Societal pressure on women to have babies that makes them feel worthless if they fail to comply. Miscarriage is a perfectly normal thing just like neonatal death, women should stop giving that much importance to giving birth, even more so given there is way too many humans around
@@albusnightspring8057 my grandmother had plenty of other children that she wanted and was happy to have that wasn’t the issue at all and I think you missed the point. Having a miscarriage is like losing a child she mourns for the child. It’s not because she felt shame it’s because she mourns for it. It was actually twins and my aunt Molly is still alive so it’s not like she felt bad for not having children because she still did she just. Often times cries, wondering what kind of a beautiful woman that baby would’ve grown up to be
@@albusnightspring8057 like genuinely I think you’re incredibly stupid and you missed the point entirely. Hormones make women feel just as attached to a developing fetus (if they are far enough along) then they do to a literal child. It’s just science.
@@albusnightspring8057 I had a miscarriage and have been diagnosed with undefined infertility. I do not feel worthless that I can't have children. I do not give that much importance to giving birth. I give importance to the fact that my life changed the instant i found out I was pregnant, then it changed even worse when I literally felt the life that began in my body die. The hormonal surge, the pain, the sickness that followed for weeks. It happened almost 3 years ago and I wake up in a panic, thinking it's happening again. I randomly remember how old my baby would be now if it had survived and it breaks my heart. My husband will talk about children, then realize we'd have a toddler right now. Having a miscarriage is hard. It feels like your body is rebelling, destroying and killing a part of you. Mourning over a loss of a pregnancy isn't complying to societal pressure. It's mourning the loss of a child.
@@albusnightspring8057I’m sorry but what does this have to do with a woman loosing a baby?. I understand what you’re talking about but loving a baby and then being sad in lamest terms is a very normal and hopefully expected thing. It would be a bit concerning if someone lost their baby and didn’t feel any emotion about it. I’m a woman also and would be absolutely crushed and devastated if I had a miscarriage. That isn’t a result of “societal pressures” or “the patriarchy”; it’s a result of being a human being that loves and feels.
The fact that she saw this as a joke is actually sad and gross. My mother had a miscarriage before I was born, when i was younger i asked her about it because my sister said she was a rainbow baby and I didn't know what it was. When I asked about it my mom cried. A miscarriage isn't a joke it's a sad horrible thing that happens.
I’m a rainbow baby as well and the same thing happened to me. This is just so gross to joke about. It’s such a traumatic thing for any woman to go through.
I also am a rainbow baby. My mom shouldn't have been able to get pregnant after having cancer. She had me 2 years after losing my sibling and 15 years after beating cancer. It's NEVER something to joke about. We planted a bush in the backyard in honor of them and when I was little I would go talk to it sometimes and think about whether it would be a brother or sister and how we'd get along :(
Faking a miscarriage is honestly so disgusting, considering how its a such a tragic thing to experience, losing a child. And joking abt?? I cant even express it in words how much that makes me angry as a woman myself.
Agreed. This makes my teeth grind and my fingers itch in a way that makes me wish I had sharper nails and closer proximity to those who fake this kind of stuff.
Where does she say she had a miscarriage? She never made a joke about having a miscarriage she made a commentary on parasocial relationships. She literally never said miscarriage.
@@Xoxo-Raccoon lmao how? She never once said she had a miscarriage. So actors portraying pregnant women when they aren’t actually pregnant are disgusting? It’s a commentary. It’s an art form to prove a point. Parasocial relationships are fucking weird.
@@Kitkat_barshe said that she was pregnant, faked a pregnant belly multiple times THEN said “I lost the baby” and no longer had the baby. That is incredibly suggestive
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious, she sociopath, this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
I am so so sorry. I hope and pray that you’re healing from your losses. Absolutely heart wrenching. I also hope that you have a baby and become a mother one day. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
I was pregnant twice and very big both times. I looked like I was full term with twins when my water broke 7 weeks early with a single child. So this way of thinking is incredibly flawed. **Note I am NOT defending her, to lie about what she did is foul and calling it a joke is rancid**
I have a friend who makes music, she stole his sample for her Birthday song and never credited him, he didn't know her content but I did and I recognized his song and told him. They handled it under the table and I let it go because things happen on the internet but I'm fully convinced she is an awful person at this point. This is not her first "stunt"
She really thinks she’s made some galaxy-brain-creative-genius work of performance art when it should have been an art school senior thesis that like 5 people got to see. It’s not smart and it’s super insensitive. Others have made art commenting on parasocial relationships that 1. make more sense and 2. aren’t horribly insensitive/hurtful. This is just gross.
I don't think she actually wanted to make a statement about parasocial relationships. That's just the explanation she came up with to justify pulling this stunt and getting views and $$$$, all while being like "see, if I were a psychopath, I would enjoy the parasocial relationship you guys form with me, but luckily I'm not." Paradoxically, the last sentence would only occur to someone who's a psychopath.
@@AidenFeltkamp It's alright, dude, you gave her the benefit of doubt, but I don't think she deserves it. Like imagine faking a miscarriage then making a video to reveal that, and prefacing it with 'I used to get rape comments"... She seems like a real piece of work.
When I was 19, I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. It ruined a few of my family relationships and changed the trajectory of my life. I am 26 now and it still rocks my shit. One of the things about it that hurt a lot of my relationships with family and friends is the nonstop gossip and chatter about it. I felt like a hot topic everyone wanted to talk about and judge instead of a human being. She's reinforcing the behavior that helps ruins young pregnant womens lives.
I was 17 in a bad relationship with an abuser and it still took it out of me. Im 26 and it ruined my grandma and mines relationship before she died. She assumed and didn’t ask questions. Same with others. Im still a person. Im just not whole. It still feels like somethings missing. Even if it wasn’t a good situation , it’s still hard. Shame on them for treating you less than for your struggle.
She’s trying so hard to sound smart yet everything she’s done and said is dumb as hell. I don’t think she knows what a parasocial relationship is at all. She thinks it’s weird other people felt sympathy for her because she clearly has none for others. This whole situation is so wild and idiotic ugh
It really does. They always toss out the, oh it's just a social experiment! When they get caught and disapproved of. Had everyone raved, no social experiment, I guess. @@diannevint7366
In 6th grade, my Portuguese teacher suffered a miscarriage. She had wanted that baby so much, and had done every treatment available to try and get pregnant. We were the only class she told. She felt we were the only students of her who would understand and be supportive of her. She felt like a mother to us, and we grew a very close teacher-student bond. For someone, anyone to fake a thing like that, something that makes so many people go through such horror has left me disgusted. Like I've never been before.
her video justifying her faking the miscarriage reminds me very much of when cole sprouse published that tumblr post about his account being a “social experiment” lol
She never said she had a miscarriage and if u bothered to do any research you would know that but instead you just take the word of some fake gay white man because everything you hear from the internet has to be right obviously
If anyone publicly announced that they'd had a miscarriage, I would feel bad for them because I know how painful that is. It doesn't mean that I think I have a relationship with that person, I'm just being a decent, empathetic human being. She, on the other hand, is a terrible human being.
She's not capable of having any of those feelings. If she was, she would never have done what she did. She fits a lot of the criteria for being a psychopath. Only a psychopath or sociopath would do something like this and not feel anything about it nor care about the consequences of her actions. Her goal is to manipulate people to scam them out of money. She doesn't care about anyone.
I hope you're doing better now. My mom had several before she had me. I was her miracle first born. And while I'll never experience it(I don't want children,the idea of childbirth scares me) I really hope you're doing good now. I cannot imagine experiencing something like that so many times.
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
My mom had a miscarriage before me, it broke her heart so much, even to this day it takes its toll on her. I had one about a year ago, and the emotions about it are unbelievably tough, I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re doing better.
This is upsetting. My sister had a miscarriage when i was 11, and I had to hear her crying and screaming in pain in the restroom after losing her baby at 3 am. My sister was devastated and it was devastating seeing her that way. Miscarriages are not something to be joked about, multiple women go through this, multiple women can’t get pregnant, and for someone to joke about this shit is disgusting.
I lost my baby son at 5 months, and it is the worst thing I ever went through. To go into the hospital and have them take him and wake up without him ...well, the darkest time in my life. This girl should be ashamed. Karmas is on its way for her.
I've known so many women who have had miscarriages. Maybe half of the women I know? Even a miscarriage in the early stages can be traumatic. To just joke about having one is so cruel, and is terribly immature.
@@frenchgirl5878 she literally titled her video "I lost the baby," she pretended to have a miscarriage and thought it was a good thing to clickbait with...
I had a miscarriage at 19, and cried for 3 days straight. Now, years later, I still cry about it regularly. I have a tattoo because of it, and every year on the anniversary of what would’ve been their birthday, I do something to celebrate it. In far too few words, faking it for attention makes me sick to my stomach with sadness and anger.
I know that feeling sept 14 2020 my baby was supposed to be born. I'm pregnant with my rainbow baby I'm just so nervous. Praying I carry her to term and that she's healthy.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I love how you have a tattoo in their memory. You are so incredibly beautiful and you are so loved!!!! Wishing you the best 🥰🥰
Lying about being pregnant could even be justified somehow (not the money she took from people, that was wrong)... But who on earth jokes about miscarriage... You gotta be a different kind of out of touch to joke about things that cause other people deep pain
The way that she's using big emotionally intelligent words without actually leading to a valid point... I refuse to believe this is real because it's so disturbing.
Parasociality is feeling like you know someone who never met you. Feeling sorry for someone who seems to be going through something horrible with no indication it's fake.
Caroline is a regular at a cafe I work at (I’ve grown to have a good repertoire with her) - but this is crazy, I can’t believe cooper is making a video about her
As someone who dealt with the reality of becoming pregnant through traumatic and unwanted means, spending two weeks of it in temporary psychiatric hold, and having a miscarriage a month later that ended up being 8 straight hours of extreme full body pain…. I couldn’t fathom lying about any of it actually happening or viewing it as something small enough to lie about just to garner views online. So many people have dealt with what I have- and so much worse- and she treated it like a funny prank. How can people be so void of feeling like that?
i am so sorry that happened to you. deeply sorry. some people are just actually incapable of empathy. the first time i realized how many people are like this, it scared me a lot. it disturbs me still.
I hope you're slowly recovering. I've been through a traumatic experience which I presume is similar in nature to yours, though not as severe. I'm still recovering and I hope that you are too, stay safe and be kind to yourself.
This woman does/did stunts like this a few times with friends, but always having it clearly as a joke. The difference between her past ones and this is her acting self-righteous in this scenario, also her not treating it as a joke in the original video.
I mean it's still a joke that plays with the limits, at the end of the day. These outraged people would have killed Andy Kaufman lol. And I'm not talking about conservatives who make aggressive jokes on purpose to provoke a reaction. In this case, she was really trying to make a meta joke that broke the codes, and it obviously failed ! But I think it's ridiculous to treat her as if she were a far-right stand-up "comedian" who makes racist speeches and passes them off as jokes. You have to dose your reactions.
@@pinksnake8001 it isnt a joke because it doesnt 'play with the limits' it fully crosses and disrespects the existence of those limitations in the first place.
@@pinksnake8001a joke has some what of a punchline even anecdotal comedy still has that build up and punch line bit. She lied, that isn't joking? And if it the punch line is "haha you believed a perfectly believable lie" hahahaha. You're right she's just an edgy comic and no one gets her 🙄
@@booziiokto In the end of the day, it's an attempt to create entertainment that confuses viewers and makes them feel uncomfortable. That's why it was interesting. On the other hand, it failed because the thinking behind it was shaky and, indeed, it wasn't very funny. I readily admit all that. My honest opinion is that it wasn't THAT shocking, but it was in bad taste.
@@pinksnake8001I think most people would disagree with you. She created a thorough fictitious story that gave ZERO indication of being satirical or fictional until after she made incredibly suggestive statements about having a miscarriage.
I am going to get a hysterectomy and oophomectomy next week and have 0 chance of having my own children. I have endometriosis and chronic pelvic pain, and this woman just jokes so flippantly about miscarriage and pregnancy. It’s disturbing and so upsetting.
heyo endometriosis sisters! I never wanted children, but even with that mentality it was still a blow to know that, unlike what every other adult told me, I would never be able to change my mind later on in life. This is absolutely disgusting and the worst possible way she could have returned to youtube.
I really don't mean to do a hurtful comment, this is a real question, can't you freeze your eggs for a posible surrogate? I totally understand is not the same as a personal pregnancy but, it could be a possibility? I understand is very painful to go through endometriosis, I'm just wondering what possibilities do women have when an hysterectomy is needed
Also have Endo, here. Not an okay thing for them to joke about. While I never wanted to bear children, I wanted the choice.. and I know how deeply painful it is for so many people who go through miscarriage/fertility issues/not being able to have children at all Can't imagine making that joke
My mother is struggling with fertility and it was a miracle that I was even born. I have seen and felt the heartbreak of miscarriages alongside my mom. I can’t imagine the pain she herself feels each and every time she miscarries. Caroline, I can’t stand you.
As a young woman who had a miscarriage and had to go through that horrible experience, I am absolutely disgusted by this woman. It breaks my heart that someone would lie about that; it is truly a horrible and heartbreaking experience, and no one should ever have to go through it. Mocking such an experience is so disrespectful and I hope no one EVER does this. I hope that people can see how awful that is. For those of you who are out there experiencing this or who have experienced this, I am so sorry. You CAN get through this. It gets better. Reach out to someone about it when you need to.
I Remember her from the “stripper magician” and “prom” skits, other than that, I had NO idea of her faking her pregnancy. This is really disgusting that she’d fake a miscarriage
Having gone through 2 miscarriages it pains me to think that people like her still don't take them seriously. I think it stems from the lack of understanding that a mom can grieve over an unborn child/fetus and just how much it hurts to do so. I heard somebody say she's like 20 so I hope she learns from this and gains some self-awareness. It seems she thinks she's smarter than she is.
I've been pregnant 8 times with 9 children (one set of twins in 2017 that were lost in January 2018). I've got 2 living children and had 2 stillbirths and one who only lived for 19 minutes. This is so insensitive.
I recently saw this Reddit post written by a man about his fiancé that faked a miscarriage with the help of her friend because she said it was a test to see if he was really happy that they were having a baby. (By the way, this man cried tears of joy when he found out she was pregnant.) But anyways, he sobbed when he thought he lost his child only to find out it was fake and a test. The to are supposed to be getting married and he has rightful postponed the wedding and required that they get couples counseling. My thoughts are that he shouldn’t postpone it. He needs to cancel it. Because that is so unspeakable cruel and horrible to do to a person and not to mention traumatic. And honestly, once the child is born. I would not be able to look at my child without having in the back of my mind: my fiancé made me believe that I lost this sweet child that I love so much. I wouldn’t be able to love and marry that woman.
Woah. Yeah he should run fast. Not from the child, but sometimes the parents _not_ being together is actually the better situation for kids unfortunately.
I read that one! There's an update. He broke up with her because he couldn't trust her. I can't believe she did that, but it turned out well because he found out she's a psycho BEFORE marrying her.
@DawnKellyPhotography ah, that’s so good to hear! Because even if he was able to forgive her, that’s not something you could forget. That would forever taint the relationship if they stayed together. I hope he stays in the child’s life and that the relationship between him and the child work out
Faking a pregnancy, then staging a miscarriage, AND THEN making a video explaining yourself where you also make sexual jokes is wild on a whole other level
I work for an insurance carrier & someone tried to pretend having a cancer diagnosis for coverage. And when i told them they're not eligible bc they dont have an onco dx, they turned into karen mode. Its one thing to bend the truth to get *more* coverage but pretending to have cancer is beyond disrespectful.
As a doctor who has seen the devastation and heart break on the women who miscarried this makes me freaking mad . The pain and the guilt and break in their psyche . It's not a laughing matter .
My grandma who is almost 90 still can’t really talk about her miscarriage. It would have been her only girl. She was and is traumatized. It’s really sad to make jokes about stuff like this.
This situation makes me so devastated because at my workplace we just had a funeral of a 7 month old baby who drowned from neglient grandparents. There are so many families who go through the trauma of losing a child and it is VICIOUS to fake it for... money
@divine555 I get u r being edgy but the main reason (from what I've been told) around the trauma of miscarriage is the physical pain of it all, ranging from debilitating cramps to severe blood loss that would lead to loss of consciousness. The emotional pain comes from the what could have been. You can grieve concepts, ideas you hoped would come true but never did.
@@divine555 the cells are, or were, alive enough to be a pregnancy though? I've never been pregnant, but there is no reality I can imagine that one's own body rejecting a pregnancy and then expelling it is easy. At best, it'd be the worst period you've ever had on TOP of the emotional side of losing what could have been an entire human being, wanted or not. Losing a child you've already birthed and spent time with is probably life's greatest tragedy, but that does not diminish the pain and trauma of miscarriage. Do not compare trauma.
Most children used to die in the first years. If anything it's unnatural for most children to survive to adulthood, and it's contributing to destroying our planet too
This is truly disgusting. I had a friend who literally had a miscarriage at work and had to just go back to work. Like using someone’s trauma for money and then having that as a response. Gross.
As a young woman who’s had two miscarriages, this makes me feel so sick to my stomach. There is so much pain, screaming, grieving. There’s so much that happens when you miscarry, it’s not entertainment. She’s a TH-camr, not a developed character in a show or movie.
The fact that she is saying that the people paying are going to be more respectful to her is wild. Because after this stunt, the only type of people who are going to subscribe to her patreon are probably those same creeps she was talking about messaging her before... what respectable person would still pay for content from her after this?
Seeing all of the people telling their stories of their own experience with miscarriages or the experience they saw a family member go through that experience is heart breaking. This is so cruel and not remotely a joke. A joke needs to be at the very minimum, be funny. This is disgusting and insensitive at best. Wow. My heart goes out to all of the mothers in the comments 💜
yeh i imagine women, who SUFFERED an actual misscarriage, reliving stuff, feeling sorry for her, mybe even giving her money or something...and then learning she lied to them, ridiculized them? yeah.....she is an absolute AH
´emotionally connected to something that is not real’ so just fiction? Did she really just think she made a groundbreaking discovery by proving that people are able to connect to something seemingly not real? tf
Also to be receiving threats of s*xual violence, presumably mostly from men, and to retaliate pointedly by... making a joke about a miscarriage? Like ok girl, sure, that'll show those online predators who's boss.
Cooper, I think i started watching your videos earlier today. Thought your room was cool, you’re funny, and all the other good things I thought about you. I’ve realized after watching many of your videos that i love you. You seem great and pretty down to earth but the one thing that really pushed my finger to the subscribe button (i already subscribed this morning) was when i found out you watch GMM!!! 😱 so cool. My two fav yotubers in one video, in one day kinda but NOT. Inspiring. Very inspiring. ❤
My mother sadly had 2 misscarriages and hearing this random woman joking about it makes me so mad. There is woman out here suffering from depression after losing a baby due to miscarriage.
The whole thing of her trying to turn this into a “lesson” for us is so crazy like bro what ?? lol she really thought she ate with that and was gonna have us all like “woah this was such a life changing revelation “ girl the only “life changing revelation” we got from this was u fucking crazy
Watching bestfriendstoday and hypothetical nonsense she had always been that exact way, she is the perfect example of the narcissistic belief people have of their own intelligence going way way to far, very sad to see but i am not surprised
She really thought she made a groundbreaking statement, huh? Parasocial relationships have been a topic of discussion for a while now. Ludwig, the streamer/TH-camr, talked about it last year or so. She’s a year too late to the issue.
@@Lucy_Heart03yes… also caring that someone faced tragedy isn’t parasocial. She doesn’t have to be a TH-camr to collect money to help with a miscarriage
almost choked on my sandwich at the part about your relationship with the whole philippines/filipinos not being parasocial 😭😭😭 thanks ??? that's a new perk to being filipino i guess ??? much love (totally not parasocial at all like u said), a filipino viewer
Not sure where she’s at (nor do I care tbh) she’s doing this in an America that’s lost Roe v Wade. It’s incredibly cruel to both people who’ve miscarried and people who do not want to be pregnant- especially in this case, pregnant people in their 20s
Logically speaking, if miscarriage is a tragedy because of loss of human life, then losing Roe Vs. Wade saves lives. If losing Roe Vs. Wade is a tragedy, then miscarriage isn't really much of anything. I also want to point out that with Roe Vs. Wade, women still got the consequences while men walked off even more scott-free than before Roe Vs. Wade. It is a very invasive procedure that has worse statistics for survival than maternity survival rates in any first world country except America. I find it shocking Americans accept that statistic as normal or don't even know their country is way behind. Wtf? Women should always have a choice whether or not they want to become pregnant. However, after pregnancy occurs, there is no procedure in the world that will save her from one consequence or another, which is why I think there should always be consequences put on the man, be it jail time or child support, according to circumstances. Men lied. Giving them free access to our bodies in the bedroom will not make us happy.
The way she think she’s smarter than everyone even though she’s been caught in a lie and it didn’t go as she planned is like the biggest narcissism red flag
my moms coworker has had such bad fertility issues and had a miscarriage just this year. she’s so anxious because she’s pregnant again and my whole church is praying for her. it’s so scary to have fertility issues.
For her it is, because she's not capable of it. She views it as a weakness to exploit. If she actually had genuine feelings of empathy, compassion or sympathy for someone, this would never be on her mind. Ever.
i had an ex that used faking a miscarriage (with proof) to manipulate me to go back and live with them (previously lived with them then went to go live with my grandparents it was so bad). it’s disgusting behaviour dude especially on a heartbreaking topic
crazy ur at 1 mil now! I have been watching u since like 10k! That was only a year or so ago. You deserve it ur funny and genuinely one of my go to ytbers! Grown so much in so little time, keep going!
As someone who has had multiple miscarriages, I cannot even find the words to respond to this except to say that it's excruciatingly painful to go through and horrifying to see someone mock that pain.
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious, she sociopath, this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
I have had close family and friends pass away but nothing was more traumatizing than losing my baby. I was broken for so long and had to rebuild my life knowing the pregnancy wasn’t viable. Joking or even lying about that is so disgusting.
My mom lost a baby in her late forties from a late term miscarriage when I was sixteen and still hasn’t fully recovered emotionally from the loss and neither have I. It still makes me cry when I think about him. It was a boy. Faking something like this is disgusting and I just can’t fathom being the kind of person to do that.
my sister has struggled with her pregnancy for years, undergoing several different miscarriages. this is so absolutely disgusting, and it is NOT a light subject to throw around.
I literally used to idolize her and fall back on her music when I was stressed. Usually when the flashbacks of my late daughter and fiancee hit the hardest. I was excited for her with the announcement. And then she did whatever this poor excuse of content is. I've never felt so betrayed by a creator before
I dont have a child and planning to not have one, but that is such a disgusting thing to do. It's insensitive. I can never imagine the pain of losing a child, and faking it to promote paid content??? With that price??? Literally insane.
Yeah fr, like you don’t need to want kids in order to realize she’s a complete asshole. I just feel bad for all the women in these comments that have had so many miscarriages :( ❤️🩹
As Someone who has a family history to be very prone to miscarriages this just makes my blood boil seeing her joke about such a horrible situation a mother can go through is just sad
Its so wild that this whole thing is about being parasocial, while I'd argue that the people being all "oh if youre mad, you dont know her" are the parasocial ones. Like... they *know* you? You're cool with that, but not the people who were genuinely upset that you did some heinous shit?
Correct. The only way someone is defending this shit is because they have an extreme emotional attachment to her. She’s basically rooted out anybody who was wishy washy on her with this stunt. I bet not long from now if she still has an audience it becomes cult-like ffs
Something i just realized has been bothering me after watching a couple of videos on this: she reiterates that this is a "joke" and that the "joke" is we seek connection but dont find it or whatever, but arent jokes supposed to be funny??? Or at the very least have the intention of being funny, right??? Am i going crazy?? And, if you want to maybe argue that "oh, well its more dark humor." "Its meant to point out a truth and the 'joke' is one of those abstract ones blahblah", in the end the joke would still be ON the audience for *checks notes* having empathy... i just feel like no matter how you look at it it's only punching down
I think Cooper hit the nail on the head. I think she's just pulling some lame excuse out her ass because she can't outright say "I did it because I want your money" The explanation/joke excuse seems like a total afterthought
As someone who very much wants another baby, I'm so upset by this. Especially since I've started bleeding today and I have to wait 5 more days for an ultrasound. Sorry for the emotional dump but I'm pretty scared right now.
hi, i’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. my mom has two kids, myself and my little brother. after having me, my mom went through three miscarriages(? if i remember correctly, idk i was tiny) over the span of a decade before she had my little brother. he’s 5 now, turning 6 in august, and he’s the best little brother that i could ever ask for. the point is, don’t give up hope. you’re so loved and so incredibly strong to be able to endure everything that you’re going through right now. and like i don’t want to speak for your kid/s but i know that every day i’m so proud of my mom and how resilient she’s been over the years, and i’m 99.99% sure your kids will also feel the same way. sending so much love 🫶 (also sorry for the ramble lol)
My step mom had multiple miscarriages before having my little sister and although the pregnancy was complicated she had a perfectly healthy little girl!!! I’m praying for you
at 25 weeks pregnant, you’ve already been able to find out the gender, you’ve had the anatomy scan to see every aspect of your baby and to know if they are healthy, you’ve atleast thought of names, maybe even started buying supplies. hell, if your baby was born that day, they could survive. i sympathized with her because i lost my baby at 15 weeks and he was already known to be a boy and he was named. i knew the connection i felt to my baby so i assumed she would have the same. she is disgusting. parasocial relationships are an issue, but having sympathy is not.
im sitting next to my 12 week old baby and still can feel the loss of my first baby. i feel that same loss for every woman who’s miscarried even if i don’t know them, because i KNOW the feeling.
I have a friend who last year had to go through a miscarriage, and I can honestly say that while not expecting any better of attention seeking people on the internet, it horrible and straight up cruel to lie about these sorts of things. Seeing the pain and having my best friend break down Infront of me many times because of this it made me so angry that she just sat there and tried to justify what she did/said. despicable human being. Some comments I saw on similar videos calling her out were saying 'i wish this actually happens to her Irl' but I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Grateful you are calling out people like this.
Her video reeks of pseudo intellectualism. If she was looking to make a point about parasocial relationships she would return the money after the experiment or ‘piece’ is done to complete the cycle.
i think the funny thing is how hard this probably backfired on her. she did all of this for more views and patreon subs, but the reveal probably made her not only lose any of the new viewers and subs she gained, but lose any of the viewers and subs she had before this whole stunt too. hope it was worth losing any of her dedicated viewers/subs AND all her new viewers/subs for the slightly heightened interaction she received for those couple days/weeks before the reveal.
as someone who has had a miscarriage i feel hurt and disgusted that some women feel the need to fake pregnancies and fake miscarriage as its a little fun game.... well its not so until one of these women who fake all this actually experience the pain the hurt and the guilt of it being like "was it my fault?" "did i do something wrong?" "why is this happening to me?" i beg of them to shut up and stop AND THINK OF THE PEOPLE THEY R HURTING
Faking a miscarriage is so sick and disgusting. My mom had multiple miscarriages before me and then multiple miscarriages before my brother. It's a hard thing to go through and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.
i JUST went through a miscarriage, and it was hell. for me, for my husband, for my family, i mean we were.. more than devastated. the cry that came out of me when i felt her be expelled from my body was.. beyond words. the pain is indescribable. i would never wish that pain on ANYONE, much less would pretend to know that pain.
So, when I was in college, two people from my "friend group" decided to do what they called a "social experiment" in which they made posts on Facebook claiming a third friend (who was not aware or involved) had died. They posted things like "RIP -friend's name- . I cant believe he's gone so soon." This alone was awful, but i was going through a period of time in which I'd had multiple people close to me pass away in a short period of time. I completely broke down. Oh, and did i mention they said they were doing this as part of thr college's Sociology club? Yeah, it was lovely. One of the participants was very much a follower trying to fit in at the time, and not only deeply regretted his part in it, but went on to do genuine work to improve himself. We were able to reconnect and become friends again 13 years later. The other can be flung into the sun for all I care.
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My grandmother at the ripe old age of 72 STILL sometimes cries about a miscarriage she had over 45 years ago
Societal pressure on women to have babies that makes them feel worthless if they fail to comply. Miscarriage is a perfectly normal thing just like neonatal death, women should stop giving that much importance to giving birth, even more so given there is way too many humans around
@@albusnightspring8057 my grandmother had plenty of other children that she wanted and was happy to have that wasn’t the issue at all and I think you missed the point. Having a miscarriage is like losing a child she mourns for the child. It’s not because she felt shame it’s because she mourns for it. It was actually twins and my aunt Molly is still alive so it’s not like she felt bad for not having children because she still did she just. Often times cries, wondering what kind of a beautiful woman that baby would’ve grown up to be
@@albusnightspring8057 like genuinely I think you’re incredibly stupid and you missed the point entirely. Hormones make women feel just as attached to a developing fetus (if they are far enough along) then they do to a literal child. It’s just science.
@@albusnightspring8057 I had a miscarriage and have been diagnosed with undefined infertility. I do not feel worthless that I can't have children. I do not give that much importance to giving birth. I give importance to the fact that my life changed the instant i found out I was pregnant, then it changed even worse when I literally felt the life that began in my body die. The hormonal surge, the pain, the sickness that followed for weeks. It happened almost 3 years ago and I wake up in a panic, thinking it's happening again. I randomly remember how old my baby would be now if it had survived and it breaks my heart. My husband will talk about children, then realize we'd have a toddler right now.
Having a miscarriage is hard. It feels like your body is rebelling, destroying and killing a part of you. Mourning over a loss of a pregnancy isn't complying to societal pressure. It's mourning the loss of a child.
@@albusnightspring8057I’m sorry but what does this have to do with a woman loosing a baby?. I understand what you’re talking about but loving a baby and then being sad in lamest terms is a very normal and hopefully expected thing. It would be a bit concerning if someone lost their baby and didn’t feel any emotion about it. I’m a woman also and would be absolutely crushed and devastated if I had a miscarriage. That isn’t a result of “societal pressures” or “the patriarchy”; it’s a result of being a human being that loves and feels.
The fact that she saw this as a joke is actually sad and gross. My mother had a miscarriage before I was born, when i was younger i asked her about it because my sister said she was a rainbow baby and I didn't know what it was. When I asked about it my mom cried. A miscarriage isn't a joke it's a sad horrible thing that happens.
I’m a rainbow baby as well and the same thing happened to me. This is just so gross to joke about. It’s such a traumatic thing for any woman to go through.
Sorry what's a rainbow baby?
@@Lunaxoxo3333a baby after loss
I also am a rainbow baby. My mom shouldn't have been able to get pregnant after having cancer. She had me 2 years after losing my sibling and 15 years after beating cancer. It's NEVER something to joke about. We planted a bush in the backyard in honor of them and when I was little I would go talk to it sometimes and think about whether it would be a brother or sister and how we'd get along :(
@@superdoopy8745 oh okay:(
Faking a miscarriage is honestly so disgusting, considering how its a such a tragic thing to experience, losing a child. And joking abt?? I cant even express it in words how much that makes me angry as a woman myself.
Agreed.
This makes my teeth grind and my fingers itch in a way that makes me wish I had sharper nails and closer proximity to those who fake this kind of stuff.
I agree, this is disgusting, no this is actually revolting.
Where does she say she had a miscarriage? She never made a joke about having a miscarriage she made a commentary on parasocial relationships. She literally never said miscarriage.
@@Xoxo-Raccoon lmao how? She never once said she had a miscarriage. So actors portraying pregnant women when they aren’t actually pregnant are disgusting? It’s a commentary. It’s an art form to prove a point. Parasocial relationships are fucking weird.
@@Kitkat_barshe said that she was pregnant, faked a pregnant belly multiple times THEN said “I lost the baby” and no longer had the baby. That is incredibly suggestive
I've had 3 back to back miscarriages over 4 years and want nothing more than to be a mother. This is disgusting. What a vile person.
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious, she sociopath, this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
I hope that one day you reach your goal and I hope you stay healthy❤❤❤️🩹❤️🩹❤️🩹
I am so so sorry. I hope and pray that you’re healing from your losses. Absolutely heart wrenching. I also hope that you have a baby and become a mother one day. You deserve all the happiness in the world.
Hugs and hopes for all your dreams to come true.
You will be a mother. I’m so sorry for the pain you have gone through. It will happen
off topic but hand writing fan fiction and sending it to the person you wrote it about is absolutely diabolical and insane
It’s already really weird writing fanfiction about a real person
Yeah.
@@KatherineAcosta20not really
@@Breeeeee_charchar Yeah, it is. If you do that you need help.
@@Breeeeee_charcharTina Belcher, what are you doing here?
Saw this on her subreddit, and it really hits: “it’s not parasocial to feel empathy.”
Right… this would be the opposite of parasocial. People would care no matter who experiences this.
wannabe commentary youtubers learned the word "parasocial" and somehow thought they could sound intelligent😂
It is if you are a psychopath trying to fake like you care, like her.
People seriously confuse the difference between
"I like this creator"
And
"I think this creator likes me too"
The most egregious aspect of this was her claiming to be 25 weeks pregnant while sporting a whole ahh full term 9TH MONTH bump 😭
Lmaooooo you’re so right
Right? I was so confused by the baby bump because wasn't she supposed to be just announcing it that she just found out the pregnancy? 💀
That’s some sims 4 logic😭
@@itzChaunceyfr speed running her “pregnancy” in 3 days
I was pregnant twice and very big both times. I looked like I was full term with twins when my water broke 7 weeks early with a single child. So this way of thinking is incredibly flawed. **Note I am NOT defending her, to lie about what she did is foul and calling it a joke is rancid**
fellas is it parasocial to feel genuine empathy for someone going through what seems to be a tough time
No, sounds pretty human to me. I don't think she's human though so 🤷♀️
nahh i can fix her
@@syr_pbargnelbyby all means, please do. she needs fixing ASAP
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@@mar2982 ?
I have a friend who makes music, she stole his sample for her Birthday song and never credited him, he didn't know her content but I did and I recognized his song and told him. They handled it under the table and I let it go because things happen on the internet but I'm fully convinced she is an awful person at this point. This is not her first "stunt"
Where can I find your friends original version of the sample
@ it was on SoundCloud once, the name was Vee8 but I think he deleted it in exchange for the money settlement.
8:06 Even the fact that the she can't use the word "come" without making a joke from it shows how immature she is.
She really thinks she’s made some galaxy-brain-creative-genius work of performance art when it should have been an art school senior thesis that like 5 people got to see. It’s not smart and it’s super insensitive. Others have made art commenting on parasocial relationships that 1. make more sense and 2. aren’t horribly insensitive/hurtful. This is just gross.
exactly. such pseudointellectual tone :(
I really feel like she came up with that half assed reason last minute. She probably didn't feel like doing it anymore and needed the easiest out lol
I don't think she actually wanted to make a statement about parasocial relationships. That's just the explanation she came up with to justify pulling this stunt and getting views and $$$$, all while being like "see, if I were a psychopath, I would enjoy the parasocial relationship you guys form with me, but luckily I'm not." Paradoxically, the last sentence would only occur to someone who's a psychopath.
@@Irreverent9 that makes sense. It didn’t occur to me at all, but that makes more sense than my explanation
@@AidenFeltkamp It's alright, dude, you gave her the benefit of doubt, but I don't think she deserves it. Like imagine faking a miscarriage then making a video to reveal that, and prefacing it with 'I used to get rape comments"... She seems like a real piece of work.
When I was 19, I got pregnant and had a miscarriage. It ruined a few of my family relationships and changed the trajectory of my life. I am 26 now and it still rocks my shit. One of the things about it that hurt a lot of my relationships with family and friends is the nonstop gossip and chatter about it. I felt like a hot topic everyone wanted to talk about and judge instead of a human being. She's reinforcing the behavior that helps ruins young pregnant womens lives.
So sorry this happened to you! You should be proud to be here now in spite of it!
Horrific I am so so sorry for you I hope everything gets better for you❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you :( Stay strong!!
Fuck this shit is terrible. I'm very sorry you had to go thru all that stuff.
I was 17 in a bad relationship with an abuser and it still took it out of me. Im 26 and it ruined my grandma and mines relationship before she died. She assumed and didn’t ask questions. Same with others. Im still a person. Im just not whole. It still feels like somethings missing. Even if it wasn’t a good situation , it’s still hard. Shame on them for treating you less than for your struggle.
She’s trying so hard to sound smart yet everything she’s done and said is dumb as hell. I don’t think she knows what a parasocial relationship is at all. She thinks it’s weird other people felt sympathy for her because she clearly has none for others. This whole situation is so wild and idiotic ugh
she’s genuinely an idiot and i hope she looks back on this and realizes how insensitive and stupid she was
It just sounds like a pathetic excuse to make something so wrong ok.
pseudo intelligence at its finest...she is disgusting
It really does. They always toss out the, oh it's just a social experiment! When they get caught and disapproved of. Had everyone raved, no social experiment, I guess. @@diannevint7366
Exactly, she doesn’t understand empathy.
Everything she says feels like she has been completely isolated, with only herself, for like 3 years straight. Idk how else to describe it
No, that was the perfect way to describe it lmao
covid has really fucked up a lot of people
Yesssss super out of touch!
Chronically online
In 6th grade, my Portuguese teacher suffered a miscarriage. She had wanted that baby so much, and had done every treatment available to try and get pregnant. We were the only class she told. She felt we were the only students of her who would understand and be supportive of her. She felt like a mother to us, and we grew a very close teacher-student bond. For someone, anyone to fake a thing like that, something that makes so many people go through such horror has left me disgusted. Like I've never been before.
her video justifying her faking the miscarriage reminds me very much of when cole sprouse published that tumblr post about his account being a “social experiment” lol
this
I said the exact same thing!!!
giving pseudo intellectual cringe
She never said she had a miscarriage and if u bothered to do any research you would know that but instead you just take the word of some fake gay white man because everything you hear from the internet has to be right obviously
@@pcn3461you must be a troll because there's no way you're acting a fan of the girl in the video.
It seems like she’s mistaken a lot of different things as examples of what a parasocial relationship like empathy, sympathy, and compassion
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If anyone publicly announced that they'd had a miscarriage, I would feel bad for them because I know how painful that is. It doesn't mean that I think I have a relationship with that person, I'm just being a decent, empathetic human being. She, on the other hand, is a terrible human being.
She's not capable of having any of those feelings. If she was, she would never have done what she did. She fits a lot of the criteria for being a psychopath. Only a psychopath or sociopath would do something like this and not feel anything about it nor care about the consequences of her actions. Her goal is to manipulate people to scam them out of money. She doesn't care about anyone.
I've had 6 miscarriages. 6. They are painful physically and emotionally. She needs to do a little more maturing before embarking on this career path.
I hope you're doing better now. My mom had several before she had me. I was her miracle first born.
And while I'll never experience it(I don't want children,the idea of childbirth scares me) I really hope you're doing good now. I cannot imagine experiencing something like that so many times.
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
You both are beautiful and I appreciate and see you. I do have two beautiful children now who are super loved and super spoiled 💕
@@oraclegoddess888 I understand completely. And I am so sorry you are experiencing that. Gigantic inter-web hugs from me to you.
My mom had a miscarriage before me, it broke her heart so much, even to this day it takes its toll on her. I had one about a year ago, and the emotions about it are unbelievably tough, I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you’re doing better.
This is upsetting. My sister had a miscarriage when i was 11, and I had to hear her crying and screaming in pain in the restroom after losing her baby at 3 am. My sister was devastated and it was devastating seeing her that way. Miscarriages are not something to be joked about, multiple women go through this, multiple women can’t get pregnant, and for someone to joke about this shit is disgusting.
I lost my baby son at 5 months, and it is the worst thing I ever went through. To go into the hospital and have them take him and wake up without him ...well, the darkest time in my life. This girl should be ashamed. Karmas is on its way for her.
Im so sorry for what happened...Your so incredibly strong❤
I've known so many women who have had miscarriages. Maybe half of the women I know? Even a miscarriage in the early stages can be traumatic. To just joke about having one is so cruel, and is terribly immature.
ik and the way her "justification" like explanation is awful
Sadly, the statistics state that 10-25% of all first pregnancies end in miscarriage. 😢
I'm sure making fun of miscarriages was not her intention, but that was definitely... a weird move
@@frenchgirl5878honestly her intention rn is irrelevant. If you make this with no intention of doing harm then there’s something wrong with you.
@@frenchgirl5878 she literally titled her video "I lost the baby," she pretended to have a miscarriage and thought it was a good thing to clickbait with...
How to ruin your reputation and lose everyone's respect speedrun any%
100% I'm so disappointed I loved her old songs and wanted her to come back, not like this lol...
She got back my respect. I lost respect of here when "she got pregnant", now I can give her back to here
@@albusnightspring8057wtf did you just said ? “Lost respect with being pregnant” , seriously? Too obvious trolling ))
@@albusnightspring8057 least obvious rage bait be like
I had a miscarriage at 19, and cried for 3 days straight. Now, years later, I still cry about it regularly. I have a tattoo because of it, and every year on the anniversary of what would’ve been their birthday, I do something to celebrate it. In far too few words, faking it for attention makes me sick to my stomach with sadness and anger.
I know that feeling sept 14 2020 my baby was supposed to be born. I'm pregnant with my rainbow baby I'm just so nervous. Praying I carry her to term and that she's healthy.
I am so so sorry for your loss. I love how you have a tattoo in their memory. You are so incredibly beautiful and you are so loved!!!! Wishing you the best 🥰🥰
So sorry for your loss ❤ idk if you believe in an afterlife but if you do, just know your baby is looking down on you with love.
@@ReinaAfricanaSo sorry ❤ I hope your pregnancy goes well and baby is healthy! I was a rainbow baby myself
@@ReinaAfricanaI hope your baby comes out healthy. I'm sure she will. Don't stress too much, though.
Social media has brought the worst in people. It’s absolutely disgusting
It’s kinda sad how she can’t distinguish basic human empathy and a parasocial relationship.
She just tries to say the
Most random things to try to distract people that she even lied about being pregnant.
Noah
Lying about being pregnant could even be justified somehow (not the money she took from people, that was wrong)... But who on earth jokes about miscarriage... You gotta be a different kind of out of touch to joke about things that cause other people deep pain
She probably has narcissistic disorder and talking even more about her like Cooper's video is feeding her attention need...
The way that she's using big emotionally intelligent words without actually leading to a valid point... I refuse to believe this is real because it's so disturbing.
Having empathy for someone who seems to be in a rough situation isn’t parasocial. Why is she pretending like it is??
Parasociality is feeling like you know someone who never met you. Feeling sorry for someone who seems to be going through something horrible with no indication it's fake.
Because she wanted 💰💵💸🤑🤑🤑😡
Because she doesn't understand what empathy is
Caroline is a regular at a cafe I work at (I’ve grown to have a good repertoire with her) - but this is crazy, I can’t believe cooper is making a video about her
do you still have a good repertoire with her ?
So she is Awful person for this
I’m distracted by her use of lottery tickets as home decor
As someone who dealt with the reality of becoming pregnant through traumatic and unwanted means, spending two weeks of it in temporary psychiatric hold, and having a miscarriage a month later that ended up being 8 straight hours of extreme full body pain…. I couldn’t fathom lying about any of it actually happening or viewing it as something small enough to lie about just to garner views online. So many people have dealt with what I have- and so much worse- and she treated it like a funny prank. How can people be so void of feeling like that?
i am so sorry that happened to you. deeply sorry. some people are just actually incapable of empathy. the first time i realized how many people are like this, it scared me a lot. it disturbs me still.
I'm so sorry to hear this. As someone who has been under psych hold, I hope it didn't do any more damage to your already broken heart.
You are incredibly strong to have survived all of that. I wish you such a peaceful, happy life going forward ❤🫂
I’m sorry you went through that that is awful
I hope you're slowly recovering. I've been through a traumatic experience which I presume is similar in nature to yours, though not as severe. I'm still recovering and I hope that you are too, stay safe and be kind to yourself.
This woman does/did stunts like this a few times with friends, but always having it clearly as a joke. The difference between her past ones and this is her acting self-righteous in this scenario, also her not treating it as a joke in the original video.
I mean it's still a joke that plays with the limits, at the end of the day.
These outraged people would have killed Andy Kaufman lol.
And I'm not talking about conservatives who make aggressive jokes on purpose to provoke a reaction.
In this case, she was really trying to make a meta joke that broke the codes, and it obviously failed !
But I think it's ridiculous to treat her as if she were a far-right stand-up "comedian" who makes racist speeches and passes them off as jokes.
You have to dose your reactions.
@@pinksnake8001 it isnt a joke because it doesnt 'play with the limits' it fully crosses and disrespects the existence of those limitations in the first place.
@@pinksnake8001a joke has some what of a punchline even anecdotal comedy still has that build up and punch line bit. She lied, that isn't joking? And if it the punch line is "haha you believed a perfectly believable lie" hahahaha. You're right she's just an edgy comic and no one gets her 🙄
@@booziiokto In the end of the day, it's an attempt to create entertainment that confuses viewers and makes them feel uncomfortable. That's why it was interesting. On the other hand, it failed because the thinking behind it was shaky and, indeed, it wasn't very funny.
I readily admit all that. My honest opinion is that it wasn't THAT shocking, but it was in bad taste.
@@pinksnake8001I think most people would disagree with you. She created a thorough fictitious story that gave ZERO indication of being satirical or fictional until after she made incredibly suggestive statements about having a miscarriage.
I am going to get a hysterectomy and oophomectomy next week and have 0 chance of having my own children. I have endometriosis and chronic pelvic pain, and this woman just jokes so flippantly about miscarriage and pregnancy. It’s disturbing and so upsetting.
heyo endometriosis sisters! I never wanted children, but even with that mentality it was still a blow to know that, unlike what every other adult told me, I would never be able to change my mind later on in life.
This is absolutely disgusting and the worst possible way she could have returned to youtube.
I have endometriosis as well. I'm so sorry you have it too. It fucking sucks.
I really don't mean to do a hurtful comment, this is a real question, can't you freeze your eggs for a posible surrogate? I totally understand is not the same as a personal pregnancy but, it could be a possibility? I understand is very painful to go through endometriosis, I'm just wondering what possibilities do women have when an hysterectomy is needed
Also have Endo, here.
Not an okay thing for them to joke about.
While I never wanted to bear children, I wanted the choice.. and I know how deeply painful it is for so many people who go through miscarriage/fertility issues/not being able to have children at all
Can't imagine making that joke
Good luck on your surgery! Sending love 💞
My mother is struggling with fertility and it was a miracle that I was even born. I have seen and felt the heartbreak of miscarriages alongside my mom. I can’t imagine the pain she herself feels each and every time she miscarries. Caroline, I can’t stand you.
As a young woman who had a miscarriage and had to go through that horrible experience, I am absolutely disgusted by this woman. It breaks my heart that someone would lie about that; it is truly a horrible and heartbreaking experience, and no one should ever have to go through it. Mocking such an experience is so disrespectful and I hope no one EVER does this. I hope that people can see how awful that is. For those of you who are out there experiencing this or who have experienced this, I am so sorry. You CAN get through this. It gets better. Reach out to someone about it when you need to.
I Remember her from the “stripper magician” and “prom” skits, other than that, I had NO idea of her faking her pregnancy. This is really disgusting that she’d fake a miscarriage
Stripper magician was my favorite video. The fact that she turned out like this is saddening
@@garfonzthecat yeah, it really is a shame she turned out like that
Sameee
WAIT THIS IS HER?!
@@nickythehickey yeah, I was just as shocked as you
Having gone through 2 miscarriages it pains me to think that people like her still don't take them seriously. I think it stems from the lack of understanding that a mom can grieve over an unborn child/fetus and just how much it hurts to do so.
I heard somebody say she's like 20 so I hope she learns from this and gains some self-awareness. It seems she thinks she's smarter than she is.
I’m so sorry that you lost two babies during pregnancy. That’s so horrible. Sending love ❤️ ❤️🩹🙏🏻
Bless you and your sweet resting babies
Oh my heart sank reading this. I'm so so sorry.
💔❤️
the rhett and link in the back feels like the split-screened subway surfers added to a brainrot video lmaooo
She has 800 patreon donors. Her last update? "The Cancelling: responding to backlash". Is backlash just making money?
The fact you’re a Mythical Beast makes me love your content so much more. GMM for life. Rhett and Link are such genuine guys
I've been pregnant 8 times with 9 children (one set of twins in 2017 that were lost in January 2018).
I've got 2 living children and had 2 stillbirths and one who only lived for 19 minutes.
This is so insensitive.
I am so, so sorry for your losses. I've had two stillbirths. I can't imagine losing a baby after birth too 💔🫂
I am sorry for your losses and hope you are doing okay❤
Omg I'm so sorry 😢my condolences to you and your family. May your sweet angel babies rest and play in paradise 🕊️.
you are SO strong.
Bruh STOP having children
I recently saw this Reddit post written by a man about his fiancé that faked a miscarriage with the help of her friend because she said it was a test to see if he was really happy that they were having a baby. (By the way, this man cried tears of joy when he found out she was pregnant.) But anyways, he sobbed when he thought he lost his child only to find out it was fake and a test. The to are supposed to be getting married and he has rightful postponed the wedding and required that they get couples counseling. My thoughts are that he shouldn’t postpone it. He needs to cancel it. Because that is so unspeakable cruel and horrible to do to a person and not to mention traumatic. And honestly, once the child is born. I would not be able to look at my child without having in the back of my mind: my fiancé made me believe that I lost this sweet child that I love so much. I wouldn’t be able to love and marry that woman.
Woah. Yeah he should run fast. Not from the child, but sometimes the parents _not_ being together is actually the better situation for kids unfortunately.
I read that one! There's an update. He broke up with her because he couldn't trust her. I can't believe she did that, but it turned out well because he found out she's a psycho BEFORE marrying her.
@DawnKellyPhotography ah, that’s so good to hear! Because even if he was able to forgive her, that’s not something you could forget. That would forever taint the relationship if they stayed together. I hope he stays in the child’s life and that the relationship between him and the child work out
@@DawnKellyMedia I'm so glad to hear that update!!
Faking a pregnancy, then staging a miscarriage, AND THEN making a video explaining yourself where you also make sexual jokes is wild on a whole other level
I work for an insurance carrier & someone tried to pretend having a cancer diagnosis for coverage. And when i told them they're not eligible bc they dont have an onco dx, they turned into karen mode.
Its one thing to bend the truth to get *more* coverage but pretending to have cancer is beyond disrespectful.
As a doctor who has seen the devastation and heart break on the women who miscarried this makes me freaking mad . The pain and the guilt and break in their psyche . It's not a laughing matter .
My grandma who is almost 90 still can’t really talk about her miscarriage. It would have been her only girl. She was and is traumatized. It’s really sad to make jokes about stuff like this.
No one would pose for a thumbnail like that for a miscarriage video
I raise you family channels 😬
@@pleuriglosse8198 Oh, I’m aware
This situation makes me so devastated because at my workplace we just had a funeral of a 7 month old baby who drowned from neglient grandparents. There are so many families who go through the trauma of losing a child and it is VICIOUS to fake it for... money
ik and she doesn't even care either
but $300
three
hundred...
That's something that's actually alive though
@divine555 I get u r being edgy but the main reason (from what I've been told) around the trauma of miscarriage is the physical pain of it all, ranging from debilitating cramps to severe blood loss that would lead to loss of consciousness. The emotional pain comes from the what could have been. You can grieve concepts, ideas you hoped would come true but never did.
@@divine555 the cells are, or were, alive enough to be a pregnancy though? I've never been pregnant, but there is no reality I can imagine that one's own body rejecting a pregnancy and then expelling it is easy. At best, it'd be the worst period you've ever had on TOP of the emotional side of losing what could have been an entire human being, wanted or not. Losing a child you've already birthed and spent time with is probably life's greatest tragedy, but that does not diminish the pain and trauma of miscarriage. Do not compare trauma.
Most children used to die in the first years. If anything it's unnatural for most children to survive to adulthood, and it's contributing to destroying our planet too
This is truly disgusting. I had a friend who literally had a miscarriage at work and had to just go back to work. Like using someone’s trauma for money and then having that as a response. Gross.
As a young woman who’s had two miscarriages, this makes me feel so sick to my stomach. There is so much pain, screaming, grieving. There’s so much that happens when you miscarry, it’s not entertainment. She’s a TH-camr, not a developed character in a show or movie.
she is the personification of “i’m 12 and this is deep”
The fact that she is saying that the people paying are going to be more respectful to her is wild. Because after this stunt, the only type of people who are going to subscribe to her patreon are probably those same creeps she was talking about messaging her before... what respectable person would still pay for content from her after this?
The way I scrambled to this notification… math homework your ass can WAIT
I did the exact thing lmao
same fr (screw my spanish presentation and exams)
@@shrek_is_life_6974 LITTERALLY ME
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What grade level are you/when do you get out of school where you are? I wish you luck for finals! 🫶🏽
it is so sickening that she would fake a pregnancy and miscarriage. I find it very hurtful as someone who has had two miscarriages.
Seeing all of the people telling their stories of their own experience with miscarriages or the experience they saw a family member go through that experience is heart breaking. This is so cruel and not remotely a joke. A joke needs to be at the very minimum, be funny. This is disgusting and insensitive at best. Wow. My heart goes out to all of the mothers in the comments 💜
yeh i imagine women, who SUFFERED an actual misscarriage, reliving stuff, feeling sorry for her, mybe even giving her money or something...and then learning she lied to them, ridiculized them? yeah.....she is an absolute AH
´emotionally connected to something that is not real’ so just fiction? Did she really just think she made a groundbreaking discovery by proving that people are able to connect to something seemingly not real? tf
Wait til she finds out how we feel about characters in novels lol
She has never watched a movie, read a book or was told a story before EVER
Did she have a hysterical pregnancy and now she’s embarrassed or is she just a grifter?
just wait until she sees ao3
girlie just tried to pull a cole sprouse on us
She was harassed with violence, so chose to emotionally manipulate to teach violence? Then profit off of her audience...
Also to be receiving threats of s*xual violence, presumably mostly from men, and to retaliate pointedly by... making a joke about a miscarriage? Like ok girl, sure, that'll show those online predators who's boss.
@@XuiLeeEvRight?! I doubt ANY of the people doing that to her have experienced a miscarriage
Cooper, I think i started watching your videos earlier today. Thought your room was cool, you’re funny, and all the other good things I thought about you. I’ve realized after watching many of your videos that i love you. You seem great and pretty down to earth but the one thing that really pushed my finger to the subscribe button (i already subscribed this morning) was when i found out you watch GMM!!! 😱 so cool. My two fav yotubers in one video, in one day kinda but NOT. Inspiring. Very inspiring. ❤
GMM is awesome!!
My mother sadly had 2 misscarriages and hearing this random woman joking about it makes me so mad. There is woman out here suffering from depression after losing a baby due to miscarriage.
The fact her patreon has earned $1500 AUD a month is one of the worst parts for me. Like… this WORKED on people
And now these generous and caring people won’t help someone who actually needs it in the fiture
The whole thing of her trying to turn this into a “lesson” for us is so crazy like bro what ?? lol she really thought she ate with that and was gonna have us all like “woah this was such a life changing revelation “ girl the only “life changing revelation” we got from this was u fucking crazy
Rightt??? Her "Guys, youtube creates parasocial relationships" statement as if it were news or a big brain thing to be aware of
Watching bestfriendstoday and hypothetical nonsense she had always been that exact way, she is the perfect example of the narcissistic belief people have of their own intelligence going way way to far, very sad to see but i am not surprised
She really thought she made a groundbreaking statement, huh? Parasocial relationships have been a topic of discussion for a while now. Ludwig, the streamer/TH-camr, talked about it last year or so. She’s a year too late to the issue.
@@Lucy_Heart03yes… also caring that someone faced tragedy isn’t parasocial. She doesn’t have to be a TH-camr to collect money to help with a miscarriage
Faking such a thing how much empathy she lacks. Like how is faking losing a child funny
almost choked on my sandwich at the part about your relationship with the whole philippines/filipinos not being parasocial 😭😭😭 thanks ??? that's a new perk to being filipino i guess ???
much love (totally not parasocial at all like u said),
a filipino viewer
I used to be a big fan of her, it’s sad to see all my old favorite TH-camrs become horrible people or have terrible things come out about them
Not sure where she’s at (nor do I care tbh) she’s doing this in an America that’s lost Roe v Wade. It’s incredibly cruel to both people who’ve miscarried and people who do not want to be pregnant- especially in this case, pregnant people in their 20s
reversing roe vs wade at us back 50 effing years when it was first set in place. just disgusting
Hadnt thought about this but this is so true
Logically speaking, if miscarriage is a tragedy because of loss of human life, then losing Roe Vs. Wade saves lives. If losing Roe Vs. Wade is a tragedy, then miscarriage isn't really much of anything.
I also want to point out that with Roe Vs. Wade, women still got the consequences while men walked off even more scott-free than before Roe Vs. Wade. It is a very invasive procedure that has worse statistics for survival than maternity survival rates in any first world country except America. I find it shocking Americans accept that statistic as normal or don't even know their country is way behind. Wtf?
Women should always have a choice whether or not they want to become pregnant. However, after pregnancy occurs, there is no procedure in the world that will save her from one consequence or another, which is why I think there should always be consequences put on the man, be it jail time or child support, according to circumstances.
Men lied. Giving them free access to our bodies in the bedroom will not make us happy.
"Everyone in their social media careers have a moment where they need to be humbled" Meanwhile this girl has "humble :)" in all her bios. 🤢🤢
Yupppp. People who preach about being so humble rarely are lmao. It's so frustrating for sure
Anyone who has humble in their bios is definitely not humble
Same as people who are "drama free" lolol
omg feeling bad for a person struggling with pregnancy or having a miscarriage is not a parasocial relationship??? that's called empathy-
The way she think she’s smarter than everyone even though she’s been caught in a lie and it didn’t go as she planned is like the biggest narcissism red flag
my moms coworker has had such bad fertility issues and had a miscarriage just this year. she’s so anxious because she’s pregnant again and my whole church is praying for her. it’s so scary to have fertility issues.
So apparently having empathy is considered a joke now.
For her it is, because she's not capable of it. She views it as a weakness to exploit. If she actually had genuine feelings of empathy, compassion or sympathy for someone, this would never be on her mind. Ever.
i had an ex that used faking a miscarriage (with proof) to manipulate me to go back and live with them (previously lived with them then went to go live with my grandparents it was so bad). it’s disgusting behaviour dude especially on a heartbreaking topic
That's terrible, the worst manipulative tactic ever, I can't imagine ever doing that.
14 minutes is the quickest I've made it to a cooper video. As someone who miscarried at 5 months in, this is just so gross
So sorry that happened to you:(
I’m so sorry ml🫶🏻 hope you are recovering and able to heal.
I am so sorry
:( aw I’m sorry
@@Joejoej13 Yeah because a natural miscarriage that resulted from r-pe is my fault
crazy ur at 1 mil now! I have been watching u since like 10k! That was only a year or so ago. You deserve it ur funny and genuinely one of my go to ytbers! Grown so much in so little time, keep going!
my mom lost her baby before me, she doesn't like talking ab it and when ever she does she gets super sad it's horrible that shes joking ab it
I’m honestly surprised she didn’t use the “this was all a social experiment” 💀💀💀
I spoke to soon. It was an experiment for PLUGGING her Patrion 😃
I was literally thinking this! She really acted like she did something phenomenal. How out of touch can someone be?
@@chaoticoverdrive27this
As someone who has had multiple miscarriages, I cannot even find the words to respond to this except to say that it's excruciatingly painful to go through and horrifying to see someone mock that pain.
I’m sorry for you lost & prayers for your womb this girl needs empathy & a conscious, she sociopath, this is terrible triggering & wrong, my heart goes out to you & others, I had 1 and so very angry about it
I have had close family and friends pass away but nothing was more traumatizing than losing my baby. I was broken for so long and had to rebuild my life knowing the pregnancy wasn’t viable. Joking or even lying about that is so disgusting.
Bless your heart and soul
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I’m so sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry, I hope you’re doing well now and that you’re healing ❤️🩹
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My mom lost a baby in her late forties from a late term miscarriage when I was sixteen and still hasn’t fully recovered emotionally from the loss and neither have I. It still makes me cry when I think about him. It was a boy. Faking something like this is disgusting and I just can’t fathom being the kind of person to do that.
my sister has struggled with her pregnancy for years, undergoing several different miscarriages. this is so absolutely disgusting, and it is NOT a light subject to throw around.
I literally used to idolize her and fall back on her music when I was stressed. Usually when the flashbacks of my late daughter and fiancee hit the hardest. I was excited for her with the announcement. And then she did whatever this poor excuse of content is. I've never felt so betrayed by a creator before
Umm… what? How?
Like brain rot is real but also girl legit doesn’t see that the issue… wtf
I dont have a child and planning to not have one, but that is such a disgusting thing to do. It's insensitive. I can never imagine the pain of losing a child, and faking it to promote paid content??? With that price??? Literally insane.
Yeah fr, like you don’t need to want kids in order to realize she’s a complete asshole. I just feel bad for all the women in these comments that have had so many miscarriages :( ❤️🩹
As Someone who has a family history to be very prone to miscarriages this just makes my blood boil seeing her joke about such a horrible situation a mother can go through is just sad
Hell no. My sis had several miscarriages, and each one was devastating. To know that she thinks it’s a joke? Ridiculous
Its so wild that this whole thing is about being parasocial, while I'd argue that the people being all "oh if youre mad, you dont know her" are the parasocial ones.
Like... they *know* you? You're cool with that, but not the people who were genuinely upset that you did some heinous shit?
1000%
Correct. The only way someone is defending this shit is because they have an extreme emotional attachment to her.
She’s basically rooted out anybody who was wishy washy on her with this stunt. I bet not long from now if she still has an audience it becomes cult-like ffs
Something i just realized has been bothering me after watching a couple of videos on this: she reiterates that this is a "joke" and that the "joke" is we seek connection but dont find it or whatever, but arent jokes supposed to be funny??? Or at the very least have the intention of being funny, right??? Am i going crazy??
And, if you want to maybe argue that "oh, well its more dark humor." "Its meant to point out a truth and the 'joke' is one of those abstract ones blahblah", in the end the joke would still be ON the audience for *checks notes* having empathy... i just feel like no matter how you look at it it's only punching down
I think Cooper hit the nail on the head. I think she's just pulling some lame excuse out her ass because she can't outright say "I did it because I want your money" The explanation/joke excuse seems like a total afterthought
that also made me go ??? why did she keep saying it was a joke???
Excellent point. It really is the first rule of comedy to never "punch down". This wasn't comedy in any sense
As someone who very much wants another baby, I'm so upset by this. Especially since I've started bleeding today and I have to wait 5 more days for an ultrasound. Sorry for the emotional dump but I'm pretty scared right now.
hi, i’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. my mom has two kids, myself and my little brother. after having me, my mom went through three miscarriages(? if i remember correctly, idk i was tiny) over the span of a decade before she had my little brother. he’s 5 now, turning 6 in august, and he’s the best little brother that i could ever ask for. the point is, don’t give up hope. you’re so loved and so incredibly strong to be able to endure everything that you’re going through right now. and like i don’t want to speak for your kid/s but i know that every day i’m so proud of my mom and how resilient she’s been over the years, and i’m 99.99% sure your kids will also feel the same way. sending so much love 🫶 (also sorry for the ramble lol)
My step mom had multiple miscarriages before having my little sister and although the pregnancy was complicated she had a perfectly healthy little girl!!! I’m praying for you
Praying for you
at 25 weeks pregnant, you’ve already been able to find out the gender, you’ve had the anatomy scan to see every aspect of your baby and to know if they are healthy, you’ve atleast thought of names, maybe even started buying supplies. hell, if your baby was born that day, they could survive.
i sympathized with her because i lost my baby at 15 weeks and he was already known to be a boy and he was named. i knew the connection i felt to my baby so i assumed she would have the same. she is disgusting.
parasocial relationships are an issue, but having sympathy is not.
im sitting next to my 12 week old baby and still can feel the loss of my first baby. i feel that same loss for every woman who’s miscarried even if i don’t know them, because i KNOW the feeling.
I have a friend who last year had to go through a miscarriage, and I can honestly say that while not expecting any better of attention seeking people on the internet, it horrible and straight up cruel to lie about these sorts of things. Seeing the pain and having my best friend break down Infront of me many times because of this it made me so angry that she just sat there and tried to justify what she did/said. despicable human being. Some comments I saw on similar videos calling her out were saying 'i wish this actually happens to her Irl' but I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy. Grateful you are calling out people like this.
My mom went through a miscarriage so to see this humans can be really disgusting sometimes..
Same, to see how that affects someone just makes this even more gross.
@@petra_eq fr!! I just feel bad for ever one who’s gone threw it
Exactly.
Same here :( I'm a rainbow baby, and seeing her fake this stuff is disgusting and hurtful
Her video reeks of pseudo intellectualism. If she was looking to make a point about parasocial relationships she would return the money after the experiment or ‘piece’ is done to complete the cycle.
i think the funny thing is how hard this probably backfired on her. she did all of this for more views and patreon subs, but the reveal probably made her not only lose any of the new viewers and subs she gained, but lose any of the viewers and subs she had before this whole stunt too. hope it was worth losing any of her dedicated viewers/subs AND all her new viewers/subs for the slightly heightened interaction she received for those couple days/weeks before the reveal.
as someone who has had a miscarriage i feel hurt and disgusted that some women feel the need to fake pregnancies and fake miscarriage as its a little fun game.... well its not so until one of these women who fake all this actually experience the pain the hurt and the guilt of it being like "was it my fault?" "did i do something wrong?" "why is this happening to me?" i beg of them to shut up and stop AND THINK OF THE PEOPLE THEY R HURTING
Faking a miscarriage is so sick and disgusting. My mom had multiple miscarriages before me and then multiple miscarriages before my brother. It's a hard thing to go through and I wouldn't wish it upon anyone.
i JUST went through a miscarriage, and it was hell. for me, for my husband, for my family, i mean we were.. more than devastated. the cry that came out of me when i felt her be expelled from my body was.. beyond words. the pain is indescribable. i would never wish that pain on ANYONE, much less would pretend to know that pain.
So, when I was in college, two people from my "friend group" decided to do what they called a "social experiment" in which they made posts on Facebook claiming a third friend (who was not aware or involved) had died. They posted things like "RIP -friend's name- . I cant believe he's gone so soon." This alone was awful, but i was going through a period of time in which I'd had multiple people close to me pass away in a short period of time. I completely broke down. Oh, and did i mention they said they were doing this as part of thr college's Sociology club? Yeah, it was lovely.
One of the participants was very much a follower trying to fit in at the time, and not only deeply regretted his part in it, but went on to do genuine work to improve himself. We were able to reconnect and become friends again 13 years later. The other can be flung into the sun for all I care.
My mom had a miscarriage so seeing someone fake having one is honestly so disgusting like that’s not something to joke about.
Same. It’s so gross.
11:35 as an actual italian, that did get through me.