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  • Sonia helps a teenage beauty queen accept a life-changing diagnosis.
    From Mercy Season 1 Episode 8 'I'm Not That Kind of Girl’ - Veronica learns she might be pregnant; grief-stricken Dr. Harris wages war against death at the hospital; Sonia helps a teenage beauty queen accept a life-changing diagnosis; Chloe uncovers a nasty secret about her boyfriend.
    Mercy (2009): Recently returned from a military tour in Iraq and with deeper medical experience than most of the facility's residents combined, nurse Veronica Callahan along with fellow nurses Sonia, a jaded veteran, and naive newbie Chloe, navigates life both inside the hospital and out.
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  • @welcometogreenaquasglen1846
    @welcometogreenaquasglen1846 ปีที่แล้ว +847

    I love Sonia in this clip. She's adovacting for her patient, not the doctors, or the hospital, or even the patient's family. That's what a real nurse does.

    • @sarahakm
      @sarahakm ปีที่แล้ว +29

      The saying I've heard is "Doctors treat illnesses, nurses treat people"

    • @welcometogreenaquasglen1846
      @welcometogreenaquasglen1846 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sarahakm That's it in a nutshell.

    • @andiehernandez1995
      @andiehernandez1995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you know which show is this?

    • @beaniebrin
      @beaniebrin 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@sarahakm that is so not true. Sounds like made by a nurse who failed to get into med school and now resenting doctors by diminishing their contributions. 🤦🏻‍♀️

    • @daisysummer514
      @daisysummer514 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If I ever meet a real one I’ll let you know

  • @johnsoapmactavish9921
    @johnsoapmactavish9921 ปีที่แล้ว +890

    I like how the endocrine specialist just bluntly gives the information to everyone . Just straight to the point 😂

    • @LiPo5000
      @LiPo5000 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That is the way Doctor's are!

    • @kairinase
      @kairinase ปีที่แล้ว +14

      That's what old school and nerdy doctors do...
      Now they ask us to Google everything.

    • @kairinase
      @kairinase ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@LiPo5000Only doctors with "-ist" in their title can say that nowadays.

    • @clm0208
      @clm0208 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2:57 I love it more when a group of doctors, not one or two, but five doctors watching someone lower part together. 😅

    • @innag6888
      @innag6888 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      bluntly? he was downright cheerful about it.

  • @corywalker147
    @corywalker147 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +405

    Healthcare worker here. One massive "No no", when examining a patient, you never ever leave the door open! @3:00. That can get you in a world of problems with patient confidentiality.

    • @karyannfontaine8757
      @karyannfontaine8757 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Correct in real life.

    • @justxmae
      @justxmae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Omg I noticed that! I’m going to college to become a nurse and I’ve already taken some classes in high school and one of the first things you do after washing hands is “provide privacy” whether that is a Curtain or a door

    • @JellyWaltzov
      @JellyWaltzov 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Future healthcare worker here. Thanks for the tip! 🙂

    • @jerromedrakejr9332
      @jerromedrakejr9332 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not really... in a general practice admissions department where there is a full waiting room outside... yes, but in a clinic that is closed to anyone except patients and approved visits... no obligation.

    • @corywalker147
      @corywalker147 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @jerromedrakejr9332 Not where I live in Canada. And even it it's not "law," it seems like it should be common courtesy.

  • @floatsyourboats6843
    @floatsyourboats6843 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    “how did they get in there” dad is shocked

    • @GabyHernandez-rv3vo
      @GabyHernandez-rv3vo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      😂😂😂😂😮

    • @reubenmanzo2054
      @reubenmanzo2054 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      If this was House M.D., the answer would likely have been something along the lines of "some boy has overstayed his welcome".

    • @sethc6663
      @sethc6663 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@reubenmanzo2054 🏆Best comment award.

    • @soonersciencenerd383
      @soonersciencenerd383 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how did he not know?

    • @MarkCisOfTheLoonieLeft
      @MarkCisOfTheLoonieLeft 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@soonersciencenerd383 Quite a few with this condition do not discover until later in life, this is why sex identified purely by genitalia at birth is dumb, although it is good enough for the majority of humans it is not accurate for everyone.

  • @xzsdfvdfbv
    @xzsdfvdfbv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +144

    "My boyfriend thinks I'm a freak". She needs a better boyfriend.

  • @paddotk
    @paddotk 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

    That whole group of doctors casually checking out her privates while the door 5ft away is open in the background, lots of people walking past... This is ridiculously bad and funny.

    • @jayrenner211
      @jayrenner211 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      And the absolute truth in emergency rooms sometimes.

    • @brooketyrrell1436
      @brooketyrrell1436 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@jayrenner211 they usually have a curtain tho

  • @apb38
    @apb38 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    That boyfriend of hers knowing her condition is a MAJOR HIPPA violation. And now he's telling other people. MAJOR lawsuit incoming.

    • @scottys1423
      @scottys1423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      They removed him from the room. She likely told him later.

    • @michelletrahan9170
      @michelletrahan9170 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      HIPAA

    • @JoybuzzerX
      @JoybuzzerX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Not sure what she could sue the "boyfriend" for. Not that he should be doing it, but what exactly was he doing? Was he lying about her?
      Now, if a doctor had told him about her, then that would be a lawsuit, but the "boyfriend" finding out and then telling everyone isn't him going on lying about her.

    • @apb38
      @apb38 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@JoybuzzerX suing the hospital.

    • @JoybuzzerX
      @JoybuzzerX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@apb38 Okay, that I could see happening.

  • @doughall2932
    @doughall2932 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    “Everybody at _my_ school heard it, you were the hermaphrodite cheerleader from Long Island?”

    • @JS-mg1mk
      @JS-mg1mk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      We started a ruuuumor

    • @scottys1423
      @scottys1423 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ah yes, the I hate Rachel Green club.

    • @zuzupetals1676
      @zuzupetals1676 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I was afraid you'd show me

    • @spookymiraclepreacher6037
      @spookymiraclepreacher6037 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hermaphrodite is an outdated hurtful term. It’s intersexed.

  • @BobTreyseph
    @BobTreyseph ปีที่แล้ว +311

    Oh btw, that’s Daveigh Chase who is famous for playing Samara (girl in the well) in The Ring and voicing LILO in Lilo and Stitch. Ironically the girl in the Japanese novel Ringu that The Ring is based on was a hermaphrodite.

    • @karyannfontaine8757
      @karyannfontaine8757 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      That is interesting.

    • @Katiriaa84
      @Katiriaa84 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Wow, that's a very interesting info, thanks :)

    • @stephenking5852
      @stephenking5852 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why does Lilo’s name always autocorrect to all caps?
      Also, when I read the name Samara, I was thinking of Mass Effect 2.

    • @Kahli21
      @Kahli21 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      The acceptable term now is "intersex", not hermaphrodite. Intersex includes a large number of various conditions that make the person's reproductive system not fully male or fully female in some way, hence, "inter" (between). Hermaphrodite was the combination of Hermes and Aphrodite in myth. Intersex doesn't have anything like that, not like what the myth implies (both completely male and completely female).

    • @NotMykl
      @NotMykl ปีที่แล้ว +9

      INTERSEX is the correct term not hermaphrodite.

  • @karyannfontaine8757
    @karyannfontaine8757 ปีที่แล้ว +998

    Actually Ashley disliked playing the part of a beautiful girl. She needs time to figure out what she likes, who she is. I think the nurse was perfect as an advocate for the patient. Those parents were horrid without any understanding at all. The "boyfriend" was a turncoat. A real friend will stay a friend. Hope the parents will support Ashley's choice.

    • @nevaehhamilton3493
      @nevaehhamilton3493 ปีที่แล้ว

      But the parents won't. Because she's a part of the LGBT community, and always has been. They cannot change who she is and no one should ever try to change who she is.

    • @veg2489
      @veg2489 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Exactly!!

    • @demon1864
      @demon1864 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Disagree
      How many parents today are forcing young children to “transition” in something their not?

    • @annikenlittle9644
      @annikenlittle9644 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@veg2489 Why Did She Rip The Pink Strapless Ball Gown To Shreds? I Think Its Pretty.

    • @AK94913
      @AK94913 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Why accept a part if you dislike the role? It's bs.

  • @spookymiraclepreacher6037
    @spookymiraclepreacher6037 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I’m intersexed and I have CAH. This is exactly what happened to me only the crowd of doctors were bigger while undressed.

  • @93Chowo
    @93Chowo ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Just because people call you a freak doesn´t mean you are one. Also what´s the deal with the parents about "Putting ideas in Ashley´s head"? Shouldn´t the person decide for themselves what they want to do or not?

    • @heartsmyfaceforever8140
      @heartsmyfaceforever8140 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And shouldn’t they have as many ideas as possible to make an informed decision?

    • @matthewbaker6177
      @matthewbaker6177 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Denial. It makes people do strange things.

    • @crissd8283
      @crissd8283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My word, it is a show. It isn't real. The writers intensively made these other characters as detestable as possible in order to make it interesting. It has no bearing on reality. No parent would act like these parents do. There is no reason to rush to a decision, it's not like they have to do this or in two days, Ashley would be growing a beard and have chest hair. It is a fake show with fake drama intentionally written in. Don't believe this is reality.

    • @93Chowo
      @93Chowo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@crissd8283 You know just because it´s fiction doesn´t mean it doesn´t contain a bit of reality. Even if the possibility is slim, something lke that could have happen for real and the show demonstrates what it could look like. And that is why people can react to such a situation like it could be reality because in that moment the fiction becomes another reality we witness and therefore we think and feel about it as we would in a real-life-scenario.

    • @Pteromandias
      @Pteromandias 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@crissd8283 They made them detestable so they are what you think of when you hear about people questioning transgender ideology.

  • @WestOfEarth
    @WestOfEarth 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I liked how the endocrinologist explains the biological process with such enthusiasm. He's super fascinated with the science of it.

  • @nathananderson7962
    @nathananderson7962 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    2:25 "If Ashley continues to keep living......................................as a female"
    That pause was BRUTAL

    • @Frostfern94
      @Frostfern94 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I THOUGHT HE WAS JUST GONNA STOP AT “living”

    • @nathananderson7962
      @nathananderson7962 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@Frostfern94 I know, I was like what???????? ...It surely can't be that bad

    • @raydaveed
      @raydaveed 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      There's barely any pause

    • @Paravetje
      @Paravetje 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@raydaveed I heard it and thought the same as the other commenters above.

    • @raydaveed
      @raydaveed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Paravetje Don't care lol

  • @jonathanspivey437
    @jonathanspivey437 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Poor girl. She didnt ask to be like that and now everyone is turning on her at the worst moment of her life.

  • @nightwingman666
    @nightwingman666 ปีที่แล้ว +292

    House MD had a similar case. As House so eloquently put it ‘The perfect woman is a man’

    • @matthewcrome5835
      @matthewcrome5835 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      That was my first thought too, it seems like they ripped it off of House

    • @sohaila6086
      @sohaila6086 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      ​@@matthewcrome5835yep seems like they definitely ripped it out of House MD. 😅

    • @andrewwade5655
      @andrewwade5655 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally watch it on this channel a couple days ago. Its Ep2 of s1.

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@matthewcrome5835Ripped it? OOF. You know that intersex people exist in real life, right? And that there are tons of people who don’t know until they’re older because their parents and doctors keep it from them.

    • @matthewcrome5835
      @matthewcrome5835 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@lexi219 Of course I know intersex people exist in real life, it's just that the situation depicted in this show is almost identical to the one in House MD.

  • @ashleylovesobx
    @ashleylovesobx ปีที่แล้ว +277

    "she's gorgeous she's a cheerleader" SO that doesn't and shouldn't matter!

    • @David-yo5re
      @David-yo5re ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Mom was reliving her life through her daughter.

    • @riverhunter21226
      @riverhunter21226 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      i’m actually surprised the parents pushed for the surgery after realizing they actually may have a son without even asking their child how they feel. not even about how they feel about getting the surgery or not but how they feel about just hearing this life altering news.

    • @Hunterr-
      @Hunterr- ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Boys car be cheerleaders too

    • @TommonSensePro
      @TommonSensePro 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@riverhunter21226 2:51 Did you miss the part where she said just to cut them off?

    • @crissd8283
      @crissd8283 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It is a show. You realize the intent of a show is to draw you in to watch it and tell a story. It is completely divorced from reality. No parents would actually act like this. There is no reason to make quick decision on a surgery. No doctor or nurse would not call for a family to take their time on deciding. Quit thinking this is reality, it is a complete fake. Don't walk around in the world thinking people actually behave like this.

  • @Kas_Pose
    @Kas_Pose ปีที่แล้ว +394

    I hate how people do this and push gender roles and shame onto people with this! They're male and female and it's up to them to decide how they want to present and it's absolutely nobody's place to force someone else how to live especially in a situation like this where the choice is the patient's and the patient's alone. This person just had her life turned upside down and everything that she knew has changed, how is it okay for doctors and family members to put such a pressure and practically taunt this kid about this? Yes, this is acted, however these have happened to real people including myself and it's disgusting what intersex people have to put up with.

    • @dbeloved02
      @dbeloved02 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I'm a nurse and I have seen a newborn who was placed in the NICU to allow the parents to "decide" and I have seen a later in life intersex person whose parents chose to make them female! And unfortunately the older person was masculine presenting.. I often wonder what would have happened if they had allowed them to choose

    • @soupthesart
      @soupthesart ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Intersex people should decide what they want to do with their bodies and also they shouldn’t be forced into gender roles and it sucks that people act like their disgust is ok because its a person not a fucking object

    • @Grayest_Fox
      @Grayest_Fox ปีที่แล้ว

      Exceotion, not the rule, looneytroony

    • @soupthesart
      @soupthesart ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Grayest_Fox ok chud also spell check exists contard

    • @Grayest_Fox
      @Grayest_Fox ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@soupthesart I wrote that on a PC, dumdum

  • @millisagingerich1248
    @millisagingerich1248 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    Them leaving the door open that’s a Hippa violation

  • @jesss2830
    @jesss2830 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    my mans really said "...thoughts?" 💀💀💀

  • @fancypants2007
    @fancypants2007 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +41

    "Ashley" was originally a male name.
    In the US, usage of Ashley for baby girls started increasing in the 1920s and 1930s, though it remained more common for boys. By the 1940s and 1950s, the name was becoming more popular for girls than boys. The 1960s marked a pivotal shift when Ashley became overwhelmingly more popular for baby girls than baby boys.

    • @bigboss9817
      @bigboss9817 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thank you Ashley

    • @kirtisingh4428
      @kirtisingh4428 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😂😂😂​@@bigboss9817

  • @robinrogowski1632
    @robinrogowski1632 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I have lived being a Hermaphrodite all my life, At lease her family did not bail on her, like mine did, and still does.

    • @MuddHubb-e6y
      @MuddHubb-e6y 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Without unconditional love it's a LIVING NIGHTMARE!

    • @bettyjackson6289
      @bettyjackson6289 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My heart goes out to you. (Believer in Christ here. Bible reading brought me to this topic many years ago - Matthew 19:12. My question: how does this individual stand before The Creator? How can they find their identity in Christ when their identity in the body is in question?) I did great research back then to understand. This broke my heart concerning the well being of the individual, to the point I wanted to start a support group for these very special individuals - Identity Found. My husband didn't understand and I kept banging into the transgender groups. They have no idea.
      I hope you have found balance within and are able to be the wonderful person you are. Many blessings upon you. 🤗 (HUGS)

  • @jrzygurl
    @jrzygurl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I am absolutely shocked the door was open I am shocked that Ashley didn't have the right to refuse all the medical doctor students in there during that particular examination... you can refuse that

  • @peachygal4153
    @peachygal4153 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    Isn't the correct term intersex? I also agree Ashely should be given time to decide if they want to be male or female since nature made them both.

    • @KeniQilin
      @KeniQilin ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Ashley has what I think is a condition called male pseudohermaphroditism/androgen insensitivity syndrome, she's biologically a bloke but is resistant to testosterone.

    • @TheBoneVampire
      @TheBoneVampire ปีที่แล้ว +3

      No

    • @SentaiYamaneko
      @SentaiYamaneko ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Yes, that's correct. True hermaphroditism is physically impossible in humans. This is what's called an intersex condition.

    • @kathrinlindern2697
      @kathrinlindern2697 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KeniQilin in that case, her body would never develop into a "man's", and even treatment with testosterone would not result in a male body.

    • @SomiaDz
      @SomiaDz ปีที่แล้ว +35

      ​@@KeniQilin I think she has a "5 alpha reductase deficiency", not androgen insensitivity. Her body is sensitive to androgens but it can't turn testosterone to DHT, that's why she had female organs at birth (DHT is necessaryto develop male organs).
      But after puberty, her body started making a lot more androgens that were able to change her organs' appearance. This syndrome is even referred to as "they turn into men" syndrome.

  • @AkiWasHere
    @AkiWasHere ปีที่แล้ว +235

    The term is intersex. I am intersex. Show some respect and empathy for people who go trough such stuff. Life its hard enough no need from other to be bad.

    • @Seoulmoonrhee
      @Seoulmoonrhee ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yeah was gonna comment that hermaphrodite isn't the correct term, but you (deservedly) did it first!

    • @AkiWasHere
      @AkiWasHere ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah thanks for knowing the correct term i think it means a lot to those who are intersex@@Seoulmoonrhee

    • @oliollie8312
      @oliollie8312 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are brave to say that.

    • @ready2768
      @ready2768 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agreed

    • @Asha2820
      @Asha2820 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Agree. The term 'Hermaphrodite' has a proper use in biology. A hermaphrodite is an individual which produces two types of gametes (e.g. apple trees). True hermaphroditism has never been documented in humans.
      Intersex is a catch-all term for various conditions (generally developmental) which result in mixed or atypical presentation of sex characteristics, or for the people with such conditions.
      To call an intersex person a hermaphrodite isn't just insensitive, it's scientifically inaccurate. 😋

  • @severedlightning
    @severedlightning 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    1 of my best friends has this condition, i always thought it was rare but its a lot more common than people believe

  • @Serxna22
    @Serxna22 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    i stayyy watching these short clips of MD i love it

  • @parkerteo8708
    @parkerteo8708 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    The endocrinologist is fucking hilarious even if it is unintentional 🤣

    • @onawal931
      @onawal931 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I thought he approached everything very matter-of-factly. No need to have drama.

    • @Ezio_1907
      @Ezio_1907 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@onawal931issue was he didn't consider how his mannerism could affect Ashley.

    • @MsDisneylandlover
      @MsDisneylandlover 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I see one of those I have hyper thyroid.

  • @jones2277
    @jones2277 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    you don't have to be intersex to think all the pomp and frills are so fake.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@lila2986 go away. you're the one judging. the video makes it seem like because someone isn't into that it makes them less feminine. newsflash, not every woman cares for that.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lila2986 hush.

    • @sandrajayandran
      @sandrajayandran ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@jones2277 somebody's knickers are in a twist

    • @peachygal4153
      @peachygal4153 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@lila2986 You are both wrong being judgmental. Some women ae Girly girls and some aren't. There is nothing wrong with being either. It is you own taste in what you like.

    • @thepinkestpigglet7529
      @thepinkestpigglet7529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some women, men and enbeys like frills and sparkles, some don't.

  • @catbeara
    @catbeara 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    "Thoughts?" had me cracking up 😂

    • @marshallross3373
      @marshallross3373 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ya, that was the best line in the whole clip. LOL

  • @dexter5653
    @dexter5653 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    "How did they get in there?" 😆 🤣 😂

  • @JabamiLain
    @JabamiLain 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    That description of how that transformation would happen fascinated me. The human body is amazing and terrifying at the same time.
    That's one of the likely reasons why I couldn't be a doctor. I lack the empathy to look beyond biology and psychology. To see the person.

    • @TheKrispyfort
      @TheKrispyfort 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Surgical specialist then

  • @aborne
    @aborne 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Famous character actress Margo Martindale was in this episode. That automatically makes it awesome.

    • @randolfo1265
      @randolfo1265 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is one of the Modern Greats!

  • @shanekilpatrick3378
    @shanekilpatrick3378 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I can’t believe that “dad”! You support and love your children forever dufus

  • @Kalvain14
    @Kalvain14 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Why were the door and curtain open when the doctors where gawking at her? Producers miss huge details, but that was pretty bad.

    • @astrinymris9953
      @astrinymris9953 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This was often the reality for intersex kids, sans the open door. Doctors would gather in groups to look at children's privates in the guise of "education" for the physicians, often without even bothering to ask for the parent's permission, let alone the child's.

  • @ameliaflynnhayes
    @ameliaflynnhayes ปีที่แล้ว +25

    That was not what she was expecting. It was nice of her to Kind to Ashley.

  • @underarmbowlingincidentof1981
    @underarmbowlingincidentof1981 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    "How did they get in there." LMAOOOO

  • @JennaSakura
    @JennaSakura 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I would’ve been like “CUT IT OFF!” 😂

  • @RokkitGrrl
    @RokkitGrrl ปีที่แล้ว +14

    She was awesome as Samara in The Ring.

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lilo

    • @FaithTheSlayer
      @FaithTheSlayer 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sparkle Motion

  • @JosephL-uc4tf
    @JosephL-uc4tf 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    The best of both worlds! 🙂

  • @_haitian_barbie_
    @_haitian_barbie_ 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is so sad! I feel bad for anyone that has to go through this!

  • @blackswan1983
    @blackswan1983 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was born with a DSD and doctors treated me that way.

  • @Katiriaa84
    @Katiriaa84 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    How did it end? I guess she didn't have a surgery..
    And that "boyfriend" is disguisting...

  • @shaunjeff45
    @shaunjeff45 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This kind of story is true, and these kind of people need praying for.

  • @imwade3
    @imwade3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    The door was open when the doctors were talking to the patient.

    • @leah6820-y9v
      @leah6820-y9v ปีที่แล้ว +10

      With her legs open! Shut the door!

  • @mnicrashSoren
    @mnicrashSoren 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    People know this is a show not a documentary right..... 😂😂

  • @ebayrose
    @ebayrose ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Lol. Saw the title and thought this was that episode from House MD. Different medical drama using the same plot.

    • @Illier1
      @Illier1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      There's only so many medical cases out there lol. I think every medical drama goes down this road.

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Intersex

  • @blue4t
    @blue4t ปีที่แล้ว +82

    Just because she doesn't like dressing up and wearing make-up doesn't mean she's a boy. Being a boy is not the only way to get out of a pageant.

    • @SomiaDz
      @SomiaDz ปีที่แล้ว +13

      She IS a boy genetically speaking. The choice of the sex is difficult in this case since the patient grew up as a girl and their choice should be taken into account. If they feel that they're a boy then they should be turned into a boy. It's the right decision imo in this case anyway because it would allow them to have biological children in the future (the opposite is not true if they were left as a girl).

    • @blue4t
      @blue4t ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@SomiaDz She has both hormones so she's no more a boy than she is a girl. The error in the writing is saying "she doesn't like makeup and all this girly stuff so she must be a boy." That doesn't make her a boy anymore than wanting to play football.

    • @SomiaDz
      @SomiaDz ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@blue4t ALL people have BOTH types of hormones to some degree, even people who are not intersex.
      I get what you're saying, but the fact that she doesn't like girly stuff is an indication that maybe she doesn't feel like a girl (not necessarily of course). We can't judge the whole script just from this clip. Maybe they explained how she feels more in the episode.

    • @blue4t
      @blue4t ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SomiaDzMaybe they didn't. The writing here is sloppy. You can argue about things that happen outside this video but in the context of this video it is sloppy.

    • @SomiaDz
      @SomiaDz ปีที่แล้ว

      @@blue4t I guess.

  • @domainmojo2162
    @domainmojo2162 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    That's one thing I've noticed... Hermaphrodites are extremely beautiful people. I've seen about 5 or 6 real-life episodes on TV over the years about them and they've always been a 10/10 in the beauty department.

    • @Pteromandias
      @Pteromandias 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Those are actors. Actors who are actually female.

    • @krashd
      @krashd 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Pteromandias Someone needs to explain to you what "real-life" means.

  • @JoybuzzerX
    @JoybuzzerX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    House MD did the same thing and made her "The most beautiful girl in the world" So Mercy basically does it to with "So beautiful she's in a beauty pageant"

  • @deeliciousplum
    @deeliciousplum 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gently sharing an opinion... What a world this would be if we all could celebrate our differences. Where people with beliefs and those who are hosts to no beliefs can be woven/drawn together and where, if the desire is there, we can share in exploring this thing we call life and the cosmos that surrounds us. I am a wishful dreamer. Reality is that it is easier to hate and it is easier to make metaphorical demons out of the parts of life that we may not feel comfortable with. Sigh. Much love to all those who are often in the crosshairs of our harmful/devaluing propensities. 🌸

  • @r.c.auclair2042
    @r.c.auclair2042 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Fabulous. This was already on House MD, February 20, 2006, "Skin Deep", 2nd season, 13th episode.

  • @TheKrispyfort
    @TheKrispyfort 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There's a village in South America where this is common and accepted as just one of those things that happen sometimes

  • @Valerius123
    @Valerius123 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Well, how'd they get in there!?" lmfao...

  • @MommaRose956
    @MommaRose956 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She needs to be who she is. I’m so tired of putting people into boxes.

  • @LoneWolf-oz2mq
    @LoneWolf-oz2mq ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I honestly hate labeling period. But in all honesty, we are labeled every single day of our lives, whether it is good labeling or bad, whether there is something wrong with us or not, some person may call you a bitch just because you are grumpy or laying down your boundaries. If you have a disorder or a mental illness or in this young person's case discovering you are a male rather than a female it is your choice and actions to choose how to take it.
    Whether we like it or not we will continue to be labeled; but will we tolerate it or not is the question. If you have BPD, you can accept the challenges and show the world that you aren't going to allow your disorder to ruin your life, but choose to educate people that just because you have it doesn't make you a bad person. We all go through our ups and downs, but we don't allow them to break us, we allow it to strengthen us.
    I think it is disgusting when parents and friends turn their backs on people who choose to accept what they were born with, or if they decide to change their sex, it is the person's choice and we can never understand what they are going through inside. My one sibling was born with both male and female parts, her mom and my dad decided since she was more female to let her be female. As an adult she could have decided to turn back to being a male but she didn't. Her mom and my dad would have accepted that change had she made it, I wish others were more accepting of this.

  • @marlow769
    @marlow769 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    If she’s just discovering it, how bad could it be?

  • @axel4196
    @axel4196 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Damn...This kid can go from Cheerleader to Linebacker.

    • @JFrazer4303
      @JFrazer4303 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lacking testosterone in the tween and teen years means that (s)he will be small later on. One of the smaller faster players.

  • @kbwaldron
    @kbwaldron ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I feel for any child that this happens to, especially since this is usually discovered before they are adult. They’ve not had the time to develop a mature, experienced mind. They will be beset by parents, friends, peers, and others who are also not prepared to deal with such a situation. With few exceptions, peers and friends will not be able to handle the situation and often will be brutal. Again, with very few exceptions, even the medical staff will be challenged to deal with such a situation. Often, worst of all, the parents will have long developed expectations of their child and can bring terrible pressure to bear. Sadly, a large majority of people will say it is the parents’ choice to make, but this is a choice with permanent, life-long ramifications. I believe there should be a requirement for a minimum period of counseling before a decision can be made, and that in the event the child and parents disagree, the parents not be allowed to force their opinion on the child. The child should be removed if the parents are found to be coercing the child. Parents do not own their children. I know many will vehemently disagree with me. So be it.

    • @RaptorFromWeegee
      @RaptorFromWeegee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Let the kid decide?! Thats what they're been doing with gender confused kids and look how THATS been working out.

    • @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman
      @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I am intersex formally know as hermaphrodite and I have Klinefelter Syndrome meaning that my chromosomes are XXY and I choose to appear as female because that's what my brain sees and eyes sees when I look at myself in a mirror and anyone who disagrees... oh well you can do whatever you want to me even kill me it won't change how my brain sees me and my heart feels all the drugs, surgeries and therapy won't change who I am I'm a woman you don't have to like it, agree or even deal with it because you're not living in my shoes I am so anyone who disagrees your opinion doesn't matter and if you don't like me and don't want to be friends well then that tells me you don't deserve me as friend and trust me folks ask anyone I'm the ride or die chick it's your loss besides there's over 8.5 billion people on earth I'm pretty sure I'll find some people that will accept me

    • @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman
      @EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@RaptorFromWeegeeno it's because you have people who think they can tell other people how to live and who to love and if they can have kids or not, you'll never understand because you'll never be in that position so I don't expect you to understand what's it like

    • @RaptorFromWeegee
      @RaptorFromWeegee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman I wasn't commenting on the LGB part of LGBT, I was commenting on just the "T" part. So it has nothing to do with "who they can love" or child baring.
      My point is that our current understanding of tran-ness is highly flawed. Theres been an unmistakable and long standing campaign of misinformation on the subject emanating from the elite. Clearly, our current treatment of gender is not working. Even with medical treatment and acceptance, theres still a very high suicide rate.
      John Hopkins Med School ended their sex change program a long time ago, because it was pseudo-scientific. Britain and Sweden recently banned sex changes for children. You tube is filled with kids who have detransitioned. They pour out their hearts in these heart wrenching videos.
      One by one, US states are banning transing children and I expect those bans will soon get expanded to adults as well. Bottom line, the current system is NOT producing good long term outcomes, so its got to change. You are what people perceive you to be.

    • @kbxbrdr
      @kbxbrdr 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@EllaCBWalkersSpokeswoman your thoughts and feelings should be based on scientific reality. you can't just state that something is something that which it is absolutely not. You can't call an octopus a dog, an asteroid an apple. Just say you like looking and acting like a woman. But you cannot say you are something you are not, unless it's evidence-based fact.

  • @porknbeans7420
    @porknbeans7420 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I was at Target for 20 minutes because I couldn't decide between straight or relaxed-fit jeans.

  • @arielbujnowski3340
    @arielbujnowski3340 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    How does this episode end?

  • @Cam-jv7qy
    @Cam-jv7qy 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She reminds me of my cousin. She went through the same thing. Her father forced her to stay a girl, and she took her own life shorty after the surgery.

  • @fishbone3333
    @fishbone3333 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    There was a House M.D. show with almost the same exact plot -- except the subject was a runway model, not a high school homecoming queen

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      This is a different situation, as she in this episode would respond to testosterone, if that's what she chooses. The other one had Complete Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome, meaning she would never become masculinized.

  • @Hihii-k6k
    @Hihii-k6k ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is like that House ep where the perfect woman is a man.

  • @jkwellness1639
    @jkwellness1639 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "How did they get in there?" 😂

  • @FullTimePatient37
    @FullTimePatient37 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Best nurse award 💪🏼 3:47 ♥️♥️♥️

    • @Beery1962
      @Beery1962 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Totally unrealistic though.

  • @chucklotro8749
    @chucklotro8749 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    0:50 how do you get this far in life w/o a medical professional discovering this medical condition?

    • @peepslostsheep
      @peepslostsheep 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Not as uncommon as you might think. Until fairly recently, most people with CAIS found out as teens or young adults.

  • @picklesgherkin
    @picklesgherkin 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    what I'd like to know is how the boyfriend found out. sure the heck wasn't for Mom and Dad or the doctors or nurses and I'm pretty sure it wasn't from Ashley

  • @Juli-xo1ce
    @Juli-xo1ce ปีที่แล้ว +51

    FYI: the current term for someone with Ashley's condition is INTERSEX but i guess that doesn't bait clicks quite like using the outdated, problematic, offensive term "hermaphrodite". Smh.

    • @ilmaio
      @ilmaio ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Stop rewriting language, history, moral. There is nothing offensive in the word hermaphrodite. You don't get to force people to talk as you like. Your feelings are your own personal business, deal with them.

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      ⁠​⁠@@ilmaio Yikes, so you don’t know how language works? Weird thing to flex about, but if you desperately need to use outdated words while watching your “stories”, do you, boo.

    • @Kahli21
      @Kahli21 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ilmaio The medical term is intersex and has been for some time now. Welcome to the 21st century.

    • @soxpeewee
      @soxpeewee ปีที่แล้ว +7

      How is the term hermaphrodite problematic and offensive? I can concern that the term intersex is a newer and more used term...but legitimately please explain.

    • @rlhicks1
      @rlhicks1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This episode was from 2009 and that's the word they used.

  • @johnhannibalsmith1607
    @johnhannibalsmith1607 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Thoughts?" 🤣!!!

  • @robinrogowski1632
    @robinrogowski1632 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    First I think the most important is to love yourself, and I mean, understand that you did nothing wrong.

  • @amyartwork22
    @amyartwork22 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Pretty sure they took this one from House MD!

    • @lexi219
      @lexi219 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Intersex people exist in real life

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Two totally different conditions!

  • @roseJ96
    @roseJ96 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    "Intersexual"? Never heard of that. Is that the correct term? I’ve always only ever heard "intersex."

  • @nickmontoya3001
    @nickmontoya3001 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    There was a show that had a similar thing going on where the doctors say "Barbie is actually Ken"

  • @chuckclark9464
    @chuckclark9464 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How do I find the rest of the story I want to know the ending.

  • @erictaylor5462
    @erictaylor5462 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's rough when you work up a good strong mad, then realize the person you are mad at isn't wrong.
    But dealing with rough things in a mature way is the difference between being an adult and being childish.
    It may be rough to admit the other side is right and you have been wrong, especially when you are angry, But it makes you look really good if you can quench the anger and say, "I'm sorry for getting angry. You are right. I couldn't see it before, now I do."

  • @zandorvorkov7257
    @zandorvorkov7257 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "How did they get in there?" 🤣

  • @1978Lucent
    @1978Lucent 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This tv show has never been broadcasted overhre in belgium europe - not sure if it does somewhere else ?

  • @mlong1958
    @mlong1958 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think House did this episode much better.

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They were completely different conditions.

  • @AshleyOden-vs5dh
    @AshleyOden-vs5dh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The girl in this is named Ashley and my name is Ashley! 😃

  • @hectorestrada3764
    @hectorestrada3764 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So here is a great revelation,”so what!!”

  • @Alphoric
    @Alphoric ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Didn’t house md have almost the exact same storyline

    • @finnstewart4747
      @finnstewart4747 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, they could've at least gone with a different intersex condition, there's plenty to choose from.

    • @Pteromandias
      @Pteromandias 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@finnstewart4747 There aren't that many.

    • @michaelmatthews5814
      @michaelmatthews5814 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@finnstewart4747 'Plenty to chose from' Enlighten me, please.

    • @randolfo1265
      @randolfo1265 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Pteromandias - How many are there?

  • @matrasia
    @matrasia 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    3time a medical show is doing this plotline😂😂😂

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So? Intersex people do exist.

  • @AndreaWondergem
    @AndreaWondergem 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's traumatizing. No way around it.

  • @GeoStreber
    @GeoStreber ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The same condition was shown in a House episode. Also for a beauty pageant contestant.

    • @rasverixxyleighraq1509
      @rasverixxyleighraq1509 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No it was a different condition called, Complete Androgen Insensitivity Syndrome CAIS but internal testicles too. But it won't cause eventual masculinisation

    • @RKingis
      @RKingis ปีที่แล้ว +3

      The doctor in this clip said she would respond to testosterone, thus not AIS.

    • @rasverixxyleighraq1509
      @rasverixxyleighraq1509 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@RKingis yes it's 5-alpha reductase deficiency

    • @chyndb
      @chyndb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Model not a beauty pageant

  • @howardmaryles9158
    @howardmaryles9158 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That doc with a lomp is evil!

  • @dietotaku
    @dietotaku ปีที่แล้ว +64

    title should say "intersex," nobody uses the word "hermaphrodite" anymore.

    • @jones2277
      @jones2277 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      in 2009, most laypeople would say that.

    • @budbuddybuddest
      @budbuddybuddest ปีที่แล้ว +8

      No, we should *not* go back and re-title or re-word one single word of any book or movie or anything written prior to today. That's the Thought Police. Yes, strive for a better new society but be careful about making words taboo; you might instead get a Brave New World (Huxley) or a 1984 (Orwell). Both books should be required reading for every human. And re-read every decade.

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It is the medical term. No?

    • @augustible9151
      @augustible9151 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Noa...... For animals, not so much humans really

    • @Noa......
      @Noa...... ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@augustible9151 Humans are classified as mammals (i.e. vertebrate animals).

  • @victoriapianco9417
    @victoriapianco9417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What is the part 2??

  • @gillianomotoso328
    @gillianomotoso328 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If we were less transphobic the events portrayed in this episode would barely even be an issue.

  • @baronghede2365
    @baronghede2365 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The whole episode got me stuck.

  • @dianagonsalves
    @dianagonsalves ปีที่แล้ว +15

    There is a similar case is HouseM.D where a model is diagnosed to have male features. House says at the end- the perfect woman is a man.

    • @thepinkestpigglet7529
      @thepinkestpigglet7529 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What a horrible thing to say

    • @dianagonsalves
      @dianagonsalves ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thepinkestpigglet7529 nothing horrible. It was a statement. He had admired her as a woman throughout the episode and when they discovered she had male parts, he made that statement

  • @Leto2ndAtreides
    @Leto2ndAtreides 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pretty much all the conversations and behaviors in this are strange. The nurse also fails to make the important point, "She's never felt like a girl or wanted to be one."
    Given the situation, it may as well be allowed to be played out.

  • @Tpwkbae
    @Tpwkbae ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Where can I see more of this

  • @lisag5002
    @lisag5002 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Does anyone have spoilers???

  • @The-Rose-and-the-Cross
    @The-Rose-and-the-Cross ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Kind of feels like they ripped off House MD (although I get the patients had different conditions).
    On another note, why does the actress playing the chief seems familiar?

    • @brandonallen3808
      @brandonallen3808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She's been in a ton of movies. Most recently Cocaine Bear.

    • @The-Rose-and-the-Cross
      @The-Rose-and-the-Cross ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brandonallen3808 Thank you. I looked her up after reading this, and realised I remembered her from _A Gifted Man_

  • @HulklingsBoyfriend
    @HulklingsBoyfriend ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A bit of a rough way to discuss intersex people.

    • @SkyeID
      @SkyeID 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      a downright disrespectful way to discuss intersex people!

  • @seanmc7128
    @seanmc7128 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This episode was hilarious!! 😂

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan หลายเดือนก่อน

    “Mercy” would have been killing this episode before it was shot. 🤦‍♂️

  • @thedoctor401
    @thedoctor401 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I feel like im in a time loop i swear this has happened before

  • @edwinli7977
    @edwinli7977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She is Gorgeous 😍