from North India and I have been noticing for a few years now that these Dravidian parties are trying to manufacture a North-South divide, especially in the literacy (saying Southern states are far more literate than Northern states). Barring a two states, there is not much of a difference in literacy rates between North and South. What use is literacy in a state like in Kerala where half of the population works in the Middle East or rest of India.
@@parikshitsharda4377 ys and so Kerala model of development is extolled and appreciated by all states.Migrant workers sent more money to native country India and aids in development.Or else imagine the huge responsibility upon a nation with vast educated middle class and without an opportunity of unemployment.Defiintely middle East or any other nation that that offers helping hand is a panacea .to the youth of our country
I am also living in(erode)tamil nadu.But i observed South indians buy more fancy cars than north. Any new model launches within a week or two you see no.of cars on roads. And where I am living is not a big city. Huge sum of money they spend on their houses. And in this small city we have apple Store where any time you go ,see good no of people. New generation of south is spending money like crazy on materialistic things. In my kids class all their friends have their personal apple phone and macbook.
@@himanshimajethia4230 Erode which comes under kongu belt has completely different scenario. Kongu belt is the house of business Tycoons!!! They are know for ultra grand weddings, bungalows and cars. These rich kids buy luxurious cars and end up setting in abroad!!! Come to Coimbatore it's much worser than erode.
I feel north Indians are more showoff, but more aggressive and kind. South Indians are fewer showoffs, and more conservative and private people.I am from Goan background I remember my dad still using kinetic honda till 2016 and he was already AGM in SBI lol. But I love the cheerfulness of North Indians.
Lol, so true. I've been born brought up in Chennai where people are exact opposite of show offs and I used to wonder why all my relatives based in delhi are such huge show offs. Every school vacation I am in Delhi, my relatives prove how ultra show off they're omg. My neighbour in chennai an ISI and IIMA alumni, lives like a normal regular person and very humble in behavioral conduct, but a simple small restaurant owner relative in delhi acts like he owns the world.
@Mukherjee - East n South Indian were poor compared to North Indian n were made clerks by Britisher but North Indian were more into business, that how Marwari flourish in Shops n Punjabis in Business/ Transport throughout India how many east or South indian after becoming C.A. do family business instead Opt for high pay jobs in MNC but today you see the reverse PPL in Jobs are earning more than Shop keeper or Transporter.
Great ! Very happy to listen to topics which no one wants to speak in public and just spend life without acknowledging. Thank you for all your videos . I am your big fan 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Sirji aap aisa kaam kar rahe India ke liye ki mein kya batau. Isse acche channel hai hi nahi TH-cam me. Aapne bahut acchi samaaj sudhaar ki muhim start ki hai. Many many thanks to you for coming up with this incredible subject. You are doing a great job for the Indians. 👏👏👏👏
I live in Gujarat but I am a Malayali. And sadly in recent times, some Malayali's are getting influenced by the show-off culture as can be seen in weddings. And there are many who cannot afford it yet because their child's desires, they give in for their happiness. I think people need to learn this valuable lesson that show-off won't earn us anything, rather its just a waste of money that could be utilized for better purposes in life.
Sitara menon@thats Because of the influence of people who live in Middle Eastern countries.. Their immediate families staying in India started showing off.
All your topics are things that are in the back of our mind, but no one speaks about them. Thanks for addressing these social issues! Love from karnataka!❤
I am from Assam and lived in Delhi for total of 10+ years and In Bombay and South total of 6+ years!! You are 100% correct. In Delhi, one of my very first introduction to with people in Delhi went like - : " Hello, I am Rajiv, I am a Director in a big company and I live in Vasant Vihar". or " I came on my BMW". driver is waiting outside
Yes....I agree with you..... during my academic days ( 80's to 88) I had seen many friends of me used to say their conservative culture, dowry demand ranges according to status of bride groom.... moreover I have noticed during my student life and in service, North Indian are always pompous, talks loudly & aggressive behaviour either in bus, train travel or in mall.....whereas South Indian or even the people of NE states are more sober.....most of crimes are reported either in UP, Delhi, Bihar, MP, Rajasthan.....and truly speaking average North Indian are a bit rude
I'm myself from Rajasthan And check the list of crimes Delhi and maharshtra (south state ) Are on top And secondly rajasthani people have this psyche of not doing fights and solving everything with sharp mind😂 So that they don't face reputation problems So don't include any state untill u deeply know And in cities there are mix people living there so judge with facts
funny part is with show off people think they will get more appreciation and acceptance in society whereas ppl get jealous and nasty and in most case create more distance
More than ancient reasons, show off is influenced by Bollywood. Real rich are mostly humble and those who pretend to be rich are the ones who shows off much. 😀😀
The winter in North gives lot of scope for show off and the winter show off is very good .The show off culture is even visible among ladies in South.There is heavy competition of Silk Sarees and gold ornaments in weddings which is rarely seen in North India.
In the North Indian, ladies also compete on sarees, lehenga choli, jewellery design, but the ferocious competition is in the looks...i look better than her...
Agreed Iam from Gujarat and my daughter science tution from Andhra, He was from IIT and left his US tech Job for follow his passion in to teach science to children with nominal fees
I am from the Northeast and I have friends from all across the country. I have always wondered the differences between North and South and how different they are from NE people. This video was really informative. I think the people from Assam are more laid back than the rest of India and we rarely migrate unless for career purposes. That could be because Assam did not face foreign invasion for almost 600 years prior to British rule. We probably feel more secure in our own land.
@@viviev5044 Yes but that's because employment opportunities is very less in NE. As I have said "unless for career". There are few industries here. What I am saying is a general behavior of wanting to stay in their own place. Not all North Indians are show off and not all South Indians are intellectual. Besides Assam is facing a big problem of illegal immigrants right now which is leading to a cultural crisis. So may be in the future general behavior will change.
I am from north india , and have lot of friends from northeast , you are absolutely correct dear friend,lot of difference between noth indians and south indian and sir ne jo analysis kiya that is quite deep . And very true
I being a simple guy from Odisha have felt it when I joined a new pune based company. It was a team lunch and as of my regular habit I started eating with my hands and one of the north indian guy started saying that he forgot to eat with hands after he came back from US 😂 pointing at my eating habits.🤷🏻
I am from Haryana, living in Mumbai for past 5 years. I lived in noida as well for first 4 years of my job. There is a drastic change of attitude amongs youth here in Mumbai. No branded clothes, No fancy cars, no expensive shoes, very rare people having Iphones despite the fact that the salary drawn by average employee here is much much higher as compare to the north.
Very interesting analysis....also it resonates with my thought process ...more so because we are north Indians and my daughter is getting married to a south Indian. I feel very good talking to my son in law and his parents....because like us...woh bhi samajhne aur jodne ka attitude rakhte hain. Hamare bache bhi apne set of parents ko samjhte hain aur bohot ache se samjhate bhi hain....ek doosre ki psychology . ..I respects my samdhis but I am very proud of being a punjabi too....humko raunken lagani aati hain....mehfile bhi hamare jaise koi nai sajata....☺☺☺
@@manmohansingh-mc1mu Earlier they imitated Waterfalls Kapoor Khandaan, Next came Yash Chopra with, skimpy chiffon sarees. The Gujju's/ UP/Bihari's mix followd the cholis and lanhengas of Sanjay leela.Bhansali. I had a Punjabi neighbour who watch ham sath sath hain repeatedly for those catchy dress..
Bollywood ता कंजर हैगा असि नही bollywood नू follow करदे असि पंजाबी सनातनी है ओ वी कट्टर आले जिन्हा म्लेच्छा ने साडी धरती छिनी हे उन्हा तू बदला लेना है दिल्ली विच ओ ही कंजर खूब है जो इस्लामिक बनान चाँदे हे
Khada peeta lahe da, Baqi Ahmed Shahe da This saying in Punjabi tells us of the horrors inflicted by Ahmed Shah Abdali. It was a philosophy which articulates that whatever you have consumed is yours all else is likely to be looted by Abdali.
Totally agree 💯 Punjabi kahawat hai "Khaada Peeta laahe da Baaki Aadam Shahe da" (Jo kha pee leya wohi apna tha, baki sab to Adam Shah ayega aur loot ke le jayega) Par abhi bhi North India mein dange-fasaad zyada hai. Punjab ne abhi 20 saal pehle trauma jhela hai. Delhi mein Sikhon ne 40 saal pehle apna sab kuch gawa diya tha. North India ka trauma khatam ho nahi Raha. Abhi bhi stability se thodi dur hai.
I am a north Indian and Never thought of this logic behind North Indians doing show-of...you covered a really interesting aspect..and the way u explained was funny and interesting 😂😂
I am an Indian from Kerala. Million bows to my brothers and sisters from the north of India who despite trauma of centuries still hold on to Dharma. It's you people who are still democratically safeguarding India from regressive ideologies. It's just because of you people that we in the South of India have started dreaming of the rise of the Golden age of our civilization and its key religion/darshana: Vedanta. Saashtaang namaskaaram!🙏
As a South Indian, i think the reasons are much more deeply rooted into personality traits, culture, traditions and following what is already being done. Socialism, Communism, Dravidianism has brought about a difference as well. Having said this, this divide is reducing now with more North Indians becoming smart with their spending and many more South Indians being foolish in their show off.
@@jyotivyas9286 Not west ki baatein, but social justice ki baatein. The culture existing in most of india was casteist, monarchical and socially unjust. It took brave men with knowledge of other communities around the world to arrive at social justice movements which has leveled the playing field massively where it has succeeded.
@@prasadbhadane608 About the state flag. Why is it surprising ? Indian states were not united for millenia, many parts and pieces were divided among feuding monarchies for millenia before finally uniting once we obtained freedom from the British. For that constitution to work in the best interest of the nation, more power has to be provided to each state as opposed to a homogeneous rule from the center. Indian states differ much more from each other than the spanish states and german states you mentioned, yet they have a much higher say in their politics than the indian state. Take a look at the Lok Sabha Election results of 2004 to 2019 of the states of South India and look what govt would have formed if they were able to have their own elected representatives working for them. Instead they are subjected to rule from a ignorant, homogeneous party, which forget nationalism, has no understanding of the diversity, people and cultures that amalgamate to call themselves India. Unity comes with representation, unity comes with compassion, unity comes with being open minded to everyone that is different to you. For a party that uses disunity to win elections, cannot complain about the nation splintering into state identities separate from its ignorant nationalism.
My father (and me as well) is a southie and has never stayed in North (except for general tourism). But from a very young age he has been advising me that Northies have this "show off" attitude, but it is not wrong as they hae faced many insecurities since generations. He used to advise my northie friends to not to indulge in show off as well. But he used to finish it off by saying that we in south are eating food because there is northie fauji protecting our borders.
I have heard in B’lore from lot of indi people after they’ve shifted to B’lore saying… yar life mai shanti padgayi hai .. Now I know why they saying that.
I am from north India and have friends from south and west . This why why question was always there. Main iss baat ko bahut salo sey sochti hun. I am happy that you have made video. My husband and I have discussed this topic number of times . Now I can share this video with my friends and it would help them to have a fresh prespective to look at it . It proves how strongly trauma can travel through genes and it has to talked about so this generation get over it . Aapka dhanyavad
Being a Hindu vegetarian Punjabi , I have always faced a question that How I am a Punjabi and vegetarian. There are few misconceptions about punjab that we all do balley balley all the time . We can’t be religious and practise spirituality . And food is only rajmah, kadhi chholey, parathhey nothing healthy is there . Would you please make a video how punjab is versatile and it is home to all the communities . Thank you
Sir, Maharashtra has also spent centuries in fighting against the invadors specially Moghals and British. Over 1 lakh soldiers died in Panipat war. All this has impacted the lives of Maharashtra. There was hardly any possibility of development art and artistic infrastructure. The impact is that this has resulted in very aggressive nature. We can't trust people easily.
Maharashtra enter war after 1650 when shivaji rose fame. But Punjab, Rajasthan, haryana, delhi fought 2500BC to till date. Because their border touch enemy nation. Alexander porus 326 bc, selucus chandragupta 305 bc,mahabharat 950 bc, kushan , kasim 712 AD. When shivaji time angrez already trade in India. Last 350 years only.
With all due respect to the brave Marathas, I beg to differ. The region of present Marathas was never under the direct attack by the invaders. Mostly, those wars were fought in the North Indian regions. Marathas came to prominence after 16th century, when they started decimating the Mughals.
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 WELL THATS BC INVADERS CAME LATER TO MAHARASHTRA AS IT WAS FAR FROM NORTH ... AND NOT ONLY SHIVAJI BUT MANY MARATHAS FOUGHT THE WAR .U ONLY KNOW ABT SHIVAJI CUZ THANKS TO KHANGRESS THEY NEVER TAUGHT U ABT OTHERS (IN FACT THEY DINT EVEN TEACH SHIVAJI IN TEXTBOOKS ) TATYA TOPE SUNA HAI ?? TANAJI MALUSARE , RANI LAXMIBAI , HOLKAR , BAJIRAO PESHWA (thanks to movie everyone knows) khando ji angre , SCINDIA ..the list is endless ..hundreds of freedom fighters not included .... IN NORTH MANY KINGS RUN AWAY LIKE COWARDS AND MANY CONVERTED OR GAVE THEIR WIVES TO MUGHALS ...THIS WAS THE REASON... MARATHA EMPIRE WAS FROM ATAK TO KATAK (from afghanistan to southern india) @prakharsh95 .. HV U HEARD THE SAYING ...AGAR NA HOTA SIVA TO HOTI SABKI SUNTA .... FIRST INCREASE UR KNOWLEDGE THN CMNT
We have lot of north settlers, renters IT people over here in Hyderabad, the women from north are too stylish, mother and daughter wear same kind of sleeveless tops & shorts.
As a south indian, I agree with you sir, North indians are bit Showoff due to the influence of Bollywood movies. But personlly i like thier joyful life.
My father's mother was Bengali, father's father(Dadaji) was marathi ( maharashtrian and so am I by sirname) , my mother is Punjabi so our family is mix of 3 cultures. And it is my mother's reading that she appreciated the groundedness and simplicity of maharashtrians a lot. Instead of showing off they rather show less than what they have and are actually little embarassed if they do have to talk about how well they r doing financially.
Yes sir I am from Himachal and people around me are so much in showoff actually I have spent much time in gwalior but when my father was retired from his job and we come back to our hometown here I realise the large difference
Very well said sirji. I am from south, telugu speaking and Fully agree with you. Hats off to our north Indian brothers for their contribution to protecting Hindu civilisation over ages.
Lovely topic Sir. Having been in Defence for 30 years, really appreciate every corner of the country. Lot of my friends' parents migrated from West Punjab. I understand the sentiments of every community, since the defence personnel
I don't know about other communities, but for marwadis I can say we live very frugally, we are told not to discuss about money matters outside the community. The only thing we spend on most is Weddings and some amount on Religious festivals and charity.
Very much true , Sir ...North India has suffered from all the battles since thousands of years... you perfectly analysed the root cause and also suggested the solution as usual...
If you lock up 2 punjabi and 2 Madrasi in 1 small room for 2 hours the results will be:- All 4 will get full, detailed, internal, secretive information about the 2 Punjabis. The Madrasi will only hear, will not talk nor reveal his internal information. This is nature made.
Gaddiya uchiya rakhiya NCR me rakhe Puri dhos chora Ye sab lyrics se hi pata chalta hai logo ki mentality But remember "Amateurs chase the sun and get burned. Power stays in the shadows."
I agree with you 100% but this will bring change i am not optimistic ! This show biz is increasing day by day and hindi movies contributed a lot to it ! Those who don't believe in this are looked down upon!
Amazing. Very True. Sabhi jagah se North per attack hue the isiliye parda pratha yahan per thi. Lekin aaj un logon per kaun attack kerne aa raha hai jo ki ab bhi ghoonghat kerne ke liye majboor air pratadit karte hain. Usme bhi agar jis bahoo ke yahan se achha maal milta rehta hai uske per koi rok tok nahi hoti hai This is a practical Truth. I don't know Sir whether u will agree or not? Believe it or not.
Sir... Really aap bahut deeply soch ker bolte ho.... I live in bangalore... I was in delhi also.... Really South me life easy lagti hai... Faltu ka pressure nahi hai.... I luv n appreciate ur vlogs...
I am à Pakistani from Islamabad. It was my observation that Pakistanis (old west Pakistani) are more show off and agressive than North Indians who in turn are more of these then South Indians. South indians are really humble and brainy. Most of the computer jobs in USA are held by them. I always wondered why is that? Really liked your analysis. Did you had any interaction with Pakistanis. One of my wifes cousin is married to à south indian . I asked her what is the cultural différence between you two? She replied that when ever there is a différence of opinion between us , i shout and blurt every thing out but he keeps quite and keeps evey thing in his heart. Both live in US. I am à Neurologist by profession and an auther by hobby.
@@saadazim3021actually Pakistanis follow their ancestral hindu practices only till today whether its haldi/mayun, mehndi, doodh pilai…all are hindu origin from our ancient scriptures and have no mention in hadiths/quran, which only mentions nikah and reception
Thanks for sharing this truth. I born and brought in Delhi but last 18 years, I lived in south India and Maharashtra. I observed that my seniors and juniors who belong to same place are not belive in show off (no iphone, no luxury cars / expensive motor bike). Initially I had all but now I'm changed BUT now they are changing too 😁😁😁
Andhra ke log bhi bahut showoff karte hain. Hundreds of sarees, unnecessary jewellery mostly kept in bank lockers, splurging on wedding. Of late they began to show off their houses.
Great topics , well explained and . . .touching the roots of indian society to enrich our culture...enjoyinh premium membership...its seriously worth to me 🙏🙏🙏
I lived in Delhi for 6 years . Ladies there judge other women by what they wear,.... designer stuff is a must!!! Men are weighed by the cars they own, jazzier, the better, driver driven, still better....
I live in Uttar Pradesh..bcoz my father is in defence i lived in banglore,Madras, Punjab and Delhi...what i felt is south india is still close to their culture n i live that people are also so cute and simple.. my many friends are from south ..and i love their simplicity..yes in north people are show off but only those who are not connected with their roots..rest all things u said are true.
Wonderful Psychological and wisdom oriented explanation Sirji 🙏🏽 Never thought that the generational trauma is carried through DNA and those results are still seen in North Indians🥹. Please keep sharing such videos, it gives a food to mind😊
North Indian culture is more material especially Punjab, Haryana area with more emphasis on good eating for strong body, work hard physically (like mr. sango said commitment to protect against enemy). Although human psychology tends to show off that which it does not have in reality. Some folks take show off to another level like skipping meals to buy that designer shirt etc. Such attitude makes life very stressful and ill effects of this stress spill over covertly in other areas of life.
Valid point...all invasions happened from the North. And your advice is valid that now they can tone it down. Because I have also seen that weddings are really exorbitant and there's definitely a little show off.
You are right.Our all children are in South India because of job since last 15 years. Due to this we offenly go South.Even very rich people of South don't organise expensive marriage.Whereas we north Indians don't follow these.
North Indians do have a habit of showing off which is harmless to any body but the new generation is spending more compared to older people. Saving and investing are the two things that have to be taught to them.
I am an Indian from Kerala. Million bows to my brothers and sisters from the north of India who despite trauma of centuries still hold on to Dharma. It's you people who are still democratically safeguarding India from regressive ideologies. It's just because of you people that we in the South of India have started dreaming of the rise of the Golden age of our civilization and its key religion/darshana: Vedanta. Saashtaang namaskaaram!🙏
Very nice message. God bless
Thanx ji .we are one .love india and Indians bros and sis
Jai ho saty sanatan dharm ki
We have proud of being Indian whether from North/ South/East/West.All of from one family 🙏
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There is old saying " a marwari will show ₹ 1 if he has ₹100 with him, a Gujarati will show ₹ 1 if he has ₹ 10, a Punjabi will Show ₹ 10 if he has ₹ 1.
Yeaaah
U are ri8
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But Marwari & Gujaratis will spend more than anyone on a 'Wedding'.
Absolutely right
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I am from South India. Born, bred here, never had a chance to understand this.
My daughter got a seat in Airforce school through general category, by sheer luck. I met the principal who was from Delhi. She asked me to introduce a good real estate agent who could help her get a house to buy.
I was visibly surprised when she told me that she wanted to settle here. She then explained to me that she liked the simple ways of South Indians and that language had never been a barrier for her here. I felt happy on hearing this.
Now I understand this completely. ❤
As a Tamil, I fully agree. The prosperity of the South initially was because of the sacrifices by the North people. The barbarians never truly reached South and were mostly tackled in North itself. 🙏🙏🙏
Well thought bro...NORTH always bear the sacrifices for India
@@mayanksrivastava9313 He is a bhramin who technically was a north Indian before a century!!!
@Venkatesh Ramanujam if your Varna system wasn't based on skill. Others would have not entered North.
What Termite will do to wood. Cste has done to Sanatan
So who was tipu?? Do you know how many hindus he killed , converted , how many temples destroyed ?
@@aarthishetty2214 do you know raja raja chola shiva devotee who killed and destroyed vishnu temples??
I am a Bengali who lived in Punjab for 27 years and now in South India.
The level of show off is extremely high in Punjab, Haryana, New Delhi..
I know many people who consider eating with hands as dehati. Also, I have seen unemployed people having iphones, cars, in debt. Most of all, I see many Punjabis in a lot of stress that if they can't go to Canada or increase their standard of living, their life will be difficult.
I don't say Bengal or South is free from it, show off in one way or other is everywhere.. but the show off in North will definitely exhaust u if u don't earn a lot or don't belong to rich class...
I am a Bengali, born and brought up in UP, studied in UP and Delhi, and then with a brief stay in Maharashtra lived in South India for the past 25 years. Agree with everything you wrote and what is mentioned in the video 😀
They show off even when they don't have much money. That's the whole point.
Dada ora flaunt kore keno janen karon okhane oder kache weekend e ghorar moto serom kichu jayga nei.. Kolkata e dekhun amra sadharonto week-end e digha, puri, purulia nana jaygay ghurte jai kintu oder kache limited scope tai flaunt kore beray
@@rounakmondal5839 North India te actually nearby tourist spots Kolkata theke onek beshi. Apni bepar ta ulto bollen..puro.
Delhi theke weekend trip options are really good. Ota r showoff er kono relation nei.
And the level of Bengali cultural snobbery is altogether at another level. Phrases like "What Bengal thinks now, India thinks 50 years later" and all that crap. Bengal who got divided on religious line giving sermons to rest of India.
This is absolutely right, north Indians spend more money on the showoff items. Specially Punjabi's in Delhi NCR. 😀 My punjabi friend don't have car parking but still bought 50 Lakh BMW and parking it in the streets of Patel Nagar. 😄
In Punjab also bro
In South india, Andhra pradesh also bro
Also if you go to west Delhi areas like Janakpuri, Rajouri, Subhash nagar etc the Restaurant & Pub business is growing like anything. All these areas have maximum Punjabi's population. My many punjabi friends visit pubs & restaurants every weekend and spend 5k to 10k. Its huge. Punjabi have big hearts 💕 though.
@@bjohnrajesh ఎ..క్క..డ..?
lol.. true
Well said Sir. I have observed this in my own life. I have stayed in Dehradun for my studies and am currently staying in Chennai for my Job . People in the North are more towards physical strength viz. People are into joining the Army more and show off culture buying iPhone and Cars even if it's on EMI whereas people in the South are more towards saving culture and they are spending a lot on Education and Savings like Gold(proof by data). They don't like to show off and I could see even a person earning so much is so humble . We should learn from both sides and have balance in our life.
That may be a stereotype that has been fed into the peoples' minds, I do not know from where. I am from North India and I have been noticing for a few years now that these Dravidian parties are trying to manufacture a North-South divide, especially in the literacy (saying Southern states are far more literate than Northern states). Barring a two states, there is not much of a difference in literacy rates between North and South. What use is literacy in a state like in Kerala where half of the population works in the Middle East or rest of India.
@@parikshitsharda4377 ys and so Kerala model of development is extolled and appreciated by all states.Migrant workers sent more money to native country India and aids in development.Or else imagine the huge responsibility upon a nation with vast educated middle class and without an opportunity of unemployment.Defiintely middle East or any other nation that that offers helping hand is a panacea .to the youth of our country
I am also living in(erode)tamil nadu.But i observed South indians buy more fancy cars than north. Any new model launches within a week or two you see no.of cars on roads. And where I am living is not a big city. Huge sum of money they spend on their houses. And in this small city we have apple Store where any time you go ,see good no of people. New generation of south is spending money like crazy on materialistic things. In my kids class all their friends have their personal apple phone and macbook.
@@himanshimajethia4230 Erode which comes under kongu belt has completely different scenario. Kongu belt is the house of business Tycoons!!! They are know for ultra grand weddings, bungalows and cars. These rich kids buy luxurious cars and end up setting in abroad!!! Come to Coimbatore it's much worser than erode.
Most North Indian Are Fake Rich
I feel north Indians are more showoff, but more aggressive and kind. South Indians are fewer showoffs, and more conservative and private people.I am from Goan background I remember my dad still using kinetic honda till 2016 and he was already AGM in SBI lol. But I love the cheerfulness of North Indians.
Well Observed
Hmm
Maturity is when you take pride in maintaining old things rather than throwing them away for shiny new stuff all the time
True
Wah goekar spotted
Lol, so true. I've been born brought up in Chennai where people are exact opposite of show offs and I used to wonder why all my relatives based in delhi are such huge show offs. Every school vacation I am in Delhi, my relatives prove how ultra show off they're omg.
My neighbour in chennai an ISI and IIMA alumni, lives like a normal regular person and very humble in behavioral conduct, but a simple small restaurant owner relative in delhi acts like he owns the world.
@Mukherjee - East n South Indian were poor compared to North Indian n were made clerks by Britisher but North Indian were more into business, that how Marwari flourish in Shops n Punjabis in Business/ Transport throughout India how many east or South indian after becoming C.A. do family business instead Opt for high pay jobs in MNC but today you see the reverse PPL in Jobs are earning more than Shop keeper or Transporter.
@@jaihind7886 I see
Great ! Very happy to listen to topics which no one wants to speak in public and just spend life without acknowledging. Thank you for all your videos . I am your big fan 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Thanks
Sirji aap aisa kaam kar rahe India ke liye ki mein kya batau. Isse acche channel hai hi nahi TH-cam me. Aapne bahut acchi samaaj sudhaar ki muhim start ki hai.
Many many thanks to you for coming up with this incredible subject.
You are doing a great job for the Indians. 👏👏👏👏
I live in Gujarat but I am a Malayali. And sadly in recent times, some Malayali's are getting influenced by the show-off culture as can be seen in weddings. And there are many who cannot afford it yet because their child's desires, they give in for their happiness. I think people need to learn this valuable lesson that show-off won't earn us anything, rather its just a waste of money that could be utilized for better purposes in life.
Sitara menon@thats Because of the influence of people who live in Middle Eastern countries.. Their immediate families staying in India started showing off.
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Bilukul sahi....Simple living high thinking(kuch dusaro ka bhi bhla ho)sharing, caring and curing
All your topics are things that are in the back of our mind, but no one speaks about them. Thanks for addressing these social issues! Love from karnataka!❤
I am from Assam and lived in Delhi for total of 10+ years and In Bombay and South total of 6+ years!! You are 100% correct. In Delhi, one of my very first introduction to with people in Delhi went like - : " Hello, I am Rajiv, I am a Director in a big company and I live in Vasant Vihar". or " I came on my BMW". driver is waiting outside
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Absolutely correct sir... North India have faced a lot of pain and trauma for last 1000 years
Yes....I agree with you..... during my academic days ( 80's to 88) I had seen many friends of me used to say their conservative culture, dowry demand ranges according to status of bride groom.... moreover I have noticed during my student life and in service, North Indian are always pompous, talks loudly & aggressive behaviour either in bus, train travel or in mall.....whereas South Indian or even the people of NE states are more sober.....most of crimes are reported either in UP, Delhi, Bihar, MP, Rajasthan.....and truly speaking average North Indian are a bit rude
Rajsthan I don't think so much 👍🏻
I'm myself from Rajasthan
And check the list of crimes
Delhi and maharshtra (south state )
Are on top
And secondly rajasthani people have this psyche of not doing fights and solving everything with sharp mind😂
So that they don't face reputation problems
So don't include any state untill u deeply know
And in cities there are mix people living there so judge with facts
remove MP
central indians are much more well behaved and kind people than north indians
we central indians are not that show off people
@@Investment10x true
Haan shi kaha Delhi wale toh ekdum ghatiya nich kisam ke insaan hote hai...
Kamaal ka bola ji,
Laakh rupay ki baat kari,
This should help millions of young north Indians.
funny part is with show off people think they will get more appreciation and acceptance in society whereas ppl get jealous and nasty and in most case create more distance
More than ancient reasons, show off is influenced by Bollywood. Real rich are mostly humble and those who pretend to be rich are the ones who shows off much. 😀😀
Yes 💯 because Bollywood is 70% North Indians
The winter in North gives lot of scope for show off and the winter show off is very good .The show off culture is even visible among ladies in South.There is heavy competition of Silk Sarees and gold ornaments in weddings which is rarely seen in North India.
In the North Indian, ladies also compete on sarees, lehenga choli, jewellery design, but the ferocious competition is in the looks...i look better than her...
girls show off is universal among all communities 🤣🤣
Gold is considered as an investment, and silk sarees - all women like to dress up.
It's our south Indian ladies tradition
@@reecosmicatomsb8576it's horrible for average looking girls then 😮 the culture that is
Very well explained sir.behind every behaviour there is history and geography Thank you for the clarity.
Ppl of Andhra Pradesh r down to earth and always helps outsiders. I praise them for their progressive thinking
They help only south people not north indian
They help all🥰
@@gourachandramishra8697 I m from Bihar and when I lived in Vijayawada ppl helped me and my family like family members
Agreed Iam from Gujarat and my daughter science tution from Andhra, He was from IIT and left his US tech Job for follow his passion in to teach science to children with nominal fees
I am from the Northeast and I have friends from all across the country. I have always wondered the differences between North and South and how different they are from NE people. This video was really informative. I think the people from Assam are more laid back than the rest of India and we rarely migrate unless for career purposes. That could be because Assam did not face foreign invasion for almost 600 years prior to British rule. We probably feel more secure in our own land.
Lol, in Bangalore i see lots of Assamese, working in restaurants, spas,
@@viviev5044 Yes but that's because employment opportunities is very less in NE. As I have said "unless for career". There are few industries here. What I am saying is a general behavior of wanting to stay in their own place. Not all North Indians are show off and not all South Indians are intellectual. Besides Assam is facing a big problem of illegal immigrants right now which is leading to a cultural crisis. So may be in the future general behavior will change.
@@CreativitySimplicity okay, well said 👏🏻👏🏻
@@CreativitySimplicity , immigration reduce emp oppor
I am from north india , and have lot of friends from northeast , you are absolutely correct dear friend,lot of difference between noth indians and south indian and sir ne jo analysis kiya that is quite deep . And very true
I being a simple guy from Odisha have felt it when I joined a new pune based company. It was a team lunch and as of my regular habit I started eating with my hands and one of the north indian guy started saying that he forgot to eat with hands after he came back from US 😂 pointing at my eating habits.🤷🏻
I am from Haryana, living in Mumbai for past 5 years. I lived in noida as well for first 4 years of my job. There is a drastic change of attitude amongs youth here in Mumbai. No branded clothes, No fancy cars, no expensive shoes, very rare people having Iphones despite the fact that the salary drawn by average employee here is much much higher as compare to the north.
Very interesting analysis....also it resonates with my thought process ...more so because we are north Indians and my daughter is getting married to a south Indian. I feel very good talking to my son in law and his parents....because like us...woh bhi samajhne aur jodne ka attitude rakhte hain. Hamare bache bhi apne set of parents ko samjhte hain aur bohot ache se samjhate bhi hain....ek doosre ki psychology . ..I respects my samdhis but I am very proud of being a punjabi too....humko raunken lagani aati hain....mehfile bhi hamare jaise koi nai sajata....☺☺☺
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@THE ZOLDICS why are you so obsessed with caste.
I totally agree with you. The Delhi Punjabis follow Bollywood. Now it's spreading all over India
Correct
Bollywood saw this nature of north indians and then projected it. This comes in every north indian by birth only 🤣
@@manmohansingh-mc1mu Earlier they imitated Waterfalls Kapoor Khandaan, Next came Yash Chopra with, skimpy chiffon sarees. The Gujju's/ UP/Bihari's mix followd the cholis and lanhengas of Sanjay leela.Bhansali. I had a Punjabi neighbour who watch ham sath sath hain repeatedly for those catchy dress..
Bollywood ता कंजर हैगा
असि नही bollywood नू follow करदे
असि पंजाबी सनातनी है ओ वी कट्टर आले
जिन्हा म्लेच्छा ने साडी धरती छिनी हे उन्हा तू बदला लेना है
दिल्ली विच ओ ही कंजर खूब है जो इस्लामिक बनान चाँदे हे
@@manmohansingh-mc1muBollywood is dominated by same community that live in delhi and known as Punjabis.
Very well articulated. Our regional differences and strengths make our nation truly unique & beautiful. Everyone contributes in his own way.
Khada peeta lahe da,
Baqi Ahmed Shahe da
This saying in Punjabi tells us of the horrors inflicted by Ahmed Shah Abdali. It was a philosophy which articulates that whatever you have consumed is yours all else is likely to be looted by Abdali.
Totally agree 💯
Punjabi kahawat hai
"Khaada Peeta laahe da
Baaki Aadam Shahe da"
(Jo kha pee leya wohi apna tha, baki sab to Adam Shah ayega aur loot ke le jayega)
Par abhi bhi North India mein dange-fasaad zyada hai. Punjab ne abhi 20 saal pehle trauma jhela hai. Delhi mein Sikhon ne 40 saal pehle apna sab kuch gawa diya tha. North India ka trauma khatam ho nahi Raha. Abhi bhi stability se thodi dur hai.
I am a north Indian and Never thought of this logic behind North Indians doing show-of...you covered a really interesting aspect..and the way u explained was funny and interesting 😂😂
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The infamous punjabi greed
Lol no North Indians , being a North Indian . North Indians are living a crazy life of show off
I am an Indian from Kerala. Million bows to my brothers and sisters from the north of India who despite trauma of centuries still hold on to Dharma. It's you people who are still democratically safeguarding India from regressive ideologies. It's just because of you people that we in the South of India have started dreaming of the rise of the Golden age of our civilization and its key religion/darshana: Vedanta. Saashtaang namaskaaram!🙏
As a South Indian, i think the reasons are much more deeply rooted into personality traits, culture, traditions and following what is already being done. Socialism, Communism, Dravidianism has brought about a difference as well.
Having said this, this divide is reducing now with more North Indians becoming smart with their spending and many more South Indians being foolish in their show off.
@@jyotivyas9286 Not west ki baatein, but social justice ki baatein. The culture existing in most of india was casteist, monarchical and socially unjust. It took brave men with knowledge of other communities around the world to arrive at social justice movements which has leveled the playing field massively where it has succeeded.
@@prasadbhadane608 About the state flag. Why is it surprising ? Indian states were not united for millenia, many parts and pieces were divided among feuding monarchies for millenia before finally uniting once we obtained freedom from the British.
For that constitution to work in the best interest of the nation, more power has to be provided to each state as opposed to a homogeneous rule from the center. Indian states differ much more from each other than the spanish states and german states you mentioned, yet they have a much higher say in their politics than the indian state.
Take a look at the Lok Sabha Election results of 2004 to 2019 of the states of South India and look what govt would have formed if they were able to have their own elected representatives working for them. Instead they are subjected to rule from a ignorant, homogeneous party, which forget nationalism, has no understanding of the diversity, people and cultures that amalgamate to call themselves India.
Unity comes with representation, unity comes with compassion, unity comes with being open minded to everyone that is different to you. For a party that uses disunity to win elections, cannot complain about the nation splintering into state identities separate from its ignorant nationalism.
Well said
My father (and me as well) is a southie and has never stayed in North (except for general tourism).
But from a very young age he has been advising me that Northies have this "show off" attitude, but it is not wrong as they hae faced many insecurities since generations. He used to advise my northie friends to not to indulge in show off as well.
But he used to finish it off by saying that we in south are eating food because there is northie fauji protecting our borders.
Increasingly covering topics that were hitherto untouched by almost everyone.
Kudos 🙏🙏
Sir ji pranam
I have heard in B’lore from lot of indi people after they’ve shifted to B’lore saying… yar life mai shanti padgayi hai ..
Now I know why they saying that.
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Use sannatta kehte hhh😂😂😂😂
I am from north India and have friends from south and west . This why why question was always there.
Main iss baat ko bahut salo sey sochti hun. I am happy that you have made video. My husband and I have discussed this topic number of times .
Now I can share this video with my friends and it would help them to have a fresh prespective to look at it .
It proves how strongly trauma can travel through genes and it has to talked about so this generation get over it .
Aapka dhanyavad
Being a Hindu vegetarian Punjabi , I have always faced a question that
How I am a Punjabi and vegetarian.
There are few misconceptions about punjab that we all do balley balley all the time .
We can’t be religious and practise spirituality . And food is only rajmah, kadhi chholey, parathhey nothing healthy is there .
Would you please make a video how punjab is versatile and it is home to all the communities .
Thank you
Sir, Maharashtra has also spent centuries in fighting against the invadors specially Moghals and British. Over 1 lakh soldiers died in Panipat war. All this has impacted the lives of Maharashtra. There was hardly any possibility of development art and artistic infrastructure. The impact is that this has resulted in very aggressive nature. We can't trust people easily.
True true...!!
Let's ask South Indians how many wars those guys have fought ..
How many jailanwala baghs they have endured 😔😔
@@sapnamelanta2381 kittur rani chennamma the first freedom fighter of india ...get your facts right
Maharashtra enter war after 1650 when shivaji rose fame. But Punjab, Rajasthan, haryana, delhi fought 2500BC to till date. Because their border touch enemy nation. Alexander porus 326 bc, selucus chandragupta 305 bc,mahabharat 950 bc, kushan , kasim 712 AD. When shivaji time angrez already trade in India. Last 350 years only.
With all due respect to the brave Marathas, I beg to differ. The region of present Marathas was never under the direct attack by the invaders. Mostly, those wars were fought in the North Indian regions.
Marathas came to prominence after 16th century, when they started decimating the Mughals.
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 WELL THATS BC INVADERS CAME LATER TO MAHARASHTRA AS IT WAS FAR FROM NORTH ... AND NOT ONLY SHIVAJI BUT MANY MARATHAS FOUGHT THE WAR .U ONLY KNOW ABT SHIVAJI CUZ THANKS TO KHANGRESS THEY NEVER TAUGHT U ABT OTHERS (IN FACT THEY DINT EVEN TEACH SHIVAJI IN TEXTBOOKS ) TATYA TOPE SUNA HAI ?? TANAJI MALUSARE , RANI LAXMIBAI , HOLKAR , BAJIRAO PESHWA (thanks to movie everyone knows) khando ji angre , SCINDIA ..the list is endless ..hundreds of freedom fighters not included .... IN NORTH MANY KINGS RUN AWAY LIKE COWARDS AND MANY CONVERTED OR GAVE THEIR WIVES TO MUGHALS ...THIS WAS THE REASON... MARATHA EMPIRE WAS FROM ATAK TO KATAK (from afghanistan to southern india) @prakharsh95 .. HV U HEARD THE SAYING ...AGAR NA HOTA SIVA TO HOTI SABKI SUNTA .... FIRST INCREASE UR KNOWLEDGE THN CMNT
Yes well said . I m from karnataka. I can see this north Indians show off in Bengaluru 😀 .. proud I am south Indian.
Being a Bengali I stayed in Delhi for quiet a long time.
North Indians are lovely people..i never faced any problem from they..love them..
We have lot of north settlers, renters IT people over here in Hyderabad, the women from north are too stylish, mother and daughter wear same kind of sleeveless tops & shorts.
You are saying the truth. Both North Indians and South Indians have their own strengths and weaknesses, and they equally unite India.
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As a south indian, I agree with you sir, North indians are bit Showoff due to the influence of Bollywood movies. But personlly i like thier joyful life.
My father's mother was Bengali, father's father(Dadaji) was marathi ( maharashtrian and so am I by sirname) , my mother is Punjabi so our family is mix of 3 cultures.
And it is my mother's reading that she appreciated the groundedness and simplicity of maharashtrians a lot. Instead of showing off they rather show less than what they have and are actually little embarassed if they do have to talk about how well they r doing financially.
you always choose interesting and logical topics. thoroughly enjoyed.
Amazing, sir. I just discovered your channel. I appreciate your thoughtful posts👍👍
Yes sir I am from Himachal and people around me are so much in showoff actually I have spent much time in gwalior but when my father was retired from his job and we come back to our hometown here I realise the large difference
Khanda Peenda lahe da, baaki Ahmed Shahe da
- couplet from Waris Shah (of Heer Ranjha fame) on Ahmed Shah Abdali's reign of terror
Very well said sirji. I am from south, telugu speaking and Fully agree with you. Hats off to our north Indian brothers for their contribution to protecting Hindu civilisation over ages.
Lovely topic Sir. Having been in Defence for 30 years, really appreciate every corner of the country. Lot of my friends' parents migrated from West Punjab. I understand the sentiments of every community, since the defence personnel
Yes.... very very true 👍 well said
I don't know about other communities, but for marwadis I can say we live very frugally, we are told not to discuss about money matters outside the community. The only thing we spend on most is Weddings and some amount on Religious festivals and charity.
Bahut badhiya analysis 👌👌👌 thanks for enlightining. This question always plagued me.
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Well explained 🙏🙏🙏 i am from north and have a great respect and love for all south , north , west and central part of our motherland.
You are just like a good neighbour. Your presence is very soothing. Thanks a lot.
Thanks
Each & every world spoken in the vedio by you is a big truth for north
Indians
Sir you have a very lofty state of observation. I heartily thank you for sharing your experience.
Very much true , Sir ...North India has suffered from all the battles since thousands of years... you perfectly analysed the root cause and also suggested the solution as usual...
Our rich diversity and shared heritage makes us massively strong .Appreciating and celebrating the diversity is so refreshing.
If you lock up 2 punjabi and 2 Madrasi in 1 small room for 2 hours the results will be:- All 4 will get full, detailed, internal, secretive information about the 2 Punjabis. The Madrasi will only hear, will not talk nor reveal his internal information. This is nature made.
trueeee
You have so much clarity Uncle. Your videos are crisp, clear and logical. Hats off. Kisi topic ka introduction aur disclaimer dena koi aap se sikhe.
Lots of Congratulations sir .... Witnessed speedy growth of your channel, recently came across n liked ur content n now it's 1L subscribers 🎊💐🤗
Gaddiya uchiya rakhiya
NCR me rakhe Puri dhos chora
Ye sab lyrics se hi pata chalta hai logo ki mentality
But remember
"Amateurs chase the sun and get burned. Power stays in the shadows."
Very interesting historical aspect / angle given to this social customs / traditions ! Three cheers sir!
I am a south Indian married into a north Indian family, at least I got some answers why we are so different in the way we lead our lifes.
I agree with you 100% but this will bring change i am not optimistic ! This show biz is increasing day by day and hindi movies contributed a lot to it ! Those who don't believe in this are looked down upon!
Movies come depending on audience mindset not the other way round. Bollywood just showed what the audience like
You bring out amazing topics
Amazing.
Very True.
Sabhi jagah se North per attack hue the isiliye parda pratha yahan per thi.
Lekin aaj un logon per kaun attack kerne aa raha hai jo ki ab bhi ghoonghat kerne ke liye majboor air pratadit karte hain.
Usme bhi agar jis bahoo ke yahan se achha maal milta rehta hai uske per koi rok tok nahi hoti hai
This is a practical Truth.
I don't know Sir whether u will agree or not?
Believe it or not.
Sir... Really aap bahut deeply soch ker bolte ho.... I live in bangalore... I was in delhi also.... Really South me life easy lagti hai... Faltu ka pressure nahi hai.... I luv n appreciate ur vlogs...
I am à Pakistani from Islamabad. It was my observation that Pakistanis (old west Pakistani) are more show off and agressive than North Indians who in turn are more of these then South Indians. South indians are really humble and brainy. Most of the computer jobs in USA are held by them. I always wondered why is that? Really liked your analysis. Did you had any interaction with Pakistanis. One of my wifes cousin is married to à south indian . I asked her what is the cultural différence between you two? She replied that when ever there is a différence of opinion between us , i shout and blurt every thing out but he keeps quite and keeps evey thing in his heart. Both live in US. I am à Neurologist by profession and an auther by hobby.
Both north indians and Pakistanis are similar accept for the religion part.
If you analyse religious practices of Pakistanis and Hindus of North lndia deeply, they appear to be same but difference in name only
@@saadazim3021actually Pakistanis follow their ancestral hindu practices only till today whether its haldi/mayun, mehndi, doodh pilai…all are hindu origin from our ancient scriptures and have no mention in hadiths/quran, which only mentions nikah and reception
I'm Sindhi Panjabi from father side hariyanvi from mother side. My father is in sikh regiment.soo i can relate with this video that's very hard truth.
Very practical approach and thinking. GREAT Sir!
Thanks for sharing this truth. I born and brought in Delhi but last 18 years, I lived in south India and Maharashtra. I observed that my seniors and juniors who belong to same place are not belive in show off (no iphone, no luxury cars / expensive motor bike). Initially I had all but now I'm changed BUT now they are changing too 😁😁😁
Excellent, you are very practical and open minded and knowledgeable.
Andhra ke log bhi bahut showoff karte hain. Hundreds of sarees, unnecessary jewellery mostly kept in bank lockers, splurging on wedding. Of late they began to show off their houses.
Thanks and regards. This is the true picture.
5 mins in.. this has blown my mind. I never thought of North/South Indians in this way. The analogies are thought provoking and seamless .
THIS IS ABSOLUTELY TRUE. KUDOS FOR YOUR COURAGE TO SPEAK UP
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Now, I undertsand why North Indian people are more aggressive ?
I lived in Delhi for 6 years .
Ladies there judge other women by what they wear,.... designer stuff is a must!!!
Men are weighed by the cars they own, jazzier, the better, driver driven, still better....
True they show off but they are very warm and hospitable.
I live in Uttar Pradesh..bcoz my father is in defence i lived in banglore,Madras, Punjab and Delhi...what i felt is south india is still close to their culture n i live that people are also so cute and simple.. my many friends are from south ..and i love their simplicity..yes in north people are show off but only those who are not connected with their roots..rest all things u said are true.
Wonderful Psychological and wisdom oriented explanation Sirji 🙏🏽
Never thought that the generational trauma is carried through DNA and those results are still seen in North Indians🥹.
Please keep sharing such videos, it gives a food to mind😊
Maaja aa gya paaji.Bahut wadia.
Very true sir. Well explained
A very interesting perspective to a question that often crops up. No matter what the topic, these videos are always a good watch.
Sir Bahut bariya idea pe video banayee sach ahin ekdum
North Indian culture is more material especially Punjab, Haryana area with more emphasis on good eating for strong body, work hard physically (like mr. sango said commitment to protect against enemy). Although human psychology tends to show off that which it does not have in reality. Some folks take show off to another level like skipping meals to buy that designer shirt etc. Such attitude makes life very stressful and ill effects of this stress spill over covertly in other areas of life.
Valid point...all invasions happened from the North. And your advice is valid that now they can tone it down. Because I have also seen that weddings are really exorbitant and there's definitely a little show off.
Yes sir you are right 🙏🙏
Superb! Amazing Insight shared here.. Too Good. 👌
IAM a North Indian living in South India for nearly thirty five years I totally agree with you Sir IAM married to a haryanvi husband
You have the great understanding and correct analysis
Best part in comment section is there is so much acceptance of our cultural differences and diversity and not much hate 👏🏻
sir aapke itni zyada sociological batein kari hain ki bahut zyada acchi lagi mujhe. kafi acchi analysis hai aapki. ❤️
You are right.Our all children are in South India because of job since last 15 years. Due to this we offenly go South.Even very rich people of South don't organise expensive marriage.Whereas we north Indians don't follow these.
North Indians do have a habit of showing off which is harmless to any body but the new generation is spending more compared to older people. Saving and investing are the two things that have to be taught to them.
Great topic selection and clarity. Awesome sir.