To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love
Thanks for pointed out our inner feelings about anger and silence. Its opening our mind towards peacefull life and relationship with others. Thardu Thardu Thardu. 🙏🙏🙏.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
What if the real cause of your suffering wasn’t what’s happening around you, but how your mind interprets those events? Could understanding and applying the Four Noble Truths in your daily life completely transform how you handle adversity and unlock a calm that no external chaos can shake?"
I don't know who needs to hear this but whatever is worrying you right now, forget about it. Take a deep breath, stay positive, and know that things will get better💖
This hit home mine was as well I use to wonder why he never argued or indulged in conflict. He would always walk away while whistling it all makes since now 🙏🏾
Some are silent because they actually don't have a lot to say, some are silent because they are practicing Buddhism. Others are silent for other reasons. To assign great profound reasons as to someones silence is often not true. Talking is a beautiful thing too, it allows us connection and sharing. Be very careful not to assume what is happening in another person. They could be mute, or cowardly, or not too bright.......or they could be a person practicing silence. What other behaviors did your Grandfather take part in, was he wise? Was he kind? Those are good too.
By intuition, I chose this path on my current challenge with my partner and coming across with this video brought me tears and comfort at the same time.
To the person reading this May the stresses in your life melt away and may you find complete peace. Remember to take a moment to yourself and find something to put your mind at ease. MENTAL HEALTH IS IMPORTANT AND YOU ARE IMPORTANT! May your future bring you nothing but peace and blessings! 💕
Through observing my narcissistic husband's need for noise, I have learned just how valuable silence is. It is now my challenge to exercise silence during the frequent moments where I want so desperately to say something when I'm being hurt.
I validate what you are saying. I was in an abusive narcissistic relationship and suffered extreme abuse. Learning how to be silent during a narcisstic rage fit directed at you is very difficult. It wears one out to constantly be the target of abuse. We become the proverbial punching bags. It took me a long time to leave the narcissit and years to recover. I am still learning and recovering. I learned how to go no contact. And now that I am used to not having the total chaos of the narcissit in my life, it is so much better for my wellbeing. I can think. I can now look at the situation from a more detached place because I have healed enough to see how harmful it was and what lessons I learned. I still get easily triggered when I find myself in chaotic peoples energy and I must retreat. It really takes time to heal from this trauma. May you give yourself the gift of healing and gaining knowledge to the path that best serves your highest good. Children are seriously harmed by living on eggshells around constant parental chaos if children are involved. A narcissit may hit their rock bottom, but they will never change. Ever. That is the biggest lesson to grasp. We can't change them, control them or cure them. We can choose to accept that, and once we do, we can choose in silence, what we want to plan to do & implement to save our own lives. Silence is key for safety reasons. I wish you a very blessed life, peace and tranquility which are very precious. You deserve a beautiful life. 💖
🧘♂ *I found this video incredibly insightful and calming. It beautifully illustrates how silence can be a transformative practice in Buddhism. The explanations about how silence can prevent harm in moments of anger and gossip are powerful. This is a wonderful guide for anyone looking to incorporate mindfulness and compassion into their daily interactions. Truly inspiring!*
Regarding Gossip & Slander…. “if the person you are talking about was next to you, would you say what you’re about to say?” I’ve bitten my lips many a time as wisdom kicked in and the urge went away. Refrain actually becomes a habit!
you are right i agree with you i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
Thank-you for this it's just what I needed. I'm trying my best but feel I am making mistakes and failing all along the Way. I feel so silly. I've tried so hard knowing that I should adhere to these statements for so long but when something monumental arises within this delusion I get suckered in like I'm being tested to the core and then trip up and make mistakes over and over... I'm going to try and listen to this daily to get it to sink in. Love and respect to you all X
I feel you. My mom sent me this right after I told her “I understand why some people choose to stay quiet” the anger part I’ve been realizing I can’t just keep going off by emotion. I want to learn how to be silent and unfazed…. Truly unfazed, not taking it personal or letting it affect me. THAT is true superpower that I cannot wait to have 🙏🏼 I’m working on it 🤞🏼
Thank-you. me too, I'm with you on that . I just watched one of 'True Wisdoms' other videos 15 Things You should do Every Morning. I'd recommend if you don't already, to make notes throughout the videos and put them on post-it notes on the walls of where you live. I've just written the 15 points up on my laptop and I'll do that later. Sending you love and light @@sweetlike01 🙂🙏
Thank you so much for this. I really need to listen to this wisdom and put it into practice. I am going to listen to this more than once, reflect on it and apply the principles. May I manage to do this before I die. May all of us do this.
you are right i agree with you i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
Silence "is Golden" in many situations, except in the presence of inequity, oppression, and persecution. In the presence of one or all of these three situations our duty is to speak out and effect change!
If you’re like me and you have come here because you are too afraid to walk away from that relationship that brings you nothing but heartache I’m telling you it’s time for us to move on
Their is no human emotion that is not part of the survival mechanism, to say being silent during angry emotions, is far to simplistic. Sometimes anger is very useful for survival. The real state we need to achieve is emotional intelligence, knowing the difference between anger caused by petty squabbles and serious threats. That’s true enlightenment.
@curtrod Anger is unavoidable and necessary. It's what you do with your anger that is important. Emotions are not inherently "Good" nor "Bad" We are humans and we will experience all forms of emotions. Sitting in silence gives us the opportunity to not immediately react. It gives us the opportunity to transform, to learn and to avoid mindlessly reacting.
I'm not so sure there's anything simple about disciplining yourself to exhibit self-control during a moment when it's easy to spew venom and physically hurt yourself or others (including destruction of property). Fight or flight/fawn or freeze are survival tactics that are inherently in all of us (and I feel like that's what you're describing a bit). I've struggled for years with suicidal ideation, but I know that if someone were to break into my home right now and threaten to kill me, I would ferociously fight for my life. I would cling to life. Anger is a secondary emotion and beneath that reactive behavior lies more undesirable emotions that make us feel small and vulnerable like jealousy and fear. Our ego wants others to see that we aren't to be messed with: "Do you take me for a fool? I am not weak. I'll show you." And there's no need to prove anything to anyone, especially during an absurd argument. Make no mistake; a person is not weak or simple for choosing to remain silent. They're being smart and safe. But, of course, ask almost anyone and they will tell you it is necessary to defend/protect oneself when it comes to their safety and possibly the well-being of their loved ones if being attacked physically or verbally. Even then, no need for fisticuffs or harsh words. Setting boundaries will suffice in most situations and sometimes setting that boundary looks and feels like complete silence. As the narrator mentioned, sometimes silence alone shows our refusal to participate in harmful activities like gossip and slander. By remaining silent, people get the hint--even if they don't have the words for it. They'll feel it: "Yikes. Seems like someone doesn't like this topic of conversation. I feel kind of stupid now because I thought they'd at least agree or back me up on my bullshit." And they may think twice the next time they want to come around and blather incessantly about utter nonsense or hurl secretive insults at others. Silence isn't the cure-all and the narrator did also mention there are moments when silence is actually not the best solution. Silence should be practiced accordingly in certain situations but not every single time.
Being silent shows that you are a person with a profound perspective. When you no longer want to fight or argue with someone, from silence you can hear more and understand more "silence is strength", try that.
I find it strange that here I am an atheist, seeking Buddhist wisdom to mentaly decompress after discussing hate filled religions. Out of all of life's guides, I have the most respect for yours. Just the fact that you simply do not go staring wars with your neighbors is a major bonus in my book.
The Buddhist don't believe in a God. Buddhist monks are fighting with Muslims, but everybody is fighting with the Muslims, even other Muslims and atheists
It’s amazing how silence can work after unjustly being slandered, ripped off or being hurt when you are innocent. Karma is real. Just give it some time and you will see.
May you be free from hostility, danger, mental, physical, and spiritual suffering. May all beings, seen and unseen, in all realms and planes of existence bless you. May all beings feel inner peace and happiness. Satu Satu Satu
you are right i agree with you i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
In life’s difficult times if you complain and ask “Why me? Why not others?” then remember when good things hapened to you in the past, you never asked - “Why me?! Why not others?!” The key here is acceptance. Accept bad times not because you deserve the bad times but because you have to grow stronger and wiser. Once you accept you will never cry and ask “Why me?”
However!!!! If u grew up without any love or wisdom, and u felt helpless and victimized and were not allowed to speak, there is a possibility to develop the ability to psychically attack others. Psychic attack requires silence and rage. Focus. Focus on the one hurting you. What im getting at is once you realize you are doing this, it is difficult to stop bcuz it is a habit. And to acquire wisdom and new awareness, make new choices takes time. It takes time to stop living and expressing as a victim in life, to even become aware this is happening….
Be silent when you don’t know anything only talk when you know what’s going on and understand the situation. …or be splint you don’t what to share your thinking towards the situation and doubt maybe other person dont like your thinking and get angry or you don’t trust
Being extra vigilant over the things that make brain chatter worse will help. It is boring but true that these things are important...proper nutrition, good sleep, excersise, natural light exposure, positive social interactions, meditation. These things are possible to achieve with an ND mind, it just takes a different, unique to you, path to achieve. Make sure you are getting the right vitamins and in the right amounts, we need far more than officially accepted. B vits, magnesium, omega 6 are ones to focus on for overestimated mind. Find the right method for you to prioritise sleep, there is adhd specific advice out there for this. Same for excersise, what works for NT might not work for you but there is ND specific advice for incorporating more movement into your life. Avoid people who cause you anxiety or trigger your overthinking often, it's totally acceptable and your wellbeing is worth it, these ppl probably won't agree but this is exactly why they aren't good for you. Meditation /mindfulness can come in other forms than the traditional. I find that working on art projects shuts down my chatter and I get into a flow state, I think this is similar to meditation. I am not aware of myself but neither am I thinking, I am just being a person making a thing, so it's positive. Dancing can be a way to escape thought, again because you are being physical rather than thinking, your body is moving to express emotion as a response to sound, not typical dancing but ecstatic/tranceform dancing with intention, not as a performance for others but for yourself to feel. I'm sure there are other forms that might resonate with you, the main idea is to spend some time not being your thoughts, if they come up the practice is to notice them as though you are someone else listening to someone talking...to disassociate from your thoughts and not identify yourself as them. Your thoughts are part of you, part of a triad (mind, body, soul) but they are not entirely YOU. They are your conditioning, they are your tool for navigating existence, they are a mechanism for surviving, but they are not YOU. It is extra hard but extra worth it for your ND mind, prioritise your peace and do not judge yourself when it proves difficult. Any tiny progress is still progress, just trying is progress x
@@Nicole-gb4ze if you go by what this video teaches, it seems it is best not to speak in the moment your anger is triggered, but to think upon it and then speak when you have found the right path within yourself so that you know what you are speaking is for positive change and not an egoic reaction. It is worth meditating upon these points ...why do you feel wronged? Why might the other person have behaved in a way that wronged you? What needs of yours are not being met? What needs of the other person are they trying to meet by doing you wrong? How can both of you get your needs met simultaneously? You must stand up for your needs, it is how you approach it that matters. What you decide to do might not be agreed to by the other, we cannot make people be sensible, but it will make a difference to your soul and your wellbeing that you offered an empathetic solution. If you are working with people who are completely unwilling to compromise or consider your needs it might be the best action to walk away from that job. It may be very difficult but so is spending every day with people who are harmful to you, it takes a high toll over time.
I am too, and Buddhist practices have been life changing. You learn to stay present and show yourself compassion, and once you do everything starts to change.
AND what about the unlucky of us who live in places where they can't find the required silence to sleep? OR are constantly provoked by invidious people around?
In the Ismaili faith, our spiritual leader has said: "Never be angry, never show displeasure or be mean." In regards to gossiping, we are taught that gossip is the biggest sin worse then killing someone bcz we are killing that person while they are still alive and sin is equilent to like eating the flesh of your brethren. We are not even allowed to listen, we should move away from anyone gossiping bcz hearing gossip is also a sin.
yeah, letting someone know your feeling angry is one thing, but letting anger take over and make us say or do nasty stuff we will regret, another thing for sure.
This video is full of emptiness. "Silence" is repeated about 100 times - painful on the ears. "Silence" is easier said than done. It doesn't alway work. Sometimes it is necessary to speak out against injustices. Silence at times causes more harm.
Silence is wise to an extent. However, if you _stay_ silent when boundaries have been overstepped - when someone has done something immoral, or is damaging to you or another - you _should_ respond. I say take a few deep breaths then address the wrongdoer, but address them calmly and in a way that doesn't belittle them. But _do_ engage and do not mistake silence for "ignore". I know this from bitter experience. Silence should never be confused with moral cowardice.
but at an argument at work I use truth and get loud if nessesarry!!! some people instigate ..and I don't let them get away with it ..I always win ..and they take me more seriously for the next time they become assholes!!! this works for me...can't always be silent .. but cussing is un nessesarry
What if someone encouraged you to take your money from the bank to invest in something you later found out is like gambling and the thing collapsed and they told you that if it didn't work out they would give back your money,now they are avoiding you and when you're in the same space they turn their backs to you and avoiding eye contact with you, I've been keeping silent for 3 long years while watching their actions, the things I had the money to do when COVID was over is now coming through and I don't have the money to do my business and as a result my children and I are suffering,my 12 years old son goes to school with only bus fare no lunch money ,I'm waking up in the middle of the night fretting over the fretting because that money was my help after COVID and I must say I lost my job during Covid now I must ask at what point I should break my silence ?
Marjorie....Ecclesiastes 3:7 A time to be quiet; a time to speak up. It's time to confront them. It's your money !!! Also...be very careful who you trust !! A lot of people can be VERY DECEPTIVE when it comes to money.
You were supposed to speak up to this person before your suffering. There is a time to be silent but your silence has been long over due. You can speak and express yourself in a calm and wise way. If this person who is obviously guilty, doesn't offer to find a way to repay you, well you have learned a valuable lesson. I would write them off and never again trust them. Learn to look at yourself as a wise survivor and not a victim.
To everyone reading this, I sincerely pray for that whatever is causing you pain or stress will pass. May your negative thoughts, excessive worries and doubts disappear, replaced by clarity and understanding. May your life be filled with peace, tranquility and love
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Same to you my friend 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Thank you, same to you ❤
Thank you. I am dealing with people gossiping about me at work. I wanted to confront them to end the suffering, but it will lead to more problems.
Godzilla doesn't pray for his enemies and neither shall I!
When hurtful words are said you can't take this back ever.
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Thanks for pointed out our inner feelings about anger and silence. Its opening our mind towards peacefull life and relationship with others. Thardu Thardu Thardu. 🙏🙏🙏.
Thanks. Appreciate your going to this effort to help others.
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
What if the real cause of your suffering wasn’t what’s happening around you, but how your mind interprets those events? Could understanding and applying the Four Noble Truths in your daily life completely transform how you handle adversity and unlock a calm that no external chaos can shake?"
*The wisdom of Buddhism is like a guiding light in my life. 🕊 It's about embracing the present moment and spreading kindness. 💖*
I don't know who needs to hear this but whatever is worrying you right now, forget about it. Take a deep breath, stay positive, and know that things will get better💖
I did. Thank you, Friend! ❤
Some people suffer the death of their kids.cant forget abt it as you say
And keep breathing with mouth shut.
-from everlasting fall down expert.
yes, my friend. Even when things seem really hard, be tough and strong@@lenawalker9073
That is attachment
This is a great reminder that sometimes the best response is no response at all-just quiet reflection and presence.
My Grandfather was very silent I thought was so strange growing up Now as a adult I understand why … It’s so peaceful
oh my friend, life might be tough sometimes, but don't forget that good things can come after bad times
This hit home mine was as well I use to wonder why he never argued or indulged in conflict. He would always walk away while whistling it all makes since now 🙏🏾
Some are silent because they actually don't have a lot to say, some are silent because they are practicing Buddhism. Others are silent for other reasons. To assign great profound reasons as to someones silence is often not true. Talking is a beautiful thing too, it allows us connection and sharing. Be very careful not to assume what is happening in another person. They could be mute, or cowardly, or not too bright.......or they could be a person practicing silence. What other behaviors did your Grandfather take part in, was he wise? Was he kind? Those are good too.
By intuition, I chose this path on my current challenge with my partner and coming across with this video brought me tears and comfort at the same time.
To the person reading this
May the stresses in your life melt away and may you find complete peace. Remember to take a moment to yourself and find something to put your mind at ease. MENTAL HEALTH IS IMPORTANT AND YOU ARE IMPORTANT! May your future bring you nothing but peace and blessings! 💕
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Thank you 😊🎉
Through observing my narcissistic husband's need for noise, I have learned just how valuable silence is. It is now my challenge to exercise silence during the frequent moments where I want so desperately to say something when I'm being hurt.
I validate what you are saying.
I was in an abusive narcissistic relationship and suffered extreme abuse.
Learning how to be silent during a narcisstic rage fit directed at you is very difficult.
It wears one out to constantly be the target of abuse.
We become the proverbial punching bags.
It took me a long time to leave the narcissit and years to recover. I am still learning and recovering.
I learned how to go no contact.
And now that I am used to not having the total chaos of the narcissit in my life, it is so much better for my wellbeing.
I can think.
I can now look at the situation from a more detached place because I have healed enough to see how harmful it was and what lessons I learned. I still get easily triggered when I find myself in chaotic peoples energy and I must retreat.
It really takes time to heal from this trauma.
May you give yourself the gift of healing and gaining knowledge to the path that best serves your highest good. Children are seriously harmed by living on eggshells around constant parental chaos if children are involved.
A narcissit may hit their rock bottom, but they will never change. Ever.
That is the biggest lesson to grasp.
We can't change them, control them or cure them.
We can choose to accept that, and once we do, we can choose in silence, what we want to plan to do & implement to save our own lives.
Silence is key for safety reasons.
I wish you a very blessed life, peace and tranquility which are very precious. You deserve a beautiful life. 💖
It is working very well, I know. It calms the situation.
The concept of letting go is beautifully explained here. Truly inspiring words!
I’m choosing silence in this day, the 27th of November at 6 o’clock exactly wow.. a new language in my soul
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Silence is golden. It shines within a loving heart.
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This is a great reminder that sometimes the best response is no response at all
🧘♂ *I found this video incredibly insightful and calming. It beautifully illustrates how silence can be a transformative practice in Buddhism. The explanations about how silence can prevent harm in moments of anger and gossip are powerful. This is a wonderful guide for anyone looking to incorporate mindfulness and compassion into their daily interactions. Truly inspiring!*
"In the tapestry of life, weave the threads of compassion and mindfulness - a Buddhist story of resilience and growth."
I have learned that zens wisdom is really powerful nd thoughtful nd I am greatful ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 7:31 thank you very much
Am in need of an guidance as am new in this, I really love these Buddhist traditions teachings
Silence is the wisest response. Thank video!
In our faith, we are encourage to help those in need, help the poor, & the sick. ~Aga Khan
I pray for people in America and Israel and around the world can look at this video maybe we can change the world to be a better place
And Ukraine 🙏🏽
Regarding Gossip & Slander…. “if the person you are talking about was next to you, would you say what you’re about to say?” I’ve bitten my lips many a time as wisdom kicked in and the urge went away. Refrain actually becomes a habit!
you are right i agree with you
i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
This is such a wonderful day today, hearing these words of reality and truth it just puts My Heart in a different dimension😊❤
No truth is more beneficial than the truth against gossip.
Silent is powerful ❤❤❤
In the symphony of life, the most powerful notes are often found in the silence between the melodies, where strength speaks louder than words. ❤😊🙏
Stay away from such negative people
Not everyone can be your friend , to avoid such negative reactions , keep an arms length
Thank-you for this it's just what I needed. I'm trying my best but feel I am making mistakes and failing all along the Way. I feel so silly. I've tried so hard knowing that I should adhere to these statements for so long but when something monumental arises within this delusion I get suckered in like I'm being tested to the core and then trip up and make mistakes over and over... I'm going to try and listen to this daily to get it to sink in. Love and respect to you all X
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I feel you. My mom sent me this right after I told her “I understand why some people choose to stay quiet” the anger part I’ve been realizing I can’t just keep going off by emotion. I want to learn how to be silent and unfazed…. Truly unfazed, not taking it personal or letting it affect me. THAT is true superpower that I cannot wait to have 🙏🏼 I’m working on it 🤞🏼
Thank-you. me too, I'm with you on that . I just watched one of 'True Wisdoms' other videos 15 Things You should do Every Morning. I'd recommend if you don't already, to make notes throughout the videos and put them on post-it notes on the walls of where you live. I've just written the 15 points up on my laptop and I'll do that later. Sending you love and light @@sweetlike01 🙂🙏
Silence is so much powerful
Thank you so much for this. I really need to listen to this wisdom and put it into practice. I am going to listen to this more than once, reflect on it and apply the principles. May I manage to do this before I die. May all of us do this.
you are right i agree with you
i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
I INTEND to do this starting tomorrow!
I've done that alot and it works for the best 😊. Thanks 👍😊
The teachings are healing. Thank you.❤
God speaks in the silence of the heart.
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🌿 [Truly grateful for the precious knowledge!
Silence "is Golden" in many situations, except in the presence of inequity, oppression, and persecution. In the presence of one or all of these three situations our duty is to speak out and effect change!
If you’re like me and you have come here because you are too afraid to walk away from that relationship that brings you nothing but heartache
I’m telling you it’s time for us to move on
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🎉i couldnt agree more on the power of silence.
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Their is no human emotion that is not part of the survival mechanism, to say being silent during angry emotions, is far to simplistic. Sometimes anger is very useful for survival. The real state we need to achieve is emotional intelligence, knowing the difference between anger caused by petty squabbles and serious threats. That’s true enlightenment.
anger is never good, that's true enlightenment
@curtrod Anger is unavoidable and necessary. It's what you do with your anger that is important. Emotions are not inherently "Good" nor "Bad" We are humans and we will experience all forms of emotions. Sitting in silence gives us the opportunity to not immediately react. It gives us the opportunity to transform, to learn and to avoid mindlessly reacting.
I'm not so sure there's anything simple about disciplining yourself to exhibit self-control during a moment when it's easy to spew venom and physically hurt yourself or others (including destruction of property).
Fight or flight/fawn or freeze are survival tactics that are inherently in all of us (and I feel like that's what you're describing a bit).
I've struggled for years with suicidal ideation, but I know that if someone were to break into my home right now and threaten to kill me, I would ferociously fight for my life. I would cling to life.
Anger is a secondary emotion and beneath that reactive behavior lies more undesirable emotions that make us feel small and vulnerable like jealousy and fear.
Our ego wants others to see that we aren't to be messed with: "Do you take me for a fool? I am not weak. I'll show you." And there's no need to prove anything to anyone, especially during an absurd argument.
Make no mistake; a person is not weak or simple for choosing to remain silent. They're being smart and safe. But, of course, ask almost anyone and they will tell you it is necessary to defend/protect oneself when it comes to their safety and possibly the well-being of their loved ones if being attacked physically or verbally. Even then, no need for fisticuffs or harsh words. Setting boundaries will suffice in most situations and sometimes setting that boundary looks and feels like complete silence.
As the narrator mentioned, sometimes silence alone shows our refusal to participate in harmful activities like gossip and slander. By remaining silent, people get the hint--even if they don't have the words for it. They'll feel it: "Yikes. Seems like someone doesn't like this topic of conversation. I feel kind of stupid now because I thought they'd at least agree or back me up on my bullshit." And they may think twice the next time they want to come around and blather incessantly about utter nonsense or hurl secretive insults at others.
Silence isn't the cure-all and the narrator did also mention there are moments when silence is actually not the best solution. Silence should be practiced accordingly in certain situations but not every single time.
Amazingly good advice and practices
BE SILENT TO AVOID PROBLEMS AND SMILE TO SOLVE PROBLEMS.
I'm glad i listened to this video, a thumbs up
I see Buddhism as more a philosophy than a religion.
Being silent shows that you are a person with a profound perspective. When you no longer want to fight or argue with someone, from silence you can hear more and understand more "silence is strength", try that.
Thanks for doing this great audio. This is work that benefits many
Great talk on non-attachment! I’ve been seeing this idea pop up everywhere recently.
I find it strange that here I am an atheist, seeking Buddhist wisdom to mentaly decompress after discussing hate filled religions.
Out of all of life's guides, I have the most respect for yours.
Just the fact that you simply do not go staring wars with your neighbors is a major bonus in my book.
You are naive!
Buddhists have also been involved in wars.
The Buddhist don't believe in a God. Buddhist monks are fighting with Muslims, but everybody is fighting with the Muslims, even other Muslims and atheists
Please know that Budhism is not a religion, it is a philosophy.
@@teresapuertas3230 I respectfully made the correction.
Burmese Buddhists kill Rohingya Muslims all the time, just sayin'
we very timely relevant i needed this. thank you self ❤
Thank You for sharing this video.. Most helpful and I light meant....
It’s amazing how silence can work after unjustly being slandered, ripped off or being hurt when you are innocent. Karma is real. Just give it some time and you will see.
Thank you. Just in time!
this video says so little with so much. definitely repeating itself over and over in different ways.
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Yes absolutely horrible
Thank you very much for these wonderful shares
Thank you. God bless. Learning. Things abou balance.
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May you be free from hostility, danger, mental, physical, and spiritual suffering. May all beings, seen and unseen, in all realms and planes of existence bless you. May all beings feel inner peace and happiness. Satu Satu Satu
Allwaysspeak your truth. That is why the most societies works
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I hope that the Buddhists in Myanmar who have committed atrocities against Rohingya Muslims will start to embrace these teachings.
Great video. Thank you so much. Can you please share the transcript as pdf so that we can get a print out and study the important vocabulary?
Thank you! I look forward to listening to your great words of wisdoms.
you are right i agree with you
i always wounding and seeking knowledge and i found this channel and i think its really help you as it did to me th-cam.com/video/jv86MTC8_Qw/w-d-xo.htmlsi=VFZRxW5Kbwf_yKbu
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In life’s difficult times if you complain and ask “Why me? Why not others?” then remember when good things hapened to you in the past, you never asked - “Why me?! Why not others?!”
The key here is acceptance. Accept bad times not because you deserve the bad times but because you have to grow stronger and wiser. Once you accept you will never cry and ask “Why me?”
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I wish Inner peace for y'all
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The video is so great and meaningful, wishing the channel to grow.
So many words!
That u for your beautiful video... 🌹🙏💓
So true Amen
However!!!! If u grew up without any love or wisdom, and u felt helpless and victimized and were not allowed to speak, there is a possibility to develop the ability to psychically attack others. Psychic attack requires silence and rage. Focus. Focus on the one hurting you.
What im getting at is once you realize you are doing this, it is difficult to stop bcuz it is a habit. And to acquire wisdom and new awareness, make new choices takes time. It takes time to stop living and expressing as a victim in life, to even become aware this is happening….
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Be silent when you don’t know anything only talk when you know what’s going on and understand the situation. …or be splint you don’t what to share your thinking towards the situation and doubt maybe other person dont like your thinking and get angry or you don’t trust
Their have been times inmy life where I let anger take over a it never turns out well,it ruins relationships.
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Silence is my religion and meditation is my caste!
Well Buddhism let me introduce you to adhd and autism. My mind is never silent. I’m so desperate for it to be
Being extra vigilant over the things that make brain chatter worse will help. It is boring but true that these things are important...proper nutrition, good sleep, excersise, natural light exposure, positive social interactions, meditation. These things are possible to achieve with an ND mind, it just takes a different, unique to you, path to achieve. Make sure you are getting the right vitamins and in the right amounts, we need far more than officially accepted. B vits, magnesium, omega 6 are ones to focus on for overestimated mind. Find the right method for you to prioritise sleep, there is adhd specific advice out there for this. Same for excersise, what works for NT might not work for you but there is ND specific advice for incorporating more movement into your life. Avoid people who cause you anxiety or trigger your overthinking often, it's totally acceptable and your wellbeing is worth it, these ppl probably won't agree but this is exactly why they aren't good for you. Meditation /mindfulness can come in other forms than the traditional. I find that working on art projects shuts down my chatter and I get into a flow state, I think this is similar to meditation. I am not aware of myself but neither am I thinking, I am just being a person making a thing, so it's positive. Dancing can be a way to escape thought, again because you are being physical rather than thinking, your body is moving to express emotion as a response to sound, not typical dancing but ecstatic/tranceform dancing with intention, not as a performance for others but for yourself to feel. I'm sure there are other forms that might resonate with you, the main idea is to spend some time not being your thoughts, if they come up the practice is to notice them as though you are someone else listening to someone talking...to disassociate from your thoughts and not identify yourself as them. Your thoughts are part of you, part of a triad (mind, body, soul) but they are not entirely YOU. They are your conditioning, they are your tool for navigating existence, they are a mechanism for surviving, but they are not YOU. It is extra hard but extra worth it for your ND mind, prioritise your peace and do not judge yourself when it proves difficult. Any tiny progress is still progress, just trying is progress x
@@MissNoonooify Do we speak if we are wronged at work?
@@Nicole-gb4ze if you go by what this video teaches, it seems it is best not to speak in the moment your anger is triggered, but to think upon it and then speak when you have found the right path within yourself so that you know what you are speaking is for positive change and not an egoic reaction. It is worth meditating upon these points ...why do you feel wronged? Why might the other person have behaved in a way that wronged you? What needs of yours are not being met? What needs of the other person are they trying to meet by doing you wrong? How can both of you get your needs met simultaneously? You must stand up for your needs, it is how you approach it that matters. What you decide to do might not be agreed to by the other, we cannot make people be sensible, but it will make a difference to your soul and your wellbeing that you offered an empathetic solution. If you are working with people who are completely unwilling to compromise or consider your needs it might be the best action to walk away from that job. It may be very difficult but so is spending every day with people who are harmful to you, it takes a high toll over time.
I am too, and Buddhist practices have been life changing. You learn to stay present and show yourself compassion, and once you do everything starts to change.
The fact that nobody talks about the book whispers of manifestation on borlest speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
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Well said
These monks are jacked! At least the one at 4:06.
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ikr...even the back of his head is ripped like a mug
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I needed this!
AND what about the unlucky of us who live in places where they can't find the required silence to sleep? OR are constantly provoked by invidious people around?
In the Ismaili faith, our spiritual leader has said: "Never be angry, never show displeasure or be mean."
In regards to gossiping, we are taught that gossip is the biggest sin worse then killing someone bcz we are killing that person while they are still alive and sin is equilent to like eating the flesh of your brethren. We are not even allowed to listen, we should move away from anyone gossiping bcz hearing gossip is also a sin.
Silence allows you to listen and listening means you hear things that noise always drowns out.
Never was silence praised so verbosely
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Angry, that's a normal strong feeling, that should not be hidden
yeah, letting someone know your feeling angry is one thing, but letting anger take over and make us say or do nasty stuff we will regret, another thing for sure.
great video.
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@@wisdom_insights Is the narrator, an ai Voice?
This video is full of emptiness. "Silence" is repeated about 100 times - painful on the ears. "Silence" is easier said than done. It doesn't alway work. Sometimes it is necessary to speak out against injustices. Silence at times causes more harm.
Silence is wise to an extent. However, if you _stay_ silent when boundaries have been overstepped - when someone has done something immoral, or is damaging to you or another - you _should_ respond. I say take a few deep breaths then address the wrongdoer, but address them calmly and in a way that doesn't belittle them. But _do_ engage and do not mistake silence for "ignore". I know this from bitter experience. Silence should never be confused with moral cowardice.
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This is really impressive, I like that ,you mean you achieved 139k subs in less than one year wow. Please tell me what you use to create this videos 🙏
but at an argument at work I use truth and get loud if nessesarry!!! some people instigate ..and I don't let them get away with it ..I always win ..and they take me more seriously for the next time they become assholes!!! this works for me...can't always be silent .. but cussing is un nessesarry
Being a fearful doormat or staying quiet from fear is not an empowering silence
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What if someone encouraged you to take your money from the bank to invest in something you later found out is like gambling and the thing collapsed and they told you that if it didn't work out they would give back your money,now they are avoiding you and when you're in the same space they turn their backs to you and avoiding eye contact with you, I've been keeping silent for 3 long years while watching their actions, the things I had the money to do when COVID was over is now coming through and I don't have the money to do my business and as a result my children and I are suffering,my 12 years old son goes to school with only bus fare no lunch money ,I'm waking up in the middle of the night fretting over the fretting because that money was my help after COVID and I must say I lost my job during Covid now I must ask at what point I should break my silence ?
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Marjorie....Ecclesiastes 3:7 A time to be quiet; a time to speak up.
It's time to confront them. It's your money !!! Also...be very careful who you trust !! A lot of people can be VERY DECEPTIVE when it comes to money.
You were supposed to speak up to this person before your suffering. There is a time to be silent but your silence has been long over due. You can speak and express yourself in a calm and wise way. If this person who is obviously guilty, doesn't offer to find a way to repay you, well you have learned a valuable lesson. I would write them off and never again trust them. Learn to look at yourself as a wise survivor and not a victim.
Better to be thought a fool than speak removing all doubt.
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It’s odd that this lesson about the value of silence is impossible to listen to because of the background music. Too bad
I left as there are too.many commercials.😮
"Do these jeans make my butt look fat?" I haven't watched yet so maybe that is covered.
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Duality makes a difference in the source behind the narrative…
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His holiness the Buddha made the decision to not reply when there was wrongfull speach and of other actions.Keep peace in your mind.