Struggling With Borderline Personality Disorder | COMMON THOUGHTS WITH BPD

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  • Hey Besties!!!
    Thank you guys for always being here! I know I am a bit low energy, but I hope to capture a side of BPD that isn’t in a way that is too negative.🤍
    please leave a comment down below, a like, or whatever it may be to let me know if you liked this type of content OR what you want to see from me in the future. it helps me help you 🤍
    Thank you all for being here to listen to my shenanigans and allowing me to build this community. I truly couldn’t have or cannot do it without you, SO THANK YOU!!!
    UNTIL NEXT WEEK I LOVE YOU ALL AND THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE!
    -Tierra
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  • @autumnsjourney7301
    @autumnsjourney7301 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was recently diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, and I felt so alone, and I was so angry that I was diagnosed with it because I felt like a bad person because I hear all these bad stereotypes of having the disorder but I know that I’m not a bad person, but I have my moments where I’m not a good person And I just need extra empathy, help and understanding people around me to help me navigate and process my emotions in a way that I wasn’t able to as a child and that I still struggle with now. I just wanted to say overall that your videos help me immensely please keep doing what you’re doing and as your fan I love you girl ❤

    • @tierralorain
      @tierralorain  หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you so much Autumn, this means sooo much to me and I hope to make feel as seen as you all make me feel.

    • @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq
      @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's not our fault we have BPD and that there is a stigma around it ...not being able to control your emotions and then later comes the remorse, guilt and shame for what u said or did because of not having that control..feeling like a monster just a horrible person but knowing deep down that u aren't and having to remind yourself the good qualities u have....it's so exhausting ..I still hold onto hope that recovery is possible even though sometimes I feel like a hopeless case 😭 today may not be a good day but it could be so much worse and tomorrow may be a good day so it's worth holding onto that hope.....your comment was really helpful thank you ❤️

    • @devinjohnson9749
      @devinjohnson9749 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ErinODonoghue-dc7qqi don’t think y’all understand how hard it is being around someone that struggle with bpd . ESP a romantic relationship. Having to walk on eggshells all the time because of easy trigger , having to put out emotions on hold constantly in order to care for the pwBPD. At times it’s like being their Parent .

  • @anotherspawn
    @anotherspawn หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    " I hope you guys don't think I'm negative and hate me" I cannot tell you what a good time this was for this video to come out. I just had a terrible day yesterday between my 2 jobs feeling like a failure and being upset that I'm working in retail and just overall in a bad mood and then I felt guilty for spreading any kind of negativity When I usually try to make people smile. I'm so afraid of rejection and not being liked and BPD just makes me feel unhinged some days. Thank you for sharing your perspective and making us feel less alone we appreciate u

  • @codred60
    @codred60 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I 100% relate with wanting to change what you are doing and improve everything when you feel alone. I'm going through this right now with my friends who aren't around much, which makes me feel super alone. I think we want to change ourselves in those moments because we think if we were better in some way, those people would be more involved in our lives and the reason we are alone is because we aren't good enough. Obviously that's not true and we don't need to change or improve ourselves for people to care for and love us. A quote I absolutely love says, "Your pursuit of growth is a beautiful thing, but you are still abundantly enough right here and now."
    I recently got diagnosed with bpd and I love your videos because they are so honest and real. You talk about so many of the things that I thought I was the only one going through. Thank you for making me feel less alone ❤

  • @danielanelamaa1861
    @danielanelamaa1861 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've just been diagnosed with bpd, I completely understand what you're talking about, the worst and most difficult problem I have is black and white thinking... And I feel ashamed when I don't manage as well as my friend. And I feel alone, my God, it's still hard for me. I love your content you are awesome❤️

  • @juvia1118
    @juvia1118 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    your videos help me so much! I have been doing therapy for 6 years now and i am in a place where I can feel better, but sometimes life sucks and everything spirals to a very bad place. keep in mind that healing is not linear and these moments will happen, but they also will pass (and this is me in a very good moment of thinking, I have to remind myself of this advice when I am in a bad place). You're doing an amazing job and helping a lot of people to see the other side of BPD and I'm very thankful for having someone cool as you talking about these things.
    Also: we are here for you, come whenever you feel alone and we will prove you are not alone. 😊

    • @tierralorain
      @tierralorain  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      AWW You are beyond sweet! Thank you so much for being here and understanding me. This means so much to me again THANK YOU

  • @Mkay6430
    @Mkay6430 หลายเดือนก่อน

    when you talked about starting new adventures and not getting to the goal is something i totally relate too and have never heard ANYONE say before THANKYOU so much truely, i was recently diagnosed with bpd and your videos are really helping me understand my behavior's, thoughts and etc. thankyou for being you and doing what you do, you are appreciated

  • @leeandoer7804
    @leeandoer7804 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    thanku for opening up tierra u r so seen and heard. i rly resonate with the things u shared and talked about in this video, and in general. bpd is crucial but u are such a brave, strong, precious and sweet soul, nvr forget tht. i wish u nothing but the best always. im also so proud of u! b safe and gentle with urself. hope today treats u kind, whenever u c this. sending sm love xxx

    • @tierralorain
      @tierralorain  หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@leeandoer7804 you are beyond sweet!! thank you so much my love!! this means the entire world to me! 😭 thank you for seeing me and getting me, I wish you nothing but the best 🩷

  • @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq
    @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You are amazing ❤️

  • @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq
    @ErinODonoghue-dc7qq หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Too relatable 🥹 I definitely understand wanting and needing comfort over advice 😫❤️ and even though we feel alone sometimes we are not alone ....we don't have to believe the negative thoughts in our minds they are not facts ....sometimes what helps me is stating the real facts and using wise mind is helpful to see the big picture...your videos are so helpful thank u ❤️