Is it really a pretty privilege or just a cover-up?

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 13 ต.ค. 2024

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  • @the_honey_vee
    @the_honey_vee 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Girl I'm not sure if this was your intention but this video was so reassuring and uplifting. Here's to all of us inching closer to the best version of ourselves! ❤

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Girl, I just wanted to pour my heart out cos I'm so tired of those standards. I'm so glad you found it inspiring!🤗

  • @zazilicious
    @zazilicious 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    You’re also not considering how modern day beauty standards are also over sexualized because a naturally beautiful woman who covers up will be overlooked the same as a an average or “ugly” person. People who have been considered pretty nowadays have to show their body off a lot too

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Hmm that's an interesting take. Sexualized beauty is so overrated, pls bring back the modesty!😆🙌

    • @Sarah-kv3qs
      @Sarah-kv3qs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Hmm that’s a little interesting because at the end of the day they are pretty. They are going to reap the benefits of it. People see your face first, if you are covered and your hair is nice etc you are turning heads. Just not to the same extent as some decked out in the latest trends or showing off their perfect body but never overlooked.

    • @zazilicious
      @zazilicious 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sarah-kv3qs I’m saying this from experience. There are many strikingly beautiful church women and muslims that will never ever be considered beautiful in a country like America. Modern day western beauty standards are very different to what they were hundred years ago. The same way makeup also fits in our beauty standards, so do our choice of clothes.

    • @Sarah-kv3qs
      @Sarah-kv3qs 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zazilicious Ah you mean by American standards I see. I guess I will flip it then they are still to some extent even within their own communities where that is respected treated better. When talking to Muslim girls looks are definitely everything to maintain in order to find a suitor(have you even seen the hijabi beauty standard?). I get what you mean yet still from seeing it first hand they will try to fit and reap benefits of beauty within their own communities

  • @Buttergirla
    @Buttergirla 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She's soo pretty 😍

  • @Tinuola
    @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Pls share your views, and give this video a thumbs up 👍🏾 🫶🏽

  • @757CitiesReppa
    @757CitiesReppa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You have beautiful skin.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🥰🤍

  • @WhizQueen
    @WhizQueen 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video gave me a lot to think about. If Jackie feels that wayy I wonder how the rest of the black girls feel. It’s unfair that some girls have to work 10x harder than the pretty ones

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It really is 🥹

    • @Buttergirla
      @Buttergirla 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But most black women are pretty 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @nancerod7193
    @nancerod7193 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I think there’s two standards of pretty privilege one you get in the real world vs on social media. I think if you are objectively pretty you will get some benefit in the real life.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Pretty on social media is sure different from real life.❤

  • @Tobzzzz_
    @Tobzzzz_ 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Pretty woman w brains🔥

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tobzz🤍🤍

  • @hannahwatkins7992
    @hannahwatkins7992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video, unfortunately it may not have reached the right audience, as some people in the comments don't understand the points you made. As an American, I completely agree with you.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks Hannah for being a voice of reasoning!🤗

    • @hannahwatkins7992
      @hannahwatkins7992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Tinuola Anytime! 😊

  • @zaynalee8270
    @zaynalee8270 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There’s also the halo effect. I think some people get pretty privilege and the halo effect confused. Some people actually only have one or the other but it’s the people who have both that we’re always seeing.

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Love this take!

  • @noona514
    @noona514 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yes, you are beautiful. I feel like golden skin tones in black women are favored over more copper tones. So maybe colorism is at play?

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely at play.🙏🤍

  • @757CitiesReppa
    @757CitiesReppa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    …also I disagree with your take on beauty standards. Those are white USA beauty standards…idk why you women keep referencing them as some sort of law. Tik tok?

    • @Tinuola
      @Tinuola  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Like I mentioned in the video, these standards are slightly different across cultures.
      USA beauty standards rule the world, especially if you live in North America.😮‍💨

    • @canesugar911
      @canesugar911 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂.

    • @757CitiesReppa
      @757CitiesReppa 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Tinuola that’s sad you think like that.smh

    • @hannahwatkins7992
      @hannahwatkins7992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Do you not understand how colonialism and white supremacy work? Because of white supremacy, the beauty standard IS white people in western society. It doesn't mean other people and races cannot be beautiful, it means white people made themselves the standard, the "default" for beauty in the western world. Colonialism is also the reason most other cultures practice colorism, and favor lighter skin. You simply do not understand the conversation Tinuola is having due to your lack of knowledge on the matter. Please research what beauty standards are for the USA/western culture, since you "disagree". Btw what Tinuola is talking about is not an opinion, it is a fact.

    • @hannahwatkins7992
      @hannahwatkins7992 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@757CitiesReppa It's not sad, it's literally how the world works due to centuries of colonialism and white supremacy being forced on everyone. Omg pick up a book and read about it. Willful ignorance isn't cute. What's sad is that white supremacy, racism, colorism, and texturism exist. THAT'S whats sad.