I once dated a guy like big. For 2 whole years. It was a nightmare and I wasn’t realizing it. One day I asked him why he hasn’t introduced me to any of his family members after all this time, not even his sister, and he answered “my family is important to me, and I don’t know if YOU are”. There, right after that phrase everything I was feeling for him, died. 2 days after, I broke up with him. Now I’m happy with an amazing guy.
@@irishsingersongwritertessp4223 Yes, I agree he did me a favor. Cause if that thing wasn’t said, I wouldn’t meet my amazing fiancé right now! Things in life happen for a reason. You can’t stay with a man who treats you like that. Carrie didn’t seem to acknowledge that hah
Everyone's like 'I hate Carrie', or 'I hate Big'. Shit. I don't like either of them. Carrie's whiny and needy, and Big's a coward with commitment issues. I'd rather have Steve.
@@katerinachlmi6312 come on he wanted Charlotte to convert. Who would want someone like that. Religion is more important than love. I would have ran other way around 🤦
@@ranju1710 actually he didn't ask for her to convert. He just said that he wanted to marry a Jew. Charlotte did so she could marry him. So it is on Charlotte that religion was not that important.
At this point Big could have said, "don't you get it, I am not serious about you. "We" are never going to happen. I will never put a ring on it. N.e.v.e.r." and Carrie would still be around saying "Oh!"
boimackhead she just wanted to make it bout herself.....AGAIN! I do have to say is the fact the fans hate her so much is a testament to Sarah's acting.
He has serious commitment issues and she was extremely needy. Not a very good combination. Aiden was ready and mature for the relationship Carrie kept trying to force Big to have with her but he was too easy... Just like Carrie was too easy for Big.
yes Aiden was ready, but Carrie wasn't for their relationship. She knew in her heart he wasn't the one. If he was the one things would've gone differently. With that said
Carrie is nuts and obsessed with this guy. This is stalking behavior, and if the sexes were reversed, her behavior would automatically be considered creepy. Even if we ignore that, Big specifically asked her not to, and she selfishly disrespected his boundaries. Church was a special thing he did with his mother, alone. Knowing Big's character as an atheist, this activity is more than likely something he would never do on his own, and only does it his mother happy. Plus, Big needed to introduce Carrie to his family when HE was ready, instead of being forced into it. Pressuring someone and forcing your way into their personal life is the most effective way to make them feel smothered and violated. Yes, Big did have a fear of commitment and was consistently emotionally unavailable. Once Carrie realized that he couldn't give her what she felt she needed out of a relationship, she needed to break it off for good. Unfortunately, she lacks true self-respect and is too emotionally immature.
I honestly can relate to Carrie wanting to be special and important to someone she really cares about, but at some point you have to face reality and move on when you realize that person doesn't value you that way.
@gradetrend8138 Carrie saw many red flags in Mr. Big, but she was in denial. It wasn’t until this episode that she finally realized that Mr. Big didn’t take her seriously.
Carrie is really pushy. She's comes to the church after Big asks her not to. Also, she brings her friends to Alex's apartment after he told her not to.
I probably shouldn't mention this but I heard Steve Harvey say: "Don't let a man have to tell you he doesn't want you twice!" Have some self respect and walk away woman! He has very little regard for you, so return the favor!!
My only problem with Charlotte was how uptight she was and hyper focused on men, otherwise I liked her. Plus I loved her and Samantha wardrobe However, I can’t stand Carrie.
Carrie was needy, creepy and obsessed with Big, no wonder he never took her seriously, she made it so damn clear that she was obsessed with him and overstepping boundaries
partly because the audience was. back then there was a pattern to tv and movies, the will they won't they trope was huge and big/carrie were trapped in that trope even though they were toxic for each other.
Carrie wanted Big because he was everything she was not, wealthy, confident, charismatic and content. She set out to acquire the man so she could wear those traits like a pair of shoes.
Yup and don’t forget to chose to make herself a victim..she volunteered to be every time he kept pushing her away she ran back. She chose her unhappiness
When I was a teenager I was fascinated with Carrie but after seeing how she chased and begged big to love her I said I don't want that I want someone who respects me and loves me
Big and Bigs mother are from a higher social class than Carrie. That is why they both dont recognize Carrie as "wife material" / "girlfriend material".
The older I get the more I wonder what my fascination with Carrie was about? I’ve yet to see one season where Big works to earn her love and trust. All he has to do is show up and wiggle his brows at her.
This is not the best video to empathize with this gold digging label obsessed social climber. Carrie is the star of this show. But she is made delicious by her flaws. In this video Carrie is a Stalker. If Carrie was a man and big is a lady of class, this barbaric behavior would be described as creepy.
That's funny. I wonder what Big ever saw in Carrie. She has a certain cuteness but she is no great beauty. Her personality is grasping and juvenile. I finally concluded that he loved her as some will love a pet kitten, mildly amusing but easily ignored.
you know people talk alot of shit about big but he since the beginning has been nothing but straight up and honest with carrie and made it CLEAR that he had to take his time not hers and i respect that. carrie just couldnt open her fucking eyes thank god they ended up together because that shit gets old when you're......OLD LMAO and they weren't even young here 😂
Big strikes me a s person who was forced into commitment like marriage. Both his marriages ended badly. "I have to do things on my own time" Carrie never respected his boundries. She was an entitled brat who wanted things her way instantly. Never once asking Big why he was afraid of commitment. Actually he wasn't afraid of committment, he just didn't rush into it. Or let himself be forced into it again.
If someone you're interested in asks for space, either give it to them, or if you find you can't and they won't judge, consider whether this is really a good fit for you. I generally favoured Miranda and Samantha.
Ooooooooo 😞 My mother doesnt need to meet another girlfriend. - punch And then - knockout - I will introduce you as a girlfriend when I am sure 🤔😞😞 This is aaaawfffull And yet most women stayed in that sort of relationship way longer than would be healthy to...
Things have changed a lot since this show fortunately. I remember that it was kind of shocking at the time. Today I think that many women would know and leave but that was the time of rom-coms.
She is so (ironically) self righteous! She breaks Big’s boundaries, makes a scene in Church, embarrasses him (and herself) in front of his mother (I’m Carrie - Carrie Carrie!). Ugh. I found her mildly annoying when I watched the original series, but she was toxic AF!
Problem is with Carrie she always wanted something from Big that she knew he couldn’t deliver. Big straight up told her he didn’t want her at the church and she stalks him there anyways. When she didn’t get what she wanted, she pushed and pushed. Big set a clear boundary and she ignored it.
@@jasminafilipovic7942 Lol. Men who love a woman don't treat like he treated Carrie. Yeah he slept with her, because that's all she was good for in his eyes. He also married a woman he didnt love, but Natasha was a classy woman and that is what Big wanted to be seen with and introduce to his family and friends, not someone like Carrie. Its clear he saw Carrie as fun but trashy and desperate. Fact is a man will rarely fully reject an attractive desperate woman, they'll use her for their own benefit because why not if she's so desperate? In the end he married her because no self respecting upper class woman (which is what he wanted) would ever want him anymore with the reputation he'd gotten from his behaviour.
@@JosefineLea yeah, I think he had many options with upper class ladies but still chose Carrie. And their relationship spands through many things. Carrie dumped him several times as I recall🙂
Sometimes I think, that to much sex can destroy your brain cells. Carrie is the perfect example. Big doesn't wanted her in the church - she had to go. Big would go to Paris whenever he must becaus of his job - she cried like a little baby. Why didn't she just go with him!? Aiden asked her not to smoke - what did she do? Smoke behind his back and cheated on him with Big. Alexandr Petrovsky was just to big for her. She couldn't reach his niveau. She's a neurotic, selfish, self-centered woman.
The comments bashing Carrie are so pathetic. She is a fictional character written to be insecure because her selfish bastard dad left her and her mother in the mid seventies. She is a typical gen X woman trying to find her place in New York. That's all.
Let's be honest, the girl, the woman, the adequate "wife" for Mr. Big, was Natasha. That class, style, education. She would be difficult to find in all those twats Carrie, and even Big used to frequent.... She would mingle in real high class places.. Why do you think it was very difficult for him to introduce her to his friends.. His friends, his family, where ?! And then look, he got no public wedding with her.... !! It was all private
She's upset because she pulled a passive aggressive move and he didn't react the way that she expected. This is why I never liked her character. She's manipulative, whiny, self important and a professional victim.
Carrie is my least fav but I empathize with her behavior somewhat. I was dumped yesterday (i'll get over it eventually) and if I met that man again and again in my life, being the romantic at heart that I am, I can't say I would be able to stay strong and not think about him ever again. And Big is a douchebag but with a dangerous mix of charm and emotion and he's confused himself. In my humble opinion, it does mess with your mind. But yeah, if I ever find myself an Aidan, i'd never ever consider anything else.
You're in a church, take your hats off! I am an atheist but if you enter a religious building you do it with respect. Is it different in the US? Here in Germany it is disrespectful to wear a cap or hat in a church.
Carrie is a terrible character. She simply has to have her own way no matter the consequences. He explained that he attends church with his mother and she decides to show up expecting a fanfare on her behalf. She uses people, especially the most straightforward ones like Miranda and Aidan and Natasha.
I never realized until recently what a horrible human being she was. She also committed adultery with Big. She was pretty much a promiscuous city girl with no values and completely self obsessed.
I see this scene differently now as an older woman. When you love someone as much as Carrie thought she loved Big, you think and talk about them all the time. But his mom didn't even know who she was. That had to sting.
There's absolutely no excuse for encroaching on a partners personal wishes. He specifically said he didn't want her to come, and she did anyways. His mom is obviously religious, who introduces a girlfriend when they're not sure where it's going yet? Thinking and talking is one thing, she stalked him
Tbh I can relate to everything he said. She was the pushy one here. If someone did this to me, I would just break up with them. I've never introduced anyone to my parents, not even a 4 year relationship, because I wasn't sure how long that will last. There's really no point introducing every single person you get with to your family, especially if you don't even know where that is going.
I can understand not introducing to your family every single person you meet but ¿¡A FOUR-year relationship!? ¿Wasn't it a little drastic? I mean, if a person isn't sure about me after a year then ¿What the hell is he/she doing with me?
@@FreeTibetFTW The amount of years don't mean anything tbh. It's about both of you wanting to make it a commitment, no matter how things unfold in the future. They never had that conversation, and not everyone wants that, and not everyone wants that with the current person they are with. For me personally the whole commitment no matter what makes no sense. I can have a wonderful time with the person for 20 years, but on the 21st decide that I no longer want to be with them for whatever reason. I don't care about staying together just because we were together for certain amount of years. If one of us isn't happy/content with the direction we are heading (at any point in time), it's better to end it and stay on good terms, than keep holding onto the relationship just for the sake of being together and ending up bitter and resenting each other. So, because I have 0 interest in doing the whole "till death do us part" thing, introducing my partners to my family is pointless.
She purposely dropped the bible and after she makes him smile seem to say "oh down ", the reality is " now your mother saw me! Ha! Ha!" But It's a very stupid ! Carrie is really immature
Mr. Big is not her boyfriend. She is her project. She is putting all her time and effort just to grab him and tame him for her self validation. She wants to own Mr. Big because no one else can satisfy her ego than the rich influential man who turned down Samantha. So its her life mission to make him hers. Other guys were just distractions. Good sex and all..
His mother is played by Marian Seldes, a very well known and regarded Broadway actress. No doubt she had other commitments, or, didn't like the script.
I don’t know what’s worse, the fact that Carrie was even there, the embarrassing scene they made when the bible plummeted, or Carrie coming up to Big after church was over and practically forcing him to introduce her to his mother. Such cringe worthy moments.
Hey Carrie it's okay girl, I feel ya. He introduced u as a friend. That's alright I was married and someone times my ex hardly introduced me at times. Lol bet his new wife gets and entrance. Lol. Go Carrie. ❤️
For those who are attacking Carrie, just remember this...Why did the writers turn Carrie into a pushy, let's get married tomorrow type? What's their motive for all this? And why? Are they trying to reverse the role, and show a different side of men when they are not ready for something, or showing Carrie's character to women the dos and don'ts.
I think she did it because Steve mentioned it would mean a lot to his ma because everyone in his family has been baptized. So she agreed to make him happy
Am sry maybe am wrong but Carrie was being to needy and was trying to force a relationship that needed to take it one day at a time .when he already said I rather just be me and my mom but invited her on Vaca I would've gone maybe he wouldve figured out she was the one...
That's why Big didn't marry Carrie. His mother's approval or keeping up with the standards meant more to him or couldn't break free from them. She was below standard. He had to learn love is more important than all of that. Finally he realized at the end.
Their ending wasn't realistic at all. Men like Big don't change they keep stringing you along and giving false hope and mixed messages they probably enjoy the power they have over their other half. Big only ever wanted Carrie when she was with someone else and he only called het when he wanted something Natasha leaving him being the prime example he called Carrie to meet so she could make him feel better about himself not because he loved and wanted her.
Uh... to be fair... I know that they end up married but like. Carrie IS bellow standard. She's uncouth, she's self absorbed, she's plain pathetic, she's clingy, needy and creates drama out of thin air because by her own admission she doesn't want a healthy stable relationship. She also doesn't have redeeming qualities of wit or high intellect or wise business sense. She has nothing to offer to Big as a partner. She is bellow standard. Not of some artificial high society play pretend standards, but like, standards that normal every day people strive for.
Sometimes I feel we are now too hard on Carrie and then I’m reminded that she does dumb shit like this and I’m like, “why are you like this in your 30’s?”.
Everyone criticise Big but seriously who would put up with a Carry for as long as he did ? If a guy was creeping on me like she just did, that wd be end right then...
Katie Perry Well he certainly blew Hot and Cold but then there could also be a firework. Personally I’m with you and would Swish Swish outta there too, but Carrie was Chained to the Rhythm of Big because he was such a Dark Horse. I suppose we all have a Teenage Dream and he was The One That Got Away. Maybe she should’ve Kissed a Girl?
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Carrie was "in love" with Big, but she never loved him. Love is when you want all things FOR the beloved. "In love" is merely all the things you want FROM them. Being "in love" is selfishness. Carrie had zero respect for Big's wishes or for his feelings. She refused to take him at his word. How impossibly insulting and presumptuous.
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I once dated a guy like big. For 2 whole years. It was a nightmare and I wasn’t realizing it. One day I asked him why he hasn’t introduced me to any of his family members after all this time, not even his sister, and he answered “my family is important to me, and I don’t know if YOU are”. There, right after that phrase everything I was feeling for him, died. 2 days after, I broke up with him. Now I’m happy with an amazing guy.
Good. Love yourself first ❤
You waited a whole two days to dump him after he said to you?!
You should’ve said “Are these important to you?” and kicked him in the bollocks!
After two years he said he doesn't know if you're important to him? r/that happened
He did you a favour. Happy ending for you. I had a similar thing said to me by an ex and it gave me chills. Happy now with a wonderful husband
@@irishsingersongwritertessp4223 Yes, I agree he did me a favor. Cause if that thing wasn’t said, I wouldn’t meet my amazing fiancé right now! Things in life happen for a reason. You can’t stay with a man who treats you like that. Carrie didn’t seem to acknowledge that hah
The same woman who freaked out when Aidan said he wanted to introduce her to his PARENTS!
Because she didn't love him like she did big
Her therapist said as much... Carrie finds men who will beat her and abuse her... as positively orgasmic.
Gonna let you in on a little secret - Carrie is big to Aiden
"He's just not that into you"
He’s a narcissist !!
Everyone's like 'I hate Carrie', or 'I hate Big'.
Shit. I don't like either of them. Carrie's whiny and needy, and Big's a coward with commitment issues.
I'd rather have Steve.
gaamatsu4dewin it's New York. It's a nest of assholes. They all belong together if you ask me.
Steve cheated. I'd rather have Smith.
The best one is Harry.
@@katerinachlmi6312 come on he wanted Charlotte to convert. Who would want someone like that. Religion is more important than love. I would have ran other way around 🤦
@@ranju1710 actually he didn't ask for her to convert. He just said that he wanted to marry a Jew. Charlotte did so she could marry him. So it is on Charlotte that religion was not that important.
I never realised how pathetic Carrie was.
Lol. Seriously! No pride.
X3
😒🙄
Carrie wasn’t pathetic. Big was lying to her the whole time and she trusted him.
At this point Big could have said, "don't you get it, I am not serious about you. "We" are never going to happen. I will never put a ring on it. N.e.v.e.r." and Carrie would still be around saying "Oh!"
Wrong move carrie, showing up at the Man's church like that after he told you not to.
+Kenny James She's needy and pushy--
Monica G Very true! Very very true!
Kenny James wasn't she in Fatal Attraction??
Ha Ha!
boimackhead she just wanted to make it bout herself.....AGAIN! I do have to say is the fact the fans hate her so much is a testament to Sarah's acting.
Seriously, she is too desperate for words, literally stalked him
He has serious commitment issues and she was extremely needy. Not a very good combination. Aiden was ready and mature for the relationship Carrie kept trying to force Big to have with her but he was too easy... Just like Carrie was too easy for Big.
yes Aiden was ready, but Carrie wasn't for their relationship. She knew in her heart he wasn't the one. If he was the one things would've gone differently. With that said
He doesn't have commitment issues, it's just he's not that into her and she didn't want to realize it
In my opinion Carrie really should've just stuck with Aiden cause he seemed more her type & age.
Avoidant attachment (Big) Anxious Attachment (Carrie)
Well not really, he didn't have a problem marrying Natasha right away.
Carrie is nuts and obsessed with this guy. This is stalking behavior, and if the sexes were reversed, her behavior would automatically be considered creepy. Even if we ignore that, Big specifically asked her not to, and she selfishly disrespected his boundaries. Church was a special thing he did with his mother, alone. Knowing Big's character as an atheist, this activity is more than likely something he would never do on his own, and only does it his mother happy. Plus, Big needed to introduce Carrie to his family when HE was ready, instead of being forced into it. Pressuring someone and forcing your way into their personal life is the most effective way to make them feel smothered and violated. Yes, Big did have a fear of commitment and was consistently emotionally unavailable. Once Carrie realized that he couldn't give her what she felt she needed out of a relationship, she needed to break it off for good. Unfortunately, she lacks true self-respect and is too emotionally immature.
exactly, but it did backfire of course. He was clearly not ready nor sure. Forcing your way like that is no go
cb is a total melt he is a ass too😶
ITS NOT REAL!!! FOR CHRIST'S SAKE!!
In satc there is a man that literally films women he sleeps with without their consent, and he's not called a creep. So no.
Another thing is in my opinion Big always looked old enough to be Carrie's father but Aiden didn't.
I honestly can relate to Carrie wanting to be special and important to someone she really cares about, but at some point you have to face reality and move on when you realize that person doesn't value you that way.
❤ 💯 his mother had NO idea who she even was! What more clues does she need she was NOT the ONE MOVE ON
@gradetrend8138 Carrie saw many red flags in Mr. Big, but she was in denial. It wasn’t until this episode that she finally realized that Mr. Big didn’t take her seriously.
Carrie is really pushy. She's comes to the church after Big asks her not to. Also, she brings her friends to Alex's apartment after he told her not to.
I probably shouldn't mention this but I heard Steve Harvey say: "Don't let a man have to tell you he doesn't want you twice!"
Have some self respect and walk away woman! He has very little regard for you, so return the favor!!
love samantha and Miranda. I do find Carrie and Charlotte hard work
My only problem with Charlotte was how uptight she was and hyper focused on men, otherwise I liked her. Plus I loved her and Samantha wardrobe
However, I can’t stand Carrie.
I love Charlotte Samantha and Miranda. And obviously everyone hates Carrie
@@nikidon99 not everyone...🤷🏻
@@nikidon99 I like Carrie
@@idkbrosstudios8446 Yes Charlotte thankfully grew out of that after her failed marriage with Trey.
Carrie was needy, creepy and obsessed with Big, no wonder he never took her seriously, she made it so damn clear that she was obsessed with him and overstepping boundaries
I loved how Charlotte abandoned the idea of true love coming in a certain package. I don’t get why Carrie was so stuck on Big.
partly because the audience was. back then there was a pattern to tv and movies, the will they won't they trope was huge and big/carrie were trapped in that trope even though they were toxic for each other.
Carrie wanted Big because he was everything she was not, wealthy, confident, charismatic and content. She set out to acquire the man so she could wear those traits like a pair of shoes.
He is rich. That is it.
She had no right to show up and put him on the spot like that. I cannot fucking stand Carrie.
Yup and don’t forget to chose to make herself a victim..she volunteered to be every time he kept pushing her away she ran back. She chose her unhappiness
When I was a teenager I was fascinated with Carrie but after seeing how she chased and begged big to love her I said I don't want that I want someone who respects me and loves me
Big and Bigs mother are from a higher social class than Carrie. That is why they both dont recognize Carrie as "wife material" / "girlfriend material".
The older I get the more I wonder what my fascination with Carrie was about? I’ve yet to see one season where Big works to earn her love and trust. All he has to do is show up and wiggle his brows at her.
This is not the best video to empathize with this gold digging label obsessed social climber. Carrie is the star of this show. But she is made delicious by her flaws. In this video Carrie is a Stalker. If Carrie was a man and big is a lady of class, this barbaric behavior would be described as creepy.
That's funny. I wonder what Big ever saw in Carrie. She has a certain cuteness but she is no great beauty. Her personality is grasping and juvenile. I finally concluded that he loved her as some will love a pet kitten, mildly amusing but easily ignored.
😂 so aptly put
There's one thing in life I've learned...... late but learned....... Never push a guy Never !!! Just be yourself and do your best
you know people talk alot of shit about big but he since the beginning has been nothing but straight up and honest with carrie and made it CLEAR that he had to take his time not hers and i respect that. carrie just couldnt open her fucking eyes thank god they ended up together because that shit gets old when you're......OLD LMAO and they weren't even young here 😂
Big strikes me a s person who was forced into commitment like marriage. Both his marriages ended badly. "I have to do things on my own time" Carrie never respected his boundries. She was an entitled brat who wanted things her way instantly. Never once asking Big why he was afraid of commitment. Actually he wasn't afraid of committment, he just didn't rush into it. Or let himself be forced into it again.
I had thought that Carrie was in her twenties during the first couple of seasons. She was in her thirties, though, and she acted like she was 13.
Big was the type of man you should never ever date.
If someone you're interested in asks for space, either give it to them, or if you find you can't and they won't judge, consider whether this is really a good fit for you.
I generally favoured Miranda and Samantha.
00:37 When that bible fell, my heart dropped! And Miranda's scream didn't make it any better.
LuKasAV6 I know 😢 the Holy Book
@@jatoya.s1021 idk why but that makes me laugh every time 😂
@@randomist3475 ya for metoo 😂
Ooooooooo 😞
My mother doesnt need to meet another girlfriend.
- punch
And then - knockout -
I will introduce you as a girlfriend when I am sure
🤔😞😞
This is aaaawfffull
And yet most women stayed in that sort of relationship way longer than would be healthy to...
Things have changed a lot since this show fortunately. I remember that it was kind of shocking at the time. Today I think that many women would know and leave but that was the time of rom-coms.
She is so (ironically) self righteous!
She breaks Big’s boundaries, makes a scene in Church, embarrasses him (and herself) in front of his mother (I’m Carrie - Carrie Carrie!). Ugh. I found her mildly annoying when I watched the original series, but she was toxic AF!
Yes she was. And Big was a lot worse. Carrie although being pushy did not deserve Bigs shit behaviour. She should have dumped him after that.
I never realized what a total, creepy stalker Carrie was!
Miranda is a good friend for coming along but this is all so creepy
She did it for the eggs 😝
Problem is with Carrie she always wanted something from Big that she knew he couldn’t deliver. Big straight up told her he didn’t want her at the church and she stalks him there anyways. When she didn’t get what she wanted, she pushed and pushed. Big set a clear boundary and she ignored it.
When he married another woman big sign he's not that into you he just settled......💓💖💖
Only to cheat her with Carrie. Carrie was the one, not beige model🙂
@@jasminafilipovic7942 Lol. Men who love a woman don't treat like he treated Carrie. Yeah he slept with her, because that's all she was good for in his eyes. He also married a woman he didnt love, but Natasha was a classy woman and that is what Big wanted to be seen with and introduce to his family and friends, not someone like Carrie. Its clear he saw Carrie as fun but trashy and desperate. Fact is a man will rarely fully reject an attractive desperate woman, they'll use her for their own benefit because why not if she's so desperate? In the end he married her because no self respecting upper class woman (which is what he wanted) would ever want him anymore with the reputation he'd gotten from his behaviour.
@@JosefineLea yeah, I think he had many options with upper class ladies but still chose Carrie. And their relationship spands through many things. Carrie dumped him several times as I recall🙂
Almost seems like Carrie dropped the book on purpose to make a big scene, she loves being selfish and overdramatic.
Carrie looks like she plays in a Marichi band with that Sombrero she has on.
carrie was so cheap
Sometimes I think, that to much sex can destroy your brain cells. Carrie is the perfect example.
Big doesn't wanted her in the church - she had to go.
Big would go to Paris whenever he must becaus of his job - she cried like a little baby. Why didn't she just go with him!?
Aiden asked her not to smoke - what did she do? Smoke behind his back and cheated on him with Big.
Alexandr Petrovsky was just to big for her. She couldn't reach his niveau.
She's a neurotic, selfish, self-centered woman.
people have flaws, unbelievable 😢
@@onthesideof4 it's more than flaws with Carrie, she's follows big like a puppy dog and gets so defensive when her friends say anything against him
Too much sex doesn't destroy the brain. Look at Samatha! She is very logical.
The comments bashing Carrie are so pathetic.
She is a fictional character written to be insecure because her selfish bastard dad left her and her mother in the mid seventies.
She is a typical gen X woman trying to find her place in New York. That's all.
@@thesecondTH-cam Aha.
I hated Carrie with guys she was clueless.
Mr. Big has commitment issues= loves him
Aidan is nice, proposes= cheats+no thanks
She’s only this obsessed because he’s rich
Twice: Carrie is always shooing Miranda off!! Remember when Carrie invited Miranda and Steve as her airbag for her thing with Aidan?? Tsk tsk
Let's be honest, the girl, the woman, the adequate "wife" for Mr. Big, was Natasha. That class, style, education. She would be difficult to find in all those twats Carrie, and even Big used to frequent.... She would mingle in real high class places.. Why do you think it was very difficult for him to introduce her to his friends.. His friends, his family, where ?! And then look, he got no public wedding with her.... !! It was all private
Please expound upon all of this I am new to dating and could use this advice.
She's upset because she pulled a passive aggressive move and he didn't react the way that she expected. This is why I never liked her character. She's manipulative, whiny, self important and a professional victim.
Desperation and no shame...thy name is Carrie. Big is fine but have some dignity.
I swear...
I am with Big. He is not sure yet, but Carrie did not stop pushing him.
The great Marian Seldes as his mother.
Yep ladies men do need to do their thing on their own time don't push them that is the best way to turn them off!
ok he said he asked her not to do something she did anyway...I'm on bigs side with this one.
Am I the only one who thinks that hat is too much for church?
LOL...obviously you've never seen Southern Baptist churches in the United States. The bigger the hat and the hair, the closer to Jesus!!!
@@lisarichardson5384 i laughed harder than I should
Well, it is a perfect metaphor for Carrie's unbearable, over the top personality so it's absolutely fitting
I don't know if the floods come again at least she'll have something to sail out on
You've clearly never been to a church down south if you think that's too much for church.
why he was so mean to her ,she was obssesed with this man and he treated her so bad
It's not okay to be obsessed with someone. Do you really think Big should be happy about that?
Yeah you keep "oh!" ing, Carrie. So many clues. So. Many. Clues.
Carrie should never have gone to the chruch what was she thinking.
Cringe. I can't watch this. Bad move showing up at the Church.
Carrie is my least fav but I empathize with her behavior somewhat. I was dumped yesterday (i'll get over it eventually) and if I met that man again and again in my life, being the romantic at heart that I am, I can't say I would be able to stay strong and not think about him ever again. And Big is a douchebag but with a dangerous mix of charm and emotion and he's confused himself. In my humble opinion, it does mess with your mind. But yeah, if I ever find myself an Aidan, i'd never ever consider anything else.
Wow landed on this comment I made 2 years ago. I can confidently say I now dont give an F about someone who disrespeted me.
sjps acting is truly amazing
what a stalker, I get anxious just to look at this scene
You're in a church, take your hats off!
I am an atheist but if you enter a religious building you do it with respect.
Is it different in the US? Here in Germany it is disrespectful to wear a cap or hat in a church.
That was never a healthy relationship.
A narcissists relationship
Carrie is a terrible character. She simply has to have her own way no matter the consequences. He explained that he attends church with his mother and she decides to show up expecting a fanfare on her behalf. She uses people, especially the most straightforward ones like Miranda and Aidan and Natasha.
I never realized until recently what a horrible human being she was. She also committed adultery with Big. She was pretty much a promiscuous city girl with no values and completely self obsessed.
he always treated her bad omg how did she not notice literally
Miranda looks real beautiful in that orange hat.
I see this scene differently now as an older woman. When you love someone as much as Carrie thought she loved Big, you think and talk about them all the time. But his mom didn't even know who she was. That had to sting.
There's absolutely no excuse for encroaching on a partners personal wishes. He specifically said he didn't want her to come, and she did anyways. His mom is obviously religious, who introduces a girlfriend when they're not sure where it's going yet? Thinking and talking is one thing, she stalked him
@noneyah 🙄🙄🤦🏻♀️
“Spying” with a big and brightass church hat 🤣
She didn’t take her glove off when shaking big‘s mother’s hand. So disrespectful of Carrie.
But this is how she was.
That's etiquette 101?
Tbh I can relate to everything he said. She was the pushy one here. If someone did this to me, I would just break up with them. I've never introduced anyone to my parents, not even a 4 year relationship, because I wasn't sure how long that will last. There's really no point introducing every single person you get with to your family, especially if you don't even know where that is going.
I can understand not introducing to your family every single person you meet but ¿¡A FOUR-year relationship!? ¿Wasn't it a little drastic? I mean, if a person isn't sure about me after a year then ¿What the hell is he/she doing with me?
@@FreeTibetFTW The amount of years don't mean anything tbh. It's about both of you wanting to make it a commitment, no matter how things unfold in the future. They never had that conversation, and not everyone wants that, and not everyone wants that with the current person they are with.
For me personally the whole commitment no matter what makes no sense. I can have a wonderful time with the person for 20 years, but on the 21st decide that I no longer want to be with them for whatever reason. I don't care about staying together just because we were together for certain amount of years. If one of us isn't happy/content with the direction we are heading (at any point in time), it's better to end it and stay on good terms, than keep holding onto the relationship just for the sake of being together and ending up bitter and resenting each other. So, because I have 0 interest in doing the whole "till death do us part" thing, introducing my partners to my family is pointless.
Love those outfits and hats
She purposely dropped the bible and after she makes him smile seem to say "oh down ", the reality is " now your mother saw me! Ha! Ha!" But It's a very stupid ! Carrie is really immature
the delusion
Mr. Big is not her boyfriend. She is her project. She is putting all her time and effort just to grab him and tame him for her self validation. She wants to own Mr. Big because no one else can satisfy her ego than the rich influential man who turned down Samantha. So its her life mission to make him hers. Other guys were just distractions. Good sex and all..
"Well
Has
The Woman
Even Heard
Of Me??"
How come this Big's mother is not in SATC movie when Big got married to Carrie?
His mother is played by Marian Seldes, a very well known and regarded Broadway actress. No doubt she had other commitments, or, didn't like the script.
What season and episode is this??
"Lighten up, it's a Presbyterian church, not a Catholic church"
Spoken like a truly unhappy woman!!
Carrie is so self absorbed
I don’t know what’s worse, the fact that Carrie was even there, the embarrassing scene they made when the bible plummeted, or Carrie coming up to Big after church was over and practically forcing him to introduce her to his mother. Such cringe worthy moments.
Buon pranzo domenicale salentino mr Raffa ahahahah
I love Miranda's comments...
there are soo many..and they're all man made religions
.you can b a good person and not be religious...
Lotus 444 100 percent agree!
Not cool to go inside someone else's house of worship and insult their faith. A little respect goes a long way.
@@SmidBeach Don’t bother with them
Hey Carrie it's okay girl, I feel ya. He introduced u as a friend. That's alright I was married and someone times my ex hardly introduced me at times. Lol bet his new wife gets and entrance. Lol.
Go Carrie. ❤️
Would she insist the same way on a poor guy?
For those who are attacking Carrie, just remember this...Why did the writers turn Carrie into a pushy, let's get married tomorrow type? What's their motive for all this? And why? Are they trying to reverse the role, and show a different side of men when they are not ready for something, or showing Carrie's character to women the dos and don'ts.
Rht
To be fair Carrie wasn’t supposed to be there. She followed Big to church to meet his mom.
I have never understood why Miranda baptized her baby.
I think she did it because Steve mentioned it would mean a lot to his ma because everyone in his family has been baptized. So she agreed to make him happy
Am sry maybe am wrong but Carrie was being to needy and was trying to force a relationship that needed to take it one day at a time .when he already said I rather just be me and my mom but invited her on Vaca I would've gone maybe he wouldve figured out she was the one...
That's why Big didn't marry Carrie. His mother's approval or keeping up with the standards meant more to him or couldn't break free from them. She was below standard. He had to learn love is more important than all of that. Finally he realized at the end.
Their ending wasn't realistic at all. Men like Big don't change they keep stringing you along and giving false hope and mixed messages they probably enjoy the power they have over their other half. Big only ever wanted Carrie when she was with someone else and he only called het when he wanted something Natasha leaving him being the prime example he called Carrie to meet so she could make him feel better about himself not because he loved and wanted her.
Uh... to be fair... I know that they end up married but like. Carrie IS bellow standard. She's uncouth, she's self absorbed, she's plain pathetic, she's clingy, needy and creates drama out of thin air because by her own admission she doesn't want a healthy stable relationship. She also doesn't have redeeming qualities of wit or high intellect or wise business sense. She has nothing to offer to Big as a partner. She is bellow standard. Not of some artificial high society play pretend standards, but like, standards that normal every day people strive for.
Poor Carrie, she is so despo!
I never wanted to meet my boyfriends parents and I always introduced my boyfriends to my parents after many months I understand Big
Sometimes I feel we are now too hard on Carrie and then I’m reminded that she does dumb shit like this and I’m like, “why are you like this in your 30’s?”.
Tall and proud, yes. Respectful? That can be faked, as he's proven before.
never be a carrie..
Everyone criticise Big but seriously who would put up with a Carry for as long as he did ? If a guy was creeping on me like she just did, that wd be end right then...
Agreed
" when I'm sure"
Yup ladies. We have to listen to men.
Big is saying the truth here.
He wasnt serious with Carrie at this point.
"As I
Watched
Mr. Big
Standing Quietly
Next To His Mother
Tall Proud
Respectful
I Think I Fell
A Little Bit More
In Love With Him.."
I would have dumped him at that point!!!!
Katie Perry
Well he certainly blew Hot and Cold but then there could also be a firework. Personally I’m with you and would Swish Swish outta there too, but Carrie was Chained to the Rhythm of Big because he was such a Dark Horse. I suppose we all have a Teenage Dream and he was The One That Got Away. Maybe she should’ve Kissed a Girl?
Lmao wtf
Why wasn't this on the box set i have? I thought the box set of the 6 series was them all?
This is the Season 1 finale, so it's definitely in the boxed set if you got the full series.
Wow this seems so long ago
I loved her second "oh" :p
Everybody loves Samantha and Miranda...but me.
Miranda's outfit though😍😍
And...we never saw the lovely mum anymore
Se per assurdo Giulio Mucciacito ad agosto fosse andato in Salento a farsi le sue solite vacanze estive e di domenica mattina dopo aver fatto la spesa ad un discount a Poggiardo (LE) fosse andato a messa in quel paese e avesse trovato mr Raffa con sua madre
Nyc is so elite the old woman with the chanel crossbody 😭
Carrie was "in love" with Big, but she never loved him.
Love is when you want all things FOR the beloved. "In love" is merely all the things you want FROM them. Being "in love" is selfishness.
Carrie had zero respect for Big's wishes or for his feelings. She refused to take him at his word. How impossibly insulting and presumptuous.
Those hats ....are simply hideous!! They went to church like they were going to a picnic Sunday hahaha
that happen to me once :( i was 17
@@AshleyNicole-ct7gh i was introduced as a friend
Did SJP intend Carrie to be hated by the audience? Sometimes I think that she thinks that Carrie is a cool character.