25 Most Commonly FORGOTTEN Wedding Details
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A groom, don't forget to get a groom. That's important for a wedding. Or a bride...
I have noticed many brides that seem to have this idea that the wedding is all about her
I never understood it
I knew I was forgetting something!
@@Yetaxa the wedding is all about her, she’s the one who normally takes care of all the wedding details. So yeah it’s gunna be about her.
@@Katie-io6fv a wedding is about two people, since the marriage is the combining of two people
The bride is merely one half of that (unless of course, its two men getting married)
@@Yetaxa I'm not sure how many weddings you've had but they're about the bride
1) Ice
2) Bustle video
3) Feed yourself
4) Flats for happy feet
5) Emergency kit
6) Overnight Bag
7) Cash and ID
8) Tips
9) Water
10) Transportation
11) Reserved Seating signs for family
12) Photo Wrangler
13) Vendor Overtime
14) Vendor Meals
15) Music Selection
16) Marriage license
17) Gift Wrangler
18) Personal Items
19) Guest Book Pens
20) List of Items
21) Teardown Crew
22) Eyelash Glue
23) Bring your Invitation
24) Point Person
25) Breathe
kattwin1 thank you!
What's a bustle video?
@@beeblake7591 I just googled it, it's a video that teaches how to bustle a wedding dress. That is when someone essentially pins up the back of the dress, usually for the reception so it's not as big.
@@MizzSophiistiicated8 thanks!
Omg bless your heart thank you so much!!
Why am I watching this lol?
I’m a teenager who is supposed to
be doing homework😂
Because you are a bright and intelligent person and believe more info is better than little planning. the 🤗😎
Yooooo me lol I'm only 20 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Shawn Begay only 20? 😂 im 18 getting married in 9 months
@@NoName-ht2fw 18 and 20 are both young ages to get married.
Same
We had a buffet with a ton of food leftover. Biggest regret was not bringing tupperware for it because it was delicious and would have made a great snack at midnight.
Girl, same. We had a buffet and had a lot of food left over. We wanted to be sure the family got any extra food, but forgot to ask for some to take to our honeymoon with us. Could of saved us from having to resort to a convenience store trying to get basics the next day.
That's a great tip!
Yes! We forgot 2 and forgot cake! We had only had the piece of shared cake and it was so good.
I would be careful with that, in Wisconsin (and likely other states as well) you can't take leftovers from a buffet due to health and liability concerns. I would check beforehand so you don't bring something you can't use.
lifebrarian In Illinois, we were not allowed to take leftover buffet items-and that was a shame.
I don’t have a boyfriend therefore no fiancé therefore no wedding YETTT I am binge watching this girls wedding videos 😂
Brielle Imana You are not alone in that. 😂
I have been marred for 4 months and still banging this...
Same here
all that and I'm 19. my mom thinks I want to get married in seven years lmao
AYE
You: "Hey, we're about to do the bouquet toss, what song am I supposed to play?"
Me: A BOUQUET TOSS SONG!? *Frantically starts to Google* (Despite not even being engaged)
Single ladies by Beyoncé is very fitting!! Hehe
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I didn't even know you could play one. I forgot about tossing the Boquet also.. Lol! Thankfully, my Wedding was postponed from this November to next June. (We might do July, though I know he wants to get married before Father's Day. I don't want a May wedding, he sujested March and I said no to that.. because it would be too cold for an outdoor wedding. We have had it snow in March, within the last couple years. So, not a good idea. But, June it would be nice weather.)
The Jeopardy theme song?
The Photo Wrangler is probably the most slept on wedding detail... it does wonders
Ice
Bustle video
Eat
Bring flats
Emergency kit (make up safety pins etc)
Overnight bag
Cash and ID
Tip money in envelopes
Water
Transportation
Reserved seating signs in first two rows
Photo wrangler
Vendor overtime cost
Vendor meals
Music selection
Marriage license
Gift wrangler
Personal items cake topper cake knife cake server etc
Guest book pens
List of items and where they go
Tear down crew
Eyelash glue
Bring your invitation for photos
Point person
Pause breather observe
Why have a vendor, when you could have a buffet where people put food into their own plates. I’d have a small wedding and have certain tables line up first so it’s no so chaotic. Also guest book is pointless. I think it’d be more fun to have a photo booth and have guests leave extra photos in a folder to make a scrap book later full of wedding picture from guests and the photographers as well.
@@xkaykay420xx Buffet is more expensive. If you have 100 guests: with a vendor you need 100 meals (everyone chooses their meals, ex: chicken, fish, veg.). With a buffet you basically need 100 of each option because you don't know what each guest wants. If people serve themselves and people take the vegetarian option for fun you might run out by the time an actual vegetarien comes through the line and then they might not be able to eat anything. Plus you can't control portion sizes if people serve themselves so you end up paying for way more food than you actually need so that you don't run out. If you're lucky the caterer will pack up all the extra food for you and you can freeze it for the next month but if you're not lucky you've paid for way too much food that might just end up in the garbage.
Kaylee Ettleson it depends on what you want. I personally don’t want a buffet, so it’s all based on what you want
Yeah, we're cooking for our guests. Don't have any vegetarians on the list. We pulled off a funeral for 300+ people, with a food budget of $350. But our wedding will not be so large.
Menu:
Roasted pork
Buns
Salad
Beans
Chips & dips
Cake
Food for 100 +/- people = $150.
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I'm not trying to be nasty but... These are very easily remembered.
Planned my own wedding and didn't forget a thing! Yaay
Please share your tips
YES FEEDING THE VENDORS! Often times at my family parties we have a section (not just a table but like a section in a corner or something for them to put their stuff) just for the vendors with their own snacks and whatnot and we tell them that they’re also welcome to the food for the guests as well. We also let them in earlier than the guests so that if the want, they can eat before the event starts (ESPECIALLY the photographer) or they have some dry snacks that they can snack on throughout the event as well as some water
Good idea
Excellent and very thoughtful. The boss of the event production company I worked for didn't do this or care. It was like pulling teeth to get him to provide water.
Honest question- where to seat the photographer at my wedding? With other guests feels wrong to me..
Mens black sox. They always forget them
Montana D Extra nylons if anyone is wearing them.
Also, have someone collect all of the cash and gift cards together so that you can use them on your honeymoon. This was extremely helpful to me and my hubby
lol I'm not even getting married but I still watch... you're so funny, "please feed us!" I swear that is me all the time.
Same! She is so helpful!!!
You look so much like Sarah Jessica Parker
I was thinking the same thing about!
She's much prettier than SJP
kellij91 agreed
I also thought this as well!
Agree. She looks like a mix of SJP and Jamie Lynn Spears.
At the first wedding I planned/coordinated - I totally forgot to roll out the wedding runner. Didn’t dawn upon me until the bride and groom walked out. I slowly died inside 🤦🏻♀️
My clients always get so overwhelmed after they get engaged and they realize all that they have to do when it comes to wedding planning. These are great tips!
She said emergency kit and I thought, "First aid for my feet, bandaides, bandages, ice pack, ibuprofen..."
I just got engaged over the weekend, and I have gone into wedding planning mode (my fiancée has started calling it wedding brain) and your videos are super helpful!
Cara Brokes Congrats Cara 🎉🎉💍 Haha wedding brain is for sure a real thing! Let me know if there’s anything I can help you with 💕
I appreciate how you get straight to the point but also explain things thoroughly! You're adorbs.
I've learned so many things about American weddings from these videos
Please don’t ever take this video down because I don’t know when I’ll get married but this will help!!!!!
For #12 & #23...the photography reminders....YES!! I'm a wedding photographer and even though I tell my couples to have someone designated for wrangling people for family photos, it's like herding cats and takes up much more time than you realize! I also agree with reminding brides to bring an invitation for pictures, most brides don't. but they make for great detail pics!
Ooooh! Can you do a video on tipping vendors? Maybe just one on etiquette type things where you lump that in with a few other things? Like if gratuity is included with your food vendor for instance, how much do you tip on top? Do you tip on top? Do you tip the coordinator if her fee was an extra thing on top of renting the venue? So many tipping questions.
Mel Hassan YES! This one is so important! I don’t want to poorly tip someone because I was uneducated.
Maybe advice on reading the fine print on the vendor contract
I don't believe after hiring and paying so much money I need to tip the vendor on top of his or her prices/ #ridiculous
The only thing that’s frustrating about feeding vendors is that they are already changing you $1000 plus to be there and the meals cost $100 each. Everything unfortunately is just so damn expensive now.
I watched this video back when I first got engaged. I'm now getting married in less than 3 weeks and, MAN, she has saved me from all these mistakes
After an internship in wedding planning this summer...can’t relate to remembering to feed the vendors more 😂
I love that tip, before you walk down the isle, stop for a second and just look and take it all in
Ugh crying at number 25 right now. My partner and I got engaged this week and I needed that advice even in the planning stages. Thanks for the much needed reminder and tears. ❤️
I've photographed 10 weddings so far and have only been fed at one and that was me sneaking food from the buffet. Honestly, feed us!
100% I can not tell you as a planner how many times I have saved the day by bringing up Ice! So many of my clients just assume Ice magically appears. AND transportation! Lol
I'm already married but I had a few of these issues, thanks for doing this so others can get the help they need
Getting married in 46 days! Your videos are so helpful!
I hope your wedding was amazing!
I think it is soo cool that you invent yourself new in most of the videos. You look sooo different in most of them. I love experimenting with style
Do you NEED a planner ? What are the pros and cons ? I just got engaged, i'm the first in my family to plan an actual wedding and to actually get engaged. I'm completely overwhelmed lol
How's it going now?
1: ice
2: bustle video
3: food (feed yourself)
4: bring some flats
5: emergency kit
6: over night bag
7: cash and ID
8: tips
9: water (hydrate)
10: transportation
11: reserved seating signs
12: photo wrangler
13: vendor overtime
14: vendor meals
15: music selection
16: marriage liscenes
17: gift wrangler and vehicle it goes in
18: personal items (cake knife, champagne opener, etc.)
19: guest book pins
20: list of personal items and where they go
21: tear down crew
22: eyelash glue
23: bring your invitations
24: point person
25: pause, breath, observe, and repeat ♥
This makes me SO thankful my wedding is so low key and easy going
I coordinated my first wedding in May, and I'm just a little proud of how many of these things I remembered.
Bingeing on your videos because I am getting married in 2020 and currently planning. Love your videos!!! :) x
Good luck xx
Same!! What’s your date? Mine is October 10th
Literally same lol congratulations
Me to!💜
How did you guys make our with covid?
Wow I’m binge watching all of these wedding videos. SO HELPFUL
your channel is BEYOND HELPFUL. ugh thank you so much
This is one of the most helpful wedding planning videos I’ve seen on TH-cam (and girl, I’ve watched A LOT)!
Also the hair and makeup is on point!
Your hair is literally always stunning and I am so impressed and jealous.
You are so amazing I can’t stop watching your videos I’m so glad i came across your channel!!
Love the idea for the reserved seating signs!
Girl I can’t thank you enough! Recently engaged and already binge watching your videos. AMAZING TIPS
I cannot tell you how wonderful it is to know this. Thank you agsin fir another amazing video!
Your videos are so helpful!
I just love the way you speak about it all, it just gives more fire and inspiration to work on this amazing day, insted of stressing out. I am so happy that I found you. People with whom you are on their wedding day are so blessed! You are amazing!!
I’ve just come across this video by chance. It’s so incredibly useful. Thank you.
Just a think about the first 2 rows thing-I had one of the event planning people come up to me at my brother’s wedding and tell me that that spot was received for the groom’s parents and sister. I looked her dead in the face and said “I am the groom’s sister” hurt my feelings for her to assume I shouldn’t be there.
YAAAAAAASSSSS!
Jamie, I'm a wedding coordinator out here in Dallas and I was screaming my agreement with this video! So enjoying your videos :)
I had absolutely NO IDEA a wedding coordinator was necessary UNTIL WATCHING THESE VIDEOS 😭 now I’m stressing about having one ... about how much does a wedding coordinator charge ?? Does it depend on a lot of factors ? Or is it a flat rate ?
@@cristalrodriguez1589 A coordinator is not necessary for every wedding. But it's a must to have someone as a point person. Many brides pay a friend a fee just to be a day-off coordinator. Each coordinator offers different services, and charges different prices. Prices also vary by location. All will work with you from the beginning, some will offer partial service and almost all offer day-off services. It may seem pricy, but if you're having a wedding of over 100 people, and especially if distance is involved, (I live in Arizona, my daughter lives in upstate NY but the wedding is in Virginia) it is very helpful and worth the money. Google some in your area.
Saving the day one video at a time - superweddinghero! ❤
Great tips! So many details, it’s easy to get lost. Love the videos!
Your videos are so helpful!! Thank you so much!!
I love your videos! So helpful for planning my wedding.
Awwwww Jamie I just love you. Thanks for this video! Two months until my big day and I’m loving your vids
So helpful!! Crunch time for my October wedding and some of this i forgot!!
I love your hair and makeup Jamie!
Definitely Ubered from our after the wedding bar spot to my house, classiest thing ever.
Very informative! Thank you for sharing!
THANKS! I almost forgot a cake cutter!! You're a life saver. I'm getting married Saturday!!
Absolutely LOVED this vid
Wow thank you for these!
Thanks for your tips ❤ it's so helpful
You’re amazing! I am working for an event space as an intern and hope to continue my career as and event planner and you truly inspire me!
All great advice ❤
Great content. Thank you❤️
You are so gorg😍💕 and your channel is so so sooo helpful. Thank you for making videos!
Number 25 was my favorite tip. Super helpful video and I’ve saved it to look back on periodically as my planning process unfolds. Thank you so much 😊
Getting married in 3.5 weeks. Sooo helpful!!!
I absolutely love your content Jamie! I am getting married in December this year (Summer here in Southern Hemisphere) and your videos are giving me lifeee! Also love the Sandy vibes and your hair is looking fab xxx
You're giving off strong Carrie Bradshaw vibes with that hair and makeup. LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!
Love the video and had a wedding planner for my wedding last month! She was exceptional and even though my day wasn't completely perfect, it went smoothly with the help of my planner!
You are helping me so much... thank you!!
Huge Jamie fan! Love your videos! Swedish wedding is coming up and the tips are super useful. Thanx so much for the content and your sparkling personality. xx/Emelie
Thank goodness I'm having a tiny wedding. Hate all the hastle.
Same. Small wedding cuts out so many things.
Very helpful!!! Thank you!!!
This is an absolutely life saving video! Thank you soooo much for sharing your expertise with all of us!
This video was sooooo helpful! Thank you 😚
Your hair looks AMAZING
You are amazing. Recently started my wedding planning business. I have used so much of your advice. I have two weddings coming up. I am using so many of your tips
I have a planner and still love your videos!
Thank you so much for all the good information!
Fantastic and to the point video! Thanks!
This is soooo helpful! Thank you 🙏🏼
Love your hair its so gorgeous!
This was extremly helpful!
Great video, thank you!!
Thank you so much for these VALUABLE tips! My son is getting married Nov 2019 with a smaller than tiny budget so we won't be able to hire a wedding planner but the are great to know and many things we just would not think of on our own.
So useful! Thanks!
This was so helpful for my destination wedding 💕
Love your page!!!
YOU ARE AWESOME! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
This is extra helpful, I am planning a backyard wedding and I wont have a wedding planer so I am freaking out! Thank you so much!
Awe, thank you!
This is so helpful in planning my wedding rn I got a year until the day but being prepared is better than not 😅 my fiancé isn’t the artsy organized type so a lot is on my shoulders
Love your personality
I love your videos!
Can you make a video on what a wedding planner does?
Just so we have an idea on what we can expect from industry.
Thank you!!! Wedding in 12 months and you bring calm to our lives lol 😍