Revisiting My Family Photos with my Birth Father & Celebrating My Birthday

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  • @maureenackerley8024
    @maureenackerley8024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    It is so lovely to follow your life story. Your birth dad is so proud of you and loves you very much. Happy Birthday Alex, you look 19 years old not 29! Your mum and dad in New Zealand have raised a caring lovely young man. 🎂🎁💕

    • @icebergrose8955
      @icebergrose8955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hes gone native. Hope Nz can keep him! 😊

  • @NoirHammer
    @NoirHammer 3 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I picked up on your father's concern about "regrets" and I think you really need to tell him in private that there are no regrets and only happiness.

    • @iddomargalit-friedman3897
      @iddomargalit-friedman3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly my thoughts
      He's obviously not yet feeling completely secure in the relationship

  • @TheWildManEnkidu
    @TheWildManEnkidu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    Life is a strange thing. Did you ever imagine you would be where you are now, discovering, meeting, and spending your birthday with a family you never knew you had? Wonderful people who love you? It's like you've discovered an entirely new part of yourself that was missing. So, so happy for you. Beautiful family.

  • @TomNashTV
    @TomNashTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Your Russian is getting so much better man wow

  • @jaynareynolds3684
    @jaynareynolds3684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I've mentioned it to you before, and I'll say it again.......continue working very hard on learning the Russian language. I realize you know how important it is, however as someone who is almost 70 years old, I'm here to tell you, it is more important than you can understand right now. When your dad grows old and passes away, you will then have no regrets you tried your level best to speak to him in his native tongue whereby your words can truly express your love to the fullest.

  • @treshka6233
    @treshka6233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The kindness of this video is out of scale

  • @houseofjamilashairamarie5911
    @houseofjamilashairamarie5911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I turned 29 yesterday. I met my birth father last year for the first time. Keeping a relationship with my birth father gave me the healing I've been looking for. I'm happy for you Sasha

  • @JulieJewelzKvasnicka
    @JulieJewelzKvasnicka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    You look exactly like your birth father when he was in the Army

  • @jonaskessler326
    @jonaskessler326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    That’s a SUPER cool white jacket your dad bought you! Congrats on your 29th! 🎂🎉

  • @georgiawegrzyn5297
    @georgiawegrzyn5297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Wow, how nicely your father family dress up for your birthday, to make the day special celebration. Nice jacket !

  • @theggbros
    @theggbros 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Sonia!!! She is beautiful! She did a wonderful job!!

  • @sharonstone3284
    @sharonstone3284 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    It is very difficult to decide between Mihail and Sonia, which of them makes the best introduction. I can't conclude. Sonia is super cute though. 😉
    Your birthfather is a natural infront of the lens. I am delighted that you can spend time with them, ecspecially on your birthday.
    Looking forward to you seeing your brother in Russia.
    You are so humble and polite. I wish you tons of happiness.

  • @freeyoutuber6703
    @freeyoutuber6703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    *I WISH ALL OF YOU THE BEST!*
    FROM KAZAKHSTAN
    ✋🙋

  • @katheryns1219
    @katheryns1219 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Wow, your Russian has been improving by leaps and bounds since you got to Russia. Keep progressing as you continue your journey!

  • @bryndrson8289
    @bryndrson8289 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Love this channel. Alex deserves more subs

  • @aminahforever4277
    @aminahforever4277 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Am teary eyed watching this. Sasha, you are one very lucky gentleman🤩.

  • @barliegirl5374
    @barliegirl5374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Gee, I wish this for my son. One day, I pray that he will get to go to Russia and meet his family in person. He's known practically his whole life, but we never got over there.

    • @constanceglad32
      @constanceglad32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Now it's much easier to do this. Maybe he needs just a little bit of help and encouragement?

  • @melodyakbari1369
    @melodyakbari1369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Okay Sasha or Alex beautiful story. Your sister and cousins are just so cute and you are the fun big brother enjoyable to be around with. They will miss you buying them ice cream when you are gone. How sweet to see the children bonding with you and the gift from the family the jacket looks so smart on you. To see everyone dress up on your birthday is so special. To see you and your birth Dad looking at those pictures is so precious. Every minute you spend with your Russian family is more than a memory to remember. So much Love coming out of the screen. Thank you for sharing your life and for all the world to see. We are like in the journey with you watching you from Canada and others whatever country they are from. Your Father's introductory and Sonia are tied 1-1.

  • @estellesmith6418
    @estellesmith6418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Oh Misha, Sasha will NEVER regret making contact. Look, I don't regret that he made contact....it made MY world bigger. 🤣

  • @pavelyazev4393
    @pavelyazev4393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Alex, I have been watching your story almost from the very beginning. I want to tell you that you are a great guy. I wish you the success in your live. Be sure to invite your father and his family to look at New Zealand. I think it will be a big event for them.

  • @neil6765
    @neil6765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Happy Birthday from Wales UK

  • @emeraldaphrodite2745
    @emeraldaphrodite2745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    White denim looks lush! Looking trendy, Alex, suits well!
    Happy belated Birthday, Sasha!! Stay blessed!
    As always, sending much love and best wishes to your massive extended family! You are all so lucky to have on another in your lives!
    Kindest regards from the UK xxx

  • @LoboLady2007
    @LoboLady2007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your gonna love your 30’s it is better than your 20’s. It seems like life becomes more stable and your finally are looked at as an adult and not a “kid” looking to extend adolescents.

  • @carlworrall
    @carlworrall 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Its amazing how you are all trying to communicate with each other and learning each other's language as you all have something to say but hard at the same time. Amazing to watch and thank you to you and all your family for letting us see your honest journey.

  • @AntoinetteEmily
    @AntoinetteEmily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my goodness this made me so emotional. I love your relationship with your birth father. Your videos in Russia are just amazing. That white jean jacket looked so good on you btw.

  • @glenmcb5179
    @glenmcb5179 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really enjoyed this video everyone is so happy 😊

  • @yardrail3432
    @yardrail3432 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Always inspiring. Just love catching up with these wonderful natural people and how they share their love for each other.

  • @hemikiwi817
    @hemikiwi817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    С Днем Рождения, Алекс. Твой русский становится лучше!

  • @evagustavsson3554
    @evagustavsson3554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sasha, ti molodec! Ochenj horošo govorish po russki.
    I am happy I found your channel. You are spreading so much joy with your story!

  • @shashilalgupta1745
    @shashilalgupta1745 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    God is great family reunion . Video is so beautiful .

  • @girlfromlebanon
    @girlfromlebanon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Happy belated birthday from Toronto, Canada!

  • @louisasmiles
    @louisasmiles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I love Sonia messing about in front of the camera.

  • @debbiea6782
    @debbiea6782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    The picture of your sister, dad, and stepmom should be updated. It’s time to include you. They can put them side by side.

  • @dovlab3089
    @dovlab3089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    С днем рождения Саша! Пусть твои мечты сбываются, очень рада за тебя:)

  • @kissey5
    @kissey5 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You can recognise happy birthday in any language

  • @nicklasgrande6508
    @nicklasgrande6508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Another great video, this channel is a hidden gem

  • @katherinekeon7034
    @katherinekeon7034 ปีที่แล้ว

    His heart is so loving and kind. I remember when the first video when he picked you up when you are tall man. And how he calls your biological mother mama and then her name. It gives her that respect to he is such a kind man his heart is so loving generous for giving he seems genuinely concerned for you for your biological mother for your adopted parents how grateful and thankful he is that you found him and he hopes that you do not regret it. He has a wonderful man. You are blessed in the hardship of finding that you had so much love everywhere. Sometimes hardest situations bring love that we didn't even know was there. So amazing

  • @mwoodson3649
    @mwoodson3649 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy Birthday young man!!

  • @iperezable
    @iperezable 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Aww the little cousins ♥️ how cute!!! The little boy is picking up English very fast as well! Happy birthday!! 🎂

  • @damianavoneric9991
    @damianavoneric9991 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Alex, enjoy your time with your family!❤️

  • @Pixlanta
    @Pixlanta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sonia's cousins are sooooo cute❤️👍🏼

  • @judifricke6368
    @judifricke6368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Do you feel you Mother Country calling you home? Is that how you feel? And your birth father.... that is your roots. Hold on tightly to it. He loves you so. I hope you call him Dad one day as well.

  • @decowomen
    @decowomen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It would be so cool to see them visiting you in NZ!

  • @billyjac3816
    @billyjac3816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Sonia's intro was fantastic! She's such a character, so pretty and so funny! Your videos and family are always a pleasure to watch as well as they're helping me on my quest to learn the Russian language. Happy Birthday! 🙂👍

  • @jacintadiogo2295
    @jacintadiogo2295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy Birthday and Happy Easter...From Canada...

  • @fraidysteinberg2365
    @fraidysteinberg2365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Your sister is the cutest! Love

  • @ngengoseke6344
    @ngengoseke6344 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow Alex that was so cool and happy birthday. I like the way you are looking after your Sister, and she's very intelligent and like the way you are teaching your Sister English and she has lovely English accent, I like the way you interact with your Dad and he is a good Man with a big Heart ❤ . Alex you are an intellect, wise and humbled young man and like the video.
    God bless your family. 🙏🙏

  • @suzukibeane1220
    @suzukibeane1220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Happy Birthday, Alex. May all your birthday wishes come true!
    Happy Easter to both your families.

  • @mariannesnead6919
    @mariannesnead6919 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bravo sonya

  • @lorettajones5076
    @lorettajones5076 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was wonderful..Alex you are the best!!!

  • @willowluna5618
    @willowluna5618 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love watching your videos and following your journey! Your birth father is so full of joy, love and pride for you. Sister Sonia is adorable and growing up to be a character. 😍❤️

  • @iainmoone4403
    @iainmoone4403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A Belated Happy Birthday Sasha/ Alexander hope you enjoyed your day and all is good with your good self ?

  • @lorrettacrowley5922
    @lorrettacrowley5922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So Happy for you and both of your of your wonderful families . Little miss Sonia is a little Ray of sunshine 🌞

  • @robinellison6708
    @robinellison6708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm so happy you had a wonderful time! You can tell you are loved by both families!

  • @firuzarakhimova8797
    @firuzarakhimova8797 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    С Днём Рождения Саша!Какой классный парень🥰

  • @gostavoadolfos2023
    @gostavoadolfos2023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your Russian and Kiwi families are a treasure.🥰🥰🥰

  • @cherylsutherland9464
    @cherylsutherland9464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely gorgeous Alex , so happy you had a wonderful birthday with Your Russian family & extended Russian family , you are so special & amazing,
    Look after yourself, as you continue your travels 🙏🏻❤🙏🏻
    From Australia 🇦🇺

  • @ruthtaylor2220
    @ruthtaylor2220 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Waww very nice jacket🤗,Happy birthday 🎂🎂🎂

  • @jenp3847
    @jenp3847 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Happy Birthday!

  • @rockandblues3635
    @rockandblues3635 ปีที่แล้ว

    maybe his father feel guilty but you can tell his father miss him & love him so much, god bless them

  • @Guest-fw6do
    @Guest-fw6do 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    More videos! 😊 thanks for sharing us your journey!

  • @theobservertheseekerthewan1824
    @theobservertheseekerthewan1824 ปีที่แล้ว

    God Bless You! So Wonderful your Outcome finding your Birth Parents, Wow Your Birth Dad, absolutely loves you!! You Look SO Like him, and your sister Loves you as well! Your Birth Mother, seems to be struggling with opening up to you, but you can feel the Love!! Thank You for sharing your Story!

  • @ivorymccloud5470
    @ivorymccloud5470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love Sonia she's such a sweetheart

  • @capeclearisland
    @capeclearisland 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how Misha is such a dad - adjusting your new jacket and fixing you up

  • @debraboyea7776
    @debraboyea7776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Loved this Alex. They love you so much.

  • @reneelanier3475
    @reneelanier3475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You are a twin to your Father!!!!!

  • @robinellison6708
    @robinellison6708 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Looking forward to your next video of you visiting your brother and his family! 😁

  • @anaragalaxy5112
    @anaragalaxy5112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You are incredible Alex! Happy 29th BD!

  • @roberthuber9417
    @roberthuber9417 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so happy for you ! Your a lucky man !

  • @ladybearbaiter
    @ladybearbaiter 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy Birthday

  • @lorrainegatzke1048
    @lorrainegatzke1048 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are blessed beyond measure Alex. A very touching and love filled birthday. Lots of love to all on your side. 🤗😘💖💖💖

  • @fortymillioncoins9066
    @fortymillioncoins9066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy Birthday! с Днем рожденья!

  • @laurenewartcarroll726
    @laurenewartcarroll726 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just love the relationship with you and your birth father as well as with Sonia.

  • @banemattiebrahaspat4902
    @banemattiebrahaspat4902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy birthday Alex may god continue to bless you

  • @nandinos
    @nandinos 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a special way to celebrate your birthday! Misha's army photos are so interesting. Although I preferred his baby photos 😂 I don't know any Russian but it definitely looks like you're getting more fluent. Looking forward to seeing your next adventure in Arkhangelsk!

  • @Oldentucky4
    @Oldentucky4 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Alex Happy Birthday! I'm enjoying watching your video!😍👍

  • @abdhasann
    @abdhasann 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    from Indonesia : All your video are very touchy

  • @Anca820
    @Anca820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a lovely video! You and Mischa are really like brothers now. Alex, do you have any baby photos? Love from the US to all your family.

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Unfortunately I don't have any baby photos. Well just from when I was two years old :)

  • @MauriceBln1
    @MauriceBln1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a touching story and your father seems to be a really great person. He makes a very nice impression. Good luck in your future and best regards from Germany.

  • @judyesford6973
    @judyesford6973 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved this video the children are so cute . And your Birth dad and wife are great people.also surving your country in your army is a honourable duty . Your video,s make me happy.

  • @kasparaspetrauskas2181
    @kasparaspetrauskas2181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello from Lithuania! 🇱🇹
    Since I'm new here I haven't watched all of the older videos yet (hope I will someday😀) but so far what I've seen, these video are really entertaining. This is very nice of you that you keep that strong relationship with your birth father and sister and create new memories together. Looking forward to more videos of your journey👍

  • @phyllisb5984
    @phyllisb5984 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi, I notice that your birth father and family call you Sasha. I think I missed the why behind this, but I have the sense there is a nice story there. Would you remind us please?

    • @alexgilbert
      @alexgilbert  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hello! Yes even though my full name is Sasha Alexander Gilbert, Sasha also is a more informal and friendly version of Alex :)

    • @TheAllyMi
      @TheAllyMi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      In Russia you call an Alexander always Sasha, as a short form. Like you say Alex in other countries 😅 its the same with Michael and Misha

  • @janpliska9318
    @janpliska9318 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday Alex

  • @noname-lm2nq
    @noname-lm2nq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday man.!

  • @svanasaga5239
    @svanasaga5239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Priceless indeed!🥰

  • @tvshots6993
    @tvshots6993 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday brother.

  • @nama8540
    @nama8540 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Birthday 🎉 🎉🎉

  • @scarletred8888
    @scarletred8888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video- so heart warming! The kids are adorable!!

  • @irhonda31
    @irhonda31 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very emotional - in a good way! Happy Birthday to you!

  • @fatimiris
    @fatimiris 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday Alex!

  • @jeanpitt7401
    @jeanpitt7401 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    How cool, everyone was dressed up nice for your birthday and taking time with your sister to and from school.
    I am enjoying watching your journey with your birth parents a d Russia.

  • @yt-tz8ye
    @yt-tz8ye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That is so cool Alex

  • @maggie210
    @maggie210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for another beautiful and heartwarming video❤❤❤❤The jacket is aweesooome🤩👍👍👍Your father has a very good taste!Sonia must be so proud to have you as brother👧👦!You are all such a beautiful and caring family!Please give a tons of kisses to Sonia from my part and of course to everybody else😘😘😘😘😘😘😘Hope to hear from you very soon!Sending all the best from Croatia!

  • @donald1379
    @donald1379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    happy birthday alex

  • @DiceJoint
    @DiceJoint 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a great story

  • @bertaolave8668
    @bertaolave8668 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy birthday dear Alex, love from Chile

  • @sufletmik
    @sufletmik 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Weeee hope u had a great b-day Alex ! 🙏

  • @voskan
    @voskan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Alex, I find your journey amazing and wish you all the best!

  • @richardowens4889
    @richardowens4889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The outtakes are the best part!

  • @newlifeNS
    @newlifeNS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    С днем рождения, Саша!