Man, that was powerful! Brilliant and very much a drawing board/starting point/ outline of a person ready to heal!! Damn Lewis that took my mind to a whole new level.
@@MsCValentiner it's not the same thing as like slave master if that's why you don't like it btw. It's got a different definition and meaning. A master can also be a teacher, or not be a teacher. It just means you mastered something, which means you know it at the highest level. Most teachers are not masters unless they have studied and researched much more than what's required.
I lost my Dad my best buddy in April. I still cry whenever I think of him or if anybody mentions him. I can only imagine that he is healthy & happy & in a much better place. In Gods care. ❤
I’m sorry for your loss 🙏💕 Heaven is a very peaceful place that has no suffering; only love and bliss. I’ve been there. Our journey here is temporary, but know that he’s still with you and you will both be together again some day ❤
Go Girl, I can only survive by believing Dad's Guidance, tenderness,, and charms remain with me until we are reunited again forever. I can only imagine.... #BlessedBeThee🐦
Just thinking of loosing my dad can throw me into instant emotional meltdown if not carful. He has been declining in the last 6 months i’m guessing it comes in waves and is normal for the most part. My Dad , my hero, my everything.
Yes definitely he is in a beautiful place and with loved ones. You will see him again, and until then be the best you can be, the person your dad is proud of! I lost my dad and friend, and have to remember his words that we will see him again and to keep looking up to your maker and Creator. Keep moving forward.❤
I had a very traumatic up bring, and it has affected me so badly, I try so much to to make friends but i can't always thinking of what people think of me and can't get over it. thanks for bringing Dr Nicole. It really an eye open.
The most valuable conversation I have even heard . I was searching for it subconsciously and the moment I watch it was in the crucial relationship break up . Healing in progress . Thanks you Guys 🎉
Relationships take a lot of work especially when I am repairing myself. It’s best to work on ourselves first alone, it’s tuff. As time goes by we must use these tools forever and ever in order to grow and learn from ourselves or relationships. Being Human beings is a big ball of feelings emotions and energy which we will continue to grow from it all with a open mind and open heart. Thank you both I appreciate it ❤❤
I have been waiting for this interview feeling totally grateful in my own growth thanks to this kind of learning 🙏 i absolutely love the content you both produce out of the pure love to help others through your own journeys Thank you Thank you Thank you🙏 💞
Allot of us were not ever modeled proper ways to deal with our emotions so we just react the way our parents did and they were probably never modeled that same thing so we slowly learn that the best way to actually communicate our emotions is to actually say them out loud and say instead of showing and getting angry because you're jealous of somebody say you know when you looked at that woman or you did that that really hurt me and say it in a very calm non judgmental way most of us explode myself included and I have to learn to just calmly not invoke the ego inside a people and just properly communicate maturely exactly how I'm thinking inside
My teen son was in residential treatment for 2 months, and now in PHP. This episode highlights everything about him. He is not emotionally mature enough to cope with stressful emotions/situations no matter how low it is in reality. His reactivity has put him in dangerous situations and his decision making has self-sabotaged his life. He has been trying to embrace the therapy program, but there's something deeply rooted that makes him emotionally disconnected and unable to self regulate and disconnected to the pain of our family. As his mother, i feel so helpless. Trying for 3 years to help my son with therapists, hospitalizations, programs, tough love still not making a true dent. He will begin EMDR, hoping it will help release the emotional trauma buried deep within. Thank you for this episode
Sounds like complex ptsd maybe? Look into the SGB shot and find a therapist that does healing hypnosis to help him work through the trauma of the past.
I’m sorry for your pain and anguish. However, you need to take a step back. It’s his life and he has to figure it out no matter how long it takes him. I’m almost 80 and I’m still struggling with all this pain that started when I was 13 or so. I have a nephew, he is a teen and he has found that yoga is helping him with all his problems, besides therapy and medication of course. So, take a deep breath and embrace patience and especially a good sense of humor.
Could he have a personality disorder. I have a boy too and he has gone through changes as you have described. He is 22 and at last seems to be settling down and maturing, studying, working having a balanced life. He does sports, has a social life, studies and works now. I used to dread the future but not any more. I feel we have to give them time to grow and find their own feet while keeping them safe.
PSYCH-K has helped me greatly to change My self-sabotage tendencies by changing my perceptions of myself and my experiences to one of love ❤. I teach it now and assist many who r ready to go within to let this go and live by our true essence ! Yay!
Guilty af 🥹 but thankfully more aware in my 30’s finally 😂❤ …wouldn’t change the trauma I’ve grown through though, taught me so much & gave me a wicked sense of humour & the ability to always find the silver lining in any situation 💅🏻❤️✨ Great video, love seeing your growth & thinking ❤
When Lewis talked about the healing journey, the processing of the inner child; i was wondering with this question * can an adult be trapped in that childhood phase in a way they are not able to even now as an adult pull themselves from there to then start the journey to peace and continuing the process to bridge the gap of the inner child's memories. Tnk u
Such wonderful wisdom and we thank you both for your healing work and wisdom. So inspired to continue my inner work and show up as the best version of myself.
Don't limit yourself on the love languages Lewis. It's like anything, you have to work it to develope it, and it can become your thing much like crunches were something i never liked and now i do . And the love languge of gift giving, which I've heard you use in that example a couple times, is so diverse that i imagine you have a way of being/giving gifts that you likely already enjoy doing. Cheers.
Me too Lewis!!!, that is what i have been doing. You made me cry just speaking about it!!! It is a way for us to find who we are and whole. Trauma Therapy has saved my life...Thank you!
@@lewishowes this was one of your best, i absolutely loved it. I have not heard anyone speak about the healing journey. It has changed me profoundly. I wish more people knew or took the chance.
I really love this interview. I got so much from this. Many healing tips. So helpful. I can relate to all of this. I always tried too hard to please everyone around me. I also had the false belief that if I did the work (hard work) that I would get the prize. This has really hurt me. Always distroid when I didn't win. LOL Society teaches us that if you work hard you will get what you are working for. After 67 years I realize that this is not true.
When the student is ready the master appears.🙏🏾
Man, that was powerful! Brilliant and very much a drawing board/starting point/ outline of a person ready to heal!! Damn Lewis that took my mind to a whole new level.
Master just mean they mastered knowledge @@MsCValentiner
@@MsCValentiner it's not the same thing as like slave master if that's why you don't like it btw. It's got a different definition and meaning. A master can also be a teacher, or not be a teacher. It just means you mastered something, which means you know it at the highest level. Most teachers are not masters unless they have studied and researched much more than what's required.
@@MsCValentiner a master of taijutsu means he is educated to the highest degree and knows extensively about his career
@@MsCValentiner a teacher of taijutsu could mean anything, maybe he only knows enough to teach a class but isn't a true master
I lost my Dad my best buddy in April. I still cry whenever I think of him or if anybody mentions him. I can only imagine that he is healthy & happy & in a much better place. In Gods care. ❤
I’m sorry for your loss 🙏💕 Heaven is a very peaceful place that has no suffering; only love and bliss. I’ve been there. Our journey here is temporary, but know that he’s still with you and you will both be together again some day ❤
Go Girl, I can only survive by believing Dad's Guidance, tenderness,, and
charms remain with me until we are reunited again forever.
I can only imagine.... #BlessedBeThee🐦
Just thinking of loosing my dad can throw me into instant emotional meltdown if not carful. He has been declining in the last 6 months i’m guessing it comes in waves and is normal for the most part. My Dad , my hero, my everything.
Yes definitely he is in a beautiful place and with loved ones. You will see him again, and until then be the best you can be, the person your dad is proud of! I lost my dad and friend, and have to remember his words that we will see him again and to keep looking up to your maker and Creator. Keep moving forward.❤
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I had a very traumatic up bring, and it has affected me so badly, I try so much to to make friends but i can't always thinking of what people think of me and can't get over it. thanks for bringing Dr Nicole. It really an eye open.
The most valuable conversation I have even heard . I was searching for it subconsciously and the moment I watch it was in the crucial relationship break up . Healing in progress . Thanks you Guys 🎉
Relationships take a lot of work especially when I am repairing myself. It’s best to work on ourselves first alone, it’s tuff. As time goes by we must use these tools forever and ever in order to grow and learn from ourselves or relationships. Being Human beings is a big ball of feelings emotions and energy which we will continue to grow from it all with a open mind and open heart. Thank you both I appreciate it ❤❤
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I have been waiting for this interview feeling totally grateful in my own growth thanks to this kind of learning 🙏 i absolutely love the content you both produce out of the pure love to help others through your own journeys Thank you Thank you Thank you🙏 💞
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
Great video Lewis, very eye opening and much needed at this time. Thank you.
Glad this was helpful for you🧡
Thank you ❤
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
I love the vulnerability in this discussion. And the DEEP onion peel.
She speaks so much truth thanks Lewis for bringing on this guest ..and you ask awesome questions
All of this 💯
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1:34:13-1:34:40 this is “generational trauma” at its core
Allot of us were not ever modeled proper ways to deal with our emotions so we just react the way our parents did and they were probably never modeled that same thing so we slowly learn that the best way to actually communicate our emotions is to actually say them out loud and say instead of showing and getting angry because you're jealous of somebody say you know when you looked at that woman or you did that that really hurt me and say it in a very calm non judgmental way most of us explode myself included and I have to learn to just calmly not invoke the ego inside a people and just properly communicate maturely exactly how I'm thinking inside
Love how you both acknowledge each other so honestly. ❤️
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My teen son was in residential treatment for 2 months, and now in PHP. This episode highlights everything about him.
He is not emotionally mature enough to cope with stressful emotions/situations no matter how low it is in reality. His reactivity has put him in dangerous situations and his decision making has self-sabotaged his life. He has been trying to embrace the therapy program, but there's something deeply rooted that makes him emotionally disconnected and unable to self regulate and disconnected to the pain of our family.
As his mother, i feel so helpless. Trying for 3 years to help my son with therapists, hospitalizations, programs, tough love still not making a true dent. He will begin EMDR, hoping it will help release the emotional trauma buried deep within.
Thank you for this episode
Sounds like complex ptsd maybe? Look into the SGB shot and find a therapist that does healing hypnosis to help him work through the trauma of the past.
I’m sorry for your pain and anguish. However, you need to take a step back. It’s his life and he has to figure it out no matter how long it takes him. I’m almost 80 and I’m still struggling with all this pain that started when I was 13 or so. I have a nephew, he is a teen and he has found that yoga is helping him with all his problems, besides therapy and medication of course. So, take a deep breath and embrace patience and especially a good sense of humor.
@@GetYourShineOn , thank you 🙏!
@@roxcastaneda , thank you 🙏
Could he have a personality disorder. I have a boy too and he has gone through changes as you have described. He is 22 and at last seems to be settling down and maturing, studying, working having a balanced life. He does sports, has a social life, studies and works now. I used to dread the future but not any more. I feel we have to give them time to grow and find their own feet while keeping them safe.
Your interviews are always good
So glad you enjoy the channel! Thanks for being here! 🧡
Nicole's interviews are the best. I was searching for new ones not too long ago and am happy to see this.
Thanks for being here!
This talk is so on point for where I am in my journey. Thank you. This is an eye opening pivot point. Saving for reference.
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
PSYCH-K has helped me greatly to change
My self-sabotage tendencies by changing my perceptions of myself and my experiences to one of love ❤. I teach it now and assist many who r ready to go within to let this go and live by our true essence ! Yay!
Omg I love her!!! I'm starting it now 💖💖💖
Sadie I think finding a man like Lewis who is on a healing journey and willing to look inward are really rare.
Guilty af 🥹 but thankfully more aware in my 30’s finally 😂❤ …wouldn’t change the trauma I’ve grown through though, taught me so much & gave me a wicked sense of humour & the ability to always find the silver lining in any situation 💅🏻❤️✨
Great video, love seeing your growth & thinking ❤
Thank you!
I just love this guy and his guests, funny all of his guests are someone I recently before they came on here, I had just watched them on youtube!
Thank you so much for watching!
I feel like my Neuroscan is constantly active. Hypervigilant.
When Lewis talked about the healing journey, the processing of the inner child; i was wondering with this question
* can an adult be trapped in that childhood phase in a way they are not able to even now as an adult pull themselves from there to then start the journey to peace and continuing the process to bridge the gap of the inner child's memories.
Tnk u
Absolutely! Many adults are emotionally young
just found this woman! legit stoked that you already interviewed her and i missed it
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! 🧡
Such wonderful wisdom and we thank you both for your healing work and wisdom. So inspired to continue my inner work and show up as the best version of myself.
You're welcome, thank you for watching 🧡
I stumbled on his first video. So happy I did and just subscribed to this channel. Really need this to heal myself
FANTASTIC INTERVIEW!! Lewis thank you for always being so open & vulnerable within interviews as such. It definitely helps me relate & receive :)
why is he always laughing at people's pain? 2:00:32
Don't limit yourself on the love languages Lewis. It's like anything, you have to work it to develope it, and it can become your thing much like crunches were something i never liked and now i do . And the love languge of gift giving, which I've heard you use in that example a couple times, is so diverse that i imagine you have a way of being/giving gifts that you likely already enjoy doing. Cheers.
I’ve sent this to all my friends. Your six part philosophy at minute 53:06. BEST ADVICE I HAVE EVER HEARD!
Thank you so much 🧡
Fantastic!! Wonderful!! Thank you!!
You're welcome, thank you for watching🧡
Super insightful interview. Such a necessary conversation! Love.
Thank you so much for your kind words 🧡
Women as authorities... public speaking the key?? jpj
are you a therapist in private or group practice? do you do conference speaking or workshops? Joy's Idea Garden
This was great. Love her hair dark like that. You rock!
Me too Lewis!!!, that is what i have been doing. You made me cry just speaking about it!!! It is a way for us to find who we are and whole. Trauma Therapy has saved my life...Thank you!
You're welcome🧡
@@lewishowes this was one of your best, i absolutely loved it. I have not heard anyone speak about the healing journey. It has changed me profoundly. I wish more people knew or took the chance.
I self sabotage my self all the times.
So informative, eye opener and helpful, thank you ❤💯
Thank you! I really appreciate the feedback!
Lewis, your theory on partner alignment is the best part of the interview
Thank you!
❤️❤️❤️💯❤️❤️❤️
This is much needed and healing ourselves is very much need of the hour
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Thank you my dear friend!!! So much appreciated!!💞🌹🙏👍
You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡
Wish u and Martha all the Love!!!🙏💞🌹👍👍😊
Appreciate you! 🙏
This! ❤
Wow, this is all me
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oh Lewis.Thank you.
You're welcome!
Thanks for the video.
You're welcome,thank you for watching🧡
Awesome Conversation
~ both of you are Earth Angels`
#BlessedBeThee🐦
Thank you!
I really love this interview. I got so much from this. Many healing tips. So helpful. I can relate to all of this. I always tried too hard to please everyone around me. I also had the false belief that if I did the work (hard work) that I would get the prize. This has really hurt me. Always distroid when I didn't win. LOL Society teaches us that if you work hard you will get what you are working for. After 67 years I realize that this is not true.
Thank you for taking the time out of your day to check out the interview! So glad you enjoyed it🧡