I want to clarify that these are just displayed picts for my content and they are copied right images. I would never expose someone like that and that’s not the right thing to do🥺. I also mentioned this in my description. I appreciate your concern ♥️ love. Js
@@JRprice25 you deleted my comment. Bro nothing bad. Honestly ppl if lgbt want to be happy. I’m dating a women . Bro my older brother who died in 2011 was gay. I always express my sexuality. There’s so much resources, if you want to look up lgbt free look up resources in Miami, ATL, HOUSTON, DALLAS,NYC and CALIFORNIA..you would be good. Trust me. And please research lgbt history .. if it was for gay men in the 80s.. acceptance wouldn’t be. PERIOD.
@@The_official_jaijaimmmmkay! It’s storytelling and adds drama. If it’s the actual photos then he’s an idiot. Pretty sure it would violate TH-cam terms but who knows 🤷🏻♂️
same exact situation happened to me. Me: 27 y/o male, Him: 30 y/o male. Met on the orange app. Started talking. Seemed like a nice guy. Wasn't discreet but he told me he was bisexual. Things were going well. Went on a few dates and even slept over at his place on more than one occasion. After 2 months of dating, he told me that he is starting to fall deeply in love with. He said he wanted to be honest with me and told me that he has a wife in another province and has two boys. He tried justifying it by saying that his wife and he doesn't mind marrying me and his wife. I didnt believe him. I was so heartbroken but more I felt disgust. Disgusted that I am coming between two people. Not just two people, but bwtween them and God. Saw myself as a home wrecker. Really hated myself after that. I blocked him. He came to my place after and told me that he was willing to leave his wife for. I then realised that im not the problem, he is! Told him to please not bother me again. I was done with him. But I still hated myself. Felt sorry for the family. Really messed up
Thank you for sharing love. It’s def hard to explain when it comes to feelings. Wish things could have been cleared at the beginning so we all don’t have to go some type of ways. Stay healthy ♥️🙌🏼
You should not feel bad about anything,you've done nothing wrong, so he was never upfront with you from the get go,so don't even feel guilty about it at all, you did yourself a good favour by leaving the situation relationship, he was or is in denial about his sexuality.
@@ItsJonsizzle I'm your big fan,keep up the Good work, i really enjoy your videos because you are your Aunthentic self and very considerate of other people's feelings,and so very humble,kindhearted person.
This video is total bs. The family photo at minute 7:44 was taken from online. Just google "Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio" and go by images. Scroll down and you'll start seeing the pic (which is up for sale as a stock image).
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Good topic and you did the right thing cutting it loose. So the take away from this is to ask the direct questions are you married and do you have kids. Most men will be honest because they know it could cause problems later or it could surface at the wrong time.
@@serenityq26 he met him without seeing a picture first and not finding someone attractive doesn’t fall under the “lack of morals” reasons. I get where you are coming from and in general you aren’t wrong HOWEVER I’m the most honest person I’ll ever meet and having someone to share life’s journey with was all I hoped for. It’s simply not something that guys want or have respect for. Not sure why you think caring about looks shouldn’t be important but if you are able to fk anything don’t hold it against attractive people I define unicorn and yep my Grindr profile has a unicorn tag 💯
I been through a very similar situation. But my ending was very different. After my calling it off just as you did, he wouldn’t accept that and continued to pursue me. He knew where I worked and would come by so that we could eat lunch together. One evening, he insisted on coming by my place, and well, things happened. When he was leaving, I told him I definitely will not be doing this again and we must make a clean break. He agreed, or so I thought. That guy left his wife after telling her about us. Somehow, I don’t to this day know how, she found me. I explained everything to her from start to finish. I did leave out that last encounter. There was no need to rub anything more on her. We never spoke again. This guy texted still wanting to talk. I refused to to respond. He finally let up after nearly three weeks. Soon after, I moved, so not to have him dropping by my place. I got a job offer right after moving without even searching. I got lucky and didn’t hear from him again. I forgot to add, yes you are right about us all having these straight man files. I had encounters before him even, but willingly with single men. Or most likely DL men as I always assumed. Was full of surprises with the things they did, ummm. So, I never felt guilty then. I’ll leave that there.
Great story. What matters most is that you did the correct thing for yourself. If your decision makes you feel comfortable, then you did the correct thing. It doesn't matter what people on here think. You know in your own gut if you were right or not.
I don't see the issue, his profile said he was straight curious. He told you he was married...you didn't think that could be a possibility? Nothing to feel guilty about. You did what you felt was best for you. I've been in a few FWB situations with married guys, long term, there were no emotional ties or expectations of being anything more than what it was.
Because that's not moral. Its no different from a gay dude whose cheating with another. Some people just feel guilty nevertheless because they do care what would happen if the other person got to know.
@@Melarona23 HE DIDNT CARE! IF IT WAS SOMETHING HE VALUED THEN IT WOULD BE ASKED AND CLARIFIED. NOT ONLY DID HE NOT CARE, HE GENERALLY ASSUMES A GUY IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY WHEN HE HOOKS UP WITH THEM. LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN VALUES AND MORALS
@JRprice25 nice try but no. Its about time gay people stop giving excuses to not give a shit about others. Sleeping with married men knowing that they are married is immoral.
@@Melarona23so it’s the gay guys fault and not the one who made the vows? ANYWAYS! As far as all the other ignorant and incorrect comments you flapped your lips about, know what the hell you’re talking about before you add your BS. Who TF you “nice trying”? I didn’t praise hm or support him. I stated what was said, period! Not interested in whatever you manufacture .
This video is total bs. The family photo at minute 7:44 was taken from online. Just google *"Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio"* and go by images. Scroll down and you'll start seeing the pic (which is up for sale as a stock image).
Hi Jon, thank you for sharing. You totally did the best thing. It ultimately comes down to your happiness. Though you were mislead by him and you took the higher road by thinking of his family. Very proud of you for doing that. New subscriber here to your channel. Look forward to seeing and hearing more of your life. Have a wonderful and a beautiful day. 🏳️🌈
He's the one who chose to unzip his fly, and disregard his wedding vows. If it hadn't been with you, he would have cheated with another guy. HOWEVER, my personal philosophy is to steer clear of these "straight curious" types. I feel sorry for the wife and kids ... that's just me.
You don’t know anything about his relationship with his wife or what they choose to allow in their marriage. Him being married doesn’t mean he was “cheating” and it didn’t matter if he was in a relationship for this guy. Period
correct, we don’t know anything about his relationship with his wife, but the fact that he’s on a gay hookup app being discreet (not having a profile photo) is enough to at least say he’s being secretive. Also, even if they were in an open marriage/poly relationship, he should’ve been straight up about it instead of just dropping the fact that he has a family.
@@johnathanburton6043 I have nothing to hide and i don’t have pics on my profile. If I want someone to see them then I send them. This guy assumed he was in a relationship with a guy and didn’t care nor did he have any concern what the situation was because 🐓 was all that mattered. IF it was something he felt strongly about he would have asked in the begging, period
Cool. As a gay man, I've been with a couple of straight men. One guy was engaged to be married. I found out years later that he did marry and had two kids. I was with him for a few months, but broke it off because I started having deeper feelings for him. We liked each other a lot, but I knew he wasn't going to give up his straight relationship. Looks like I was right. In retrospect, he was probably bisexual, but neither of us knew it.🙂
@@Scene68 Yeah, it’s really hard to not have feelings for a straight man. One reason is when he appears to be courting you it’s sexy and unique. If he’s single, why not walk that path with him. And every so called “straight” man are not just tops. They will, however, reject that from a feminine gay. One guy told me it’s like a girl with a dick. No offense to any Trans person, whom I truly respect. But sex with a trans is different, for lack of a better word. Nowadays, we are finding more and more trans men without bottom surgery, in mainstream porn. It does disturb me to see it, that’s on me so I work to find it for what it is, completely harmless. And it is harmless. But it still give me the feeling of sexual relations with a female where I would have trouble. But damn they become the cutest, and extremely handsome men. So there newly classified status to be he/him is worthy of their titles and name change. I do find it hard not wanting to kiss a trans man, a full on tongue kissing explosion.
If the link didn't publish, go on Google and in the search bar put: "Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio" and just scroll down and you will see.
There are plenty of “straight “ fish in the sea, and they aren’t married with 2 cute little kids that love them. You did the absolute right thing thing! I’m new and you’re sweet and cute and funny ! I subscribed, liked and am giving you a from the heart comment 🩵💜🤍💚🖤💙🩶🫶Zane 😘
You absolutely did the right thing. Do not feel guilty. You did nothing wrong. I've been with a married guy with kids. It does not end well! Your guy didn't give you the option of saying no way, he was not honest with you. You did nothing wrong!
You definitely did the right thing breaking it off. No one wants a cheater and liar who puts his wife and family at risk. However, where you made a poor choice was having an intimate relationship with someone you barely knew to begin with. People, both gay and straight, make this choice far too often and it usually turns out badly whether or not a marriage or commitment to some third party is involved. That’s all I’ll say. I’m waiting for the “free sex” police to show up any moment as it is.
Almost. This guy messaged me from a certain site. He saw me in the locker room at the gym and recognized me from this site (rated PG, mind you LOL). He was pretty aggressive. So I eventually suggested we go for drinks. His response was "Married". I stopped all communication. He kept going and he would facetime me on a daily basis from his work (with other people in his office - was very strange). And he was in great shape and very rich, but I didn't go any further.
A gay 59 year old male I tend to be 'old fashion' I suppose. NO Bi's they get to play the fence and hurt both sides. NO married gay or straight, not wanting to be the reason of any breakup. Honesty is still the best policy and if someone is willing to step out to be with "you" then you know damn well they would do it again while with you.
I would say that as mentioned before you didn’t know because he wasn’t upfront. I would say be mindful that sometimes your friendship is so meaningful for a person to have someone to have conversations with to whom they can relate to. Now you’re sound aware of your feelings and thoughts and sounds like you’re just trying to protect your peace. Truly if you can be a friend? Be a friend. The amount of trust that has been built is already there. Do consider the strictly platonic friendship only if you know how to keep your mentality balanced.
Greetings from Paris France ! My name is Razvan and your story touched me. I consider you absolutely correct, maybe if you have got down to business right away, it would have gone different. BUT, to my opinion, he was very wrong to describe himself as 'straight curious ', AND ÙSE THE PICS OF HIS WIFE AND KIDS. That's what I don't accept. Been with several 'straight' men, but had sex first and talked after. And we continue to see each other from time to time. Best regards and let time pass... this is all I can say...💖
It would have been better if he'd brought up the whole family thing a lot earlier! I was a bartender at a gay night club, and single most of that time. I've been with a couple of "straight" guys that came in for a "look around." I knew my customers and could tell the newly out guys from the "sexually curious" ones. "IF" we hit it off and I got no bad vibes I'd ask if they wanted to hang out while I closed up. This is when I'd find out about spouses and kids. My encounters were strictly hook ups. Three of these guys I saw a few times. But I KNEW there wasn't going to be anything more then some conversation and heavy sex. I never felt like the "other woman" because I wouldn't let anything develop, and I very open about what I was looking for....in a permanent relationship. And that includes that my partner wouldn't be on the DL and stepping out on his wife and family. I feel you did the proper thing with Jonathan. Maybe, as I said earlier, if he was up front about the wife and kids then you could have based a relationship with that knowledge. If a man, or woman, wants to "step out", that's on them! Knowing about his family....you might have been better able to establish a better friendship that may have included some sexual experiences. But he let it go on too long before dropping that bomb shell. This video just popped up. I'll take a look at some of your earlier videos. And I'll subscribe and follow your journey.
I never dated a gay person in my life all the guys I did it was straight I didn't go out looking for that it just happened I don't know why but great guys like me and I like them❤
@@lamma746he asked all the questions that mattered and family values wasn’t on that list! It wasn’t important and only got brought up because the guy brought it up. Period!
@@randysiler5551 he wasn’t a “liar” and you’re assuming he was being a “cheater” I guarantee him being married wouldn’t have stopped this guy from sleeping with him first of all and you don’t know anything about what his relationship is with his wife and to what extent she has any knowledge of what he was doing. The guy never gave any indication that anyone was concerned about his whereabouts when they hung out so don’t jump to conclusions. What’s disgusting is this guy finds it ok to sleep with a guy who’s cheating if he’s with another guy and felt bad that he was with a women and wanting to explore a curiosity with the same sex.
Hi kiddo, I don't know why you are feeling guilty. After all, you are not the one with the wife and the kids. And you are not the one married with a family, so don't let that guilt you.
You have every right to feel the way you feel. You have a heart and a moral center that is your guide through your life. You are not a home-wrecker. He was not honest in the beginning about his family life. It’s ok for him to be curious, but he’s wrong for using you for his personal exploration with a man. You most definitely did the right thing. Please take care of yourself. 🏳️🌈😍👏🏽❤️
Happened to stumble across your story and decided to throw in my 2 cents. Long, long ago in a time where Grindr, Scruff, or any type of social media didn't exist, I met a great guy. We started dating and everything was great, I mean the guy even cooked dinner for me! On one of our dates, we went to see some Motown act at a small venue. The next thing I know, he's saying "Oh shit!" so I asked him why and he told me that's my wife with my youngest son. I was speechless (at least until then) and he said he needed to talk to her and I just kind of sat there with my mouth open. After she and the boy left, I asked him to take me home because yeah, we needed to talk. Once home, I said, WTF? Told me that technically he was still married, albeit, separated but still living together (yup, another WTF? moment)and that he had 2 kids (boy and girl) and an older step-son. Also told me that they were getting a divorce (I mean, come on!). A few weeks later, I get a call from him saying that the divorce was final and would I consider dating again. He then tells me I can prove it. I said okay, prove it. He came over about 30 minutes later with their divorce decree (I was actually shocked and surprised, I liked the guy). We were together for almost 20 years until he died from renal cancer. Even now, I still think about him. But to answer your question, NO you are not at fault and did the best thing for you. Never give up and keep your moral compass. Everyone reacts differently to similar situations, but how they react is really none of our business (unless it's actually towards us, and then it's our choice how we respond).
Great Story Jon!. I have had a number of close, intimate... and sexual relationships with straight-identified men...before they were married. I am still fiends with two of them, but no longer sexually intimate in any ways. The friendships continue to endure. Consider NOT to beat yourself up with guilt. Sometimes such relationships happen before you really know much about the other man. I would hope with your future straight men encounters, you get to know more about this new partner before you inadvertently compromise some of values that you hold dear. Some of my more solid relationships have been with straight men, married and not.
Honey it just shows that you have a conscience, and by pulling yourself away from this situation, you probably saved yourself from a lot of pain and heartache in the future with this man. Trust me dear, I've had my share of being with "Straight Men," before. Being that I am a Transgender Woman lol. So you will feel good about this decision down the road. Loved your story btw... 😉
When you mentioned he held your hand, that tells me he enjoyed your company a lot. I have been in your situation and I had a similar reaction. I did not agree with the relationship. So we did not continue. You are probably not the first or last boyfriend he met. I am surprised he sent that picture to you. That is confusing.
Hey Jon,I’m a new follower,how are you?Im Rhys from the UK 🇬🇧!I say you gotta go with what you want,if you feel uncomfortable don’t go with it.Plus you are sooo beautiful 😍 ❤ you could have anyone ❤❤❤
You shouldn't feel guilt at all, but because you're a good person, you do. He knew, exactly, what he did. Typical straight/curious man behavior. I say that to say I'm still heartbroken over a similar situation. But they don't care, otherwise it wouldn't of been done or continued as long as it did. You know your situation better than anyone can ever tell you. My advice is to be very careful. Regardless if they are gay, bi, straight, ect. You did the right thing. When the heart gets involved, that's when things get tricky.
As an older man who has met many married men, it’s called life! There are huge numbers of married men out there, they mostly not going to leave their wives and families, so you take from it what you want and what suits you. But I have made some wonderful power friendships from such situations. Often the passion fades and is replaced with genuine love and regard. They continue to have their separate lives as do you.
@@JustinJohn-j4r once lovers are now close friends. They still have their families, I still my singularity. No damage was done, no harm. But having shared intimacy and affection, whilst the intimacy may fade, or disappear, the friendship remains.
You made the correct decision ending things with that man after he told you he had a family. It’s hard, and it sucks, but you made the correct decision
I don't understand why you feel wrong and guilty for someone else's wrong doing especially that you didn't know. He is to blame not you. However, if you had continued seeing him, it would have been morally awry.
Well at least he was upfront eventually. Pretty sure this guy I was with was living with a girlfriend or wife but tried to get me to believe it was a male roomate which is why I could only come visit him at certain times.
Why should you feel guilty?… He initiated the relationship online… You ended it knowing that he has a wife and two kids… finally. Since that’s something you did NOT expect and we’re not prepared to handle, you DID DO the right thing. ….. Trust yourself and your instincts….
You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't know of his situation and when you found out, you left. You showed greater respect towards his vows than he did. Free your conscience and know that you did nothing wrong. When you knew, you acted and created boundaries. Good for you!
He didn’t tell you from the start, so don’t feel bad about it. Now that you know about him you can respectfully move on. It’s good that he was honest, and did tell you about his family. You guys did the do, and started to lead to having feelings. Though It’s hard to make someone available when you’re having feelings, and they are in a “committed” relationship. 😢
like i mentioned in the video, I def wouldnt be shocked if i see pict of him with a different man because it happens all the time😅 and same with if i only know he's with a woman but seeing his " family picture" triggered me😵💫
Hi i use to ask guys are they married or had girl friend and they all lie,i stop asking that question.I am single and love it,,,,,,,dealing with the guys lies and drama i have had enough.
Look guys humans crave human emotions touch love and many other things. It happened, it happens. More times than you or anyone can count. If you are up front with each other from the get go. Then the guilt would not be there. Yes he is married with kids, you are a single person. Just let it go, and embrace the fact that you had a good human experience with another human. Straight men are human men as well. We all crave love and affection. I love you for sharing and as you say just keep smiling.
Damn, sorry to hear what happened but please try not carry any guilt anymore. You did the right thing by backing away. Sadly, he is probably still doing this behind his family's back.
You shouldn't feel guilty cause you didn't know he was married with kids, and once you knew you ended it. You actually did the right thing, so don't beat yourself up for this.
This guy is like me, I will cry for a comment like this ! FYI SCREENSHOT and added to my video! He will erase my comment! One thing I learned , Don’t take it personal unless it’s about you. I’m popular on TIKTOK but was doing an experiment on TH-cam that takes things personal. This dude is innocent. However I anyone that flirts with the same sex is bi-curious, bi or gay. They aren’t straight. If I was straight I don’t question what I like , I know because I wouldn’t question sexuality PERIOD. ANYONE that disagrees… 🌈
Alot of gay men would literally not give af... You're just bros that do bros things don't think to deep on it lol call it reallyy close friends ;) I have straight friends that i use to play with who eventually got married but were still friends and have been intimate here and there. Guess im messy ,😂
I don’t consider that type of situation cheating tbh….it’s innocent bro time without expectations or intentions. If you didn’t hook up you guys would still hang out and doesn’t jeopardize anyones feelings . Id much rather that then him fucking another chick for sure.
Honestly you’re not in the wrong in this situation, you didn’t know, he was in the wrong for not atleast divorcing the wife before he started experimenting with men. Men shouldn’t be having a family in the first place if they haven’t explored that option of being sexual with other men, that’s honestly unfair to the wife and the children. For all of you Bi/DL guys out there, please experiment before you get married and start a family 🙂
He knew he had a wife & 2 Children before U did : provided there were no "risky health issues" involved there is no guilt to be felt. If anyone was in any way putting his marriage at risk it was HIM : But I believe you did the right thing ...
Nothing wrong with being with him..2 adults hanging out and playing is cool. He’s making the choice and it’s good sex, stick with it. I’ve dated many married guys who are bi and their wives don’t know..for me it’s ok, he’s going to get it somewhere..why not with me. The sexy is AMAZING
I really feel for you; you did the right thing. He has his loving family, and I can't imagine how his wife will feel when she realizes the story. Well done, man, you are a good guy. Anyway , I'd like to give you brotherly advice. Please take down his and his family's photo and upload a new clip. It's quite obvious, and his acquaintances would recognize him easily. TH-cam clips last forever, and I think this would be the best way for you too.
Thank youuu for ur comment .♥️💪🏼 It’s just a displayed pict for my vid and a copied right image. I would never expose someone like that 😘thank you tho love♥️ appreciate you
I don’t understand why you needed to post his family’s pic with 2 kids on. I would never in my life out anyone like that. I don’t care if the person thinks he is straight, bi or the person is dealing with internalized homophobia. I would never ever out anyone like that😌😌😌
I wouldn't feel bad; I've been the third wheel in a few married guys' lives; the wife probably already knows and doesn't care anyway....that's how it was for me. It seems like once women have decided that they've had the number of kids that they want, they're completely done with sex, too. Men, on the other hand, never tire of sex, so they begin to seek it elsewhere. I have heard many women say that they don't care, it's just one less "chore" they're expected to do; they often have no problem with another man, but if their husband was seeing another woman, then it's ON, and they want to claw the other woman's eyes out....strange but true, I have seen this very scenario play out. A few years ago, this guy was checking me out at the grocery store; he started making small talk, then he disappeared. The next thing I knew, he was walking back over to me, with his pregnant wife in tow; you know what she asked me? "Are you gay? If you are, and you think my husband is attractive, would you consider taking care of his 'male needs' while I'm pregnant? I'm just so tired, and the LAST thing I want is to have to do THAT right now." I was floored!! The guy was really hot, so I agreed to be the "sexual surrogate," and everything was fine. She got pregnant 3 more times, and I happily played the stand-in, it's no big deal, and he still calls me from time to time and he comes over whenever he's in the mood for sex with another guy, sometimes with her dropping him off if one of their cars are down....she truly doesn't care; they know that I don't EVER want to get married to ANYONE ever again, so she doesn't have to worry about him leaving her, for me, anyway, so it works. He truly is bisexual, though, because he's ALWAYS been reciprocal. I think most guys are actually very fluid in their sexuality and it's just no big deal. We all played around sexually with our male playmates as kids, often well into our teens, and most guys remain open to it throughout their lives. This was the norm in Ancient Greece as well as Rome.
I met a “straight” man at a hotel once and we fooled around a bit, took a few things, then after fooling around and I was getting ready to leave he had me he has a wife and kids and I also just felt so bad. For his little babies, for his wife, and yes even a bit for himself. Because he’s not living in his truth and weather he knows it or not he’s hurting everyone involved to a certain degree. He wanted to see me again but I told him that I just wasn’t comfortable with that. I also told 😅him I hope he can one day be himself more. Gave him a little s*x toy that he had enjoyed as like a parting gift lol and left. All and all it was definitely an experience and I trusted my heart, and I’m glad you did too Jon! 🥰🩷✨ P.S: HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONEEE NOW GO GAY! 🌈🏳️🌈☺️
hey i don't think u had done anything to be guilty about the situation.it is more on him that he led u on by hanging out together, having a meal, sleeping over and did things a couple would experience. subconsciously u felt a connection with him until he threw u the curveball that he has a family. that was selfish of him to keep you around as a side thing!
I want to clarify that these are just displayed picts for my content and they are copied right images. I would never expose someone like that and that’s not the right thing to do🥺. I also mentioned this in my description. I appreciate your concern ♥️ love. Js
Thanks for clarifying!!! . Couldn’t believe people thought it was the actual photo.
I was ABOUT to say 😂
If a guy mess with you, he isn’t straight. He is either DL GAY OR ANYTHING BISEXUAL IS A THING SWEETY.
I don’t think it’d be wrong to expose the guy though. He was cheating on his wife..
@@JRprice25 you deleted my comment. Bro nothing bad. Honestly ppl if lgbt want to be happy. I’m dating a women . Bro my older brother who died in 2011 was gay. I always express my sexuality. There’s so much resources, if you want to look up lgbt free look up resources in Miami, ATL, HOUSTON, DALLAS,NYC and CALIFORNIA..you would be good. Trust me. And please research lgbt history .. if it was for gay men in the 80s.. acceptance wouldn’t be. PERIOD.
The way my jaw dropped when the picture showed up!!!! 😂😂😂😂We spilling all the tea this week. Haha. I love it.
You’re assuming that’s the actual photo 🙄
@@JRprice25 true. But he explained the picture then proceeded to show a picture. I think it’s a safe assumption. Lol
@@The_official_jaijaimmmmkay! It’s storytelling and adds drama. If it’s the actual photos then he’s an idiot. Pretty sure it would violate TH-cam terms but who knows 🤷🏻♂️
@@JRprice25 I hope they’re fake. 🙇🏽♂️🤷🏽♂️
The whole kettle was spilled
same exact situation happened to me. Me: 27 y/o male, Him: 30 y/o male. Met on the orange app. Started talking. Seemed like a nice guy. Wasn't discreet but he told me he was bisexual. Things were going well. Went on a few dates and even slept over at his place on more than one occasion. After 2 months of dating, he told me that he is starting to fall deeply in love with. He said he wanted to be honest with me and told me that he has a wife in another province and has two boys. He tried justifying it by saying that his wife and he doesn't mind marrying me and his wife. I didnt believe him. I was so heartbroken but more I felt disgust. Disgusted that I am coming between two people. Not just two people, but bwtween them and God. Saw myself as a home wrecker. Really hated myself after that. I blocked him. He came to my place after and told me that he was willing to leave his wife for. I then realised that im not the problem, he is! Told him to please not bother me again. I was done with him. But I still hated myself. Felt sorry for the family. Really messed up
Thank you for sharing love. It’s def hard to explain when it comes to feelings. Wish things could have been cleared at the beginning so we all don’t have to go some type of ways. Stay healthy ♥️🙌🏼
I'm calling BS on this. Fan fic at best and POORLY written fan fic at that
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I had a married guy wanting to experience a man. He had a child. I said I wasn’t interested as it would never end well.
you did the rigth thing. hope he eventually have the balls to put his life together and stop cheating on his wife
So posting his family’s pic on TH-cam is a right thing? Outing anyone is not cool, I thought we were in 2024 not 2008 anymore😌😌😌🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
it's obvious it probably is a stock photo lol this is the people that gets easily catfished on the app
You should not feel bad about anything,you've done nothing wrong, so he was never upfront with you from the get go,so don't even feel guilty about it at all, you did yourself a good favour by leaving the situation relationship, he was or is in denial about his sexuality.
U absol right. Thanks for ur comment love ♥️💪🏼
@@ItsJonsizzle I'm your big fan,keep up the Good work, i really enjoy your videos because you are your Aunthentic self and very considerate of other people's feelings,and so very humble,kindhearted person.
I just don’t understand how som… most gay men feel so much pride with being able to sleep with married men. But God forbid a woman does it
I feel you did the RIGHT thing ... always follow your "gut". It's hard, but you are a GOOD man!
I appreciate that ♥️💪🏼
Why do people keep seeing themselves as "bi-curious" or "sexually curious"
Just own up to your bisexuality, man
It's not like it's a choice, anyway
Because they "are"
They probably think admitting they're bi is shameful so they depict themselves as what they think less shameful
To these people, admitting themselves as bi is shameful, that's why the camouflage of being "bi-curious" lol
Ikr
This video is total bs. The family photo at minute 7:44 was taken from online. Just google "Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio" and go by images. Scroll down and you'll start seeing the pic (which is up for sale as a stock image).
Somebody’d better snatch Jonathan off the market. He is conscientious and considerate of others feelings.
thats why he is going after married men............
@@serenityq26 He didn't know? When he found out he pulled away.
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ Good topic and you did the right thing cutting it loose. So the take away from this is to ask the direct questions are you married and do you have kids. Most men will be honest because they know it could cause problems later or it could surface at the wrong time.
Thanks for sharing!!
You’re a unicorn! A gay man WITH MORALS. I like it.
nothing about this dude has morals. if he had morals he wouldnt be on grindr or care about looks...........
@@serenityq26 he met him without seeing a picture first and not finding someone attractive doesn’t fall under the “lack of morals” reasons. I get where you are coming from and in general you aren’t wrong HOWEVER I’m the most honest person I’ll ever meet and having someone to share life’s journey with was all I hoped for. It’s simply not something that guys want or have respect for. Not sure why you think caring about looks shouldn’t be important but if you are able to fk anything don’t hold it against attractive people
I define unicorn and yep my Grindr profile has a unicorn tag 💯
@@JRprice25slow guy, HE WAS ON GRINDR #1 JUS TO FUCC #2 A MARRIED MAN #3, are the morals in the chat room with us 🥷🏾
@@cjdavis9334he's one of those guys who wears the "i dated a straight guy, I'm so fuckable" gays.
I been through a very similar situation. But my ending was very different. After my calling it off just as you did, he wouldn’t accept that and continued to pursue me. He knew where I worked and would come by so that we could eat lunch together. One evening, he insisted on coming by my place, and well, things happened. When he was leaving, I told him I definitely will not be doing this again and we must make a clean break. He agreed, or so I thought. That guy left his wife after telling her about us. Somehow, I don’t to this day know how, she found me. I explained everything to her from start to finish. I did leave out that last encounter. There was no need to rub anything more on her. We never spoke again. This guy texted still wanting to talk. I refused to to respond. He finally let up after nearly three weeks.
Soon after, I moved, so not to have him dropping by my place. I got a job offer right after moving without even searching. I got lucky and didn’t hear from him again.
I forgot to add, yes you are right about us all having these straight man files. I had encounters before him even, but willingly with single men. Or most likely DL men as I always assumed. Was full of surprises with the things they did, ummm. So, I never felt guilty then. I’ll leave that there.
Thanks for sharing your story and Appreciate your kind words 💪🏼♥️
Great story. What matters most is that you did the correct thing for yourself. If your decision makes you feel comfortable, then you did the correct thing. It doesn't matter what people on here think. You know in your own gut if you were right or not.
NOT THE FAMILY PHOTO🫣🫣🫣
You didn’t do anything wrong, his lack of transparency is the issue. It’s nice to see your moral compass.
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I don't see the issue, his profile said he was straight curious. He told you he was married...you didn't think that could be a possibility? Nothing to feel guilty about. You did what you felt was best for you. I've been in a few FWB situations with married guys, long term, there were no emotional ties or expectations of being anything more than what it was.
Because that's not moral. Its no different from a gay dude whose cheating with another. Some people just feel guilty nevertheless because they do care what would happen if the other person got to know.
@@Melarona23 HE DIDNT CARE! IF IT WAS SOMETHING HE VALUED THEN IT WOULD BE ASKED AND CLARIFIED. NOT ONLY DID HE NOT CARE, HE GENERALLY ASSUMES A GUY IS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH ANOTHER GUY WHEN HE HOOKS UP WITH THEM. LEARN THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN VALUES AND MORALS
@JRprice25 nice try but no. Its about time gay people stop giving excuses to not give a shit about others. Sleeping with married men knowing that they are married is immoral.
@@Melarona23so it’s the gay guys fault and not the one who made the vows? ANYWAYS!
As far as all the other ignorant and incorrect comments you flapped your lips about, know what the hell you’re talking about before you add your BS. Who TF you “nice trying”? I didn’t praise hm or support him. I stated what was said, period! Not interested in whatever you manufacture .
I don’t believe in being with a “straight” guy.
I don't either
This video is total bs. The family photo at minute 7:44 was taken from online. Just google *"Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio"* and go by images. Scroll down and you'll start seeing the pic (which is up for sale as a stock image).
@@marklanders6833 I just saw it myself. What a liar.
This channel is freaking deceitful.
You did right. It's easy for someone to say" you shouldn't feel guilty", but it's so hard not to. I would feel the same as you do.🙂
thank you for your comment ❤
You are a very decent man. PERIOD
You are not a home wrecker. You were a side piece. The one in the marriage is the one wrecking the home.
A married man would never leave his wife for another man.......he was simply a cocksuker of the night😂😂
Hi Jon, thank you for sharing. You totally did the best thing. It ultimately comes down to your happiness. Though you were mislead by him and you took the higher road by thinking of his family. Very proud of you for doing that. New subscriber here to your channel. Look forward to seeing and hearing more of your life. Have a wonderful and a beautiful day. 🏳️🌈
He's the one who chose to unzip his fly, and disregard his wedding vows. If it hadn't been with you, he would have cheated with another guy. HOWEVER, my personal philosophy is to steer clear of these "straight curious" types. I feel sorry for the wife and kids ... that's just me.
You don’t know anything about his relationship with his wife or what they choose to allow in their marriage. Him being married doesn’t mean he was “cheating” and it didn’t matter if he was in a relationship for this guy. Period
correct, we don’t know anything about his relationship with his wife, but the fact that he’s on a gay hookup app being discreet (not having a profile photo) is enough to at least say he’s being secretive. Also, even if they were in an open marriage/poly relationship, he should’ve been straight up about it instead of just dropping the fact that he has a family.
@@johnathanburton6043 I have nothing to hide and i don’t have pics on my profile. If I want someone to see them then I send them. This guy assumed he was in a relationship with a guy and didn’t care nor did he have any concern what the situation was because 🐓 was all that mattered. IF it was something he felt strongly about he would have asked in the begging, period
I'm a "straight" guy. Been with a few men.
Right on, by enjoying and exploring your sexuality. Many more men straight or bi should do the same.
Cool. As a gay man, I've been with a couple of straight men. One guy was engaged to be married. I found out years later that he did marry and had two kids. I was with him for a few months, but broke it off because I started having deeper feelings for him. We liked each other a lot, but I knew he wasn't going to give up his straight relationship. Looks like I was right. In retrospect, he was probably bisexual, but neither of us knew it.🙂
@@mrxman581 Oh, man, that had to suck. One of the biggest pitfalls falling for a str8 curious guy.
@@Scene68 Yeah, it’s really hard to not have feelings for a straight man. One reason is when he appears to be courting you it’s sexy and unique. If he’s single, why not walk that path with him. And every so called “straight” man are not just tops. They will, however, reject that from a feminine gay. One guy told me it’s like a girl with a dick. No offense to any Trans person, whom I truly respect. But sex with a trans is different, for lack of a better word. Nowadays, we are finding more and more trans men without bottom surgery, in mainstream porn. It does disturb me to see it, that’s on me so I work to find it for what it is, completely harmless. And it is harmless. But it still give me the feeling of sexual relations with a female where I would have trouble. But damn they become the cutest, and extremely handsome men. So there newly classified status to be he/him is worthy of their titles and name change. I do find it hard not wanting to kiss a trans man, a full on tongue kissing explosion.
You’re not straight lol
Never entertain a married man, in fact, never to a man who supposedly in a relationship. That should be a standard.
You took the very words Right out of my mouth 👄
Guys, this video is BS. You can see the photo of the family that he used at minute 7:44 is actually a stock image that's online for sale:
If the link didn't publish, go on Google and in the search bar put: "Young family on vacation have a lot of fun travnikov studio"
and just scroll down and you will see.
@@marklanders6833 -- maybe cuz he doesnt want to show the real/actual pics?? dunno
@@brucemoose9587 But that would make no sense. He said that the photo he was showing _is_ the actual picture.
There are plenty of “straight “ fish in the sea, and they aren’t married with 2 cute little kids that love them. You did the absolute right thing thing! I’m new and you’re sweet and cute and funny !
I subscribed, liked and am giving you a from the heart comment 🩵💜🤍💚🖤💙🩶🫶Zane 😘
You absolutely did the right thing. Do not feel guilty. You did nothing wrong. I've been with a married guy with kids. It does not end well! Your guy didn't give you the option of saying no way, he was not honest with you. You did nothing wrong!
thank you for sharing and your kind words love❤
You definitely did the right thing breaking it off. No one wants a cheater and liar who puts his wife and family at risk. However, where you made a poor choice was having an intimate relationship with someone you barely knew to begin with. People, both gay and straight, make this choice far too often and it usually turns out badly whether or not a marriage or commitment to some third party is involved. That’s all I’ll say. I’m waiting for the “free sex” police to show up any moment as it is.
I'm on your side
It’s the total responsibility of the married man to protect and preserve the sanctity of his marriage, not you. 💝
Almost. This guy messaged me from a certain site. He saw me in the locker room at the gym and recognized me from this site (rated PG, mind you LOL). He was pretty aggressive. So I eventually suggested we go for drinks. His response was "Married". I stopped all communication. He kept going and he would facetime me on a daily basis from his work (with other people in his office - was very strange). And he was in great shape and very rich, but I didn't go any further.
Hey Jon, do u usually not responding on faceless profiles?
A gay 59 year old male I tend to be 'old fashion' I suppose. NO Bi's they get to play the fence and hurt both sides. NO married gay or straight, not wanting to be the reason of any breakup. Honesty is still the best policy and if someone is willing to step out to be with "you" then you know damn well they would do it again while with you.
wild story... your eyebrows are Everything!!!
I would say that as mentioned before you didn’t know because he wasn’t upfront. I would say be mindful that sometimes your friendship is so meaningful for a person to have someone to have conversations with to whom they can relate to. Now you’re sound aware of your feelings and thoughts and sounds like you’re just trying to protect your peace. Truly if you can be a friend? Be a friend. The amount of trust that has been built is already there. Do consider the strictly platonic friendship only if you know how to keep your mentality balanced.
Greetings from Paris France ! My name is Razvan and your story touched me. I consider you absolutely correct, maybe if you have got down to business right away, it would have gone different. BUT, to my opinion, he was very wrong to describe himself as 'straight curious ', AND ÙSE THE PICS OF HIS WIFE AND KIDS. That's what I don't accept. Been with several 'straight' men, but had sex first and talked after. And we continue to see each other from time to time. Best regards and let time pass... this is all I can say...💖
Highly doubt that family photo was the actual photo people🙄
Don't get involve w/ him! You will be a home wrecker. He will never leave his wife/kids family for you. You will end up w/ a broken heart!
Thank you for your comment ♥️💪🏼
@@JFox29 but some people are okay with that
It would have been better if he'd brought up the whole family thing a lot earlier!
I was a bartender at a gay night club, and single most of that time. I've been with a couple of "straight" guys that came in for a "look around." I knew my customers and could tell the newly out guys from the "sexually curious" ones.
"IF" we hit it off and I got no bad vibes I'd ask if they wanted to hang out while I closed up. This is when I'd find out about spouses and kids.
My encounters were strictly hook ups. Three of these guys I saw a few times. But I KNEW there wasn't going to be anything more then some conversation and heavy sex.
I never felt like the "other woman" because I wouldn't let anything develop, and I very open about what I was looking for....in a permanent relationship. And that includes that my partner wouldn't be on the DL and stepping out on his wife and family.
I feel you did the proper thing with Jonathan. Maybe, as I said earlier, if he was up front about the wife and kids then you could have based a relationship with that knowledge.
If a man, or woman, wants to "step out", that's on them! Knowing about his family....you might have been better able to establish a better friendship that may have included some sexual experiences. But he let it go on too long before dropping that bomb shell.
This video just popped up. I'll take a look at some of your earlier videos. And I'll subscribe and follow your journey.
I never dated a gay person in my life all the guys I did it was straight I didn't go out looking for that it just happened I don't know why but great guys like me and I like them❤
I loooooved this! So happy to see you be so open and enjoy yourself be comfortable opening up. 🩵u
Thank you love ♥️😍🫶🏼
You definitely did the right stuff with him!
You did the right thing. **HUG**
🥺hug thank you
That's why you should ask questions from the beginning.
I'm sure he asked appropriate questions in the beginning lol. No one expects a full family and i'm sure the man made sure to leave things out.
@@lamma746 If so then he found out he's both a liar and a cheater.
@@lamma746he asked all the questions that mattered and family values wasn’t on that list! It wasn’t important and only got brought up because the guy brought it up. Period!
that requires depth, intelligence and seriousness. he was just looking for "fun" and asked the only question that mattered "pictures" gross
@@randysiler5551 he wasn’t a “liar” and you’re assuming he was being a “cheater”
I guarantee him being married wouldn’t have stopped this guy from sleeping with him first of all and you don’t know anything about what his relationship is with his wife and to what extent she has any knowledge of what he was doing. The guy never gave any indication that anyone was concerned about his whereabouts when they hung out so don’t jump to conclusions. What’s disgusting is this guy finds it ok to sleep with a guy who’s cheating if he’s with another guy and felt bad that he was with a women and wanting to explore a curiosity with the same sex.
Hi kiddo, I don't know why you are feeling guilty. After all, you are not the one with the wife and the kids. And you are not the one married with a family, so don't let that guilt you.
You have every right to feel the way you feel. You have a heart and a moral center that is your guide through your life. You are not a home-wrecker. He was not honest in the beginning about his family life. It’s ok for him to be curious, but he’s wrong for using you for his personal exploration with a man. You most definitely did the right thing. Please take care of yourself. 🏳️🌈😍👏🏽❤️
Happened to stumble across your story and decided to throw in my 2 cents. Long, long ago in a time where Grindr, Scruff, or any type of social media didn't exist, I met a great guy. We started dating and everything was great, I mean the guy even cooked dinner for me! On one of our dates, we went to see some Motown act at a small venue. The next thing I know, he's saying "Oh shit!" so I asked him why and he told me that's my wife with my youngest son. I was speechless (at least until then) and he said he needed to talk to her and I just kind of sat there with my mouth open. After she and the boy left, I asked him to take me home because yeah, we needed to talk. Once home, I said, WTF? Told me that technically he was still married, albeit, separated but still living together (yup, another WTF? moment)and that he had 2 kids (boy and girl) and an older step-son. Also told me that they were getting a divorce (I mean, come on!). A few weeks later, I get a call from him saying that the divorce was final and would I consider dating again. He then tells me I can prove it. I said okay, prove it. He came over about 30 minutes later with their divorce decree (I was actually shocked and surprised, I liked the guy). We were together for almost 20 years until he died from renal cancer. Even now, I still think about him. But to answer your question, NO you are not at fault and did the best thing for you. Never give up and keep your moral compass. Everyone reacts differently to similar situations, but how they react is really none of our business (unless it's actually towards us, and then it's our choice how we respond).
Great Story Jon!. I have had a number of close, intimate... and sexual relationships with straight-identified men...before they were married. I am still fiends with two of them, but no longer sexually intimate in any ways. The friendships continue to endure. Consider NOT to beat yourself up with guilt. Sometimes such relationships happen before you really know much about the other man. I would hope with your future straight men encounters, you get to know more about this new partner before you inadvertently compromise some of values that you hold dear. Some of my more solid relationships have been with straight men, married and not.
I wouldn't be able to be on good terms with cheaters though
Honey it just shows that you have a conscience, and by pulling yourself away from this situation, you probably saved yourself from a lot of pain and heartache in the future with this man. Trust me dear, I've had my share of being with "Straight Men," before. Being that I am a Transgender Woman lol. So you will feel good about this decision down the road. Loved your story btw... 😉
Thank you for ur kind words and support love💪🏼♥️
When you mentioned he held your hand, that tells me he enjoyed your company a lot.
I have been in your situation and I had a similar reaction. I did not agree with the relationship. So we did not continue. You are probably not the first or last boyfriend he met.
I am surprised he sent that picture to you. That is confusing.
Hey Jon,I’m a new follower,how are you?Im Rhys from the UK 🇬🇧!I say you gotta go with what you want,if you feel uncomfortable don’t go with it.Plus you are sooo beautiful 😍 ❤ you could have anyone ❤❤❤
Thank you sm for your support love♥️🙌🏼
The guilt should be his not yours. You did what was right for you!❤
Thanks for your comment 🥺♥️💪🏼
You did the right thing. He should have told you upfront he was married not after hanging out and catching feelings
I was with a married man for 27 years until he past
And you didn't habe anything else? Instead of finding a partner.... You wasted 27 years being a sexrelief toy
He should feel guilty. You did the right thing
U did the right thing to leave him alone
Sorry about that 😢👏
Thanks for your comment 💪🏼♥️
You shouldn't feel guilt at all, but because you're a good person, you do. He knew, exactly, what he did. Typical straight/curious man behavior. I say that to say I'm still heartbroken over a similar situation. But they don't care, otherwise it wouldn't of been done or continued as long as it did. You know your situation better than anyone can ever tell you. My advice is to be very careful. Regardless if they are gay, bi, straight, ect. You did the right thing. When the heart gets involved, that's when things get tricky.
Bruh not you posting the pictures! I liveee
As an older man who has met many married men, it’s called life! There are huge numbers of married men out there, they mostly not going to leave their wives and families, so you take from it what you want and what suits you. But I have made some wonderful power friendships from such situations. Often the passion fades and is replaced with genuine love and regard. They continue to have their separate lives as do you.
Can you explain how you said the passion fades and is replaced with genuine love and regard?
@@JustinJohn-j4r once lovers are now close friends. They still have their families, I still my singularity. No damage was done, no harm. But having shared intimacy and affection, whilst the intimacy may fade, or disappear, the friendship remains.
You made the correct decision ending things with that man after he told you he had a family. It’s hard, and it sucks, but you made the correct decision
Thank you for your comment 🥺🙌🏼💪🏼
That’s too much to handle. You did the right thing. 😌
You definitely did the right thing
You were careful, and you definitely did the right thing.
Good you pulled out but how were you not also angry? Fortunately, your feelings did not become invested.
I wasn’t expected anything from him and i was just go the flow. But the family part triggered me😪😅
I don't understand why you feel wrong and guilty for someone else's wrong doing especially that you didn't know. He is to blame not you. However, if you had continued seeing him, it would have been morally awry.
Clarification... He is not str8 if he is with men....PERIOD
Well at least he was upfront eventually. Pretty sure this guy I was with was living with a girlfriend or wife but tried to get me to believe it was a male roomate which is why I could only come visit him at certain times.
Why should you feel guilty?… He initiated the relationship online… You ended it knowing that he has a wife and two kids… finally. Since that’s something you did NOT expect and we’re not prepared to handle, you DID DO the right thing. ….. Trust yourself and your instincts….
Thank you for your comment 🥺🙌🏼♥️
You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't know of his situation and when you found out, you left. You showed greater respect towards his vows than he did. Free your conscience and know that you did nothing wrong. When you knew, you acted and created boundaries. Good for you!
He didn’t tell you from the start, so don’t feel bad about it. Now that you know about him you can respectfully move on. It’s good that he was honest, and did tell you about his family. You guys did the do, and started to lead to having feelings. Though It’s hard to make someone available when you’re having feelings, and they are in a “committed” relationship. 😢
How will you feel if he sends you a picture of a different man that he ended up happily with?
like i mentioned in the video, I def wouldnt be shocked if i see pict of him with a different man because it happens all the time😅 and same with if i only know he's with a woman but seeing his " family picture" triggered me😵💫
Hi i use to ask guys are they married or had girl friend and they all lie,i stop asking that question.I am single and love it,,,,,,,dealing with the guys lies and drama i have had enough.
Look guys humans crave human emotions touch love and many other things. It happened, it happens. More times than you or anyone can count. If you are up front with each other from the get go. Then the guilt would not be there. Yes he is married with kids, you are a single person. Just let it go, and embrace the fact that you had a good human experience with another human. Straight men are human men as well. We all crave love and affection. I love you for sharing and as you say just keep smiling.
You didn’t do anything wrong …
Anyone know of Any totally FREE date sites ☺️🤷♂️🤳
Was the “straight” guy helping you with your gay lisp? 😂😂😂😂
deep
Curious is one thing, but married? RUN, don't walk , away immediately.
Damn, sorry to hear what happened but please try not carry any guilt anymore. You did the right thing by backing away. Sadly, he is probably still doing this behind his family's back.
You did the right thing... walk away from someone that would never be yours.
I’ve been with plenty of very straight guys growing up. They are the best 😂Lol
It’s so contradictory you being emotional and putting his picture with his wife on here!!!!
You shouldn't feel guilty cause you didn't know he was married with kids, and once you knew you ended it. You actually did the right thing, so don't beat yourself up for this.
This guy is like me, I will cry for a comment like this ! FYI SCREENSHOT and added to my video! He will erase my comment! One thing I learned , Don’t take it personal unless it’s about you. I’m popular on TIKTOK but was doing an experiment on TH-cam that takes things personal. This dude is innocent. However I anyone that flirts with the same sex is bi-curious, bi or gay. They aren’t straight. If I was straight I don’t question what I like , I know because I wouldn’t question sexuality PERIOD. ANYONE that disagrees… 🌈
Alot of gay men would literally not give af... You're just bros that do bros things don't think to deep on it lol call it reallyy close friends ;)
I have straight friends that i use to play with who eventually got married but were still friends and have been intimate here and there. Guess im messy ,😂
😮👀😂🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
I don’t consider that type of situation cheating tbh….it’s innocent bro time without expectations or intentions. If you didn’t hook up you guys would still hang out and doesn’t jeopardize anyones feelings . Id much rather that then him fucking another chick for sure.
Honestly you’re not in the wrong in this situation, you didn’t know, he was in the wrong for not atleast divorcing the wife before he started experimenting with men. Men shouldn’t be having a family in the first place if they haven’t explored that option of being sexual with other men, that’s honestly unfair to the wife and the children. For all of you Bi/DL guys out there, please experiment before you get married and start a family 🙂
Is not straight if he's been with you.😅
You did the right thing. If it was only just sex - a hook up, it would be cool. When romantic emotions get involved that’s when it can get messy.
He knew he had a wife & 2 Children before U did : provided there were no "risky health issues" involved there is no guilt to be felt. If anyone was in any way putting his marriage at risk it was HIM : But I believe you did the right thing ...
lol I got so mad when u said y’all had sex and u just went to another topic no how was the sex lol
Nothing wrong with being with him..2 adults hanging out and playing is cool. He’s making the choice and it’s good sex, stick with it. I’ve dated many married guys who are bi and their wives don’t know..for me it’s ok, he’s going to get it somewhere..why not with me. The sexy is AMAZING
Jonathan, your Principles dictate your Values which you Respect towards yourself 👌🙌🙏🥰
Thank you 🥺🙌🏼♥️
Why would you feel guilty when he's the one that kept info from you? Don't let Your good heart guilt you into anything. It wasn't your fault.
Thank you for your kind words🥺♥️💪🏼
I really feel for you; you did the right thing. He has his loving family, and I can't imagine how his wife will feel when she realizes the story. Well done, man, you are a good guy.
Anyway , I'd like to give you brotherly advice. Please take down his and his family's photo and upload a new clip. It's quite obvious, and his acquaintances would recognize him easily. TH-cam clips last forever, and I think this would be the best way for you too.
Thank youuu for ur comment .♥️💪🏼
It’s just a displayed pict for my vid and a copied right image. I would never expose someone like that 😘thank you tho love♥️ appreciate you
@@ItsJonsizzle 👍
I don’t understand why you needed to post his family’s pic with 2 kids on. I would never in my life out anyone like that. I don’t care if the person thinks he is straight, bi or the person is dealing with internalized homophobia. I would never ever out anyone like that😌😌😌
It's not the real family photo. It's a generic stock photo. He says so in the Pinned posted message.
I wouldn't feel bad; I've been the third wheel in a few married guys' lives; the wife probably already knows and doesn't care anyway....that's how it was for me. It seems like once women have decided that they've had the number of kids that they want, they're completely done with sex, too. Men, on the other hand, never tire of sex, so they begin to seek it elsewhere. I have heard many women say that they don't care, it's just one less "chore" they're expected to do; they often have no problem with another man, but if their husband was seeing another woman, then it's ON, and they want to claw the other woman's eyes out....strange but true, I have seen this very scenario play out.
A few years ago, this guy was checking me out at the grocery store; he started making small talk, then he disappeared. The next thing I knew, he was walking back over to me, with his pregnant wife in tow; you know what she asked me? "Are you gay? If you are, and you think my husband is attractive, would you consider taking care of his 'male needs' while I'm pregnant? I'm just so tired, and the LAST thing I want is to have to do THAT right now." I was floored!! The guy was really hot, so I agreed to be the "sexual surrogate," and everything was fine. She got pregnant 3 more times, and I happily played the stand-in, it's no big deal, and he still calls me from time to time and he comes over whenever he's in the mood for sex with another guy, sometimes with her dropping him off if one of their cars are down....she truly doesn't care; they know that I don't EVER want to get married to ANYONE ever again, so she doesn't have to worry about him leaving her, for me, anyway, so it works. He truly is bisexual, though, because he's ALWAYS been reciprocal. I think most guys are actually very fluid in their sexuality and it's just no big deal. We all played around sexually with our male playmates as kids, often well into our teens, and most guys remain open to it throughout their lives. This was the norm in Ancient Greece as well as Rome.
In your situation I would not feel guilty. The other guy is entitled to feel guilty. I have been in similar situations.
So shitty of him to use you to cheat. I think you're so cool to care. Respect
it wasnt your fault that he was hanging out with you with him being married with children, YOU DIDNT KNOW. dont feel bad and dont feel guilty.
I met a “straight” man at a hotel once and we fooled around a bit, took a few things, then after fooling around and I was getting ready to leave he had me he has a wife and kids and I also just felt so bad. For his little babies, for his wife, and yes even a bit for himself. Because he’s not living in his truth and weather he knows it or not he’s hurting everyone involved to a certain degree. He wanted to see me again but I told him that I just wasn’t comfortable with that. I also told 😅him I hope he can one day be himself more. Gave him a little s*x toy that he had enjoyed as like a parting gift lol and left. All and all it was definitely an experience and I trusted my heart, and I’m glad you did too Jon! 🥰🩷✨ P.S: HAPPY PRIDE EVERYONEEE NOW GO GAY! 🌈🏳️🌈☺️
hey i don't think u had done anything to be guilty about the situation.it is more on him that he led u on by hanging out together, having a meal, sleeping over and did things a couple would experience. subconsciously u felt a connection with him until he threw u the curveball that he has a family. that was selfish of him to keep you around as a side thing!
Thank you for sharing ur thought.♥️🫶🏼🥺
Please it is not your problem. The problem is the hunk..love them as they come!