Hardly In Love
Hardly In Love
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8 Singles Blind Date: Do Men Date Abstinent Women?
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👥Hosts:
ryancatchings
realtyseanjackson
👥Singles:
miaapiaah
tori_c27
supermodeljaz
yayabae444
dlodolla
tkomolafeofficial
deedrich_
ajanay.bravado
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  • @AllThingsSoul
    @AllThingsSoul 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Can you please put the names underneath each person? Us ladies can always count on Black men to pick the racially ambiguous girl or the girl who has the biggest rump. I don't think Jay has any real chemistry with Mia, other than he is also racially ambiguous. I liked the show. I thought it was a little long should be 60 mins max. The one thing I would change is not having the women select a man; just have the men select a woman because women should be chosen - not do the choosing. After the men choose, the woman can then say which guy she will go on a date with.

  • @MsLove-lb1vz
    @MsLove-lb1vz 14 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    As a non Christian just curious is this supposed to be a Christian show because the sex talk is not very Christ like conversations especially the woman talking about not sucking 🍆 and waiting which I highly doubt she has done

  • @iamsisterchadasha777
    @iamsisterchadasha777 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Love this ❤ it was a feel good show.. great content for us singles great job fellas 👏🏿

  • @bijoux3867
    @bijoux3867 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Suggestion - I don't think the audience vote should be taken so early in the show. It can influence the participants.

  • @darlenebernard4288
    @darlenebernard4288 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That's a good thing about you giving yourself 10yrs to heal and learn what you want out of life. Great job on the loving God being a deal breaker!!

  • @darlenebernard4288
    @darlenebernard4288 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Great for Jay!! That should be a deal breaker for everyone if they don't follow God. That's the only way a relationship work.

  • @Pelle477
    @Pelle477 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The real reason behind divorce is not first finding the right connection with another person and two not asking God if this is the right person for you

  • @elithegreat7865
    @elithegreat7865 วันที่ผ่านมา

    girl sexual activities is sexual intercourse just not penetrating

  • @breoquen
    @breoquen วันที่ผ่านมา

    How is she saying Scorpio and Jesus in same sentence? Lol

  • @brittannyhood3020
    @brittannyhood3020 วันที่ผ่านมา

    After hearing all that I see why he was quiet 😳🫢

  • @Risha-rend
    @Risha-rend วันที่ผ่านมา

    I relate to Mia, its soo hard to find a genuine man, they can look nice but the moment you hear them speak, they sound no different than the average 16yo boy. I wish you well Mia ❤

    • @themiaparis
      @themiaparis วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you ❤

  • @gee9342
    @gee9342 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As soon as I heard about sex part I knew who was going fo match. The line up for the men was ridiculous. Only the most attractive lady girl got her match. I am sick of this. Get more godly men next time, so that other godly women have their chance to match, and not only the light brighter girl...

  • @SweetestNya
    @SweetestNya 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Leon think he is the prize 😂

  • @designzbyjulez9838
    @designzbyjulez9838 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow this going be good!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

    • @designzbyjulez9838
      @designzbyjulez9838 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Make sure yall have a show for seniors 60+ sometimes

    • @designzbyjulez9838
      @designzbyjulez9838 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I am Christian, and I regret not testing the car before I brought it home.

  • @cynpam4543
    @cynpam4543 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When we accept Jesus in our hearts, we become new creatures. And if we say that we love God, we need to obey His commands. God hate lukewarm people. He'll spit you out.

  • @TheeFireOfGod
    @TheeFireOfGod 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The 23 year old woman brought the 16 year old girl to his mom’s house and he was 16?

  • @Skydiva692
    @Skydiva692 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We need date updates on the connections to see if the sparks turned into a flame or not. Also will those who didn’t make a connection return to other shows?

  • @Skydiva692
    @Skydiva692 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Y’all kept me laughing 😂Congratulations to Jay and Mia making a connection 😊

    • @AllThingsSoul
      @AllThingsSoul 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I don't see a connection with them at all.

  • @nikki7168
    @nikki7168 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great new show, guys; thanks for keeping it fresh for us 🤍 Thoughts: I perceived two of the ladies were very eager and forward towards the man all 3 liked. I find that energy tends to turn men away. It was interesting to observe. Mia called the guy into pursuit with her comment about men asking the women for a one on one. That's when things went more in her direction. I think she stood out more after because of that approach. The friend seemed best suited to the guy overall (age and disposition wise on paper), but people like who they like. If he was attracted, her zodiac comment would've sparked follow up questions instead of a decision on his part. Jas would benefit from scrubbing her socials of all the relational quotes/advice. It comes across very aspirationally opinionated...much how the single male influencers who give dating advice come across--aspirational. She seems like a tender sweetheart underneath, though a bit inexperienced & perhaps guarded. Overall, I respect all of them for having the courage to put themselves out there.

  • @MelissaMelly1010
    @MelissaMelly1010 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Let's be clear and frank here for any woman feeling discouraged. Women typically wait till marriage and women typically set the standard of the frequency of intercourse even if at 0. The standard typically is set with the woman. So a man declaring he'll wait 🫷 without a standard he Loves is a mathematical equation missing the second part. You can debate levels of faith with your local pastor. I didn't make the rules or the rhythm of nature. Stay encouraged and allow yourself to be loved. That is the key. For point of ancient reference study India, Nigeria, Turkey, and any other culture...When men love, they move different. Remember you just need 1 husband not 1 million at a time.

  • @Jrbeendidit
    @Jrbeendidit 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Finally got a chance to rewatch this..hmm looks like I dodge some bullets… Thank you father God🙏🏽

  • @yarasmith3822
    @yarasmith3822 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved this... love from London Town x

  • @NanaScorpianaB
    @NanaScorpianaB 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A man that tries to cause you to sin against god is not for you

  • @NanaScorpianaB
    @NanaScorpianaB 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Some of these people are not submitted to God

  • @drippedinglory
    @drippedinglory 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Feedback: create sections throughout the show for more structure. Let the singles be revealed one by one in the call. Let everybody get a one on one from the very beginning so the match game goes more smooth in the last round. That way the people that they were interested in don’t just sit all the way to the end to only put up a ‘0’

  • @drippedinglory
    @drippedinglory 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    These muscles are for GOD 😂

  • @personaldevelopmentx
    @personaldevelopmentx 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    this was a really good interview i really like the plot here inviting these singles. And taysean held back that laugh ( the zodiac thing ). yo i would have lost it !!

  • @bribby12
    @bribby12 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great first show! I think this is a true depiction of our world today.. for every 4 women you'll have 3 truly submitted/on various walks with God & for every 4 men you'll have 1 truly submitted to God.

    • @wildonez3076
      @wildonez3076 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I have to disagree. Godly Men and women are at the same ratio. The women are just better at pretending to be celibate ! Celibate until the right price/motivation!!

  • @johannajo1359
    @johannajo1359 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I have children men who have aswell i never experiend issues with them. If he has not I did not had issues with it but i know men do

  • @tkjspeaks1491
    @tkjspeaks1491 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ngl This was kinda… mid. I think the contestants had good intentions but the conversations were very… boring. For a panel thats 25+

  • @janellelanae4
    @janellelanae4 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was so good! I can’t wait to see more

  • @sweetfaceluxe
    @sweetfaceluxe 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just wanted to clean Lo’s screen off! 😩

  • @lolaoladapo1831
    @lolaoladapo1831 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All I will say is that Dr. Umar is right when it comes to black men (and in this case the women) having a natural bias against the chocolate sisters/brothers; we want white chocolate.

  • @rondaykhamard8224
    @rondaykhamard8224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And the nerve of a man saying he's "Christian" not wanting to practice celibacy until marriage is a RED FLAG on being at the church service preaching to the congregation 😂😂😂😂😂. 🛑 🛑 🛑

  • @rondaykhamard8224
    @rondaykhamard8224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Since yall are hellbent on "trying to turn people from being gay or bisexual" , yall should have this same dating setup that consists of 4 "ex gay or bisexual men who are Christian" with 4 Christian BLACK women. That would be interesting, especially since only women can have tried women before and can say "They aint carpet munching anymore".

  • @VerniceMcFadden
    @VerniceMcFadden 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if nobody’s interested in marrying you? Are you going to stay abstinent for the rest of your life?

    • @rondaykhamard8224
      @rondaykhamard8224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Good question! But the reality is that no man on this panel is waiting for marriage to have sex. They didn't have to say it at all, even if they did "say it". That's the key indicator that it's easy said than done calling yourself "a Christian", especially as a man.

  • @rondaykhamard8224
    @rondaykhamard8224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    If this platform is in pursuit to guiding Christians to being the best they can be, then this cannot be part of the podcast's content. If the intentions of everyone INCLUDING THE MEN on these panels is to date so they can not be lonely and just have a woman vs. true intentions of marriage with NO SEXUAL INTERACTIONS AT ALL, this "Christian Dating Segment" idea can be discarded. 💯

  • @VerniceMcFadden
    @VerniceMcFadden 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly

  • @VerniceMcFadden
    @VerniceMcFadden 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if a couple waits until marriage and once they get married the sex isn’t good. Then what?

    • @rondaykhamard8224
      @rondaykhamard8224 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They are not thinking that far ahead lol.

  • @VerniceMcFadden
    @VerniceMcFadden 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What if a couple waits until marriage and once they get married the sex isn’t good. Then what?

  • @keithburch8997
    @keithburch8997 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sex has nothing to do with any God! St Augustine who wrote Christian doctrine for the Catholic Church had he only child with a prostitute. Swore off sex at 65. Put it in the Bible claiming God authorized no sex before marriage. Know the facts!

  • @BetterBodyCrew
    @BetterBodyCrew 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:50:13 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @glownaturally2475
    @glownaturally2475 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I think you guys should've shown the men's IG too to see what they post as well. Love the new dating show it's a safe place for people to meet ❤️

    • @AllThingsSoul
      @AllThingsSoul 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I agree.

  • @shereebell6142
    @shereebell6142 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Number two is on point. 😊

  • @wildonez3076
    @wildonez3076 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I read the comments first 😢!! And now im 15 minutes into the video and honestly most of the woman don't exactly look Godly either . I don't think it's just the men who are Luke warm!!!

    • @elithegreat7865
      @elithegreat7865 วันที่ผ่านมา

      how don’t they look Godly and what do Godly look like?

  • @Aqudance
    @Aqudance 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    The brotha at the bottom right should learn the difference between the spirit and the flesh, which is the entire point of being Christian.

  • @Aqudance
    @Aqudance 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As a 12 year abstinence coach, written two books. On my 3rd. Women honoring the Lord get few dates. Coffee dates are a must because men only receive a kiss on the cheek in return. 😂

  • @kimmarshall78
    @kimmarshall78 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Good show 👏

  • @crystalclaire15
    @crystalclaire15 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    having met Tosin in real life “high energy” is an understatement 💀💀

  • @tyana_allday
    @tyana_allday 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Loved the episode guys! One suggestion from a marketing perspective, maybe have one round where you are actively picking a question from the card game.