Dear ladies repeat after me! LOVE Bombing 💣 is not Love, hoovering is not a sign of a reformed man/woman. The will suck you in drive you crazy, abandon/discard you right after the wedding, , when you rebuild they come back to uproot you from your core. God internationally let you stay 6months with no baby the first time…toxic men are very canning like conmen
I can't agree more with you. I was in a relationship with a man who had created a "heaven" for me. The relationship was full of love bombing. We rushed things as we met in Dec 2022 and in March 2023 we were already planning a wedding. We met in a youth conference so he was a saved guy and God-fearing 🤣. We had arguments all through, but I had to keep cool because of the already-known wedding. Every time we had an argument he gaslighted me and I was in the wrong all the time to the point I stopped complaining as I thought I was the one who was not understanding. To cut a long story short he revealed his real character after paying the dowry, never caring about me. Fast forward I was emotionally tortured, was tired of the relationship even before the wedding happened. All this time I couldn't leave because I was wondering what the church, parents, and friends would say until this day when I was on the verge of depression, crying and I looked at myself in the mirror and said no, I can't do this anymore but again I had no courage to leave. Thank God one day I decided to ask something about him,{ mind you I never enquired anything about him before, I relied on what he told me because I couldn't stand hearing anything negative about my love, there was no chance for haters🤣🤣🤣}, he knew about it, got mad to the point of saying that he 'would cancel the wedding, give me a year to gather information about him and let him know when I was done. This was God's way of letting me out of the relationship. The wedding was supposed to happen in November last year but it didn't. I'm now working towards returning the dowry. God saved my life. I can't imagine how I could be living with him in the same house.
This story blessed my heart. 1. God answers prayer. 2. God cares 3. We are always in God's hands 4. Trials with faithfulness will lead us to a crown of righteousness 5. I'm praying for you
My take home is that do not involve religious leaders in matters that require therapy.....they maybe be biased . Seek professional help where necessary.
If you think I'm going to sit down for more than two hours and watch Lynn's interviews then you're absolutely correct 📌💯, can't afford to miss any of them❤️📌
Sometimes you go through abuse and come out shining is not everyone can endure but with reading of the word and listening to God you'll win I'm an experienced
Thank you Lynn f0r introducing this beautiful lady. I was raised by my father because my mother had deserted us. My dad never uttered a bad word about her and that made me had the utmost respect for my dad.❤
In my growing up there was a business woman in my village she a lot of money but she never supported the husband with her money even watoto sometimes they slept hungry and we wondered why, but now i understand😅😅 but the husband played well children are now great people
You spoke my mind, I helped my ex a lot he was working in Kenya and I even helped him for the transport to my country only to get home to start meeting other ladies because he really wanted to marry from his country now he is married another person. it is just sad majority of men always want to play victim
Let's normalise making decisions for ourselves not letting a pastor or man or woman of God to decide for you. God speaks to us directly we should trust that inner voice
Went almost through the same. He was a church person, used to abuse me and would deny right on my face. The day he told me he will do something to me that I will never forget, I walked out. Its six years down the line and am still standing by Gods Grace.
The graduation gown thing made me cry jameni. My dream to set up a school comes from the same story line. He who watches over us does not slumber or sleep.
One can have a conversation with Margret for one full month continuously without getting tired. With her, not a dull moment. Even something that will make her cry after saying it, she will still say it with so much humour.
What a story ! The lady is so beautiful and eloquent.Jesus has really rebranded her She's now sober and alert to serve God. Thankyou Lynn for this platform
Pastor Kenye I Love your sense of judgement. You have not allowed your error of giving him a second chance affect your sense of judgement. This was just perfect for me.
That’s the devil, to kill, steal and destroy. He was never a Christian, the devil used the husband to get to her. He wanted to destroy her and make sure she didn’t fulfil God’s purpose for her life
@@hellenmaina3045 you have every right to speak for your people as well, I find that every time we see LUO we react, everyone works hard but in business kikuyu’s will take it a notch higher and I don’t oppose it. We can all be complemented without feeling a certain way, I come in peace, hii Dunia nimetembea from Australia, Sweden, UK, America etc the Training the Luo woman receives on marriage even I don’t admire & I laugh with my mum daily I couldn’t do it but I feel for the sisters who endure 😣 the burden of “odhi oduogo or migogo only a Luo woman will understand
Eeeiii this lady is a good storyteller, urembo nayo alipewa. Black beauty. And she is a strong lady. Bless you mama.❤ my mum always tells you don't eat back the same food after vomiting. So... when you see red flags in a man run for your life cause he will never change.
This maama has encouraged me to keep doing good for my child ...his father went when he was 3yrs now the boy is turning 11yrs soon I have never talked bad about this man Infront of my child ..it's tuff but I want to raise a good future father and husband . We can do it ladies
We must teach our children by example. Sometimes one parent is setting a bad example. We can not allow them to believe it is ok to abandon their family. The truth isn't negative but how it's delivered or withholding it has negative outcomes. Love you cousin 🇯🇲🇺🇲
I was sitting on the edge when pastor margaret let him come to her house and allowed him back. My heart leaped when he continued cheating using her car. My God!!! Am a pastors wife and I really felt bad
These men of God sometimes fails how can you force someone to go back in a abusive marriages.. this woman is very gorgeous ad a good story teller you will shine ad shine gal God is with you you are a strong woman 🥰 watching from Saudi Arabia ilove this channel it as taught me alot ad how to deal with situations
God bless you Lynn for bringing Margaret. I personally has learnt a lot through her story. Keep it Maggy and that Community Centre will be a testimony of rebuilding not only you but for all the families whose children will benefit from it.
That was my exact thought when I heard her voice. I was not even watching, I was listening to the show, and I had to go check the video, because her voice is similar to that of Akothee
You had married a principality pastor but God protects His own and you are an apple of His eye! Being chosen is not easy, you'll go through it but God is right there with you. Victory belongs to Jesus! May God continue to move you, your family, your business and your ministry from glory to glory! I say the prayer of Yabesh over your life woman of God!! God will enlarge your territory ma'am!
She needs to trust her own intuition and believe that the God she loves, loves her, and is within her. There’s no way God would have returned her to an abuser.
@@philiciamalemba18And indeed the owner of that school is like that. Hata jina ameharibu Kasarani. She was a topic of discussion on the Kasarani facebook group sometimes back.
I remember in 2017 when I saw you as my father visited me at the hostel and you were with him in the car, I knew all was not okay.. 😭😭😭😭 Pastor Margaret is such a strong character, always smiling and laughing.. What the enemy meant for evil, God has turned it around for your good.. You have overcome ❤️
I have learnt alot from this pastor, but she fails to admit that abuse is abuse. What if that man could have killed her? The men and women of clothe need to stop sending back abused women back to their abusive homes.
Agree. She has not yet admitted her own wrongs- like getting this man loans, especially when he returned to slap her with Abuse Paper 2. Why buy him a car. She was not confident in herself and used her access to finance as a way to keep him. I can tell if this man comes again , she will gladly accept Abuse Paper 3. This is how we describe such Exes in Zimbabwe. Am ex only comes back when the see you rebuilding , only so they can destroy you again.
Agreed. Some of the advise given by preachers is just unbiblical, very carnal and dangerous! Every advise has to be tested through the word of God. How was the husband allowed to continue being a pastor after his cheating scandals? The only thing that husband was imparting was sexual immorality n that's why today he is in deep bondage of sexual immorality n other evils. The church should have focused on redemption of the man. He is now a perfect tool of Satan, cause damage everywhere
I never return to an ex! Never!! I block them infact! She wasn't to call him back!! This story covers all women who have been abused and dumped by men they trusted. I'm glad she's alive. May God help her.
I like the confidence the lady has she never gave up in her life no matter what happened she would recollect herself quickily take a different angle and move on, what a such strong lady.
Your guest today has taken all the words out of my mouth! I have been on this channel since forever and I’m grateful for technology! God is amazing! How could we all have come across this gem of a woman in the person of Lynn Ngugi. Stay blessed sis Lynn. Love from South Africa.
Woooow...Pst Magret is super beautiful...has an amazing personality and has beautiful kids as well. This is just the beginning for her...we have had revivalist ladies in this country and she's one of them. Thanks once again Lynn...for this platform. My take home...is how Jesus it the best option...and we should let him guide our steps. I have loved how she has raised the kids....and still put up a positive picture of their dad for their sake and her sake too. I'm blessed...I have listened to the whole interview...super blessed.
Such an amazing woman of God. That's how much mums sacrifice for their kids. It's good that u gave your marriage a second chance coz now you'll have no regrets. It's also good that u have two kids from one man. Kids are worth more than a husband..... he's the looser
This woman( Dr. Kenye) is oozing African beauty and strength. It is well! As for you Lynn, I will personally deal with you if you go to Australia and fail to look for Esther Arunga! 😏
What a testimony .Thank you Lynn for bringi g Pastor Dr Margaret.I love how vulnerable she is and understanding her purpose and why she has to go through pain in order to heal others.God bless her and encourage others to heal .As for her school I pray for it to grow and not lack anything .From South Africa
Great to hear your inspiring story my High-school alumni, it make me feel so good to see this soul that have been natured from Samburu County kisima girls high school,we proud of you,keep growing stronger,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ wapi likes ya Kisima girls Samburu Alumni.
Hello team LNN. Watching from Runyenjes Embu. Never judge someone if you don't know what they are going through. Pastor may the Lord lift you even higher. Lynn Ngugi....one day i will sit down with you and glorify God.
Spiritual narcissist, the worst abusers because they know the word of God. People view the victim as the perpetrator because of how the abusers are able to paint themselves 😢 They will also do everything it takes to break your heart using another woman or children or material things, to them anything they can hold on to is an object of vendetta against you. Stay strong mama you are a victor and you have a beautiful story.
Covert Narcissist do their dirt under the cover of the home, upholding a public persona consistently (some of these are in our churches) but woe to the spouse, 😢situation. I had no idea what was going on, could not understand the indifference the meanness, and coldness, competitiveness, accusations, after right after love bombing, many times telling me I am a good man, but I could never say it, after the wedding I no longer saw it. I never heard of such thing one being a narcissist. After I saw here recently, several descriptions of the condition, I now know this is what I suffered so long, but no more .
@@lorebay2593 no more too emargine how is bad knowing very well God hates divorce they are able to convince you after a break up but are not able to change their bad behaviour and they expect you to forgive them .l say l have suffered a lot my teers are not dry yet l still have wounds even on my face of beatings but when he wanted to say sorry he could even get sick and thin and Soo stressed all people will say he has repented but almost died pliz don't dare
Who are all these so called Ministers and their false doctrines? Judgment awaits them!!! Margaret, you are a gem!!! Look at where God has brought you!!! Keep soaring🎉
I love everything about this lady... Moving forward, she should first run to God before making all the important decisions. Her pastors should just confirm with her.... Pastors are also human and not all have the wisdom or gift of discernment.
Amen. You need to confirm each word is from God. Seek God for yourself.Have a?strong relationship with God.And okay for wisdom. Not this spiritual father thing.
I've learnt so much that your identity and boundaries are so very much important. God is still the best option despite what you've been through. ❤ Hallelujah.
Sorry Sister Margaret!! What a touching story!! May the Lord bless you for not taking revenge...you are one in a 10million. What a heart of Gold!! Your crown awaits in Heaven
God never leaves us women alone no matter what we face he gives us strength I to been a single mum since I gave birth and God has always been with me and uplifted me now my daughter is 10yrs and going on strong.God is our everything....what God can not do does not exist.
This has just made my first 3 yrs in marriage memories fresh. Honestly if some of us are still in marriage till todate, It can only be the hand of God. Jesus still remains the best option 🙌
Narcissist don't change,if anyone here is married to any please u can change ur story,,let go than to go through emotional, physical abuse make a decision to walk out,
Just how these "men of God" can be. But bishop telling her to apologise and stay in to endanger her life and that of unborn kid is ridiculous. Religion will kill you
She has a beautiful story but I can't help but feel like she hasn't seen the toxic side of her church... I mean she is pushed to apologize (for what), encouraged to stay. But at the same time they help her out when she is down..... Almost like they are looking for ways to build he up not to sustain her.
i almost feel that what she went through was unnecessary and unavoidable.....she deserves a better circle.....she also should sue. This ex is living life knowing that no one will call him out
@@ebenezersifuna940 if she has overcome, she should not allow the old demons reign over her life. Sometimes trying to get even, hurts you more than your violator. A statement of fact, in Kenyan courts you don't solve an issue in a day, or a month. It can take years. Imagine coming face to face with your violator, letting him occupy your mind for that long? God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of POWER, of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND.... When you rise from your ruins; you are of POWER, you are of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND. Forgiveness is not weakness, it is strength. And forgiveness is not always after revenge.
I think this comes down to self-awareness and so many lessons to learn. They attach so much to the church and I think there is a scripture in the Bible that does not condone abuse. The Lord hates divorce but not divorcees and divorce is validated clearly when there is infidelity but does the church read this portion of scripture? No, they only want people to stay no matter what. I think this is where every believer needs to read the Bible on their own. Matthew 5:31-32 "It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.' But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery."
I agree that the church made her life worse and she doesn't see it. Lynn's side eye and general reaction was also like wth were you told to apologise for?!
Very beautiful lady...but i think sometimes the church gave her misleading advise as much as they also helped her out when she was stuck.She does seem to know who she is by now.Cheers
Her strength, sense of humour, outspokeness, dertemination, sharp intellect, resilience...just a summary of her great personality. Women are outperfoming men & men can see that and instead of pulling themselves up they are always finding ways to tear us down in the name of "I'm the head" "you are being disrespectful" while all they feel is shame, guilt and embarrassment about themselves. And they should be ashamed! I think Gen Z is on the right path for choosing "childfreeness" & singleness. Us women have strength, God is with us but we can't continue like this. It's costing us too much. Can't wait for worldwide marriage & child bearing strike. Not that it's going to help but it looks better that this torment. Sending sisterly love from🇿🇦 Thank you Lynn👏
Thanks pastor Margret for the boldness... authenticity and hardwork...thank you for protecting Divine and Delight...keep soaring...May God keep blessing the community centre... To you Lynn,thanks for creating a warm environment for the guests to share their stories truthfully...Blessings
Everything about her revolves around Jesus. Jesus must be very proud wherever he is. The lady is really beautiful n her story is very touching and informative. Her help comes from God. That part of son's graduation made me cry. I will visit her school one day
I have watched Margret severally in different interviews and I can't get enough of her, she is full of life and I love her vibe 👌, every time I listen to her I feel so encouraged, she is full of wisdom. My take home today is "JESUS REMAINS TO BE THE BEST OPTION"Thank you.
I’m so sad to hear of the stories of the men that become violent after the women are pregnant. Why do they become this way. This woman has a positive outlook.
An abusive man needs help whether he is a pastor or not. I don't agree with Margaret's mentors telling her to return to that man without counseling both of them as a couple. Something is very wrong with our church elders. They need to do better in counseling traumatized members.
Thankyou pastor Margaret for the inspiring and encouraging talk. I went thru marutal abuse for 26 yrs n when i left i never looked back. I forged foward and by the grace of God i stabalised.i have since retired n live happily n comfortably n am well taken care of by my kids n thank God for His faithfulness.Jesus is the answer...hallelluyah ....Amen.
Please Lynn don't be showing children's photos especially if the story is negatively reflecting on their conception, acceptance. They may face bullying by their peers or 'kuenjoiwa'.
Good point. I was equally worried for the children; they can blur the faces enough to protect their identity. Protecting the voiceless and innocent is a priority. I know @lynn is open to feedback. She’s a gem and a national treasure in my opinion.
Women, women, young girls; you deserve better, you deserve better, you deserve better. It won't be easy but the creator is always on your side if you remember him when times are good and when times are bad. IF he hits you once, he will hit you again and do worse to you and your children. If he is abusive towards others, know that same behaviour will come your way. This message is also for the Men and young boys who suffer in silence by their women who have the same abusive behaviour towards their men.
Margaret is such a beautiful lady and full of humor too. Psalms 139v 14..I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, your works are wonderful, I know that full sell.
What a wonderful testimony of a woman who has been purified through fire. This reminds me of the three Hebrew young men who went through fire and come out without any burn,smoke or ash. God makes everything beautiful in his own time. Am encouraged .
Dear ladies repeat after me! LOVE Bombing 💣 is not Love, hoovering is not a sign of a reformed man/woman. The will suck you in drive you crazy, abandon/discard you right after the wedding, , when you rebuild they come back to uproot you from your core. God internationally let you stay 6months with no baby the first time…toxic men are very canning like conmen
This right here🙏🙏
@@fatumafadeshi2514kwa pastor show Huwa ni vipindi tu. They are not real,so do not worry so much about it. Keep at peace.
I can't agree more with you. I was in a relationship with a man who had created a "heaven" for me. The relationship was full of love bombing. We rushed things as we met in Dec 2022 and in March 2023 we were already planning a wedding. We met in a youth conference so he was a saved guy and God-fearing 🤣. We had arguments all through, but I had to keep cool because of the already-known wedding. Every time we had an argument he gaslighted me and I was in the wrong all the time to the point I stopped complaining as I thought I was the one who was not understanding. To cut a long story short he revealed his real character after paying the dowry, never caring about me. Fast forward I was emotionally tortured, was tired of the relationship even before the wedding happened. All this time I couldn't leave because I was wondering what the church, parents, and friends would say until this day when I was on the verge of depression, crying and I looked at myself in the mirror and said no, I can't do this anymore but again I had no courage to leave. Thank God one day I decided to ask something about him,{ mind you I never enquired anything about him before, I relied on what he told me because I couldn't stand hearing anything negative about my love, there was no chance for haters🤣🤣🤣}, he knew about it, got mad to the point of saying that he 'would cancel the wedding, give me a year to gather information about him and let him know when I was done. This was God's way of letting me out of the relationship. The wedding was supposed to happen in November last year but it didn't. I'm now working towards returning the dowry. God saved my life. I can't imagine how I could be living with him in the same house.
@@fatumafadeshi2514hizo ni vipindire
Love Bombing is Not Love
A minute silence, this woman is so beautiful, i took time admiring her skin tone, melanin popping, dark chocolate! You rock mama.
😘😘😘
Yes she is Absolutely beautiful! Pastor your children are absolutely beautiful too!
She's hilarious too
Lusting after a woman is sexual sin
True ❤
This story has really reminded me that you can fall 1000 times but still rise again...Our Guest is so pretty and eloquent and humorous
True
sure
True
Only God can do that 🙏 to him be all the Glory Hallelujah ❤️ for pain to praise Amen 🙏
@@luelboatswain1214 yeah Everything worketh for goodness to them that believe
Moral of the story " never go back to an ex they always come back to see if you are still stupid " .
True
100%
VERY!!!
I agree
True
This story blessed my heart.
1. God answers prayer.
2. God cares
3. We are always in God's hands
4. Trials with faithfulness will lead us to a crown of righteousness
5. I'm praying for you
My take home is that do not involve religious leaders in matters that require therapy.....they maybe be biased . Seek professional help where necessary.
I agree with you
💯, I agree
If you think I'm going to sit down for more than two hours and watch Lynn's interviews then you're absolutely correct 📌💯, can't afford to miss any of them❤️📌
Sometimes you go through abuse and come out shining is not everyone can endure but with reading of the word and listening to God you'll win I'm an experienced
Of course more than two hours just glued ☺️🥰
Aki Mimi was reading a comment thinking is a negative one ni defend Lyn aki mimi😅😅😅😅💯 team Lyn
@@anniegathoninjenga1858 ningekua nimerushwa mawe acha tu🤣
@@anniegathoninjenga1858p.poqpppppĺĺjkķoòpķ
"Jesus knows how to rebrand His own"
Hallelujah!
Taking back a person that mistreated you, Never ever will i fall in such a trap
A leopard never changed its Spots
Great comment
Amen
True ❤
Was once trapped...lemmi tell you😢😢😢
@@shantelsabrina9889 don't say?
Jesus is never an option but the only choice.
The wrong thing we always do is always thinking he is an option.
Let's always put him first
Thank you Lynn f0r introducing this beautiful lady. I was raised by my father because my mother had deserted us. My dad never uttered a bad word about her and that made me had the utmost respect for my dad.❤
The humour in our guest today. Dr Kenye is a gem 💎
😂😂😂
Me its her eloquence of narration
I know right
Moral of the story 1:women abstain from giving men money
2:to never take an ex back... wishing all of you love ❣️
100%true
In my growing up there was a business woman in my village she a lot of money but she never supported the husband with her money even watoto sometimes they slept hungry and we wondered why, but now i understand😅😅 but the husband played well children are now great people
@@fridahnalisi8841 children slept hungry? that is wicked.
You spoke my mind, I helped my ex a lot he was working in Kenya and I even helped him for the transport to my country only to get home to start meeting other ladies because he really wanted to marry from his country now he is married another person. it is just sad majority of men always want to play victim
My fellow women please run and forgive from a far if you are in an abusive relationship. You can’t keep going back into such a toxic relationship.
Amen
Let's normalise making decisions for ourselves not letting a pastor or man or woman of God to decide for you. God speaks to us directly we should trust that inner voice
I could hug you for this comment.
Thank you for this🎉🎉
Amen
True true
First off, they are not 'man or woman of God' because God is not in such foolishness and violence.
Went almost through the same. He was a church person, used to abuse me and would deny right on my face. The day he told me he will do something to me that I will never forget, I walked out. Its six years down the line and am still standing by Gods Grace.
God is Good
❤❤😢
Thank u so much Pastor u really encouraged me.Ive been there and u just made me feel good to move on and continue serving Jesus.
Ooo God. I must heal
God is always with us,we should trust in him,obey his commands and believe in him .he Shall do it for us in due time
The graduation gown thing made me cry jameni. My dream to set up a school comes from the same story line. He who watches over us does not slumber or sleep.
May God answer you immediately
Amen
Me too 😢😢, it was soo sad. But God 🙌
That was so humiliating...why do that to a kid😳
That graduation part killed me😢😢
One can have a conversation with Margret for one full month continuously without getting tired. With her, not a dull moment. Even something that will make her cry after saying it, she will still say it with so much humour.
That's why she still standing until today.....the sens of humer.
What a story ! The lady is so beautiful and eloquent.Jesus has really rebranded her She's now sober and alert to serve God. Thankyou Lynn for this platform
Pastor Kenye I Love your sense of judgement.
You have not allowed your error of giving him a second chance affect your sense of judgement. This was just perfect for me.
maybe she discovered that there's something called narcissism and love bombing. Her judgement was not bad, she just didn't know about those two words.
Don't go back to the mess God took you out of! This woman's story is a great inspiration and brought me to tears.
Ahhh 😖!!! This man has been a weapon fashioned against her, I’m shocked how he just ruins her to nothing and be okay with himself.
Her spiritual father led her to go back to that Evil man!!!
That’s the devil, to kill, steal and destroy. He was never a Christian, the devil used the husband to get to her. He wanted to destroy her and make sure she didn’t fulfil God’s purpose for her life
Am not being tribal...The strength in luo women is amazing, identical, it's like they are born of one mother.
You’re because we know that women in other communities are even stronger!!
Thank you 🙏🏿
Most mothers,will always look out for their babies...it is not a tribal matter.Tembea duniani.Even female species of animals
@@hellenmaina3045 you have every right to speak for your people as well, I find that every time we see LUO we react, everyone works hard but in business kikuyu’s will take it a notch higher and I don’t oppose it. We can all be complemented without feeling a certain way, I come in peace, hii Dunia nimetembea from Australia, Sweden, UK, America etc the Training the Luo woman receives on marriage even I don’t admire & I laugh with my mum daily I couldn’t do it but I feel for the sisters who endure 😣 the burden of “odhi oduogo or migogo only a Luo woman will understand
Weee..... this is a thing for women and all female mammals and birds.
Example mother hen doesn't joke. 😂💪🏾😍💪🏾🔥🔥
Eeeiii this lady is a good storyteller, urembo nayo alipewa. Black beauty. And she is a strong lady. Bless you mama.❤ my mum always tells you don't eat back the same food after vomiting. So... when you see red flags in a man run for your life cause he will never change.
This maama has encouraged me to keep doing good for my child ...his father went when he was 3yrs now the boy is turning 11yrs soon I have never talked bad about this man Infront of my child ..it's tuff but I want to raise a good future father and husband . We can do it ladies
Mine is 14...no negatives about the dad but I told him the truth...he loves me and he never got affected by not having him around. Am happy
We must teach our children by example. Sometimes one parent is setting a bad example. We can not allow them to believe it is ok to abandon their family. The truth isn't negative but how it's delivered or withholding it has negative outcomes. Love you cousin 🇯🇲🇺🇲
@@monicakirema3264yes he hve to know the truth
Blood will always be blood
Excellent
I was sitting on the edge when pastor margaret let him come to her house and allowed him back. My heart leaped when he continued cheating using her car. My God!!! Am a pastors wife and I really felt bad
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Madam Lynn thanks so much for your support to our Ps, Margret Kenye may the good Lord continue supporting her and strengthening her in Jesus's name,
She’s so beautiful and the skin is skinning ❤️❤️I love the way she’s talking
Oh lord, remember every woman that has gone through this kind of pain including me. Never lets be ashamed
Amen❤
Tuned from Saudi Arabia 🎉... Nipewe likes jameni❤ Lynn nakupenda bure❤❤🌺
Welcome to the show Carol🙏
Saudi nko hapa from Hail
You're strong woman
Am with you from riyadh
Tuko wengi wa saudia❤
These men of God sometimes fails how can you force someone to go back in a abusive marriages.. this woman is very gorgeous ad a good story teller you will shine ad shine gal God is with you you are a strong woman 🥰 watching from Saudi Arabia ilove this channel it as taught me alot ad how to deal with situations
God bless you Lynn for bringing Margaret. I personally has learnt a lot through her story. Keep it Maggy and that Community Centre will be a testimony of rebuilding not only you but for all the families whose children will benefit from it.
It's her energy for me! She speaks like Akothee.
Yeah, there is some Akothee in her 😅
How
Nooo
That was my exact thought when I heard her voice. I was not even watching, I was listening to the show, and I had to go check the video, because her voice is similar to that of Akothee
awuoro [i wonder]
Very pretty and outspoken woman, the world needs people like her, keep it up madam
You had married a principality pastor but God protects His own and you are an apple of His eye! Being chosen is not easy, you'll go through it but God is right there with you. Victory belongs to Jesus! May God continue to move you, your family, your business and your ministry from glory to glory! I say the prayer of Yabesh over your life woman of God!! God will enlarge your territory ma'am!
Better be hurt with a truth than be comforted with a lie❤
She needs to trust her own intuition and believe that the God she loves, loves her, and is within her. There’s no way God would have returned her to an abuser.
The gown part made me cry. You are blessed Dr. Kenye❤
Very sad indeed. She should have mentioned the school
But schools really!!!!! Nooo
As she said a teacher without a soul
@@philiciamalemba18And indeed the owner of that school is like that. Hata jina ameharibu Kasarani. She was a topic of discussion on the Kasarani facebook group sometimes back.
@@Evalian198 She actually did, She said Little Wonder School. It's based in Kasarani on your way to Mwiki.
I remember in 2017 when I saw you as my father visited me at the hostel and you were with him in the car, I knew all was not okay.. 😭😭😭😭 Pastor Margaret is such a strong character, always smiling and laughing.. What the enemy meant for evil, God has turned it around for your good.. You have overcome ❤️
Well said... 👌🙏
I have learnt alot from this pastor, but she fails to admit that abuse is abuse. What if that man could have killed her? The men and women of clothe need to stop sending back abused women back to their abusive homes.
Amen. Am glad someone said this. She needs to clearly state that. Am scared that she doesn't see this
Agree. She has not yet admitted her own wrongs- like getting this man loans, especially when he returned to slap her with Abuse Paper 2. Why buy him a car. She was not confident in herself and used her access to finance as a way to keep him. I can tell if this man comes again , she will gladly accept Abuse Paper 3. This is how we describe such Exes in Zimbabwe. Am ex only comes back when the see you rebuilding , only so they can destroy you again.
I don't like the aspect of always funding this guy
@@dorothydongo5493indeed I have never heard of such description of abuse 😅😅😅Abuse paper 1,2and3😅😅
Agreed. Some of the advise given by preachers is just unbiblical, very carnal and dangerous! Every advise has to be tested through the word of God. How was the husband allowed to continue being a pastor after his cheating scandals? The only thing that husband was imparting was sexual immorality n that's why today he is in deep bondage of sexual immorality n other evils. The church should have focused on redemption of the man. He is now a perfect tool of Satan, cause damage everywhere
The story you cry.. laugh and just enjoy who God is. Glory to God. 🌺 🌺 For Lynn.
Yes in the lows and highs God still was who He is. And my wows are that Pst did not loose her trust in God
I never return to an ex! Never!! I block them infact! She wasn't to call him back!! This story covers all women who have been abused and dumped by men they trusted. I'm glad she's alive. May God help her.
Same here if I am done am done
This lady is amazing, i cant get tired of listening to her. May God continue showering her with blessings
I like the confidence the lady has she never gave up in her life no matter what happened she would recollect herself quickily take a different angle and move on, what a such strong lady.
Divine graduation without a gown..had me in tears.when Divine get to graduate from campus ...please call us all we must compensate this angel.....
I agree with you.....weee shule zingine hakiiiii
Your guest today has taken all the words out of my mouth! I have been on this channel since forever and I’m grateful for technology! God is amazing! How could we all have come across this gem of a woman in the person of Lynn Ngugi. Stay blessed sis Lynn. Love from South Africa.
Very true.Lynn has always been an inspiration to me. Right now am an addict of LNN show.this has turned out to be my life school. Much love to her
Pastor Margaret Kenye. Thank you for sharing your story, you speak with so much authority. I can imagine you on the pulpit.. 🙏🏿🙏🏿God bless you
Margaret is a true testimony and am a witness, am very proud of the greater height that God have taken you.
Better be hurt with the truth than be comforted with lies. What a powerful quote. She's such an eloquent speaker.
She's so gorgeous and regal 🤩
Woooow...Pst Magret is super beautiful...has an amazing personality and has beautiful kids as well. This is just the beginning for her...we have had revivalist ladies in this country and she's one of them. Thanks once again Lynn...for this platform. My take home...is how Jesus it the best option...and we should let him guide our steps. I have loved how she has raised the kids....and still put up a positive picture of their dad for their sake and her sake too. I'm blessed...I have listened to the whole interview...super blessed.
Such an amazing woman of God. That's how much mums sacrifice for their kids. It's good that u gave your marriage a second chance coz now you'll have no regrets. It's also good that u have two kids from one man. Kids are worth more than a husband..... he's the looser
This woman, she's so gorgeous what a beautiful dark skin color. All the best in your Kenye community ❤❤let it be the heart for the children ❤
This woman( Dr. Kenye) is oozing African beauty and strength. It is well! As for you Lynn, I will personally deal with you if you go to Australia and fail to look for Esther Arunga! 😏
Unless she is in jail
What a testimony .Thank you Lynn for bringi g Pastor Dr Margaret.I love how vulnerable she is and understanding her purpose and why she has to go through pain in order to heal others.God bless her and encourage others to heal .As for her
school I pray for it to grow and not lack anything .From South Africa
😂I pray you get donors for the school
It's the more Lynn's for me. I will be humbled to help more people like Lynn when I grow up 😊
Great to hear your inspiring story my High-school alumni, it make me feel so good to see this soul that have been natured from Samburu County kisima girls high school,we proud of you,keep growing stronger,❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ wapi likes ya Kisima girls Samburu Alumni.
My take away from my sister is never to take a loan for 'him'.
True also to give him money ISSA scam
😂😂😂 100%
Very true
We already did...Acha tu😢
I already did it😢
Hello team LNN. Watching from Runyenjes Embu. Never judge someone if you don't know what they are going through. Pastor may the Lord lift you even higher. Lynn Ngugi....one day i will sit down with you and glorify God.
Amen
Spiritual narcissist, the worst abusers because they know the word of God. People view the victim as the perpetrator because of how the abusers are able to paint themselves 😢 They will also do everything it takes to break your heart using another woman or children or material things, to them anything they can hold on to is an object of vendetta against you. Stay strong mama you are a victor and you have a beautiful story.
This should be pinned
Sure they know Soo much
I am helped,it is rebuilding indeed.
Covert Narcissist do their dirt under the cover of the home, upholding a public persona consistently (some of these are in our churches) but woe to the spouse, 😢situation. I had no idea what was going on, could not understand the indifference the meanness, and coldness, competitiveness, accusations, after right after love bombing, many times telling me I am a good man, but I could never say it, after the wedding I no longer saw it. I never heard of such thing one being a narcissist. After I saw here recently, several descriptions of the condition, I now know this is what I suffered so long, but no more .
@@lorebay2593 no more too emargine how is bad knowing very well God hates divorce they are able to convince you after a break up but are not able to change their bad behaviour and they expect you to forgive them .l say l have suffered a lot my teers are not dry yet l still have wounds even on my face of beatings but when he wanted to say sorry he could even get sick and thin and Soo stressed all people will say he has repented but almost died pliz don't dare
I just can't stop crying, the gown issue killed me, that was very painful
So sad indeed
"One verse a day keeps the devil away". I like that ❤❤. Thank you for sharing
Who are all these so called Ministers and their false doctrines? Judgment awaits them!!!
Margaret, you are a gem!!! Look at where God has brought you!!! Keep soaring🎉
I love everything about this lady...
Moving forward, she should first run to God before making all the important decisions.
Her pastors should just confirm with her....
Pastors are also human and not all have the wisdom or gift of discernment.
Amen. You need to confirm each word is from God. Seek God for yourself.Have a?strong relationship with God.And okay for wisdom. Not this spiritual father thing.
I agree.
The things women do for love. Her story is an experience to caution.thanks, @Lnn.
I've learnt so much that your identity and boundaries are so very much important. God is still the best option despite what you've been through. ❤ Hallelujah.
Sorry Sister Margaret!! What a touching story!! May the Lord bless you for not taking revenge...you are one in a 10million. What a heart of Gold!! Your crown awaits in Heaven
God never leaves us women alone no matter what we face he gives us strength I to been a single mum since I gave birth and God has always been with me and uplifted me now my daughter is 10yrs and going on strong.God is our everything....what God can not do does not exist.
This lady is such a vibe. I am glad that she came out and shared her story. God bless her.
My faith has raised to a higher level, asante sana for standing firm and being a mother and a woman of God.
This has just made my first 3 yrs in marriage memories fresh. Honestly if some of us are still in marriage till todate, It can only be the hand of God. Jesus still remains the best option 🙌
Pastor Margaret I've learnt so much just by listening to you, thank you so much for doing this interview
I watched her story somewhere, thanks Lynn for bringing her home ❤🎉2hrs+❤❤
God bless the work of Lynn abundantly ❤
Narcissist don't change,if anyone here is married to any please u can change ur story,,let go than to go through emotional, physical abuse make a decision to walk out,
Yes they do not.they will blame you for everything.i.had to say enough is enough😊
100% true
@LynnNgugi I echo what she says. Your shows are therapeutic and inspiring, I always look forward.
Just how these "men of God" can be. But bishop telling her to apologise and stay in to endanger her life and that of unborn kid is ridiculous. Religion will kill you
She has a beautiful story but I can't help but feel like she hasn't seen the toxic side of her church... I mean she is pushed to apologize (for what), encouraged to stay. But at the same time they help her out when she is down..... Almost like they are looking for ways to build he up not to sustain her.
i almost feel that what she went through was unnecessary and unavoidable.....she deserves a better circle.....she also should sue. This ex is living life knowing that no one will call him out
The church is toxic sure
@@ebenezersifuna940 if she has overcome, she should not allow the old demons reign over her life. Sometimes trying to get even, hurts you more than your violator.
A statement of fact, in Kenyan courts you don't solve an issue in a day, or a month. It can take years. Imagine coming face to face with your violator, letting him occupy your mind for that long?
God has not given us the spirit of fear, but of POWER, of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND....
When you rise from your ruins; you are of POWER, you are of LOVE, and of SOUND MIND. Forgiveness is not weakness, it is strength. And forgiveness is not always after revenge.
I think this comes down to self-awareness and so many lessons to learn. They attach so much to the church and I think there is a scripture in the Bible that does not condone abuse. The Lord hates divorce but not divorcees and divorce is validated clearly when there is infidelity but does the church read this portion of scripture? No, they only want people to stay no matter what. I think this is where every believer needs to read the Bible on their own.
Matthew 5:31-32
"It was also said, 'Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.' But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery."
I agree that the church made her life worse and she doesn't see it. Lynn's side eye and general reaction was also like wth were you told to apologise for?!
Very beautiful lady...but i think sometimes the church gave her misleading advise as much as they also helped her out when she was stuck.She does seem to know who she is by now.Cheers
True the moment she was told to go back 😢it wasn't necessary at all and again she wasn't sure of it
Her strength, sense of humour, outspokeness, dertemination, sharp intellect, resilience...just a summary of her great personality. Women are outperfoming men & men can see that and instead of pulling themselves up they are always finding ways to tear us down in the name of "I'm the head" "you are being disrespectful" while all they feel is shame, guilt and embarrassment about themselves. And they should be ashamed!
I think Gen Z is on the right path for choosing "childfreeness" & singleness. Us women have strength, God is with us but we can't continue like this. It's costing us too much. Can't wait for worldwide marriage & child bearing strike. Not that it's going to help but it looks better that this torment.
Sending sisterly love from🇿🇦
Thank you Lynn👏
Thanks pastor Margret for the boldness... authenticity and hardwork...thank you for protecting Divine and Delight...keep soaring...May God keep blessing the community centre...
To you Lynn,thanks for creating a warm environment for the guests to share their stories truthfully...Blessings
Everything about her revolves around Jesus.
Jesus must be very proud wherever he is. The lady is really beautiful n her story is very touching and informative. Her help comes from God. That part of son's graduation made me cry. I will visit her school one day
I have watched Margret severally in different interviews and I can't get enough of her, she is full of life and I love her vibe 👌, every time I listen to her I feel so encouraged, she is full of wisdom. My take home today is "JESUS REMAINS TO BE THE BEST OPTION"Thank you.
I’m so sad to hear of the stories of the men that become violent after the women are pregnant. Why do they become this way. This woman has a positive outlook.
honestly this behaviour should be condemned by society at large
This is one of the reasons. I will never have children again
Being a lady-pastor is no joke...so easy to be love bombed🤔
encouraged by the testimony
"mwanamke ni kurudi chini" I refuse that!
YOU ARE SUCH A BEAUTIFUL SOUL MARGRET. I CANT HOLD MY TEARS BACK FOR WHAT YOU WENT THROUGH WHEN DIVINE DIDNT HAVE A GOWN. HUGGGGGSS
I have tindo tindoed this episode, I have learned to much and did not want it to end. Margaret, you are a great woman of God, mother and sister.
Lynn you're doing more than enough i have been healed by many stories ❤
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
The most entertaining interview I have watched so far. The guest has truly blessed me
I’m just glued to this interview 🙏🏾
Strength of a woman.. she's so so beautiful, that fair skin. Plus her energy is inviting.😊
An abusive man needs help whether he is a pastor or not. I don't agree with Margaret's mentors telling her to return to that man without counseling both of them as a couple. Something is very wrong with our church elders. They need to do better in counseling traumatized members.
Neither do i . I am a Pastor.
Pastor or no Pastor the church elders look at our culture and traditions more than the church
This girl is strong, mature and blessed. May God meet your needs and your heart's desire
At times we look at ourselves and think we have gone through a lot,, wait until you hear someone else's story is when realise your is nothing
True
Learn not to compare deal na yako tu
Very true
Thankyou pastor Margaret for the inspiring and encouraging talk.
I went thru marutal abuse for 26 yrs n when i left i never looked back.
I forged foward and by the grace of God i stabalised.i have since retired n live happily n comfortably n am well taken care of by my kids n thank God for His faithfulness.Jesus is the answer...hallelluyah ....Amen.
Please Lynn don't be showing children's photos especially if the story is negatively reflecting on their conception, acceptance. They may face bullying by their peers or 'kuenjoiwa'.
Good point. I was equally worried for the children; they can blur the faces enough to protect their identity. Protecting the voiceless and innocent is a priority. I know @lynn is open to feedback. She’s a gem and a national treasure in my opinion.
Sure, children should be protected.
True
Point noted
maybe the mother had given consent
Women, women, young girls; you deserve better, you deserve better, you deserve better. It won't be easy but the creator is always on your side if you remember him when times are good and when times are bad. IF he hits you once, he will hit you again and do worse to you and your children. If he is abusive towards others, know that same behaviour will come your way. This message is also for the Men and young boys who suffer in silence by their women who have the same abusive behaviour towards their men.
Margaret is such a beautiful lady and full of humor too. Psalms 139v 14..I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made, your works are wonderful, I know that full sell.
Ladies be aware of narcissist who are financial abusers they can drain to the bone.
What a wonderful testimony of a woman who has been purified through fire. This reminds me of the three Hebrew young men who went through fire and come out without any burn,smoke or ash. God makes everything beautiful in his own time. Am encouraged .