After a lifetime of turning the other cheek with these types, I finally had to realize they were never going to change, that their venom was constantly at work even when they weren't around. Family and co-workers who lived their lives like a Jerry Springer episode, just looking for a stage to happen on. I finally cut off all contact, no phone calls or mail accepted. I refuse to allow others to set up their circus in my front yard. I feel free, I feel better.
We do not chose this five people at random to avoid. You just meditate and follow the righteous path. Gradually, in the end, everything unwanted will leave you.
I had a friend like this with all these attributes, got rid of her and not only felt better, some of the other good friends who she had driven away from me through malicious gossip returned to me!
So true I had friends outside work I grew up with that's why followed my plans and they worked kept bad people out of my social life kept close friends only work friends only for work and tell them day to day things only don't sell your soul
avoid negativity, egotism, manipulative-deceivers, envious-competitors, gossiping meddlers....R'Hillel summarized the golden rule nearly two millennia ago...
Kn lesson dey rha h actually bht hi jyda gyani hai seriously esa lg rha jse daddy sey bht acche sey swath baithkr sikha ho bht experienced gyani elderly wise insaan k swath baithkr
Consider your readers, listeners, and/or audience. A salient role realized by congregations in rhetorical debate is thus vital; because all debate, in aiming to persuade, should conform to the audience's pre-existing notions based upon prior learning accepted by the audience with such inarguable validity that the rest of the dialogue can be safely established upon such agreed conclusions. Where such is not the case, one must reinforce any claims at variance with reality as most humans understand reality regarding these starting points by means of available debate techniques. Avoid criticism; such evokes resentment contrary to directed effort to educate. When a speaker who builds his discourse on illogical premises is not accepted by the audience, he commits an avoidable error in persuasion, a small point of principle. This is not a faux pas in comprehending then defining reality, since formally any implication implies itself; but is a misjudgment in submission, because the person objecting supposes the existence of an existing rule that does not exist and to the establishment of which his energy should be aimed.🙂 @@JamesInvest233
These traits are part of all human beings at one time or another. This story is meant as an ideal, but it has been my experience that of you practice peace within and understand that people who show up in your reality are there to show you your inside world, then you will expand your compassion and empathy. Judging others as being what is described in this video is the thinking mind and ego at work. Ego always judges. But being present in each moment as often as possible, is where ego vanishes. If you have to have peaceful people around you to find peace inside, you are missing the point of understanding who you really are. 🙏
Opportunity to gain skill and strength! Wonderful setup. Do not waste it. Others do not have to be perfect for you to become more perfect. They offer the gymnasium for you to develop yourself. If you can be your true self in the midst of them, some will flee from your presence; others will be attracted to become their own true selves. It is all win-win.
Another type to avoid, and I'm not sure how to label them, is those who maliciously don't accept your limits and doubt either your integrity or competence when you state them. I don't drink alcoholic beverages. Aw, c'mon, just have one. I can't wear contacts. Really? Not even Johnson and Johnson Acuvue Disposables? (An actual response, and I've no idea how my visual correction was that individual's concern). I've found a meditation practice that's relaxing and offers some natural pain relief. Can't your doctor just prescribe you something? I'm done with individuals who don't respect my limits and who make it clear they consider me incompetent or, worse, dishonest.
My dad is the first, second, third, and forth and fifth all in one person. I tried to avoid him this weekend. He has called 14 times and got others to call because i am not picki g up. He is 101 years old and has destroyed his oldest son. My brother was a dear nice person. Now he is focused on me. 😢😢😢
Where do you find people who don't fit into these categories. Have always looked for the good in people, still getting walked over. Hard to trust anyone now.
I learned to avoid almost all people when I was a child. It gets mighty frustrating getting shouted at by people who seem always angry. My one regret is that I don't punch more people in the face who richly deserve it, because of their big, stupid mouths.
It is only in the darkness that light shines the greatest and so the wise can cast their life upon the currents of time and rest in the understanding (logic-logos) of love (God): forgiveness (Jesus) can safeguard your heart forevermore
Confucius says, if you find faults in your friends, then you shall have faulty friends. So use Zen to avoid people who don't think like you. It's obvious here that Zen does not truly understand that the ego tool is just a tool used by the physical source imprinted knowledge within that formed the intelligent species to enlighten the brain of the physical source presence. If there was no ego tool, then how would a Zen master achieve enlightenment because enlightenment means to attain knowledge and from where and what source of knowledge. If you are a manipulative deceiver with wealth, be careful, because a Zen master will free you of your wealth and lead you astray to start over again, honestly, and when you have lost everything then there will be no envious Zenists and no one can get ahead because the Zen meddler has meddled in your business affairs and caused you great loss across the board. Yep! the weak will alway congregate to bring down the great.
@@JamesInvest233 It was not me personally sharing my thoughts because thoughts is something that occurs suddenly in the mind only and thoughts have no physical form. What is being shared comes direct from my imprinted knowledge physical source iteration function, the very physical source that formed the intelligent species at creation or at an epoch. Basically my imprinted knowledge has advised my brain that the video that I viewed was not correct in content and should not be believed as a motivation.
I avoid ppl that hurt me or my children and me not my children are mail thieves forgers or vhild and animal abusers neither well that not me or my children neither
While true, this "great wisdom" is also blatantly obvious - most people naturally learn to avoid people with these unpleasant traits. But if you yourself have these traits then you will probably seek out others the same as you, and by doing so reinforce your own sense of worth by associating with others that think and act as you do. The issue is when it is impossible to avoid these negative traits but cannot, for example relatives or work colleagues, or they are imposed on you by religious indoctrination and expectation, or your community, etc.
When it is "impossible" to avoid, one is given the great opportunity to be an example of integrity and in the process develop skill and strength! It is all opportunity of one kind of another. Without weights to lift, muscles do not grow.
According to psychologists, negative people tend to be abused as children, it's is not good advice to shun these peop. Theyey need our compassion and love.
1. Toxic negativity
2. Self Centered egoist
3. Manipulative
4. The jealous
5. Gossiping medler
Avoid these people 🧘♀️
Thanks for this I don't need to watch this video
Sounds like my entire family. One which needs to be added; the smear campaigner.
This was helpful 🎉
After a lifetime of turning the other cheek with these types, I finally had to realize they were never going to change, that their venom was constantly at work even when they weren't around. Family and co-workers who lived their lives like a Jerry Springer episode, just looking for a stage to happen on. I finally cut off all contact, no phone calls or mail accepted. I refuse to allow others to set up their circus in my front yard. I feel free, I feel better.
Glad you took that bold step !
Always prioritize your well being over pleasing others ! 🙏
Love it!
Thank you .❤❤ Love from India..
Thank you too!
Thank you for this Great Message.
You are so welcome 🙏
We do not chose this five people at random to avoid. You just meditate and follow the righteous path. Gradually, in the end, everything unwanted will leave you.
Exactly 🙏
I need to find people friends like this. And be more like this myself❤
Hi i do so hope you find your way, reply to me if you so chose, as i can so relate to your words.
I had a friend like this with all these attributes, got rid of her and not only felt better, some of the other good friends who she had driven away from me through malicious gossip returned to me!
Happy you had the courage , self love should always be prioritized over what others think about you .🙏
Very hard to find people who don’t fall into these 5 categories
True , cold world 🥶
being alone is not a bad choice most of the time
Many do....many do not...
Turn to God. You'll find what you're looking for.
@pammeinzer6757 honest question, how do you turn to God? I'm running out of options here.....
Immensely invaluble inputs in getting emlightened with the essence of subject prespectives. Appreciable
You are highly welcome. 🙏
Emlightened?
This is wisdom
So true I had friends outside work I grew up with that's why followed my plans and they worked kept bad people out of my social life kept close friends only work friends only for work and tell them day to day things only don't sell your soul
I’m happy to inspire you 🙏
❤it. Grateful n thankful blessings to you
Thanks 🙏
learnt alot
avoid negativity, egotism, manipulative-deceivers, envious-competitors, gossiping meddlers....R'Hillel summarized the golden rule nearly two millennia ago...
Thanks for sharing you thoughts 💭
The best message ever
I love the story
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Good story
This is true words of wisdom to live by people like this you avoid like the pleg and if you know someone like this pray for them and walk away
Thanks for sharing your thoughts, really inspiring 🙏
Good story from Buddha God.
Happy you like it
Amen
Thanks 🙏
Kn lesson dey rha h actually bht hi jyda gyani hai seriously esa lg rha jse daddy sey bht acche sey swath baithkr sikha ho bht experienced gyani elderly wise insaan k swath baithkr
🙏🙏🙏❤️Very good explanation by commentator good ideas 🙏🙏🙏
Thanks a lot
Value adding.
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It's going to be tough making friends here in the U. S.
For sure.
You have to be mindful and analyze your surroundings.
Consider your readers, listeners, and/or audience. A salient role realized by congregations in rhetorical debate is thus vital; because all debate, in aiming to persuade, should conform to the audience's pre-existing notions based upon prior learning accepted by the audience with such inarguable validity that the rest of the dialogue can be safely established upon such agreed conclusions. Where such is not the case, one must reinforce any claims at variance with reality as most humans understand reality regarding these starting points by means of available debate techniques. Avoid criticism; such evokes resentment contrary to directed effort to educate. When a speaker who builds his discourse on illogical premises is not accepted by the audience, he commits an avoidable error in persuasion, a small point of principle. This is not a faux pas in comprehending then defining reality, since formally any implication implies itself; but is a misjudgment in submission, because the person objecting supposes the existence of an existing rule that does not exist and to the establishment of which his energy should be aimed.🙂 @@JamesInvest233
These traits are part of all human beings at one time or another. This story is meant as an ideal, but it has been my experience that of you practice peace within and understand that people who show up in your reality are there to show you your inside world, then you will expand your compassion and empathy. Judging others as being what is described in this video is the thinking mind and ego at work. Ego always judges. But being present in each moment as often as possible, is where ego vanishes. If you have to have peaceful people around you to find peace inside, you are missing the point of understanding who you really are. 🙏
Very true , thanks for sharing your thoughts
This is good
Interesting story
Bitter truth I'm surrounded of this kind of people
Opportunity to gain skill and strength! Wonderful setup. Do not waste it. Others do not have to be perfect for you to become more perfect. They offer the gymnasium for you to develop yourself. If you can be your true self in the midst of them, some will flee from your presence; others will be attracted to become their own true selves. It is all win-win.
Follow the lesson in the video , and you should be able to handle them . I have faith in you 🙏
I'm away from this people and I find my peace and happiness enjoying God presents
Thank you
You're welcome
Best story
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I am like this have to change my ways
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💭
Powerful stort
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Worth subscribed channel.. 👍
Welcome aboard! 🙏
Welcome aboard! 🙏
Yes ❤️❤️❤️❤️
It means I have to avoid ALL people 😅
You have learned well.
Lol not all people.
Which software you use
Thank you Sir ❤️
Most welcome
Amen✨🙏
True
Exactly
So long story short,nobody left ! I prefer my dog!
Dogs are loyal creatures 😂
Where they are everyone these days negative greedy misserrable and hateful
Another type to avoid, and I'm not sure how to label them, is those who maliciously don't accept your limits and doubt either your integrity or competence when you state them.
I don't drink alcoholic beverages. Aw, c'mon, just have one.
I can't wear contacts. Really? Not even Johnson and Johnson Acuvue Disposables? (An actual response, and I've no idea how my visual correction was that individual's concern).
I've found a meditation practice that's relaxing and offers some natural pain relief. Can't your doctor just prescribe you something?
I'm done with individuals who don't respect my limits and who make it clear they consider me incompetent or, worse, dishonest.
Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts 💭
My dad is the first, second, third, and forth and fifth all in one person. I tried to avoid him this weekend. He has called 14 times and got others to call because i am not picki g up. He is 101 years old and has destroyed his oldest son. My brother was a dear nice person. Now he is focused on me. 😢😢😢
Thanks for sharing you experience , hope my teaching can help you 🧘♀️🙏
Thanks for sharing you experience , hope my teachings can help you 🧘♀️🙏
Don't pick up. He'll find somebody else to engage. Hang I'm there, take care of yourself!
He sounds like a vampire
How do we identify these 5 kinds of people?
By their big mouths and rotten words.
I can create a video on that
Where do you find people who don't fit into these categories. Have always looked for the good in people, still getting walked over. Hard to trust anyone now.
You don’t have to look for them life will bring them to you at the right time .
6th kind of people to avoid, gurus, swamis and spiritual teachers and spiritual seekers. .
Yeah, especially those who don’t give good advice .
How about the person you do want in your life?
That’s another topic I can cover .
We are firced to live with persons who are blend of all these five charecters due to ohr fate. Then how ti avoid? We can avoid outsiders.
True , thanks for sharing your thoughts 💭
I learned to avoid almost all people when I was a child. It gets mighty frustrating getting shouted at by people who seem always angry. My one regret is that I don't punch more people in the face who richly deserve it, because of their big, stupid mouths.
Thanks for sharing your experience
Life proves to be an exercise in self-control, doesn't it? Are you liking your own comments? That's tacky.@@JamesInvest233
It is only in the darkness that light shines the greatest and so the wise can cast their life upon the currents of time and rest in the understanding (logic-logos) of love (God): forgiveness (Jesus) can safeguard your heart forevermore
Jesus is a lie.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💭
The whole village found their own group of companion and the village live happily ever After
Exactly
Confucius says, if you find faults in your friends, then you shall have faulty friends.
So use Zen to avoid people who don't think like you. It's obvious here that Zen does not truly understand that the ego tool is just a tool used by the physical source imprinted knowledge within that formed the intelligent species to enlighten the brain of the physical source presence. If there was no ego tool, then how would a Zen master achieve enlightenment because enlightenment means to attain knowledge and from where and what source of knowledge.
If you are a manipulative deceiver with wealth, be careful, because a Zen master will free you of your wealth and lead you astray to start over again, honestly, and when you have lost everything then there will be no envious Zenists and no one can get ahead because the Zen meddler has meddled in your business affairs and caused you great loss across the board.
Yep! the weak will alway congregate to bring down the great.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💭
@@JamesInvest233 It was not me personally sharing my thoughts because thoughts is something that occurs suddenly in the mind only and thoughts have no physical form.
What is being shared comes direct from my imprinted knowledge physical source iteration function, the very physical source that formed the intelligent species at creation or at an epoch. Basically my imprinted knowledge has advised my brain that the video that I viewed was not correct in content and should not be believed as a motivation.
This comments section is totally dominated by people with absolutely no knowledge of spelling and grammar.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💭
Why do you say “they” when referring to a single person/disciple? Correct English is to use the singular, or say “disciples”
Plural
Thanks for contributing your thoughts 🙏
All 5 are the man I married 12 years ago.
Thanks for sharing your experience 🙏
Mei Li is fictional btw.
Thanks for the comment
Narcissists, basically.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts 💯
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts
I avoid ppl that hurt me or my children and me not my children are mail thieves forgers or vhild and animal abusers neither well that not me or my children neither
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some times we are STUCK working with a TOOL! a never Ending Lesson in Humiliation!ug
You have to learn how to handle the situation then .
6) you must date ONLY supermodels, and then only the ones who nurture cook and suck and do taxes and are spirited and watch sports.
Lol 😂, thanks for adding up .
In other words, just avoid everyone and stay alone 😂 'cause there are almost no people who don't fall in one of these 5
Its people out there like this. Trust and believe, work on yourself (Spiritual Growth) and everything else would fall through.
While true, this "great wisdom" is also blatantly obvious - most people naturally learn to avoid people with these unpleasant traits. But if you yourself have these traits then you will probably seek out others the same as you, and by doing so reinforce your own sense of worth by associating with others that think and act as you do. The issue is when it is impossible to avoid these negative traits but cannot, for example relatives or work colleagues, or they are imposed on you by religious indoctrination and expectation, or your community, etc.
When it is "impossible" to avoid, one is given the great opportunity to be an example of integrity and in the process develop skill and strength! It is all opportunity of one kind of another. Without weights to lift, muscles do not grow.
That’s true , there are times where it’s difficult to avoid these traits however it’s best to be aware of them so you can manage them properly. 🙏
Trust nobody completely.
Exactly fam .
In summary, avoid anglo saxons
Well, with a racist remark like that you show yourself to be ALL of the five people to be avoided. A nasty piece of work. You will get your karma.
@@jools4043Agree. That was not nice. And I'm about as opposite of an Anglo Saxon as they come. No matter, don't like that remark.
I take it that you think that's funny. I ain't laughing.
@@FreeToLove999 Thank You!
According to psychologists, negative people tend to be abused as children, it's is not good advice to shun these peop. Theyey need our compassion and love.
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Interesting story
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