Update on My Birth Mother Tatiana - A New Russian Passport!
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Taking good care of you while she was pregnant and then making sure you had a safe birth and were safely handed over to a place where they had the means to raise you was the most responsible and loving thing that Tatiana could have done in her situation. She deserves a lot of respect for that.
@@aj-qj4lt Aw, thank you!
Jana, you are so right
@@sharonstone3284 Thank you! :)
Your birth parents created a wonderful human and your adoptive parents cultivated that wonderful human into a great man. They are all pillars in your life.
It would be be wonderful to see you and your Birth mother spending sometime or being together forever.
@@aminahforever4277 I agree with you most specially that his mom has no family to call as her own.She will have a sense of belonging once they are together.
I love the terms Papa Misha and Mama Tatjana, not offensive and respectfully warm.
As a Ukrainian with Russian as a first language, it sounds cute, warm, affectionate, very child-like in the closeness sense. I bet his bio parents both melt on the inside when he says that.
The only feeling I have about her is a huge empathy for all she endured in life and she is so humble and totally feels underserving and its so heartbreaking...She had no one and than she had to give you up too...But she got her reward since you are such a beautiful and humble man. God bless you both ❤️
Beautifully said. What a blessing to have a sensitive son. Her world has expanded exponentially.
Nobody should ever judge your biological mother. She did the best she could at that time. She was lost and very poor. You are the best son on the planet. You are so lucky to have loving Parents in NZ but in Russia you have your roots. Take care of all that love you. 💖💖
Tell your Mother from me, she created an exceptional human being, she must be so proud. God bless
Alex .. you are a guy that any mum in the world would be so proud to have as a son ..im pretty sure that you will also be a great dad someday ..
She is a REAL MOTHER, she put her CHILD FIRST. Even though it was heart breaking. She wanted the best for you!❤❤❤👩👦. You are a gift to your family. They created an amazing young man!
@Helena Corvinus How right you are, she is a real Mother 💖
Alex, dont excuse or explain yourself for how you call your birth mom or dad. That doesnt matter. Your mom and dad back in NZ know the man you are, know your heart, they know you intimately and regardless of how you call them, that will never change. Same with your birth parents, you have a beautiful humble heart brother that God gave you. As painful as things may have been for your birth mom when she had you, God has a way to restore and this was even his way of saving your mom. If it had not been for you, she would still be alone without anyone caring for her in the way you are. I just want to encourage you to break free from the fear of saying the wrong thing. We follow you and watch your videos because of your heart, you opened up to the world in sharing your story and that is a very gracious thing to do. Continue to be yourself, to love as you love and God has been so merciful with your birth mom and a lot of that has to do with you. Enjoy this new phase of your life, it will only get better and I pray you know Jesus Christ personally because you have a heart after our Heavenly Father.
Nobody is in a position to judge, Alex. Whoever is without fault, let him judge! Who is without fault? No one! That is why no one is in a position to judge. All of us on here want only the best for her and for all of you! It’s such a lovely story! One day, there may be a movie? Mama Tatiana represents many people all around the world in a similar situation. We want only the best for her, Alex. The future is so exciting for you all! We are all citizens of this world- we all need each other to cheer each other on, especially when we have challenges. I tell my family all about you all! Take care. Till next time. Love from Wales. 🏴🏴🏴
Your biological and adopted parents are very lucky having you, I envy them.
We are all rooting for Mama Tatiana! So happy to hear she got her internal passport. That is a big step. I think you are giving her hope for the future. Thank you for for being such a kind person. We need more kindness in this uncertain world we live in. Please take care!
Since the first time i saw your birth mother i have always had a special place in my heart for her because i understood the pain ans i have always been happy that you have stayed connected with her,she needs the love and attention from her only child.
Having lived through the terrible 90s myself I know what Tatiana might have еndured. I can see how embarrassed she feels because of giving you up. We all love and respect her. And know she deserves happiness. Please show her this : "Дорогая Татьяна! Мы восхищаемся вашим добрым и чистым сердцем! Бог послал вам нелегкие испытания, но сегодня вы имеете награду в лице вашего прекрасного сына! С ним начинается самая счастливая полоса в вашей жизни! Вы достойны Счастья и Божьих благословений! "
You’re just an incredible human being!! Everyone who had the privilege to be in your life has been touched by a kind, special person!
Tatiana is definitely thanking her lucky stars, to have a child in her life like you Alex!! She gave you up for a better life, now you came back to give her a chance to better hers! The universe works in mysterious ways!!
Not only are you a bright light in Tatiana and Misha's life, as well as your parents who raised you, you're also one in mine! I can be having a horrible day, and as soon as I watch your videos, I instantly start to feel better. Thank you for that, Alex. Blessings to you and your parents, all four of them.🤗❤️
If we could all be so lucky to have a son like you, Alex. Tatiana put a lovely son into this world. Vera, Elenora and all the good people who make your family whole and together are a blessing to see.
Please, tell Tatiana that I love her and she is an incredible human being, very strong woman and so delicate at the same time. ❤️
It's uplifting to read all the positive comments below for Alex. I clicked every one of them. Alex don't forget to add the PAY PAL account for MAMA TATIANA. Again it's for those who like to help her big or small ways when put together will be a great help. Your real supporters know you are not asking for money. We just want to send for Mama Tatiana. You have new viewers all the time so they don't know we can give out of the bottom of our hearts.
What you call your birth parents is not important. You are in their life, and by what I have seen, they are very, very happy that you are. Keep doing what you are doing. Keep communicating with them, and your bond will grow even more. Your mom and dad are generous to "share" you. Safe travels, Alex!
You’re doing a wonderful thing for your bio mama by honoring her!! A verse from The Bible “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.”
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"THE JOURNEY OF A THOUSAND MILES BEGINS WITH A SINGLE STEP" a chinese proverb. That's what you did Alex. You were determined to follow your path. It's not easy but here you are now. You are indeed a special son. We ached, laugh, cry, smile, happy with you as you share your journey to the world. It's not an accident you are there. Congratulations on the Russian passport for your Mom which is just the beginning for more showers of blessings to come. Don't worry how you call your birth parents. Mama/ Papa it's okay. It's not taking away your love for your New Zealand Mom and Dad who raised you. Besides they love your birth parents too. It will also help in the healing of your Mama to hear that word. You are expanded family and no one is jealous of one another. Your emotions are going to be up and down and it's part of the journey. I am praying for you, Mama Tatiana your Papa, New Zealand Mom and Dad, all your family. Thank you to your friends Vera, Eleonor and all your behind the scenes friends with you in this journey helping you. We get to watch your journey with faith as you touch many more in a special way.
Please stop fighting with guilt and just accept the blessing you have. No one will get angry, you have two mama and two papa and they all love you and thats ok. Just accept it, its ok. Of course you feel a natural bond with your real parents, its blood, God made it that way...And of course you love your parents that raised you and loved you since you were a child. Accept all of it...Some people have no parents and here you are with two sets complaining 😂😂. Its ok, all of them can stay, the more the merrier...What are we going to do about the grandparents...There is a lot of them too...God bless you Sasha, just enjoy it. Hugs from Croatia
Alex, thank you for everything what you are doing for your birth mother Tatiana. I really wish happier life for Tatiana and I want her to feel loved. Please tell her that all your subscribers love her and wish her all the best
You don't have to explain your feelings, Alex. Congrats for that very important step you all gained!
PURE JOY!!!!!! GOD IS WORKING IT OUT!!! Keep on keeping on! You are Blessed....Mama Tatiana....stay the course. Alex... so proud of and for you. You are where you are supposed to be. Tell Mama Tatiana that she is loved by thousands. We feel same about Mischa!!!!!! I AM SOARING ON YOUR JOY. Thank you!!!!
I adore that you call her mama Tatiana and your reasoning behind it. Your parents have instilled some enviable values in you! 💙
Your birth mother has nothing to be judged for. The joy in the photo made my heart happy 😄
She gave you life, and your are giving it back to her...you are filling a void for her that she wouldn’t have expected to be filled again. 💕
We support you Tatiana!!! Someday, your dreams will come true!
Well said
Alex you are very lucky man! You have a mother and a father who gave you life and Mather and Father who raise you up! Both parents very important, because you wouldn't be who you are without them. Of course your Parents in New Zealand put more effort to you as a human being, and they made an amazing job, you are so sensitive, so well brought up that I am speechless. You are really very lucky man, God bless you and your both families. Good job Alex! I am very proud of you!
Your birth mom is working hard and it shows, bless her. Bless you for hanging in there and working on your relationship with her, she deserves it.
This is fantastic news, I feel emotional so can imagine how happy you are....you are her only ray of hope...God bless you!!!!
Ahhh Alex, embrace the abundance in your life from both your Moms and Dads.
You are a blessing to them all as they are to you.
A big hug and kiss from me to Mama Tatiana and Vera 💖
Alex you are such a brave young man. Just remember your birthmothers upbringing. She cant give away something she has never had. She has no reference how to love and nurture. She is trying her very best. We all also have different value systems. Whats important to you may not even be on her radar. Lots of luck in all you do, God Bless you and keep you safe.
The number of times you said Thank You, I guess you are truly thankful. The title could have been "A Million Thanks".
Your parents must be so proud of you, yes, you are lucky you ended up in that orphanage so your parents could find you.
Thank you for this video, a million and one thanks. 😉😎💞
Alex, you are such a wonderful son, and a precious friend. God has blessed you with such a loving, godly heart. Bless you honey! 🙏❤️
I am so happy for you Alex and for your birth mom too. I know that your adoptive mom and dad have supported you along every step of this journey and it speaks volumes as to the wonderful loving parents that they are ❤ God bless to you and both of your families and may this be the start of some of your momma Tatianas happiest years of her life 🙏🏻
Wow, I so admire the way you talk about her, support her, and look after her in whatever ways you can. I've heard people before say that they don't want to find their birth parents because they might come after their money. Perhaps they would find their birth parents in the position your birth mother's is in and look down on them and think they will want their money or something. So the fact that you are so adamant on not judging her for where she is in life and wanting to help her in the ways that you can is so admirable!!
You don't know what people have gone through and the pain they may feel for giving their child up. So to me, hearing someone say they don't want to find their birth parents in fear that they may come after their money, is disheartening. Because, though yes maybe that could be true, most likely it's not, and ultimately they may be robbing their birth parents of letting go of guilt they may have been holding for letting their child go, and ultimately getting to see where their child ended up and what kind of life they had.
I just think it's so wonderful how gentle you speak of your birth mother and how close you both have come.
Saving you as a baby has given her a way to love now. What a wonderful thing. Tatiana makes me feel weepy. Things have been so difficult for her, having you in her corner now is what she deserves.
Alex, what a great and beautiful video of your appreciation and love for your birth mother. Your love is very evident for your birth mom. It's wonderful that you can spend about 6 months in Russia reconnecting with your birth family. Best wishes for the future.
You are such an exceptional human, God bless you and your families.
There's very exciting chapter of life ahead for Tatiana.
Thank you for posting a heartwarming video!
you are a precious soul. i can't believe how thoughtful you are. faith in humanity restored man. cheers...
You only have one biological mother and you will always be her wonderful son. I'm very happy for you all especially because you're moving forward with mending the brokeness in your precious mama Tatiana. You're a AMAZING person. I'm so happy for you all. God bless always. 🙏🏻🕊️🙏🏻
Your future children will be very lucky: they'll have not two, but four paternal grandparents!
Congratulations, and thank you for sharing this journey. :)
I admire so much you courage and I'm so thankful to your parents in NZ for raising you a kind soul. I'm grateful that you can give back and you're focused on healing and positivity. If you ever travel to Belgium or Romania, I insist you taking my couch, I feel it's my duty ^_^
Love how open you are here. You don't often show yourself being emotional and this was really lovely to see how touched you are and your eyes getting a bit teary. Nothing but happiness and love for your family. Your mother was far from selfish by placing you in an orphanage. It was possibly the most selfless thing she has done. She gave you a beautiful chance at a life and just look what you are doing with it!
You're an incredible person for taking care of your birth mother who you have every right not to try to help! We need more people like you in this world!
Thank you for sharing this journey of yours. Keep it up, Alex.
Wonderful! She’s on her way. One step at a time. You’re providing wonderful support.
I'm very happy for you, Alex😊😇 and I understand you so well. What you're doing is exceptional and yes, indeed, it is life-changing🌿🌞🍀. It's true we can do more and somehow heal what hasn't healed before. This is also what I chose to do with my own roots and with my new-found family in Montenegro. Continue your wonderful journey throughout Russia and keep us all updated😊
Congratulations mama Tatiana Alex I am so happy for her and for you, you are truly a wonderful son to both sets of parents, your expression of joy is priceless, I am delighted for all of your accomplishments in Russia. Stay well stay safe stay happy 😃 Привет Пока
Amazing grace.
Alex, the difference you've made by seeking out Tatiana has been epic, by the time you left your first visit it was evident. It just came to me that, if you hadn't gone to her & she'd lost her husband.... thankfully she had a glimmer of hope & love. It has been a joy to watch. 💗
💐 flowers for Tatiana
I just found your channel today , And have been watching as many videos as possible . What a journey ! Happy for your guys .
You have 4 parents. Just be happy, cherish it. You are great. I wish you all the best. Good luck on your mission of LOVE.
Why do you always make me emotional? 🥺 #AllTheBestToYouAndYourMom ❤💯
Your parents raised a kind, big hearted son. You just care about and want the best for everyone.
I can't imagine her story now if you had not come in and showed her how amazing your childhood was and how you have come in and helped her feel ok about everything. You saved the rest of her life emotionally and spiritually. Amazing! :)
Give your Mom a hug from all of us. God Bless You
If we hadn't adopted our daughter, she would have aged out of the orphanage. Plus she is considered a "gypsy", so her life was doomed. ❤ you Mama Tanya!
Alex, you are an awesome guy, open-hearted, and a people person, you know. It's just a pleasure to watch your videos, they are full of positivity, laugh, and a sense of delicacy.
I'm from Saint-Petersburg, by the way))
I wanna hug your mama Tatiana. She grow up in an orphanage and probably don't know what love is, she probably didn't felt loved, she probably doesn't know how to love and be loved and you are showing it to her and she is trying her best to accept all of it. She is admirable for giving birth to you rather than having you aborted. And you Alex, you are a great man. I salute and respect you.
👍👍💛 wishing you and your family all the best
So happy for Tatiana all these small steps are adding up to a much better life and yes having her in your life is such a blessing congratulations Tatiana
Congratulations on this big step!
Hey, I'm so proud of you Kid. Well said. Love your mom with respect. Be safe, have a safe trip home. Peace ✌.
great video, I am also happy for you and your mother
Awe, so cool you are always loving to your Mama Tatiana, your her only child.
What a blessing you were able to find your birth parents.
Alex, you are such a treasure in her life. Her life clearly hasn't been an easy one. Hurts and emotional pain have led her to where she is and she's doing her best. Bless you for being understanding of her struggles and not judging her.
Take care Alex , I’m happy for ur mom Tatanna , love ur adoptive parents they are wonderful
You, Alex, are also healing the negative karma of your mother.
Love, Light and Blessings to you and your large beautiful family, you have two mothers and two fathers and brothers and sister 🥰💚☀🌈✨🙏
It’s ok Alex to use the labels that makes sense. All of the people who love you will understand your sentiment. Hugs to you Alex.
beautiful! you are doing something amazingly beautiful, for yourself and for your significant others. I am so proud not even knowing you imagine the ones close to you. You are a beautiful soul, so are the ones joining you in this journey!
God bless you and every one that's loving and helping you!
ps shoutout to Vera, love her spirit woopwoop
I am thrilled about her passport, that is awesome news. To bestow her the honorary title of Mama Tatiana is befitting. There is nothing wrong in having two sets of mothers, the lady that was hired in my home to run our household, I too regard as my mother and I will always love her, till I die or she does. There is more than enough space for multiple mother's in your heart, regardless of what. Some aunts can also play a pivotal role in raising children. I just love Tati, Janice, Mark and Mihail. 😄
I am so happy for your mom and you. You are a very special person and God’s plan for you is unfolding. Keep up the great work. God Bless you!!!
You are a Good man, and Wonderful son!! They All have so Much , to be Proud!! Good on You, Alex!!!
You’re a good son and your birth mom is lucky to have you, and you are lucky that she made the best choice for you. Your channel is so wholesome and one of my favorites.
Awww... Alex. You have such a genuine kindness about you that makes everyone love you and appreciate your story. God Bless You Mate! ☺️
God Bless your birth mother Alex she probably needed something like this to lift her spirits up
Spasiba Misha for bringing happiness in your mom life and its good both parents are supportive of you and God bless
You are such an amazing man with the kindest heart. The world is happy to have you.
You are truly blessed to have so many wonderful people in your life. You are amazing and anyone would be proud to call you their son ❤
God brought you back into your mom's life. I love seeing her so happy in the photo.
Спасибо Саша! You are an example to us all - especially in the world at this time.
You're very generous and very kind young man! I'd like to have you as my friend! Thank you so much for such a wonderful life experience! Many many thanks to your parents in New Zealand!
No judging here
We are so grateful you have this connection.
Love from,
Minnesota, USA.🇺🇸
My God Alex~You are full of Light! 🤗
God bless Mama Tatiana 🙏❤thank you Alex for all you do for her.you a good person, all your family ate blessed to have you, Huggs Titania and Alex from South Africa 🇿🇦
So Happy for her and the love of all these people is wonderful.
You remind me of my son who who is full of love and just wants to make others happy! There aren't many like you in this world. So happy for you!! Take care & see you soon
All your dreams have come true for you and your family.. I love to watch your videos!!! All that matters is spending the rest your lives together with your birth parents and extended family. Can’t wait for the update on finding Momma T family as well!! Til next time be safe Alex.
Thank you for sharing all that love from your heart. I wish all the best for a great future. I wish I could have given you a big hug!
Thanks for sharing this good news!
How can we judge her. She's the story of so so so many others. She had no choice. The way the world was and where in the world she was....she had no hope for a good life for you. She made a very brave and heartbreaking decision not for herself but for you. My thoughts randomly go to her often. I hope one day she may travel the world... The world she has given you. Xxx
Thanks for sharing this.
It's very emotional even watching all.of your videos but mostly the ones with your birth mother
I'm so happy you have touched her heart..
Man I love the Internet because i get to meet awesome people like you!
Growing up in an orphanage i'm sure she doesn't know how to bond! you being her only living child is very important and it may take her a while but she'll get there! What ever you do for her is a great thing and when she's not with you anymore you will feel you did all you could to improve her life. This is all we can hope for! Good luck to you all!