I can't drive (autistic spiky profile of skills)

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
  • Yeah I'm moving and i explain my thoughts about not having a drivers license. I will miss this place.

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  • @theblacksworde
    @theblacksworde 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Imagine a cozy and inviting study space, bathed in warm, soft lighting. A bookshelf filled with medical textbooks and MBTI reference books lines one wall, while a kitchen counter with fresh radishes and cooking utensils occupies another. In the center, a friendly figure wearing a doctor's white coat and an apron stands smiling, surrounded by symbols of neurodiversity and a chalkboard with notes on personality types. The scene conveys a sense of warmth, knowledge, and a passion for both medicine and understanding human diversity.
    This image could capture the essence of the radishraven channel, reflecting its focus on education, personal growth, and the unique perspective of an INFP in the medical field.

    • @radishraven9
      @radishraven9  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Haha thanks 😊 that is setting very high expectations on me but I'm glad you have such a high opinion 🙈 i have not read any MBTI books ever 🙈 i will need to buy fresh radishes as decor 😂

  • @sicparvismagna1294
    @sicparvismagna1294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Ingrid,
    Hoping your moving went well.
    Thank you very much for making a point about difficulties or even disabilities.
    I have difficulties and maybe some disabilities. I suffered from being ridiculed for not being able to do some tasks that for some reason ' any body can do ' and it's really hurtful.
    By the way I don't have a driving license and with my current state ( financially and mentally) I don't think I will have one soon.
    Yes staying at the parents' house if both the person and parents are okay is totally fine. There are so many norms that are imposed on some of us that we simply can't follow.
    Sadly sometimes the only person who can help someone is the person themselves... It's very harsh but true...
    Thanks again Ingrid.
    See you next time.

    • @radishraven9
      @radishraven9  2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you, yes it is hurtful when people laugh when we can't do so-called "easy" tasks 😔 yeah driving licenses are hard to get and expensive, i have no idea how much money i have spent trying and failing getting my license.
      It is tough when there is nobody who can help, i am only getting that sort of support network outside of my family now. And before then i had my family. So i know i am quite privileged in that respect and I'm grateful for that 🙏

    • @sicparvismagna1294
      @sicparvismagna1294 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You are welcome.
      Yes you are right it's really hurtful.
      Yes it costs a lot of money and currently I'm far from affording it .
      By the way I didn't mean to discard your struggles or something and I apologize if it comes across as offending. I was trying to point out my life experience , I hope it didn't feel pushy.
      Thanks again for responding Ingrid. I do really appreciate you and your videos has become something important to me.

  • @vondelpete
    @vondelpete 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It has been this long term issue for me too, I only got my licence about two years ago and only got my first car last year, and it still feels kind of unnatural to me lol. But actually my Mum didn't get her licence until she was 55 - and she used to laugh because she was a legislation officer for the state's road rules department and didn't have a licence. I wonder if I would have got my licence in my twenties if people didn't make fun of me so often and used it against me, which made me double-down and refuse to drive or get a car and spent my money on travelling instead. I guess, similar to you though, I live in a place where you don't really need a car. And now that I have a car, I still really don't need it (or really enjoy using it). I actually kept the car secret from people for a while too as I didn't want any judgement lol.
    Anyway good look with the move and despite all of the chaos hope you enjoy the process of moving (and get some rest afterwards too)!

    • @radishraven9
      @radishraven9  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hi thank you so much for this comment. It means a lot to me to know i am not alone with this shame and difficulty with driving feeling unnatural. I also am stubborn if someone makes fun of me 😅 i had a driving lesson today and the instructor was very friendly but i had a breakdown crying at the end because i was so tired and upset 😭 also my move has really dysregulated me so i am still resting from that 😕 i hope i get my license someday, in the meantime i do like your mom and laugh at the fact that i decide if i should take away people's license as a doctor 😂

    • @vondelpete
      @vondelpete 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@radishraven9 haha see that's way more impressive that you can take people's licences away as a doctor! And also, I feel you, it is kind of amazing you did the driving test given you're moving, I'm not sure I'd have been able to cope with all that stuff happening at once, at all...

  • @szellllest
    @szellllest 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A book "Healing ADD" by Daniel G. Amen is something of an eye-opening. Perhaps, you might like it? Not in the spirit of "The art of not giving a f*ck". All the best!

  • @shoomin1
    @shoomin1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've gotten somewhat used to the cozy presentation of your old apartment over all those videos. So yeah I will oddly miss it haha.
    But anyway, you did it! A successful move. Welcome to your new place!🥳 I'm looking forward to filled walls at some point again and making it gradually your own :)

    • @radishraven9
      @radishraven9  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you, yes i will gradually make it my own 😊